THANK YOU for watching!! I forgot to mention a thought on keeping clothes that are currently too big or too small-- SHOULD WE STORE THEM IN CASE WE CHANGE SIZES AGAIN? In my opinion, keep a few things, anything that is especially high quality or that you really like, but beyond that, it is INVENTORY that we have to manage, and we often forget about things in storage!
I have the hardest time when it comes to decluttering clothes. I am guilty of keeping clothes that do not fit me and feel obligated to hold onto those items for when I lose or may gain weight. Thank you for this video and your insight! I hope that you all have a blessed and wonderful New Year! 😊
I’ve ALWAYS kept 3 of my favorite “skinny” outfits just in case I happened to go down a couple of sizes. But even at that, when I was diagnosed with cancer a few years back, while I getting smaller and my clothes were getting bigger... I never thought about my skinny clothes I had squirreled away.... until one day (after I had regained the weight) I was cleaning out my closet. Felt like such an idiot! I couldn’t afford clothes that fit, and there where my 3 favorites outfits of all time that’ll probably never fit into again.
I have one vacuum bag with smaller sizes, I just keep my favourites a coat every other size and bras because they are expensive! When I change size I look there first, then I look in the wardrobe at things I can alter. If I can’t find what I need I save up and go shopping. I just try and avoid new clothes because buying from ethical sources can be expensive.
I have kept pants in smaller sizes in Hope's of losing weight but donate everything in bigger sizes. Great video. I'm looking forward to decluttering my entire house in January.
When first decluttering clothes, I found the best question to ask was "would i pack this in my suitcase if I was going on a trip?" ... We always take our most favourite clothes with us somewhere! So this question works soooo well - especially for those "i'm not sure" items.
When I clean my closet, I try things on and ask myself, “If I was in the dressing room right now, would I buy this item again?” Most often the answer is NO.
@@lucydeboxer2565 Yes, I have just learned the power of this question! Sure, it may be beautiful, but would I buy it now? SO often the answer is No. :-)
I heard someone suggest forcing yourself to actually wear what is in your closet and drawers. That way you very clearly see why it is that you haven't worn that piece of clothing. Wrong size, needs repairs, doesn't match with other things, is itchy or uncomfortable in some way. Then you realize it's time to part with that item or you just shopped your closet and found a new look!!
This is such a GREAT idea... Often we have an idea that something will look better than it actually does. Wearing it (or even just trying it on) can help make that decision easier than just looking at it on a hanger
I love this. This morning I pulled out a top I hadn't worn in forever because my daughter said I should wear it. I couldn't do it. It felt sack like. I had once loved it, I've lost a bit of weight and it just isn't right. I think I'll clean the stain on it and let it go!
I love how you compare the closet to a storage unit. I would never get a storage unit, so why would I allow my closet to be one? Your analogies always speak to me. 😃
I absolutely hate putting away laundry, so as I'm putting away my clothes, I've been asking myself "Do I like this enough to have to hang/fold it again?" The answer is usually no, so into the donate pile it goes. And it's great, because everything is already clean and ready to donate.
I would clarify ¨Does it fit?” To “Does it fit well?”! AND “Does it fit MY style?” I see clients with closets full of clothes that fit, but poorly (to tight or too big) and make them feel schumpy! Or beautifully sized clothes they never wear because the style fit isn’t theirs. I would ALWAYS advise keeping an outfit or two of not-everyday-clothes, the kind of nice outfit you would wear to a funeral, court, or special appointment-because when those occasions come up, you don’t need the added stress of having to buy something at the last minute. I have helped more than one crying woman (Not clients...) find an outfit for a funeral. And YES! Thrift/consignment is an awesome way to build a wardrobe on a budget! One of my 2020 Style Resolutions is to shop pre-loved first this year. (Okay, not for underwear. Or running shoes.)
Lisbeth Klebba - Good advice on keeping some clothing necessary for occasions like funerals so I recently purchased one black Ralph Lauren dress at Winners and do have a black pant suit on hand as well.
I ran across a quote that I keep in mind a lot when decluttering and I'd like to share it. It was in the book "Minimalism Room by Room" by Elizabeth Enright Phillips, and it's "Decluttering is always about forgiveness." The hardest part for me has always been the guilt associated with buying things and not using them, or wanting to get rid of something someone gave me. It always comes down to forgiving yourself and sometimes others. Good video!
Also I know clothes our meant to fit us and not the other way around, but sometimes we need to forgive ourselves for maybe not being able to maintain staying a size a lot of our clothing is in. Especially if it’s likely you will never be back to that size again (or at least any time soon).
Love this Barbara D. Wood. Thank you. I need to forgive myself for buying too many clothes in the past. Forgiveness indeed. Great advice. Thank you again!
Another good question to ask ourselves is: “would I buy this again?” I don’t subscribe to Marie Kondo’s idea of bestowing a “spirit” to our possessions, but I usually DO give thanks for things I have owned and let go. I once read to “bless and release” things , and I find that makes it easier and is very liberating.
That's my translation with Marie Kondo's approach, too. Someone once told me that- whenever she lets go of an item- makes a habit of saying a prayer of thanksgiving for the corresponding memories. Even if she should forget a happy memory, at least God got His due thanks for it. 😊
My boyfriend came in and was like "youre watching these videos again" and I responded with... "see this woman right here? You have her to thank for why I got rid of everything" 😅🤣
I always thought I had a lot of stuff but it wasn't a crazy amount. (My mom's a hoarder, so maybe I was subconsciously measuring my house against hers a little bit?) I had gotten hooked on KonMari videos at one point and decided to use her thought process of sparking joy but by going through my house room by room. I got rid of so much stuff and felt great about it. Then my husband and I went on vacation and stayed in an Airbnb that was very minimal. As soon as I walked in my door when we got home, I said, "I have too much stuff!" So I purged a good bit more and thought okay, now this is great. The other day I decided to convert all my hangers from wire to plastic. I thought I'd buy like 100; that should be plenty for me and my husband. Yeah... I went through all those before I finished MY wardrobe! I was horrified. I've always been a numbers person. So when I broke it down and thought I could wear each of these tops like three times a year, I was like WHAT?! I went through my tops like I normally would and was able to get rid of quite a few things. Then I saw your video and thought about those sweaters that I keep keeping even though they're too small. And the suits I keep keeping even though I haven't worn them in years, they are way too small for me, and I don't even want to work in a place where I would have to wear a suit. So I was able to get rid of more just by asking myself if each item was really an option, and I did notice a difference in my mindset by getting rid of those too small sweaters. It sucks having that reminder every morning that you gained weight and haven't been able to lose it. Nobody needs that kind of negativity in their life. And I hope someone who does wear suits is super excited when they find mine at the thrift store! Thanks for the help! Also, I'm starting to work with my mom on her house this weekend (I spent a whole day on her half bathroom for Mother's Day, but she kept a ton.) It's going to be a long journey through her 5 bedroom house, but I look forward to the end result and will keep watching for more tips--and motivation. :)
The last time I went through my closet and donated bags of clothes, I treated myself to nice, matching hangers, and hung my clothes back up in order of color. It was such a joy to go to my closet! I’m ready to do it again, but this time I won’t needed the hangers, lol.
I would gently suggest that you still hang on to one or two "nicer than usual" outfits. I'm a SAHM and wear very casual stuff (though I wear nicer things to church). A few weeks ago, we had an unexpected death in our family; and I was glad that I could just pull something appropriate to wear for the memorial service out of storage rather than spending time and money (having neither to spare in that situation!) to find an outfit. A friend remarked that, at our age (late 40's) these occasions, alas, will keep coming up... --Author Anna Johnson tells us that she keeps two nice outfits for job interviews ready to go (including accessories) at all times. One need not put them in one's regular closet, but still...
This is my one hiccup with Dawn’s approach. If you had the time and funds to buy something quick for that occasion, would you chuck it in 6 months because you didn’t need it again, only to buy it again for the next formal event?
I do not wear at least 50% of my clothes because they don’t fit “just right” so it’s easier to wear something else - on regular repeat. 🙏Thanks for the encouragement to grieve (the financial waste, letting go of my imaginary future, etc.) and move on. This is not where I want to spend my energy any longer.
Sometimes my why to let things go is as basic as that I’ve just worn something so much that I’m tired of it, even if it fits my body and my lifestyle. I try to be frugal and not wasteful, but I no longer feel the need to wear all items until they are completely worn out.
I really like the hanger trick for hang-up clothes. Turn every hanger around backwards, and when you wear an item, hang it up the normal way. In a year, look at what items have not been turned around and get rid of them! This is great for procrastinators and those who struggle with making those hard decisions. I also love the idea or a purgatory box. If you are still not sure about those items coming out of your closet, seal them in a box and write a future date on it. By that date, if you don't miss the items in that box, you don't need them. You probably won't even be able to remember what's in there!
Linden Peters I am lazy, so I think I will place a hair tie over the hanger of worn items instead of turning my entire closet around. You can buy a whole pack at dollar store!
My goal today was to drive one hour to ikea to pick up hangers and storage bins. Instead, through your inspiration, I did another closet purge. Now I have two large ikea bags filled with nearly new career wear to donate, and I don’t need hangers. It was free and feels right.
I'm so glad you said you still buy clothes. Sometimes minimalist make us feel guilty for buying things. Im in the process of decluttering and owning less and being ore intentional. ITs hard for sure but it feels so good. Cant wait to see you wardrobe! thank you
I just stopped the video after only watching for four minutes. I got a huge rubbish bad and started filling it. I knew exactly what to throw away. Some items took a few seconds. Got my Husband took him to his part of the wordrobe and he did the same. The huge bag is full. So good! Will watch the rest now :)
I have a hamper in our closet that I throw clothes in to get rid of. Every time my sister comes in town she goes through it, and I donate the rest. Works well.
When I was in my early pregnancy, I needed to go to a fancy event. I bought an expensive dress. I never was able to fit in it again. I kept it because it was beautiful, expensive and swore I needed to wear it more than once. That was 28 years ago. I still have it. It's that way with alot of my clothes.
I get so excited when I see a notification ....minimal mom has uploaded a new video.😍 I enjoyed your video Dawn💗 So informative... My sister & I are in the process of decluttering her room in the nursing home...we are replacing clothes she actually needs & will wear. I bought her a new bed pillow, bras & a new pair of shoes. We are enjoying our time together.💗
When I buy clothes, which isn't often because I'm short and suffer from all-gut-no-butt syndrome, I try to remember my rules: 1. Print tops/solid bottoms to fool the eye. 2. How many ways can I mix and match the item 3. How difficult is it to care for? Thanks for your tips! Stay warm!
