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The abuse never ends when you have children with these parasitic demons from hell... It has been 550 days since I have seen my sons all due to that witches false allegations and getting her paramour to help set me up for DV and child endangerment. I found conversations were they discussed in detail how they were going take my guns from the safe while I was at work and take pictures of it in the kids room and play area. How he called the police saying her heard gun shots from my house to try and have me falsely arrested. By the time I got all this information the damage was done in the courts. I had already been vilified. I am almost at the point I would rather just walk away from all of it sign my rights over get off this extortion ring called child support which is nothing more than a way to ensure that you as a man will never be successful again as long as your trapped in this system.
Best thing I did was leave but I was considered public enemy no 1. He is still trying to destroy me. He is even remarried and still won't stop. It's not fair but still worth leaving 💯. At least I have my sanity if I would have stayed i would be crazy or completely broken down. I'm so happy without him 😊
Divorcing someone with NPD takes things to a whole new level of cruelty. My solicitor commented that in her 15 yrs of practice mine was one of only 3 divorces where the husband's ruthlessness and brutality knew no bounds. I was broken down further over a drawn out court battle. We were in business together. Because I was so ill with years of stress and anxiety, I did not question being expected to use my inheritance to pay for legal costs. He used the business account. It dragged on and cost me £36,000 IN 2006. During the conflict, he told me he was hoping to have heard I'd committed suicide. He meant every word. In fact, during and after the divorce, I had a severe nervous breakdown,which lasted 3 years. I have now moved over a hundred miles away, and made a new life. I share my home with 3 adorable dogs, who would never think of "savaging" me like my ex-husband did. I have listened to other videos of yours and can relate to what you say. Thank you.
sorry to hear. I've been dealing with my situation for years, hoping the nightmare would end. my ex suggested I commit suicide too, smh
I hear u 😢
@@aSpeakerOfTheTruth My thoughts are will you. You are not with this abuser now. It takes a long time to come to terms with the way you have been treated, but you will enjoy life again. We didn't commit suicide,we persevered! We are still here. I have become very spiritual. Ask your angels to help you battle through the trauma. They will! Finest wishes to you. A.
@@anngarner1906 thank you. those words are helpful during this current time in my life
My DV counselor told me something similar, and i was actually surprised as i had not yet understood the depths of the abuse and how abnormal it really was. I thought i was just "too sensitive". I thought other women had it much worse, especially physical abuse. My ex was physical but never straight up punched me or anything. I thought you had to get a black eye for it to be considered actual abuse.
I just want to point out the importance of educating the society on this kind of abuse. Because so many think that if your abuser doesn't put a hand on you, all is fine. But is not. They're killing victims from within, and the victims have to continue their lives almost dead inside.
If as a society we understand the emotional and mental devastation experienced by the narcissistic abuse victims, we will be able to give them what they need the most: kindness, compassion, empathy, validation and support.
Thank you for making your part on this Danish🙏🏼
This is why I don't dare to leave or divorce him. Judiciary really fails me here😭
Judges, lawyers, and most who work in the court system SHOULD have a background, fully educated in narcissist abuse. Enough is enough with how we do things. We need rules and laws asap
I hope that people will listen to this video, because those of us that have been through this legal nightmare, would really like to not see people to go through our hell. Don't forget now people are hiding money out of banks these days. My ex husband has been hiding money for years. To be honest , didn't care if the kids starve.
Mine too, also lies so I don't know much, it's gonna be hard when I find the strength to start divorce proceedings.
Yes, all true. Liars, liars and have no regard for the mental anguish they cause the children. It's all a sick-selfish game.
100000% It is unbelievable how you have literally, every single day, with each video-hit on every aspect of the nightmare narcissist! Incredible work, Danish! Only someone who has experienced this deep, lonely rabbit hole can truly understand. Thank you for validating so many! Much love and healing to you, now and always.
Yup!!! Frighteningly spot on!!! But I'm SO VERY THANKFUL for the knowledge & comprehension 🙏🏻
Fear is what they want to engulf you with. But they are the ones who have fear.
My mom is a malignant narc. I moved many states away from her. It helped. But to be married to one and divorced you almost need to be in a witness protection program. They don’t stop till they destroy you or they die.
Going through it with a malignant narc now. I hear other people talking about their divorces taking 3-6 months with lots of assets. We have no assets and it’s been almost a year.
