I Saw The Netflix Indian Wedding Reality Show & It’s Mostly Rich People Problems | The Big Day
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- #TheBigDay on #Netflix is a 3 episode documentary series on Indian weddings and what really goes into making an event that represents a union between two people possible! What does it explore! Is it in any way thought provoking and impactful? I am to explore precisely that!
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This is like the illegitimate sibling of Indian Matchmaking and Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives. 😅 😂 😅 😂
Atleast this isn't as cringe-worthy as the other two 😅
Bahot harddd🔥
Your comment should be pinned
Sounds just about right!☝️
Omg yea!!
"Buddha bar feeling" never thought I'll ever hear these 3 words together
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That’s was such a shitty thing to say honestly
Man it is so disrespectful
Like that’s a deity respect them. Imagine putting ganpati somewhere like that and calling it a ganpati bar. I’d just walk out of that wedding.
@Second life I’m sorry I was not aware. I’ll keep that in mind.
Marriages are made in heaven. But the expenses will send you right down to hell.
😂😂😂
This makes me think, wouldn't you rather spend most of the 'wedding funds' on your honeymoon instead of just the wedding *day* , I mean what would be better, a fun adventurous trip with the one you love or *one* day that in itself is so hectic, you can't really enjoy it.
@@sarcasmpersonified6535 fr
Most underrated comment
so true
MTV: I make the cringiest reality shows
Netflix: you sure about that?
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Lol
Netflix India** to be precise
On point 👏
Exactly.
"Rich people problems". This should have starred Ananya Pandey.
Hahaha
😂😂😂😂
Don't talk about her that way, you have no idea how much she has struggled
*Struggles*
I hate how "Indian" on netflix apparently only means "North Indian" ---- a traditional, modest, south indian wedding can actually be SO beautiful and so full of meaning, it's sad it's not even considered for representation.
Under-rated comment!!
Also the stupid stereotypes, too much generalisation
And by North Indian its mostly Punjabi-Rajasthani. C'mon, show some Kashmiri, Himachal Pradesh, Uttrakhand weddings too. North and South India is mostly translated to Punjab-Tamil Nadu in the eyes of bollywood
@@harshitamahajan2875 So true, also for someone who is from Gujarat, I hate how they portray us, the accent duh! Yes, we do have a way to pronounce words but I can confirm that's not how we talk. Also the 'everyone is into business' LOL NOOOOO
Because they want to promote the same image of India. Butter chicken naan and curry. All other traditions need representation. 👍
I hate how weddings in India only mean Hindu weddings.
Netflix standard is evident when they rejected "The Great Indian Kitchen" without even watching the movie and decided that this crap is what Indians want to watch.
Exactly that's how they judged this shit is what Indian Audience looking for ...Ridiculous 🙄❤️
welp they rejected vada chennai too
As a girl in my 20s and probably a marriageable age... When I see ppl throwing away money on such "aesthetic" weddings.. I think I have a generation gap with my own generation.
I wouldn't want to throw away money on these setups and backgrounds just so that the guests can click pictures for their insta and talk about it.
So true khyati 🍀✌🏻🙏
Exactly I would rather invest that money
@@byethere 20s... Not 20.
28 to be exact.
@@rashmeetkaur8131 exactly
Totally girl. I so damn agree with you.
"Brown from the outside and white from within"
O bhai, maaro mujhe maaro
Definition of being privileged 👀
Yup, coconuts
Coconuts saale
And I thought we all are supposed to be red inside 😂
What is an "Indian wedding" though? As far as I've seen, each and every state has their own traditions when it comes to marriages.
And that's just for one religion.
True 👏🏼
I wonder what will happen with me im chattisgarhi and my bf is from assam 😳
@@八ルシュ-z6vAyyy I'm from Assam, too.