Lori McCool dressing in one colour top to bottom makes you appear taller. Compliment the outfit with a bright scarf or statement piece of jewelry . You could wear the same basics often just trading out the scarves or Jewelry.
I have been making a lot of progress decluttering but tonight I looked at this huge pile that I have to take to the donation center and I feel bad instead of happy. I felt kind of ashamed of all the stuff we've accumulated. I'm thankful to be on this new path that I realize I don't need that much to be happy. I'm happier having what I need. Really Dawn I couldn't be where I'm at in my decluttering journey without you. Thank you thank you thank you.
Speaking of shame... Dawn, a hangup some ppl have is not getting rid of something because so & so gave it, or because you wore it for such & such occasion. That might be good to add in your videos whenever you talk about guilt of getting rid of something because it cost you money. Even getting rid of things that were free to you can bring you guilt. I know I often feel guilty getting rid of things that the ppl in my life (who's love languages are gifts😛) gave to me. Anyhow, just thought I'd throw that out here. It might be helpful to others like me. 🙂
By the way, once again I want to thank you for your videos!!! I'm so grateful for your TH-cam channel. I'm not on your FB group because 1. I had to cut fb from my life (did that before you started your private group). 2. we are trying to get out of debt. But I wanted to take this opportunity to let you know that I'm so grateful for your videos each week!!! I look forward to them each Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturdays!!! They encourage, inspire, and motivate me to keep on keeping on in my pursuit of a simplified life that enables my family to live more fully. Thank you!!!
I am one of those people who can’t dump everything on my bed in the Konmari way, because the mess causes me anxiety and demotivates me. I am much better keeping everything neatly hanging in the closet, and picking up one item at a time and making a decision. 🙂
@ercokat1965- I feel like that, too, the project seems overwhelming that way, and I wouldn’t finish quickly enough, then I still have a mess and too many clothes!
You're doing the right thing. Dust mites accumulate in wardrobes, and putting clothes on your bed which you haven't worn in a year will just transfer all those mites into your duvet and pillows. When I sort out my clothes I get a huge plastic sheet and cover the bed entirely, then I move it gently away when I've finished so the mites don't get shaken everywhere. I'm phobic and OCD over dust mites!!!
I will pick out 5 items of clothing at a time to put in the donate pile. I do this once or twice a month. I’ve gotten rid of half my clothes. Still have too many but it is much less than before. I will also try to purge more at the change of the seasons.
I went through my clothes just last month and I was ruthless! I love your tips! My favorite thing to point out to myself is this... if I haven't worn it but I still like it, someone else is going to find it at the thrift store, love it AND wear it. I will say this though, I had a pair of jeans and a couple pairs of capris that haven't fit me in many years so last month I was ready to part with all of them (even though I was super bummed since the capri pants were both the perfect length - I'm short too so capris very rarely are actually capris, they're more like floods lol). I decided to try them all on (just in case) and one by one, they fit! I actually walked out in a pair and told my husband that my closet made my clothes bigger! LOL I have lost some weight but didn't think it was enough to have those pants fit me. Regardless, I am pretty happy that I have my capris and an extra pair of jeans BUT I was totally ready to pass them along!!
I can’t wait to go through my clothes and declutter AGAIN! I did this twice already, and I am ready for another round! I find I don’t wear the things I really love because they are hidden in with too many other items I don’t really love, but are practical. I want to wear the things I really love until they are worn out and I need to replace them. Thank you for your encouragement 💗
Always keep an outfit in your wardrobe for funerals. When my mum died suddenly i burst into tears trying to find an outfit. When my dad died recently i already had something and so saved myself a lot of stress.
Great video. It has been a years long process but I'm finally figuring all this out regarding clothing. A tip for all the fellow declutterers out there... If the clothes have been in your ironing basket for a year or more it is safe to donate them without even looking through them. True story. Apparently I really hate to iron and now I don't have to! 🤦🤣
A couple of years ago I pared down my closet to only items that fit properly and were flattering (and modest) on my large bust and small waist. I then “wardrobed” as many of the favorite items I could into complete outfits I would love to wear & felt beautiful in, ie jeans & top & blazer & scarf & necklace (I even hang dangly hoop earrings with it that I only wear with that particular outfit). It made my mornings so enjoyable to not have to groan “I have nothing to wear”. Instead I had twenty complete outfits that made me feel terrific and made dressing in the mornings enjoyable.
Lost 50# a couple years ago, all my “favorites” I had saved from years ago ended up being tossed, style wasn’t current enough or fit was not the same on my aged body
An interesting point to remember is.... Dawn you live in one of the coldest states....yet you aren’t hoarding clothes for just in case. I too have found some treasures at the thrift store. Passing along “the good things” is a way to pay it forward to a sister who could really use win that would brighten their day.
I have an appointment today for a re-sale shop for clothing. So as a tip from me I'd like to offer going through your donations the night before or day of any drop off donation/consignment appointments. That way they are leaving the house within 24 hours of packing and not lying around in limbo. I turned on this video to get me motivated to just go through the jeans because I know they are good sellers at this shop. I brought my laptop into the room I'm working in so you can keep me company (like having a besty nearby) :) and also to keep me focused on the task at hand. I also enjoy putting on music I enjoy for background motivation. Today is was soft latino jazz. I did not even stand in front of a mirror when trying on the clothes. Instead I just grabbed a pair of pants and tried them on. I put 3 piles. #1 Donate/Consign, #2 Keep for myself, #3 Pass on to family. Yesterday I brought you into the kitchen with me (on my laptop again) so I can get my dishes done. One phrase that inspired me to "re-think my clutter was "we are just managing inventory". That's what I've been doing all this time and I'm not interested in just managing "stuff". Thanks for hanging out with me! God gave you the talent of cheerfulness and like myself I like to stay positive so you are a good virtual friend to have for inspiration. God Bless link to music: Romantic Melodies Spanish Guitar - Relaxing Guitar Instrumental Music ♪ - Bing video Another tip: I choose music with no words because sometimes even sound can be "cluttered" and for me, having no words to listen to frees up my mind while working.
I swear the Lord speaks through you so much for me. For a week now the Lord has been asking me what I've put off in 2019 that I kept saying I would do. The answers have ranged from big things (like have 2,000 subscribers on my channel) to little things like clean out my closet. I have kept coming back to the closet because I'm mad at myself for putting something off that I could have tackled in a couple hours. I've put this on my weekly to do list for 52 weeks. I've cringed when I've opened it. Every single time. And now you've talked about it. As usual you're the motivation I need. I promise you, everyone reading this, and myself that I will have my closet cleaned out by the end of this week!!
Hope you accomplished your closet mission. The Lord told me to declutter too and not just the physical stuff😀. I get overwhelmed easily and tend to put things off coz of the sheer magnitude of the task ahead of me. He showed me (through a prophetic article online) to keep going even if at a snail's pace, take one step at a time and momentum will build. I settled on 1 kitchen shelf thinking I would stop at the slightest sign of tiredness. I got the impression to first pick similar items and bag or place them in their respective place eg, all the receipts go in their original spot (not back on the shelf) TO BE SORTED LATER, same with snack bags and the rest. Later when I get free time I pick up the individual bag to sort and discard unwanted stuff. By following this system I finished the entire shelf organisation in half hour than what I thought would be longer. I was amazed at what I had accomplished and that gave me motivation to tackle small corners of the house everyday.
@@KingdomJustice11 I have not finished it. I keep telling myself "tomorrow". But then you know, tomorrow never comes. Thanks for your comment. It was the motivation the Lord is using to push me to do it. I'll reply here as soon as it's done. I love how Jesus loves us so much that He speaks to us even about our clutter. I would love to read the article that motivated you if you could link it! Thank you for the encouragement!
I love my minimalist closet and it's true even before I got rid of my piles of unworn clothing I would really only wear a few of the same tops and bottoms because they were flattering and I felt good in them! My wardrobe now: 5 tops: A coloured cotton button up shirt A beige linen button up shirt A floral blouse A short sleeved colored blouse A black and white striped tee (everyone should have!) 3 sweaters: A beige light knit pullover sweater A grey light knit cardigan A grey heavy knit cardigan 2 jackets: A brown plaid blazer (everyone should have!) A grey winter coat (I live in cold climate) 1 dress: A black maxi dress 4 bottoms: A pair of dark blue straight legged jeans A pair of black dress pants (everyone should have!) A pair of burgundy dress pants A black maxi skirt Shoes: Brown oxfords Brown boots Brown or white sandals Accessories: A brown backpack purse A black belt A straw sun hat A black knit hat A black scarf A pair of black winter gloves = over 50 outfits I'm 25 but I could see myself wearing these timeless pieces at 50 and 75
You were reading my mind!! I literally said to myself “I have GOT to go through this closet!” Probably 10 times since Christmas... thanks for the encouragement!
I have a sweater in my closet with a hole in the pocket. I haven't worn it just because I keep thinking - oh yeah, I'll see that! Well, I was just thinking - the room I have and will have more of as I declutter, I'm going to put my sewing box IN my closet on the shelf!!! I always have to take my "to sew" items downstairs and it just never happened! Because of you Dawn I've been thinking about things like this. Put things where it's most convenient to use! Thanks for everything! Keep it up!!
Your clothing videos have me motivated to declutter. I went to my closet, just to remove a couple items that I know I no longer want. Every time I wear them, I don't feel good in them. I came out with a bag of throw away and a bag of donation!
Funny (and not funny) how the term quarantine that you use every now and then in your videos has gotten a whole new meaning during 2020. 😣🤦♀️💖 Thanks for all the tips!
I once read somewhere that when it comes to eating we typically eat the same 10 dinners in a rotation. I think this applies to our clothes as well. We wear the same basic wardrobe in rotation but we have some other things we may wear on occasion. Are those items worth the space, time, and energy? I have 7 pairs of pants. They are palazzo pants in different colors. I have 7 kathmandu tops and 7 tshirts. Everything will mix and match. This spring I will purchase 7 capris in the same colors as the pants so I can swap them out for the warmer months. What really helped me here was really defining my style. Next was getting out of the mindset that buying cheaper was better. Now I can justify spending $45 on kathmandu tops because I don't fill my closet with a bunch of clothes that I don't love, but I bought because they were a bargain. This was a huge mindset shift for me. Hope someone else finds it helpful. Your videos are really helping me with the mindset shift in other areas.
