Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when everyone takes a lot of drugs like this.
Henry's amateur radio broadcasts are available in the archive audio files from Broadcastify. There were days when Henry would be on the air litterally 18 hrs a day talking to himself about nothing!!!
That's what happens when a man refuses to work. If he can work a radio for 18 hours a day, he needed to let the welfare checks go and get a job at a radio station.
@@bluedistortionsYour jumping to conclusions, nowhere was it said that he was on welfare. Dr Grande only mentioned that he had been in a serious motorcycle accident and was in serious pain. Most likely he was physically unable to work.
@@vejet someone who can't work is on welfare. That's where they get their money. Someone who sits there at his radio for 18 hours is not disabled. (Not to mention the sex breaks.) There are lots of jobs that involve sitting and communicating. If he had been working, like he should have been and was able to, instead of getting government checks and spending them on drugs to hand out to hookers, he would be alive. That's reality, deal with it.
I’m in Australia. I’ve often been frustrated because it’s hard to get painkillers when I need them. Now that I’ve seen so many videos like this, I’m just glad that vulnerable people here are limited in what doctors will provide. It’s not worth the ruining of lives.
It sounds like Ashlie made out in the deal. The court orders her to spend 6 months in a drug treatment facility while Curtis spends at least 15 years in jail, and Henry is dead. Manipulating people's feelings isn't considered a crime, and the court sees her as somebody who can contribute to society if she beats her addiction.
I definitely think she's a huge POS! And junkies by Nature are very manipulative. Even if he gets out of prison, the trajectory of his life has changed drastically, he will always be a felon. But, how much can a person be manipulated into obsessive and paranoid Behavior so bad that you kill someone? I think he's an abusive mate. He might not necessarily hit heard but he's very controlling and that's abusive. I do hope she gets clean only so she can realize the damage she has done. The true Innocents are the children.
To be honest, Curtis is the one who killed that man. He could have just dumped her, but he prefered to kill her lover. Curtis wasn't even on drugs, at least she has the excuse that she was an addict, which is difficult to overcome.
I don't know how he puts out such frequent content, seeing as how each post requires a ton of research before he can make a video. (So it's not like these 15-20 minute videos only take up the 15-20 minutes of footage plus however long he needs to edit.) Dr. G... do you ever sleep? 💤
Another tragic mess described succinctly, analyzed, and neatly presented as a real life lesson for anyone who is awake and paying attention. You may have saved someone from making the same mistakes in the future, Dr. Grande.
I just discovered your channel this month and have no idea how I slept on it for so long- you sir, are such a gem. Everything about your analysis, your delivery, and of course, your low-key, nonchalantly 🔥 burns grabbed me right away and keep me coming back for more. Thank you for doing what you do- Warmly, Jamie from New Haven, Ct.
Reminds me of that lady who had shared custody of their son and went and picked him up from school without telling dad and dad rightfully got angry and went to her house and yelled at her and went to get his son and then her husband came out and shot him. One guy went to prison, the other was killed, and the lady had no consequences even though she was the primary cause of the crime.
Interestingly, in that case the man who did the shooting was not indicted. A grand jury decided it was self defense. Horrible situation all the way around. Totally unnecessary. The little boy lost his dad, new wife lost her new husband, and step dad didn’t get in trouble for escalating the conflict. It was a hard case but I agree with the ruling of self defense. It was unnecessary but still lawful. What a total tragedy
Ashlie got off way to easily. She should receive punishment for assisting her bf in getting rid of the body, plus stealing the drugs. She is a vile human.
Ya and she manipulated Curtis. Depending on how those lies went, how would most react to their partner saying ' a guy sex trafficks me and forces me to have sex for drugs'? Curtis did what a lot of people would do. He got played, and unfortunately didn't have the right state of mind to investigate before acting.
So very sad that a man studies so hard to get a degree and then ends up in jail because of a worthless woman. Feel for him and his family especially if he has parents. Why don't friends come into the picture to help. So much trouble could have been avoided.
Juries can sometimes provide unexpected results. Also, the plea bargain offered was a sweet deal. Men don't typically get sweetheart plea bargain deal, unless they're the son of powerful men
6 months in rehab!? Holy crap. She got off practically scott free! That's insane. I've been sober for 5 years on Sep 17th. I was addicted to opiates. Similar story. Car accident. Script from a less than responsible doctor who continued to fill them way longer than they should've. When they cut me off, I moved to Heroin. After being involved in that life for years and somehow managing to make it out alive (mostly) in-tact, one thing that I always thought to myself was, "Thank God I wasn't born female." Because I know for a fact that I would have used my body to get drugs or, more likely, gotten turned out by an opportunistic dealer. Young women who become addicts are so incredibly vulnerable to being trafficked, among other things. I don't know that I would have made it out if that were what I had to deal with regularly.
