Woman Creates Lethal Love Triangle and Escapes Responsibility | Ashlie Stapp Case Analysis

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  • This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Ashlie Stapp and Curtis Krueger?
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ความคิดเห็น • 740

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +491

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when everyone takes a lot of drugs like this.

    • @Mark-qv4bn
      @Mark-qv4bn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      I don't. 42+ years of sobriety.

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@Mark-qv4bnAwesome, congrats!

    • @alecstaley1017
      @alecstaley1017 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      If you enjoy this video please don't do drugs and live recklessly like these people

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@alecstaley1017 But if you must use drugs, use them right!

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Mark-qv4bn that's excellent! congrats!

  • @velvetdevil4816
    @velvetdevil4816 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +318

    Boggles my mind that men fall for these kind of women.

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      He was on OXYTOCIN first one

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      losers seem to be able to sniff each other out

    • @Nok112
      @Nok112 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Curtis seems pretty much like a maniac

    • @julezmmm
      @julezmmm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@KoolTyou mean a different type of Oxy I think. This one is for inducing labor.

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      She was very attractive and knew how to work it to get what she wanted.

  • @just_a_stump
    @just_a_stump 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    If you feel like you need to keep track of her, let her go.

    • @Textemple
      @Textemple 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      This is a goat level comment

    • @videoettaceo8900
      @videoettaceo8900 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Or, ask yourself if you're a stalker 😅

    • @melfreemans
      @melfreemans 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. He made the decision to increase his controlling behavior and become violent. She was a THOT and he should have walked away in the beginning.

    • @kneel1
      @kneel1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      omg seriously that was my first thought, Like he didnt stop and think wow maybe this isnt working out?

    • @Textemple
      @Textemple 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kneel1 experienced, and drug fueled vaginas preying on a simp with resources can be quite disconcerting I could imagine...

  • @usagiroxie
    @usagiroxie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Narcissism is the bane of our society.

    • @artestra
      @artestra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nope, that would be fear and greed

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@artestraUSA is based on greed.

    • @ParadoxicaLeo730
      @ParadoxicaLeo730 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@artestra those are included in narcissism. OP is correct.

    • @artestra
      @artestra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ParadoxicaLeo730 Narcissism isn’t specific enough to be “the bane” Everyone knows immediately how destructive greed is

    • @melfreemans
      @melfreemans 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Koozomecmost countries are based on greed

  • @kla631
    @kla631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    A marine who worked hard to become an officer only to throw it all away for a girl who was playing him. Sad.

    • @stevemcraemanager7119
      @stevemcraemanager7119 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He clearly played himself. The military teaches you about accountability. He clearly did not pay attention. I guarantee you he was told by multiple people she was a hoe.

    • @melfreemans
      @melfreemans 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      He was responsible for his actions.. he could.. and should...have walked away. Instead he responded with increased controlling behavior and violence.

    • @cnst2657
      @cnst2657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      sad, and think how good an officer he wouldve made! jaywalking??? HAMMER TO THE HEAD!

    • @bluntlybold5962
      @bluntlybold5962 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am scared for my son (Marine) his new wife has similar issues he's not aware of all of them. Scary. When they're active and in reserves they have a $400,000 life insurance policy. Well my son does anyway she talked him into taking me off and one other person and making her the Only one on it this was a couple months Into marriage Only not Long after getting together. Omgoodness

    • @GuacamoleKun
      @GuacamoleKun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are all fools. No matter how smart we are, we can never be sure of outrunning it.

  • @Aaron-kj8dv
    @Aaron-kj8dv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    Reminds me of that lady who had shared custody of their son and went and picked him up from school without telling dad and dad rightfully got angry and went to her house and yelled at her and went to get his son and then her husband came out and shot him.
    One guy went to prison, the other was killed, and the lady had no consequences even though she was the primary cause of the crime.

    • @missbearlockholmes
      @missbearlockholmes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A man will kill you. A woman will get you killed.

    • @_HimToo
      @_HimToo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Them fighting over her doesn't make her the cause tho. She really was an accessory after the fact in this case

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Interestingly, in that case the man who did the shooting was not indicted. A grand jury decided it was self defense. Horrible situation all the way around. Totally unnecessary. The little boy lost his dad, new wife lost her new husband, and step dad didn’t get in trouble for escalating the conflict. It was a hard case but I agree with the ruling of self defense. It was unnecessary but still lawful. What a total tragedy

    • @herrguru4264
      @herrguru4264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@_HimToo she was a proxy. and a very slick one.

