I want to take a moment to express my gratitude to all the brave survivors sharing their personal stories of domestic violence in the comments below. We stand with you, love you, and support you. For those who may be suffering in silence, please know that you are not alone. We are sending you our thoughts, prayers, and strength for a safe exit.
And you can do it, do it safely. Even if it takes you trying more than once, it is something like average of seven attempts to leave DV is normal. It is hard But you are worth it
This is what I had to do. My ex went to work and I quickly/quietly packed my things (mind you, his mom and brother were living in our home so i had to be extra quiet) and had a coworker come get me. It was terrifying. He sent his brother to my job to bring gifts, called and text constantly, had his mom (who didn't even care for me) text me a big long guilt trip message about coming back. He followed me around town, knew what i was doing and who i was with. I'm so thankful for the girls I worked with. I had no family in the state so they were all I had.
I really tried to, he was working late one day, and working early the next. I tried to get things out that first night but he came home early from work and caught me. I had to run that night, phoned a friend to chaperone my exit, stayed with another friend that night, and went into a shelter with my children the next.
As someone who left an abusive marriage, you must have an exit plan. No direct confrontation and never again be alone with them after that point. Many people think, "they won't actually kill me" but they will, it happens everyday.
Absolutely! Unfortunately I’ve had to leave an abusive relationship and it took a lot of planning. I was terrified if I didn’t get out I might end up dead. After getting out and having help from a women’s shelter it sunk in even further how much danger I was truly in. I’m so sorry to hear you went through this as well. My heart breaks for all victims of domestic violence, especially those that don’t make it out alive. If you’re in an abusive relationship seek guidance from a women’s shelter or DV shelter (there are resources out there for men as well as they too can be victims of DV). There are many ways to do this so it won’t show up in your internet search history or be listed in your call log as being a call with a shelter.
Serving a violent, controlling, bully with divorce papers is absolutely terrifying! I understand why Alexis was procrastinating. She knew that it was going to make that vile monster furious!
@@suzimonkey345 I hope everyone knows that after you remove yourself and children if you have any, you can get a temporary restraining order. They are usually good for 5 days. Before the 5 days are up, you can get a court hearing, bring pictures, any evidence you have! The judge will extend it for one to three years. This gives you time to file for your divorce! If your ex has taken away your access to money the court will pay for you to serve your ex wife the divorce papers. It is done by the police or sherrif’s office. So you don’t have to be there at all!!! My ex was served the day of our 18th anniversary. It was not my fault or decision. It just happened to be the day that they knew where he was. Karma? Idk 🤷🏻♀️
Oh i lived this nightmare for 22 years......i only got out because my coworker had jad enough of me coming to work bruised up and he took the whole concrete crew and removed that demon from my house and then he stayed at my house for weeks to protect me and my kids. He literally saved my life. Its been 10 years since we escaped i still have nightmares of what i lived through. Get out ladies because they only get worse and more wicked.
I nearly didn't survive my ex, and DV stories always break my heart. I am lucky to have the vision in my right eye still after how badly he attacked me the final time. To anyone experiencing DV, I love you with all of my heart, even though I don't know you. I keep you in my heart and in my thoughts.
I was kidnapped for two months. Nobody came looking for me. I had to save myself. It was the worst and scariest thing I've ever been through. I still have horrible nightmares.
The only way I got away from my first husband was to leave while he was at work after careful planning and saving money up. I got my Granny to take care of my 3 year old son while a friend helped me. I got out before he could lay hands on my son. I was terrified he would come home and catch me. We went to my friend's sister's house 50 miles away. Thankfully it was over. I was 19 and I started over. I've now been with my second husband 42 years and I broke the chain. My sons were raised in a normal home without abuse, unlike my childhood and my ex's upbringing.
You know you're a bad person when your own family goes against you and say's, " Don't let him have access to his children, we're very worried about what he might do."Steroids are very dangerous when used in ways they're not supposed to be used. I honestly think his roid rage took over and he done this. What a beautiful soul that was taken way to soon.
They hate when you make great friends and accuse you of the weirdest shit with your friends. They tried to run off everyone that's close in your life that isn't them.
My best friends narc bf back in the day would tell her I was in love with her and that I was in love with him and that's why I didn't want them together. Thank god she saw the light eventually. He wasn't physically abusive but every other kind
@@laurenfrederick3029 yes girl, my husband would accuse me of wanting my best friend's husband or having threesomes with them. He would accuse me of the craziest things and he never even met her because he didn't like her lol he didn't know her.
@@laurenfrederick3029my ex did that with me and my best friend too. I saw through his sickness as well. Such a mentally abusive thing to do man. Some ppl are just evil.
Seeing so many comments of fellow survivors. My heart brakes for Alexis that she did not survive 💔 but it is beautiful to see so many strong and beautiful females that were able to take back their life!
I never knew what a narcissist was until I left my husband. I told him on the phone that I was glad he "left the window cracked" meaning I had seen the light and that it gave me a chance to get me and my babies out of the cage that he had locked us in. I realize God threw me a life saver and I'm glad I grabbed it. Stay strong brave warriors🙏🏼💖
Alexis was her own person and she was loved by many. She had many relationships not just with him. Looks like he wouldn’t acknowledge that, even after he killed her.
He shot himself in his daughter's home...leaving her with that memory for life. What a self-absorbed, self-centered, narcissist who cared about No One but himself and what Other people could do for Him. POS.
@@JessicaPhillips-wl2sh Yes mostly, but there are those that are cornered know they've been caught, and their last act of control is to take their own life
Roid rage is extra scary because they get so emotional while raging they could be laughing or crying while actively beating you to death. I didn't know what it was until after I left and had to move states away. It's like it replaces the human inside the body with a black void of nothing.
And it's no joke my spouse started shooting testosterone shots and it made him highly aggressive towards me. It's sad that this garbage is so easily available
100% true Roid rage is so scary I still have vivid flashbacks of screaming at my ex that he was hurting me and him crying and continued to hurt me during his "black out" roid moments it destroyed him,worst part was he became addicted to it not like a "high" but the results that came from it.just horrific
As a survivor of domestic violence, the moment you see your partners face and eyes change to blind rage it will haunt you forever! It’s been 8 years since he died but not a day goes by that I don’t see the scars or relive horrifying moments! 😢😢 P.S. if God hadn’t removed him from this earth I’d probably not be here because he told me so!
@yannialicia6529 shark eyes, that's what I called it when that happened with my ex. His eyes would go from a brilliant blue to a soulless black. It's honestly one of **the** scariest things to see, imo.
