Thank you for watching!!! The video with Gage in the semi is here: th-cam.com/video/RbVNIzZP9P4/w-d-xo.html You can find the printable here: www.ithinkwecouldbefriends.com/2019/07/18/decluttering-questions-free-printable/
Every time I click for the free printable it says 404 error that the site is no longer there. Is that still available? Just asking because this video popped up in my recommendations this morning and I would love to get that printable
Oh my, seeing Gage sneak around the corner in the back ground was so adorable and how you in your gentle spirit gave him permission to come join you was a bigger message than the decluttering !!! Warms my heart 🥰 Although the intended message was fabulous too 😁
I am an empty nester and your videos when your kids peek in... I saw you gently put your hand on him when he got a little noisy. These examples of calm and allowing them to be involved are so beyond sweet and warm my heart. I had 5 children and I homeschooled in complete chaos. I wish you were around when I was in the midst of it. Thank you for your sweet example of showing us how to prioritize the absolutely most important things in our lives... the people!!
I have read all the decluttering books, including The Minimalist Home, all very helpful. But, having you in front of me is so much more inspiring. Like talking about decluttering with a friend over coffee. 🥰 Thank you. ☺️
The question that stuck out was "Do I want to handle this again in the future?" It's so true, the things I struggle to let go of just linger and aggravate me silently. I need to work on this. Great video!
Omg he is so cute. I’m addicted to your videos. I’ve always felt stuck in my house full of “crap”. But it wasn’t until my husbands recent deployment leaving me with a 8 month old and 7 year old that I realized just how much stuff I was “managing”. I’m going through a huge declutter before he gets home so we can focus on time with him and him with us. I also realized this week that I haven’t truly enjoyed my kids since he’s been gone and it’s just me 24/7. And that utterly breaks my heart cause they’re freaking amazing human beings and I’m too mad about a messy house I can’t keep up with.
“Physical stuff, the value of it is so low when we actually compare it to the things in life that matter”. Thank you for this, you’re so right! Thank you for your videos, they’re really helpful 🙂
Yes, my little boys have their little boys now, now I can enjoy your little boy as he crawls over furniture, I miss that. Every week I've been taking a box to thrift store. Thanks for helping me declutter.
I just have to say how much I love watching all of your videos! My husband makes fun of me because I usually don't follow anyone online in any regular kind of way - but I make sure to never miss one of your videos! He jokes that you are the only "celebrity" I really follow!
I loved seeing your son come in and compete with the camera for your attention, or was he competing with you for the camera ‘s attention. Either way it was just adorable. Especially the little feet in the camera. You are so blessed to have such great kids.👍
You speak to my soul Dawn. I’m so glad I found your channel. I’ve been decluttering my home for almost a year. Every time a box leaves this house the peacefulness in my home increases. It’s addicting! Thank you for your knowledge. PS I’m making your pumpkin bunt cake for dessert tomorrow night, wish me luck.
"If I give you $5 for it would you let it go?" Priceless Question!!! So simple!!!😱and will help me to get rid of a lot of things I hold on because I spent money on it and didn't use in about a year. Thanks a Lot!❤
Thanks for the useful tips. Another question you can sometimes ask is "Do I have other items that can serve the same purpose as this one." This applies alot to kitchen items. For example, I was thinking about getting rid of this large bowl I never used but kept worrying that maybe one day I would need it to put a big salad in if I had guests over for dinner. But I saw that I have another slightly smaller bowl that could easily work fine if I needed it for a big salad. That made me feel more confident to let it go. This could also apply to clothes. Maybe you're keeping a fancy jacket you never wear "just in case" you need to go to a wedding or formal event. Have a look in your wardobe, maybe you have another jacket you wear more often that could work fine for a formal occasion, so you can let go of the other one without feeling worried.
"Do I want to handle this again?" That is the question that will be really helpful for me. Your statement, "Get tough on your stuff," is another thing I will keep in mind. This was very helpful, Dawn. You are an inspiring and motivating!
