Q&A | Traveling With My Ex, School Decisions This Fall, Disney Plans | Summer 2020
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Jen, you kidding me, I love the sound of wind in the background and it does look refreshing too;) and you still sound good and clear;)you look great as usual, thanks for sharing;)
RPG G I love hearing the wind too. Jen looks so relaxed.
RPG G so true, it’s beyond annoying and don’t forget” excuse the pimple on my face” 🤦♀️🤦♀️
The co family situation can definelty work. Me and my husband go and eat dinner with my ex-mother-in-law all the time. She will always be my mother-in-law. And she looks at me as one of hers. She really struggled with mine and her sons divorce at first, but once she realized we could all still be "family". She loves my husband. She loves her daughter in law (my exes wife). We all get along and are planning my youngest daughters upcoming wedding. It can be done beautifully ❤
That’s so great
The same thing happened for my mother when she and my father got divorced. My grandmother (her MIL) embraced her and maintained the same relationship with her. It was so wonderful and I'm so thankful it happened that way. 💜
How great that is for you children, I’m sure they appreciate that situation more than you know!
Yes to this! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story 💕
That’s so lovely! Kudos to you all 💕
My grandparents raised me. They divorced when I was in high school. They did not do well as a married couple but after the divorce they were best friends. They went to dinner every Friday, spoke on the phone daily. He still got her gifts on Mother’s Day and sweetest day. When he passed my grandma said she lost her best friend. They just weren’t a match as a married couple.
I feel like every. single. TH-cam video I watch the creator apologizes about some production element. It’s annoying to me bc it actually distracts from the video and the content bc now I’m paying attention to something I wouldn’t even have noticed otherwise. “Sorry about my voice I have a cold. Sorry about the background noise. Sorry about the lighting it’s cloudy outside.” I literally don’t even notice half of things they point out and care about zero of them. I didn’t buy a movie ticket to watch the video, so I’m not expecting a cinematic masterpiece. Do people actually complain about this stuff? Stop apologizing. You’re good girl.
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THIS. Very well said. I watched a video where the person said “sorry my neighbor is cutting their grass” 1. I can’t hear the lawn mower to save my life 2. I don’t expect professional audio visual for a TH-cam video.
But if she doesnt address it 100s of people will comment and complain about the wind and maybe she doesn't want to have to deal with it... damned if you do damned if you dont
agree, i almost never notice the noises in the background people apologize about, even after i've been made aware. i understand that otherwise someone will end up complaining but i find apologizing for no reason irksome :/
@@Mantha1006 so true! I agree with Heather, but we all know there are people who will attack Jen for the stupidest reasons.
Meal planning trick: Assign something to a specific day of every week. Here are some examples: Monday - Mexican. Tuesday - potatoes. Wednesday - rice. Thursday - noodles. Friday - pizza. Saturday - eat out. Sunday - slow cooker.
I have pinterest board for EACH category/day.
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Each day I write 5 “gratitudes” and 5 “I’m proud of myself” in a journal. I changed it up a little. I use to write 10 gratitudes a day and I am truly grateful for many things. However, we don’t give ourselves enough credit for the things we are proud of that we achieve each day. Some days it hard to just get up and get going when things don’t feel bright and happy. Sometimes we need to give ourselves a pat on the back for forging through scary things and acknowledge we are proud of ourselves for doing it. I find this is helpful for me to go back and read all that I have achieved as well as what I am grateful for. ❤️
I actually really like the wind 😍 kind of like Asmr ❤️ relaxing
Me too🤣🤣🤣
I was coming on to say the same thing!
Agreed! Super relaxing 😊
The wind is not a problem!
Agree
I'm so glad you and Don can get along for the children. you look so healthy and happy. im overjoyed for you. blessing to you and your family
I’m so happy you are able to maintain a great relationship with Don and your in-laws. You seem so genuinely yourself. Less hard on yourself to strive for perfection and just rolling with the punches. I’m so happy for you.
