EASY Ways to STOP Being SHY | How To Be Outgoing | Alex Costa

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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta to participate in the HUGE 1M giveaway SOON!
    Thank you!
    -AC

    • @YashBhatter
      @YashBhatter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Followed! You're the best! I aspire to be like you, inspiring people around the world. I've also started my TH-cam channel and got great feedback.
      Thanks for the inspiration Alex 🙏

    • @thefashionmaan
      @thefashionmaan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love u alex i wanna be like you

    • @wissamboukaili6970
      @wissamboukaili6970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If I have to follow only one person on Instagram it would be you Alex

    • @mdkaifkotwl7182
      @mdkaifkotwl7182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love you bro

    • @AnuragSharma-dm4bu
      @AnuragSharma-dm4bu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YashBhatter Sure man, your content is world class! You do deserve more subscribers. +1 sub for you 😄🤘

  • @shantanubaliyan8706
    @shantanubaliyan8706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    1. What makes you shy?
    2. Tackle each, step by step. Do that until you conquer fear.
    - Look into eyes. (Smile)
    3. Invest in yourself. Learn. Gain Knowledge. Always be learning. [Inner Circle]
    4. Confident Body language.
    5. Be Present!
    6. Try New Things!
    7. Engage more.
    8. Don’t beat yourself up! Engage in positive mindset.

  • @Skulingz
    @Skulingz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    I am not shy anymore and now I have a girlfriend and I love her so so much

    • @zakariyyamhds3772
      @zakariyyamhds3772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Well thats was fast

    • @Skulingz
      @Skulingz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Zakariyya Xxwarrior'X
      I know right that is the fastest I ever got replied

    • @ashtenhungerford9735
      @ashtenhungerford9735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Well don't get too attached buddy

    • @swastik9069
      @swastik9069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Damn. Inspiration

    • @kylesapphire1820
      @kylesapphire1820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      2 years you won’t have a girlfriend, your a chump

  • @AaronnRamirez
    @AaronnRamirez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’ve been watching Alex since my freshman year (2 years ago) dude really helped me be more outgoing

    • @hassank8140
      @hassank8140 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same its bern been years for me

  • @abhishekm4818
    @abhishekm4818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    He is uploading like just every day man
    Stay safe Alex
    Peace

  • @mattpennell7350
    @mattpennell7350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Ready to kill the shyness when I'm finally able to go out

  • @ahmedayman6480
    @ahmedayman6480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Alex is my older brother
    Alpha.m is my dad
    And Jose zuniga is my best dude

    • @nonameno4199
      @nonameno4199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly 😂😉

    • @pesfans7796
      @pesfans7796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol

    • @gilofers8288
      @gilofers8288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      still a douchebag tryin to earn likes ? grow up buddy these guys are makin efforts for us

    • @ahmedayman6480
      @ahmedayman6480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gilofers8288 is earning likes considered as an achievement these days buddy!?

    • @Suleimanfilmaker
      @Suleimanfilmaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @abdulmuqeeth8155
    @abdulmuqeeth8155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Hey Alex
    Where is heart ❤️ for me?
    Hope you hit a million on Instagram soon.

    • @krypticjelly795
      @krypticjelly795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amer Khan Investing in 66 likes😉

  • @dhirajjaiswal7881
    @dhirajjaiswal7881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Alex : don't be shy
    Me: yeah after quaritine. I'll try.

    • @AJ........
      @AJ........ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I actually wonder if quarantine will make people shy or if it will effect social behavior. Hopefully just a little rust for a few that s gone quick

    • @mk-tf2gw
      @mk-tf2gw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It did for me, going in public now I'm a little more shy than I was previous to quarantine. Confidence is something that is built up so that means you can lose it a bit if you stop working on it.

    • @davidkonevky7372
      @davidkonevky7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AJ........ for me, it starved me SO MUCH of social attention that I became the most extroverted person the night I reunited with my friends, that spark has gone down the more I see them, but I still think I'm in a good place

  • @ryanrheaume_
    @ryanrheaume_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve realized that i’ve become less and less shy after I graduated high school two years. Those people from school aren’t there anymore to say anything so i have nothing to lose as well👊🏻

    • @luiss6691
      @luiss6691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah facts bro. I feel like people in high school judge me too much

    • @elmachotracho7963
      @elmachotracho7963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      High school kids are judgmental assholes. They don’t interact with anyone outside their group of loser friends.

