Bro we light skinned latinos (and other races that aren't white but light skinned) catch lot of folks slipping like crazy. Racism still exist in this world and its not always whitey thats racist.
My kid was mistreated by black teachers and black students cause of his white color. Most people don’t think my kid is Mexican because of how white he is.
True. Got a sister who liked a niece who was very light would favor her over her brother. Thant my sis who was the mom said if anything happened to her take her kids. The other sister said you take the boy I the girl….what nerve!!🤬🤔🧐🙄🤣
That kindness to me is suspicious. Where did that sister learn racism? Is not genetic it's a learned stupidity. The mom married a passing latino with a non passing daughter. That story isn't complete. Op left a lot out about that stepmother and her true colors
@@chandramiller5119 It was briefly suggested that the stepsister may have learned it from her bio-dad, and it was stated that stepmother's previous marriage had ended in divorce; although OP didn't want to speculate, these two things may not be unrelated. Nevertheless, OP did say flat out that she "ended up seeing that woman more as a mother"; IMO that says good things about stepmom's 'true colors'.
@wolfskinchanger you are right! I had missed that the sister had a brief moment with her bio father when I first listened. It makes me sad that the parents didn't do more to correct or reprogram that horrible way of thinking. It's counter productive and hurtful. In the end it will limit her life experiences
Hey Op You don't have to do anything! You don't have to be her maid of honor. Cut off all ties and live your life without her in it since she doesn't respect you. Why TF did you have to pay for your sister's dress? She should've paid for her own damn dress
Op I'm glad you got revenge on your racist stepsister by playing the video of her and the fiance's brother affair it helped the fiancee dodged a bullet but cause drama within his family😂😂.
Switching the dress was probably going too far, and probably unnecessary considering that exposing the infidelity had a far larger effect, but if OP paid for the dress even after being replaced as MoH (setting aside that the MoH shouldn't have to pay for the bride's dress in the first place), then I can't honestly say I blame her.
That "almost" wedding sounded like a bigger three ring circus, than Ringling Brothers! I have been to some wild weddings, but that one took more than the cake!
Sounds like a wonderful afternoon of entertainment going on into the evening! The only weddings I've been too that were that exciting involved drama among other wedding parties members, not the bride and groom.
It's called FAFO, after all, she called her the name after she purchased the dress and picked a needless fight to get rid of her, especially MOH title. Op can sell that dress and recoup some funds especially if it wasn't altered which is what she said. Ppl use that word and then play victim in the aftermath 💯❗‼️ a lot of risk using that word and no legal recourse BC hate crime/harassment 🙎🏽♀️🙎🏽😡
OP may have did it for revenge, but she did the best thing for the groom. Otherwise, we would have read one of those stories where the husband finds out that his wife is sleeping with his brother.
What is wrong with OP? Why switch the dress if she was going to derail the whole wedding? She is mad at the sister but not as upset with the parents, who didn't punish the sister for her racist views even though they heard comments about her behavior
You can't make someone else take your side especially parents. Very high schoolish to want ppl to side with you 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽 op handled one on one like she should 💯
ESH. first of all, Emily is a racist AH and had no right to treat OP the way she did. I have some problems with OPs dad and stepmom being so oblivious to the way Emily was treating OP, and especially OPs dad. OP did give her dad and Stepmom a heads up about how strange it was that she was asked to be MOH. And she even came right out, and both of these people had to admit that there were some red flags. But they insisted on not letting OP nope out of the honor because "family". Well, so far up till now I was seeing things OPs way. As far as what happened on the whole dress thing, OP did nothing wrong speaking to a friend while out with her sister. And I feel like Emily never was sincere about the MOH offer. I am not quite sure why OP was expected by everyone to pay for the wedding gown either. I can tell you right now I personally think that OP should have told Emily after her little racist outburst and the demotion from maid of honor that the dress was not coming out of her pocket and either the new Maid of Honor could pay for the dress or little miss bride would pay for it herself, but this girl isn't buying a gown for a racist POS. I have some problems with OP for not walking away from the mess right then and there, telling her family that she was not going to be the maid of honor or pay for miss lily whites wedding gown, and oh, by the way her is a video I took of Emily at the bachelorette party making out with her grooms brother and I forwarded that to him before I came in here to tell you that you raised a racist and a cheater. I think the whole dress thing was pretty stupid and childish really OP. I actually think it was good that you let the groom know about Emily. In fact I don't even fault you for showing the video publicly at the wedding the way you did. That I did not feel was too far, but the messing with the dress thing was sucky because it was actually so beneath you.