We are empty nesters in a 3 bedroom house. I have gained some middle age weight and I had the 2 spare bedroom closets filled with clothes that don't fit but kept thinking I will lose weight and then fit into those clothes. I finally packed up everything last week that doesn't fit to give to the thrift store and now I tell myself that if I lose some weight I will treat myself to new clothes and that way it doesn't bother me at all about giving up the clothes now that don't fit. Thanks for all the tips. I love your videos!
Another way of keeping your wardrobe current is if you have an everyday wardrobe and a special/out of season wardrobe. I use our smallest bedroom as a dressing room and that has a smallish wardrobe that has my current season clothes in it that all fit. A section of the walk in wardrobe in the master bedroom has my out of season and special occasion clothes. It has summer party dresses and items like coats and shoes that I only wear on snow holidays because it doesn’t snow where I live. At the change of seasons, items with short sleeves generally don’t move, but I have a lot of sleeveless tops and dresses as summers are quite hot where I live and these change places with the long sleeve items, and my jackets and warmer clothing will come back into my everyday wardrobe. Doing this process twice a year means you are looking at all your clothes (and lugging them between rooms!) so anything that you are moving from everyday to storage that you realise you never wore that season it’s then a good chance to consider if you will wear that item again. Sometimes I have bought new items during the season that I simply prefer to older similar things I already have and when I do the changeover that is when I realise I won’t wear the older items again and it’s time to donate them. It’s also quite fun doing this process if you have bought items on sale at the end of the season that you didn’t get the chance to wear before the weather changed (I often buy a new bathing suit right at the end of the summer) so all those new unworn items are waiting for you when you do the next switch over. I also do this process for shoes so I don’t have winter boots in my everyday wardrobe during the summer. Out of season shoes are all stored in boxes on the high shelves in the walk in wardrobe.When I do the shoe changeover this is a good time to review the condition of shoes and whether they are still in good enough condition for another season.
It took me about 3 years to downsize to a capsule wardrobe and I love it. Thanks for sharing as this was a very difficult part to decluttering as I loved clothes but find I wear the same things over and over 🙈 I also realize that your wardrobe can be determined by size of closet and I have a small closet and it’s one in one out now and never overwhelmed by things falling out of closet and drawers.
I love organizing and so I have read, heard, watched, etc hundreds of pieces of advice on the subject. And this is the BEST wardrobe advice I've heard because it's so easy to remember and real!! #1 Does it Fit, #2 Why haven't I worn it? #3 Make room for a few new pieces this year and feel good about rewarding myself. Love it Love it Love it. My advice is a mix of Einstein's advice and some seemingly non related marketing advice from a marketing genius... Einstein used the uniform to keep his wardrobe simple and I like that advice not because it saves time like Einstein proposed, like 5 years or something, but it saves brain space. A marketer once taught me that decisions are the bottleneck to productivity because you have to stop your flow to choose. But once a decision is made then you have mind-space to work out other solutions. So give your brain a break and decide on a uniform. It doesn't have to be boring or the same thing for every occasion... For example when cleaning have an outfit that you wear for that, when grocery shopping have a couple outfits for that, when going on a date have a couple for that, when working in the yard have an outfit for that, when shooting videos have a signature style that makes you easily recognizable, etc. And see how having on the same outfit gets you in the right frame of mind for that project so much faster! Kind of like Pavlov's Dog! * hugs *
I agree with you that it is better to err on the side of overdoing the decluttering when it comes to clothes. I have done at least two massive purges and I learned a lot about myself both times. One is that I like the plain, monotone look where I don't have to even think of how to combine things, and two, that I don't need to go shopping until what I have starts to wear out. Luckily, I don't get bored easily and I've found that I'm not as big as a clotheshorse as I used to be when younger and just want simplicity. I keep a few good pieces of jewelry and scarves to jazz things up and that's all I need.
I make a list (with pictures) in my iPhone of all my clothes so when I go clothes shopping I now What I allready have. Its easy to match and make good decisions then.
Getting help from a color stylist has been a game changer for me. I concentrate on the colors and style of clothes that I feel good in, and yes I get compliments! I let go of so much black that just washes me out, and other perfectly good items, but they just didn’t flatter me. Now when I shop my eye is trained to go for the color, print size and what will go with my wardrobe. Getting dressed feels easy, well put together and I know I’m showing my best!
I love the quarantine approach, 1 to 2 months in box in my closet and I haven’t pulled back out to wear off to donation it goes. The biggest impact on decluttering my closet has been a better understanding of what my work uniform is and what my weekend wear is. I’m no fashionista but I now know clearly what I like and what colors I will and won’t wear.
Great content. I just took all my whites and light clothes that need to be washed with bleach and got rid of them. I never wear white so it takes like 6 months to get a load big enough to wash and use bleach. Now every single item of clothing I own can go in the same load. No more sorting! YA!!!
When decluttering casual clothes I ask myself if I would feel good in this in public? With fancier clothes I put out my “Sunday best” and categorize favourites on down. I hope to declutter about 25% of my clothing. As usual, your timing is perfect.
Great question about would I wear this in public. I'm retired and realize most of what I wear is casual. Given that, I like to make sure my casual clothes look good.
Soooo good!!! One of my other favorite advice was from you... I think you said it when sorting kids’ clothes but it was so helpful: choose the “number of” first, 3 jeans, 2 dresses etc. that I want to have/need to use, THEN grab the favorite ones and out goes the rest. Konmari was exhausting for me because I overwhelm with decision overload. Your method was freeing and decisive! I just joined Josh’s Uncluttered also... thanks for introducing him 💕
My only holdup is/was when pregnant. I don't want to get rid of my every day non-pregnancy clothes that I love when I know I will wear them again after pregnancy. I think that was hardest for me, waiting 9 months to wear my favorite things again. Also, I'm keeping my 2 favorite pairs of maternity jeans for if there's another pregnancy (or, you know... Thanksgiving). 😁
I have a pregnancy stash too, only keeping the things I'm excited to wear again next time. I'll be keen to have the space back once we're done having kids though!!
My 1st pregnacy I didnt loose all the weight, and never got back to it again. But my 2nd, I actually weighed less at 3monthes post delivery! I think we put to much pressure on ourselves to "bounce back" after pregnancy. It takes 9mon to grow a baby, not everyone will be back to the same shape/size at 6wks if ever. If you love your pre-pregnancy clothes, I would keep them until around 6-9mon post pregnancy and see if they fit again.
Yes! I have done just that, Dawn. I went to the extreme in decluttering my clothes in 2019 so that what was left..was what fit and what I actually liked! The gaps were so easy to see after that! You are spot-on! I may have went REALLY far and was wearing the same denim shirt nearly everyday but..hmm oh well, the concept worked! It feels so good to be able to see what I have, wear what I love, and go back to buy ONLY what I need. New to me also..I visited my very first thrift store for clothing in 2019 and was so surprised to see higher name brands that were essentially new for so cheap! And...clothing that suited me bc there was a bigger array of colors in there than the typical "seasonally stocked color scheme" of the usual department stores. Another bonus? The guilt of spending money on buying something new, i.e. my new dress for Christmas was gone..no guilt. Because I actually needed a dress. I had only one and it was for summer ;) Gosh, we are on the same pace and mindset...we could totally be friends! ((smiles))
Just found you, and will subscribe. My dilemma is I love to bargain shop and style outfits. However, working in medical field, I must wear scrub uniforms ( gets old). To de-stuff my closet, I take clothes to a local consignment store. It is so hard to purge clothes! But so nice to have space. Thank you for the tips
This is a helpful video, thank you. But I wish people would stop saying you can toss out stuff you haven't worn for 6 to 12 months. I've rediscovered items in my wardrobe that I hadn't worn for a few years and am now enjoying the hell out of it again. Of course you can set some rules to make the decluttering process easier, but why can't it be more sustainable? By the way, what a great green view you have from your living room windows!
I just threw out alot of my clothing right now I'm in comfort mode with breastfeeding and doing workouts, taking care of kids and elearning, leggings and t-shirts are my jam right now and I don't dress up ever because we never go out, so clean out was very easy
the hanger method has helped me figure out which items I haven't worn in months! I have reduced my closet by so much using this approach! hope you had a great new year, Dawn!💛
I decluttered my closet after pregnancy and then turned the hangers backwards. I'm finding I wear the same 7-9 shirts over and over, leaving about 15 shirts unworn. I've been thinking about going to the extreme and getting rid of those. What Dawn said about that and then giving you the opportunity to shop for what you really need, makes me think I should just go for it! I love the hanger method for sure. Also used it to convince my husband to get rid of 25 shirts he has not worn in at least 2 years (most more than that, but we moved then, so I know it's been at least that long).
I have started to NOT wash my laundry every weekend(except for under garments) ,and in so doing I am forced to wear everything in my wardrobe. Admittedly It does not always work due to weather variances but mostly it does,and it makes me happy to make use of as much of my wardrobe as possible. I have enough clothing in my wardrobe to last me 2 weeks.The down side is when wash day comes, with it comes an ironing day. :-)
I love watching your videos. You are so sensible with your intent and approach. I moved 2 1/2 yrs. ago and put away two bins of clothes that were too small but I didn’t think I could part with. Unfortunately I haven’t lost weight to get back in these clothes so I will be donating or selling them this weekend. Thank you for the inspiration. I am excited to see what 2020 brings and hope I continue to minimize all my “STUFF”! P. S. Also enjoy the videos of you and your sister. You are both so sweet.
I did it!!! My closest was full of work clothes... I have been a stay at home mom for 5 years! Many of these nice, pricey items don't even match. Why was I looking at these every day?? I have a real fear that I will not be able to replace these items on our current one income budget and I plan to return to work in a few years. I now have the clothes that fit and match and make sense for my current season of life in my closet. The rest of my clothes are packed in luggage out of the way. My closet feels so much nicer. Thank you!
I totally agree that holding on to clothes that don't fit is a subtle way to feel bad about ourselves every day. I LOVE getting rid of clothes that I don't wear anymore! Thanks for this!
Truly appreciate your intentional ideas. We all have seasons that ignite motivation to improve. One year, needing a significant closet declutter, I made a game getting rid of five clothing items each weekend for several months with a number in mind. Each weekend I made quick pass through the closet and hung five decluttered items on back of bedroom door knob for a day to consider. If an item went back in my closet, another came out to the door knob. If a weekend was skipped, ten items came out the following weekend. Unexpectedly, my husband joined the fun, decluttering much larger numbers for fewer weeks. We shared the weekly errand of dropping items off at the donation center, affectionately called "the drop-off run". Interestingly, as we were going there anyway, we regularly added household items. The resulting space felt wonderful!