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You and Don are giving your children the most amazing gift you'll ever give them. To co-parent children in a peaceful way is practically unheard of. I'm so impressed still, of the effort it took to get to this place. Love to see you so calm, and have beautifully have moved into your own place in the world.
This setting seems absolutely peaceful and honestly, it's like listening to the waves at the ocean to me, so calming. I'm glad you didn't refilm it :) Happy for all of you that you recognize the ongoing relationships you have even as they've changed. It's such a blessing to a kid growing up in this dynamic (speaking from experience as that kid!)
I loved the wind. It felt like chatting outdoors with a friend. To keep myself grounded, I pray and meditate.
I now , at 58 , after having failed marriage, I feel blessed that I am WOMAN. I take one day at a time , and figure it out then. No more planning, no more putting un necessary stress on myself. It's wonderful. Now with COVID as a nurse I appreciate the tiniest things in life, like taking a shower and spraying myself with my favorite scent, eating a tomato I grew. It was a long time coming. I was never, fortunately , spoiled so I'm so much stronger, and that's a great thing.
Jen, if you start camping the kids will adjust and they will sleep better quite easily. We started camping with our children when our youngest was 2 years old and we have camped every year (except for 2020) since then, sometimes for extended periods. We camp in a tent, not even an RV. They LOVE it. About four years ago, we did a three-week trip to Namibia and it was amazing. We live in South Africa, so Namibia is quite close. We also have plenty fo national parks to choose from for camping experiences.
As to the COVID situation, I burnt out four years ago and the lesson I took away from that experience is that I must observe the boundaries between my sphere of influence and my sphere of control. Sometimes we can influence more than we can control, and to try to influence the uncontrollable is impossible.
I had to be reminded of that this year, because my children are in grade 7 and grade 11. Our school year starts in January and ends in December. Schools closed on the 20th of March and my Grade 11 only went back to school in the middle of June (we had a staggered approach, the Grade 7 one went back at the beginning of June). 2 Weeks after that, the schools closed again for a month. My kids did have online school, but my Grade 11, who has never done well at school for various reasons, completely disengaged and did almost no work. It almost drove me to distraction until I realised that it was out of my control. I can only influence him, not control him.
Good luck with your decision!
It's good to hear that you and Don are still friends. I hope you'll share more stories of your trip, if you feel like it. It was nice to see Don during the first pool story and when CC was sitting with him during movie night. It's good for the kids to see you getting along and to be able to do things as a family.
I missed the pool story and CC sitting with Don for the movie. How did this happen?
@@lindaalberts8770 She shared those stories near the beginning of their trip. If you have Instagram she shares stories sometimes. They only last 24 hours though. I think it's probably easier to share on Instagram because you don't have to get a vlogging camera out and then upload to TH-cam. It was nice to see them all together having fun at the pool and sitting together as a family for movie night. I think it's best for the kids when divorced parents can get along like Jen and Don do.
I agree with the comments I strangely liked the wind lol! You're looking so healthy and bright today!
No need to apologize Jen the video was perfect to me and yes I can still listen very clearly. The wind and scenery is what made it special and refreshing. Loved it!! Glad you're doing well and looking amazing too. Thank you for sharing :)
You are the most peaceful that I have ever seen you. I am so happy for you Jen. Sometimes we don’t realize the weight of the burden we are carrying until it is lifted. Have a blessed day💐
Truth!
Strangely enjoyed the wind! It was very relaxing and exactly what I needed :) I've been listening to a lot of ambient sounds for studying, it reminded me of that.
Lots of people are saying the same! I’m so glad you like it ☺️
I absolutely love that you and Don are still friends. It's the greatest gift you both can give to your children!! When my parents divorced it was bitter and hateful and they played me against one another--not good!!
@@RAH1124 She has!!