I needed to see this. I have commented before that I have been stuck in my basement decluttering. I have already went through my upstairs once and have remade several small passes through it again. It is a constant process and I don't think people realize that once you adopt this frame of mind, you are always looking at what else you can get rid of! I have a few corners left in my basement and they are just haunting me. I keep putting them off. It's mostly childhood items, old electronics, etc. I know I just need to keep at it and it will get done. Just alot of decision making. Not as easy as throwing out old dishes that have no meaning or clothing that hasn't been worn in ages. :/ Im confident that I will get there. Just wanted to say that anyone else who is stuck to, I feel ya!!!!!
I have a closet full of childhood memorabilia that has been giving me anxiety for the past 10 years! I just don't know what to do with it. Deferred decisions!! I'm DONE with the stress and anxiety of it. I'm touching it all ONE more time and making the hard choices!
I love Gage being in the video and especially how you welcomed him in and didn’t stop your video so it would be “perfect”. I thought it was perfect that it was real life, as if I was over at your house visiting. Knick knacks are something that hangs me up. There are some that I got when my kids came to us, and some that are part of the theme decor of the room. One thing I notice, is you don’t kale Knick knacks or a lot of pictures around. I wish I was like that.
I’ve been holding on to a few cases because I keep thinking I’ll use them to display some sentimental items. When you asked the question about someone offering you money for them would you part with them, I immediately knew the answer. They will be leaving my house pronto! Thanks for the kick I needed!💙
You are helping me create a culture in my home of decluttering and simplicity. I am happily trading in the culture of overaccumulation and overabundance.
I am glad I came cross your channel at first I was like mmm I don't think I can do that I failed with Marie kando method But now its sinking in. its like your my coach without being here I just have your video's playing and keeps me going. I only did my daughter's room, kitchen, bathroom and living room and play room and already see the difference. I have a lot things lined up on my porch and i am amazed how much stuff i have 😲😬 and now I feel less stress and more time with my kids and hopefully once my husband is home with the kids I can tackle more toys. thank you for all your videos I am watching as I clean and declutter my house
Borrowing items has helped me save so much time and clutter! My first thought whenever I want to purchase something is asking "Can I borrow it from someone I know?" Great guide! xx
The “what’s changing next year” actually helped me keep something! I was thinking of getting rid of snow pants but then I remembered that I’m going to be living up north next winter. I would have been kicking myself wo the reminder
The question that has been a new concept for me is "What is going to change in the next year that is going to cause me to use it?" That has helped me donate lots of things.
Have been decluttering my kitchen for the past three days (taking a lot of breaks). No sentimental items so the questions were fairly ‘easy’. Got rid of 2,5 moving boxes of unused stuff!!! 2,5! And I managed to create a command station. Been watching your channel while decluttering. Helped me a lot! Next up: bathroom & playroom.
OMG - Gage is the most adorable. What a sweety-face. He looks super content, happy, comfortable - your little “why”. Thank you for the unexpected way your message came through - creating more time for the important things. Loved seeing his little sock feet on the periphery. I also love your point that someone else may find joy from YOUR donated items. It is a pleasure to watch your videos. Many thanks.
I am currently working on cleaning out our "spare" bedroom aka the junk room/holiday decoration storing room. I have been able to collect a lot of stuff that I am giving to my sister who just got out of an abusive relationship. So amazing to be able to help her out! Thank you for helping me train my brain to think what we really need.
Everything you say is just common sense and so true. Thank you for this and ALL your videos. Oh...you little boy is adorable! Sweetest most precious possessions we have...our loved ones! 👍🏻
I love the incorporation of brain science into the message! I also appreciate that you always offer a good reality check and remind me of what's really important.
I needed this kick in my backside to finally finish dejunking my garage. I’ve been working on it little by little for 5 years😮 ! But more aggressively this past year. I’m tired of trying to enjoy some time outside with my kids and having my messing garage stealing my joy in the moment. Or trying to find something we need for a family outing. Well no more this video has given me that push I needed. Thank You👍😊
I hear you on this! My garage is a major pain point for me because it is more my husband's area and he is not if a minimalist mind at all. I have went though the things I can. Kids items, car items, home decor etc. But, it is still filled with his hobby items and alot of stuff we don't need. I have had to accept it will never look like I want it to but, for now I have to focus on the areas that I can change. I pray everyday he will come around start tossing things. That will be a great day!
