7 NICE GUY MISTAKES KILLING YOUR GAME | Alex Costa

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  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Check out the Inner Circle! bit.ly/InnerCircleYT2
    Join my IG giveaway by following me on instagram.com/alexcosta
    Thank you for watching and have a great week!
    -AC

    • @tejasgabel3385
      @tejasgabel3385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alex Costa I am from India and i am big fan you you✌️

    • @benries9316
      @benries9316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Huge fan my boi! I'm am aspiring mens fashion and lifestyle influencer and your content helps a lot. Not only that but you have lots of giveaways lol for cheap college student like me!

    • @yungjose3369
      @yungjose3369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly looks like Robert Downey Jr.

    • @Nnsssn
      @Nnsssn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're an inspiration man!

    • @jinoyjijo5929
      @jinoyjijo5929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you please gift me a phone.i am from india. I need it please

  • @Matthewcr7
    @Matthewcr7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1245

    Summary guy came to the rescue:
    1. Not making any move (rn is the time)
    2. Being too desperate
    3. Not showing confidence
    4. Saying yes to everything
    5. Text back-to-back (texting 24/7)
    6. Calling girls in the morning
    7. Always apologizing
    Like so more people can see! ❤️

    • @eddzha111
      @eddzha111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Alex is not happy when you do this...

    • @Ruben2Lit
      @Ruben2Lit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tank u my b01 ❤️

    • @Matthewcr7
      @Matthewcr7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ruben Parra got u bro! ✌🏼

    • @charlie_oc774
      @charlie_oc774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg thanks bro you’re the best

    • @eddzha111
      @eddzha111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When you show all answers in text, guys dont see video... And what?
      1. Alex dont earning money
      2. Video takes lower positions
      And now you can tell u are alex fan?

  • @invalism1931
    @invalism1931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    I'm currently talking to someone on Tinder atm, this video could not have come at a better time

    • @anuragrai1520
      @anuragrai1520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Best of luck bro

    • @invalism1931
      @invalism1931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@anuragrai1520 thank you man

    • @invalism1931
      @invalism1931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @The Darkest Knight looks around average imo, but for a Chinese young adult I am very tall for my family anyway. Height is 5'11

    • @ulisesgomez241
      @ulisesgomez241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here brother. We got this. Let’s get these females

    • @MegaLPlover
      @MegaLPlover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tinder is bs

  • @NickBurke
    @NickBurke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Here’s a tip for choosing a restaurant with a girl: suggest 3 restaurants and have her pick where she wants to go. Say “I’ll narrow it down to three places but you have to pick where we go” It shows initiative and allows you to select places you actually want to go while making her feel like she’s in total control🤘🏽

    • @rioyoussef
      @rioyoussef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yes I agree with that! But something new I learned and started doing is every once in a while i tell her “guess were I’m taking you today” and whatever she guesses we go there

    • @Arslan-wr6gs
      @Arslan-wr6gs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rioyoussef osum 😂😂😂😂🔥

    • @mohammedaslamnazar1085
      @mohammedaslamnazar1085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rioyoussef 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mandystop1077
      @mandystop1077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rioyoussef OMG😂😂😂😂😂😂
      GONNA TRY THAT ONE DAY .

    • @twitchydom8689
      @twitchydom8689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry man, but this is not good advice. Women do not want to be in control on a date, and if you are trying to give it to her it makes you look weak. Ask her what food she likes and then you decide where to go. Don't suggest different places, just pick one and take her there. Be a god damn man

  • @theproperjournal3567
    @theproperjournal3567 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You need to be your biggest fan. Confidence is the key element for success in every aspect of life, relationships, business or self development, you need to be sure that what you have to offer is worth offering. Theres also a book called "No More Mr Nice Guy", I havent personally read it but ive heard it addresses your first point.