After 39 years of their abuse, I just don't think I have the strength, and I KNOW I don't have the money. 😭😭😭😭😭
Please stay away from that devil.. God help you❤
God be with you💜
@@bincyvs Thank-you for your kind words and thoughts.
@@mariajessielocklear8246 Thank-you for your kind words and thoughts.
After 27 years, I thought the same. But I took it one day at a time and managed to get out. The divorce was exactly as described--long and stressful but now that I'm free and truly beginning to heal, it was totally worth it.
They use the authorities like a pawn...and they don't mind lying to them in the efforts to hurt you. RUN and don't look back.
Yes my experience too
My nightmare lasted two decades using our children with the support of the court bcs he had more resources shared parenting only meant taking them away from me manipulating our children. Thank you for giving voice to all my experience. I haven’t felt seen or heard. The guilt of getting stuck in his drama webs, attempting to stand up for myself, my dignity, my job, my kids… and in the process not giving that energy to our amazing kids who deserve it so much more.
Still living the nightmare 31 years later...ex has managed to turn kids and grandchildren against us.
Family alienation sucks. There is a good video by Dr Amy Barker on a way to reach out to your kids that seems to help.
After finally going no contact with my narcissist mother, I bought a paper shredder. Into the shredder go her cards and letters, unopened and unread. The paper gets recycled, hopefully toward better uses.
Omg, same here! 💕
Yes, like puppy potty paper. Good for you dear.
I am so glad I never had children with him in the 23 years we were married. You actually need to be prepared to just walk away with your own personal possessions. Since our home was joint, he was compelled by law to pay me out my half. The rest was my own stuff. I maybe could have gotten more in a huge long court case but I did not want that. He was difficult enough as it was and I found out he lied on his financial disclosure (he had hidden bank accounts) so I said okay, lets go to court and tell a judge about your hidden accounts. He was so scared about his reputation that he would do anything after that to keep it out of court. He still tried to drive up my legal costs by giving my lawyer the run around so I fired my lawyer and did the rest of it myself without relying on husband for information. I have my ways.. Quite empowering actually.....
I still have nightmares about my cheating narc wife
Everything you said is true. Narcisists put you through hell which you have described. It is spiritual battle you need to meditate, pray, fast and stick to life according to your core moral values to go through it and survive. You must heal your childhood wounds and heal from codependency. Thank you Danish.
Absolutely true
They use belongings to keep communication open by leaving stuff at our place, borrowing money from their ex, or keeping items that are ours at theirplace. Another common thing is prolonging the divorce process, refusing to cooperate, complicating things by putting out hoops we need to jump through. To a narcissist it's never over unless they themselves decide that it's over. It's over when we decide for ourselves that it's over, and we FORCE the narc out of our life.
10 years to settlement and tried to derail it at the last minute. Fortunately our solicitor had her measure and wrote a great letter saying she had 3 days to sign or it would go to court and the current wait was 18 months for issues not to do with children. Took a further year to get the divorce and she tried to get a hearing when we were in the position to get a single party no faults divorce because of the time separated. Got a letter from the family court clerk with a cut and paste of the details of why they would not even consider a hearing.