I had the same experience. Mid 2000's, legit injury, over prescribed, cut off abruptly, had become dependent, sought illegal opiates, full addiction set in, typical misery and chaos ensued. I'm a woman and feel extremely fortunate I never had to resort to selling my body. I had a lot of savings that I sadly blew right through and I also made money working for dealers. I'm not naive though, so I realize I can never claim that falling down to a high level of desperation wouldn't eventually result in me going to that extreme. I'd like to think that under no circumstances would I ever do that, but the reality is most women do end up resorting to selling themselves at some point. Like I said, I feel fortunate. But you are absolutely correct that most female addicts do wind up in prostitution. I've personally known 8 female addicts and 7 of them sold their bodies at some point. Very, very sad and scary and hopeless place to be in to justify doing that. Very sad and very telling of the hold addiction can have on a person.
You didn’t mention that Henry Stange was buried alive. I’ll say it again, When Ashlie and Curtis took him to the desert and buried him - Henry was still alive. Cruel and crazy - I cannot believe she’s free.
Agreed.. The justice system failed. Ashlie helped with kidnapping Henry and helped bury Henry alive to die… Curtis got 2nd degree murder??? After a previous attack, 3 months earlier??? Sickening. Henry was no criminal. After 18 years of marriage, he was lonely. When he met this conniving, manipulative woman, he fell hard and fast.
How does someone survive a hammer strike to the head thats so strong in bends the hammer? Youd think that thing would have gone all the way into his skull.
The human body can be unbelievably resilient sometimes. There was a rail worker years ago who got a giant railroad spike going through his skull and brain, and he lived.
As someone who has become reliant on prescription medication to cope with numerous health conditions, it frightens me so much that people can reach the height of desperation that they do to just to survive this vicious cycle.
I was just thinking today about when I was in college I used to get angry seeing drug addicts on the streets and I kind of realized it was because they reminded me how close I was to that lifestyle. If one thing goes wrong here or I befriend the wrong person there that could be me on the streets and it freaked me out.
@@ceilconstante640 no ...u can fall into this trap.I have severe chronic pain Most of the days i cannot even take a shower Believe me,i ve done many stupid things cause i just wanted the pain to stop "U don't get it,till u get it".... #invisible_illnes #you_dont_look_sick
I will never understand why some men would prefer to be with such a train wreck instead of being single. I'm single; I would love to get married, however, I would prefer being miserably single than in a relationship like this!
I’ve observed the “hero” complex in men frequently. They want to save a girl, so they’ll latch on to a useless, toxic woman, only to be disappointed in the long run. Then, when you’re an independent, hard working, outspoken woman, they’ll run like hell.
it irritates the HECK out of me that judges and juries and prosecutors cannot see the OBVIOUS bs that people like this do to manipulate other people into doing so many things, and they should be held more accountable.
@@elle9543She went to court for violating probation. Her probation officer was present and asked the judge to put her in prison. The judge gave her another chance after Ashlie Stapp Paddock told the judge she was going to become a drug counselor…. She only finished a few more months, and was released- only to leave the State..:
@@burtreynolds3143She was and IS a murderer…. Had her murder and kidnapping charges… Henry loved her. She was using Henry for his meager 30 pill a month supply of OxyContin. Promising him a relationship….
From the outside looking in, the justice system doesn't seem to dole out the same punishment person-by-person. Some get 25 years for accessory to murder and others get 180 day drug rehab.
Hello Dr. Grande😃🥰 Thank you for the video! Although all true crime cases are mind-boggling, It's situations & scenarios like the one you're speaking of today that both confuse me & inrage me at the same time. Makes zero sense as to how they thought this would even work out. I hope you enjoyed your holiday weekend!
He clearly played himself. The military teaches you about accountability. He clearly did not pay attention. I guarantee you he was told by multiple people she was a hoe.
I am scared for my son (Marine) his new wife has similar issues he's not aware of all of them. Scary. When they're active and in reserves they have a $400,000 life insurance policy. Well my son does anyway she talked him into taking me off and one other person and making her the Only one on it this was a couple months Into marriage Only not Long after getting together. Omgoodness
Some people just cannot keep their heads on straight. Like come on lady, you didn’t even get sentenced to prison and you still had to cause trouble 🤦🏻♀️
A lesson (Curtis) or (Kurtis) could've used prior to this experience: Once she disappears, it's time to leave her alone. No one can force someone to be with them happily. Charge it to the game and move on with life. Now he's locked up for over a decade while she's onto the next one...or two...or three.
Curtis : YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT: YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE! Poor guy, in fact poor guys, neither of them deserved this.. and Ashlie was totaled by her addictions as well.
I find it amazing that in almost every case like this, the woman gets a very generous sentence. What Curtis didn’t realize is there will always be another Henry I just don’t get it once a woman does that to you you gotta walk away !!! if he would’ve gotten away with it, it wouldn’t be long before there was another guy who would’ve supplied her with oxycodone !! Yep they always get a free pass. It’s amazing she knew what she was doing. She’s just as guilty as him and they both should be in prison for life.
Another frustrating story (Ashlie did get quite a deal, but I remember what Plato said about the unjust person's very nature being a punishment on its own). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.
Henry's antics are played out on the TH-cam channel Delta November. It was quite entertaining back in the day but unfortunately for Henry, this all came to a very bad end!