I call it narcissist eyes bc my father is a narcissist and his eyes would go black and blank when he went into a rage and bc the universe hates me I also married someone just like him. His eyes change so drastically even the dogs see them and tuck their tails and run. I know to someone who’s never experienced it this sounds harsh but you’re so lucky he died. I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve prayed for the same thing. It would be my only way out, and I know that. I hope you heal from all of the things you didn’t deserve❤
I was one of the people leaving him comments and sending DM's. I was immediately suspicious of him. I used to look for updates on alexis weekly. There was nothing for so long i was getting worried it would turn into a coldcase. He took the cheap cowards way out by unaliving himself!
Anyone sharing awareness about domestic violence is always respected in my eyes. As a survivor of domestic abuse, anytime I hear someone say “if it was so bad why didn’t they say something sooner” or “why didn’t they just leave then?” It enrages me. When things are said like that it comes across as though the person shouldn’t be believed and it silences people who are going through abuse, giving the abuser more power. It’s clear there’s still a lack of understanding around the control aspect of these relationships and it’s sad that often people have to experience it to understand.
You don’t realize how bad it is until you leave. When you’re in it you have slowly become manipulated and you get used to it. You do not even remember normal. It’s brainwashing. Getting out of an abusive relationship is the same as deprogramming from a cult.
I survived as well. It wasn’t until I was beaten in front of my kids and strung out on drugs before I turned my life around and never looked back at my ex husband. I’m so sorry this beautiful young lady lost her life.
@@StreetRider-iz7tg You can't control effects of hormones. When a woman radically changes her behavior over her cycle or during pregnancy, does that just reveal what an asshole she really is?
Roids just add to the insecurities and anger that is usually already there, most are vain and narcissists that everything revolves around them. I'm sorry about your marriage but thankful you got out ok.
As someone who used to be obese then lost a ton of weight and left me skinny fat lol. I took steroids for a while and they worked but I noticed myself getting more self conscious and somewhat paranoid, I stopped after a few cycles because I noticed the road it was headed down
Annie, you are really talented !! The way you express yourself about each victim is incredible and the way you tell the stories is out of this world! I binged watch your videos every time while cleaning❤🥰
it makes me sick everyone calls her Alexis Sharkey. she is Alexis Robinault and was a beautiful person inside and out. she doesn't deserve to be called by her murderers last name.
I remember when they found her body, I was devastated for her family & friends & knew that monster took her life! Ladies know your worth never let a man make you feel less than!
Got my cornea ruptured today and in a lot of pain, I’ve been listening to your old videos all day and I find you uploaded a new one as I finished the previous one!!! This is great
Awww that’s terrible!!!! I terribly scratched my cornea back when I was a kid and they had to numb it and I had to have ointment, etc. but what you’re going through sounds 10 times worse, get well soon
I am a survivor of domestic violence. I almost lost my life due to strangulation. Definitely wasn't the first time he tried to choke me out. That particular day he said I am going to kill you (This was because I asked him why he didn't show up to his child's Christmas concert and where he was at 2:00 a.m.) anyway, his 12-year-old daughter burst into the room and saved me. There was a lot of violence before that but that was probably going to be the last time. The most dangerous time for women is when they are going to try to leave their abuser. After this I went back to school and worked in The anti-violence field for a decade. It is scarily common. How often men kill their partners. It's very sad how often they get away with it. This is definitely one of those cases and it breaks my heart.
Similar thing happened to me, but instead of joking, he tried to push me down on the 8th floor balcony, clever then he could say either that I "slipped" or commited "suicide", similarily it also happened when I tried to leave him, there is so much viloence against women in the world, thus women are called "the weaker sex", but we are not weak, we are strong, stronger than these abusive men, we survived these cowardly men, using physical viloence is sign of a coward, instead of facing problems in life and trying to solve them by using words, and brain, they use physical viloence, cowards
I have a best friend like that & it would absolutely destroy me if something happened to her. My heart goes out to Alexis’ family & friends. This case never got the attention it deserved. Thank you for covering it Annie 🙏
MLMs are gross to begin with, but seeing other huns using her picture and name as a way to get sales takes the tackiness and lack of ethics to a whole new level
Left another to come here... as alwayssssss.. you look beautiful Annie !! Thank you for all of your hard work ! Even if I've heard a case, I HAVE TO hear your take on it !
Thank you for talking about this now, as it is Domestic Violence Awareness Month! I'm a survivor. Even though part of my therapy after my 1st marriage (he threatened to kill me twice & was starting to act like it just before I left) was reading/studying controlling/abusive behavior, I still ended up with a long-time friend (I thought I knew) I didn't recognize as abusive (the day I escaped, he had put his hands around my neck but thank God he let go!). If you're a victim, please realize that the most dangerous time is when trying to leave your abuser. Making a safety/escape plan before leaving is extremely important! Call a DV hotline or search secretly online to learn how. Then if you have to leave NOW you'll know who to call, where to go and have all your documents and clothes. Also, couple's counseling will only make things WORSE for you! Finding someone who's had extensive training in DV therapy, who will work with each of you SEPARATELY, will keep you mentally & emotionally safe. The abuser will only change if they do the tough work to change themselves! Remember, you're not alone and stay safe!
🤬😭🤬 *To EVERYONE, regardless of age: PLEASE have a will made up with everything you own listed and to whom you want it to go to!* *Even have a PoA. This will ensure your family or friends know your final wishes and nothing can happen to your stuff!*
Hi there to all of my true crime besties! Annie u are so fantastic at covering these stories and I am addicted!! Your are amazing, thankyou thankyou, thankyou 💖 🙏
In my opinion justice was served. Saved everyone the time and resources and ensures he’ll never have another victim. The whole thing was a tragedy, but in my opinion it’s best when the trash takes itself out. I’m praying for all you ladies who have gone or are going through it. Stay strong and get outa there!
Annie, congrats on the recognition from Apple. You work hard, and I am so happy for you. I found you through an episode you did where you talked about your experience with postpartum depression (it was at the time when a mom had just unalived all 3 of her children and the word was that it was caused by postpartum psychosis). Anyway, I really loved your honesty about your own experience and I related to it also, because I had postpartum with my first son (he will be 35 this year, so I could be your mom, but I found you so relatable anyway). I also love John and Lauren Matthias, so I’m a big fan of the cases where you collaborate with them. You’re awesome-congratulations again.