    • @herrguru4264
      @herrguru4264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      he didnt go to prison.

  • @katarina1852
    @katarina1852 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    Ashlie absolutely deserved more punishment than she received.

    • @elle9543
      @elle9543 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I wonder how long her jail sentence was when she failed rehab.

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@elle9543Idk, but I suspect it wasn't long enough.

    • @burtreynolds3143
      @burtreynolds3143 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      she was a knock out
      her special treatment continues.

    • @traybern
      @traybern 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      GO get her!

    • @JudyGardner-bh5vp
      @JudyGardner-bh5vp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elle9543She went to court for violating probation. Her probation officer was present and asked the judge to put her in prison.
      The judge gave her another chance after Ashlie Stapp Paddock told the judge she was going to become a drug counselor…. She only finished a few more months, and was released- only to leave the State..:

  • @stephendacey8761
    @stephendacey8761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    It sounds like Ashlie made out in the deal. The court orders her to spend 6 months in a drug treatment facility while Curtis spends at least 15 years in jail, and Henry is dead. Manipulating people's feelings isn't considered a crime, and the court sees her as somebody who can contribute to society if she beats her addiction.

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I definitely think she's a huge POS! And junkies by Nature are very manipulative.
      Even if he gets out of prison, the trajectory of his life has changed drastically, he will always be a felon. But, how much can a person be manipulated into obsessive and paranoid Behavior so bad that you kill someone?
      I think he's an abusive mate. He might not necessarily hit heard but he's very controlling and that's abusive.
      I do hope she gets clean only so she can realize the damage she has done. The true Innocents are the children.

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I do agree with you about Ashley, she should have gotten real prison time. She is just as responsible.

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      To be fair, drug "treatment" is completely and totally fake. The only drug "treatment" programs that have more than about a 5% "success" rate is methadone and few 12 step programs (this was a 12 step based "treatment" facility) support methadone "treatment"
      She should have gotten a LOT more time, like at least 10 years. But her drug addiction was not being "treated" and her breaking the "rules" int he "treatment" facility is justified.

    • @TheGuruStud
      @TheGuruStud 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She'll end up unlifing someone for more drugs. Perhaps even an innocent person for money. DA won't care. Judge won't care. They're sociopaths.

    • @ciobalina7445
      @ciobalina7445 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      To be honest, Curtis is the one who killed that man. He could have just dumped her, but he prefered to kill her lover. Curtis wasn't even on drugs, at least she has the excuse that she was an addict, which is difficult to overcome.

  • @AxelordSMIJES
    @AxelordSMIJES 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    6 months in rehab!? Holy crap. She got off practically scott free! That's insane.
    I've been sober for 5 years on Sep 17th. I was addicted to opiates. Similar story. Car accident. Script from a less than responsible doctor who continued to fill them way longer than they should've. When they cut me off, I moved to Heroin. After being involved in that life for years and somehow managing to make it out alive (mostly) in-tact, one thing that I always thought to myself was, "Thank God I wasn't born female." Because I know for a fact that I would have used my body to get drugs or, more likely, gotten turned out by an opportunistic dealer. Young women who become addicts are so incredibly vulnerable to being trafficked, among other things. I don't know that I would have made it out if that were what I had to deal with regularly.

    • @Ken-fh4jc
      @Ken-fh4jc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I made a very similar post. On and off since at least 2003. I always felt bad knowing what the women had to do.

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I had the same experience. Mid 2000's, legit injury, over prescribed, cut off abruptly, had become dependent, sought illegal opiates, full addiction set in, typical misery and chaos ensued. I'm a woman and feel extremely fortunate I never had to resort to selling my body. I had a lot of savings that I sadly blew right through and I also made money working for dealers. I'm not naive though, so I realize I can never claim that falling down to a high level of desperation wouldn't eventually result in me going to that extreme. I'd like to think that under no circumstances would I ever do that, but the reality is most women do end up resorting to selling themselves at some point. Like I said, I feel fortunate. But you are absolutely correct that most female addicts do wind up in prostitution. I've personally known 8 female addicts and 7 of them sold their bodies at some point. Very, very sad and scary and hopeless place to be in to justify doing that. Very sad and very telling of the hold addiction can have on a person.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Horrible situations. I'm glad you have all make it through it.
      Carry on.