I worked at St. Bernadine’s off Waterman in ‘dino. They had the hospital fully locked down (had to have a keycard or get buzzed in) bc of how common it was for addicts to try and barge in to violently strong arm the pharmacy for their fix. ‘dino folks DGAF
I am back in school part time while preparing for full time school this year. Now for sure my second former husband can accuse me of being addicted to learning. Any time student life seems too boring watching another Dr. Grande video episode that might encourage me in learning to like the boring student life style better all the time.
Becoming dependent on drugs after an injury is too often the beginning of a steep downhill in life. Addiction almost always leads to criminal behavior - stealing, promiscuity, lying. The life of the addict becomes rapidly degraded. And yet no responsibility is ever brought back to the drug itself? Those who prescribe drugs should have more of a part in making sure addiction doesn't happen!
I'm a former pill taker. I was in the hospital for surgery and upon my discharge, the doctor told me he would prescribe Oxy for pain. I told him - under no uncertain terms - that I would snort and abuse the drug and to NOT give it to me. When the nurse handed me a script for 90 days of Oxy I got furious and ripped the prescription up in front of the nurses station. I don't even take Ibuprofin to this day.
Drs handed the medication like candy- and he was never told it was addictive back then. Drs gave more when it stopped working for his chronic bone infections. When he stopped taking the meds he was sick… He called Dr and Dr told him he couldn’t just stop. He had to be weaned off it. He had been on the meds for years. 😢 He finally was on one pill a day when he met Ashlie. She was the catalyst to both men’s demise. Curtis is a sick POS- He beat and stomped on Henry for 4 hours, left for a couple of hours. They were hoping Henry would be dead when they came back. But Henry was still living, and had crawled to get help. Who can possibly listen for hours as a man screamed for his pain? A psychopath, that who. And both of them are. They buried Henry alive.
@@TechGorilla1987 Good thinking. You probably saved yourself a world of trouble. 🙏 Henry was prescribed this deadly medication years before the public knew of the danger. Drs wanted to amputate his leg, but he refused- so a specialist did an experimental surgery to save his leg. Drs put a rod in his leg, but he had horrible bone infections and pain. Often he would have at-home IV’s for weeks at a time.
Not necessarily. Two people right here in this analysis addicted to people and way worse off for it. If you like things and can pay for them, you're not hurting anyone.
Thanks for another interesting video. Curtis should of walked away because as far as I could see, Henry and Ashleigh had more in common than Curtis and Ashleigh. But as you said, Curtis had his own addition in Ashleigh. Three weird people.
My ex is just like this woman. She would play so many people against one another and she would play victim and she would get everybody thinking that she was being abused and get people to fight each other it's so sick it's horrible is a horrible horrible jerk
I have the Suicide Disease. Constant pain from a birth defect. I had a craniotomy to try to help and only got Tylenol 3 post op in a Boston Hospital. People like this are the reason I can't get any pain control and I will resent them forever. I'm disabled forever because doctors refuse to give me drugs for fear I will get addicted. I don't even drink coffee. How do people like this get away with this? Ashley should be in jail for life.
As a chronic pain case, crumbling spine, I don’t agree. Opioids let me move and become a human again. It’s the abusers of opioids that make the headlines. I don’t snort, smoke, peel or generally alter the pill in any way. I took it as prescribed and it did help me regain enough movement to get some life. I did “get off” it as I’m not wanting to become dependant, but without it as a pain reliever, I’d probably be dead anyway. I ask my consultants, what’s the best pain reliever to date, that’s non opiate. They say “nothing”.
@@louise2467 Oh sure. I agree. Some people do need them. When I was getting off them years ago a counselor I was seeing said something to the effect of “I’m too young to be dependent on opioids.” I asked “36 is too young to be hurting and in pain?” He replied “No that’s not it. You’re too young to be dependent upon and ‘On’ them constantly. As tolerance goes up we need more or stronger meds. At 36 by the time I was older I’d need so much to just be normal that it didn’t make sense.”
Dr Grande: "On one occasion after drinking heavily, she disappeared". Me: Damm!!! She drank so hard she unlocked superpowers😮? That's some serious drinking.
[4:41] Wow. How hard would one have to hit somebody to bend a hammer like that? I wouldn't even think that was possible. My hammer has smashed many rigid things throughout its life and it's still as straight as the day I got it. They're made to be... tougher than nails, after all. I can't even imagine the force required to bend a steel hammer over someone's head. As morbid as it sounds, I feel like a skull would give way far sooner than a hammer would. I'm perplexed by that photo.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when everyone takes a lot of drugs like this.
I don't. 42+ years of sobriety.
@@Mark-qv4bnAwesome, congrats!
If you enjoy this video please don't do drugs and live recklessly like these people
@@alecstaley1017 But if you must use drugs, use them right!
@@Mark-qv4bn that's excellent! congrats!
If you feel like you need to keep track of her, let her go.
This is a goat level comment
Or, ask yourself if you're a stalker 😅
Exactly. He made the decision to increase his controlling behavior and become violent. She was a THOT and he should have walked away in the beginning.
omg seriously that was my first thought, Like he didnt stop and think wow maybe this isnt working out?