  • @ayu_unplugged
    @ayu_unplugged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex Costa Video
    10% - Information
    90% - Promotion

  • @HamoudiMansour-pb9xv
    @HamoudiMansour-pb9xv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    The worst problems that may happen at a date are:
    -smile and something is stuck between your teeth
    -have clumsy hair and you still think that it is still okay

    • @andymorris5878
      @andymorris5878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And she swerves when you are about to kiss her

    • @HamoudiMansour-pb9xv
      @HamoudiMansour-pb9xv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andymorris5878true😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bekooo2780
      @bekooo2780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Smile and have a gap betweek your teeth😭😭😭😭

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bekooo2780 if you have nice teeth it doesn't matter. If you have unhealthy teeth its a turnoff.

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andymorris5878 she will if you lunge at her and not dating her. Its rude

  • @shahmirkhan9056
    @shahmirkhan9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    So early alex hasn't started giving hearts out

  • @SameerSameer-fp9lf
    @SameerSameer-fp9lf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I had seen this video a month ago. I lost somebody I loved just because I was doing all these idiot stuff; texting her too much, not being confident, being too much available and always taking the blame. at first I thought girls like this but latter I realized that they don't think the way we do.
    my message to every man is to stop playing the nice guy it's not going to end well. I PROMISE!!!

  • @andrei-daviddobroiu6455
    @andrei-daviddobroiu6455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hey Alex, thank you for your advice, i am totally in love with Chelsea Boots!!!

  • @KevinHarrisDrumming
    @KevinHarrisDrumming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like how Alex still acknowledges being nice is still relevant. Just not too overpoweringly nice. There’s a middle “gray” area we should be in!

  • @ghostreaper9250
    @ghostreaper9250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really love ur jacket. Big thumbs up

  • @kaushik7089
    @kaushik7089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations on 1 million followers on instagram Alex... Keep growing.. our support is there with u💓💪💪

  • @priyansh9751
    @priyansh9751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congrats on 1M alex💕💕💕

  • @patrickbateman5167
    @patrickbateman5167 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the youtube suggestion. Thats what i need it right now.

  • @bastianalvarez2177
    @bastianalvarez2177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Ngl I thought this was a Jeff cavalier video because I read “this is killing your gains” 😂

  • @danialabbas7329
    @danialabbas7329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy to see you happy and healthy man.....may you always stay happy

  • @Nirux
    @Nirux 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes perfect you went back to your old hairstyle it’s much better than the middle part imo

  • @NishaNisha-vg1qx
    @NishaNisha-vg1qx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much Alex. I had a crappy day, I was too confused with everything. Your videos somehow give me the motivation I need.

  • @Arslan-wr6gs
    @Arslan-wr6gs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Legends say no matter if u r 7 minutes late...u will still get a heart from alex ❣️

    • @jordankersg
      @jordankersg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ruben abraham look again he did

  • @xen7357
    @xen7357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats on 1 millions followers 👍

  • @rachnapriya2343
    @rachnapriya2343 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always loved this jacket

  • @thebestgaming4589
    @thebestgaming4589 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video

  • @Namangen
    @Namangen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man!🙏🙏

  • @navdeepdanner0088
    @navdeepdanner0088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dope jacket Alex 💯 !

  • @cartoontv7283
    @cartoontv7283 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    biggest fan of alex...
    watching regular videos...

  • @aka_Tsuki_9
    @aka_Tsuki_9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this type Alex 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯✌️✌️✌️✌️

  • @arianmoradi2966
    @arianmoradi2966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was perfect thanks👍❤

  • @cristianorichard4406
    @cristianorichard4406 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always learn something new from ur videos

  • @maiki191
    @maiki191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Muito bom vídeo, direto ao ponto

  • @JohnVincentMfitness
    @JohnVincentMfitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sure a LEGEND OF A REAL MAN

  • @krishakpaudel4311
    @krishakpaudel4311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much ! Alex ...😊😊

  • @thequaker5157
    @thequaker5157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I just imagine his girlfriend "Honey did you get the-" WHAT'S UP GUYS MY NAME IS ALEX COSTA!"

  • @vishnuvardhank.jayanth1908
    @vishnuvardhank.jayanth1908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great work Alex

  • @antoniowanda9932
    @antoniowanda9932 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Man

  • @JG25419
    @JG25419 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    A great video , thanks for the advice

  • @binaminutsha
    @binaminutsha 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    best video man it changes my mind

  • @HopeandTrust
    @HopeandTrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey man could u do a ved on a healthy eating routine?

