Friend Is SHOCKED At How This Woman Has Been Living | Hoarding: Buried Alive

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  • @WolfPrideProductions
    @WolfPrideProductions 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8945

    What a kind friend, her expression is not of disgust, it's of sadness. She genuinely hurts for Denise, thinking about her living in that filth.
    What a good friend, we need more people like Barbra in this world.

    • @missabyss
      @missabyss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      WolfPrideProductions YOU BETTA DEN DIS!

    • @boottoobig
      @boottoobig 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      There is a lot of people like in this world but they get used and pushed away

    • @jefftraboulsy8631
      @jefftraboulsy8631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nah her voice is so fucking annoying. HATE the way she says "this"

    • @patrizia9044
      @patrizia9044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      @@jefftraboulsy8631 I'd rather have a great friend with an annoying voice than a bad one with a lovely voice but that's just me i guess

    • @quirkypurple3
      @quirkypurple3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      my reaction to seeing her house is a teary one because it takes an unimaginable amount of pain for your home to get this way. her telling denise that she deserves to live better is touching because denise is in such a shame cycle that she would never believe it enough to actually take the steps to fix it

  • @bigdaddytrichardson4994
    @bigdaddytrichardson4994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1512

    You know it's bad when a Friend says your name that many times...

    • @sarahwaters8262
      @sarahwaters8262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Well, it could be a good thing, depends on the situation, just sayin'... 🤭

    • @pandafan6845
      @pandafan6845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@sarahwaters8262 had some friend with benefits screaming my name last night, so i guess your right

    • @YamiSamslayin
      @YamiSamslayin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@pandafan6845 😭😂😂 ooh lordie STAAAHP

    • @bigdaddytrichardson4994
      @bigdaddytrichardson4994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@YamiSamslayin
      Lmao

    • @hxy_den
      @hxy_den 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pandafan6845 same shit homie

  • @thekim10029
    @thekim10029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6791

    That lady neighbor 🥺🖤bless her heart she’s a good friend and person

    • @asherbrr
      @asherbrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kimberly Duarte I know right 🥺❤️

    • @sharlawilliamson9609
      @sharlawilliamson9609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I love that her reaction was that she deserved better than where she lived. She treated it as though Denise moved into that... so she could separate the person from the mental health issue, and that is hard to do. But that was her reaction off the bat. A very kind friend.

    • @bhugol
      @bhugol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OiEidelmania iîk

    • @parichawlaa
      @parichawlaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr

    • @somethingaboutbeauty8245
      @somethingaboutbeauty8245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Kimberly Duarte I couldn’t agree more. That lady is the *ABSOLUTE EPITOME* of what a true friend who will STILL BE THERE even when situations as rough as this happens!!!! 💖

  • @blackfulminata9663
    @blackfulminata9663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +864

    The sadness in her friend's voice hurt. That's real love.

  • @ashlynwanderer
    @ashlynwanderer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5622

    Denise seems different. she doesn't act as entitled and rude like the others she wants to change. and her friend is so loving, and amazing for trying to help her. why is nobody talking about how amazing her friend is?

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      People are talking about this exact thing! At least half of the comments are about Denise!

    • @RicoRMRM
      @RicoRMRM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Literally everyone is talking about it.

    • @chrysichrysi7889
      @chrysichrysi7889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She wants to change *now* that she has a camera in her face. Where was her "will to change" when her tenant (who's paying Denise money to live there, lol) came to her time and again in the past complaining about the rats and cockroaches? Ijs. Imo Denise is extremely manipulative.

    • @LocketInThinePocket
      @LocketInThinePocket 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@chrysichrysi7889 Better late than never I guess. The tenant seemed nice too.

    • @A__Mina
      @A__Mina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@chrysichrysi7889 yeah just because she's not a bad person didn't mean she isn't entitled. She definitely is.

  • @rashidax432
    @rashidax432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Denise has a GREAT friend. I actually respect the fact that Denise opened up to her friend, AND didn't get defensive or rude with her friend. She let her emotions out as well and was honest.

    • @jessicalatorraca8507
      @jessicalatorraca8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Rashida X Everybody’s down on Denise, but I too was amazed at her genuine willingness to accept help and change. I bet she did it, too - once she realized she wasn’t just hurting herself. 🥰

  • @TheTurtleRage
    @TheTurtleRage 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5031

    Omg I love her friend. She’s so caring but doesn’t sugarcoat anything. She’s a great friend.