I'm finding this out, my husband of 12 years left with only an overnight bag back in May, he filed for divorce on June 1st and he's late getting paperwork turned in for the next step! 🤷♀️
Mine discarded me and then continued to torture me. Even though he had promised to put my name on the house multiple times, he never did. I paid the bulk of expenses - all utilities and groceries. He had a plan from day one. When he finally found a new "sugar momma" (an old widow who had inherited money from her deceased husband), he kept picking fights, blaming them on me, and then taking off on my in-office days at work. In his final discard, in a nutshell, he tried fighting with me for two days, got frustrated that I wasn't participating, physically abused me to the point I had to defend myself, and then threatened to tell the cops I started the physical abuse if I called them to report him. He took off the next day while I was in the office, with long sleeves on to hide all the bruises on my arms. The next several months were pure HELL! He hired an eviction lawyer, then canceled the eviction because he still had material possessions here he needed. (I was not aware of the eviction lawyer at this point.) He came back on what would have been our seven year anniversary to get his stuff. When he arrived, he said "I didn't realize how much I still love you until I saw you again." I replied "You had seven years." He tried to instill hope in me while he was packing up his stuff to go to another state that he may come back someday. It didn't work, as I had realized he was a monster at this point. Immediately after collecting his material possessions and returning to his home state, he started trying to evict me. Eventually, I bought the house about $100k over the "half" he always said I owned no matter what. In between the eviction lawyer stuff and the closing on the house, he harassed me in every way possible. I was already approved for financing, and my lender wasn't moving fast enough for him, so eviction on again! If I didn't pick up the phone for him to verbally abuse me at night, eviction on again! He accidentally sent me the whole email chain with his lawyer accidentally, and he had started and stopped the eviction notice delivery 4 or 5 times, and he did it once again after that. He was horrible to me throughout the entire process, and I think he was surprised and angry that I was approved for the mortgage. The day of closing, I blocked him from everything! He started using postal mail to send me things, always saying that he loved or missed me. He missed abusing me, not ME! He was with someone new and couldn't abuse her yet, so he still tried to get that from me. About five weeks after the house closed, he was engaged. A mere four months after that, he was married. So all in all, less than ten months after he ran out on me, he was married to someone new. And he was trying to get me out of "his" house as soon as he could, and still was enjoying verbally/mentally abusing me over the phone, text, and email, all while he was lovebombing the next victim. He texted my son a few days before he got married asking him to forward a message to me saying that he was getting married next weekend (he wanted me to know to try to torture me more!) and that it couldn't hurt to talk "one last time." I ignored it. I can see in my phone account several attempts to call/text me. I will NEVER unblock him! He just wants to finish the job of destroying me that he left unfinished!
A narcisstic ex wife was more then comfortable ruining my reputation. Shes now doing it again with her next beau. That is my redemption....its quite sad.
Surely the narcissists may have some type of prior felony/ violence charge that would help prove they are aggressor.
I know mine does but it’s so old I don’t know how much the courts would care. HOWEVER he does have several traffic violations all throughout the years that I figure MIGHT show some sort of representation of his character. I’m talking at least 1 per month. He would drive in extremely reckless ways even with kids in the car. I’m talking suddenly going in reverse on the highway cause he missed his exit reckless.
Actually i hear statistically ppl with NPD tend to not have violent convictions, but petty misdomenors or dui charges instead. They are mostly hot air.... but you should still be careful and stay safe!
The legal system knows exactly what time of day it is. They are very well aware of narcissist abuse and all other forms of abuse. It's a money making machine and business. Pure and simple 😢
Yea the ignoring my children who are used to seeing him every single day, telling my 4 year old that mommy doesn’t want me home anymore. But threatening to take them from me because I simply don’t want to look at someone watching me struggle to live and breathe. No breaks but he’s never here longer than an hour, calling it going to work.
So true! I recently shared some of this information about narc abuse with someone as I’m going through an ongoing divorce with a malignant narcissist after 16 years that should have been very simple but of course the narc is adding unnecessary complications to it. I was basically blown off and told “get over it cause there are good men out there”. I literally cried after getting that response because I just thought it was insensitive.
I thought of people that have been kidnapped and abused for years. Or even people that have lived in the poorest neighborhoods. Would we tell them, get over it cause there’s good men out there??? Or get over it cause there’s nice neighborhoods in the world. Of course not. It doesn’t matter that there’s good out there when you’ve never experienced it and don’t know if you ever will.
And worst thing ever to be told by my mam to dress up, put make up on and have hair coloured, in the middle of a seperation, even though my husband has narc traits, it's heartbreaking.
It's not what I wanted to hear, especially after being insulted daily by my narc husband
As if I had let myself go, truth is he's a mean monster
Even just filing paperwork for the divorce, including motions I have to file requesting court orders for him to do things because he refuses and is holding up the process are extremely stressful for me. I know once he’s notified I have to brace myself for his next revenge streak.
My ex planned our divorce for at least a year before announcing it to me. He had all the papers ready and waiting for my signature and was extremely irritated when I didn’t leap to sign them. We had been married 32 yrs. had a house as well as a business. I was in a daze. Luckily, I got a lawyer. My ex really expected the divorce to be completed in TWO months. After all, HE thought the terms of the divorce were very generous. Except for a few, reasonable adjustments, I went along and signed. It took three whole months.