    • @QuadriviumNumbers
      @QuadriviumNumbers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's a woman!

  • @PrissyHippie
    @PrissyHippie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    Ashlie got off way to easily. She should receive punishment for assisting her bf in getting rid of the body, plus stealing the drugs. She is a vile human.

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hate to admit it, but many young, pretty, white women get more privileges in this world than everybody else.

    • @mofogie
      @mofogie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ya and she manipulated Curtis. Depending on how those lies went, how would most react to their partner saying ' a guy sex trafficks me and forces me to have sex for drugs'? Curtis did what a lot of people would do. He got played, and unfortunately didn't have the right state of mind to investigate before acting.

    • @amrasangaran6041
      @amrasangaran6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So very sad that a man studies so hard to get a degree and then ends up in jail because of a worthless woman. Feel for him and his family especially if he has parents. Why don't friends come into the picture to help. So much trouble could have been avoided.

    • @chrispapa2782
      @chrispapa2782 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ofcourse

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Juries can sometimes provide unexpected results. Also, the plea bargain offered was a sweet deal. Men don't typically get sweetheart plea bargain deal, unless they're the son of powerful men

  • @vinnyguitara
    @vinnyguitara 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Dr. Grandeeeeeeeeeeeee thanks for all the content. I no longer need a cable subscription thanks to creators like you!

  • @maiziebug
    @maiziebug 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    I just discovered your channel this month and have no idea how I slept on it for so long- you sir, are such a gem. Everything about your analysis, your delivery, and of course, your low-key, nonchalantly 🔥 burns grabbed me right away and keep me coming back for more. Thank you for doing what you do- Warmly, Jamie from New Haven, Ct.

    • @AnastasiaFafo
      @AnastasiaFafo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      His Patreon content is GREAT!

    • @maiziebug
      @maiziebug 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@AnastasiaFafo Thank you! I will definitely check it out

    • @FernRoses
      @FernRoses 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thought the same thing.
      Welcome to Dr. Grande’s Classy innuendo and Pun’s community 🤘

    • @H37P5kY57
      @H37P5kY57 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think the best ones are when he talks about Megan Markle...oh he's a hoot!

    • @katie3657
      @katie3657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@H37P5kY57totally agree! Those are great

  • @JJbIrd0608
    @JJbIrd0608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    That is addiction. It is hard to understand why we're compelled to do the things we do. 8.5 years free!!

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Congratulations!

    • @tc_is_me
      @tc_is_me 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Good for you ! I’m happy for you and proud of you !

  • @melvinlovejones9722
    @melvinlovejones9722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    A lesson (Curtis) or (Kurtis) could've used prior to this experience: Once she disappears, it's time to leave her alone. No one can force someone to be with them happily. Charge it to the game and move on with life. Now he's locked up for over a decade while she's onto the next one...or two...or three.

  • @velocirapture89
    @velocirapture89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I will never understand why some men would prefer to be with such a train wreck instead of being single. I'm single; I would love to get married, however, I would prefer being miserably single than in a relationship like this!

    • @pnwlady
      @pnwlady 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Word. I proudly have avoided bad relationships. Being alone is better.

    • @nixm9093
      @nixm9093 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely right. If there's misery to be had, let it not be caused by a shitty relationship

  • @cabooseabs6864
    @cabooseabs6864 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    How does someone survive a hammer strike to the head thats so strong in bends the hammer? Youd think that thing would have gone all the way into his skull.

    • @mikeflynn1629
      @mikeflynn1629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hammer someone's head that's preposterous you will kill them and be a noir film dust pan

    • @janinemccartha1811
      @janinemccartha1811 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Dr. Grande. How can someone be that irresponsible is beyond me. Peace to you & Mrs. G. LOVE, ❤ Janine ☺️Smiley 😍😇✌️🩶💜💖💟❣️🥯☕️☕️🎂

    • @lukaszzylik4437
      @lukaszzylik4437 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The human body can be unbelievably resilient sometimes.
      There was a rail worker years ago who got a giant railroad spike going through his skull and brain, and he lived.