This story reminds me of so many domestic stories where I live and it’s sad, women please do not let this happen to you, just leave, thank you for sharing this story!❤️🇨🇦👍
It is NOT all that easy to JUST LEAVE....be grateful you have no idea of what it is like in a DV relationship. It is truly demeaning to say those words to someone who is or was in that situation. As a survivor of DV SA etc...please JUST BE KIND
46:53 look, i believe that her husband did this to her. However, i will correct her loved ones when they say it wasn’t possible that she suffered from mental instability or wasn’t happy. They need to educate themselves when it comes to mental illnesses, because it’s almost always what appears to be the happiest people who end up taking their own lives due to battles of mental illnesses. Not saying this is the case with Alexis, but speaking on behalf of mental health awareness (i speak from experience)
Exactly- there can be so many under lining issues here like trauma bonding and or caught up with status and image. It’s unfortunate she had brains and beauty. I think most influencers look for validation and to live up to this narrative they create for them selves. I don’t know if this is her but I’m in the middle of this story thinking Tom doesn’t strike me as a killer. I am sure he is an asshole. I just don’t see it. It’s crazy though if he did kill her and sad that DV is numbers are high and sometimes it’s so well hidden.
I absolutely hate my picture taken. I've never taken a selfie or let my friends take my picture. To the point they joke that I'm in witness protection program. Lol
@@politicalpossum9474😂😂😂 hHha awe y’all are good. I’m sure he gave off a different energy and that’s why people bring up these small things, just to figure out more about him
I may need to make an appointment. I was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid but that was 20 years ago and I've grown up and worked with people with disabilities and I got along with the autistic peeps really well cos we had a lot in common.
My best friend who died wanted me to adopt his cat. I can’t even express how much it has meant to me to have her to love and to remind me of him these past 3 years. What an uncalled for extra slap in the face to Lexi’s mother. 😡
My cousin who was like my big brother passed away 15yr ago, and I have one of his sweatshirts to this day... It mostly stays in my closet, but every now and then I will wear it when I need just a little extra strength!
I remember watching this all unfold on social media. So senseless and sad. Really upsetting to hear her friend talk about their friend group splitting apart. Absence has such an overwhelming presence when something like this happens.
Thanks so much for always giving me great content to listen to while working all day! I listen to you daily with my earbuds in. I look forward to your content everyday! Thanks again Annie 😊
So senseless and sad. My prayers go out to the family and friends of both. Narcissists are horrible people, and they never change, but only get worse. Never tell them that you’re leaving, just get safely out. Then stay out, and go no contact. The effects of these monsters is devastating 😢 ☮️💖🙏
RIP Lexi! This was and still is so heartbreaking, she was such a kind and sweet girl! My heart breaks so much for her family and all her friends she had where she lived and all the ones she grew up with in our small tiny town. So devastating, she didn't deserve this, no one does. Her Mom is super sweet & kind and was one of my favorite teachers back in 6th grade years and years ago. ❤️❤️❤️💔💔💔
It's sad that the law protects the narcissist and not the true victim. I know someone who is trying to leave a person who is abusing them. Please pray for them.
I know she didnt commit suicide but I hate when people say "she was always so happy, she always smiled, she had no demons!" You never truly know what people deal with in their own mind.
Hey Annie and all 10tolifers thank you for community of this channel. Even though I am blessed with 4 boys and a baby boy as a hubbio. This is my break from stresses, boredom, and health issues. I love your videos Annie and I love everyone comments with good, bad, or indifferent it’s all great talking points and perspectives for the ugly truth, that there are too many monsters out here amongst us. Keep your head on a swivel and keep yourself educated on red flags. Much respect everyone and Many blessings
I was a victim of DV twice… but the second time was way worse…. It didn’t matter how many times he hurt me he could always convince people it was no big deal or it was an accident…. The only reason I got away is because we both had Covid and went to the hospital one time but they separated us because they only had room for one of us- me. And because he wouldn’t let me have a phone or FB or anything, once I got out of the hospital he had no way to reach me or find me. I had never felt so free in my life.
Your personality always struck me like a wind of fresh air on a winter morning with a hint of sunlight and the bright leaves with winter dew on them blessing my eyes. God bless you and your family and he shall help you to achieve the endless❤
ANNIE I WANT TO PERSONALLY THANK YOU FOR YOUR COVERAGE ON THIS CASE, BUT MOST OF ALL YOUR STATEMENTS AT THE END , IN REGARDS TO GETTING HER WHOLE STORY TOLD ,WITH NO CUTTING OUT OR SILENCING WORDS IN REGARDS TO WHAT HAPPENED TO HER !!!! I STAND BESIDE YOU 100% THAT IT'S VERY IMPORTANT FOR HER STORY TO BE HEARD !!!! GOD BLESS YOU ANNIE AND THANK YOU AGAIN !!
Wow, Annie! You told her story exceptionally well. This is my first time hearing about it. The only thing I didn't like was saying she was discarded like trash. It was said a couple of times, and I can't imagine how hard that would be for her mom, family, and friends hearing it in that kind of way. I must say it was nice hearing a story that hasn't been all over TH-cam, one that I haven't heard of that's older than the hills. We need more stories that haven't been played all over TH-cam.
I thought the one doing the interview was awful, making it about herself, who cares about the hotel room her parents got for her 30th…. She loves the sound of her own voice..Lexi’s friend for 2 months and couldn’t be bothered to attend her funeral.. just 🙄
I wish you were coming closer. I LOVE the way you tell these stories. Thank you so much for covering these cases! 🙏 I hope you come to Louisiana one day ..
Her friend saying she was struggling with mental health issues she clearly was. She was dealing with a use in the home. Just because she presented happy all the time doesn't mean she wasn't struggling. And just because she didn't share it with her doesn't mean she was ok
Thank you for covering this case. I was always so invested in this when it happened. There was so little info and it was feeling like the case would never get the justice she deserves. So sad how even he took that at the end as well. Cowardly. I wanna say if you look closer at the sky during the balloon release you can see a perfect smiley face in the clouds at that moment and I think that's a sign that Alexis is free and smiling 😃 🎉❤not sure if anyone else seen that?!
Used to be at parties in highschool with Alexis she treated everyone really nice and acted like everyone was her friend. She was a very good soul and attracted the attention from everyone when she was around. It’s crazy that piece of shit did what he did.
Thank you for bringing light to cases that might have been forgotten bc it concerns social media etc. that some might overlook…. Good luck with the rest of your tour! I couldn’t make any dates this time bc I am in the Midwest/NE so I hope you make this tour thing more than a one off!!
I truly feel like us women have an intuition about these things. Several years ago a friend of mine was in an abusive relationship, one night I had a horrible sinking feeling, so I reached out to her, after a few texts I realize it’s not her texting, it was her abuser. I got just enough information and called her sister and the police, she survived, but barely. It was insane, I just knew something was off.