Yes seriously as a muslim bengali our weddings are really different even within our relatives each wedding is different. some people have different traditions that are not even related to religion and is just a family thing
@@八ルシュ-z6v Yo I'm chhattisgarhi too lol.
most of the Netflix India orginals are targeted to NRIs imho
Because they are the ones who are actually paying the subscription fees😂
@@harshitha310 😂😂😂
@@harshitha310 that's true bro 😂😂. Most of us use telegram streaming services
@@yadhurajar5590 lol ikrr
And itss so easy unlike torrents and stuff
Shame how many of us feel its cool to pirate.
I'd rather choose any of the pre 2000s wedding vid stored in moserbear cds with atrocious powerpoint effects over this netflix garbage any day💁♂️
Most def bro.
Such accuracy man
@@byethere Every three min of video followed by some pics of flower garden, water fountain and animated butterflies😁. And of course sehnai bgm
@@byethere Oh yes how could I forget that legendary one😆
Atrocious powerpoint effects....😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's basically the wedding video of EVERY Indian kid's parents marriage..
Buddha... bar feeling? Didn't Buddha preach to abstain from drugs and alcohol?🤨
Buddha attained enlightenment sitting under Bodhi (peepal) tree. My theory is he got high due to lack of oxygen at night🤣🤣.
@@amitverma4203 abbe saale 😂
@@amitverma4203 please be respectful towards others' faith. A lot of people consider him as their God and idol. You wouldn't like someone making a comment like that about your idol so don't do it to others.
@@1shu I am respectful. It's just this misplaced sense of something going around in public that any sentence which include religion or God and it doesn't not contain something overtly positive , it's considered disrespectful. Please rise above such childish notion. Questioning something or making harmless jokes or making a statement doesn't mean disrespect.
Buddha was an advocate of middle path.... Not as extreme or strict as Jainism.... But he was of opinion that people should be away from intoxication, as much as they can!
"Single lonely man". Girls did you hear that? Go on. Save the guy and his sanity. 😅 😂 😅 😂
Boys can try too.. now all have equal opportunity 👍
May be he's single man by choice, nothing to save.
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He's saved himself by staying single.. 😉
He's a top tier catch, it's most likely by choice
This is a good initiative by Netflix, now that we know what the rich do, we have toned down our aspirations a lot now.😂😂
Really?
What's wrong with Netflix man? First a show about Bollywood wives and now this..shit
people watch. they produce more!
@@TriedRefusedProductions True man...the real problem is with audience.. No one wants to watch reality... They get cheap internet and start watching crap in the name of entertainment :(
I wish I could reach out into the ether and hug you. It's become haute for educated, middle-class Indians to forget that India is a land scarred by poverty and deprivation. The elitism and obliviousness is soul-jarring and frankly, quite worrisome
I have to say this. I am loving the random cuts to your video commentary. It makes the video more engaging than just audio commentary. I feel like you are becoming more and more comfortable with camera and I love that. Carry on with this please!
I love it too
Love that too long time Jammy Fan!!
Love the way you said "Heterosexual couple". We love an Lgbtq+ ally who acknowledges gay couples.
literally i was so happy to here that!
who in the hell thought about 'BUDDHA BAR'
this idea was is straightforward offensive for all Buddhists
If you invite me to your wedding , I will dress up like Alfie Solomons.
Just a random guy in the comments.
Remember to bring bread.
Thanks to Corona, my 500 people wedding was reduced to 43 people 😂. It was intimate, no guests at home coz of coronavirus and few baratis. Sad thing was that not even a single friend of our could come. But it was intimate and I cherish it much more co the day was about us than this aunty or that chachi.
Dude THANK YOU
I wanted someone to bitch about this show with, you made a complete video, Thanks!
I don't want to admit it but bitching is pleasurable..😂
@@hetalbakutara7649 I understand man, this show was so materialistic in the name of love that even the few good parts were overshadowed :'))
@@BhoomikaDadhich materialistic and pretentious..
Here before annoying people start advertising their products/body😹😹
lol
Body ah..
I didn't know that happens..