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Oh dear. This is truly a sad situation. I really love Denise’s friend Barbara. You can tell she loves her friend. Dammit, everyone needs a Barbara in their lives.

    • @stacyproficy4418
      @stacyproficy4418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The mice are going to her friends house as well

    • @calynlyn3628
      @calynlyn3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed

    • @celeste.cutz2020
      @celeste.cutz2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know it and that bathroom is a nightmare.

    • @theotherway1639
      @theotherway1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The guided journal "Throw It Away" by Guru Notebooks is helpful. It's on amazon.

  • @waveysawvey4584
    @waveysawvey4584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    The “I’m normal you’re normal” was so precious 🥺

  • @lindakihneman186
    @lindakihneman186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2730

    No way leave everything and get that Lil girl out of that.

    • @susangreene3071
      @susangreene3071 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She's like the l Dems...Can't get rid of this sick hoarder

    • @THEWINDOWGUY35
      @THEWINDOWGUY35 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      666 likes

    • @misslizzy9100
      @misslizzy9100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dizzy Izzy hey your dizzy Izzy and I’m dizzy lizzy 😃

    • @fcknyri
      @fcknyri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Jacquan Brown lmfaoooo

    • @karasaekano
      @karasaekano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Jacquan Brown They literally bring it up for no reason lol

  • @wendy908527
    @wendy908527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Everyone needs a friend like Ms Barbara. Her sincere worry and sadness for her friend was palpable, and she told Denise straight up that this was not the way to live, without coming across as judgmental or condescending. Bless her.

    • @MichaEGreen2401
      @MichaEGreen2401 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. Everyone needs a Barbara in their life.

  • @sarahleroy465
    @sarahleroy465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4259

    You are afraid to talk to the tenant but you go on national TV

    • @sunset6010
      @sunset6010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Haha yup

    • @preranapradhan2627
      @preranapradhan2627 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yeah exactly😂 😂

    • @maeking5268
      @maeking5268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I mean.. the tenant doesn't seem to be on her right mind. She should indded be exposed for what she'd done, but yeah.. national TV shouldn't have been a go-to either

    • @Angel-pt2cf
      @Angel-pt2cf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Roflmao facts

    • @idalyvelazquez5458
      @idalyvelazquez5458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true 😂

  • @donatellaversace7384
    @donatellaversace7384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    She is actually the most likeable, normal hoarder in the entire series. I hope she's doing better

    • @OldManOfTheForest
      @OldManOfTheForest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True

    • @ms.kellydozier
      @ms.kellydozier ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No she isn't

    • @lindawilson290
      @lindawilson290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is not likeable. Rather, she seems almost oblivious to her problem and its effect on others. I would love to have seen the clean-up portion of this episode, and whether she was willing to part with much at all.

  • @gdaymates431
    @gdaymates431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2715

    This is really sad but i feel like im going to wake up in the night yelling "Denise, Denise. You better than this"

    • @mickeymouse7595
      @mickeymouse7595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      BITCH I- SKJSJSJSJSJA

    • @chrysichrysi7889
      @chrysichrysi7889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      😂😂😂

    • @KateRSJ
      @KateRSJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @trblemker00
      @trblemker00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      LMFAO

    • @rK-mr6ld
      @rK-mr6ld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Nomafternoon
    @Nomafternoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    You realize later on in life that not many friends can truly cry and care for you. She is blessed to have a neighbor like that and a tenant who has been tolerant for so long. Hopefully she gets better after this.

  • @Naijella86
    @Naijella86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +933

    The genuine concern the neighbour shows for her friend is heartwarming

  • @supising
    @supising 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Bless the neighbour, i can tell she really cared about her and wasn’t being judgmental in a bad way.

  • @MissBlueEyeliner
    @MissBlueEyeliner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +731

    Mental health plays such a huge role in hoarding and general messiness.
    When my depression is at its lowest my bedroom is just a total disaster and then that just makes me feel worse and then feeling worse makes the room end up even messier again. It’s a vicious cycle.
    Clean rooms help with emotions.
    I hope she got some help.