I use to wait for my ex to fall asleep and sneak out because luckily he was a heavy sleeper. I remember shaking like crazy praying to god he wouldn’t wake up. I don’t miss that feeling! RIP Alexis. 💜 💜💜💜💜
R.I.P Alexis ❤ a beautiful soul taken way too soon in such a brutal way. You're now dancing among the stars & shining down on your beautiful family and friends. Thank you Annie for putting the truth out, ppl could see what he was and the lies he told were abhorrent, total vermin
Thank you for sharing her story with us as I am so very sorry for the families and this could have been prevented if only she stayed with someone safe may she rest in peace and I have to say if it was him he took the cowards way out !!!!
I'm in Newfoundland, Canada 🇨🇦 I wish I could go to one of your shows ❤ I think your the best true crime channel the work you put into it definitely shows!! You are so consistent uploading and always new content !! 🙂👍❤️
I would stop making statements such as she “was making more money so she didn’t need him anymore.” It was repeated a few times in this video in different ways. It paints her in a way that insinuates that’s the only reason she was with him when I’m sure that wasn’t the case. She most likely fell in love with him because guys like him can show a different side when meeting new people. If he was a loving husband, she would’ve stayed regardless of the amount of money she was making, based on the sweet description her friends painted of her. Also, the statement that older guys are often controlling who have younger wives and girlfriends is not correct. There’s no evidence that the rate is higher in those situations. There’s guys like this in all age groups. And women too.
Really? Google it. Age gap relationships are absolutely more likely to be abusive and controlling. This doesn’t mean they are all like that but there is a reason why someone looks for someone more naive to control. We were all young and naive. The making money comments are speaking tot the fact that a lot of people can’t get out of abusive relationships because of financial abuse. She could have. He had her under some other sort of manipulation believing that she was not good enough or in fear. We as a society have to start looking at how this happens and that there are many factors of manipulation and control of abusers and many self esteem issues for the people who stay. Teach people the red flags and signs that you may have low self esteem.
❤❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing this tragic story. You touched My heart. The details, emotions, letting the truth be heard. You were Alexis's voice. Very Emotional for me Thank you Annie
@AnnieElise, a great true crime story is one from Utah. The KAY MORTENSON story. There are so many twists and turns you might get whiplash! He was my uncle. It has only been briefly covered once on TH-cam. A goid deep dive would be AWESOME, especially since you're coming to Utah! Great job girl, keep them coming.
I want to take a moment to express my gratitude to all the brave survivors sharing their personal stories of domestic violence in the comments below. We stand with you, love you, and support you. For those who may be suffering in silence, please know that you are not alone. We are sending you our thoughts, prayers, and strength for a safe exit.
@annieelise yes absolutely 💯
Annie please🙏 come to Las Vegas Nevada next time because I would really love to see you in person❤
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And you can do it, do it safely. Even if it takes you trying more than once, it is something like average of seven attempts to leave DV is normal.
It is hard
But you are worth it
Never tell them you are leaving ! Just act normal then when they go to work exit stage left . I too have stories, Stay safe ❤
I had to wait until he was gone before I left him, and when he realized that I was gone,, he was so confused, like seriously OMG ❤
I've just spilled the beans and told my story, it's not just naturally violent people who turn into killers.
This is what I had to do. My ex went to work and I quickly/quietly packed my things (mind you, his mom and brother were living in our home so i had to be extra quiet) and had a coworker come get me. It was terrifying. He sent his brother to my job to bring gifts, called and text constantly, had his mom (who didn't even care for me) text me a big long guilt trip message about coming back. He followed me around town, knew what i was doing and who i was with. I'm so thankful for the girls I worked with. I had no family in the state so they were all I had.
I'm so glad that you got out 🎉 stay safe and always blessed 💕🙏
I really tried to, he was working late one day, and working early the next. I tried to get things out that first night but he came home early from work and caught me. I had to run that night, phoned a friend to chaperone my exit, stayed with another friend that night, and went into a shelter with my children the next.
Never. Ever. EVER, tell them you're leaving.
Just go.
As someone who left an abusive marriage, you must have an exit plan. No direct confrontation and never again be alone with them after that point. Many people think, "they won't actually kill me" but they will, it happens everyday.
Good point. ❤
That’s very smart to do. I just left no exit plan things got bad that day and I left that day never went back. I just knew I was done!!!!
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Yes, this is when people, especially women, must rely on instinct and get out of there before something bad happens.
Absolutely! Unfortunately I’ve had to leave an abusive relationship and it took a lot of planning. I was terrified if I didn’t get out I might end up dead. After getting out and having help from a women’s shelter it sunk in even further how much danger I was truly in.
I’m so sorry to hear you went through this as well. My heart breaks for all victims of domestic violence, especially those that don’t make it out alive.
If you’re in an abusive relationship seek guidance from a women’s shelter or DV shelter (there are resources out there for men as well as they too can be victims of DV). There are many ways to do this so it won’t show up in your internet search history or be listed in your call log as being a call with a shelter.
Serving a violent, controlling, bully with divorce papers is absolutely terrifying! I understand why Alexis was procrastinating. She knew that it was going to make that vile monster furious!
@@suzimonkey345 I hope everyone knows that after you remove yourself and children if you have any, you can get a temporary restraining order. They are usually good for 5 days. Before the 5 days are up, you can get a court hearing, bring pictures, any evidence you have! The judge will extend it for one to three years. This gives you time to file for your divorce! If your ex has taken away your access to money the court will pay for you to serve your ex wife the divorce papers. It is done by the police or sherrif’s office. So you don’t have to be there at all!!! My ex was served the day of our 18th anniversary. It was not my fault or decision. It just happened to be the day that they knew where he was.
Karma? Idk 🤷🏻♀️
Oh i lived this nightmare for 22 years......i only got out because my coworker had jad enough of me coming to work bruised up and he took the whole concrete crew and removed that demon from my house and then he stayed at my house for weeks to protect me and my kids. He literally saved my life. Its been 10 years since we escaped i still have nightmares of what i lived through.
Get out ladies because they only get worse and more wicked.
Never let your guard down, some of these monsters wait years to take revenge
God bless you and your friend who saved you 🙏🏼
This is why having true male allies is so important, in these situations especially.
I’m thankful you had a good man for support.
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I nearly didn't survive my ex, and DV stories always break my heart. I am lucky to have the vision in my right eye still after how badly he attacked me the final time. To anyone experiencing DV, I love you with all of my heart, even though I don't know you. I keep you in my heart and in my thoughts.