  • @haleyschricker2124
    @haleyschricker2124 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are great tips! Except, in terms of not taking the blame: if it's just the 2 of you having a disagreement, definitely stand up for yourself if you need to. But in my opinion, if y'all are out in public, or with friends, it's cool to step up sometimes and take the blame for her. Like if you're late bc she was putting on makeup or something, or if she lets out a loud fart, she'll love you for being her scapegoat.

  • @muhammadmursleen3935
    @muhammadmursleen3935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos Alex

  • @jmorquina6278
    @jmorquina6278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a game changer alex costa brotha!

  • @exploringwithaverell1193
    @exploringwithaverell1193 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    His hair in this video, in the ( inner circle ) clip ...looks amazing 🔥🔥

  • @sassyara1502
    @sassyara1502 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro. Thank you!

  • @pratimmotilal1601
    @pratimmotilal1601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your look is awesome today

  • @isoyeu662
    @isoyeu662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos ❤️😍

  • @eliascarrillo4974
    @eliascarrillo4974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always happy to watch your videos alex!

  • @mohammedazam1280
    @mohammedazam1280 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Alex am new hear thanx for new once..... Its snatched!!!!!

  • @AdityaKumar-ml9jb
    @AdityaKumar-ml9jb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking awesome dude!!

  • @g4garvit
    @g4garvit 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks dude it really heleped❤️

  • @allengeorge6854
    @allengeorge6854 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great imformation

  • @MRDNATION
    @MRDNATION 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that jacket looks killer 🔥 🔥

  • @leoved1073
    @leoved1073 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Again quality video as uasual 😍😍😍😍

  • @amitbishnoi1234
    @amitbishnoi1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice coach

  • @adityasinghchouhan4725
    @adityasinghchouhan4725 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    His energy in this video is another level.

  • @elmehdii2782
    @elmehdii2782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrat 1M 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Typicaltraveller
    @Typicaltraveller 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video bro..... thanks for your amazing suggestions .......u r awesome

  • @diptiranjan7091
    @diptiranjan7091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alex ..you are an inspiration for me♨️🔥🔥

  • @hideyagirl32
    @hideyagirl32 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for such videos man.definetly helps me get my confidence

  • @ferbin2771
    @ferbin2771 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex you the real man

  • @abhirampalukuru5443
    @abhirampalukuru5443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Alex big fan, I love the forte series btw 🔥

  • @BLAZE-rm3zw
    @BLAZE-rm3zw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The master is back!!!!

  • @140120145
    @140120145 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This leather jacket is so cool !!

  • @republicoflegends2681
    @republicoflegends2681 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on 1 million followers!!!

  • @anthonyrozario1760
    @anthonyrozario1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos man, from Bangladesh.

  • @Kris-wm5gi
    @Kris-wm5gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you man❤

  • @rajatkumar-ho3re
    @rajatkumar-ho3re 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations for 1M

  • @allengeorge6854
    @allengeorge6854 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @saifmihir6707
    @saifmihir6707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey alex i liked your mid part hairstyle please keep that hair!!

  • @tejareddy3565
    @tejareddy3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALEX COSTA = my inspiration 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

  • @kondangangto5641
    @kondangangto5641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is some great content for guys on how to date
    Thank you so much Alex ,
    (Wish u came up with this video a month back )🙃

  • @Nikhil-pg3dj
    @Nikhil-pg3dj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey!!!!
    Please make a video on how to iron a shirt properly

  • @sanjeebanniranjankumar8379
    @sanjeebanniranjankumar8379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video bro

  • @azimull7591
    @azimull7591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video ever seen 👍 i appreciate

  • @diptiranjan7091
    @diptiranjan7091 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex ..you are awesome😍😍😍

  • @shahalshahiz
    @shahalshahiz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every time better and better❤️💯

  • @Mr_yogi87
    @Mr_yogi87 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    AWESOME 🔥❤️🤟

  • @chrisfernandez2669
    @chrisfernandez2669 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's really helpful Alex☺

  • @poojanchoudhary5923
    @poojanchoudhary5923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Alex for crossing a million subscribers 🍾 ,many more to come brother.... And the energy you have always is 👌👌