I love that you and Don are friends are work well together. Going through a divorce myself (a place I never thought I’d be at 26/27), I wish things were more amicable along the way. Maybe one day, we can get to a happy place. Love you! ❤️
It can be so difficult in the transition phase but there is opportunity for peace in the end
Your positivity, gratitude and peaceful demeanor are inspiring. Thank you for being genuine and true to yourself. 💕
I applaud you for your candor and happy to hear that things are going well at this difficult time. I'm one of those that couldn't put a divorce and Utah together, but I'm happy for y'all.
I found the wind refreshing and background lovely. From someone that has been in my home for the most part of 5 months I felt like I was somewhere else. It's beautiful there, enjoy. Thank you for sharing.
I really just go with the flow! Change doesn’t bother me! I just want to say the transformation you’ve made from not being so hard on yourself is beautiful to watch!
So great that you’re able to remain friends - especially with kids. Shows a lot of grace and selfless. The world needs more of that!
The wind wasn’t distracting at all. It’s impossible to be outside in nature and not enjoy the sounds it provides. I have been watching your channel for many years now and I’m so amazed how much you’ve evolved into such an awesome person. Your outlook on life is so positive and inspirational, thank you for allowing us to be a part of your life. I look forward to seeing how your journey continues.
Loved the update . The wind was not really a problem. Lovely to see you and your ex able to get along and share this trip.
You are right, once you have children with someone , that is your family and most certainly the children’s family. I still take trips with my ex’s family which are my kid’s aunts uncles and cousins (30 years later, no lie). Good for you and Don. It is so good for the children to see you getting along😀
I absolutely love how you said that: “anchor yourself in gratitude”, I’m going to steal that! I’m a very positive person with little stress and I always say the key to happiness is to have an attitude of gratitude. It’s hard to dwell on the difficult parts in life when you intentionally focus on the things you’re lucky to have. You and Don are amazing parents and your kids are so lucky to have you. Not everyone is able to put what’s best for their children first. I have a 1 and 3 year old and we just bought a camper this summer. They’ve been loving it! But yes, no sleeping 🤪
Meal planning for me is literally pulling out my small recipe binder and choosing meals from there. Super basic meals like sloppy joes, slow cooker chicken, tacos, etc. Nothing fancy over here! Takes a lot of pressure off of me. I would love to see future vids of your laid back meal ideas.
You look beautiful Jen! You are strong. To be friends with your ex is amazing!! Especially for your kids. Keep being you xxx
So happy to hear you and Don are good friends....he seems like such a good, warm , sensitive person , who loves you and his children. Romantically connected doesn’t always work out , as humans are wired with many variable components. But, each year brings more awareness to the world that people don’t choose their sexuality; it’s how they’re made, and we’re all more accepting of each other,. A good person is a good person. And we’re all lucky to have a good person in our lives.
We travelled full time in our RV for almost three years. Most amazing memories!
Thanks for the little catch up :) I started watching your videos for all the holiday decor and craft room stuff long ago. I have enjoyed following your journey and have a 4 and 2 yr old of my own now too! I'm happy that you will be sharing regular content again and can't wait to see what adventures you will share next !
I can hear the sadness in your voice, yet I can see the full strength of you moving forward.
You can always rent your 2020 DVC points out and bank 2021 points til the next year to give more time to decide. So glad you guys are having fun, I bet the kids love having everyone together to play and do activities
The wind did not bother me at all! It sounds nice :)
I really admire you and Don for so amicably working through your co-parenting. My mom's parents divorced when she was very young and it was a very nasty break up and she ended up not spending much time with her dad at all growing up or her two younger half-siblings. It was partly due to my grandmother moving her around but also just because they could not co-parent and amicably work together
The wind was just ‘vacation mode’ and totally appropriate :)
I love that you are there in your happy place with the kids and your ex and his family..the children will remember these times for life🥰🥰
So happy to see this mid-vacation update Jenn! What beautiful scenery and even more so, a beautiful video on how you are doing and the way in which you exude grace in your daily life and your interactions. ❤️
So happy for you, Jen! I’m glad you are having a nice trip. Loved this video...You’re amazing. 💛 Amber
The wind is lovely, as are you! Your inner peace and gratitude are shining through, and what a wonderful example yours and Don’s friendship is for your children.