@kneel1 experienced, and drug fueled vaginas preying on a simp with resources can be quite disconcerting I could imagine...
Narcissism is the bane of our society.
Nope, that would be fear and greed
@@artestraUSA is based on greed.
@@artestra those are included in narcissism. OP is correct.
@@ParadoxicaLeo730 Narcissism isn’t specific enough to be “the bane” Everyone knows immediately how destructive greed is
@@Koozomecmost countries are based on greed
Henry's amateur radio broadcasts are available in the archive audio files from Broadcastify. There were days when Henry would be on the air litterally 18 hrs a day talking to himself about nothing!!!
What do you mean, was he rambling on like a crazy person? Or just blabbing on about boring mundane dribble
That's what happens when a man refuses to work.
If he can work a radio for 18 hours a day, he needed to let the welfare checks go and get a job at a radio station.
@@bluedistortionsYour jumping to conclusions, nowhere was it said that he was on welfare. Dr Grande only mentioned that he had been in a serious motorcycle accident and was in serious pain. Most likely he was physically unable to work.
@@vejet someone who can't work is on welfare. That's where they get their money.
Someone who sits there at his radio for 18 hours is not disabled. (Not to mention the sex breaks.) There are lots of jobs that involve sitting and communicating.
If he had been working, like he should have been and was able to, instead of getting government checks and spending them on drugs to hand out to hookers, he would be alive.
That's reality, deal with it.
@@bluedistortions Nowhere was it stated whether he was on welfare or not. Once again, you are speculating about things you know nothing about.
Dr. Grandeeeeeeeeeeeee thanks for all the content. I no longer need a cable subscription thanks to creators like you!
Right? I rarely watch tv anymore.
@@MeganVictoriaKearns
Same.
I’m in Australia. I’ve often been frustrated because it’s hard to get painkillers when I need them. Now that I’ve seen so many videos like this, I’m just glad that vulnerable people here are limited in what doctors will provide. It’s not worth the ruining of lives.
Came to TH-cam to find a video about fixing my dishwasher. Grande posts a new video. I’ll fix it later.
real
Please don’t go to the first 48 full episodes…
You will become a true addict and your life will fall apart. 😂
It sounds like Ashlie made out in the deal. The court orders her to spend 6 months in a drug treatment facility while Curtis spends at least 15 years in jail, and Henry is dead. Manipulating people's feelings isn't considered a crime, and the court sees her as somebody who can contribute to society if she beats her addiction.
I definitely think she's a huge POS! And junkies by Nature are very manipulative.
Even if he gets out of prison, the trajectory of his life has changed drastically, he will always be a felon. But, how much can a person be manipulated into obsessive and paranoid Behavior so bad that you kill someone?
I think he's an abusive mate. He might not necessarily hit heard but he's very controlling and that's abusive.
I do hope she gets clean only so she can realize the damage she has done. The true Innocents are the children.
I do agree with you about Ashley, she should have gotten real prison time. She is just as responsible.
She'll end up unlifing someone for more drugs. Perhaps even an innocent person for money. DA won't care. Judge won't care. They're sociopaths.
To be honest, Curtis is the one who killed that man. He could have just dumped her, but he prefered to kill her lover. Curtis wasn't even on drugs, at least she has the excuse that she was an addict, which is difficult to overcome.
@@ciobalina7445Facts. But to be fair to the him, My Guy was probably a strict Diet of Coloring Crayons.✌
Thank you for your consistency and hard work Dr.G! We appreciate you.
I don't know how he puts out such frequent content, seeing as how each post requires a ton of research before he can make a video. (So it's not like these 15-20 minute videos only take up the 15-20 minutes of footage plus however long he needs to edit.)
Dr. G... do you ever sleep? 💤
@@MeganVictoriaKearnsit's called keeping an eye on the news and past events.
Life goal #23:
NEVER end up the subject on a Dr Grande video!!
lol Love ya Doc!!
Another tragic mess described succinctly, analyzed, and neatly presented as a real life lesson for anyone who is awake and paying attention. You may have saved someone from making the same mistakes in the future, Dr. Grande.
Boggles my mind that men fall for these kind of women.
He was on OXYTOCIN first one
losers seem to be able to sniff each other out
Curtis seems pretty much like a maniac
@@KoolTyou mean a different type of Oxy I think. This one is for inducing labor.
She was very attractive and knew how to work it to get what she wanted.
I just discovered your channel this month and have no idea how I slept on it for so long- you sir, are such a gem. Everything about your analysis, your delivery, and of course, your low-key, nonchalantly 🔥 burns grabbed me right away and keep me coming back for more. Thank you for doing what you do- Warmly, Jamie from New Haven, Ct.
His Patreon content is GREAT!
@@AnnaBelll.e Thank you! I will definitely check it out
Thought the same thing.
Welcome to Dr. Grande’s Classy innuendo and Pun’s community 🤘
I think the best ones are when he talks about Megan Markle...oh he's a hoot!