I love your talks about decluttering. I would suggest thinking about environment and fair trade. Less plastic and packaging and a lot less or no fast fashion. Buying second hand or fair trade, well made clothing would be helpful to environment and those making the clothing. Thank you
I have what I call my 'funeral outfit'. I never wear it except to a funeral. It' a classic dress, so it stays in style for yers. I'm afraid to ditch it becaue I feel like I would have to go out and buy another if someone passed, and it feels like bad luck!
I love you and your videos, but I cannot conform to these because I'm super attached to my stuff, and since covid quarantine, I'm so thankful that I did store all my stuff. I can shop my own closet. Most of my stuff is from thrift stores to begin with. Everyone wants me to declutter but I don't. I lived like a minimalist for a year and felt very lonely and sad. So the then I filled my place back up to feel comfortable, now there's too much. I'm looking for a balance.
YA. Sorta had to look for help on TH-cam!! It's 8pm and guess what...not only is the bed still full, but there's a small mountain chain upon the rug...!! So I GRABBED my PHONE and searched and FOUND THIS VIDEO 🤣!!!💞 Thank you for your mindful wisdoms shared!!
OMGsh, you got me on, "It has tags on it, and you've owned it for a long time, so that makes us feel bad too." I recently did a purge and got rid of at least a dozen things with tags, some of which had been hanging in my closet for 3+ years. :O
I go through my clothes every season and donate or sell items & use that money for clothing that I want to enjoy for that time (usually from the thrift store) I like doing it because it’s like a reward & I love to shop.
When you live up north where the temperature goes from a hot day in the summer to freezing cold in the winter you cannot use the one month rule. You have to use the one year rule. Thanks for all the good tips. Very helpful.
So much of what you say is very true. Speaking as a nearly 70 year old, I would say it is possible to go to the extreme with this philosophy. No. One; I’m short too. Have you considered the unexpected event? Truly no one needs tons of dress clothes if your work situation doesn’t require it, but one outfit for summer, another for winter, fulfills the unexpected event for any possible situation. Any interview for anything. Going to church , if dressing for a wedding, funeral, any possible situation you might not anticipate that a more dressed up situation. And what about the seasonal differences of any outfit. Does a summer tie for your husband’s suit look good in the winter with a heavier material? I LOVE organized, somewhat minimal rooms and closets, but does one set of sheets cover the bases when someone becomes sick in the family, and the sheets become stained and disgisting? Without
Wow! I literally emptied my closet and drawers today and piled it ALL on my bed. And I kept thinking, I’d rather just grab what I know I love instead of touching every single thing. So now I’m going to approach this job with your tips, grab what I love, quarantine some items, and clear out the rest!! Timing on this was PERFECT!
Aghhh boooooo Im guilty of buying occasional things that are a half or full size too small. Things that I need to lose 6-7 pounds to wear aaarrgghhhh thanks for pointing out ‘it needs to fit’ . This is a good video
I have a a very inflated idea of how much I dress up. I WANT to be going to places where I dress up but our social scene is more barn oriented. Church is on hold for now and I was one of the only people who really dressed up for mass every week.
I gave myself a small box, it could only fit 3 outfits, of the next size up, "just in case" I gained weight again. I was holding on to a large tub of "just in case" clothes. I picked my favorite 3 outfits & put them in a small box on top of my closet, so I am ready for "just in case". It felt good & maybe in the future I'll get rid of them, but for now I feel good about it.
I love the turn the hanger around trick. It’s that visual reminder that you don’t wear this. Pick a day you know the first of the season you know. Like 1 March, turn all of your clothes around so the hanger goes backwards, then if you haven’t worn any of that in three months because the hanger is still turned backwards, then you know you don’t need it.
Now that I have decluttered my closet, I take note of whether I consistently pass over a certain item of clothing, rather than choosing to wear it. I may decide to just pull it off the hanger and give it away or I may try wearing it one more time. Every once a while I just pull an item out and give it away. It is such a nice way to live. :)
Thanks for sharing - so many great tips and reminders! I’ve Konmari’d my clothes twice and it’s probably time for another round. Finding the Dressing Your Truth System has helped my wardrobe and clothes shopping so much! It’s given me guidelines and a focus on the colors, fabrics, cuts, and styles that I know look good on me and I feel good in. So that even if it’s on clearance, if it doesn’t fit my guidelines, it’s still not worthy of a spot in my closet. Cheers to the New Year and Decluttering!
I'm likely moving in the near future and the idea of packing/moving clothing/shoes I never wear has me purging like a house on fire. It's not as painful as I thought it would be. Going forward I'm sticking to 5 rules when shopping: 1) It has to fit me now; 2) It has be good quality & a great price; 3) It's not similar to anything I own; 4) I love it so much, it'll upset me later if I don't get it; 5) Purge two items for every one I bring home (same goes for decor/holiday stuff).
I gained some weight back I lost before, and I took out 5, yes 5, totes of clothes that no longer fit. I had clothes folded in stacks in my closet floor, and I couldn't open the door of my closet. I put them down in my garage, but I am thinking of doing like you said and only keeping my favorites from those totes. If no movement on the scale in a few months, I am going to sell them on eBay.
Hi Dawn, Happy New Year 🎉. I pray this will be the year I can finally do it !!! I don't know if this is wierd but I worry a lot about leaving my children with MY BURDEN of clutter so my plan is to work REAL HARD this year so I can be in a better place a year from now. This is all thanks to YOU. I'm so glad I stumbled across one of your videos 😊😁😊.
Im on a midlife crisis and already been on three evacuations. This started my minimalism journey decluttering. And if there were no longer a house what would I need to take. If something happened to me what do I leave my kids with...
I don’t want to leave a huge amount of clothing for loved ones to have to go through either. So being an older person i ask myself would I want a caretaker putting this on me? If the answer is “no” then out it goes!
I have been on a declutter journey and decided that my criteria for downsizing at least initially is getting rid of clothes that are made from 100% polyester. The other criteria that I am starting to look at are clothes made in China. Then I will look at duplicates. Do I have a lot of the same kind of clothes and asking myself how many of these types of clothes do I really need. Recently I got rid of a bunch of jeans. I am not sure I can or want to do a capsule wardrobe but I do need to downsize a lot for various reasons: 1) the stress of having too much; 2) the possibility of a move this next year; wanting to simplify my life in general and 4) save $.
As I didn't want to declutter my clothes by sorting them out (because I know that I just can't throw away or donate any of this innocent, cute, still usable textiles when not having a very obvious motive) I had to be inventive. I just put all my shirts on one pile. The next morning I took the top one and wore it all day. In the evening I knew for certain if I liked the shirt or not. If it was a "no" I could easily get rid of it. Every day I consistently took and wore the top one. In the evening I either put it in the "wash and donate" box or in the "wash and keep" box. This was so much easier for me than just looking at the clothes and then decide what to do with them. Maybe this works for someone else, too.
I've started simplifying my life last year and getting rid of clothes that I don't wear has made a huge difference. I've had to cut some losses with clothes that I've bought and never wore. It is so liberating that I don't have to look at them any more and feel guilty about spending money! I am very intentional now when I buy clothes and only replace items or fill actual needs. I own about 12 outfits plus a couple of old items for gardening and other dirty work. Love your channel for additional tips, reinforcement and motivation!
Did my closet and dresser in one hour. 5 garbage bags of clothes GONE. And one bag of garbage. AND I'm not a "keeper" type!! Amazing how many clothes I was keeping just in case!!
Love your videos. Some of us really cannot pull out everything and put it in one place to make a decision. Ie. ADHD -- one item at a time works best for me otherwise overwhelmed. Clutter can be a big issue for folks who collect and have ADHD. Also, what if you loved it but wore it to death and are sick of it? Nice problem, I know, def 1st world. I seem to be afraid that if I toss it I'll regret that I'm not quite done with it even if it's been sitting on its lonely little hanger in the corner of my closet for a year. Thanks. Happy New Year!
On of the best questions I learned to ask myself regarding my wardrobe is: "how many compilations can I make in order to have many outfits with the least amount of clothes?
THANK YOU for watching!! I forgot to mention a thought on keeping clothes that are currently too big or too small-- SHOULD WE STORE THEM IN CASE WE CHANGE SIZES AGAIN? In my opinion, keep a few things, anything that is especially high quality or that you really like, but beyond that, it is INVENTORY that we have to manage, and we often forget about things in storage!
I have the hardest time when it comes to decluttering clothes. I am guilty of keeping clothes that do not fit me and feel obligated to hold onto those items for when I lose or may gain weight. Thank you for this video and your insight! I hope that you all have a blessed and wonderful New Year! 😊
I’ve ALWAYS kept 3 of my favorite “skinny” outfits just in case I happened to go down a couple of sizes. But even at that, when I was diagnosed with cancer a few years back, while I getting smaller and my clothes were getting bigger... I never thought about my skinny clothes I had squirreled away.... until one day (after I had regained the weight) I was cleaning out my closet. Felt like such an idiot! I couldn’t afford clothes that fit, and there where my 3 favorites outfits of all time that’ll probably never fit into again.
I have one vacuum bag with smaller sizes, I just keep my favourites a coat every other size and bras because they are expensive! When I change size I look there first, then I look in the wardrobe at things I can alter. If I can’t find what I need I save up and go shopping. I just try and avoid new clothes because buying from ethical sources can be expensive.
I have kept pants in smaller sizes in Hope's of losing weight but donate everything in bigger sizes. Great video. I'm looking forward to decluttering my entire house in January.
What are your thoughts on taking clothes that are small but quality pieces and just storing in a tub of you are working on weight loss?
When first decluttering clothes, I found the best question to ask was "would i pack this in my suitcase if I was going on a trip?" ... We always take our most favourite clothes with us somewhere! So this question works soooo well - especially for those "i'm not sure" items.
I know, I always pack my favorites, and the rest just hangs there
Such a great question to ask!! I love that!!
Fantastic question! I also like to ask, if I were moving would I want to pack and unpack this? Much love Dawn, keep inspiring us all! 💛
That’s such a smart idea! Definitely going to use this.
Yes, me too! :)
When I clean my closet, I try things on and ask myself, “If I was in the dressing room right now, would I buy this item again?” Most often the answer is NO.
That is a very good one...