    • @joe718gt4
      @joe718gt4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      His skull must have been made of vibranium, or that was, as somebody else in the comments suggested, a Harbor Freight hammer

    • @gold707786
      @gold707786 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      handle of the hammer impacted his skull, that is why it is bent imo.

  • @kate_is_great
    @kate_is_great 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Unfortunately and sadly, my daughter is an "Ashley". Loving someone like that is nothing but suffering.

  • @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT
    @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Another tragic mess described succinctly, analyzed, and neatly presented as a real life lesson for anyone who is awake and paying attention. You may have saved someone from making the same mistakes in the future, Dr. Grande.

  • @69adrummer
    @69adrummer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Life goal #23:
    NEVER end up the subject on a Dr Grande video!!
    lol Love ya Doc!!

  • @She-Row
    @She-Row 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    Thank you for your consistency and hard work Dr.G! We appreciate you.

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don't know how he puts out such frequent content, seeing as how each post requires a ton of research before he can make a video. (So it's not like these 15-20 minute videos only take up the 15-20 minutes of footage plus however long he needs to edit.)
      Dr. G... do you ever sleep? 💤

    • @Dylan_Mulvaney_OFFICIAL
      @Dylan_Mulvaney_OFFICIAL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MeganVictoriaKearnsit's called keeping an eye on the news and past events.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    As someone who has become reliant on prescription medication to cope with numerous health conditions, it frightens me so much that people can reach the height of desperation that they do to just to survive this vicious cycle.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I was just thinking today about when I was in college I used to get angry seeing drug addicts on the streets and I kind of realized it was because they reminded me how close I was to that lifestyle. If one thing goes wrong here or I befriend the wrong person there that could be me on the streets and it freaked me out.

    • @jonaswhite5842
      @jonaswhite5842 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Some of us get lucky and made it out the other side. Stay strong sister

    • @SeaBlue1976
      @SeaBlue1976 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jonaswhite5842i am so happy for you
      Ihave severe chronic pain
      Never had an issue with opiods but Xanax ,for me at least-are my addiction

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      People who REALLY are in pain don't abuse their scripts. It's mandatory just to function and they know misuse could get them black listed.

    • @SeaBlue1976
      @SeaBlue1976 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ceilconstante640 no ...u can fall into this trap.I have severe chronic pain Most of the days i cannot even take a shower
      Believe me,i ve done many stupid things cause i just wanted the pain to stop
      "U don't get it,till u get it"....
      #invisible_illnes
      #you_dont_look_sick

  • @RedLightsGreenLights
    @RedLightsGreenLights 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “She worked at a Jamba Juice” lol he said it like it was the most outrageous job in the world haha.

  • @dlc5166
    @dlc5166 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    From the outside looking in, the justice system doesn't seem to dole out the same punishment person-by-person. Some get 25 years for accessory to murder and others get 180 day drug rehab.

  • @MuhammadAdamGhamkoley
    @MuhammadAdamGhamkoley 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why do people even get involved with people on drugs and drinking uncontrollably

    • @muttlee9195
      @muttlee9195 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wise thought

  • @vala1277
    @vala1277 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love how he says "jamba juice" as if it's a fascinating new species

  • @pizzlerot2730
    @pizzlerot2730 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I cannot for the life of me understand why Curtis stayed with her - she must've had those magic lady parts 😮

    • @louise2467
      @louise2467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haaaa as a “lady” myself, I’m stumped!!? I’ve often wondered about that magic place, that any/all similar external being has, but not as magical…. I can only assume there is a bewitchment occurring, and the spell needs to be broken, like WAKING UP TO YOURSELF AND SEEING SHE IS A COW, Fool.

  • @Mike_HuntizWet
    @Mike_HuntizWet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Damn opioids will absolutely ruin a person

    • @WilliamSussman
      @WilliamSussman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My best friend that I lived with for years stole 200$ from me

    • @Mike_HuntizWet
      @Mike_HuntizWet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@WilliamSussman Only $200 over the years or more often?