@@Timepass-cx1do you probably have never heard about online paid fun
You are at the wrong destination. Man!!. This is not t series
@@byethere people do it's just that you ain't aware about it
0:42 "Your boy is a single, lonely man who's addicted to watching content for work". Now that's some ovary-busting stuff for chicks right there. 😅 😂 😅 😂
"ovary-busting stuff for chicks" Goddamnit, hippity hoppity this phrase is now my property
@@Aedxncan i get a piece
Dear beautiful
Kare-uh-ma'am
What the heck is your user name?!😂
Indian weddings are great to attend but when you look closely it's very messy.
Fair point
Yess actually....... I attented a wedding and the bride was somewhat late due to heavy traffic and when she finally reached out of the closest relative who was supposed to give blessing was like Ek toh late aaye or upar se chudail bhi lag rhi h... 😒😒😒😒
Indian wedding are a shit show
@@savannastreet7 fr they always spend so much money on extra food in the receptions that it is just meant to wasted at the end .
Indeed,
I am due to get married on 14th may, me and my parents constantly have arguments about having an intimate wedding vs a hoopla. Truth to be told.. intimate one is my side of the story
I'm totally stealing that "Peaky Blinders themed wedding" idea. 😂
Welcome to my Fooking Wedding
One thing that I observe and quite evident is the way they look at India which is very much sourced from Bollywood and a lot contorted and irrespective of region they say their roots are. Wedding in Chennai was no different than wedding in Jaipur which makes India look like bland place instead of the very vibrant and diverse this nation is (in my opinion no other nation is anything like India). I am from UP and love the way even Bihar is so different (in fact central, western and eastern UP are quite unique in their own way) let alone north and south India. Diversity makes the whole experience so rich and fulfilling. I would rather love to see a core Tamil wedding than what Netflix had to offer (Khichdi).
Exactly I’m dying to see a normal middle class wedding where it’s more of people coming together than just rich folks spending money
Weddings these days are less about traditions and more about swank.
Made in Heaven minus reality and depth , plus glorification , plus all the glamour in the world.
also..documentary edition.
This show puts the mask back onto what made in heaven tried to unmask.
Made in heaven is a masterpiece
Thankgod season 2 is coming
@@user-fk8md4jn3i is it? 😳 finalllllllyyyyyyyyyyy
@@user-fk8md4jn3i yess
@@notsokomal3146 If not for corona , S2 would have been releasing sometime now
As non Indian I reallly like the concept to see an actual indian wedding but yeah that first episode which in my country was like number 4 was a hot mess the girl though she was all glamorous and creative but look just cringe, in my Netflix number one episode was the mixed race weedings which was actually my favourite a long side the same sex one, which was the last. I understand this were really rich people and some were a bit and a lot obnoxious but overall I like they actually explain a bit of each ceremony, thought I like even more detail but I guess it would more like a documentary
I'd rather have 'Acid' from Chhichhore comment about these types of shows..
Or liquid from pyaar ka punchnama
Acid? He has a name dude.. Naveen pollishetty... Dude from AIB
@@uncannyroaches5933 But he's talking about the reaction of that particular character o n this show not the reaction of the actor in general.........
@@uncannyroaches5933 no shit Sherlock
Netflix trying hard to fit in... But just ending up being "wana be"
Hay Jammy..why did you delete your "Thank you cinema" video? It was so good 😭
some issues with copyright.
Hey jammy can you do a review on Snyder cut
@@TriedRefusedProductions Please Sir make a video on Snyder Cut.
@@RaviKumar-ew6pg okaa
@@TriedRefusedProductions Thank you , Thank you ❤️❤️
Well!! Being in US for now 2+ years, I can say that the show is made not just to promote the wedding planners and businesses but also for those non-Indian people across the world. Netflix is available in more than 100 countries and some of the most major countries in the world. Promoting such shows, showing big fat wedding without giving any information about how rich the individual families are, will definitely help others around the world to come out of their stereotypical "India is a poor country" bubble. What do you think?
Surprisingly the show was suggested to me by a friend's colleague who is an American, and whose jaws dropped while watching the 3 episode series. Right now, he wants to dive deep into Indian culture and wants to explore it. Let see how far that will go.
Coming from middle class family my review was the same as yours, I didn't even watch after the first episode as I can't bear and support the theory of being unnecessary extravagant.