Everyone sucked in this story. Emily sucked for being racist (nothing wrong with her dating preferences but treating OP and OP's black friends like that is unacceptable), the parents sucked for not dealing with their daughter's racist attitude, and OP sucked for just going off to meet her friend (even for 5 minutes). While it is petty to kick someone out of the bridal party for going off for 5 minutes you're there for the bride. I personally can't imagine leaving my bride to be sister to go meet a friend regardless of how long it was 🤷🏾♀️ I originally thought it was wrong for her to steal the dress but at the end of the day OP paid for it so it's hers. Emily should've learned not to bite her sister's hand 😂
I agree with you saying that everybody sucks here. I hear jealousy from the original poster. I hear racism from the original reposter. The girl has a preference of who she wants to date. Maybe she likes blonde haired boys. That's up to her that's her preference. This original poster is just as racist if not more so than the sister. She was judging the sister on her preference of what men she liked.... she has a lot of hang ups for being biracial. And I think she really does not like white people... This is a two-way street of racism. And know that dress was not hers because she gifted it to the bride. Once you gift something to somebody it's no longer yours. That's what you giving somebody something for Christmas and turning around and stealing it and saying "well you know I bought it."
@@Justin-A-CarterOMG, there is nothing two ways about it. Calling Op racist is ridiculous. She has friends NOT based on their skin color, and she doesn't make disparaging comments about other people because of their physical appearance. Her hang up isn't about being biracial. her "hangup" is how people are being treated color. Stop with the made up whataboutism.
@@stephenstevens6573 I think the original poster is showing around racism term too much. When she's also a racist. She judged her sister for liking blonde haired men, I can hear the envy and dislike of white people in her tone. Both of them suck. But I find the original poster more offensive
It's called FAFO, after all, she called her the name after she purchased the dress and picked a needless fight to get rid of her, especially MOH title. Op can sell that dress and recoup some funds especially if it wasn't altered which is what she said. Ppl use that word and then play victim in the aftermath 💯❗‼️ a lot of risk using that word and no legal recourse BC hate crime/harassment 🙎🏽♀️🙎🏽😡
This story made me angry. The OP was a mess and so was her sister. Your skin is not a flaw so don't be ashamed of it. You are blessed to have color to your skin. Your sister was upset she didn't have her father, that was a personal problem that had nothing to do with you. But you should have a talk with your step mom, racism is a learned skill of foolery. Your stepmother will know where your sister learned it from. Your revenge with the dress was unnecessary as well as your showing her infidelity in public. You could have shown the boyfriend the video in private and ruined her quietly. You fed some of the stereotypes people enjoy spreading about us as WOC. I know it's hard to combat them out in town and then to have to fight them within the family with no real buffer has to be just as hard, but you were given the task because the universe knew you could handle it with grace. Do better sis. You will make it worse if you continue to go about things in a combative way. Walk away and allow her to look like the foolish garden tool she is.
@ccksmith82 In all honesty isn't that worse? You live with your sister who you cam clearly see every day but you choose to identify with the lies presented on TV? But she did say she was a "typical dumb" blonde. Didn't realize that was literal. Again, just sad.
@@chandramiller5119 I meant OP didn't know how to react the way most POC's do and she learned from TV or movies. It totally sounds like a made for TV movie revenge.
Which reinforces the fact that this, as well as most Reddit stories are simply made up revenge scenarios feeding into people's narcissim. People just suck when they have to make ish up just to get attention
OP is nasty and petty. The Stepsister ruined a wedding, the extreme cost and or the pain endured by the two families. I agree that some revenge was merited but seriously this was over the top.
Nah, it was the consequences of Sis's lifelong behavior toward Op. And at least she didn't stay married to the groom while being in love with the brother and possibly having kids with the groom that were really the brother's. That would be another story for Mr. Reddito.
@@leilaniduffins3013people defending the sister as if she didn’t literally bully her sister her entire life AND call her the n word and other racist slurs is crazy to me
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Bro we light skinned latinos (and other races that aren't white but light skinned) catch lot of folks slipping like crazy. Racism still exist in this world and its not always whitey thats racist.
My kid was mistreated by black teachers and black students cause of his white color. Most people don’t think my kid is Mexican because of how white he is.
I’m glad you caught those slippery undertones.
But yet still act as if you’re white and wish you are white. Colorism is just as bad as the of people of color communities.
True. Got a sister who liked a niece who was very light would favor her over her brother. Thant my sis who was the mom said if anything happened to her take her kids. The other sister said you take the boy I the girl….what nerve!!🤬🤔🧐🙄🤣
For once, there's a step mother who is actually nice to the OP!
That kindness to me is suspicious. Where did that sister learn racism? Is not genetic it's a learned stupidity. The mom married a passing latino with a non passing daughter. That story isn't complete. Op left a lot out about that stepmother and her true colors
@@chandramiller5119 It was briefly suggested that the stepsister may have learned it from her bio-dad, and it was stated that stepmother's previous marriage had ended in divorce; although OP didn't want to speculate, these two things may not be unrelated.