Earlier today I had a burst of decluttering energy and went from room to room, closet to bathroom, etc. I pulled out tons of random things. Then I got to the top dresser drawer in our sons room. It was filled with random things that had been stashed there when we first listed our house for sale and needed it clean for staging. There was a bag of fancy drawer pulls from a business I used to have (refinishing furniture, etc.). I had sold tons when I first made the decision to close my business. But, these were the ones that didn't sell. For 3 1/2 years they have been kicking around the house. Moved from one area to the next. Filling me with guilt that my business was no longer, that I had wasted money buying too many knobs, etc. I finally packed them up and then with the entire collection of items I purged today I took them straight to the local thrift store. Yes I will likely see them on display at this thrift store as it's my favourite one to shop, but I'm so happy that they are out of my house. The guilt has been released.
Thanks for decluttering with me. Great video. I am working in my office/homeschooling/craft room, trying to make it functional again...instead of a room to throw everything in.
The questions that worked best for me right now is “Do I want to have to handle this item again?” Followed by “Could someone else use or love it more? And Is it living out the purpose it was created for? I really enjoyed listening to this video while I emptied out a box that has been sitting here for days wanting to be done with!!! I did the 30 day Minimalist Challenge in April 2021 minimizing random things; and 4 other members of my family joined in this month. So this month I chose to do my clothing. Wow by about the middle of the month I honestly embarrassed myself, and really felt bad when I pulled out 2 more totes from the garage! When I opened them I almost wanted to cry because there was just so much more stuff. And it is all clothes that were the next size down and all my favourite brands, and almost new. Some items are new... I kinda broke down by the 21st, and rested until today the 28th of May 2021. I so enjoy your videos. And I did day 22, and 23 while listening to you being my buddy and helping me do 15 minutes together. Thank you... sorry for rambling. Thank you so much, you are helping so much.
This is amazing! Your videos have helped me a lot! Now I can vacuum my floors each morning without spending a lot of time moving my mess first ❤️ with a baby and four elder kids, that is a lifesaver ❤️ thank you so much for your inspiration.
Thankyou Dawn, I’ve just found your videos a few weeks ago and I’ve really implemented everything u say, I have been doing massive declutters and I’m feeling amazing, it probably helps that I’m 12 days away from having my 2nd child so I’m nesting too lol but I really want to Thankyou for making my life more peaceful
I did this with my clothes in my closet. I took about 1/3 at a time, hung them on a clothing rack, covered all with a sheet and a week later uncovered and asked myself, if I saw this in a store, would I buy it. If the answer was no, out it went to my charity box. I donated more than 1/3 of the clothes in my closet that way!
So you mentioned asking about the year past... Have I used this in past year? In another video you talk about looking at where you are HEADED - so FUTURE year. I think this is SO CRITICAL for dealing with especially "sentimental" items. Yes this belonged to someone I love, and YES it has memories, but if I think about where I want to be in one year, will this be necessary? The memories will still be there - the stuff doesn't really affect that. This also helps you see how the ACCUMULATION happens! I am dealing with THREE HOUSEHOLDS of "STUFF" right now, after the death of both my mom and her sister. Your videos have TRULY SAVED ME. Thank you for what you do. The fact that these are faith based SPEAKS VOLUMES. Again, Thank You.
This is SO helpful. Soooo glad TH-cam suggested your channel. I've watched a bunch of your videos. Very motivating! Now that my older one is back in school I'm going to get very serious!!
Loving these tips! I have been purging my home all year due to an upcoming move & I knew I wasn't done and I'm rethinking a lot of the things I chose to keep! Bye stuff!
I'm now obsessed with this! If TH-cam had only been available 20 years ago this would have made my life so much easier. As my husband and I are looking to downside this method is making it so much easier. I have multiple areas to work on but have made amazing progress in such a short amount of time. You've given me permission to LET IT GO!
