I honestly think we only need to work on ourselves (Would you fall in love with you if you were someone else?) Mirror what you desire in a partner.The rest aligns itself.When that man who you have attracted as you work on yourself shows up,you won't need to follow any preset rules other than just be yourself and he will love you deeply.I write from my own testimony and i feel deeply blessed to be loved by this amazing human being.
Hi Veronica, thank you for sharing. I don't believe in rules but I do believe in principes. I think that showing your best self is an amazing start, communicating with clarity, developing the depth to understand his world and the skills to repair the multiple interactions that will need attention and focus are equally important to make the relationship sustainable. : )
That redefining freedom was an interesting concept. I never heard it put that way but it makes complete sense. I’d like to hear you talk more about this.
Hello Mr Mendez I hope all is well with you and yours. Bravo another greatly informative video. I enjoy all of your videos especially the ones that pertain to me ☺️☺️. I already knew but this gives me more assurance that I'm on and we're on the right path of commitments ❤️❤️. We're both in our 50's I'm 5 years older than him. He's a widower I'm a widow I'm not looking for another husband but a life partner to complete this journey of this thing we call life. We weren't looking for one another but we found each other and it's a very natural fit. Everything is so easily falling into place for us and we're happy just the way things are. Your explanation of these steps just gives me reassurance. Thank you so much and have a beautiful day 😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️.
I was married to a man who greeted me with ''you are the source of all my problems, I was normal 'till I married you.'' Well, my experiences, scary as they were, make really good stories now. Yes, the importance of vetting and putting the prospect on the casting chair cannot be understated. See how he is with the waitress, children, and animals. Oops, spill the drink and see the reaction. See what he is like angry and frustrated. If he yells at anyone, he will eventually yell at you and you are worth more than that. Stay away from men who criticize and criticize. One never has to say anything negative about anything because people aren't stupid. In my naivete, I thought that people just get along with each other. Not so. Sir, thank you for your videos. I am learning and learning.
Thanks Bern, I have a question regarding Number 6 : If a man you're dating does pull away as he's confused about whether he should commit, and you do give him a break- and if he does eventually come back full force what is the general likelihood of this scenario actually working out long term? As a women with anxious attachment style I understand the logic but my heart feels crushed that someone went to such tremendous effort in the first place. Was it just to win me over for his ego as my initial interest was low? What's to say that this pattern won't repeat every time he has a problem? I think he's stressed about a work situation but is not talking about it. Some additional discernment questions could possibly be beneficial for number 6
Hi Nancy, every situation is different but in the situation you mentioned although you can't eliminate the risk of him getting cold feet again you want to figure out wha'ts changed and why is he now more capable than before. Then if you do give him a chance do it slowly vs 0-60 MPH in 2.1 seconds : )
Greatly appreciate this video as I do all of them! Fantastic! And eloquently confirm consistently. Sending you love, hugs, blessings, sunshine❤❤❤ and appreciation for your self and how you share with us
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I honestly think we only need to work on ourselves (Would you fall in love with you if you were someone else?) Mirror what you desire in a partner.The rest aligns itself.When that man who you have attracted as you work on yourself shows up,you won't need to follow any preset rules other than just be yourself and he will love you deeply.I write from my own testimony and i feel deeply blessed to be loved by this amazing human being.
Hi Veronica, thank you for sharing. I don't believe in rules but I do believe in principes. I think that showing your best self is an amazing start, communicating with clarity, developing the depth to understand his world and the skills to repair the multiple interactions that will need attention and focus are equally important to make the relationship sustainable. : )
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Thank you for your words and great insight.Quite appreciated ❤️
Absolutely spot on!
That redefining freedom was an interesting concept. I never heard it put that way but it makes complete sense. I’d like to hear you talk more about this.
Thanks, Stella.
Hello Mr Mendez I hope all is well with you and yours. Bravo another greatly informative video. I enjoy all of your videos especially the ones that pertain to me ☺️☺️. I already knew but this gives me more assurance that I'm on and we're on the right path of commitments ❤️❤️. We're both in our 50's I'm 5 years older than him. He's a widower I'm a widow I'm not looking for another husband but a life partner to complete this journey of this thing we call life. We weren't looking for one another but we found each other and it's a very natural fit. Everything is so easily falling into place for us and we're happy just the way things are. Your explanation of these steps just gives me reassurance. Thank you so much and have a beautiful day 😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️😊❤️.
I’m grateful you’re going through the conscious steps of figuring out this life partnership.
Thank you so very much for your kindness and support Love ❤️ Bern🎉
You’re welcome. Glad this video helped. :)
I was married to a man who greeted me with ''you are the source of all my problems, I was normal 'till I married you.'' Well, my experiences, scary as they were, make really good stories now. Yes, the importance of vetting and putting the prospect on the casting chair cannot be understated. See how he is with the waitress, children, and animals. Oops, spill the drink and see the reaction. See what he is like angry and frustrated. If he yells at anyone, he will eventually yell at you and you are worth more than that. Stay away from men who criticize and criticize. One never has to say anything negative about anything because people aren't stupid. In my naivete, I thought that people just get along with each other. Not so.
Sir, thank you for your videos. I am learning and learning.
Pearl, sorry for what you went through, grateful you're doing better 🙏
Thank you Bern ❤ You've such a way of understanding & communicating the masculine & feminine energies, unlike anyone else!!
I’m grateful to hear you found this useful.
Great video. Thank you!!
Thanks Bern, I have a question regarding Number 6 : If a man you're dating does pull away as he's confused about whether he should commit, and you do give him a break- and if he does eventually come back full force what is the general likelihood of this scenario actually working out long term? As a women with anxious attachment style I understand the logic but my heart feels crushed that someone went to such tremendous effort in the first place. Was it just to win me over for his ego as my initial interest was low? What's to say that this pattern won't repeat every time he has a problem? I think he's stressed about a work situation but is not talking about it. Some additional discernment questions could possibly be beneficial for number 6
Don't think too much. Stay busy with your own life, and let him show you how much he cares
Thanks Pamela
Hi Nancy, every situation is different but in the situation you mentioned although you can't eliminate the risk of him getting cold feet again you want to figure out wha'ts changed and why is he now more capable than before. Then if you do give him a chance do it slowly vs 0-60 MPH in 2.1 seconds : )
@@BernMendez Thanks very much Bern, will do! :)
Greatly appreciate this video as I do all of them! Fantastic! And eloquently confirm consistently. Sending you love, hugs, blessings, sunshine❤❤❤ and appreciation for your self and how you share with us
Darci, thank you so much, glad to hear you're benefitting from my videos. : )
OMGGG! THE QUIZ RESULTS REALLY HELPED
Audrey, I’m happy to hear this.
Great and clear lesson, love it, and your personality 😍
Thank you, Martina. 🙏
So so good! Thank you!
You’re welcome!
Brilliant advice!
Thank you!
Hello, thank you for the content. Which Sai Baba are u refering to Shirdi Natha or the one with big hair who passes away recently ?
You're welcome, Sathya Sai Baba...
Thank you for the valuable advice as always.
Excellent video 👏💯🙌
Thank you, Elena.
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Good advice 🙏
Thanks.
There doesn’t seem to be a link to the quiz
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Great 🎉
Glad you liked it.
Thank you Bern, what if he displays the traits of a narcissist? He has ghosted me 3 times in 12 months
Most likely time to move on...
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Melissa, thanks for watching.