If I get married I would just have a court wedding and then throw a party for my close friends and family 😂😂
so true after all Law only recognized the marriage certificate 😅😅😅
@@pennyc8252 nope ... Law recognise religious marriages as well
Basically, the First World problems of Indian metropolises. 😅 😂 🤣
Everybody after watching Indian Matchmaking: "eww WE HATE THIS, never show us this again Netflix.
Netflix: *constantly produces more of this pretentious shit*
Jammy now that you are doing some facecam appearance here and there maybe in the future you could do a more q/a type of video getting to know more about you about your education and how TRP came into existence. If it’s comfortable!
And this is why I am gonna have a registered marriage.
Why ya?
@@Timepass-cx1do it's useless. Why waste your parent's hard earned money?
@@byethere myself and most sensible people in India.
@@mcchilde2903 you do know that many individuals fund their marriages themselves right?
Why so ignorant?
@@byethere and I never claimed to speak for anyone lol.
For someone who has worked at Condé Nast India, I am glad you brought out that connection.
Disagree about the 2nd episode. The feminist agenda seemed pushed, a female can take the charge of her own wedding, but the bride (can't remember her name) was controlling other people which was quite annoying. Episode 3 wasn't bad (mostly because of the gay couple)
Now waiting for Yashraj Mukhate to make a jingle out of this one too. 😅 😂 🤣
He wouldn't unless Netflix pays him..
Paisa yeh paisa
@@idrinktea420 no , it's just that this show isn't that meme worthy...
And yashraj would want to bring a shift from the meme songs slowly....
Dude pls don't waste your time seeing this stuff.
I mean he's getting those bucks so
He's watching these shows as a reviewer SO THAT WE PEOPLE DONT.
That's the whole point of watching reviews- whether it's worth our time or not
The only genuine couple in the show was Tyrone and Daniel..... Rest of them were just flamboyant, trying to exuberate pseudo-class, opulence and affluence.
Dude made in heaven ❤️ is literally heaven
Buddha bar ! really? 🙄
Season 2 is coming yayyyy
i want season 2😔
@@notsokomal3146 end of 2021
i had just watched the third episode with my parents last night, being a part of the lgbtqi+ community myself, Tyrone and Daniel's wedding was very heartwarming
Dude, I came here after 35 seconds of upload. Bolt lmao 😂
Edit: Jammy's lil curl❤️❤️❤️
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Peaky blinders wedding😍😍😍 I love that series ... Marry me jammy🤣😂
done
@@byethere big fat nahh a peaky theme 'll be drunk and stoned wedding 😂🤣
@@yashvijoshi1083 that sounds even better.. Smoke a big fat one before the 7 phere and u'll be in another dimension after the 7th one 😂
@@AmanSingh-ld1xs noted ... See you at "The garrison" for reception party👍
In the episode with the Gay couple, there was no mention of conversion therapy. Please don’t embellish. Tyrone only said that his Mom thought she could pray the gay away from her son. Look up conversion therapy before you throw that term around so loosely.
So this is how I feel arriving just 17 minutes.
What is disturbing for me regarding such shows is the millennial though provoked by such superficial event management about weddings. For example, after I got married (where I chose to keep my expenses at a minimum, did not let my father pay for my entire wedding, and spent almost half the total money spent myself), a junior of mine tormented her father for a Sabyasachi lehenga and spent lavishly on her wedding just for the Gram, spending nothing but be a spoilt brat in a middle-class household. This is a problem for which many parents are under huge debts giving their children the best day of their lives ever but that doesn't baffle the makers of such shows as they are "middle-class problems".
Send me the invite for the peaky blinders party, I’ll rsvp yes
haha i had a feeling someone would bee down
I'm in! I'll RSVP the RSVP too!
I'm down
Rsvp matlab?