I've lived in my current home for about 4 years and it is in great need of major decluttering, but whenever I try and start, I end up completely overwhelmed and give up. I've been watching your videos for a while, and I just wanted to come on and say thank you as yesterday i spent 4hours decluttering our lounge, still a bit to go, but wow, what a difference its made to my mind, and I can't wait to get going on the rest of the house and turn this place into a proper home space! Thank you for your inspiration ❤ xx
Thank you so much!! You are such an encouragement to me. I’m cleaning out, have taken a couple of trips to the goodwill drop off, and I have another pile in the making. I hope you have a terrific day. Cindy 🌻💗
As I scroll my phone for all the hot deal and special sales going on out there....I keep your minimalist videos on down in the corner of my phone and it has been working. I haven't bought anything in 4 weeks lol 🥰
Hey Dawn ! I am 12 years old .. and I would call myself a minimalist... my mom thinks she is a minimalist.... but i dont think so . lol! What can i say to her to help her declutter more? Can you make a video for what to do with people who think they are minimalists ? P.S. She gave me permission to write this comment ! I love this video ! :)
Coming late to this video, but I've been binge watching your channel and you motivate me! The biggest question that hit me is, "If I haven't used the item in the past year, what is going to change to make me use this item in the next year?" I feel like I can get rid of a lot with that ammunition!
I haven't used or admired my pile of old jeans, in my sewing room in the last year, but I used the belt loops and jeans material to mend a few pair of jeans for a client last week. So I am very happy I kept them. Sorry, I am not decluttering my sewing materials.
The question that stood out for me-Do I want to handle this again? My husband and I are both in our fifties. I want to let anything go now that is not adding value to my life. He feels that if we have room to store it then there’s no need to decide if we should keep it. But I know we will most likely have to make decisions on all our possessions at some point (ie when we move or down size). Delaying decisions that could easily be made now means we will have more to make later. It can be very frustrating. I really liked this video. Thank you.
Dawn! Can you do a video on baby toys? You mentioned that when your smallest was still a little baby you got rid of all the baby toys... and how that went for you. And how you made that decision. Also did that also include "educational toys" or "developmental" toys like shape sorters, wooden puzzles, ring stacker ... would greatly appreciate it for us with littles!
I started decluttering and wasn't sure if it was working. My husband asked the kids if we were keeping this and they said "nope it's just clutter"!!! Music to my ears♥️ Thanks for the motivation!!
I totally read this wrong because I was reading quickly. I thought it said "my husband asked if we were gonna be keeping the kids. " Like, he was afraid you were going to declutter your children. Hahaha
This is the FIRST time I've ever made progress in decluttering....love your personality and the simple approach...and love your giggles as you explain things....thank you!
My dog breed coffee cup collection still makes me happy, even though I can’t drink out of them all, so I’d say they still serve their original purpose :)
The sentiment behind a saying I used when dieting may be useful here.."Nothing tastes as good as thin feels" , how about:. All these decorations don't look as good CLEAR & CLEAN.
I think it's backwards that way, please hear me out : Food can taste great, and having (some) things can be great. We can eat and enjoy our food and still be thin; we can have things and still our home can be tidy and clean. But: we can't enjoy food as much as we could if we're stuffing our faces all the time, and worse if we do it on the go, being distracted etc. Likewise, we can't enjoy any of our things and keep our house tidy and clean if everything is buried under heaps and heaps of clutter. So like dieticians recommend: select what you want to enjoy and take time to actually enjoy it. The dose makes the poison.
I would ask myself, "Was it worth the calories?" Especially if it didn't taste all that great. It's like shopping...do I really need it? Or I just want it. No regrets. Reset. Tomorrow's another day.
Very informative. My #1 question is how to get motivated and actually start especially after parents clean out, packng my own place and moving across country twice, i had no help...so im not to motivated to do it all over again (planning on garage sale....soon!) Thank you.
This is a great video! Love your steps to figuring out whether to keep or donate/sell. I’ve been hanging on to baby clothes that I’m never going to have time to sell. I think I’ll just donate them so someone else can use them. 💗
I have moved more than 20 times in my life, and for each move I handled the same item and continued to pack it away and still never use it. I'm done with keeping things "just in case"! Thank you for this helpful video.
Thank you for this video! I am in the process of decluttering my house...some of my friends from church came over and helped with my kitchen...it feels so much better....I am currently working on my dining room, and basement, and closet...I have about a month to declutter all of that 😬
You have helped me immensely! I have just gone through my closet, my kids closets and their toys! I feel so much better walking into those areas of my house now. Thank you so much!!