@@H37P5kY57totally agree! Those are great
Reminds me of that lady who had shared custody of their son and went and picked him up from school without telling dad and dad rightfully got angry and went to her house and yelled at her and went to get his son and then her husband came out and shot him.
One guy went to prison, the other was killed, and the lady had no consequences even though she was the primary cause of the crime.
A man will kill you. A woman will get you killed.
Them fighting over her doesn't make her the cause tho. She really was an accessory after the fact in this case
Interestingly, in that case the man who did the shooting was not indicted. A grand jury decided it was self defense. Horrible situation all the way around. Totally unnecessary. The little boy lost his dad, new wife lost her new husband, and step dad didn’t get in trouble for escalating the conflict. It was a hard case but I agree with the ruling of self defense. It was unnecessary but still lawful. What a total tragedy
@@_HimToo she was a proxy. and a very slick one.
he didnt go to prison.
Ashlie got off way to easily. She should receive punishment for assisting her bf in getting rid of the body, plus stealing the drugs. She is a vile human.
I hate to admit it, but many young, pretty, white women get more privileges in this world than everybody else.
Ya and she manipulated Curtis. Depending on how those lies went, how would most react to their partner saying ' a guy sex trafficks me and forces me to have sex for drugs'? Curtis did what a lot of people would do. He got played, and unfortunately didn't have the right state of mind to investigate before acting.
So very sad that a man studies so hard to get a degree and then ends up in jail because of a worthless woman. Feel for him and his family especially if he has parents. Why don't friends come into the picture to help. So much trouble could have been avoided.
Ofcourse
Juries can sometimes provide unexpected results. Also, the plea bargain offered was a sweet deal. Men don't typically get sweetheart plea bargain deal, unless they're the son of powerful men
Dis girl is DEADLY!!.....We'll be hearing from her again....
6 months in rehab!? Holy crap. She got off practically scott free! That's insane.
I've been sober for 5 years on Sep 17th. I was addicted to opiates. Similar story. Car accident. Script from a less than responsible doctor who continued to fill them way longer than they should've. When they cut me off, I moved to Heroin. After being involved in that life for years and somehow managing to make it out alive (mostly) in-tact, one thing that I always thought to myself was, "Thank God I wasn't born female." Because I know for a fact that I would have used my body to get drugs or, more likely, gotten turned out by an opportunistic dealer. Young women who become addicts are so incredibly vulnerable to being trafficked, among other things. I don't know that I would have made it out if that were what I had to deal with regularly.
I made a very similar post. On and off since at least 2003. I always felt bad knowing what the women had to do.
I had the same experience. Mid 2000's, legit injury, over prescribed, cut off abruptly, had become dependent, sought illegal opiates, full addiction set in, typical misery and chaos ensued. I'm a woman and feel extremely fortunate I never had to resort to selling my body. I had a lot of savings that I sadly blew right through and I also made money working for dealers. I'm not naive though, so I realize I can never claim that falling down to a high level of desperation wouldn't eventually result in me going to that extreme. I'd like to think that under no circumstances would I ever do that, but the reality is most women do end up resorting to selling themselves at some point. Like I said, I feel fortunate. But you are absolutely correct that most female addicts do wind up in prostitution. I've personally known 8 female addicts and 7 of them sold their bodies at some point. Very, very sad and scary and hopeless place to be in to justify doing that. Very sad and very telling of the hold addiction can have on a person.
Horrible situations. I'm glad you have all make it through it.
Carry on.
She's a woman!
You didn’t mention that Henry Stange was buried alive. I’ll say it again, When Ashlie and Curtis took him to the desert and buried him - Henry was still alive. Cruel and crazy - I cannot believe she’s free.
Agreed.. The justice system failed.
Ashlie helped with kidnapping Henry and helped bury Henry alive to die…
Curtis got 2nd degree murder???
After a previous attack, 3 months earlier???
Sickening.
Henry was no criminal. After 18 years of marriage, he was lonely. When he met this conniving, manipulative woman, he fell hard and fast.
She got her murder and kidnapping charges dismissed due to an error in the District Attorney’s Office.
I’m a fan of psychology and dry humor- Dr. Grande is awesome!
“She worked at a Jamba Juice” lol he said it like it was the most outrageous job in the world haha.
After the wonderful *irresistible Ashlie* thumbnail with a new analysis of the great Dr. Grande, I couldn't resist clicking on it. ✨️ ❤️ 💕 😌
That is addiction. It is hard to understand why we're compelled to do the things we do. 8.5 years free!!
Congratulations!
Good for you ! I’m happy for you and proud of you !
A year after your comment and I just wanted to tell you, dear stranger that I’m proud of you and I hope you celebrated 9, and soon 10 years clean.
Unfortunately and sadly, my daughter is an "Ashley". Loving someone like that is nothing but suffering.
How you contribute to that out come?
@@joanbaczek2575 huh?
How does someone survive a hammer strike to the head thats so strong in bends the hammer? Youd think that thing would have gone all the way into his skull.