    • @jessicalatorraca8507
      @jessicalatorraca8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bianca Bloom You are so right!!! 💓🌿

    • @Mimi-cc3vk
      @Mimi-cc3vk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yeah my room would become a nightmare when I was stressed but it never helped when my mum would scream and shout at me for not tidying up but I could never explain how I was feeling

    • @lovinmytunes05
      @lovinmytunes05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I totally agree with you! When I feel upset, my apartment is messy, then I clean up and feel much better, mentally and emotionally!

    • @kimxhii2406
      @kimxhii2406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Agreed, during the first quarantine when my depression became insanely bad and I started giving up on getting up and my room was seriously messy and my mombwoyld scream at me to clean it and didn't understand that I wasn't doing so well

    • @empirex334
      @empirex334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true!

  • @valkyriedoll7629
    @valkyriedoll7629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The lady friend is a REAL friend, that’s what a true friend says to you when they see you’ve reached rock bottom.

  • @ur_mama_gay7599
    @ur_mama_gay7599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5845

    What my mom sees when she come in my room

  • @WandererHermit
    @WandererHermit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    These are actually health code violations and she can sue the landlord

    • @Liitebulb
      @Liitebulb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It isn't free to sue

    • @WandererHermit
      @WandererHermit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      F C when did i say they should i just said they could

    • @kiowah231
      @kiowah231 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      F C shut up

    • @donttrip2323
      @donttrip2323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She ain't gone get shit

    • @human3683
      @human3683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Liitebulb yeah but the pay out is incredible sometimes

  • @Naveandlaen
    @Naveandlaen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1387

    That next door neighbor needs to be on EVERY episode

    • @cct306
      @cct306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes we need her as MC

    • @LittleHatori
      @LittleHatori 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YAS.

    • @aliyamoon80
      @aliyamoon80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What a sweet and caring friend!

    • @diewiese7545
      @diewiese7545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Poor woman has seen enough in this one. I wouldn't want to do that to her.

  • @NocturnalRose05
    @NocturnalRose05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I’m proud of her for keeping up with her personal hygiene, as someone with depression I know how difficult it is to maintain the motivation to force yourself to even do the essential things in life. When you deal with the mental struggles of wanting to wall off yourself and not deal with the world because you don’t even want to exist anymore because of everything you’re dealing with mentally and you start to let everything go it’s hard to feel like a person again to love yourself enough to take care of yourself in anyway, so I’m proud of you Denise ♥️

  • @ashleyoliva7588
    @ashleyoliva7588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2656

    I cant believe how normal and clean she looks to have a bathroom like that. Her teeth are super white and clean. I would expect her hygiene to be really lacking if thats what her bathroom looks like.

    • @danadrummonds7704
      @danadrummonds7704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Do u think they are dentures? I agree. How does she shower? I shudder

    • @HipHopLuv123
      @HipHopLuv123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@danadrummonds7704 she has dentures. Really bad fitting ones too.

    • @kekw5153
      @kekw5153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Dentures 4 sure

    • @jessicaschoonmaker2073
      @jessicaschoonmaker2073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@ashleyoliva7588 from what I experienced from living in a neighborhood full of them they all were nasty and unkempt

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dentures.

  • @mysterylovescompany2657
    @mysterylovescompany2657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    A friend who is physically brought to _tears_ by seeing what you have been doing to yourself, after a long period of domestic self-harm, & is moved to pleading w. you to make a change, is a friend indeed. That's _love_ , right there.
    I hope Denise comprehends that, & didn't just misunderstand it as disgust + a dressing-down.

  • @Boopsiee
    @Boopsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    I feel itchy all of the sudden.....

    • @clxudyyday
      @clxudyyday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Boopsiee HERPESS

    • @Boopsiee
      @Boopsiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@clxudyyday do you mean herpes?

    • @vivianmiller8168
      @vivianmiller8168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Boopsiee ha

    • @Autumn_Forest_
      @Autumn_Forest_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clxudyyday Herpes itch? I thought they just hurt wherever people have a sore. Damn, itching would be even worse!

    • @dbl5661
      @dbl5661 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same bro

  • @kittikoko
    @kittikoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Bless that neighbour. That was genuine emotion and real concern for her friend. 😦

  • @PoodleParti
    @PoodleParti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    The tenant doesn't know the whole ceiling is likely to fall on her and her daughter or she would move out.