Before selling your DVC, I’d look into renting the points out that you can’t use. There are many services that will handle it all for you, and you’ll make enough to pay the dues and make a profit. Then that way you still have them when you do want to use them. DVC is the only timeshare I know of that actually appreciates in value. This isn’t any kind of ad or sponsorship, just a Disney nerd sharing insight. Haha Side note - the wind was actually lovely and not at all obtrusive.
You always keep it real, Jen! It is so refreshing to watch you because you are just a genuine person. So glad you are enjoying your time in Utah with your family.
I'm DVC too. Just a thought if you are wanting to keep it but don't want to take a loss and aren't going one year you can always rent your points out through services like DVC Rental Store. I used them with my points this year and it covered my dues + some extra!
Thanks for the tip!
You look radiant and really relaxed. I love that you are co-existing with your ex and family. That shows such maturity on both of your parts.
Jen, just wanted to say I love your sense of humor. I found myself smiling or slightly giggling along with you. I wish we lived closer. I live in SW Michigan and just find a lot of what you share relatable. So happy to see you happy. Thanks for sharing.
All I know is you are, by all appearances, handling such a difficult situation with a lot of Grace.
*side note* Utah is gorgeous. We moved to CA almost 3 years ago & have road tripped thru & in it (Utah) a few times. I think my mouth dropped numerous times from the beauty & surreal feeling of so much of its landscape.
The wind didn’t bother me at all, your voice was crisp and clear. I think that is what is important! Glad to hear you are having a relaxing time! You deserve it!
I live in the mountains and that grounds me. Sometimes I actually forget about what’s happening in the world ! I also don’t watch news on TV.
I think this is great that you are prioritizing your children- and your children will be grateful for it in the end!
Lovely honest video. I love the sound of wind and the outdoors.
So glad that the holiday has been so good and that you have all been relaxing.
Take care and keep smiling
Glad to see/hear you are doing so well! I have found daily gratitude to be so helpful for keeping inner peace as well. That and some form of body movement - fitness routine, yoga, stretching, walking, biking, dancing.
I enjoyed the wind blowing even in my headphones. I am so glad you are doing so well.
No worries, the video quality was great and noise was not a problem. It is quite refreshing to watch an outdoor video! I am so glad that things are going well for you and the family! You should be proud of yourselves! Happy for you!
In Nashville, our schools, public & private. Opened, 1 week later, closed until further notice. Minimum will be next semester. Good luck & love to everyone & be safe. There's so much more going on than covid♡
These old videos just make me happy. Nostalgic 🥹
You look so genuinely happy in the thumbnail! I’m so glad you guys were able to make it out to Utah! Hope you enjoy tour time there!
Loved the video and update on how the family is doing. Happy to hear your trip is going so good. You sound so at peace.
Thanks for checking in with us Jen, I always love your Q&A’s (especially your rawness) ❤️
Most of the time the wind irritates me but this was relaxing. It makes me feel less trapped in my city apartment and like I’m out on vacation
Jen, you look so happy and at peace. I’m glad that your family dynamic is so great. I know that it isn’t that way for most. Thanks for sharing and showing those pics of the mountains! I used to live in SLC and I miss seeing them everyday.
I feel the same way about mountains. I love the mountains in Utah, Colorado and Alaska. Utah is an amazingly beautiful state.
I live in an rv full time and it is definitely a great experience. I know many people who do it with kids. Even if just for trips here and there it is definitely great memories.
You embody “we can do hard things”. Thank you for your content!!
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Jen! I love the sound of the wind! Makes me feel like I’m really sitting there enjoying to beautiful view with you! Thanks for sharing
We recently moved with kids during the pandemic - definitely stressful! But we didn’t move far thankfully. We had a packing service which was amazing, we were kind of at a loose end. Kids were at school and preschool thankfully (they went back for June/July here in the UK, back again after the summer holidays this week, thank goodness!). Enjoy your new space x
you look peaceful, content and absolutely beautiful in this new phase of your life. I'm so happy for you!