Hammer someone's head that's preposterous you will kill them and be a noir film dust pan
Hi Dr. Grande. How can someone be that irresponsible is beyond me. Peace to you & Mrs. G. LOVE, ❤ Janine ☺️Smiley 😍😇✌️🩶💜💖💟❣️🥯☕️☕️🎂
The human body can be unbelievably resilient sometimes.
There was a rail worker years ago who got a giant railroad spike going through his skull and brain, and he lived.
His skull must have been made of vibranium, or that was, as somebody else in the comments suggested, a Harbor Freight hammer
handle of the hammer impacted his skull, that is why it is bent imo.
Thank you. Gosh, this is such a sad, sad case. It's all just awful. What a mess. So well summed up re everyone was addicted to something. Thanks Dr G.
Dr. Grande, you need to make merch that says “just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone …….. “ you’re so iconic
I would totally buy it!!!
As someone who has become reliant on prescription medication to cope with numerous health conditions, it frightens me so much that people can reach the height of desperation that they do to just to survive this vicious cycle.
I was just thinking today about when I was in college I used to get angry seeing drug addicts on the streets and I kind of realized it was because they reminded me how close I was to that lifestyle. If one thing goes wrong here or I befriend the wrong person there that could be me on the streets and it freaked me out.
Some of us get lucky and made it out the other side. Stay strong sister
@@jonaswhite5842i am so happy for you
Ihave severe chronic pain
Never had an issue with opiods but Xanax ,for me at least-are my addiction
People who REALLY are in pain don't abuse their scripts. It's mandatory just to function and they know misuse could get them black listed.
@@ceilconstante640 no ...u can fall into this trap.I have severe chronic pain Most of the days i cannot even take a shower
Believe me,i ve done many stupid things cause i just wanted the pain to stop
"U don't get it,till u get it"....
#invisible_illnes
#you_dont_look_sick
Never tire of your humor!!!
I will never understand why some men would prefer to be with such a train wreck instead of being single. I'm single; I would love to get married, however, I would prefer being miserably single than in a relationship like this!
Word. I proudly have avoided bad relationships. Being alone is better.
Absolutely right. If there's misery to be had, let it not be caused by a shitty relationship
I’ve observed the “hero” complex in men frequently. They want to save a girl, so they’ll latch on to a useless, toxic woman, only to be disappointed in the long run. Then, when you’re an independent, hard working, outspoken woman, they’ll run like hell.
If men weren't ready to go through hell to reproduce, the human race would have died out I guess
it irritates the HECK out of me that judges and juries and prosecutors cannot see the OBVIOUS bs that people like this do to manipulate other people into doing so many things, and they should be held more accountable.
Poor guy. Those two are despicable to say the least. Drugs & jealousy are a dangerous combo, she got off easy. Good quips & points🔨Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
Dr. Grande is the best journalist of our time.
Nice to be an early commenter again! I’ve really enjoyed your last few videos. Goodnight to you Dr Grande and all your followers! 🇮🇪
Dr Grande, I wish you were the judge in these cases, your discernment is fantastic.
Doctors who prescribe patients Opioids & then cut them off without implementing a withdrawal programme are medically negligent.
Dr. Grande… Todd? I love this Channel. It’s part of my daily routine.
Theres something about You Dr. Grande... i could listen to you all day...thank you for sharing your time and talent.
Ashlie absolutely deserved more punishment than she received.
I wonder how long her jail sentence was when she failed rehab.
@@elle9543Idk, but I suspect it wasn't long enough.
she was a knock out
her special treatment continues.
@@elle9543She went to court for violating probation. Her probation officer was present and asked the judge to put her in prison.
The judge gave her another chance after Ashlie Stapp Paddock told the judge she was going to become a drug counselor…. She only finished a few more months, and was released- only to leave the State..:
@@burtreynolds3143She was and IS a murderer…. Had her murder and kidnapping charges…
Henry loved her. She was using Henry for his meager 30 pill a month supply of OxyContin. Promising him a relationship….
I love how he says "jamba juice" as if it's a fascinating new species
I really appreciated your take on the 3 way addiction & how powerful substance addiction is compared to the people addiction. Thanks, Dr. Grande!
I live near Murrieta and never heard of this story!
So sad!
From the outside looking in, the justice system doesn't seem to dole out the same punishment person-by-person. Some get 25 years for accessory to murder and others get 180 day drug rehab.
Petite blonde girls routinely get the free passes
Eloquent analysis. Wordsmith'ing is an art form many don't see behind the curtain of curiosity.
Hello Dr. Grande😃🥰 Thank you for the video! Although all true crime cases are mind-boggling, It's situations & scenarios like the one you're speaking of today that both confuse me & inrage me at the same time. Makes zero sense as to how they thought this would even work out. I hope you enjoyed your holiday weekend!
Why do people even get involved with people on drugs and drinking uncontrollably
Wise thought
Believe it or not they think they will be easier to control.
A marine who worked hard to become an officer only to throw it all away for a girl who was playing him. Sad.
He clearly played himself. The military teaches you about accountability. He clearly did not pay attention. I guarantee you he was told by multiple people she was a hoe.