    • @plateshutoverlock
      @plateshutoverlock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      That's what I was thinking. Not just from the weight of all that shit, but from the structural damage that is being caused by gasses, liquid, and the vermin present in that waste. And contamination that can get bad enough that they would have to condemn and demolish the structure.
      There were houses (including one storey) that had to be completely demolished because all of the trash inside causing structural damage and contamination that was impossible to remove.

    • @titanick7676
      @titanick7676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel so bad for laughing at your comment.

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You can tell Barbara was more concerned than anything. That woman was genuinely upset for the lifestyle of a person she values, who’s living in a overwhelming mess.

  • @peekabee502
    @peekabee502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    I wish I had a friend like hers. She started crying cause she loved her friend so much that she knew she deserved better! Bless her heart.

  • @cheetotam6399
    @cheetotam6399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Barbara is really nice honestly. Thank God we have people like her. Shes not disgusted to a certain extent. But she was just really sad and was wanting better for her friend.

  • @kinnoyu8448
    @kinnoyu8448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2101

    D E N I S E

  • @shannonnonnahs6943
    @shannonnonnahs6943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Barbara is the kind of friend every one needs in life.

  • @LadyCoyKoi
    @LadyCoyKoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +831

    That bathroom made me cry. Bathrooms to me... are to be a pride and joy in the home. It is where you relax and should feel at ease being in. That bathroom is the total opposite. She has lost the love for herself, if she let the bathroom decay like that. :~(

    • @PinkgalMHC
      @PinkgalMHC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Yesss I agree about the bathroom being the pride of a home!! And the kitchen. I love when both are so clean, makes me feel so good 😁 This poor lady, I hope she finds her way...

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Juci Shockwave Agreed.

    • @lalakuma9
      @lalakuma9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I know right, you can't poop in peace in a bathroom like that.

    • @christianvolland9194
      @christianvolland9194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You cried? What do you do when something bad happens to you?

    • @alyssaofsilk
      @alyssaofsilk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Christian Volland she’ll cry

  • @hermes5275
    @hermes5275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    “Im too embarrassed to show anyone.... let me go to national tv”

    • @jessicalatorraca8507
      @jessicalatorraca8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Saif Babay Still...she got the help she needed. Kudos to her! Wish we were all this brave to face up to our demons.

  • @VeritasInsights
    @VeritasInsights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Barbara was a sweet lady and friend, she believed her friend deserved so much better.

  • @mistyhurst6730
    @mistyhurst6730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Everybody needs a friend like this. One that is real, that you can go to without being judged but to remind you of your worth. She didnt judge her, she reminded her in a firmness but with a broken heart that she was normal, just like everyone else, only with a Problem that needed to be fixed. With friends like this, Denise should be able to hold her head up high again and get it together

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    When I lived in a roach-infested building, I too was constantly on the verge of tears like this lady. I'd clean the counters one day, wake up the next day, and there would be more roach eggs/poop there. It just never ends, and nothing seems to get rid of them. At that point you just have to leave.

    • @victoriassecretxoxo
      @victoriassecretxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      may i ask what led you to living that way? if it's ok with you

    • @glomnsfw
      @glomnsfw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victoriassecretxoxo could’ve been the building itself had a roach problem and the commenter simply rented a place there due to circumstance or whatever and couldn’t leave right away. hell, if the building was infested, everyone living in it probably had the same issue. but this is just a guess.

  • @deltaboy767
    @deltaboy767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You see and sense Barbara's pain for her friend Denise, she is truly hurting for her friend who she loves and knows she deserves better.

  • @twelviebunnie
    @twelviebunnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    I feel so bad for laughing at the part where the neighbor kept saying Denise over and over again

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I’ve seen the “just move out” when teens or young adults are suffering and all I think of is
    1. They probably got nowhere to go
    2. What resources do they have
    For some people it’s not that simple

    • @inlonging
      @inlonging 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes moving means having the deposits, taking time off work to pack and move, face higher rents at the new place, etc. it’s not simple for people barely getting by.

