Thanks so much for watching! 😊 With this video, we want to share with you some thoughts on how to choose the right birthing position if you want to reduce the risk of tearing. In particular, we want to explain why it is important not to fixate on one particular birthing position so that you have the best possible birthing experience!
Hi there Mirelissa! 😊 Thanks a lot for your input!! VBAC is already high on our list of videos-to-be-produced. We cannot confirm a definite date yet but there WILL be a video 😊! In the meantime, we wish you all the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
Thanks SO MUCH for your lovely comment!! We really appreciate it!! 😊❤️ Greetings from the UK back to beautiful Canada and all the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
Hi there! 😊 Thanks a lot for your input!! ❤️ To be honest with you, we tried to do a video about correct breastfeeding already several times. But we always end up not recording it. And the reason is that breastfeeding tips should really be based on each individual case. The problem is that we could only produce a video with general statements about breastfeeding, but this may not help a woman with her individual needs. The other thing is: we cannot find a woman with a newborn who is willing to demonstrate correct latching etc. for us on youtube (understandably). And we think this is really important if we want to produce a helpful video on breastfeeding... So, at the moment, we don't know how we can produce a helpful video about breastfeeding (although we would love to record one). So, all we currently do is recommend women talking to a breastfeeding consultant. Because the advantage here is that a breastfeeding consultant can look at each individual case and then provide help. We are very sorry that we cannot be a better help at the moment! ❤️
What a great conclusion. I thought I would end up kneeling, but I knew I should be open to whatever my body told me to do. I ended up side lying, but did still have tears on the labia minora (although I think I have a pelvic tilt which may have influenced that). I think it's important for women to know about the benefits and risks of each position, but to generally keep an open mind and listen to their body because for most normal and healthy pregnancies the woman's body knows best.
Thanks SO MUCH for commenting and sharing your story with us!! It's always great to hear how women experienced labor and birth and how they see it now, after having given birth to a baby! So, we really appreciate your comment! ❤️ 😊
I feel lucky I didnt tear more. I had small first degrees tears even tho pushing went very fast and they used the ventous extractor due to fetal distress both times. SO my pushing never lasted long and the baby exited fast. My body goes into strong fast contractions at one point and even the days before I was having pretty strong ones that I couldnt sleep through on and off. Could barely eat or drink, pooped like 10 times XD So those days + then the contraction storm I think made the baby too distressed
Hi there 😘, that is actually quite surprising: with instrumental deliveries (of any kind - though forceps are far worse), women often get at least second degree tears.... So, great to hear that you "only" got first degree tears... 😘😘
Hello ! Giving all this informations and studies that shows upright positions are the best..why are still hospitals and doctors that simply dont follow this new good discovery for women? For what are made those studies if they dont use its 😕 i really dont want to give birth lying on my back but we're forced
Hi there! ❤️ Yes, unfortunately, from what we can see, this very much depends on the country and hospital. For example, we have read that in China, back lying positions are still the number 1 birthing position while in France, for instance, the preferred way is a kneeling position. It would really be ideal if women could choose themselves! This is how it should be! It's their body, their delivery and their decision! All the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
Hi there 😊, unfortunately, there are not really good studies on water births and their outcomes in terms of tearing. In general, the problem is that scientists classify those women who had an episiotomy as "women who did not tear". However, I don't know about you. But to me, having an episiotomy and tearing is pretty much the same (not quite - but you know what I mean). We can only say this much: doctors don't like water births that much because they don't have a good overview of what's going on "down there" and because they cannot perform an episiotomy "if needed".... We wish you ALL THE BEST for you and your baby!! ❤️
Hi there 😊, this IS possible, but not required (we normally start with this in week 35). Just get the approval of your doctor first (particularly in case there are infections etc.) And please make sure that you use a ph-neutral lubricant such as olive oil! Thank you! We wish you ALL THE BEST for you and your baby!! ❤️
Thanks so much for watching! 😊 With this video, we want to share with you some thoughts on how to choose the right birthing position if you want to reduce the risk of tearing. In particular, we want to explain why it is important not to fixate on one particular birthing position so that you have the best possible birthing experience!