I ‘m sorry that you had to go through that I ‘m so happy that you was able to get away and that your vision is still good 💜
@@little.heathen bless you so sorry that happened to you
I was kidnapped for two months. Nobody came looking for me. I had to save myself. It was the worst and scariest thing I've ever been through. I still have horrible nightmares.
@@JustinFarkas-h4f that is horrific so happy you made it out love and peace to you
@@JustinFarkas-h4f so sorry this happened 2 yu but I’m glad yu made it out! May yu b blessed n luvd ❤
The only way I got away from my first husband was to leave while he was at work after careful planning and saving money up. I got my Granny to take care of my 3 year old son while a friend helped me. I got out before he could lay hands on my son. I was terrified he would come home and catch me. We went to my friend's sister's house 50 miles away. Thankfully it was over. I was 19 and I started over. I've now been with my second husband 42 years and I broke the chain. My sons were raised in a normal home without abuse, unlike my childhood and my ex's upbringing.
I’m so happy you safely escaped and made a new life for you and you’re son. Thanks for sharing your story ❤️
I’m so proud of u I fled dv with crypto 500 miles + from my own mom
I'm so thankful you were able to escape and I'm so happy you found love, happiness and peace. I wish you and your family the very best of everything.
@@jeanetteorosco8936 Thank you so much.
@@alixbresler1913 Thank you so much.
You know you're a bad person when your own family goes against you and say's, " Don't let him have access to his children, we're very worried about what he might do."Steroids are very dangerous when used in ways they're not supposed to be used. I honestly think his roid rage took over and he done this. What a beautiful soul that was taken way to soon.
They hate when you make great friends and accuse you of the weirdest shit with your friends. They tried to run off everyone that's close in your life that isn't them.
My best friends narc bf back in the day would tell her I was in love with her and that I was in love with him and that's why I didn't want them together. Thank god she saw the light eventually. He wasn't physically abusive but every other kind
@@laurenfrederick3029 yes girl, my husband would accuse me of wanting my best friend's husband or having threesomes with them. He would accuse me of the craziest things and he never even met her because he didn't like her lol he didn't know her.
@@laurenfrederick3029my ex did that with me and my best friend too. I saw through his sickness as well. Such a mentally abusive thing to do man. Some ppl are just evil.
Seeing so many comments of fellow survivors. My heart brakes for Alexis that she did not survive 💔 but it is beautiful to see so many strong and beautiful females that were able to take back their life!
I never knew what a narcissist was until I left my husband. I told him on the phone that I was glad he "left the window cracked" meaning I had seen the light and that it gave me a chance to get me and my babies out of the cage that he had locked us in. I realize God threw me a life saver and I'm glad I grabbed it. Stay strong brave warriors🙏🏼💖
The way he wouldn’t say her name… “MY world, MY everything, MY wife.” Never her name though.
Because even in death, he thinks he owns her 😢
My My My My- all about him… disgusting.
He made her sound like an object by using ambiguous terms.
Oh my gosh so true
Alexis was her own person and she was loved by many. She had many relationships not just with him. Looks like he wouldn’t acknowledge that, even after he killed her.
He shot himself in his daughter's home...leaving her with that memory for life. What a self-absorbed, self-centered, narcissist who cared about No One but himself and what Other people could do for Him. POS.
i thought the same.. gross.
I was thinking this too, what a sicko.
This is a crazy case cause most narcissistic people don't unalive themselves.
@@truthseeker6370 I've often thought about how awful that must've been for her! I wouldn't be surprised if she moved as fast as possible!😕
@@JessicaPhillips-wl2sh Yes mostly, but there are those that are cornered know they've been caught, and their last act of control is to take their own life
I looked at this guy for two seconds and instantly thought roid rage
Same. He was a coward. A total piece of crap.
Roid rage is extra scary because they get so emotional while raging they could be laughing or crying while actively beating you to death.
I didn't know what it was until after I left and had to move states away. It's like it replaces the human inside the body with a black void of nothing.
And it's no joke my spouse started shooting testosterone shots and it made him highly aggressive towards me. It's sad that this garbage is so easily available
Yes ! My first thought too
100% true Roid rage is so scary I still have vivid flashbacks of screaming at my ex that he was hurting me and him crying and continued to hurt me during his "black out" roid moments it destroyed him,worst part was he became addicted to it not like a "high" but the results that came from it.just horrific
As a survivor of domestic violence, the moment you see your partners face and eyes change to blind rage it will haunt you forever! It’s been 8 years since he died but not a day goes by that I don’t see the scars or relive horrifying moments! 😢😢
P.S. if God hadn’t removed him from this earth I’d probably not be here because he told me so!
So glad you survived and are still here with us 🙌🏼 You’re a strong woman and I wish you peace and happiness
My eldest son’s father would have shark eyes. As they were empty and dark. My dad as well.
Sending you prayers for healing 🙏🏼
@yannialicia6529 shark eyes, that's what I called it when that happened with my ex. His eyes would go from a brilliant blue to a soulless black. It's honestly one of **the** scariest things to see, imo.
I call it narcissist eyes bc my father is a narcissist and his eyes would go black and blank when he went into a rage and bc the universe hates me I also married someone just like him. His eyes change so drastically even the dogs see them and tuck their tails and run. I know to someone who’s never experienced it this sounds harsh but you’re so lucky he died. I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve prayed for the same thing. It would be my only way out, and I know that. I hope you heal from all of the things you didn’t deserve❤
I was one of the people leaving him comments and sending DM's. I was immediately suspicious of him. I used to look for updates on alexis weekly. There was nothing for so long i was getting worried it would turn into a coldcase. He took the cheap cowards way out by unaliving himself!
Anyone sharing awareness about domestic violence is always respected in my eyes. As a survivor of domestic abuse, anytime I hear someone say “if it was so bad why didn’t they say something sooner” or “why didn’t they just leave then?” It enrages me. When things are said like that it comes across as though the person shouldn’t be believed and it silences people who are going through abuse, giving the abuser more power. It’s clear there’s still a lack of understanding around the control aspect of these relationships and it’s sad that often people have to experience it to understand.
You don’t realize how bad it is until you leave. When you’re in it you have slowly become manipulated and you get used to it. You do not even remember normal. It’s brainwashing. Getting out of an abusive relationship is the same as deprogramming from a cult.
exactly
Absolutely. Until someone is living that hell@ they have NO IDEA of what we live through.
I survived as well. It wasn’t until I was beaten in front of my kids and strung out on drugs before I turned my life around and never looked back at my ex husband. I’m so sorry this beautiful young lady lost her life.