    • @Ame2847
      @Ame2847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She prob signed a lease and just discovered how disgusting her landlord is. Prob just wanted it to get fumigated, the horror she must’ve uncovered

  • @tazonitegaming91
    @tazonitegaming91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    The little girl looked like she was scared and was gonna cry when the mom came in

    • @TheSMR1969
      @TheSMR1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mum forced her to say about mice

  • @lennykoka824
    @lennykoka824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her neighbor is god sent. The fact she became so emotional, you know thats for life!

  • @briachan
    @briachan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1808

    Fun fact, Barbara says Denise's name 19 times, you're welcome 🙃

    • @ruthgoddard233
      @ruthgoddard233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      briebles thanks 👍🏻

    • @kittysushi9915
      @kittysushi9915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Damn we love Barbara tho

    • @bluewolf993
      @bluewolf993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I got 18 🧐. I’ll take your word for it. I’m not watching that mess again

    • @thisguy9042
      @thisguy9042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bless you

    • @thisguy9042
      @thisguy9042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Dez Graham My god, you're beautiful! 😍

  • @Dannielle-l8s
    @Dannielle-l8s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I just cried I love how her friend spoke “life” on her situation. ❤️

  • @mrsgreen307
    @mrsgreen307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Omg,bite marks on that baby she needed to report that broad to DHS or the county..tenants have rights and she in denial talking bout she just found out...

  • @lilmissbloodbath89
    @lilmissbloodbath89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Poor Denise. She seems like a really sweet woman. She has a great friend in her neighbor. Someone who will tell her what she needs to hear, firmly, yet with compassion. "You have too much love around you..." That almost made me cry.

  • @Rediscovered
    @Rediscovered 4 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    I gotta wonder how she is able to maintain her personal hygien without any sort of proper washing room and bath room.

    • @emmmaa16ilovemm
      @emmmaa16ilovemm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I know! I'm baffled. There was actual shit on the walls 👀

    • @my_world1982
      @my_world1982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Baby wipes?

    • @Miatta349
      @Miatta349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Insert Name well if poop grows around the toilet then erm..?

    • @Coananlover
      @Coananlover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She might have a gym membership.

    • @pillowtalk1925
      @pillowtalk1925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I live out of my car ….. I go to work everyday & most people don’t know. Lots of ways to stay clean its 2021. Even with covid, there’s not as many but plenty of pleases to take showers or pay for showers still. Bathrooms to use.

  • @skywolfx76
    @skywolfx76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    thats one kind neighbor. she didn't scream at her she felt for her and was just so concerned for her. what a sweetheart

    • @gabbylopez9091
      @gabbylopez9091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. She loves her like a sister or maybe a daughter. I hope Denise is okay now.

  • @sarahshae1543
    @sarahshae1543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Her friends reaction was so real wow

  • @gabbylopez9091
    @gabbylopez9091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We all need a friend like Barbara. She was yelling out of concern and care. She's just so genuine and empathetic and I really like that!

  • @karinatelles9338
    @karinatelles9338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Her friends heart is broken 😔 .

    • @vercoda9997
      @vercoda9997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Karina Telles That’s a good person - the shock and despair on her face shows how much she cares for Denise, or for Any person with such a nightmarish hoard of crap.

  • @hannakemaw8299
    @hannakemaw8299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Now that’s a real friend, I loved how she advices her

  • @nepadron
    @nepadron 5 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    Drinking game: drink a shot every time her friend says "denise". 😆

  • @chindaya7250
    @chindaya7250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This was 6 years ago . Hey TLC Can you drop the full Video? It's really insane finding the full Vid . SMH

  • @BelligerentStyle
    @BelligerentStyle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Denise! Denise......Denise!

    • @claudiav7897
      @claudiav7897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wow denise

    • @0ut1and3r
      @0ut1and3r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      DENISE!!

    • @susieq8424
      @susieq8424 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS!

  • @locsbyholiday2231
    @locsbyholiday2231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The 1st time I cried watching this. Her neighbor is a Godsend. No judgement, just love.

  • @Miss.Donnell
    @Miss.Donnell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    This is overwhelming 😔😔

  • @LuxeMindsetVibes
    @LuxeMindsetVibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    🗣"Denise, you're lady, you're woman, you're deserve to live better than this!!!" Periodt

  • @z_ed
    @z_ed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Denise seems sweet; I hope she gets the help she needs. It all looks very overwhelming, hope she realizes and receives the support she needs.