Great point you have in this video. its an eye opener 😮 38 weeks and 3/7 days here 🤗
Thanks a lot for your feedback!! We are happy to hear that you found it helpful!! 😊
Your big day is getting closer and closer!! 😍😍😍
Please make a video about vbac and how to evaluate the previous c-section scar 🙏. Thank you for all your videos!
Hi there Mirelissa! 😊
Thanks a lot for your input!! VBAC is already high on our list of videos-to-be-produced. We cannot confirm a definite date yet but there WILL be a video 😊!
In the meantime, we wish you all the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
You guys rock!
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Thanks SO MUCH for your lovely comment!! We really appreciate it!! 😊❤️
Greetings from the UK back to beautiful Canada and all the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
Please do a video on breastfeeding positions and deep latching techniques. Still for many new moms its nightmare... including me
Hi there! 😊
Thanks a lot for your input!! ❤️
To be honest with you, we tried to do a video about correct breastfeeding already several times. But we always end up not recording it. And the reason is that breastfeeding tips should really be based on each individual case. The problem is that we could only produce a video with general statements about breastfeeding, but this may not help a woman with her individual needs.
The other thing is: we cannot find a woman with a newborn who is willing to demonstrate correct latching etc. for us on youtube (understandably). And we think this is really important if we want to produce a helpful video on breastfeeding...
So, at the moment, we don't know how we can produce a helpful video about breastfeeding (although we would love to record one). So, all we currently do is recommend women talking to a breastfeeding consultant. Because the advantage here is that a breastfeeding consultant can look at each individual case and then provide help.
We are very sorry that we cannot be a better help at the moment! ❤️
What a great conclusion. I thought I would end up kneeling, but I knew I should be open to whatever my body told me to do. I ended up side lying, but did still have tears on the labia minora (although I think I have a pelvic tilt which may have influenced that).
I think it's important for women to know about the benefits and risks of each position, but to generally keep an open mind and listen to their body because for most normal and healthy pregnancies the woman's body knows best.
Thanks SO MUCH for commenting and sharing your story with us!! It's always great to hear how women experienced labor and birth and how they see it now, after having given birth to a baby! So, we really appreciate your comment! ❤️ 😊
I feel lucky I didnt tear more. I had small first degrees tears even tho pushing went very fast and they used the ventous extractor due to fetal distress both times. SO my pushing never lasted long and the baby exited fast. My body goes into strong fast contractions at one point and even the days before I was having pretty strong ones that I couldnt sleep through on and off. Could barely eat or drink, pooped like 10 times XD So those days + then the contraction storm I think made the baby too distressed
Hi there 😘,
that is actually quite surprising: with instrumental deliveries (of any kind - though forceps are far worse), women often get at least second degree tears.... So, great to hear that you "only" got first degree tears...
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@@RapunzelASMR We know exactly what you mean! 🙈🙈🙈
Hello ! Giving all this informations and studies that shows upright positions are the best..why are still hospitals and doctors that simply dont follow this new good discovery for women? For what are made those studies if they dont use its 😕 i really dont want to give birth lying on my back but we're forced
Hi there! ❤️
Yes, unfortunately, from what we can see, this very much depends on the country and hospital. For example, we have read that in China, back lying positions are still the number 1 birthing position while in France, for instance, the preferred way is a kneeling position.
It would really be ideal if women could choose themselves! This is how it should be! It's their body, their delivery and their decision!
All the best for you and your baby!! ❤️
Amazing channel
Thanks SO MUCH Stephanie!! 🥰 👍 😊
New video! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
And more to come!!! 😊😊😘
What about water births? 🧐
Hi there 😊,
unfortunately, there are not really good studies on water births and their outcomes in terms of tearing. In general, the problem is that scientists classify those women who had an episiotomy as "women who did not tear". However, I don't know about you. But to me, having an episiotomy and tearing is pretty much the same (not quite - but you know what I mean).
We can only say this much: doctors don't like water births that much because they don't have a good overview of what's going on "down there" and because they cannot perform an episiotomy "if needed"....
We wish you ALL THE BEST for you and your baby!! ❤️
Can I do perineal massage from 29 weeks onword
Hi there 😊,
this IS possible, but not required (we normally start with this in week 35). Just get the approval of your doctor first (particularly in case there are infections etc.) And please make sure that you use a ph-neutral lubricant such as olive oil!
Thank you!
We wish you ALL THE BEST for you and your baby!! ❤️