This is THE QUESTION I always ask when decluttering anything: Would I buy this again?
Great question! Thanks-you. 🙏
I've recently heard this question & it's So helpful.
@@lucydeboxer2565 Yes, I have just learned the power of this question! Sure, it may be beautiful, but would I buy it now? SO often the answer is No. :-)
I heard someone suggest forcing yourself to actually wear what is in your closet and drawers. That way you very clearly see why it is that you haven't worn that piece of clothing. Wrong size, needs repairs, doesn't match with other things, is itchy or uncomfortable in some way. Then you realize it's time to part with that item or you just shopped your closet and found a new look!!
Love that!
I’m in the process of doing this very thing..... if I’m keeping it, why am I not wearing it?
I have made myself wear something that I have held onto. & after about an hour, it's like, "y did I keep this?".. so yes. I am 1 to done this too
This is such a GREAT idea... Often we have an idea that something will look better than it actually does. Wearing it (or even just trying it on) can help make that decision easier than just looking at it on a hanger
I love this. This morning I pulled out a top I hadn't worn in forever because my daughter said I should wear it. I couldn't do it. It felt sack like. I had once loved it, I've lost a bit of weight and it just isn't right. I think I'll clean the stain on it and let it go!
I love how you compare the closet to a storage unit. I would never get a storage unit, so why would I allow my closet to be one? Your analogies always speak to me. 😃
this is an EXCELLENT point!!!!!!
Me too. I love Dawn..
I love that you think of how someone else will feel finding that item at the thrift store. Such a great way to look at it!!
I absolutely hate putting away laundry, so as I'm putting away my clothes, I've been asking myself "Do I like this enough to have to hang/fold it again?" The answer is usually no, so into the donate pile it goes. And it's great, because everything is already clean and ready to donate.
Ive started doing this too. Win win!
I'm the same! I will ask myself this question next time.
... And iron as well.
Great idea 💡! I got rid of a tank top that way, now i am gonna do this every time!
I like this idea !
I would clarify ¨Does it fit?” To “Does it fit well?”! AND “Does it fit MY style?” I see clients with closets full of clothes that fit, but poorly (to tight or too big) and make them feel schumpy! Or beautifully sized clothes they never wear because the style fit isn’t theirs. I would ALWAYS advise keeping an outfit or two of not-everyday-clothes, the kind of nice outfit you would wear to a funeral, court, or special appointment-because when those occasions come up, you don’t need the added stress of having to buy something at the last minute. I have helped more than one crying woman (Not clients...) find an outfit for a funeral. And YES! Thrift/consignment is an awesome way to build a wardrobe on a budget! One of my 2020 Style Resolutions is to shop pre-loved first this year. (Okay, not for underwear. Or running shoes.)
I agree with this. I had to buy an outfit for my late father-in-law's funeral last minute. It was not a fun experience.
Good suggestions!
Lisbeth Klebba if they’re too tight or too big they don’t fit hahaha
Lisbeth Klebba - Good advice on keeping some clothing necessary for occasions like funerals so I recently purchased one black Ralph Lauren dress at Winners and do have a black pant suit on hand as well.
Caleb Shares Believe me... That doesn’t stop people from thinking they do fit!
I ran across a quote that I keep in mind a lot when decluttering and I'd like to share it. It was in the book "Minimalism Room by Room" by Elizabeth Enright Phillips, and it's "Decluttering is always about forgiveness." The hardest part for me has always been the guilt associated with buying things and not using them, or wanting to get rid of something someone gave me. It always comes down to forgiving yourself and sometimes others. Good video!
Forgiveness is GOOD. Helps with moving on NOT suffering day by day. It starts with us, on the inside
I want to be free.
Excellent perspective!!!
Also I know clothes our meant to fit us and not the other way around, but sometimes we need to forgive ourselves for maybe not being able to maintain staying a size a lot of our clothing is in. Especially if it’s likely you will never be back to that size again (or at least any time soon).
Love this Barbara D. Wood. Thank you. I need to forgive myself for buying too many clothes in the past. Forgiveness indeed. Great advice. Thank you again!
Another good question to ask ourselves is: “would I buy this again?”
I don’t subscribe to Marie Kondo’s idea of bestowing a “spirit” to our possessions, but I usually DO give thanks for things I have owned and let go. I once read to “bless and release” things , and I find that makes it easier and is very liberating.
That's my translation with Marie Kondo's approach, too. Someone once told me that- whenever she lets go of an item- makes a habit of saying a prayer of thanksgiving for the corresponding memories. Even if she should forget a happy memory, at least God got His due thanks for it. 😊
Wow I just realized my closet has been a storage unit for years.... I have sooooo many clothes and only wear about 20-30 of them. 😳
My boyfriend came in and was like "youre watching these videos again" and I responded with... "see this woman right here? You have her to thank for why I got rid of everything" 😅🤣
He was mean!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I always thought I had a lot of stuff but it wasn't a crazy amount. (My mom's a hoarder, so maybe I was subconsciously measuring my house against hers a little bit?) I had gotten hooked on KonMari videos at one point and decided to use her thought process of sparking joy but by going through my house room by room. I got rid of so much stuff and felt great about it. Then my husband and I went on vacation and stayed in an Airbnb that was very minimal. As soon as I walked in my door when we got home, I said, "I have too much stuff!" So I purged a good bit more and thought okay, now this is great. The other day I decided to convert all my hangers from wire to plastic. I thought I'd buy like 100; that should be plenty for me and my husband. Yeah... I went through all those before I finished MY wardrobe! I was horrified. I've always been a numbers person. So when I broke it down and thought I could wear each of these tops like three times a year, I was like WHAT?! I went through my tops like I normally would and was able to get rid of quite a few things. Then I saw your video and thought about those sweaters that I keep keeping even though they're too small. And the suits I keep keeping even though I haven't worn them in years, they are way too small for me, and I don't even want to work in a place where I would have to wear a suit. So I was able to get rid of more just by asking myself if each item was really an option, and I did notice a difference in my mindset by getting rid of those too small sweaters. It sucks having that reminder every morning that you gained weight and haven't been able to lose it. Nobody needs that kind of negativity in their life. And I hope someone who does wear suits is super excited when they find mine at the thrift store! Thanks for the help! Also, I'm starting to work with my mom on her house this weekend (I spent a whole day on her half bathroom for Mother's Day, but she kept a ton.) It's going to be a long journey through her 5 bedroom house, but I look forward to the end result and will keep watching for more tips--and motivation. :)
The last time I went through my closet and donated bags of clothes, I treated myself to nice, matching hangers, and hung my clothes back up in order of color. It was such a joy to go to my closet! I’m ready to do it again, but this time I won’t needed the hangers, lol.
Marsha Thorson matching hangers are wonderful!
What a great way of not adding more clothing clutter. Using it!!
I would gently suggest that you still hang on to one or two "nicer than usual" outfits. I'm a SAHM and wear very casual stuff (though I wear nicer things to church). A few weeks ago, we had an unexpected death in our family; and I was glad that I could just pull something appropriate to wear for the memorial service out of storage rather than spending time and money (having neither to spare in that situation!) to find an outfit. A friend remarked that, at our age (late 40's) these occasions, alas, will keep coming up... --Author Anna Johnson tells us that she keeps two nice outfits for job interviews ready to go (including accessories) at all times. One need not put them in one's regular closet, but still...
This is my one hiccup with Dawn’s approach. If you had the time and funds to buy something quick for that occasion, would you chuck it in 6 months because you didn’t need it again, only to buy it again for the next formal event?
I do not wear at least 50% of my clothes because they don’t fit “just right” so it’s easier to wear something else - on regular repeat. 🙏Thanks for the encouragement to grieve (the financial waste, letting go of my imaginary future, etc.) and move on. This is not where I want to spend my energy any longer.
Liked the 'Not where I want to spend my energy any longer'
Sometimes my why to let things go is as basic as that I’ve just worn something so much that I’m tired of it, even if it fits my body and my lifestyle. I try to be frugal and not wasteful, but I no longer feel the need to wear all items until they are completely worn out.
I really like the hanger trick for hang-up clothes. Turn every hanger around backwards, and when you wear an item, hang it up the normal way. In a year, look at what items have not been turned around and get rid of them! This is great for procrastinators and those who struggle with making those hard decisions.
I also love the idea or a purgatory box. If you are still not sure about those items coming out of your closet, seal them in a box and write a future date on it. By that date, if you don't miss the items in that box, you don't need them. You probably won't even be able to remember what's in there!
Linden Peters I am lazy, so I think I will place a hair tie over the hanger of worn items instead of turning my entire closet around. You can buy a whole pack at dollar store!
Linden Peters I do this too! Every January. I think I might do it each time the season changes this year.
My goal today was to drive one hour to ikea to pick up hangers and storage bins. Instead, through your inspiration, I did another closet purge. Now I have two large ikea bags filled with nearly new career wear to donate, and I don’t need hangers. It was free and feels right.
I'm so glad you said you still buy clothes. Sometimes minimalist make us feel guilty for buying things. Im in the process of decluttering and owning less and being ore intentional. ITs hard for sure but it feels so good. Cant wait to see you wardrobe! thank you
I just stopped the video after only watching for four minutes. I got a huge rubbish bad and started filling it. I knew exactly what to throw away. Some items took a few seconds. Got my Husband took him to his part of the wordrobe and he did the same. The huge bag is full. So good!
Will watch the rest now :)
@Monica Young, oh that is great!!
I have a hamper in our closet that I throw clothes in to get rid of. Every time my sister comes in town she goes through it, and I donate the rest. Works well.
I do that as well! Makes it easy
When I was in my early pregnancy, I needed to go to a fancy event. I bought an expensive dress. I never was able to fit in it again. I kept it because it was beautiful, expensive and swore I needed to wear it more than once. That was 28 years ago. I still have it. It's that way with alot of my clothes.
I get so excited when I see a notification ....minimal mom has uploaded a new video.😍
I enjoyed your video Dawn💗
So informative...
My sister & I are in the process of decluttering her room in the nursing home...we are replacing clothes she actually needs & will wear.
I bought her a new bed pillow, bras & a new pair of shoes.
We are enjoying our time together.💗
Wonderful post!!
Susie McCoy me too Susie!! Following her throughout the house!
When I buy clothes, which isn't often because I'm short and suffer from all-gut-no-butt syndrome, I try to remember my rules:
1. Print tops/solid bottoms to fool the eye.
2. How many ways can I mix and match the item
3. How difficult is it to care for?
Thanks for your tips! Stay warm!