Steroids destroyed my 22 year marriage. It really did turn him into a completely different person.
@@StreetRider-iz7tg you’re absolutely right
@@StreetRider-iz7tg You can't control effects of hormones. When a woman radically changes her behavior over her cycle or during pregnancy, does that just reveal what an asshole she really is?
Roids just add to the insecurities and anger that is usually already there, most are vain and narcissists that everything revolves around them. I'm sorry about your marriage but thankful you got out ok.
As someone who used to be obese then lost a ton of weight and left me skinny fat lol. I took steroids for a while and they worked but I noticed myself getting more self conscious and somewhat paranoid, I stopped after a few cycles because I noticed the road it was headed down
DV survivor here 💜🤞🏾Her story lives on with all survivors.
Annie, you are really talented !! The way you express yourself about each victim is incredible and the way you tell the stories is out of this world! I binged watch your videos every time while cleaning❤🥰
yep
I deep dived on this case when it happened. 100% obvious from the beginning that he killed her. So tragic. 💔
@maureen3770 yes absolutely 💯 I did as well
Thank you for revisiting this case. Eventhough i didnt know Alexis I feel like we never got closure. Such a sad case. RIP Alexis.
Who says jail is the only justice? I’m glad this man isn’t on this Earth anymore.
He gave himself the death penalty
Right? Sometimes the 🗑️ takes itself out.
Some might say that he placed himself right in front of the most powerful judge who knows exactly what he did…
it makes me sick everyone calls her Alexis Sharkey. she is Alexis Robinault and was a beautiful person inside and out. she doesn't deserve to be called by her murderers last name.
Absolutely!!!!!! 👏🏼
@caitiemaze936 Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks that! I cringe every time anyone uses that last name!
Such a good point
I remember when they found her body, I was devastated for her family & friends & knew that monster took her life! Ladies know your worth never let a man make you feel less than!
Got my cornea ruptured today and in a lot of pain, I’ve been listening to your old videos all day and I find you uploaded a new one as I finished the previous one!!! This is great
Feel better true crime bestie, take it easy and heal well
That sounds awful. I hope you feel better soon
Feel better soon
Awww that’s terrible!!!! I terribly scratched my cornea back when I was a kid and they had to numb it and I had to have ointment, etc. but what you’re going through sounds 10 times worse, get well soon
I pray 🙏🏼 you are safe and not in any way stuck in a DV situation🙏🏼❤️
I am a survivor of domestic violence. I almost lost my life due to strangulation. Definitely wasn't the first time he tried to choke me out. That particular day he said I am going to kill you (This was because I asked him why he didn't show up to his child's Christmas concert and where he was at 2:00 a.m.) anyway, his 12-year-old daughter burst into the room and saved me. There was a lot of violence before that but that was probably going to be the last time.
The most dangerous time for women is when they are going to try to leave their abuser.
After this I went back to school and worked in The anti-violence field for a decade. It is scarily common. How often men kill their partners. It's very sad how often they get away with it.
This is definitely one of those cases and it breaks my heart.
I told mine I didn't want to marry him.
I regreted that
Similar thing happened to me, but instead of joking, he tried to push me down on the 8th floor balcony, clever then he could say either that I "slipped" or commited "suicide", similarily it also happened when I tried to leave him, there is so much viloence against women in the world, thus women are called "the weaker sex", but we are not weak, we are strong, stronger than these abusive men, we survived these cowardly men, using physical viloence is sign of a coward, instead of facing problems in life and trying to solve them by using words, and brain, they use physical viloence, cowards
I have a best friend like that & it would absolutely destroy me if something happened to her. My heart goes out to Alexis’ family & friends. This case never got the attention it deserved. Thank you for covering it Annie 🙏
MLMs are gross to begin with, but seeing other huns using her picture and name as a way to get sales takes the tackiness and lack of ethics to a whole new level
Left another to come here... as alwayssssss.. you look beautiful Annie !! Thank you for all of your hard work ! Even if I've heard a case, I HAVE TO hear your take on it !
😂same here lol
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Thank you for talking about this now, as it is Domestic Violence Awareness Month!
I'm a survivor. Even though part of my therapy after my 1st marriage (he threatened to kill me twice & was starting to act like it just before I left) was reading/studying controlling/abusive behavior, I still ended up with a long-time friend (I thought I knew) I didn't recognize as abusive (the day I escaped, he had put his hands around my neck but thank God he let go!).
If you're a victim, please realize that the most dangerous time is when trying to leave your abuser. Making a safety/escape plan before leaving is extremely important! Call a DV hotline or search secretly online to learn how. Then if you have to leave NOW you'll know who to call, where to go and have all your documents and clothes.
Also, couple's counseling will only make things WORSE for you! Finding someone who's had extensive training in DV therapy, who will work with each of you SEPARATELY, will keep you mentally & emotionally safe. The abuser will only change if they do the tough work to change themselves!
Remember, you're not alone and stay safe!
I actually chatted with Alexis through DMs a year before this. It’s very tragic what happened to her. She was very kind!
Thanks for your stories on Seriously posts Annie Elise. Take care & be safe on your travels to your remaining shows.
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*To EVERYONE, regardless of age: PLEASE have a will made up with everything you own listed and to whom you want it to go to!*
*Even have a PoA. This will ensure your family or friends know your final wishes and nothing can happen to your stuff!*
Hi there to all of my true crime besties! Annie u are so fantastic at covering these stories and I am addicted!! Your are amazing, thankyou thankyou, thankyou 💖 🙏
Ok. That did it for me. As a cat lover what he did with the cats was despicable. Guilty as charged.
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I was thinking ...he probably killed the cats too
God it hurts me to even think he did something to the cats. Her mom even offered to take in the cats 💔
right! those beautiful kitties it just put tears in my eyes 🥺
Tears in my eyes too/ those poor babies🐾🫧🫧
In my opinion justice was served. Saved everyone the time and resources and ensures he’ll never have another victim. The whole thing was a tragedy, but in my opinion it’s best when the trash takes itself out. I’m praying for all you ladies who have gone or are going through it. Stay strong and get outa there!
I think so too he gave himself the death penalty thus saving the tax payer's money
Annie, congrats on the recognition from Apple. You work hard, and I am so happy for you. I found you through an episode you did where you talked about your experience with postpartum depression (it was at the time when a mom had just unalived all 3 of her children and the word was that it was caused by postpartum psychosis). Anyway, I really loved your honesty about your own experience and I related to it also, because I had postpartum with my first son (he will be 35 this year, so I could be your mom, but I found you so relatable anyway). I also love John and Lauren Matthias, so I’m a big fan of the cases where you collaborate with them. You’re awesome-congratulations again.