Thank you that was awesome. Your printable is now being posted in every room of my house. As I get to each room it will bring great direction and encouragement.
Just cleaned out lots of stuff from my basement today. Feels good to purge. Wonder why I kept so many boxes....At least they ate gone now! Loved that little guy stepping into your video. 🙂
Thank you for watching!!! The video with Gage in the semi is here: th-cam.com/video/RbVNIzZP9P4/w-d-xo.html You can find the printable here: www.ithinkwecouldbefriends.com/2019/07/18/decluttering-questions-free-printable/
The Minimal Mom thanks!
Gage is so adorable. Great (surprise) addition to a great video! 🥰
Every time I click for the free printable it says 404 error that the site is no longer there. Is that still available? Just asking because this video popped up in my recommendations this morning and I would love to get that printable
@@kkoeshall9136 that’s a bummer that the link isn’t working, I’m checking on it right now!
Will you try this link and see if it works? cli.re/decluttering-questions
Oh my, seeing Gage sneak around the corner in the back ground was so adorable and how you in your gentle spirit gave him permission to come join you was a bigger message than the decluttering !!!
Warms my heart 🥰
Although the intended message was fabulous too 😁
I am an empty nester and your videos when your kids peek in... I saw you gently put your hand on him when he got a little noisy. These examples of calm and allowing them to be involved are so beyond sweet and warm my heart. I had 5 children and I homeschooled in complete chaos. I wish you were around when I was in the midst of it. Thank you for your sweet example of showing us how to prioritize the absolutely most important things in our lives... the people!!
I have read all the decluttering books, including The Minimalist Home, all very helpful. But, having you in front of me is so much more inspiring. Like talking about decluttering with a friend over coffee. 🥰 Thank you. ☺️
The question that stuck out was "Do I want to handle this again in the future?"
It's so true, the things I struggle to let go of just linger and aggravate me silently. I need to work on this. Great video!
At age 58 & retired, I have a season of life twist on this: Would I want to MOVE this to a new residence? Most often I'd say, "No way!"
@@Julies-in-a-mood Yes, that's a question I'm asking too! So helpful because I may move in 1-2 yrs
@@Ld-qg9co Amen!
Omg he is so cute. I’m addicted to your videos. I’ve always felt stuck in my house full of “crap”. But it wasn’t until my husbands recent deployment leaving me with a 8 month old and 7 year old that I realized just how much stuff I was “managing”. I’m going through a huge declutter before he gets home so we can focus on time with him and him with us. I also realized this week that I haven’t truly enjoyed my kids since he’s been gone and it’s just me 24/7. And that utterly breaks my heart cause they’re freaking amazing human beings and I’m too mad about a messy house I can’t keep up with.
Love that your sweet child was in the video!! And your gentle voice when you talk to him, your a wonderful mama😊💗
When Gage came in, my 18 mo old girl said hi to him 😊👋🏻😍
Awww
“Physical stuff, the value of it is so low when we actually compare it to the things in life that matter”. Thank you for this, you’re so right! Thank you for your videos, they’re really helpful 🙂
Ha! Those little feet! How precious💜Such good reminder of why we declutter.
Your son is adorable 😍 love how he slowly came into the room
Yes, my little boys have their little boys now, now I can enjoy your little boy as he crawls over furniture, I miss that. Every week I've been taking a box to thrift store. Thanks for helping me declutter.
and very respectful, he knows mom is filming, so he doesn't want to disturb her, so sweet
Thank you for being the first person in ALL of TH-cam land whose decluttering tips actually work for me! 💕
I just have to say how much I love watching all of your videos! My husband makes fun of me because I usually don't follow anyone online in any regular kind of way - but I make sure to never miss one of your videos! He jokes that you are the only "celebrity" I really follow!
The socks!!!! I'm in tears with the memories that brings back.
I loved seeing your son come in and compete with the camera for your attention, or was he competing with you for the camera ‘s attention. Either way it was just adorable. Especially the little feet in the camera. You are so blessed to have such great kids.👍
I love how your little boy peeked in and smiled at us!! He is adorable...
"Do I want to handle this again?"