    • @louise2467
      @louise2467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As a chronic pain case, crumbling spine, I don’t agree. Opioids let me move and become a human again. It’s the abusers of opioids that make the headlines. I don’t snort, smoke, peel or generally alter the pill in any way. I took it as prescribed and it did help me regain enough movement to get some life.
      I did “get off” it as I’m not wanting to become dependant, but without it as a pain reliever, I’d probably be dead anyway.
      I ask my consultants, what’s the best pain reliever to date, that’s non opiate. They say “nothing”.

    • @Mike_HuntizWet
      @Mike_HuntizWet 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@louise2467 Oh sure. I agree. Some people do need them. When I was getting off them years ago a counselor I was seeing said something to the effect of “I’m too young to be dependent on opioids.”
      I asked “36 is too young to be hurting and in pain?”
      He replied “No that’s not it. You’re too young to be dependent upon and ‘On’ them constantly. As tolerance goes up we need more or stronger meds. At 36 by the time I was older I’d need so much to just be normal that it didn’t make sense.”

    • @nixm9093
      @nixm9093 หลายเดือนก่อน

      $600 per day? How many pills doea that translate to? Seems insane

  • @Kattakam
    @Kattakam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Eloquent analysis. Wordsmith'ing is an art form many don't see behind the curtain of curiosity.

  • @thegood9
    @thegood9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    it irritates the HECK out of me that judges and juries and prosecutors cannot see the OBVIOUS bs that people like this do to manipulate other people into doing so many things, and they should be held more accountable.

  • @healerscreek
    @healerscreek 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ashlie will eventually end up in the usual places if she continues down this dark path... jails, insitutions, and death. 😢

  • @madamlt5758
    @madamlt5758 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Some people just cannot keep their heads on straight. Like come on lady, you didn’t even get sentenced to prison and you still had to cause trouble 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @farmcat3198
    @farmcat3198 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Curtis was bottom fishing.

  • @bunnymad5049
    @bunnymad5049 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Thank you. Gosh, this is such a sad, sad case. It's all just awful. What a mess. So well summed up re everyone was addicted to something. Thanks Dr G.

  • @RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose
    @RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    After the wonderful *irresistible Ashlie* thumbnail with a new analysis of the great Dr. Grande, I couldn't resist clicking on it. ✨️ ❤️ 💕 😌

  • @hopeausbyn1734
    @hopeausbyn1734 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This kinda TRIANGULATION happens so often that it seems common. Ashley is a danger to society.

  • @Iloveyeat777
    @Iloveyeat777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Dr. Grande, you need to make merch that says “just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone …….. “ you’re so iconic

    • @mydailyangel
      @mydailyangel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would totally buy it!!!

  • @farmcat3198
    @farmcat3198 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    With tears in her eyes, she pleaded "Beat him up for me!"

  • @juliedaniels5594
    @juliedaniels5594 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m in Australia. I’ve often been frustrated because it’s hard to get painkillers when I need them. Now that I’ve seen so many videos like this, I’m just glad that vulnerable people here are limited in what doctors will provide. It’s not worth the ruining of lives.

    • @traybern
      @traybern 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HARD? Just ASK ANY drug dealer. Or any DRUGGIE!!! They will….HOOK YOU UP!!!!

  • @richardmcquade9832
    @richardmcquade9832 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Seems that when a guy is insecure and becomes obsessed with controlling his girlfriend the odds of a murder increase substantially.
    Substance abuse seems to be a Symptom of an underlying mental Causation.
    Best advice a girlfriend ever said to me when the discussion started to get heated was, "Why don't you just go away so I'll miss you?" It's a great way to de-escalate for both and preserve a long-term relationship.

  • @dlc5166
    @dlc5166 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I think these men had low self esteem and she sensed that. The court let her slide in my opinion.

    • @kent7260
      @kent7260 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She played them

    • @QuadriviumNumbers
      @QuadriviumNumbers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's a woman!

  • @user-zd3ns6wx7y
    @user-zd3ns6wx7y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Came to TH-cam to find a video about fixing my dishwasher. Grande posts a new video. I’ll fix it later.

  • @otzey
    @otzey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Both simped for her, and they won't be the last to do so.

  • @KimberlyLetsGo
    @KimberlyLetsGo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Some people are just evil. Drugs make them pure evil.

  • @wmluna381
    @wmluna381 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Was that a Harbor Freight hammer?