Lori McCool dressing in one colour top to bottom makes you appear taller. Compliment the outfit with a bright scarf or statement piece of jewelry . You could wear the same basics often just trading out the scarves or Jewelry.
I have been making a lot of progress decluttering but tonight I looked at this huge pile that I have to take to the donation center and I feel bad instead of happy. I felt kind of ashamed of all the stuff we've accumulated.
I'm thankful to be on this new path that I realize I don't need that much to be happy. I'm happier having what I need. Really Dawn I couldn't be where I'm at in my decluttering journey without you. Thank you thank you thank you.
Don't be ashamed, it sounds like you're learning and doing great!
Speaking of shame... Dawn, a hangup some ppl have is not getting rid of something because so & so gave it, or because you wore it for such & such occasion. That might be good to add in your videos whenever you talk about guilt of getting rid of something because it cost you money. Even getting rid of things that were free to you can bring you guilt. I know I often feel guilty getting rid of things that the ppl in my life (who's love languages are gifts😛) gave to me.
Anyhow, just thought I'd throw that out here. It might be helpful to others like me. 🙂
By the way, once again I want to thank you for your videos!!! I'm so grateful for your TH-cam channel. I'm not on your FB group because 1. I had to cut fb from my life (did that before you started your private group). 2. we are trying to get out of debt.
But I wanted to take this opportunity to let you know that I'm so grateful for your videos each week!!! I look forward to them each Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturdays!!! They encourage, inspire, and motivate me to keep on keeping on in my pursuit of a simplified life that enables my family to live more fully. Thank you!!!
@@sarahwaters8262 aww thank you, thank you for the kind words:)
Don’t be ashamed! Be grateful that you can share and pleased with yourself that you are working on it!
I am one of those people who can’t dump everything on my bed in the Konmari way, because the mess causes me anxiety and demotivates me. I am much better keeping everything neatly hanging in the closet, and picking up one item at a time and making a decision. 🙂
ercokat1965 I feel the same way👍🏻
@ercokat1965- I feel like that, too, the project seems overwhelming that way, and I wouldn’t finish quickly enough, then I still have a mess and too many clothes!
You're doing the right thing. Dust mites accumulate in wardrobes, and putting clothes on your bed which you haven't worn in a year will just transfer all those mites into your duvet and pillows. When I sort out my clothes I get a huge plastic sheet and cover the bed entirely, then I move it gently away when I've finished so the mites don't get shaken everywhere. I'm phobic and OCD over dust mites!!!
I will pick out 5 items of clothing at a time to put in the donate pile. I do this once or twice a month. I’ve gotten rid of half my clothes. Still have too many but it is much less than before. I will also try to purge more at the change of the seasons.
same here
I went through my clothes just last month and I was ruthless! I love your tips! My favorite thing to point out to myself is this... if I haven't worn it but I still like it, someone else is going to find it at the thrift store, love it AND wear it.
I will say this though, I had a pair of jeans and a couple pairs of capris that haven't fit me in many years so last month I was ready to part with all of them (even though I was super bummed since the capri pants were both the perfect length - I'm short too so capris very rarely are actually capris, they're more like floods lol). I decided to try them all on (just in case) and one by one, they fit! I actually walked out in a pair and told my husband that my closet made my clothes bigger! LOL I have lost some weight but didn't think it was enough to have those pants fit me. Regardless, I am pretty happy that I have my capris and an extra pair of jeans BUT I was totally ready to pass them along!!
Yay!
I can’t wait to go through my clothes and declutter AGAIN! I did this twice already, and I am ready for another round! I find I don’t wear the things I really love because they are hidden in with too many other items I don’t really love, but are practical. I want to wear the things I really love until they are worn out and I need to replace them. Thank you for your encouragement 💗
Always keep an outfit in your wardrobe for funerals. When my mum died suddenly i burst into tears trying to find an outfit. When my dad died recently i already had something and so saved myself a lot of stress.
sharie wood ❤️
Great video. It has been a years long process but I'm finally figuring all this out regarding clothing. A tip for all the fellow declutterers out there... If the clothes have been in your ironing basket for a year or more it is safe to donate them without even looking through them. True story. Apparently I really hate to iron and now I don't have to! 🤦🤣
A couple of years ago I pared down my closet to only items that fit properly and were flattering (and modest) on my large bust and small waist. I then “wardrobed” as many of the favorite items I could into complete outfits I would love to wear & felt beautiful in, ie jeans & top & blazer & scarf & necklace (I even hang dangly hoop earrings with it that I only wear with that particular outfit). It made my mornings so enjoyable to not have to groan “I have nothing to wear”. Instead I had twenty complete outfits that made me feel terrific and made dressing in the mornings enjoyable.
Lost 50# a couple years ago, all my “favorites” I had saved from years ago ended up being tossed, style wasn’t current enough or fit was not the same on my aged body
An interesting point to remember is.... Dawn you live in one of the coldest states....yet you aren’t hoarding clothes for just in case.
I too have found some treasures at the thrift store. Passing along “the good things” is a way to pay it forward to a sister who could really use win that would brighten their day.
Amen to that:)
100% !!!
I have an appointment today for a re-sale shop for clothing. So as a tip from me I'd like to offer going through your donations the night before or day of any drop off donation/consignment appointments. That way they are leaving the house within 24 hours of packing and not lying around in limbo. I turned on this video to get me motivated to just go through the jeans because I know they are good sellers at this shop. I brought my laptop into the room I'm working in so you can keep me company (like having a besty nearby) :) and also to keep me focused on the task at hand. I also enjoy putting on music I enjoy for background motivation. Today is was soft latino jazz. I did not even stand in front of a mirror when trying on the clothes. Instead I just grabbed a pair of pants and tried them on. I put 3 piles. #1 Donate/Consign, #2 Keep for myself, #3 Pass on to family. Yesterday I brought you into the kitchen with me (on my laptop again) so I can get my dishes done. One phrase that inspired me to "re-think my clutter was "we are just managing inventory". That's what I've been doing all this time and I'm not interested in just managing "stuff". Thanks for hanging out with me! God gave you the talent of cheerfulness and like myself I like to stay positive so you are a good virtual friend to have for inspiration. God Bless link to music: Romantic Melodies Spanish Guitar - Relaxing Guitar Instrumental Music ♪ - Bing video Another tip: I choose music with no words because sometimes even sound can be "cluttered" and for me, having no words to listen to frees up my mind while working.
I swear the Lord speaks through you so much for me. For a week now the Lord has been asking me what I've put off in 2019 that I kept saying I would do. The answers have ranged from big things (like have 2,000 subscribers on my channel) to little things like clean out my closet. I have kept coming back to the closet because I'm mad at myself for putting something off that I could have tackled in a couple hours. I've put this on my weekly to do list for 52 weeks. I've cringed when I've opened it. Every single time. And now you've talked about it. As usual you're the motivation I need. I promise you, everyone reading this, and myself that I will have my closet cleaned out by the end of this week!!
Good luck, I am sure you'll succeed and will feel so much lighter afterwards. 😊💪
You won't regret it! A well-curated wardrobe really does make life easier on so many levels.
It never takes as long to do something as we think it will! You’ll be done faster than you think...
Hope you accomplished your closet mission. The Lord told me to declutter too and not just the physical stuff😀. I get overwhelmed easily and tend to put things off coz of the sheer magnitude of the task ahead of me. He showed me (through a prophetic article online) to keep going even if at a snail's pace, take one step at a time and momentum will build. I settled on 1 kitchen shelf thinking I would stop at the slightest sign of tiredness. I got the impression to first pick similar items and bag or place them in their respective place eg, all the receipts go in their original spot (not back on the shelf) TO BE SORTED LATER, same with snack bags and the rest. Later when I get free time I pick up the individual bag to sort and discard unwanted stuff. By following this system I finished the entire shelf organisation in half hour than what I thought would be longer. I was amazed at what I had accomplished and that gave me motivation to tackle small corners of the house everyday.
@@KingdomJustice11 I have not finished it. I keep telling myself "tomorrow". But then you know, tomorrow never comes. Thanks for your comment. It was the motivation the Lord is using to push me to do it. I'll reply here as soon as it's done. I love how Jesus loves us so much that He speaks to us even about our clutter. I would love to read the article that motivated you if you could link it! Thank you for the encouragement!
I love my minimalist closet and it's true even before I got rid of my piles of unworn clothing I would really only wear a few of the same tops and bottoms because they were flattering and I felt good in them!
My wardrobe now:
5 tops:
A coloured cotton button up shirt
A beige linen button up shirt
A floral blouse
A short sleeved colored blouse
A black and white striped tee (everyone should have!)
3 sweaters:
A beige light knit pullover sweater
A grey light knit cardigan
A grey heavy knit cardigan
2 jackets:
A brown plaid blazer (everyone should have!)
A grey winter coat (I live in cold climate)
1 dress:
A black maxi dress
4 bottoms:
A pair of dark blue straight legged jeans
A pair of black dress pants (everyone should have!)
A pair of burgundy dress pants
A black maxi skirt
Shoes:
Brown oxfords
Brown boots
Brown or white sandals
Accessories:
A brown backpack purse
A black belt
A straw sun hat
A black knit hat
A black scarf
A pair of black winter gloves
= over 50 outfits
I'm 25 but I could see myself wearing these timeless pieces at 50 and 75
You were reading my mind!! I literally said to myself “I have GOT to go through this closet!” Probably 10 times since Christmas... thanks for the encouragement!
I have a sweater in my closet with a hole in the pocket. I haven't worn it just because I keep thinking - oh yeah, I'll see that! Well, I was just thinking - the room I have and will have more of as I declutter, I'm going to put my sewing box IN my closet on the shelf!!! I always have to take my "to sew" items downstairs and it just never happened! Because of you Dawn I've been thinking about things like this. Put things where it's most convenient to use! Thanks for everything! Keep it up!!
Your clothing videos have me motivated to declutter. I went to my closet, just to remove a couple items that I know I no longer want. Every time I wear them, I don't feel good in them. I came out with a bag of throw away and a bag of donation!
Funny (and not funny) how the term quarantine that you use every now and then in your videos has gotten a whole new meaning during 2020. 😣🤦♀️💖 Thanks for all the tips!