@@ManishKumar-vi9qi rsvp is actually a french phrase(I don’t remember what it exactly is😬) which translates to respond if you please... In a few countries you’re supposed to RSVP yes or no if someone sends you a wedding invite so that they can proceed accordingly with the seating arrangements, no of ppl they’re going to be catering etc
This is wat I understood after a decade of watching American, British and Spanish TV and cinema, it could be more than wat I think it is... you can always google it too🤭
"Buddha Bar Feeling". Rhea got this stuff yet? 😅 😂
Haha😂
Nothing can ever beat a "Tamboo next to your house wedding"
That's the best thing
Is there any concept left from being a reality show, let alone the 'Richie Riches' problems..!?
When did Bobby Deol start reviewing?
2016
What is presented as ‘Indian’ weddings are actually ‘North Indian’ weddings.. not that in the South we don’t have our quirkiness but it is a different kind of quirkiness than what is depicted in these shows🙂
U cant call it north indian lol u cant even call it indian 😑
Ikr...all these people are always like north Indians v/s south indians...always diving India...
@@八ルシュ-z6v it's because you have to understand that northern Indian culture ( mainly punjabi and utter Pradesh ), politics, food are always represented as Indian where the other cultures in India get completely ignored. Always the things happens southern India treat it like south Indian problem but crimes happens in North of India is considered as Indian problem. Be it achievement also. So we are not going to sit our ass down with silence. Do you know any south Indian freedom fighters? Do you know the first movement against British was in Malabar, south India? Think about it. It's not dividing.
I would like to have a peaky blinders themed wedding😂😂
Netflix is making all these bullshit and they dont even give a chance to malayalam cinema for orginal content 😡
I mean I see nothing wrong in a wedding wherein everyone's styled in old British era clothing, go do that peaky blinders wedding!
Thoda zyaada nahin...bahut zyaada ho gaya...bakwaas
Didn't even try to see it
BTW...YOU CAN SPEAK IN ENGLISH...AND HOW!!!!
those dislikes are from SoBo/South Delhi and NRI people who are hurt because Anmol tried to break their bubble
Honestly, Indian matchmaking wasn't that bad. It was honestly just comical and Sima was also not THAT bad 😂
Good thing that this series didn't popup on my Netflix recommendation.
Are they even Indians?
Don't feel so.. Or maybe these are so called secular.
They need to reach India and do not hurt other religion emotions.
Yo what? so called secular? Can secular people not be Indian? What exactly are you trying to say?
@@ShimaTheCatto yes,
Today's so called secular now also spreading hate towards our nation also.
i genuinely thank you for taking the plunge into the abyss, i feel you have saved so much time in my life which i would have otherwise wasted on so many series, now i have made a rule to wait for your review and then invest time on movies and series
Thank You
I stopped watching post 1st episode, same feeling, "this isn't my world." The introductory song is good though.
We need jammy to review aot please guys let's make him see this goat of a series
Please jammy share your views on OTT platform censorship
Exactly, whenever I spoke to foreigners they were often astounded that I can speak English quite well. They really have a different connotation about Indians.
The entire first Espisode was like a massive advertisement for the locations, the caterer, the choreographer. 🤮
A Suitable Girl documentary was the closest to real I've seen... in which Seema Aunty made her debut!
Your reviews are totally unfiltered and you put a lot of efforts in collecting all the information with facts and figures. Moreover your Voice is charming and can gain anyone's attention. I am a big fan of your reviews and your videos.
While being a wedding invite designer, I too use comparisons like Terence, because sometimes the clients gets too nervous, or in my case confused, so telling them this things are helpful 😉😉..
I wish i had these RICH people issues
Honestly just finished watching this series and I quite liked the second episode and I think I understood what they were trying to say for themselves ( the ladies)
i agree. I think the second episode communicated the most
@@TriedRefusedProductions As a Girl myself who is trying to change my family’s mind towards some wedding customs for my wedding next year ... I thought that was my story tbh 😗😗
No but jammy the peaky blinder idea sounds awesome 😎!
I completely appreciate your comments about the show...but after the blasphemy that was Indian matchmaking...this show atleast promotes some progressive values! I had conversations around Kanyadaan myself 13 years ago!