  • @Mineav
    @Mineav 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Six-hundred dollars a day is certainly not Jamba Juice money. That's a crazy addiction she had going.

    • @rayhaveman4886
      @rayhaveman4886 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Someone was ripping her off lol

  • @brandon8900
    @brandon8900 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You could say he was addicted to Astley and he was "never gonna give her up"

  • @Latoree33
    @Latoree33 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She'll be back in the news again.

  • @duvessa2003
    @duvessa2003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like how you say that the men were guilty of self-deception.

  • @denise331
    @denise331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Never tire of your humor!!!

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Poor guy. Those two are despicable to say the least. Drugs & jealousy are a dangerous combo, she got off easy. Good quips & points🔨Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

  • @Shawnne86
    @Shawnne86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m a fan of psychology and dry humor- Dr. Grande is awesome!

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    What a destructive woman, although I believe that the drug use exacerbated everything.
    Thank you for the review, Dr. Grande.❤

    • @QuadriviumNumbers
      @QuadriviumNumbers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AnarSchism. 🤮 CRINGE!!

    • @iridescentraindrops
      @iridescentraindrops 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, let's always blame the woman, instead of the actual killer. Everybody is responsible for their own actions.

  • @deborahwinter5018
    @deborahwinter5018 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I live near Murrieta and never heard of this story!
    So sad!

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I got an acai mix smoothie at Jamba earlier today. It was good.

  • @Strype13
    @Strype13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    [4:41] Wow. How hard would one have to hit somebody to bend a hammer like that? I wouldn't even think that was possible. My hammer has smashed many rigid things throughout its life and it's still as straight as the day I got it. They're made to be... tougher than nails, after all. I can't even imagine the force required to bend a steel hammer over someone's head. As morbid as it sounds, I feel like a skull would give way far sooner than a hammer would. I'm perplexed by that photo.

    • @JudyGardner-bh5vp
      @JudyGardner-bh5vp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The hammer hit the floor and concrete..

  • @LBdreamin
    @LBdreamin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I worked at St. Bernadine’s off Waterman in ‘dino.
    They had the hospital fully locked down (had to have a keycard or get buzzed in) bc of how common it was for addicts to try and barge in to violently strong arm the pharmacy for their fix.
    ‘dino folks DGAF

  • @CupcakeCartel1
    @CupcakeCartel1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    What did Ashley do to be so irresistible that the prosecutor gave her such a ridiculous sentence?

    • @haydeecolon7868
      @haydeecolon7868 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Funny. I was asking myself that, too.🤔

    • @MaddHeather
      @MaddHeather 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Right, I know people who got longer for having weed smh

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She played the confused and indecisive young addicted lolita.

    • @QuadriviumNumbers
      @QuadriviumNumbers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She "did" being a woman! It works every time!

  • @TheDramacist
    @TheDramacist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Inmate: What are you in for?
    Ashley: Swapping clothing.

  • @jackiecarvill6270
    @jackiecarvill6270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Nice to be an early commenter again! I’ve really enjoyed your last few videos. Goodnight to you Dr Grande and all your followers! 🇮🇪

  • @WaltzingWithcrystals
    @WaltzingWithcrystals 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I really appreciated your take on the 3 way addiction & how powerful substance addiction is compared to the people addiction. Thanks, Dr. Grande!

  • @setheast2773
    @setheast2773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My ex is just like this woman. She would play so many people against one another and she would play victim and she would get everybody thinking that she was being abused and get people to fight each other it's so sick it's horrible is a horrible horrible jerk

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you kicked her to the curb.

  • @Broughtvulture
    @Broughtvulture 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    It's really unfortunate that most of society views "being in a relationship" as the "end-all be-all" in life. I observe individuals calling themselves losers for not being in a relationship or how they're always searching for "The One". Even social media likes to romantize relationships and push them onto us.
    I'd argue, relationships should be viewed more along the line of sacrificing a part of yourself. At the drop of a hat, I'll see most people go into a relationship, not knowing how much of themselves they are willing to sacrifice. And in most cases, they end up giving up more than they knew possible.
    Such was the case for Henry, he unknowingly sacrificed 100% of himself. His entire being was at the disposal of Ashlee. It's as if in his mind, he had already married her; "and till death do us part".
    And if the idea of being alone is so disturbing to you, atleast know how much you're willing to give up beforehand.