    • @liyemasibizo3529
      @liyemasibizo3529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same men

  • @Sanre
    @Sanre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This was actually proved to be great advice. When I stepped out of the shy zone, people tend to approach me more

    • @leg-end_0631
      @leg-end_0631 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was doing this before I watched this video and I noticed a big difference

  • @nathanpriestap295
    @nathanpriestap295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you alex for the videos, I joined for the fashion tips, but i stayed for the positivity and the lifestyle. You have changed my life.

  • @akxg56
    @akxg56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I feel non-shy immediately !

  • @AOB-SSC
    @AOB-SSC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coming from experience, being outgoing is the best decision I’ve ever made, I never had any friends and no one trusted me, now I have tons of friends and people come to me when they need help, it’s the best feeling I’ve ever had

  • @kingali1606
    @kingali1606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Last time I was this early, we could go outside

  • @michakonarski7396
    @michakonarski7396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    By the thumbnail I can see that Alex spends much more time on tik tok than he'd want to

  • @davidkonevky7372
    @davidkonevky7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have made tremendous progress over my shy-ness, but I still wanted to see this to see if I could improve something

  • @adeel4governor
    @adeel4governor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex Costa dropping truth bombs. As an introvert who followed these tips over the years, I can attest that you can overcome your shyness. You can be an introvert and not be shy.
    This video should have 10 million views

  • @kylesapphire1820
    @kylesapphire1820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That is the best advice I have ever been given! This is life changing - thank you Alex!

  • @shri6805
    @shri6805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always great video🇮🇳

  • @samiuddinomer2538
    @samiuddinomer2538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shyness separates human beings from animals 👍 it's one of the best blessings of God almighty ☝️

  • @MensFX3
    @MensFX3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly! nice tips!

  • @stxven7
    @stxven7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice style of filming Alex love the music in the back ❤

  • @nischala7170
    @nischala7170 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a shy 16 year old!
    Ive been watching Alex for a year now.
    I often don't talk much at school and I'm very shy around girls especially.I try to ignore them if there are many people.
    I've been seriously needing this video
    Thanks Alex❤

  • @sumeshlifestyle
    @sumeshlifestyle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro love from India ♥️♥️ i watch all videos of you 💯

  • @Demon_s_power
    @Demon_s_power 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is the best adviser
    I have seen all his vedio 🤩
    Thanks for all your information

  • @judinjomon5713
    @judinjomon5713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A heart from Alex❤to make my life without shy

  • @msofficialchannel4076
    @msofficialchannel4076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex u are always my inspiration 🔥😇

  • @dsories6219
    @dsories6219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY. IT WAS EVERYTHING.

  • @sanjubinwal3706
    @sanjubinwal3706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Alex sir ......this video really helps me to come over from shy.....Love from INDIA 🖤

  • @ayman-muse
    @ayman-muse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not shy any more this video really helped me thank you Alex

  • @jontyjackson4130
    @jontyjackson4130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i clicked on notification of this video in 0.00000001 seconds just to get a heart from my inspiration alex 🙏🏻

  • @Sanderteeuwen
    @Sanderteeuwen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started becoming a lot less shy by going to parties to meet and talk to new people. Really helped me becoming more outgoing.

  • @siddharthshyamsunder5198
    @siddharthshyamsunder5198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Alex a small suggestion, can you please make a video giving tips on how to stay focussed, disciplined and goal oriented thanks 😁. I see these qualities in you

  • @diegovalencia2695
    @diegovalencia2695 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVING THE BACKGROUND MUSIC ALEX

  • @wayeznaqvi5175
    @wayeznaqvi5175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The moment I got the notification of this video,I knew that I have to see it and after seeing your video I will break my shyness of writing in the comment box,Thank you Alex you are like my elder brother and the content was awesome🤗

  • @vishnulachansin9023
    @vishnulachansin9023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex costa out here changing mens life one video at a time.

