Why Do They COME BACK After Rejecting YOU

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  • @myutube5882
    @myutube5882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Another reason it's important not to be needy is because toxic people often use it to get control over you. So be careful out there!

  • @mybiggrin
    @mybiggrin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Another reason: They like you a lot, but have experienced a lot of trauma & are afraid & don’t think that they deserve good things.

    • @SunshineSuperstar
      @SunshineSuperstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's still a THEM problem, not a YOU problem...
      In short, the response should be the same ALWAYS!!!
      Walk away and never look back!

    • @alldayeveryday20able
      @alldayeveryday20able ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree!

  • @Jakilyn
    @Jakilyn ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My ex came back only to basically reject me again. I believe he missed the attention as you say. He neglected me hard the second time round & crushed me even harder. 😢

  • @devilsadvocacy
    @devilsadvocacy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They come back after the monkey branch breaks; that is, when she exhausts all of her better options. Then, and only then is it your turn. But beware, because she will take the next opportunity to monkey-branch when it presents itself, and that means it is no longer your turn

  • @michaelsantos7967
    @michaelsantos7967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She is really good. Corey Wayne is rather smug, and simplistic. She is concerned and more engaged than him.

  • @gregorybutler3024
    @gregorybutler3024 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They always come back to the weakest one.

  • @cliveharman7762
    @cliveharman7762 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Another reason they come back is they can't have chad.

  • @scrubhero3629
    @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    9:20 then they should be blocked, even if it seems genuine. Rejection is final and should stay that way

  • @drmaxwellspring9927
    @drmaxwellspring9927 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well regardless of their reason for rejecting you, never look back if it affect you badly and you worked on recovering yourself from that.
    You don’t want to speculate on what someone intentionally or thoughtfully do to put me in such situations. If God delivers me it is them that much learn the lesson. Accepting them again and they end up doing it again you may not survive it. The world full of people.

  • @zipeto
    @zipeto ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex always come back to me when i started to date someone else.On and off for year and half,that is emotional abuse.Last time i took her back i said to her this will not work out.Dont allow anybody to play with your emotions and heart,they dont care about you if they are on and off.This is immature and narccistic behaviour,love yourself first you deserve better

  • @Spartan-lc8bs
    @Spartan-lc8bs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video 👍🏻 suffering the same after being rejected I walked away their now looking my attention again , great video 😊

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nothing but pure facts in this vid💯

  • @jeanetteedwards3129
    @jeanetteedwards3129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always amazing grounded advice.. he’s been texting trying to text invite me out.. but I’m ignoring can’t let them back in

  • @Truthmender
    @Truthmender 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The most important thing to think with these videos.. look at how you are treated by someone then think about the person or people in your life that wouldnt allow them to do that to you..if you think about the people who truly respect you in your life, you know they would be disappointed to see you treated that way so why would you let them. Think of the strong people in your family maybe a grandfather or sibling etc.

  • @joshdude2621
    @joshdude2621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    its been hell, ex fiancé has bpd. discarded me, I begged and made it worse. I finally gave up trying to win her back, and then she starts posting things about how her new bf is the greatest man ever. I completely deleted my insta and twitter, just so she couldn't know anything about my life. Its been 15 days since I last messaged her, I'm so upset with myself for being so weak and being played. I feel like crap, just being tossed to the side like nothing ever mattered between us. I don't even want to date ever again

    • @harrisiskandar8356
      @harrisiskandar8356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Work on yourself. You don't deserve to be with her. You deserve better. When you succeed your taste will be not her but better one.

    • @WMartinez001
      @WMartinez001 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your not weak, we are taught to attach ourselves to women which is a horrible way of dating. They lose interest and then behave horrible towards us

    • @sydluthor
      @sydluthor 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex blocked me, 25 days ago. (Now doing no contact) We were together for over 4 years, she once loved, and adored me, we were like best friends. Today we are like strangers to each other. I am moving forward with my life, and building a better future for myself. You will get through this, give it time.

  • @stevengoodman7167
    @stevengoodman7167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Because you are with some else now now they say they want to be with you sure they do

  • @heyxx-c5p
    @heyxx-c5p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi Christine I always watch your videos. I really love your content but the red border in your thumbnail confuses me everytime because it is in the same color of the progress bar. There are instances that mistook your new videos as "watched" because it has the identical appearance of complete progress bar. I hope in the future you can adjust your design (tinker with the hue or something.) I'm sorry in advanced if there are grammatical mistakes (english is not my first language). Thanks Coach!

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never thought of this, thank you for highlighting it for me. 😊 I'll change it in the future. - also, your English is fine 👍😄

  • @TheShady380
    @TheShady380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Another reason they come back: You become a millionaire

    • @scrubhero3629
      @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Block them, ASAP

    • @ekulenwaiku4654
      @ekulenwaiku4654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@scrubhero3629 No. Let them come and still make them feel they're your world. Then just when they start making plans bring the real person home.