  • @sittingduck1735
    @sittingduck1735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really like both women, they're both compassionate human beings. Denise has a problem but you can tell she feels remorse.

  • @3DaHardWaypbj
    @3DaHardWaypbj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Even with all the hoarding Denise has a wonderful compassionate friend who is very caring that's amazing

  • @yamihikarilightdark9
    @yamihikarilightdark9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As heartbroken as the friend is, I did appreciate the way she said it. Because at this point, it’s not just about “just clean up”.
    “You’re better than this. You deserve to live better.”
    “I’m normal, you’re normal”

  • @jamjamb123
    @jamjamb123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Damn what a good friend she really cares about Denise

  • @ryancritchlow7131
    @ryancritchlow7131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is the most self aware hoarder I have seen yet.

  • @eyebutterfly
    @eyebutterfly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    That’s just insanity! The lady can’t even just chuck out the trash?! She truly has some deep problems that needs years of therapy... especially the bathroom that’s just absolutely shocking!

  • @zoieanne-8407
    @zoieanne-8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless anyone going thru this. It's a mental health illness. I'm suffering myself and it's hard!

  • @emmapeter3559
    @emmapeter3559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    I clean my house every single day, my bathroom is completely clean and shiny my God how can people live like this I feel sick?

  • @sshukla7975
    @sshukla7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her friend is a person we all need in our life. Who tries to lift us up doesn't judge. A rare person. She always reminded her she is better and loved not abnormal which is rare, most people who see this immediately start getting angry and blaming.
    She is a true Gem

  • @melissamilkquakez4932
    @melissamilkquakez4932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Denise, Denise, come on, Denise! Lol definitely wont be forgetting her name!

  • @tapsars7911
    @tapsars7911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The friend is so very caring . She is genuinely traumatized by what she is seeing .

  • @JNT10
    @JNT10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    What does she mean?? How does she use the bathroom?

    • @pm1225cp
      @pm1225cp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I think she....... Uses diapers and then just throws them on the pile in the shower when she's done

    • @petyrbaelish1718
      @petyrbaelish1718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@pm1225cp Nahhh, surely not. Those aren't diapers are they...? Good god.

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      JN T I think she throws used toilet paper in the tub

    • @JNT10
      @JNT10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      omfg 😕

    • @mariahhanrahan2714
      @mariahhanrahan2714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I was thinking the same thing. And how does she bathe?

  • @Yaptoyamomanotme
    @Yaptoyamomanotme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If that was my friend I would IMMEDIATELY start helping her. I know her friend will though. Love conquers all Denise. This is a sign of sadness, inner disturbances. God bless you and I hope you got your house, and life back now

  • @GARDUNOFAMILY
    @GARDUNOFAMILY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This video made me wanna clean the whole house with bleach , I never want to end up like poor denise

  • @moonrose7663
    @moonrose7663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The neighbor is gold and so sweet. I watched the full version and she told Denise that she would do anything to help her fix it and later to the interviewers she said that Denise thought it was embarrassing but it was depression and she just needed help 😭

  • @harleycurl5981
    @harleycurl5981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "*deNICE*" 🤣 Neighbor friend kept saying her name like she gonna forget it haha

  • @karolinafuentes3889
    @karolinafuentes3889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Imagine how relaxing it would be to see the before and then a beautiful and perfectly clean, after

    • @lexiw20
      @lexiw20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately it never seems to happen 😔 these people have a lot of problems

    • @dianarchy23
      @dianarchy23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It does get cleaned after. Looks so much better. She invites over the tenant & gives her a brief hug. The tenant looked like she didn't want to be hugged by Denise at all. I don't blame her.

  • @kittysushi9915
    @kittysushi9915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That stop her friend made when she opened that door, absolute disbelief.

  • @islifetreatingyougoo
    @islifetreatingyougoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Take a shot for every time you hear the name “Denise” lmao

  • @ms.whitefolks1223
    @ms.whitefolks1223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Poor people get screwed over
    Call the athorities and leave

  • @alexramirez9589
    @alexramirez9589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Denise's friend is a god sent. A real friend will give you that tough love, and still love you. And help you realize that you are more than what you do to yourself

  • @shereewordell2433
    @shereewordell2433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    How on earth can people let it get that bad?