That’s actually really good. I’m getting close to a year waiting after 16 years of marriage and we had no major assets like a house or business (he spent the whole relationship future faking about eventually having those things) and things like bank accounts are already separate. We do have children, but he refuses to even go to mediation as required to finish it.
Get an attorney, move as far as you can. The attorney means your new address doesn't have to be on record in court during proceedings.
So true, after 20 years I could not take it. I was sick constantly and my autoimmune disease that I had been diagnosed with was getting worse.
The divorce was-traumatic!
He did nothing he was supposed to do and he kidnapped my daughter. Picked her up 2 years ago and won’t bring her home. My older child has nothing to do with his dad!
The courts have supported his alienation and $40,000 later all my rights were removed, based on utter lies. I have given it all to God, I pray she is safe 🙏
Yes!!!!! 😅 U hit it Brother! 👊⚡
Thanking Jesus for your channel & wisdom Brother Danish.... Your videos almost always Solidifies what I'm dealing with....watching your videos helps a lot, I feel so much more at ease....I don't even have to remind myself to take deeper breaths as I usually shallow breath & am always on "Guard" but slowly & peacefully enjoying my Healing Journey, am now at the 4th Month of Zero Contact with the Narcissist Mother.....Thank You Brother.....God Keep Blessing You ❤🙏 👍
Several times my ex forced me to take her to court when she would ignore the court orders for custody arrangements. Used no lawyer, and file ex parte proceedings. Gets the other party into the courtroom within 48 hours. This helped, but mainly I called her boss, stating she was keeping the kids from me, ignoring the court orders. She was a police officer, and this worked the best, causing her shame, and possibly lack of pay from her job. Things she could understand
I'm in the process of divorcing the malignant narcissist I married I filed my d papers under cruelty for the evil and wickedness he done to me I might have to go to court and before the judge please keep me in pray God grants me this divorce and protects me form this demon narcissist 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I will pray for you, I andustand you, god bless you.
Omgosh I’ve been divorcing and battling him for 11 yrs. he has done everything you have said with a judge to help him
Very true. The worst comes out after
So true! Trigger warning … fyi to viewers. I live your videos although this one should have a trigger warning in my opinion… others may have no problem with this of course. Blessings to you for such great work in educating us to help ourselves and keep moving forward.
It is reality, so i guess you need a trigger warning of how harsh divorcing a narcissist can be. Why is that?
Phew. This video hit me hard. She had her hooks in my estranged relative post divorce, and milked him for a fortune. And she fueled the enmity my uncle had towards me. He was the last of my family. My only son also brain washed. It gave me little comfort that my dementia ridden uncle finally saw the light before he died. But, it was too late. She usurped my remaining family.
A narcissist may use the legal system to bully their opponent.
Thus, magistrates need training in order to be able to detect the patterns of narcissism. Essential training nowadays to prevent their manipulation in custody battles.
My parents trying to kill me mentally,, spreading false alligation to my in laws after leaving them.
Every word is so true. My toxic narc alienated my teenage kid. I know it’s survival mode for the children. But the damage has been made forever.
MOST difficult battle of this world and beyond.
Sisters do this too.
@lindanickell8565 They certainly do and my life was virtually destoyed by my extremely narcissistic sister, who lacks empathy, yet happens to be a social worker!
I've learnt the hard way that many do work in the mental health field etc though and often cause even more issues for their vulnerable clients. 😥
This is so true! 20 yeas later I still feel there is no end!
Spot on. Every Single Point! I had to live with my malignant narc While divorcing him. I Finally got my divorce this year. I have 23 yrs of examples on everything u just said. The things he said to our child to alienate her n I... Even U night not believe!!! I have recordings i made to prove i wasn't the bad one to friends n family and most important... the court system. The healing has begun but it definitely needs to continue! Thank U so much for these videos n helping us out here, virtually alone in the world. 😔
They have taken everyone from me. I have to move location to stand a chance to break away
He's still hurting me through the kids. He'll never stop hating me. The funny thing is I don't hate him. My daughter is dealing with him now. These videos are helping us. He does passive-aggressive things just like he did when we were married. It never seems to end!
This is super timely and I thank you for your amazingmess.
I'm feeling all beaten up for doing the right thing today...you helped it feel less alone-ly.
It's my father for me right now . 13 months no contact and he's trying to Hoover through mail and other relatives which stirs me up and i get scared if I don't answer he'll find me and ruin my life again.