This story reminds me of so many domestic stories where I live and it’s sad, women please do not let this happen to you, just leave, thank you for sharing this story!❤️🇨🇦👍
Do you really think anyone willingly lets this happen to them?
@@inkumbinkumdinkumdooright! And it's believed she was trying to leave. How about abusive monsters not be abusive monsters.
It took me 10 years to leave. It's not as easy " to just leave"
@@inkumbinkumdinkumdoo Woah the person never said that! smh
It is NOT all that easy to JUST LEAVE....be grateful you have no idea of what it is like in a DV relationship. It is truly demeaning to say those words to someone who is or was in that situation. As a survivor of DV SA etc...please JUST BE KIND
Thank you Annie for your hard work! I love watching your videos while working. ❤
I’m so happy; having watched you for years, that you are still front and center investigating the truth! Regardless where it comes from!
When she said she heard Lexie say "find my body" I got chills too!
Thank you for all your hard work, Annie. I absolutely love your channel ❤️
RIP ALEXIS PLEASE SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU. Annie really nice presentation as usual.
Am a new subscriber and guess what? I love it here
Thanks Annie for putting together these stories
Welcome new true crime bestie! Annie rocks. Also her podcast serialously. ❤
@@CorinaLBailey thanks darling i appreciate it and am glued here aint going nowhere
Welcome! We love Annie! She's amazing.
@@moirahill6397 Thanks true crime bestie we sure did love Annie
46:53 look, i believe that her husband did this to her. However, i will correct her loved ones when they say it wasn’t possible that she suffered from mental instability or wasn’t happy. They need to educate themselves when it comes to mental illnesses, because it’s almost always what appears to be the happiest people who end up taking their own lives due to battles of mental illnesses. Not saying this is the case with Alexis, but speaking on behalf of mental health awareness (i speak from experience)
They are saying that's not her situation. Not anyone else.
@@laurac9857how would they know though?
Exactly- there can be so many under lining issues here like trauma bonding and or caught up with status and image. It’s unfortunate she had brains and beauty. I think most influencers look for validation and to live up to this narrative they create for them selves. I don’t know if this is her but I’m in the middle of this story thinking Tom doesn’t strike me as a killer. I am sure he is an asshole. I just don’t see it. It’s crazy though if he did kill her and sad that DV is numbers are high and sometimes it’s so well hidden.
No matter how strong you are, being in an abusive relationship would degrade any mindset
You are absolutely correct
Ok, I have been waiting for this one. It’s just so sad and needed some good coverage.
I absolutely hate my picture taken. I've never taken a selfie or let my friends take my picture. To the point they joke that I'm in witness protection program. Lol
Yeah me too. Annie Elise sort of made me feel like some sort of freak😐
@@politicalpossum9474😂😂😂 hHha awe y’all are good. I’m sure he gave off a different energy and that’s why people bring up these small things, just to figure out more about him
Are you in the WPP?
"that's not normal who doesn't want to be on camera with their friends" .......... me lmao i guess i'm not normal cause i despise being on camera!!
I may need to make an appointment. I was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid but that was 20 years ago and I've grown up and worked with people with disabilities and I got along with the autistic peeps really well cos we had a lot in common.
My best friend who died wanted me to adopt his cat. I can’t even express how much it has meant to me to have her to love and to remind me of him these past 3 years. What an uncalled for extra slap in the face to Lexi’s mother. 😡
My cousin who was like my big brother passed away 15yr ago, and I have one of his sweatshirts to this day... It mostly stays in my closet, but every now and then I will wear it when I need just a little extra strength!
I remember watching this all unfold on social media. So senseless and sad.
Really upsetting to hear her friend talk about their friend group splitting apart. Absence has such an overwhelming presence when something like this happens.
Thanks so much for always giving me great content to listen to while working all day! I listen to you daily with my earbuds in. I look forward to your content everyday! Thanks again Annie 😊
So senseless and sad. My prayers go out to the family and friends of both. Narcissists are horrible people, and they never change, but only get worse.
Never tell them that you’re leaving, just get safely out. Then stay out, and go no contact. The effects of these monsters is devastating 😢
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That one cat cost 2,000 dollars. you don't let that type of cat go on the street. That really pissed me off.
RIP Lexi!
This was and still is so heartbreaking, she was such a kind and sweet girl!
My heart breaks so much for her family and all her friends she had where she lived and all the ones she grew up with in our small tiny town.
So devastating, she didn't deserve this, no one does.
Her Mom is super sweet & kind and was one of my favorite teachers back in 6th grade years and years ago.
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It's sad that the law protects the narcissist and not the true victim. I know someone who is trying to leave a person who is abusing them. Please pray for them.
👀👀 automatically exits what I'm listening to when I see Annie posted something 30 seconds ago
Me tooo!! lol 😆
Same
As do I !!
I know, right!
Facts
I know she didnt commit suicide but I hate when people say "she was always so happy, she always smiled, she had no demons!" You never truly know what people deal with in their own mind.
Hey Annie and all 10tolifers thank you for community of this channel. Even though I am blessed with 4 boys and a baby boy as a hubbio. This is my break from stresses, boredom, and health issues. I love your videos Annie and I love everyone comments with good, bad, or indifferent it’s all great talking points and perspectives for the ugly truth, that there are too many monsters out here amongst us. Keep your head on a swivel and keep yourself educated on red flags. Much respect everyone and Many blessings
I was a victim of DV twice… but the second time was way worse…. It didn’t matter how many times he hurt me he could always convince people it was no big deal or it was an accident…. The only reason I got away is because we both had Covid and went to the hospital one time but they separated us because they only had room for one of us- me. And because he wouldn’t let me have a phone or FB or anything, once I got out of the hospital he had no way to reach me or find me. I had never felt so free in my life.
Good morning besties, good morning Annie! So AWESOME your shows are going so well. Hope to get to you on your next tour, fingers 🤞
Right on time, as always!
I miss Alexis so much 😭 I used to watch her on social media her content was the best!!❤ beautiful and creative ❤
You are SO going places, Annie Elise! Loved ya since the beginning, always so excited to see you expand and grow!
Your personality always struck me like a wind of fresh air on a winter morning with a hint of sunlight and the bright leaves with winter dew on them blessing my eyes.
God bless you and your family and he shall help you to achieve the endless❤
ANNIE
I WANT TO PERSONALLY THANK YOU FOR YOUR COVERAGE ON THIS CASE, BUT MOST OF ALL YOUR STATEMENTS
AT THE END , IN REGARDS TO GETTING HER WHOLE STORY TOLD ,WITH NO CUTTING OUT OR SILENCING WORDS IN REGARDS TO WHAT HAPPENED TO HER !!!!