I have filled the back end of. My car several times in the last few months, it's feels great to get it out of our small condo
I once read somewhere that when it comes to eating we typically eat the same 10 dinners in a rotation. I think this applies to our clothes as well. We wear the same basic wardrobe in rotation but we have some other things we may wear on occasion. Are those items worth the space, time, and energy? I have 7 pairs of pants. They are palazzo pants in different colors. I have 7 kathmandu tops and 7 tshirts. Everything will mix and match. This spring I will purchase 7 capris in the same colors as the pants so I can swap them out for the warmer months. What really helped me here was really defining my style. Next was getting out of the mindset that buying cheaper was better. Now I can justify spending $45 on kathmandu tops because I don't fill my closet with a bunch of clothes that I don't love, but I bought because they were a bargain. This was a huge mindset shift for me. Hope someone else finds it helpful.
Your videos are really helping me with the mindset shift in other areas.
We are empty nesters in a 3 bedroom house. I have gained some middle age weight and I had the 2 spare bedroom closets filled with clothes that don't fit but kept thinking I will lose weight and then fit into those clothes. I finally packed up everything last week that doesn't fit to give to the thrift store and now I tell myself that if I lose some weight I will treat myself to new clothes and that way it doesn't bother me at all about giving up the clothes now that don't fit. Thanks for all the tips. I love your videos!
Another way of keeping your wardrobe current is if you have an everyday wardrobe and a special/out of season wardrobe. I use our smallest bedroom as a dressing room and that has a smallish wardrobe that has my current season clothes in it that all fit. A section of the walk in wardrobe in the master bedroom has my out of season and special occasion clothes. It has summer party dresses and items like coats and shoes that I only wear on snow holidays because it doesn’t snow where I live. At the change of seasons, items with short sleeves generally don’t move, but I have a lot of sleeveless tops and dresses as summers are quite hot where I live and these change places with the long sleeve items, and my jackets and warmer clothing will come back into my everyday wardrobe.
Doing this process twice a year means you are looking at all your clothes (and lugging them between rooms!) so anything that you are moving from everyday to storage that you realise you never wore that season it’s then a good chance to consider if you will wear that item again. Sometimes I have bought new items during the season that I simply prefer to older similar things I already have and when I do the changeover that is when I realise I won’t wear the older items again and it’s time to donate them. It’s also quite fun doing this process if you have bought items on sale at the end of the season that you didn’t get the chance to wear before the weather changed (I often buy a new bathing suit right at the end of the summer) so all those new unworn items are waiting for you when you do the next switch over.
I also do this process for shoes so I don’t have winter boots in my everyday wardrobe during the summer. Out of season shoes are all stored in boxes on the high shelves in the walk in wardrobe.When I do the shoe changeover this is a good time to review the condition of shoes and whether they are still in good enough condition for another season.
It took me about 3 years to downsize to a capsule wardrobe and I love it. Thanks for sharing as this was a very difficult part to decluttering as I loved clothes but find I wear the same things over and over 🙈 I also realize that your wardrobe can be determined by size of closet and I have a small closet and it’s one in one out now and never overwhelmed by things falling out of closet and drawers.
I love organizing and so I have read, heard, watched, etc hundreds of pieces of advice on the subject.
And this is the BEST wardrobe advice I've heard because it's so easy to remember and real!!
#1 Does it Fit, #2 Why haven't I worn it? #3 Make room for a few new pieces this year and feel good about rewarding myself. Love it Love it Love it.
My advice is a mix of Einstein's advice and some seemingly non related marketing advice from a marketing genius...
Einstein used the uniform to keep his wardrobe simple and I like that advice not because it saves time like Einstein proposed, like 5 years or something, but
it saves brain space. A marketer once taught me that decisions are the bottleneck to productivity because you have to stop your flow to choose. But
once a decision is made then you have mind-space to work out other solutions.
So give your brain a break and decide on a uniform. It doesn't have to be boring or the same thing for every occasion... For example
when cleaning have an outfit that you wear for that,
when grocery shopping have a couple outfits for that,
when going on a date have a couple for that,
when working in the yard have an outfit for that,
when shooting videos have a signature style that makes you easily recognizable, etc.
And see how having on the same outfit gets you in the right frame of mind for that project so much faster! Kind of like Pavlov's Dog!
* hugs *
I love this idea!!!
@@kellymary2444 Thank you!
If you throw out the Pavlov's dog Theory reference, I whole heartily love it!
I agree with you that it is better to err on the side of overdoing the decluttering when it comes to clothes. I have done at least two massive purges and I learned a lot about myself both times. One is that I like the plain, monotone look where I don't have to even think of how to combine things, and two, that I don't need to go shopping until what I have starts to wear out. Luckily, I don't get bored easily and I've found that I'm not as big as a clotheshorse as I used to be when younger and just want simplicity. I keep a few good pieces of jewelry and scarves to jazz things up and that's all I need.
I make a list (with pictures) in my iPhone of all my clothes so when I go clothes shopping I now What I allready have. Its easy to match and make good decisions then.
That's a really good idea!
Love that idea. I’ve too many to photograph right now, so know I need to let more go.
Getting help from a color stylist has been a game changer for me. I concentrate on the colors and style of clothes that I feel good in, and yes I get compliments! I let go of so much black that just washes me out, and other perfectly good items, but they just didn’t flatter me. Now when I shop my eye is trained to go for the color, print size and what will go with my wardrobe. Getting dressed feels easy, well put together and I know I’m showing my best!
It’s like we stuff and store the things we don’t use and the other stuff we use have no room , which creates the clutter and disorganization.
I love the quarantine approach, 1 to 2 months in box in my closet and I haven’t pulled back out to wear off to donation it goes. The biggest impact on decluttering my closet has been a better understanding of what my work uniform is and what my weekend wear is. I’m no fashionista but I now know clearly what I like and what colors I will and won’t wear.
Great content. I just took all my whites and light clothes that need to be washed with bleach and got rid of them. I never wear white so it takes like 6 months to get a load big enough to wash and use bleach. Now every single item of clothing I own can go in the same load. No more sorting! YA!!!
When decluttering casual clothes I ask myself if I would feel good in this in public? With fancier clothes I put out my “Sunday best” and categorize favourites on down. I hope to declutter about 25% of my clothing. As usual, your timing is perfect.
Great tip
Great question about would I wear this in public. I'm retired and realize most of what I wear is casual. Given that, I like to make sure my casual clothes look good.
Soooo good!!! One of my other favorite advice was from you... I think you said it when sorting kids’ clothes but it was so helpful: choose the “number of” first, 3 jeans, 2 dresses etc. that I want to have/need to use, THEN grab the favorite ones and out goes the rest. Konmari was exhausting for me because I overwhelm with decision overload. Your method was freeing and decisive! I just joined Josh’s Uncluttered also... thanks for introducing him 💕
My only holdup is/was when pregnant. I don't want to get rid of my every day non-pregnancy clothes that I love when I know I will wear them again after pregnancy. I think that was hardest for me, waiting 9 months to wear my favorite things again. Also, I'm keeping my 2 favorite pairs of maternity jeans for if there's another pregnancy (or, you know... Thanksgiving). 😁
Your body will never be the shape not to say you won't loose weight mine was just different.
I have a pregnancy stash too, only keeping the things I'm excited to wear again next time. I'll be keen to have the space back once we're done having kids though!!
@@sandg5248 Mine went back to the same shape!
Hahahhaha!
My 1st pregnacy I didnt loose all the weight, and never got back to it again. But my 2nd, I actually weighed less at 3monthes post delivery! I think we put to much pressure on ourselves to "bounce back" after pregnancy. It takes 9mon to grow a baby, not everyone will be back to the same shape/size at 6wks if ever. If you love your pre-pregnancy clothes, I would keep them until around 6-9mon post pregnancy and see if they fit again.
I love my worn out clothes because they are so comfortable--seems like the stretched out ones with holes in them are soo comfortable.
Yes! I have done just that, Dawn. I went to the extreme in decluttering my clothes in 2019 so that what was left..was what fit and what I actually liked! The gaps were so easy to see after that! You are spot-on! I may have went REALLY far and was wearing the same denim shirt nearly everyday but..hmm oh well, the concept worked! It feels so good to be able to see what I have, wear what I love, and go back to buy ONLY what I need. New to me also..I visited my very first thrift store for clothing in 2019 and was so surprised to see higher name brands that were essentially new for so cheap! And...clothing that suited me bc there was a bigger array of colors in there than the typical "seasonally stocked color scheme" of the usual department stores. Another bonus? The guilt of spending money on buying something new, i.e. my new dress for Christmas was gone..no guilt. Because I actually needed a dress. I had only one and it was for summer ;) Gosh, we are on the same pace and mindset...we could totally be friends! ((smiles))
Just found you, and will subscribe. My dilemma is I love to bargain shop and style outfits. However, working in medical field, I must wear scrub uniforms ( gets old). To de-stuff my closet, I take clothes to a local consignment store. It is so hard to purge clothes! But so nice to have space. Thank you for the tips
This is a helpful video, thank you. But I wish people would stop saying you can toss out stuff you haven't worn for 6 to 12 months. I've rediscovered items in my wardrobe that I hadn't worn for a few years and am now enjoying the hell out of it again. Of course you can set some rules to make the decluttering process easier, but why can't it be more sustainable?
By the way, what a great green view you have from your living room windows!
I just threw out alot of my clothing right now I'm in comfort mode with breastfeeding and doing workouts, taking care of kids and elearning, leggings and t-shirts are my jam right now and I don't dress up ever because we never go out, so clean out was very easy
I absolutely love your videos and your kind spirit! I always like the video before I even watch 😂 Happy New Year!
the hanger method has helped me figure out which items I haven't worn in months! I have reduced my closet by so much using this approach! hope you had a great new year, Dawn!💛
I decluttered my closet after pregnancy and then turned the hangers backwards. I'm finding I wear the same 7-9 shirts over and over, leaving about 15 shirts unworn. I've been thinking about going to the extreme and getting rid of those. What Dawn said about that and then giving you the opportunity to shop for what you really need, makes me think I should just go for it! I love the hanger method for sure. Also used it to convince my husband to get rid of 25 shirts he has not worn in at least 2 years (most more than that, but we moved then, so I know it's been at least that long).
So true about hanging onto clothes that don’t fit. Also it does make you feel bad.
