Lessons From a Sociopath | Sincerely, X

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 มิ.ย. 2021
  • A woman with sociopathy argues that her condition is unfairly demonized in society and pulls back the curtain on this misunderstood disorder.
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  • @klewinhicks
    @klewinhicks ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What do you mean they’re not part of our culture? They’re all over the culture’s leadership.

    • @davidtrindle6473
      @davidtrindle6473 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Litigators, salesmen, CEOs, etc

    • @AKE-rw2ly
      @AKE-rw2ly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      With too much empathy and understanding I HAVE ZERO EMPATHY FOR EVIL PEOPLE MY EMPATHY IS FOR HUMAN AND ANIMAL VICTIMS

    • @Zach.3246
      @Zach.3246 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AKE-rw2lyCognitive empathy is good, but overactive emotional empathy is bad.

  • @celeste8157
    @celeste8157 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She's NOT a sociopath. She figured out she's a psychopath.

    • @HH-kg4fq
      @HH-kg4fq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The two words you used are interchangeable depending on which psychologist you ask. Even the psychology community debates that.

    • @trosclair434genus4
      @trosclair434genus4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She said in her book that she isn’t actually a psychopath because she wasn’t born that way, but her trauma with her family clearly played a role in her abandonment and abuse coping. She stated that she refers to herself as psycho instead of socio because it’s just easier and less nuanced to explain

    • @mentholcrystals
      @mentholcrystals 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@HH-kg4fq the terms are unofficial but they are generally understood as marking different extremes of the ASPD spectrum. sociopaths are more impulsive, erratic, and aggressive than the carefully thought-out, "high functioning" psychopath

    • @Poppy-yx8js
      @Poppy-yx8js 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A better way to understand this is to know that sociopath is not a clinical term . There is primary and secondary psychopathy. Primary is associated with being a “psychopath” thought to be inherited & genetically based while secondary psychopathy is generally associated with anti social personality disorder- a psychopath- appears emotionally stable- a sociopath appears emotionally unstable.

  • @gnosiscxo
    @gnosiscxo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was married to a Sociopath for 28 years. It is interesting to hear from a Sociopath and how she respond to these discussions.

    • @HH-kg4fq
      @HH-kg4fq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do you KNOW for sure they don't have Aspergers?

  • @6thfloorgrind519
    @6thfloorgrind519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Interesting. I knew who your guest was almost immediately. Always fun to hear her opinions and take on things.

  • @artisttjan
    @artisttjan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I thought psychopaths had limited emotions or non but I thought sociopaths could at time have less control. 🤔

    • @jeffreyquinonez8964
      @jeffreyquinonez8964 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I dont think its such a black and white thing. Every individual is different

  • @adonaiel-rohi2460
    @adonaiel-rohi2460 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her pseudonym is Emmy Thomas, she wrote a book called “Confessions from a Sociopath”

  • @HH-kg4fq
    @HH-kg4fq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Anti social personality disorder signs seem more like a CHARACTER flaw, not a personality issue.

    • @trosclair434genus4
      @trosclair434genus4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It depends on how you view trauma

  • @nxadventures9510
    @nxadventures9510 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing I would like to clarify about being rational. I know a lot of people that buy a car through how it looks, what image it will project of them and maybe what color it is. Then, they end up with an unreliable POS car that costs them an arm and a leg in maintenance. Similar with grandiose weddings, unnecessary loans, buying expensive fashion items, etc. I would say that emotion here is actually a negative thing and a sociopath might have an advantage. Also in business environment, stock markets and possibly software development.

  • @td3060
    @td3060 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Enjoyed 1st half of broadcast and found informative, 2nd half broke down to the unhelpful narritive that Group A should be nicer to Group B. I think the majority of us know that already at some base level, and the implication that we must do more of it just seems heavy handed and even somewhat condescending

  • @dearshomy
    @dearshomy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I found this quite enlightening

  • @allthingsnewlife
    @allthingsnewlife 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Surrounded by exploitative, manipulative sociopaths - just remove the mask if you truly don't care what people think abput you. Instead of lying to gain our trust , meet someone and say "hi you look kind, I'll see what i can get from you before leaving you for dead"

    • @Zach.3246
      @Zach.3246 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol that defeats the purpose

  • @rickwrites2612
    @rickwrites2612 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's not exactly anonymous, everyone knows who she is.

  • @lenorjohnson319
    @lenorjohnson319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Like this it's good information

  • @chofa1347
    @chofa1347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow I want to be her friend 🥺 amazing podcast

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t find in any way being with a sociopath is moving. They are tornados and destroy everyone in their path. That’s my experience.

  • @lenorjohnson319
    @lenorjohnson319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't care at all what people think about me at all

  • @cristinajavellana
    @cristinajavellana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this voice

  • @lenorjohnson319
    @lenorjohnson319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It would sound fake if they try too hard

  • @cristinajavellana
    @cristinajavellana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats why when i watch her videos in her talks, she seems odd. Her eyes and face does not express emotions. I know her

  • @olahoh6744
    @olahoh6744 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wtf!??? Why do u call her a sociopath, when it s clear she s a psychopath!

  • @themichaeltatum
    @themichaeltatum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She’s manipulating the interview by pathologically lying with her answers.