Hi Jenn, I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing. I have been watching your videos for many years. Your videos have been so helpful with the organization a and cleaning at first then I started watching your other content as well. I've learned a lot from you and I really appreciate you. Glad you are having a good vacation as well. You seem to be such a loving and kind person so I am not surprised that you are still very close to Don and his family. ❤
Your answer about your new normal with Don and his family was exceptional
Long time viewer, first comment (I am pretty sure!) I think you amazing and your outlook on traveling with Don’s family (and your family, so true!) is admirable. Your kids will cherish these memories and you two are modeling great values and parenting. Stay strong Jen!
I loved this so much! Thanks for sharing! Even with the wind I could hear you clearly!
It is so good to see you looking well and projecting such a positive & loving attitude of gratitude! Enjoy the rest of your time in Utah with your family ♥️ We love you, Jennifer!
You look very rested and well in this video. Glad this vacation has worked well for you and your children.
You seriously look so beautiful in this video; youthful as well. Wow, just wow! Your gratitude is showing.
Enjoy the time making memories with your family no matter the dynamics💕
Haven’t even watched yet, but I’m so excited to. Love the new addition of editing Jen 😂 Hope you’re enjoying yourself in Utah!
I loved the ambient sounds. And seeing you so relaxed and content 💜💛💜
Have you ever shared what you do for an arm workout? They look great!
It is great seeing you look so healthy and lighter in spirit since Ive been following your channel.
I think it is wonderful that you have such a positive environment and family members for you and your children. I am so happy you shared that information as I believe you are setting a good example that it is possible.
Jen..you seem relaxed and glad it is working out for you. I pray about situations and give it to God. Any control we have is what he allows us to have in any given situation..and he never leaves us.
Beautiful video. I loved hearing the wind and the plane, so relaxing.
💕I agree the wind and such seems really relaxing! I love it! Thanks so much for sharing!!! 💕
The wind didn't bother me at all jen. You are a busy mom so we understand you only have a limited amount of time to film. Just enjoy getting a video. Thanks
So glad you’ve had a good experience on this trip . Thanks for sharing .
I am DVC too and finalizing the divorce too. I am playing on keeping it till I feel 💯 that I want to keep or sell. Don't move too fast and sell when you aren't ready. Your an amazing woman, mother and media creator. I literally say "yes!" When you upload...you help me so much!
I like hearing the wind it’s very calming...so nice to see you happy Jen xox
Such a beautiful setting for a Q and A! Thanks for sharing :)
What a beautiful backdrop for this video. You look and seem so relaxed. That’s a shame about Disney but like you said, maybe there are other trips in your future. Now that you’re in a different space, instead of Disney every year maybe it’s once every 3 years with other adventures in between with the kids. Options are endless. Enjoy the rest of your time away.❤️
Happy to see you looking well & happy! Thanks for sharing💖
The five minute journal is amazing. Nice to see you looking so happy and relaxed. Enjoy your holiday!
I really enjoyed this video and the location and wind definitely added to the peaceful ambiance. You look so beautiful, healthy, and radiant. You are such a light on this platform. Sending wishes for continued happiness and good health to you and your family! ❤️
I'm so glad to hear you're doing well, Jen. I love your positivity! That's awesome you keep a gratitude journal, and have an attitude of gratitude. =)
I actually enjoyed the sound of the wind. LOL. Anyway you look so relaxed and that patio, that patio, the fireplace......oh how gorgeous. I love Utah.
Thank you for your honesty and openness, you are helping us...being beautiful from the inside out.🌷
I love your relaxing nature and peaceful voice. Glad things are going as well as you could hope. :)
The wind wasn’t that bad, lovely just lovely Q&A, Yes the gratitude that you have is what’s guiding your life force right now thank you so much for your openness, wisdom, and kindness 🙏🏼 I wish you well❤️