He was responsible for his actions.. he could.. and should...have walked away. Instead he responded with increased controlling behavior and violence.
sad, and think how good an officer he wouldve made! jaywalking??? HAMMER TO THE HEAD!
I am scared for my son (Marine) his new wife has similar issues he's not aware of all of them. Scary. When they're active and in reserves they have a $400,000 life insurance policy. Well my son does anyway she talked him into taking me off and one other person and making her the Only one on it this was a couple months Into marriage Only not Long after getting together. Omgoodness
We are all fools. No matter how smart we are, we can never be sure of outrunning it.
Some people just cannot keep their heads on straight. Like come on lady, you didn’t even get sentenced to prison and you still had to cause trouble 🤦🏻♀️
A lesson (Curtis) or (Kurtis) could've used prior to this experience: Once she disappears, it's time to leave her alone. No one can force someone to be with them happily. Charge it to the game and move on with life. Now he's locked up for over a decade while she's onto the next one...or two...or three.
Dr. Grande is a great content creator.
Curtis : YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT: YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE! Poor guy, in fact poor guys, neither of them deserved this.. and Ashlie was totaled by her addictions as well.
I like your cactus decorations
I find it amazing that in almost every case like this, the woman gets a very generous sentence. What Curtis didn’t realize is there will always be another Henry I just don’t get it once a woman does that to you you gotta walk away !!! if he would’ve gotten away with it, it wouldn’t be long before there was another guy who would’ve supplied her with oxycodone !! Yep they always get a free pass. It’s amazing she knew what she was doing. She’s just as guilty as him and they both should be in prison for life.
Another frustrating story (Ashlie did get quite a deal, but I remember what Plato said about the unjust person's very nature being a punishment on its own). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.
Loved when you said Jamba Juice the first time.
With tears in her eyes, she pleaded "Beat him up for me!"
Henry's antics are played out on the TH-cam channel Delta November. It was quite entertaining back in the day but unfortunately for Henry, this all came to a very bad end!
Grande! Always a pleasure to get your analyses!
Always interesting
Thank you
Peace
I worked at St. Bernadine’s off Waterman in ‘dino.
They had the hospital fully locked down (had to have a keycard or get buzzed in) bc of how common it was for addicts to try and barge in to violently strong arm the pharmacy for their fix.
‘dino folks DGAF
DINO folks are the scourge of the earth
So sad
Love Your Punchlines!!!!!!
What a destructive woman, although I believe that the drug use exacerbated everything.
Thank you for the review, Dr. Grande.❤
@@AnarSchism. 🤮 CRINGE!!
Yes, let's always blame the woman, instead of the actual killer. Everybody is responsible for their own actions.
I am back in school part time while preparing for full time school this year. Now for sure my second former husband can accuse me of being addicted to learning. Any time student life seems too boring watching another Dr. Grande video episode that might encourage me in learning to like the boring student life style better all the time.
Thanks for the upload on National Beer Lovers Day 2023, Dr. Grande!
Hahaha, really? Cheers 🍻 I was born in Germany 🇩🇪 on that certain day, which is kinda ironic because I don't like to drink such kinds of beverages. 😆
Make sure you got your BUD LIGHT.
@@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose Oh yeah! Cheers!
@@stephendacey8761 Ew, I prefer craft beers.
Becoming dependent on drugs after an injury is too often the beginning of a steep downhill in life. Addiction almost always leads to criminal behavior - stealing, promiscuity, lying. The life of the addict becomes rapidly degraded. And yet no responsibility is ever brought back to the drug itself? Those who prescribe drugs should have more of a part in making sure addiction doesn't happen!
I'm a former pill taker. I was in the hospital for surgery and upon my discharge, the doctor told me he would prescribe Oxy for pain. I told him - under no uncertain terms - that I would snort and abuse the drug and to NOT give it to me. When the nurse handed me a script for 90 days of Oxy I got furious and ripped the prescription up in front of the nurses station. I don't even take Ibuprofin to this day.
Drs handed the medication like candy- and he was never told it was addictive back then. Drs gave more when it stopped working for his chronic bone infections.
When he stopped taking the meds he was sick…
He called Dr and Dr told him he couldn’t just stop. He had to be weaned off it.
He had been on the meds for years. 😢
He finally was on one pill a day when he met Ashlie.
She was the catalyst to both men’s demise. Curtis is a sick POS-
He beat and stomped on Henry for 4 hours, left for a couple of hours. They were hoping Henry would be dead when they came back.
But Henry was still living, and had crawled to get help.
Who can possibly listen for hours as a man screamed for his pain?
A psychopath, that who.
And both of them are.
They buried Henry alive.
Henry had never been in trouble-
He never took anything that wasn’t prescribed to him by his doctor.
@@TechGorilla1987 Good thinking.
You probably saved yourself a world of trouble. 🙏
Henry was prescribed this deadly medication years before the public knew of the danger.
Drs wanted to amputate his leg, but he refused- so a specialist did an experimental surgery to save his leg.