I STAND BESIDE YOU 100% THAT IT'S VERY IMPORTANT FOR HER STORY TO BE HEARD !!!!
GOD BLESS YOU ANNIE AND THANK YOU AGAIN !!
❤ Thank you Annie!
I'm sorry for the families loss and will pray for them. Annie thank you for being us these cases I love the way you tell them.
Good to see you as always 😊
I love your deep dives! Thank you so much for today's case!
Tom was so so cruel to her family , not letting then have her body 😢such a sad case and senseless murder of a beautiful girl
Yes, that was so true for me too! When I woke each morning, my 1st thought was " OMG! It's not a bad dream, my beautiful daughter is gone!!.
never clicked so fast! sooo excited for the video!!
Wow, Annie! You told her story exceptionally well. This is my first time hearing about it. The only thing I didn't like was saying she was discarded like trash. It was said a couple of times, and I can't imagine how hard that would be for her mom, family, and friends hearing it in that kind of way. I must say it was nice hearing a story that hasn't been all over TH-cam, one that I haven't heard of that's older than the hills. We need more stories that haven't been played all over TH-cam.
Narcissistic behaviors. That husband is heinous. What beautiful friends 🧡 Lexi's mother is such a woman of grace.
I thought the one doing the interview was awful, making it about herself, who cares about the hotel room her parents got for her 30th…. She loves the sound of her own voice..Lexi’s friend for 2 months and couldn’t be bothered to attend her funeral.. just 🙄
@@susiefoxy8130 Agreed
I wish you were coming closer. I LOVE the way you tell these stories. Thank you so much for covering these cases! 🙏
I hope you come to Louisiana one day ..
Her friend saying she was struggling with mental health issues she clearly was. She was dealing with a use in the home. Just because she presented happy all the time doesn't mean she wasn't struggling. And just because she didn't share it with her doesn't mean she was ok
Thank you for covering this case. I was always so invested in this when it happened. There was so little info and it was feeling like the case would never get the justice she deserves. So sad how even he took that at the end as well. Cowardly. I wanna say if you look closer at the sky during the balloon release you can see a perfect smiley face in the clouds at that moment and I think that's a sign that Alexis is free and smiling 😃 🎉❤not sure if anyone else seen that?!
Used to be at parties in highschool with Alexis she treated everyone really nice and acted like everyone was her friend. She was a very good soul and attracted the attention from everyone when she was around. It’s crazy that piece of shit did what he did.
Been dying to watch this! Thank you girl for your hard work
Thank you Annie!
Thank you for bringing light to cases that might have been forgotten bc it concerns social media etc. that some might overlook…. Good luck with the rest of your tour! I couldn’t make any dates this time bc I am in the Midwest/NE so I hope you make this tour thing more than a one off!!
good morning Annie❤❤ wonderful seeing you pop up so early 😅😅😅❤❤❤❤❤
I truly feel like us women have an intuition about these things. Several years ago a friend of mine was in an abusive relationship, one night I had a horrible sinking feeling, so I reached out to her, after a few texts I realize it’s not her texting, it was her abuser. I got just enough information and called her sister and the police, she survived, but barely. It was insane, I just knew something was off.
The overuse of the word “literally” in this video makes my head want to figuratively explode 🤯
Literally 😂
You can literally unsubscribe 🤷♀️
@@angelacarter645 I guess my comment made you literally upset and figuratively butt hurt 🙄
@@jonathanmartinez8347no but literally like LITERALLY unsubscribe 😅
@@jonathanmartinez8347 thennnnn unsubscribe like literally 😂😂
Great presentation. Prayers for the families.
There's a fine line between love and hate. My ex always told me that's how he'd kill me so he could watch the life drain out of me
Same ❤
I use to wait for my ex to fall asleep and sneak out because luckily he was a heavy sleeper. I remember shaking like crazy praying to god he wouldn’t wake up. I don’t miss that feeling! RIP Alexis. 💜 💜💜💜💜
R.I.P Alexis ❤ a beautiful soul taken way too soon in such a brutal way. You're now dancing among the stars & shining down on your beautiful family and friends.
Thank you Annie for putting the truth out, ppl could see what he was and the lies he told were abhorrent, total vermin
Love how you deep dive into these cases and also give your own opinions on the subject matter❤
Thank you for sharing her story with us as I am so very sorry for the families and this could have been prevented if only she stayed with someone safe may she rest in peace and I have to say if it was him he took the cowards way out !!!!
I'm in Newfoundland, Canada 🇨🇦 I wish I could go to one of your shows ❤ I think your the best true crime channel the work you put into it definitely shows!! You are so consistent uploading and always new content !! 🙂👍❤️
I would stop making statements such as she “was making more money so she didn’t need him anymore.” It was repeated a few times in this video in different ways. It paints her in a way that insinuates that’s the only reason she was with him when I’m sure that wasn’t the case. She most likely fell in love with him because guys like him can show a different side when meeting new people. If he was a loving husband, she would’ve stayed regardless of the amount of money she was making, based on the sweet description her friends painted of her. Also, the statement that older guys are often controlling who have younger wives and girlfriends is not correct. There’s no evidence that the rate is higher in those situations. There’s guys like this in all age groups. And women too.
Really? Google it. Age gap relationships are absolutely more likely to be abusive and controlling. This doesn’t mean they are all like that but there is a reason why someone looks for someone more naive to control. We were all young and naive. The making money comments are speaking tot the fact that a lot of people can’t get out of abusive relationships because of financial abuse. She could have. He had her under some other sort of manipulation believing that she was not good enough or in fear. We as a society have to start looking at how this happens and that there are many factors of manipulation and control of abusers and many self esteem issues for the people who stay. Teach people the red flags and signs that you may have low self esteem.
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Thank you for sharing this tragic story.
You touched
My heart.
The details, emotions, letting the truth be heard.
You were Alexis's voice.
Very Emotional for me
Thank you
Annie
@AnnieElise, a great true crime story is one from Utah. The KAY MORTENSON story. There are so many twists and turns you might get whiplash! He was my uncle. It has only been briefly covered once on TH-cam. A goid deep dive would be AWESOME, especially since you're coming to Utah! Great job girl, keep them coming.
I will have to look that up. You should put in a request...I think she has a request form 😊
I'm from Utah, and I've never heard of this case. I'll have to look it up!!
Thanks for all u do Annie
The fact that this is such a common story is so disgusting, stay away from insecure men