Nevertheless, OP did say flat out that she "ended up seeing that woman more as a mother"; IMO that says good things about stepmom's 'true colors'.
@wolfskinchanger you are right! I had missed that the sister had a brief moment with her bio father when I first listened. It makes me sad that the parents didn't do more to correct or reprogram that horrible way of thinking. It's counter productive and hurtful. In the end it will limit her life experiences
Hey Op You don't have to do anything! You don't have to be her maid of honor. Cut off all ties and live your life without her in it since she doesn't respect you. Why TF did you have to pay for your sister's dress? She should've paid for her own damn dress
And she offered to do so...making this even more egregious
Op I'm glad you got revenge on your racist stepsister by playing the video of her and the fiance's brother affair it helped the fiancee dodged a bullet but cause drama within his family😂😂.
Switching the dress was probably going too far, and probably unnecessary considering that exposing the infidelity had a far larger effect, but if OP paid for the dress even after being replaced as MoH (setting aside that the MoH shouldn't have to pay for the bride's dress in the first place), then I can't honestly say I blame her.
Actually, it was hers.....she paid for it and can resell and recoup some funds💯‼️❗ best way to ruin a wedding is THE DRESS AND/OR RING.
That "almost" wedding sounded like a bigger three ring circus, than Ringling Brothers! I have been to some wild weddings, but that one took more than the cake!
Everyone sucks in this story.
Stepsister " im not racist but...."
Me " nope you are, in fact I'm kind of surprised that people like still exist with your backwards views"
Sounds like a wonderful afternoon of entertainment going on into the evening! The only weddings I've been too that were that exciting involved drama among other wedding parties members, not the bride and groom.
KUDOS TO YOU OP . Always stand up to racism . I like what you did, you go girl !!! 👍 .
Damn! OP was the boss!
It's called FAFO, after all, she called her the name after she purchased the dress and picked a needless fight to get rid of her, especially MOH title. Op can sell that dress and recoup some funds especially if it wasn't altered which is what she said. Ppl use that word and then play victim in the aftermath 💯❗‼️ a lot of risk using that word and no legal recourse BC hate crime/harassment 🙎🏽♀️🙎🏽😡
OP may have did it for revenge, but she did the best thing for the groom. Otherwise, we would have read one of those stories where the husband finds out that his wife is sleeping with his brother.
So op is blaming everyone for being stupid 😒
Why was OP paying for the dress. Not her responsibility
A gift ?😊
Her parents sort of made her as the sister of the bride, NOT the MOH.
If I ever have to hear another story with an "Emily" in it, it will be too soon. Sheesh
What is wrong with OP? Why switch the dress if she was going to derail the whole wedding?
She is mad at the sister but not as upset with the parents, who didn't punish the sister for her racist views even though they heard comments about her behavior
You can't make someone else take your side especially parents. Very high schoolish to want ppl to side with you 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽 op handled one on one like she should 💯
WOW...Just WOW
Merry Christmas, Mr.Reddito!
same to you
Whoa overkill😂
Is op not racist as well?
Sounds like the hate is going both ways here
no nothing racist about her
Karma
ESH. first of all, Emily is a racist AH and had no right to treat OP the way she did. I have some problems with OPs dad and stepmom being so oblivious to the way Emily was treating OP, and especially OPs dad. OP did give her dad and Stepmom a heads up about how strange it was that she was asked to be MOH. And she even came right out, and both of these people had to admit that there were some red flags. But they insisted on not letting OP nope out of the honor because "family". Well, so far up till now I was seeing things OPs way. As far as what happened on the whole dress thing, OP did nothing wrong speaking to a friend while out with her sister. And I feel like Emily never was sincere about the MOH offer. I am not quite sure why OP was expected by everyone to pay for the wedding gown either. I can tell you right now I personally think that OP should have told Emily after her little racist outburst and the demotion from maid of honor that the dress was not coming out of her pocket and either the new Maid of Honor could pay for the dress or little miss bride would pay for it herself, but this girl isn't buying a gown for a racist POS.
I have some problems with OP for not walking away from the mess right then and there, telling her family that she was not going to be the maid of honor or pay for miss lily whites wedding gown, and oh, by the way her is a video I took of Emily at the bachelorette party making out with her grooms brother and I forwarded that to him before I came in here to tell you that you raised a racist and a cheater. I think the whole dress thing was pretty stupid and childish really OP. I actually think it was good that you let the groom know about Emily. In fact I don't even fault you for showing the video publicly at the wedding the way you did. That I did not feel was too far, but the messing with the dress thing was sucky because it was actually so beneath you.
