Why Keion Believes “the Seeds Survive the Blend” in Co parenting
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ต.ค. 2024
- E6 - The Groow Zone | Why Keion Believes “the Seeds Survive the Blend” in Co parenting.
Shaunie and Keion share their blueprint for thriving as a power couple.
As sought-after public figures, Keion and Shaunie maneuver sharing the spotlight in marriage and business. The cultural and religious superstars illuminate how they tag team and complement each other in work and life: Keion tends to assume a “visionary” big-picture role while Shaunie typically functions as a detail-oriented “facilitator.” In this episode, the Hendersons unpack why “competition isn’t good for the house” and how to keep “business baggage out of the bedroom.” As leaders at church and at home, they’ve learned to swap visionary-facilitator roles based on what their partner needs.
Tips and advice include how to set boundaries between work and home, why communicating crucial decisions with your partner early on helps them trust the final outcome, and why it’s important not to “split the negative” but share both successes and failures. It takes growth on the inside to not only share the spotlight with your partner but to help each other shine. Above all, Keion reminds us that “You cannot share the spotlight without also sharing the darkness.”
#TheGroowZone #Episode6
I’m in the same position as Shaunie. I have a sister 2 months older than myself. Because my mother was so open and loving, I know my sister and her mother. We spent the weekend at her house. So kudos to my mom for being who she was.
This is real family life substance - needed conversation.
This is ABSOLUTELY a great growth zone. I'm 53, and growing up, I had a step mom. I wish more people to speak and learn from this episode. Thank you both for sharing ❤❤
I really pray the person I love and want to enjoy life with understands the jewels dropped in this episode .
What people fail to realize is that this is the healed part of Shaunie and Pastor K. This took time to develop. Healing is a life long journey and as long as you are a Willing participant God will work out the rest.
Shaunie dropping Wisdom. She is Pure Gold. 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you all for this. Thanks for helping us Grow.
Mannn this is soooo needed I love it. Why can't we as adults get along no matter what so that the child or children can get the love that they need to grow up to be a whole person. I get it! Shunie I love it. Also I understand from Keion's point of view ad well yall this was good. Thank God for Growth! Thanks yall! ❤❤❤
👉🏽 Thank you for the transparency. We dislike seeing couples pretending as if everything is always perfect. So know that we all appreciate this type of realness. 😉
I met my ex’s daughter’s mom by accident at her dance recital, after traveling out of state to attend. He was fearful of it, but we were respectful of each other and after he and I broke up, she and I connected via phone and she was actually heartbroken that we broke up, because her daughter spoke so highly of me and truly loved me. She admitted she was jealous, but she saw me thru her daughter’s eyes and told me she would have loved for me to be her bonus mom, because I kept her daughter safe and loved her like she was my very own. Co-parenting is needed!
Oh, wow another mature and transparent conversation
Thank you for the Grow Zone tonight!
Currently in the middle of this as a bonus mom, this is such a necessary conversation, asking for prayers for healing!
Shaunie was on 🔥 today. She’s such a sweet sweet woman ❤.
This was sooo helpful!! Right on time, I’ll just keep planting seeds of love from a distance. Because disrespect is happening to both the bonus parent and noncustodial parent. This was everything I needed. I thank God for guiding me to the lighthouse, y’all are truly a blessing.
This was a great topic! We need a part two! ❤
Thank you both for your transparency!!! 🥹💜🙏🏽
This is goooooooood yall! I needed this. Wow! Divorced and some of these emotions are real. My parents were married for 56 years with 14 kids.
I divorced after 10 years with 2 kids. I get you Queen.
Lady Shaunie..ohh....you sweet.you just sweet."giving love n not expecting anything in return"bless your heart!❤
This was a great conversation.
Great messages! Loved Lady Shaunie's terrific nuggets!!!❤
I appreciate the both of you ❤️❤️
I'm enjoying and learning from your conversations thank you both so very much keep them coming please 💃🏻
God bless you and your beautiful family 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼
This conversation is so necessary ❤thanks
Thanks for the transparency!
This was GOOD!!!
Great episode!❤
Shaunie is Amazing
I love this transparency...thank you!!!❤
Thank you!! Transparency keeping it 100%.❤
Excellent, Pastors!!! ❤
I've enjoyed all of your episodes thus far, but this one was so helpful. I appreciate your transparency. I currently have a partner who has adult children & in have been navigating how to approach/ establish a relationship with them so thank you both! 🙏🏾
This some real "shyte" tonight. Praise Black Jesus--- love this. This is healing and deliverance fo real.
God have Mercy.
WOOW BRILIANT
Wow i so needed this conversation as i am currently dealing with my own version of this conversation
Pastor Keion yes old school taught me to keep children out of adults business!!!
Great lesson.
so much wisdom I really needed this, thanks for being authentic and transparent
Powerful stuff
I'm married with a blended family and a bonus Mom to 4 girls. It hasn't always been easy but our relationship is beautiful and I know it's because I've always shown genuine love to them no matter what!! ❤
This was one for the books. ALWAYS PRAY GOD AND TIME. 🙏
Great episode ❤... 😊
I too became a bonus mom before i ever birthed a child...i gave my all, but realized i wasn't the mother...almost an auntie with extra rights and benefits. This is such a needed conversation in our black homes.