If I do contact him, he'll just discard me in no time and never really even try to relate....and I'll have to start fixing me all over again.
He just wants ro assert control, i know it.... but boy it's making me feel kind of frantic today....just cannot win!!
I know I am winning. I'm alive. But it doesn't feel like it today.
But, Danish- you have a way about you that makes me feel alot less crazy. Thank you ssooooo much
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"Legal abuse" omg you put a name to it, TY!
Thank you for this important video, it's exactly what I've been through. The nightmare gets worse after separation and divorce and the smearcampain will always track you and hit you in situations you couldn't ever imagine. You need support to survive that.
My ex had no qualms about hurting our kids to hurt me. He would even tell our daughter he didnt like her because she reminded him of me. He told her he only loves her because he HAS to. They are sick.
That’s awful. A child will never forget those words.
One day he’s going to wonder why she feels the way she does toward him. But of course he won’t accept accountability.
This describes my ex so well, unfortunately he was physically abusive as well, I had photographs and hospital reports… somehow he still won and I am fighting him three years later for our daughter. There was more than one time that I called the police for help after a big injury or fear of my life being ended. Not one time did the police listen.. I was hysterical and he was calm. I just watched the video about going to the family too…I wish I had seen that before. His parents ignored the breaks and bruises. They even ignored our daughter telling them what she saw. I am starting to heal mentally, but have no clue how I am going to get my baby back with me safe.. the legal system just treats me like I am not even a person, based only off of the massive smear campaigns and crap he started planning seemingly before I ever left.
This video is something special Thank you Danish! ❤ really not many ppl are talking about that
Could never get away. The church helped him, the police helped him, the attorneys helped him, even the highway patrol so of course my kids took their side. my children are dead to me.They are all buddies because they like to be seen as pillars in the community. My horse ended up shot 4 years later because my children went to my moms for christmas.
NYS has a very helpful system which is not always exercised properly and is open the widest to victims of domestic violence. The most helpful thing in NYS is a great lawyer (very expensive) and take as much as possible out of the aggressors hands as possible throughout the separation process. Having a way to relocate may be extremely difficult and should be effected first before acting. It is the best way to do the most damage to narcissistic ego stance.
Do you have a video on why are they mean to us their wife/husband children but happy go lucky to their family and friends, love your advice, thank you so much xx
In divorce process for 1 year now. He tried very hard to bait me into a fight. I thought he would hit me. He is using his money to waste what little money I will get.
Excellent description! Thank you. 🌞🦋
Last thing mine did was add his number to my bank account, so I had to change my password. It's just been years NC, he doesn't want to be in my life in a productive way.
The legal community DOES NOT care about about families or children. It's all about the money.
He failed in the court system at every turn. Why? Because he panicked became cocky and sloppy and exposed himself for the abuser he was, lying, denying, paperwork a mess. The judge could see his tactic. They're not that smart when they're faced with evidential facts...but take care everyone try and stay one step ahead...
I can relate to so many here.. they definitely drag out divorce.. i don’t even have kids and its been almost a year. Its ridiculous
Omg,I'm just starting the divorce process after being married 12 years
Narcissists are never happy until they see you miserable and ruined. It isn't just a marriage problem. Living with a family or in a community of narcissistic personalities destroys empaths and co-dependants. Covert Narc's are passive aggressive bullies most of the time. If they hold a position of authority in the home, in the workplace and community, we're always at their mercy. I've found that it's necessary to gain some authority to protect oursrlves from being overpowered that keeps them from forcably crashing our boundaries. Challenging them has to be done with full support behind us and plenty of evidence to back us up.. I know from experience how devastating it is to live with these personalities capable of driving anyone to suicide. Best to get out of their safety net where they can't find you. When you go full silent on them they live in fear you must be up to something, even if you're not! Now we can build back our self-esteem, our dignity and our true worth and be no part of their life.. ❤😊
He discarded me having a new supply. So I wasn't prepared for this torture...😔
Domestic violence legally includes emotional and financial abuse. The “Power and Control Wheel” is recognized in the court system. However for criminal or injunctive purposes, domestic violence only includes physical or stalking. But I personally know how much my ex has manipulated the court system.
