I have this book as an audiobook and the first time I listened to it I didn’t get past track 5 because I was so upset about what I was hearing. Yes it’s COMPLETELY different then anything I’ve been told! Today when I started it agian it was a lot easier to understand. This is a really great summary!
Yes I can understand how it can trigger some cognitive dissonance... It’s so different from how we have seen children for a very long time and so different to the current school system viewpoint!
Thank you. Of the many vids with and about Dr. Greene and his work, I'm very happy that I started the journey here with you. Now I seem to be approaching a welcoming gate instead of hurling myself against a wall to try to find an entry point.
I'm so glad to hear that! This is exactly why I started this channel, to help parents make small progress towards having amazing joyful connections with their kids. Small progress every day leads to amazing transformation.
This is exactly what i needed and it exposing why i still have a difficulty even now with the knowledge of self regulation i still don't havevthe skill to manage my behaviour better. I try so hard in front of my child.
Honestly the best thing I ever did was to start meditating - it's the one thing that helped me be able to pause before reacting with my kids. I have a video on that.
I'm a huge fan of this approach. And it's the best way to approach any discussion with any age - I still use it to this day. So glad you found this video helpful!
Loved watching this video today! Some really great points and definitely a book that I’d like to read...my daughter is actually quite calm, but I feel like the techniques are important regardless! I love the point about children problem solving and offering great solutions themselves! I already see Imogen doing this in day to day life, so it stands to reason that in times of frustration she could do the same, given the opportunity! Thank you Anna, I’ve really got something great out of this today!
Awesome summary. Definitely want to put it into action. I had bought the book but never got around to reading it although I had a good idea. This really summed it up and I will show it to my husband!
Trop contente de pouvoir réfléchir à la parentalité et ses différentes perspectives malgré mon âge ! Ce livre aborde le problème des enfants difficiles, agités ou manquant de concentration parce qu'ils nécessitent qu'on trouve des solutions par rapport à leur comportement "dérangeant". Mais les différentes étapes préconisées peuvent au contraire s'appliquer à tous les enfants et ceux-ci seront plus à même de faire des choix et de savoir pourquoi ils les font, d'aborder leurs difficultés, de savoir y réfléchir et trouver des solutions par eux-mêmes. Nous les adultes avons trop tendance à imposer un comportement ou des solutions pour aller plus vite. Mais il s'agit de se projeter dans l'avenir pour savoir où est le gain de temps et le gain de qualité. J'espère avoir cerner le sujet, dis-moi si je me trompe.
I have this book as an audiobook and the first time I listened to it I didn’t get past track 5 because I was so upset about what I was hearing. Yes it’s COMPLETELY different then anything I’ve been told! Today when I started it agian it was a lot easier to understand. This is a really great summary!
Yes I can understand how it can trigger some cognitive dissonance... It’s so different from how we have seen children for a very long time and so different to the current school system viewpoint!
I've been wanting to read this book for ages and never had the time. Thank you for this very clear summary, it was very helpful!
I’m so glad to hear it was helpful! Thank you for your comment
Thank you. Of the many vids with and about Dr. Greene and his work, I'm very happy that I started the journey here with you. Now I seem to be approaching a welcoming gate instead of hurling myself against a wall to try to find an entry point.
I'm so glad to hear that! This is exactly why I started this channel, to help parents make small progress towards having amazing joyful connections with their kids. Small progress every day leads to amazing transformation.
Thank you for this great summary!!
You are most welcome! ❤️
This is exactly what i needed and it exposing why i still have a difficulty even now with the knowledge of self regulation i still don't havevthe skill to manage my behaviour better. I try so hard in front of my child.
Honestly the best thing I ever did was to start meditating - it's the one thing that helped me be able to pause before reacting with my kids. I have a video on that.
Great summary. Very helpful. I bought the audiobook. Love this approach
I'm a huge fan of this approach. And it's the best way to approach any discussion with any age - I still use it to this day. So glad you found this video helpful!
Thankyou sooo much for this! So easy to share with someone whom I want to explain this book to.
You are so welcome!
Dr. Ross Greene's books helped us a lot but yes it takes time to be able absorb everything so great summary!
You're most welcome ❤️
Finally someone who said if the book helped or not! Thanks..
Loved watching this video today! Some really great points and definitely a book that I’d like to read...my daughter is actually quite calm, but I feel like the techniques are important regardless! I love the point about children problem solving and offering great solutions themselves! I already see Imogen doing this in day to day life, so it stands to reason that in times of frustration she could do the same, given the opportunity! Thank you Anna, I’ve really got something great out of this today!
Alison Quinn so glad you enjoyed this video, it means so much to me that you took the time to comment. Thank you! ❤️
Very helpful and informative - thank you!
Perfectly worded
Thank you, my friend sent me this now I have subscribed. Very helpful
So glad you found me and that my videos are helping you ❤️
🙌Bless you,Anna
Awesome summary. Definitely want to put it into action. I had bought the book but never got around to reading it although I had a good idea. This really summed it up and I will show it to my husband!
So glad you found this summary helpful! I'm a big fan of this approach and still use it to this day.
Trop contente de pouvoir réfléchir à la parentalité et ses différentes perspectives malgré mon âge !
Ce livre aborde le problème des enfants difficiles, agités ou manquant de concentration parce qu'ils nécessitent qu'on trouve des solutions par rapport à leur comportement "dérangeant". Mais les différentes étapes préconisées peuvent au contraire s'appliquer à tous les enfants et ceux-ci seront plus à même de faire des choix et de savoir pourquoi ils les font, d'aborder leurs difficultés, de savoir y réfléchir et trouver des solutions par eux-mêmes. Nous les adultes avons trop tendance à imposer un comportement ou des solutions pour aller plus vite. Mais il s'agit de se projeter dans l'avenir pour savoir où est le gain de temps et le gain de qualité.
J'espère avoir cerner le sujet, dis-moi si je me trompe.
jocelyne Boughlam oui c’est exactement ça ! Ça t’aurait sûrement beaucoup aide avec Rudy il y a 30 ans !
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But did the book help a child you know or not?