    • @Askwjwmaoultions
      @Askwjwmaoultions 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Savage 😂 great minds think alike@@ekulenwaiku4654

    • @sydluthor
      @sydluthor 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

  • @Eng4555
    @Eng4555 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice conversation

  • @maverick1223
    @maverick1223 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if when they come back, you don't feel the same way anymore?

  • @nashwanalaezy4727
    @nashwanalaezy4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much for the information.

  • @thegenius7567
    @thegenius7567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One big reason why are women rejects a man and then comes back is because she finds out that he has good CREDIT$$$$$, IF YOU LIKE A WOMEN AND SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU BACK, DO NOT TELL HER THAT YOU HAVE GOOD CREDIT OR HAVE A CREDIT CARD IN YOUR WALLET.

    • @Jay7682
      @Jay7682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never discuss your finances with a woman.

  • @mheiseus
    @mheiseus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because you are a easy meal 🍽️

  • @taylorkrueger751
    @taylorkrueger751 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They just want to keep the friendship.

  • @bhsd531
    @bhsd531 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happened to me

  • @VincentCastillo0411
    @VincentCastillo0411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think i fail my ex unblock me after 3 weeks of no contact i message her short messages i said Goodmorning how are you and a couple minute she block me again i think there is no hope i hope you read this

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes it's best to do nothing and say nothing. Don't beat yourself up about it. Just chalk it up to experience 😊

    • @VincentCastillo0411
      @VincentCastillo0411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you think i ruined my chances getting back together?

    • @myutube5882
      @myutube5882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@VincentCastillo0411 People that block and unblock are playing games and just want attention. Find someone more mature who wants a real relationship with you.

    • @scrubhero3629
      @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@myutube5882 indeed

  • @Ostrichsbat
    @Ostrichsbat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for that information
    My situation is quite interesting.. he basically rejected me and tells me that we shouldn’t talk anymore.. I of course didn’t do anything wrong 🤨
    What does that exactly mean?

    • @scrubhero3629
      @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It means he didn't like you and he is bored of you. I'm sorry this is happening, but it is time to move on.

  • @Mfishtheman
    @Mfishtheman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Does this apply to a person who has blocked you too? I feel like in my situation, the person was a bit younger than me and probably might realize, when they’re older possibly that they made a mistake and regret their decision? I know what I did wrong and I learned the hell out of everything that I needed to learn and I’ve changed a lot and I am working on being the best version of myself now and I feel like there will be visible changes in the future.

    • @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching
      @ChristineLoveridgeCoaching  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It could happen. But best not to wait around and see what happens. Make sure you date new people and don't wait. Life is too short 😊👍

    • @Mfishtheman
      @Mfishtheman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ChristineLoveridgeCoaching I’m taking a break from the dating scene right now, but that’s only because I’m focusing on myself now. I’ll get back out there when I have my act together. I’m definitely not waiting around, but at least for now just trying to find peace with my life.

    • @scrubhero3629
      @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You should never count on it. Even if they blocked you before, what makes you think they wouldn't do it again? I would just move on and ignore them.

    • @Mfishtheman
      @Mfishtheman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@scrubhero3629 this was honestly months ago at this point. Like almost a year now, I have moved on well past that since then, even if they came back now, I wouldn’t want them anymore. I’m a completely different person and I’m happy being single and happy with myself for once in my life. Completely different from when I met them. Lol

    • @scrubhero3629
      @scrubhero3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mfishtheman I just don't want to see a dude get pulled back in even after a breakup that happened months or even years ago. I see that happen too much and the pain starts all over again.

  • @dhanjitkalita9666
    @dhanjitkalita9666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my case she liked me at first but when I confessed she said she doesn't want to get into a relationship right now and she doesn't have the same feeling for me.. Currently I am not contacting her but she wants to talk to me...(I am receiving good morning, good night text)....what to do?

    • @rivalino
      @rivalino ปีที่แล้ว +2

      set a date

  • @staryoke
    @staryoke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Future video production tip - when facing a light source (aka a light, window, etc) and wearing reflective objects (glasses, jewelry, etc), that's not a good combo. Watch shows, videos, movies you like to see how this issue is dealt with. If you want people to take you seriously and like a professional, then your product / output has to reflect that. Thanks for your content.

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aren't all women attention seeker

  • @hama.c.s5418
    @hama.c.s5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    even after begging and pleading do they come back its 5 month she unbloled me but i think she never come back.. she said me that.. women once done its end never come back

    • @victorprince7978
      @victorprince7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Move on and get yourself better for another one that will value you

    • @Mfishtheman
      @Mfishtheman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s because you begged and pleaded. That behavior is petty and comes off as needy.

    • @hama.c.s5418
      @hama.c.s5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mfishtheman dose no contact help after 5 month i forced here 2 monnth she said never come back

    • @Mfishtheman
      @Mfishtheman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hama.c.s5418 well if she said never come back then there’s your answer. You’re better off moving on man. Only be with people that want you around.

    • @hama.c.s5418
      @hama.c.s5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mfishtheman but this month she unbloked me in instgram and snapchat but i still i didnt send any dm i just shocked we in love about more then 6 year

  • @erickeegan5999
    @erickeegan5999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    why is a 14 year old giving us advice?