    • @jainas8331
      @jainas8331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nicely said. Everytime I get into a relationship I completely lose myself and my personality just to make the person happy. It drains the life out of me. And it’s hard because I do love them but I don’t know what to do once it reaches this point

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@jainas8331low self esteem ? Codependancy ? It may help to look for that.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or the opposite, someone who is "never here", no or low authenticity (out of fear of judgment, lack of sincerity or motivation).

    • @jainas8331
      @jainas8331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Koozomec I agree with the low self esteem but the codependency not so much. It’s actually the opposite. Like I start off just fine completely being myself and happy with them but the longer we’re together the more I have to suppress who I really am and the more I just wanna be alone and not in the relationship anymore. It’s happened with everyone I’ve dated and it seems like it’ll be that way with everyone

    • @jainas8331
      @jainas8331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can’t say that it’s for no reason though. Everyone I’ve been with has had their own issues that kinda push me into acting that way I guess. And I feel that because I’m with them I have to just deal with it and love them for who they are

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This one was really interesting and informative, Dr. Grande. ❤Thank you for all your hard work and great vids. They are enjoyable and calming.❤

  • @Hey_Driver
    @Hey_Driver 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Grande… Todd? I love this Channel. It’s part of my daily routine.

  • @sixthsenseamelia4695
    @sixthsenseamelia4695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Doctors who prescribe patients Opioids & then cut them off without implementing a withdrawal programme are medically negligent.

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Another frustrating story (Ashlie did get quite a deal, but I remember what Plato said about the unjust person's very nature being a punishment on its own). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.

  • @annalisegiovanni7032
    @annalisegiovanni7032 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Hello Dr. Grande😃🥰 Thank you for the video! Although all true crime cases are mind-boggling, It's situations & scenarios like the one you're speaking of today that both confuse me & inrage me at the same time. Makes zero sense as to how they thought this would even work out. I hope you enjoyed your holiday weekend!

  • @wendybaryl6867
    @wendybaryl6867 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Theres something about You Dr. Grande... i could listen to you all day...thank you for sharing your time and talent.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ashlie is a chaos agent. It’s her fault. Not too smart.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the worst story I have ever heard. What a horrible thing. Makes me glad I despise drugs and always have. Omg.

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Curtis was a Fool for love.....some things aren't worth fighting for! I feel sorry for deluded Henry, he didn't deserve what he got. 🧚‍♀

  • @beachboy0505
    @beachboy0505 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Excellent video 📹
    The 'oldest profession' paid by a 'primitive barter system' turns out to be fatal.

  • @AnastasiaFafo
    @AnastasiaFafo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I have the Suicide Disease. Constant pain from a birth defect. I had a craniotomy to try to help and only got Tylenol 3 post op in a Boston Hospital. People like this are the reason I can't get any pain control and I will resent them forever. I'm disabled forever because doctors refuse to give me drugs for fear I will get addicted. I don't even drink coffee. How do people like this get away with this? Ashley should be in jail for life.

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So sorry. I wish relief for you. God bless

    • @vicvega3614
      @vicvega3614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you ever tried suboxone or methadone?

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd look into Suboxone. Almost all insurance covers it. Even medicaid.

    • @JudyGardner-bh5vp
      @JudyGardner-bh5vp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry…:

  • @spiritedawayvalley
    @spiritedawayvalley 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Grande is the best journalist of our time.

  • @user-mc9qh9xc6v
    @user-mc9qh9xc6v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Curtis : YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT: YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE! Poor guy, in fact poor guys, neither of them deserved this.. and Ashlie was totaled by her addictions as well.

  • @hangryturtle9006
    @hangryturtle9006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr Grande, I wish you were the judge in these cases, your discernment is fantastic.

  • @SLKAA
    @SLKAA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm not speculating. Dr. Grande is the best.

  • @Ken-fh4jc
    @Ken-fh4jc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’ve had issues with opiates on and off for almost 20 years. I always felt horrible knowing what women had to do.

    • @leslievasquez2645
      @leslievasquez2645 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Believe me, you aren’t alone with that!