I know that this is going to sound weird & what I'm writing is all disjointed but today's video triggered all sorts of memories about my father... Thank you, Danish; "I absolutely know" & agree that everything (Everything!!) you say in this video & that it's 100% true... Btw, I have never been divorced. However, my father (who I think was jealous of my relationship w/my husband & who [was almost identical to your father, it seems] & who secretly sexually abused my daughter from a very young age) used his telephone to weirdly "signal me" to call him back every day... (He had told me that once back in 1968, when he was the President of a local chapter of one of the large political parties, that the government had "bugged his phone" & that this [ostensibly] was the reason for why he didn't want to place calls "To" me but could take calls "From me"). If I had married someone just like my father, I know in my heart of hearts that 'divorce' wouldn't be the end of the relationship. Divorce would just be adding fuel to the fire. When my daughter was 26, she w/the aid of my sister (who my daughter had 1st confided in [and no me, her mother] about about the abuse my father had perpetrated on her--[to which my sister had responded that if my daughter was willing to confront my father personally & tell him her truth to his face, my sister "would believe my daughter" was telling the truth]. So my daughter with my sister (apparently) confronted my father at a beach in Santa Cruz CA. My father, I was told by my daughter got enraged & accused her of "lying". My father at this time also said directly to my daughter (his first & 'only' Granddaughter) that he wanted a 'divorce'. I had had a lot of trouble believing my daughter up until this point (my father had 'groomed me' to not question any of his weirdnesses I guess. And yes, my daughter had lied a lot as a child. But at the time of her lying behavior I didn't concurrently know/accept that she was being sexually abused & groomed by my father (my parents were taking care of my daughter or my son & my daughter on a regular basis, several times a week). I'm hoping that by sharing my own experiences here, I can help others who might find themselves in a similar predicament. (And sorry if I didn't stay on topic...). Btw, after my mom died in 1999, my father stayed single but took up with a local Tango group in the community in which he lived. He had a "Tango Partner" I heard but got "re-married" in 2006 to a woman who went to his church. This is all somewhat confusing to me still but watching & listening to your videos is helping me to heal and I am very grateful to you.
When they insist to hold children- just tell them: thank you for being with my kids while I was trying put my personal life together..u don't know how I needed that time all for myself..it was wonderful!! I've met nice people and went for masage..(..etc.) was such a great time for me!. Thank you ,thank you!
U going to have your kids back. Lol😅
This was exactly my experience a nightmare two years settling everything, and even then, stole my children and turned them against me.
Rebecca Zung is an attorney specializing in narcissism and she's got a lot of videos on TH-cam to help you prepare.
Even when you try to talk about it, the world don't care.
@@jbrown2908 I still don't know why am I here. No one will help.
I am literally watching my life long best friend, my own mother, let my ex change her perception of me, whom she has known and been proud of since I was born. I am stunned.
@@jbrown2908 because I've been imprisoned for the past 3 years.
I am right now in this exact situation.
I am his best friend, until he has another girlfriend. Then I am the mother that abuses her child. He even didnt let me see her for a while. I had to get a lawyer, because I am not calling the police to the house where my daughter stays to make a scene and get her out of this house into my arms. He disnt even stop when it comes to the psylogical health of our child then. I asked him why he suddenly turned against me, and he said "because you left me".
So in order to get "even" they even hurt their own children. And this happend several times to me. It truly made me wonder why they know so much about psylogical manipulation. And why do they not stop when it comes to hurting children? Can we call them narcistic actually or isnt this a sign of a psychopath? Isnt this the fine line how we make a difference between a narcistic person and a psychopath? A narcistic person hurts people because they might be in "the way" of their desired outcome. A psychopath hurts people because they enjoy it. I dont believe that a narcistic person doesnt know what he or she is doing to the child by keeping it away from the other parent or trying to tell the child "bad things" about the other parent. That is called child abuse and they know it.
The basics of everything are quite simple. Its like saying "this is the color grey". We know certain mental diseases exist, but modern society just invents another name for every different shade of grey.
I found that it takes a of love to be married but much more love to divorce. I suppose through it all, I learned how to love more.
Very helpful, many thanks
Divorce doesn’t come easy too
Struggling in court from last 4 years seems it will take another 2 years
I work in the grocery store meat dept 15 yrs one day he told me that I didnt know what I was talking about I let it go because he knows more lol wouldn't help anyway
So true,you hit the nail right on the head.