I don’t blame you one bit.
Everyone sucked in this story. Emily sucked for being racist (nothing wrong with her dating preferences but treating OP and OP's black friends like that is unacceptable), the parents sucked for not dealing with their daughter's racist attitude, and OP sucked for just going off to meet her friend (even for 5 minutes). While it is petty to kick someone out of the bridal party for going off for 5 minutes you're there for the bride. I personally can't imagine leaving my bride to be sister to go meet a friend regardless of how long it was 🤷🏾♀️
I originally thought it was wrong for her to steal the dress but at the end of the day OP paid for it so it's hers. Emily should've learned not to bite her sister's hand 😂
I agree with you saying that everybody sucks here. I hear jealousy from the original poster. I hear racism from the original reposter. The girl has a preference of who she wants to date. Maybe she likes blonde haired boys. That's up to her that's her preference. This original poster is just as racist if not more so than the sister. She was judging the sister on her preference of what men she liked.... she has a lot of hang ups for being biracial. And I think she really does not like white people...
This is a two-way street of racism. And know that dress was not hers because she gifted it to the bride. Once you gift something to somebody it's no longer yours. That's what you giving somebody something for Christmas and turning around and stealing it and saying "well you know I bought it."
@@Justin-A-CarterOMG, there is nothing two ways about it. Calling Op racist is ridiculous. She has friends NOT based on their skin color, and she doesn't make disparaging comments about other people because of their physical appearance. Her hang up isn't about being biracial. her "hangup" is how people are being treated color. Stop with the made up whataboutism.
Telenova!
Everybody sucks here. Racism is terrible but what this op did was criminal. I heard a lot of envy and jealousy.
Exactly...can you say carrying a Chip on her shoulder. Blaming everybody for perception
What was the crime?
@@shells500tutubo stealing. When you gift somebody something. Is no longer than yours.
@@stephenstevens6573 I think the original poster is showing around racism term too much. When she's also a racist. She judged her sister for liking blonde haired men, I can hear the envy and dislike of white people in her tone.
Both of them suck. But I find the original poster more offensive
It's called FAFO, after all, she called her the name after she purchased the dress and picked a needless fight to get rid of her, especially MOH title. Op can sell that dress and recoup some funds especially if it wasn't altered which is what she said. Ppl use that word and then play victim in the aftermath 💯❗‼️ a lot of risk using that word and no legal recourse BC hate crime/harassment 🙎🏽♀️🙎🏽😡
She kissed him...not like she screwed him for God's sake
Cheating is cheating.
imagine defending cheating
OP gone too far. Telling more about her real personality.
OP told her real personality from the beginning
This story made me angry. The OP was a mess and so was her sister. Your skin is not a flaw so don't be ashamed of it. You are blessed to have color to your skin. Your sister was upset she didn't have her father, that was a personal problem that had nothing to do with you. But you should have a talk with your step mom, racism is a learned skill of foolery. Your stepmother will know where your sister learned it from. Your revenge with the dress was unnecessary as well as your showing her infidelity in public. You could have shown the boyfriend the video in private and ruined her quietly. You fed some of the stereotypes people enjoy spreading about us as WOC. I know it's hard to combat them out in town and then to have to fight them within the family with no real buffer has to be just as hard, but you were given the task because the universe knew you could handle it with grace. Do better sis. You will make it worse if you continue to go about things in a combative way. Walk away and allow her to look like the foolish garden tool she is.
She wasn't raised by POC, so she probably only had the things she saw on TV and in movies as a reference.
@ccksmith82 In all honesty isn't that worse? You live with your sister who you cam clearly see every day but you choose to identify with the lies presented on TV? But she did say she was a "typical dumb" blonde. Didn't realize that was literal. Again, just sad.
@@chandramiller5119 I meant OP didn't know how to react the way most POC's do and she learned from TV or movies. It totally sounds like a made for TV movie revenge.
@@ccksmith82 I agree
Which reinforces the fact that this, as well as most Reddit stories are simply made up revenge scenarios feeding into people's narcissim. People just suck when they have to make ish up just to get attention
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It takes a racist to know a racist. So op is racist too
How would you know? You must be racist too
R u 4 real??
Wrong
OP is nasty and petty. The Stepsister ruined a wedding, the extreme cost and or the pain endured by the two families. I agree that some revenge was merited but seriously this was over the top.
Nah, it was the consequences of Sis's lifelong behavior toward Op. And at least she didn't stay married to the groom while being in love with the brother and possibly having kids with the groom that were really the brother's. That would be another story for Mr. Reddito.
Girl Bye 👋🏾
@@leilaniduffins3013people defending the sister as if she didn’t literally bully her sister her entire life AND call her the n word and other racist slurs is crazy to me
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dude this video is propaganda