    • @JudyGardner-bh5vp
      @JudyGardner-bh5vp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ashlie was never trafficked, Henry never abused her. Henry had no criminal history, was married for 18 years and he was lonely. Ashlie was the only woman he was seeing.

  • @suzanneharris8339
    @suzanneharris8339 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    These 3 young people will never be living their best lives. If I had been the mom to any of them, I wouldn't ever be living my best life either. 😢

  • @artawhirler
    @artawhirler 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just a reminder - it's not "paranoia" if your suspicions are correct.

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    A nightmare woman. If you find yourself being drawn into any hole, wether it’s addiction to substances or a person, pull yourself to a stop and do some serious soul searching. Never let anything control you like that. It’s better to be alone than drawn into a person like this.

  • @commonsense2680
    @commonsense2680 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I can only hope that her name and her felonies got around town and any future prospect will think twice about dating her. I don't understand how these drug addicted females manage to snare a man or their drugs. Are the guys desperate and ugly? Is she that beautiful that a guy would give up everything for her? I never understood jealousy, if someone does not like you and therefore cheats on you, why would you want to remain with that person. Who wants to be with someone they know doesn't like them. This is where men really delude themselves!

    • @JudyGardner-bh5vp
      @JudyGardner-bh5vp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is now in another state, and with another military sucker.

  • @INNdibongo
    @INNdibongo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ashley sounds like a dangerous and manipulative person, she should have been held more responsible in these situations. She will go on to use others for her personal benefit, I feel sorry for those that she comes across.

  • @henkbarnard1553
    @henkbarnard1553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    from personal experience , you can't get some one to quit drugs and alcohol. unless they want to quit.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am back in school part time while preparing for full time school this year. Now for sure my second former husband can accuse me of being addicted to learning. Any time student life seems too boring watching another Dr. Grande video episode that might encourage me in learning to like the boring student life style better all the time.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks for the upload on National Beer Lovers Day 2023, Dr. Grande!

    • @RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose
      @RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hahaha, really? Cheers 🍻 I was born in Germany 🇩🇪 on that certain day, which is kinda ironic because I don't like to drink such kinds of beverages. 😆

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Make sure you got your BUD LIGHT.

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose Oh yeah! Cheers!

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stephendacey8761 Ew, I prefer craft beers.

  • @concernedcitizen4933
    @concernedcitizen4933 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dr. Grande is a great content creator.

  • @TheDealMaster
    @TheDealMaster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Grande! Always a pleasure to get your analyses!

  • @benwright6330
    @benwright6330 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ..never fall for an alcoholic or drug addict. You will regret it.

  • @cintroberts6614
    @cintroberts6614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A true drama queen. I would rather be done wrong by a car salesman than a woman like her. She lies better than any politician. There are many, many more females with similar behavior , so I am taking note. Thank you Dr. Grande for bringing this behavior to light.

  • @benjaminperez1149
    @benjaminperez1149 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    And people doubt how much Alex Murdaugh spent on drugs. Pills are expensive.

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I watched a true crime story where the guy spent $3,000 per day on drugs.

  • @Striker885
    @Striker885 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never in this world could a woman ever get away with doing something like this to me. I would claim the man’s head AND hers.

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Always interesting
    Thank you
    Peace

  • @DAmore143
    @DAmore143 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good evening Dr. Grande I never miss any of your videos. Thank you!!!

  • @IdeologieUK
    @IdeologieUK 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dr G, why not try a video premiere on your next vid? As you see it was uploaded 6 mins ago and there are already comments. Just a thought!

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. As always I learn something new from your videos.

  • @robertgiles9124
    @robertgiles9124 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If I had never been to the USA and saw enough of these shows about the people here...I think I would avoid ever stepping foot in the country. Even though I do know a lot of people here who are decent... I am going to become a lot more suspicious of strangers. It just isn't the same country I grew up in.

  • @milliewoo337
    @milliewoo337 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The level of suspicion in his voice as he says “Jamba Juice” lol

  • @Jfladager
    @Jfladager 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Dr. Grande. You really nailed this one.

  • @LWRC
    @LWRC 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Henry's amateur radio broadcasts are available in the archive audio files from Broadcastify. There were days when Henry would be on the air litterally 18 hrs a day talking to himself about nothing!!!