    • @franziskahuber9664
      @franziskahuber9664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Trauma and resulting mental health issues

    • @alybanana415
      @alybanana415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Franziska Huber nope, just pure laziness

    • @alybanana415
      @alybanana415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mathijs Kuipers hun if you can live with rat shit and roaches YOURE lazy. For her bathroom to have toilet paper with shit on it piled to the ceiling you are lazy.

    • @chrysichrysi7889
      @chrysichrysi7889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nope. It might have initially been trauma and depression that started it, but this.....is pure laziness. If she can go out shopping spending her money till she's broke, then she can get herself to atleast take out her trash. Drink a gallon of coffee in the morning just to get it done, idc but this is someone who feels nothing but sorry for herself day in and day out.

    • @gabbycraft7035
      @gabbycraft7035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aly Banana No one is this lazy.

  • @bethankfultohaveinternet3292
    @bethankfultohaveinternet3292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came here moderately back because i love that caring woman saying "Denise you are better than this" it warms up my heart

  • @theabcsforlife
    @theabcsforlife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Upset woman: “ I’ve had to take her to the hospital twice for this.”
    Rat lady: “ I feel really bad you have had to take her to the HASSSSSSPOOOOTTALLL.”

  • @violette80
    @violette80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh my good! The lady renting out the downstairs appartement with her daughter is going through hell! It seems like they've been really patient. I love how calm and polite Lolie was with her landlord and the fact that Denise wholeheartedly apologized.

  • @creeperpeeperbeeper916
    @creeperpeeperbeeper916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    “Denise, you bedda den dis!” That sound like some song

    • @SharJ24
      @SharJ24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @rebekahlikesmusic2723
    @rebekahlikesmusic2723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful soul her friend is! I need a friend like that

  • @thomasvetor7420
    @thomasvetor7420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I would be embarassed as well , but then i would be taken bags of garbage out like crazy ...

  • @swlk9996
    @swlk9996 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    „I was too embarrassed and too ashamed to let anyone see“.. then goes on national TV and shows the whole world.

  • @Seikaaaaa
    @Seikaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    omg this women even got someone's child getting bit by bugs cuz of HER

  • @hollyobaby6949
    @hollyobaby6949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her neighbor really cares deeply about her. She’s crying just as hard as Denise. She’s truly wanting to help her. I feel awful for Denise but this is what she needs.

  • @nourah5033
    @nourah5033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That neighbor lady was exactly what Denise needed

  • @maxsuarez3458
    @maxsuarez3458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awe, look at them cry together 😢💙💜 they are definitely friends

  • @OneWayDesigns
    @OneWayDesigns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The fact that she acts like everything is all good, mean while knowing what's going on is fact enough that she just doesn't care. She is taking tenants money and acting like all is well. Barbara said something I've thought of many times "you're a woman, you're a lady, you're supposed to live better than this".

    • @OneWayDesigns
      @OneWayDesigns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @jordan5221 no. When you care, you do take action and do something about it. And not by writing into a television show. But that bathroom was nasty as all get out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @georgestevenson2777
    @georgestevenson2777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her neighbor is so sweet. Im glad she has someone who cares about her, i hope things get better

  • @chloeeasley4414
    @chloeeasley4414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m just glad this lady WANTS help!

  • @traceycrawford9938
    @traceycrawford9938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It much have taken so much courage for Denise to show her friend her home like that. Two lovely ladies and I hope their friendship grows closer from this.

  • @yasmine1974
    @yasmine1974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Her friend is beautiful!

  • @Mark-sd5jk
    @Mark-sd5jk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Denise’ friend, we all need someone to be real with us

  • @lalabearmuhammad4526
    @lalabearmuhammad4526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Do y’all see that bathroom though 😷🤢

    • @josgn
      @josgn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢

    • @danieladayi2060
      @danieladayi2060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can’t even brush your teeth or anything🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮😷😷😷😷😷😷

    • @no-py9ez
      @no-py9ez 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man I would’ve burn the whole damn house, that’s how gross the house is 🤢

  • @mattmayo3539
    @mattmayo3539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Barbara is the kind of neighbor you hope lives next door. Someone who cares about you.