  • @abudybaig3920
    @abudybaig3920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Nice Alex is still cool....😎

  • @brettharpt1284
    @brettharpt1284 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great video

  • @ibrahimmaster7097
    @ibrahimmaster7097 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man alex

  • @Gregvogel888
    @Gregvogel888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much appreciation to you Alex! Thanks for the great videos

  • @Theunfilteredyogi
    @Theunfilteredyogi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learnt a lot

  • @armando4380
    @armando4380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    “Not texting them every minute, they start to miss you” in reality, most girls wouldn’t even give af and would move on🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @paulstringer4820
      @paulstringer4820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea that is true😑

    • @twitchydom8689
      @twitchydom8689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well that depends on your connection with them. If you have only matched with her on Tinder or something and have only texted her, then yeah she'll probably forget about you. But, if you've actually hung out and had fun with her, and there's a connection there, then yeah she will miss you

    • @paulstringer4820
      @paulstringer4820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dom 1195 that’s why I kinda agreed and disagree Bc it can go both ways

    • @Videodude35
      @Videodude35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then you gotta move on too my guy. Don't get attached to a single girl. when its time to take things to the next level she will give you the signal. Focus on getting better at the game. This only comes through trial-error and yes failure is a part of the process. Embrace your mistakes. Try to only make them only once and learn from them then MOVE ON.

    • @Delaving
      @Delaving 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depends, I guess. Some people - both men and women - are real "dry texters" themselves so they don't care about you responding late. But if someone always responds within minutes, it's relatively safe to assume they want you to text back fast as well.

  • @rohan55djjf
    @rohan55djjf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely jacket bro

  • @ChrisVincelli
    @ChrisVincelli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Alex you are an INSPIRATION!!! I lost my job due to the pandemic. Since then, I’ve started a TH-cam Channel on Personal Development and Investing...and it is GROWING!!! Thank you for everything you do, and everyone else…NEVER GIVE UP!!!

  • @fouaddaoud5725
    @fouaddaoud5725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex i really appreciate what your doing it helps so many of us. ur the bestt❤️

  • @jeremiahsoo2458
    @jeremiahsoo2458 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heyoo wonderful vid

  • @zmgamer8270
    @zmgamer8270 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex the 🐐❤️

  • @ammarkhan2930
    @ammarkhan2930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Where the heck is summary guy I can't find him

  • @prathamdikshit2412
    @prathamdikshit2412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am following you since 3 years and the growth has been insane! You inspire me man🔥

  • @NoOne-og6he
    @NoOne-og6he 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quality content 👌🔥

  • @shervinaliakbari9866
    @shervinaliakbari9866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man you helped me so much with this. Always been a fan❤️✨

  • @ramadevi5540
    @ramadevi5540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Hi Alex I love this black jacket congrats for reaching a million followers 🔥🔥

    • @ramadevi5540
      @ramadevi5540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thnx Alex first like from u

    • @bipash_9720
      @bipash_9720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramadevi5540 hi brother

  • @funstarsagor6815
    @funstarsagor6815 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro please make a video about caring oily skin and oily scape

  • @AadilKhan-hj7ll
    @AadilKhan-hj7ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your video feel me new confidence in me, becoz of you Alex 😊 THANK YOU.

  • @CacyDraks
    @CacyDraks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The thumbnail of this video just made me think that, people don't actually look bad. They just let themselves go.
    Alex in the thumbnail looks dorky but in real life... He's the best.

  • @Pratikparmarrr
    @Pratikparmarrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His video's really helps a lot in our lives!!
    Thank you so much 💘💗

  • @UrbanCharisma
    @UrbanCharisma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Although all the videos that Alex posts are amazing as far as the content quality is concerned, yet I feel that this Video is 'His Finest' in a while!!
    Practical tips and the Level or enthusiasm was on point!!
    Keep it Up Alex ! Great going Man ! 😄😄❤️

    • @musicalfeet7969
      @musicalfeet7969 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely Right✌️😄 Alex is Awesome ❣️

  • @maticlauko
    @maticlauko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice jacket