Okay its understandable though, the very first thing that came to my mind was that this show fits in so perfectly well with what the NRIs think, and that, how do i word this, is basically the target audience. Netflix to a large extent has still not reached the typical indian audience. If any indian audience exists it is going to be a) people from out of india, who used to hate their culture earlier( would not generalise this to all) and after more represenattion of indians in the global media, and the need to be seen as different, started flaunting their culture. B) people like jammy who may watch it as an ironical funny, guilty pleasure. Kind of way. If it was never meant for the indian audience, it makes sense that they show the rich class because tehya re the only ones who would be able tor elate to this, and this applies to most netflix shows based on indian culture (NOT ALL) be it indian match making, some ofthe highly westernised indian series of indian children in the us education system. I dont remember the name. They wont focus on actual good content now whichis more realistically based simce the audience for that (they think) dont exist yet. Its an easy profit for them.
I'm B. I watch it purely to make fun of it but I feel bad that I'm indirectly encouraging Netflix to make similar shows. Netflix has great Indian shows like Sacred Games, Delhi Crime. They just failed in their reality TV department
Hey Jammy... Thank you for watching and telling us ! You're my go-to-man for shows and movies now ! You've got plenty of us who will RSVP to the wedding of your theme !
Jee, Buddha statue in a bar? Buddha literally advised people NOT TO DRINK at all. Their ignorance is beyond the white American ignorance. You dont have to be a buddhist to be respectful. This is a quote from Thailand "Buddha is NOT a decoration, respect is common sense".
I was literally rooting for Tyrone and Daniel from the moment I watched the trailer. I cant believe I sat through all those Alice in Wonderland and Buddha bar nonsense for them.
Yes I agree that the first episode was useless, but the issues brought up in episode 2 and 3 were totally relevant. Since there is no connection between the episodes, simply skip the first one and watch remaining two as they are thought provoking and its really high time to think about it.
I liked episode 2 and I think it brought up some great points that I could relate to. Even if this was a big fat Ad, episode 2 made this a must watch!
I'm really tired tired tired of Netflix and it's poor content for India. :(
This is so privileged, so single toned. They should have added more religions, talked about how inter cast marriage is still an issue.
This is just a heterosexual, Hindu (upper cast), rich people’s wedding.
😪😪😪
How did you find out their caste, Sharma-ji?
@@VK-zc2un How did you just make it a caste thing?
@@ananyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa She said Upper caste
Isn't the last girl a mix if Muslim and Hindu but are also kind of atheist. So the religion gets nullified.
You should check " A Suitable Girl" by Netflix... It shows the real story of what many indian girls go through. And Bonus, Seema taparia's daughter is also in it. Highly recommended . Not pretentious in its approach just showing facts
The show Made in Heaven had an accurate depiction about these weddings.
Hey Awesome dp. Is this some app?
@@dev-lw4tp photo lab
Except that Ep 3...Gay couple and Semi royal family couple the whole was...I was like Whyyyyy.....why???? And why?????
They forgot to add an important element of a big, fat Indian wedding. A wedding courtesan like SRK for hire. 😅 😂 🤣
I am a migrant myself.
I cannot tell you how I hated the word ‘“coconut”. Felt extremely humiliated.
The movie I found very good about the truth about wedding is a tamil movie called "Kalyana smayal saadham". Though it had many unreal elements they showed what really happens in a tamil Brahmin wedding
Made in Heaven
i have lived in canada for over 20 years since i was 8 years. but im not nearly as white washed as the current desi generation who came to canada over a year ago. im still desi at heart.
also why doesn't the media show the poor nri. not everyone living in canada, usa, etc, are loaded.
Would totally come to a Peaky Fookin blinder themed event!
I have attended Indian American weddings... nothing like what they show in this. I got bored watching this. Just like how Bollywood is not the cinema of India, the weddings shown in this don't represent our reality. India has so many different types of weddings... in terms of income & cultural & regional differences.
I want to throw a coconut 🥥 at these coconuts
Edit: i apologize for my pettiness 😂
If you do a leaky blinders wedding ,you should yell ’ NO FUCKIN' FIGHTING’....
BY ORDER OF THE PEAKY BLINDERS..