One year of trying to coparent in the same state, I had to move 2500 miles and settle for summers and holidays visitation with my kids….restarting my life and career. I left with no money because I was so desperate.
Im going through true worst ... is nt just a worst for them .... they are evil devil..
Ya True.
I have tried getting a divorce and I have tried to leave but I feel I can't do it. I did leave the first time and I received threats from my husband, his father. They were using scare tactics on me if I were to get a divorce.
In Canada the wife gets half. My husband sexually abused me. I have a complaint with the police. I am separated now and planning to divorce.
Sir u r helping so many people, thank you. Sir i want to know the difference between toxic and narcissist people
Divorced after 6mths, after his behaviour changed! 9 yrs later still in UK family court, he's never obeyed any child contact order, but, of course he didn't do it be cause of my fault. I moved 200 miles away. I've been defamed, false allegations, lies, no child maintenance paid, pretending he's ill( admitted to hospital - every test normal) just to delay a court case. Broken Injunction twice, sent people to watch my house, jealous. So, I just studied family law & have represented myself in court against his barristers( UK) I got video hearings so I didn't have to attend the court room! I won every court case. But, then he appeals, adjourn & adjourns. Fails contact, then, brings another case.....repeat! I never personally engage! Planed ahead! Won again in March! This time contact was reduced to 3 emails per Yr to our son. He didn't do 1st email. Now he's appealing with accusations that the Judge is biased & racist, but, to a different court in my county. So, I've filed an enforcement order for contempt of court! Let's see how he handles this?😊
Isn’t this exhausting?
I’m beginning the legal process of divorce from my narcissist. We weren’t married that long, we have no kids and it should be a simple process. But on my way out I unmasked him publicly and he’s playing every card he has to make this as difficult as possible and destroy me
I had some experience and i needed help 😢💔, and @Jamlemo helped me out 💯🤗❤️
@Jamlemo is always the best, nothing but the best cyber security who helped me out with full evidence against my narc partner 🙌❤️
Let the chains be broken!
How do you use their reactions against them please? Thankyou for all you have done Danish ❤
After watching your videos I think am a narcissist I have no emotions and empathy towards others I abandon people like trash everyone give me supply because am beautiful I do black magic to control others in my presence electricity starts flicker I use empath people after watching your videos I start to meditate thank you Danish
Thank you for your vidios !I have a question I get confused about convert narcissist?covert narcissist are sensitive and emotional but so are victim of narcissist abuse how can you tell the difference because people for narcissist abuse can become triggered can you please make a video to tell the difference
I am pretty sure he has made that video.
Thanks man!
I'm in this current situation with my wife. Using the kids. Trying to smear me constantly.
Your videos are great. Starting to look like Roman times. on you tube. 🙏
What's up Opinion Seeker's, when I divorced my ex during divorce procedures she asked the judge do she still have rights to come around the property that they gave her a percentage of he told her no because she has a restraining order against me she can't do anything until I sale the property it's the property that my family have all the family functions in I was so Glade out of all the law's he broke for her that's one place she doesn't have a right to come to imagine how she act when I tried to get her to go back to her maiden name she clowned and they had to reschedule our court date.now she's using our son to try to come around fortunately he's old enough to do things by himself without her thank God.
YESSSSS
How do you hide your channel from your parents? As you said that they are narcissists, they must be raging at this!
Danish i am divorced we share custody ,he abuse me trough child every day i more than enough of courts ,police i think i will leave alone please dont judge me couse i dont want to live in hell😢
Should I let the narscisist file divorce first. I want it to end I'm wanting uncontested divorce
The Lawyers join the narcissist, as their goal is MONEY, Lawyers and judges and Psycholigists are well aware of what is going on, however their GREED allows the narcissist to continue the divorce/child custody battles. I had a 4 year divorce hell. I DID GET CUSTODY. What is worse… the narcissist spouse or Lawyers GREED…. However, 15 years later… let’s just saY, God has been there for me. the whole way. 😊✝️.
How do you get rid of them?
how did you describe my wife so well?
My ex just got remarried. I need to know what does this mean for me? Am I finally free now he has remarried?
They are mad.. imotional abuse is there power..
You may legally come out but not actually
I pray for the aliens soon comming to help us alienated.🙏🏼