I have started to NOT wash my laundry every weekend(except for under garments) ,and in so doing I am forced to wear everything in my wardrobe. Admittedly It does not always work due to weather variances but mostly it does,and it makes me happy to make use of as much of my wardrobe as possible. I have enough clothing in my wardrobe to last me 2 weeks.The down side is when wash day comes, with it comes an ironing day. :-)
I love watching your videos. You are so sensible with your intent and approach. I moved 2 1/2 yrs. ago and put away two bins of clothes that were too small but I didn’t think I could part with. Unfortunately I haven’t lost weight to get back in these clothes so I will be donating or selling them this weekend. Thank you for the inspiration. I am excited to see what 2020 brings and hope I continue to minimize all my “STUFF”!
P. S. Also enjoy the videos of you and your sister. You are both so sweet.
I did it!!! My closest was full of work clothes... I have been a stay at home mom for 5 years! Many of these nice, pricey items don't even match. Why was I looking at these every day?? I have a real fear that I will not be able to replace these items on our current one income budget and I plan to return to work in a few years. I now have the clothes that fit and match and make sense for my current season of life in my closet. The rest of my clothes are packed in luggage out of the way. My closet feels so much nicer. Thank you!
I totally agree that holding on to clothes that don't fit is a subtle way to feel bad about ourselves every day. I LOVE getting rid of clothes that I don't wear anymore! Thanks for this!
Truly appreciate your intentional ideas. We all have seasons that ignite motivation to improve. One year, needing a significant closet declutter, I made a game getting rid of five clothing items each weekend for several months with a number in mind. Each weekend I made quick pass through the closet and hung five decluttered items on back of bedroom door knob for a day to consider. If an item went back in my closet, another came out to the door knob. If a weekend was skipped, ten items came out the following weekend. Unexpectedly, my husband joined the fun, decluttering much larger numbers for fewer weeks. We shared the weekly errand of dropping items off at the donation center, affectionately called "the drop-off run". Interestingly, as we were going there anyway, we regularly added household items. The resulting space felt wonderful!
I love your talks about decluttering. I would suggest thinking about environment and fair trade. Less plastic and packaging and a lot less or no fast fashion. Buying second hand or fair trade, well made clothing would be helpful to environment and those making the clothing. Thank you
I have what I call my 'funeral outfit'. I never wear it except to a funeral. It' a classic dress, so it stays in style for yers. I'm afraid to ditch it becaue I feel like I would have to go out and buy another if someone passed, and it feels like bad luck!
Every January I challenge myself to wear outfits in a way I have never put them together before. I find this brings some excitement to my closet.
I love you and your videos, but I cannot conform to these because I'm super attached to my stuff, and since covid quarantine, I'm so thankful that I did store all my stuff. I can shop my own closet. Most of my stuff is from thrift stores to begin with. Everyone wants me to declutter but I don't. I lived like a minimalist for a year and felt very lonely and sad. So the then I filled my place back up to feel comfortable, now there's too much. I'm looking for a balance.
YA. Sorta had to look for help on TH-cam!! It's 8pm and guess what...not only is the bed still full, but there's a small mountain chain upon the rug...!! So I GRABBED my PHONE and searched and FOUND THIS VIDEO 🤣!!!💞 Thank you for your mindful wisdoms shared!!
OMGsh, you got me on, "It has tags on it, and you've owned it for a long time, so that makes us feel bad too." I recently did a purge and got rid of at least a dozen things with tags, some of which had been hanging in my closet for 3+ years. :O
I go through my clothes every season and donate or sell items & use that money for clothing that I want to enjoy for that time (usually from the thrift store) I like doing it because it’s like a reward & I love to shop.
I also love your tip from a previous video with Adeline: figure how much clothes you actually need.
When you live up north where the temperature goes from a hot day in the summer to freezing cold in the winter you cannot use the one month rule. You have to use the one year rule. Thanks for all the good tips. Very helpful.
So much of what you say is very true. Speaking as a nearly 70 year old, I would say it is possible to go to the extreme with this philosophy. No. One; I’m short too. Have you considered the unexpected event? Truly no one needs tons of dress clothes if your work situation doesn’t require it, but one outfit for summer, another for winter, fulfills the unexpected event for any possible situation. Any interview for anything. Going to church , if dressing for a wedding, funeral, any possible situation you might not anticipate that a more dressed up situation. And what about the seasonal differences of any outfit. Does a summer tie for your husband’s suit look good in the winter with a heavier material? I LOVE organized, somewhat minimal rooms and closets, but does one set of sheets cover the bases when someone becomes sick in the family, and the sheets become stained and disgisting? Without
Wow! I literally emptied my closet and drawers today and piled it ALL on my bed. And I kept thinking, I’d rather just grab what I know I love instead of touching every single thing. So now I’m going to approach this job with your tips, grab what I love, quarantine some items, and clear out the rest!! Timing on this was PERFECT!
Aghhh boooooo Im guilty of buying occasional things that are a half or full size too small. Things that I need to lose 6-7 pounds to wear aaarrgghhhh thanks for pointing out ‘it needs to fit’ . This is a good video
I have a a very inflated idea of how much I dress up. I WANT to be going to places where I dress up but our social scene is more barn oriented. Church is on hold for now and I was one of the only people who really dressed up for mass every week.
This is so me!
I gave myself a small box, it could only fit 3 outfits, of the next size up, "just in case" I gained weight again. I was holding on to a large tub of "just in case" clothes. I picked my favorite 3 outfits & put them in a small box on top of my closet, so I am ready for "just in case". It felt good & maybe in the future I'll get rid of them, but for now I feel good about it.
I love the turn the hanger around trick. It’s that visual reminder that you don’t wear this. Pick a day you know the first of the season you know. Like 1 March, turn all of your clothes around so the hanger goes backwards, then if you haven’t worn any of that in three months because the hanger is still turned backwards, then you know you don’t need it.
Thank you for this beautiful video. This kind of simplified useful pep-talk is your special talent. I am so excited to apply this to my wardrobe.
Now that I have decluttered my closet, I take note of whether I consistently pass over a certain item of clothing, rather than choosing to wear it. I may decide to just pull it off the hanger and give it away or I may try wearing it one more time. Every once a while I just pull an item out and give it away. It is such a nice way to live. :)
One thing I do is if I’m on the fence about an item, I’ll wear it for the day snd see how I feel. I can usually make a decision after that.
Thanks for sharing - so many great tips and reminders! I’ve Konmari’d my clothes twice and it’s probably time for another round. Finding the Dressing Your Truth System has helped my wardrobe and clothes shopping so much! It’s given me guidelines and a focus on the colors, fabrics, cuts, and styles that I know look good on me and I feel good in. So that even if it’s on clearance, if it doesn’t fit my guidelines, it’s still not worthy of a spot in my closet. Cheers to the New Year and Decluttering!
I'm likely moving in the near future and the idea of packing/moving clothing/shoes I never wear has me purging like a house on fire. It's not as painful as I thought it would be. Going forward I'm sticking to 5 rules when shopping: 1) It has to fit me now; 2) It has be good quality & a great price; 3) It's not similar to anything I own; 4) I love it so much, it'll upset me later if I don't get it; 5) Purge two items for every one I bring home (same goes for decor/holiday stuff).
I gained some weight back I lost before, and I took out 5, yes 5, totes of clothes that no longer fit. I had clothes folded in stacks in my closet floor, and I couldn't open the door of my closet. I put them down in my garage, but I am thinking of doing like you said and only keeping my favorites from those totes. If no movement on the scale in a few months, I am going to sell them on eBay.
Hi Dawn, Happy New Year 🎉. I pray this will be the year I can finally do it !!! I don't know if this is wierd but I worry a lot about leaving my children with MY BURDEN of clutter so my plan is to work REAL HARD this year so I can be in a better place a year from now. This is all thanks to YOU. I'm so glad I stumbled across one of your videos 😊😁😊.
EXACTLY! I helped a precious aunt declutter & move a few years ago. This made a major impression on me to not leave this task for my son.
Im on a midlife crisis and already been on three evacuations. This started my minimalism journey decluttering. And if there were no longer a house what would I need to take. If something happened to me what do I leave my kids with...
Lisa Rios I can say from experience this is a very helpful thing to do for your children.
I don’t want to leave a huge amount of clothing for loved ones to have to go through either. So being an older person i ask myself would I want a caretaker putting this on me? If the answer is “no” then out it goes!
I have been on a declutter journey and decided that my criteria for downsizing at least initially is getting rid of clothes that are made from 100% polyester. The other criteria that I am starting to look at are clothes made in China. Then I will look at duplicates. Do I have a lot of the same kind of clothes and asking myself how many of these types of clothes do I really need. Recently I got rid of a bunch of jeans. I am not sure I can or want to do a capsule wardrobe but I do need to downsize a lot for various reasons: 1) the stress of having too much; 2) the possibility of a move this next year; wanting to simplify my life in general and 4) save $.
As I didn't want to declutter my clothes by sorting them out (because I know that I just can't throw away or donate any of this innocent, cute, still usable textiles when not having a very obvious motive) I had to be inventive. I just put all my shirts on one pile. The next morning I took the top one and wore it all day. In the evening I knew for certain if I liked the shirt or not. If it was a "no" I could easily get rid of it. Every day I consistently took and wore the top one. In the evening I either put it in the "wash and donate" box or in the "wash and keep" box. This was so much easier for me than just looking at the clothes and then decide what to do with them.
Maybe this works for someone else, too.
This is the most helpful video I've watched in years.
I've started simplifying my life last year and getting rid of clothes that I don't wear has made a huge difference. I've had to cut some losses with clothes that I've bought and never wore. It is so liberating that I don't have to look at them any more and feel guilty about spending money! I am very intentional now when I buy clothes and only replace items or fill actual needs. I own about 12 outfits plus a couple of old items for gardening and other dirty work. Love your channel for additional tips, reinforcement and motivation!
Omg- you had me at does it fit ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Great video
Did my closet and dresser in one hour.
5 garbage bags of clothes GONE. And one bag of garbage.
AND I'm not a "keeper" type!! Amazing how many clothes I was keeping just in case!!
Love your videos. Some of us really cannot pull out everything and put it in one place to make a decision. Ie. ADHD -- one item at a time works best for me otherwise overwhelmed. Clutter can be a big issue for folks who collect and have ADHD. Also, what if you loved it but wore it to death and are sick of it? Nice problem, I know, def 1st world. I seem to be afraid that if I toss it I'll regret that I'm not quite done with it even if it's been sitting on its lonely little hanger in the corner of my closet for a year. Thanks. Happy New Year!
On of the best questions I learned to ask myself regarding my wardrobe is: "how many compilations can I make in order to have many outfits with the least amount of clothes?
I love color analysis so I want colors, next to my face, that are flattering. 🎨