This was AMAZING!!
Oohh, PK, 🎉the blend survives the seed! Whewww a whole word.
Write the book guys! This is great. It's been 16 years that I have been divorced. However, it was not happening on my watch at the time---that my children was allowed to be with my ex girlfriend due to her contributing to the break up in the marriage. It was put in my court order that she could not be around my children. Fast forward the relationship between them two only lasted 8 months after the divorce.
The second woman, he dated and had nothing to do with the break up of the relationship, I supported her. She was involved...Lol, that relationship failed to. My children are grown so they on there own.
Love this podcast !❤
Yes the make up of the child, the temperament, the personality, and attitude. ❤❤❤❤❤
First Lady loving the realness...yes ma'am. It's the attire for me today. The cute chill mode.
That's How I felt, As Long you treat my child as if my child,Their own , I was good, I aint care to look too deep into anything he was doing.That was done and over. It was always about our son
My prayer was for all of what Lady Shaunie was talking about regarding co-parenting. But unfortunately the immaturity, lack of consideration, and communication is not on my end. 😩
This is a good conversation
This was 👌🏾
This was good
I agree with you Pastor Keion,growth is an inside job.
This is deep!
I think this also applies with neices or nephews. Meaning one sibling doesn't like their sibling so they use their child (the neice or nephew) as a pawn to "get back" at the aunt or uncle...imagine how that nephew feels and the thoughts and anxiety. 😔 Hearing things that they should not be hearing. My heart hurts for the child. Of course the child will feel awkward when around the aunt because he's heard her sister bash her sister at home.
This episode is # 1
A good lesson, for people. that are, having that problem, however, watch it!
I love the way he looks at situations
Great conversation.
That is so true, No child should be in grown folks business
Before my parents had me, my dad had my sister who is five years older than me and my mom loved her like she was her own. My parents made sure that all five of us were close from the beginning.
Thanks for the conversation just 1 disagreement I believe you can love another child like your own. I grew up with a step dad who raised me and my 2 brother and we felt no difference than his biological children. I was very young but my brothers were approx 7 & 8. I called him dad my brothers because they were older called him by his name but to others and still to this day they refer to him as their dad ( may he rest in peace) I’m forever grateful for him. I know every situation is different
Very good conversation
14.47Shaunie you are an amazing person.God bless and you always❤
That’s right First Lady 👏🏾
This is Good
Shaunie I agree with you 💯!!
I can remember my stepmom introducing me as her daughter and me thinking NO I'M NOT... other times she would introduce me as Courtney's daughter and i felt left out and lonely.
You speaking real for the child in the middle for real! Kids are smarter than we think . For real tho! 😢
It also depends on how you met.. If the ex feels for whatever reason you moved on to fast it can have an affect on how the child reacts to the bonus parent. Additionally it also depends on what type of relationship you had with the ex, because some people are abusive and hence there is a reluctance of the other parent to share the child with their abuser and the new partner. And parents play a HUGE role in making the kids get comfortable with the bonus parents.
I am not saying it is right. But people have feelings. And not everyone is willing to take the punch and be the bigger person.
In an ideal world that is what makes it work: Get out your feelings and think about your children.
I found me after my divorce. I felt like I had bombed and let my kids down. 😢 but I still mothered through the struggle and it was not the best but now----I am healed and playing make up.
Rejection!!! I agree with First Lady!!!
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My parents were immature co-parents. My mother would ask to talk to my dad, and he would tell her to call his secretary to make an appt. WTF? I was the messenger for both of their messages😢
Shaunie. Is being exposed, however. at least she is present, to defend, herself!😅
How??
I kind of felt that way about my brother lol,
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Shaun
The Grooow Zone is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 I love ya’ll. Sista Henderson and Brother Keion the best!!!!💯💯
For me, again for me, I would never say to another woman, all I want is to you to treat my children like your own. Cuz i don’t believe no other woman will love your children like you do. And case & point, look what pastor Kenon went through with his step dad.
Pk sounds like he’s taking up for his X. What about your WIFE . Pk needs to speak to his X with Shaunie .Thanks for being honest First Lady!!! We all should be.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hey everyone
It’s not easy
Hello 🙋♂️
Pk is involved in your kids life. Why are you not in his daughter’s activities. Pk needs to stand up for you ( his wife) .
Shout out, to the Step father's of the world. He can't do nothing,😮 right!
Somebody send this to my ex
😂😂😂😂
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Yes, change the language…stop calling it rejection. She’s a child trying to process her own feelings and emotions. Show up as you and celebrate what what level she receives on.
Disagree with PK!!
Victim's begat's Victim's😮
Boy you are horrible, now this step father has been exposed, him and his children, because, you played the Victim!😮
That comment, went from. I am a co-parent failure to the real parent is a failure. If you going to criticize her, on National Mefia, it would have only been, fair for her to be on the show. and defend her self. Now you have created. a bigger enemy. From the childs mother. How do you, think it will filter, through, the child behavior, now.
A can of worms, that never, should have, been opened!😮
This was good.