Drs put a rod in his leg, but he had horrible bone infections and pain. Often he would have at-home IV’s for weeks at a time.
Woman escapes responsibility... A story as old as time.
This kinda TRIANGULATION happens so often that it seems common. Ashley is a danger to society.
100%
Absolutely…. All with Zero remorse-
Appreciate your DETAILED anslysis! Built a new insight - Addiction to things over people deadly.
Not necessarily. Two people right here in this analysis addicted to people and way worse off for it. If you like things and can pay for them, you're not hurting anyone.
Thank you Dr. Grande. You really nailed this one.
Was that a Harbor Freight hammer?
Curtis was bottom fishing.
Ashlie will eventually end up in the usual places if she continues down this dark path... jails, insitutions, and death. 😢
..Some 'people' and Ashlie will/can never change.
Thanks for another interesting video.
Curtis should of walked away because as far as I could see, Henry and Ashleigh had more in common than Curtis and Ashleigh. But as you said, Curtis had his own addition in Ashleigh.
Three weird people.
Six-hundred dollars a day is certainly not Jamba Juice money. That's a crazy addiction she had going.
Someone was ripping her off lol
Lmao this girl was my manager for a year or two at Jamba Juice 🤣 crazy
Great Quincy episode material
I think you "hammered" this case home. You might say you hit the nail on the head.
Good evening Dr. Grande I never miss any of your videos. Thank you!!!
You could say he was addicted to Astley and he was "never gonna give her up"
Excellent video 📹
The 'oldest profession' paid by a 'primitive barter system' turns out to be fatal.
Both simped for her, and they won't be the last to do so.
Some people are just evil. Drugs make them pure evil.
My ex is just like this woman. She would play so many people against one another and she would play victim and she would get everybody thinking that she was being abused and get people to fight each other it's so sick it's horrible is a horrible horrible jerk
Glad you kicked her to the curb.
...such a sentimental poetic sum up line 😅.... sad occurrence but very interestingly presented.....
Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. As always I learn something new from your videos.
I have the Suicide Disease. Constant pain from a birth defect. I had a craniotomy to try to help and only got Tylenol 3 post op in a Boston Hospital. People like this are the reason I can't get any pain control and I will resent them forever. I'm disabled forever because doctors refuse to give me drugs for fear I will get addicted. I don't even drink coffee. How do people like this get away with this? Ashley should be in jail for life.
So sorry. I wish relief for you. God bless
Have you ever tried suboxone or methadone?
I'd look into Suboxone. Almost all insurance covers it. Even medicaid.
I’m sorry…:
Inmate: What are you in for?
Ashley: Swapping clothing.
Oh shit i was just watching this case on Fatal Affairs on HBO
Curtis was a Fool for love.....some things aren't worth fighting for! I feel sorry for deluded Henry, he didn't deserve what he got. 🧚♀
Damn opioids will absolutely ruin a person
My best friend that I lived with for years stole 200$ from me
@@WilliamSussman Only $200 over the years or more often?
As a chronic pain case, crumbling spine, I don’t agree. Opioids let me move and become a human again. It’s the abusers of opioids that make the headlines. I don’t snort, smoke, peel or generally alter the pill in any way. I took it as prescribed and it did help me regain enough movement to get some life.
I did “get off” it as I’m not wanting to become dependant, but without it as a pain reliever, I’d probably be dead anyway.
I ask my consultants, what’s the best pain reliever to date, that’s non opiate. They say “nothing”.
@@louise2467 Oh sure. I agree. Some people do need them. When I was getting off them years ago a counselor I was seeing said something to the effect of “I’m too young to be dependent on opioids.”
I asked “36 is too young to be hurting and in pain?”
He replied “No that’s not it. You’re too young to be dependent upon and ‘On’ them constantly. As tolerance goes up we need more or stronger meds. At 36 by the time I was older I’d need so much to just be normal that it didn’t make sense.”
$600 per day? How many pills doea that translate to? Seems insane
Thank you Dr Grande, this case is just sickening.
Dr G, why not try a video premiere on your next vid? As you see it was uploaded 6 mins ago and there are already comments. Just a thought!
Another case of someone beautiful on the outside but rotten on the inside. Sad...!
Dr Grande: "On one occasion after drinking heavily, she disappeared".
Me: Damm!!! She drank so hard she unlocked superpowers😮? That's some serious drinking.
[4:41] Wow. How hard would one have to hit somebody to bend a hammer like that? I wouldn't even think that was possible. My hammer has smashed many rigid things throughout its life and it's still as straight as the day I got it. They're made to be... tougher than nails, after all. I can't even imagine the force required to bend a steel hammer over someone's head. As morbid as it sounds, I feel like a skull would give way far sooner than a hammer would. I'm perplexed by that photo.
The hammer hit the floor and concrete..
Somehow your channel fell out of my feed; however, I see your cactus obsession has grown since you were last in my feed. Gratz!
Dr. Grande you are low key savage 😂! I love your humor!
Happy New Year to you and yours Dr. Grande.🎉😊
Sad story for the ham radio operating community
Thanks! 🙂
thank you for this