  • @rameshgajula4957
    @rameshgajula4957 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    All will get impressed because of your speaking and style hope you get more milestones♥️

  • @ufuomaoribabor4728
    @ufuomaoribabor4728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex is just too awesome.

  • @thatswhatimean3965
    @thatswhatimean3965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was much needed Alex!😀
    Thanku very much
    Stay safe 😊

  • @mr.perfectionist1993
    @mr.perfectionist1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alex Eid Mubarak

  • @ShivamSharma-di2lk
    @ShivamSharma-di2lk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro, I'm a really shy dude in front of girls
    Thank you so much for this♥️

  • @AbdulWahid-nf7tm
    @AbdulWahid-nf7tm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for motivation Alex i wish you get 1 million followers on insta & soon 3 million on TH-cam.

  • @utakafashionstyle8799
    @utakafashionstyle8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's very good video. Thanks, for my teacher.

  • @mightyedwin2801
    @mightyedwin2801 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I attained an instant confidence as soon as I saw your video

  • @fittyfitter8918
    @fittyfitter8918 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm confident enough to meet Alex.☺
    Thank You,Alex

  • @user-zt1ht4xb5x
    @user-zt1ht4xb5x 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you perfectly illustrate those behaviors man? So much helpful for those who really are in these situations including me. I learned a ton from you man, thank you.

  • @nileshjahagirdar2718
    @nileshjahagirdar2718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    u are my role model man. I love your stuff

  • @pratikparmar8709
    @pratikparmar8709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Easier said than done. But you can conquer shyness... I've done it and improved myself.

  • @arazel8829
    @arazel8829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    After watching watching this, I'm so confident that i broke up with my girlfriend

    • @aurum5074
      @aurum5074 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yuhh gEtt inTooo Ittt

  • @godaceyt5138
    @godaceyt5138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos your videos are fabulous love from India notification squad superfast...

  • @FredHosy
    @FredHosy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Alex for this, Now I will try not to beat myself up and stop being Negative..

  • @joelfelix1810
    @joelfelix1810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you alex you are very helpfull to me give a love bro

  • @datturky5561
    @datturky5561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Alex.....your guide was really been helpful for me.....your video literally change my life❤

    • @datturky5561
      @datturky5561 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry....still devoloping my English

  • @Eternalyouthenjoyer
    @Eternalyouthenjoyer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Actually this pandemic has saved me from the most akward situation to be in: *HANDSHAKES*

  • @AjayPrajapati-uu6sg
    @AjayPrajapati-uu6sg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Need one heart from Alex Costa to make my day

  • @felixtobias3307
    @felixtobias3307 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this guy is the best, much love Alex !!

  • @tgfgaming8399
    @tgfgaming8399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK U VERY MUCH ALEX COSTA♥️♥️THIS MAN CHANGED ME TOTALLY IN THIS QUARANTINE

  • @nikhilmohangupta
    @nikhilmohangupta 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saved it in a playlist named ‘ remember ‘ Liked it ❤️

  • @KyleBrian153
    @KyleBrian153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After watching a lot of Alex's vids , now I am so confident when I talk to girls so thank you Alex for your best advices.Keep going the good work.Piece 💪

  • @ealmtbr
    @ealmtbr 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What the heck, you are Brazilian?! Dude I'm even more inspired right now,! I've discovered your channel like, 3 weeks ago and I'm watching everything in a roll
    Such a great content, quality... Loved it
    You are one role model for me now mate! Keep being awesome!

  • @cryticfn4414
    @cryticfn4414 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex's way is literally the best, he explains everything j like an older brother does

  • @ACatThatCantSing
    @ACatThatCantSing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alex I've been binge watching your vids and I've been loving it keep up the great work!!!

  • @benjaminnilsen9181
    @benjaminnilsen9181 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fear of making eye contact is something i can relate to, Thanks for the advice!

  • @felixtobias3307
    @felixtobias3307 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad i moved to 3 countries in my life, that gave me the confidence to make new friends and being open :)

  • @jmoneynance2683
    @jmoneynance2683 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have signed up for the inner circle and I have already learned so much. Thanks for making it

  • @daniellongmuir3633
    @daniellongmuir3633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your stuff man! Keep doing you bro

  • @victor_krv
    @victor_krv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best videos you've ever made!

  • @amalhassank.a6381
    @amalhassank.a6381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unbelievable inspiration

  • @mohsinansari8437
    @mohsinansari8437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I badly needed this one! Thank you Alex🙌

  • @dannierabbit1828
    @dannierabbit1828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex thanks you I was just thinking about how to stop being shy

  • @ayushsharma5150
    @ayushsharma5150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just orderd the book about communication skills and Alex just gave me the over view...
    Thank you Costa... 😇

  • @ee30sougatapal87
    @ee30sougatapal87 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whenever there's a notification of your video i jumps to your video leaving all my work aside coz i know that your videos are really inspiring and motivating for self development.
    Big fan of your's.
    All of your videos are just awesome.
    No more shy now !!!

  • @ahmedbadar8737
    @ahmedbadar8737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You helped me.
    Thank you, brother.

  • @frugalskin
    @frugalskin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My social skills have taken a nose dive during shelter in place. I had social anxiety around a dog on my walk yesterday lol.

  • @abhinavnair8869
    @abhinavnair8869 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Alex.... For all your efforts to improve us... Love u...

  • @siddiqueifti31
    @siddiqueifti31 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Alex, your tips are always helpful and working.

  • @user-hj4ew3em4s
    @user-hj4ew3em4s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great video. Thanks a lot for the advice. Keep up the good work Mr. Alex

  • @KaranRai-qg6nl
    @KaranRai-qg6nl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want to say Thank you Alex 😊

  • @jaydeepgaur3987
    @jaydeepgaur3987 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice topic man I loved it

  • @umesh7184
    @umesh7184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex costa is the best

  • @kleaky_
    @kleaky_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Alex, I always feel more confident when I watch your video’s!

  • @mistletoe490
    @mistletoe490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I luv this guy

  • @freitas3011
    @freitas3011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Parabéns pelo sucesso Alex, sou inscrito no seu canal desde o começo, confesso que nao acompanho mais desde começou a ficar totalmente em ingles, mas fico muito feliz de tudo que voce esta conquistando, porém saudades do MadeInBrazil.
    Sucesso

  • @tahh8091
    @tahh8091 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice!!

  • @yashrathi9479
    @yashrathi9479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice one alex

  • @Suleimanfilmaker
    @Suleimanfilmaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have changed my life man

  • @thriftcrate8487
    @thriftcrate8487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This' probably the most wholesome vid, I have ever watched.

  • @botondsarosi2471
    @botondsarosi2471 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, Alex for your videos! You help a lot!

  • @agneeshchatterjee4900
    @agneeshchatterjee4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank s Alex for showing us the stairs to be successful...

  • @NekrosWorld
    @NekrosWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am very shy and I can never show myself always being a shadow of someone for fear of criticizing people and this prevents me from progressing and spoiling my life I tried a lot to change but I did not succeed because of this thing I became comparing myself to others and I hope sometimes to be another person

  • @ati1936
    @ati1936 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Alex ❤

  • @for_nazareth
    @for_nazareth 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How is this possible..you always post what i needed..lastday i googled this

  • @mohammadammar5402
    @mohammadammar5402 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making that video .
    I really need it.

  • @keamanbraaf5200
    @keamanbraaf5200 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this bro. You an inspiration. Keep it up bro💪

  • @charliehughes8033
    @charliehughes8033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just discovered this channel and it’s helped me so much, I’ve gone through and watched loads of the videos and have learned a lot. Thanks Alex

  • @Qwerty10810
    @Qwerty10810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Alex ' My Inspiration' Costa heart please

  • @princenaik2780
    @princenaik2780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro really damn video and what you telled is absolutely wright💯💯💯 and really inspiring video

  • @alphawrecker2166
    @alphawrecker2166 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No shy immediately!!

  • @muhemmedyusufali475
    @muhemmedyusufali475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey alex ! As always thanks for these amazing and motivational vids. your tips are slowly changing my life in a good way. love u