Wow! I did t realize how often I defer on decisionmaking! Thank you for this video and the printout!
You're not alone!!
You are such an inspiration and God lead. Thank you for putting yourself out there in these videos. You are really helping me!
One of the questions I ask myself is, will I be able to find it if I keep it. LoL.
Ha ha ha!!!!! Yeah.....
That's a really good one! If the magical day comes and I finally need this thing, will I even be able to find it? Maybe not... Good thought.
Lol that is so me
I do the same thing. "If I needed this, would I even remember that I had it?" Probably not!
Ditto kiddo! Great question! Lol
You speak to my soul Dawn. I’m so glad I found your channel. I’ve been decluttering my home for almost a year. Every time a box leaves this house the peacefulness in my home increases. It’s addicting! Thank you for your knowledge. PS I’m making your pumpkin bunt cake for dessert tomorrow night, wish me luck.
You are such a sweet person and deserve all the growth your channel has had!
Thank you so much Kayla! ♥️😊
"If I give you $5 for it would you let it go?" Priceless Question!!! So simple!!!😱and will help me to get rid of a lot of things I hold on because I spent money on it and didn't use in about a year. Thanks a Lot!❤
Thanks for the useful tips. Another question you can sometimes ask is "Do I have other items that can serve the same purpose as this one." This applies alot to kitchen items. For example, I was thinking about getting rid of this large bowl I never used but kept worrying that maybe one day I would need it to put a big salad in if I had guests over for dinner. But I saw that I have another slightly smaller bowl that could easily work fine if I needed it for a big salad. That made me feel more confident to let it go.
This could also apply to clothes. Maybe you're keeping a fancy jacket you never wear "just in case" you need to go to a wedding or formal event. Have a look in your wardobe, maybe you have another jacket you wear more often that could work fine for a formal occasion, so you can let go of the other one without feeling worried.
Love your cute little photo-bomber at 9:08. Thanks for keeping it real and reminding us that stuff is never as precious as our time.
Thank you!!!! ♥️
"Do I want to handle this again?" That is the question that will be really helpful for me. Your statement, "Get tough on your stuff," is another thing I will keep in mind. This was very helpful, Dawn. You are an inspiring and motivating!
That’s what I want. Peaceful home.
I needed to see this. I have commented before that I have been stuck in my basement decluttering. I have already went through my upstairs once and have remade several small passes through it again. It is a constant process and I don't think people realize that once you adopt this frame of mind, you are always looking at what else you can get rid of! I have a few corners left in my basement and they are just haunting me. I keep putting them off. It's mostly childhood items, old electronics, etc. I know I just need to keep at it and it will get done. Just alot of decision making. Not as easy as throwing out old dishes that have no meaning or clothing that hasn't been worn in ages. :/ Im confident that I will get there. Just wanted to say that anyone else who is stuck to, I feel ya!!!!!
I have a closet full of childhood memorabilia that has been giving me anxiety for the past 10 years! I just don't know what to do with it. Deferred decisions!! I'm DONE with the stress and anxiety of it. I'm touching it all ONE more time and making the hard choices!
I decluttered 2 drawers today--the main kitchen drawer (I only have one big one for silverware, etc.) and my make-up drawer. (
I love Gage being in the video and especially how you welcomed him in and didn’t stop your video so it would be “perfect”. I thought it was perfect that it was real life, as if I was over at your house visiting. Knick knacks are something that hangs me up. There are some that I got when my kids came to us, and some that are part of the theme decor of the room. One thing I notice, is you don’t kale Knick knacks or a lot of pictures around. I wish I was like that.
I’ve been holding on to a few cases because I keep thinking I’ll use them to display some sentimental items. When you asked the question about someone offering you money for them would you part with them, I immediately knew the answer. They will be leaving my house pronto! Thanks for the kick I needed!💙
This is awesome!!!!! ♥️
You are helping me create a culture in my home of decluttering and simplicity. I am happily trading in the culture of overaccumulation and overabundance.
I am glad I came cross your channel at first I was like mmm I don't think I can do that I failed with Marie kando method But now its sinking in. its like your my coach without being here I just have your video's playing and keeps me going. I only did my daughter's room, kitchen, bathroom and living room and play room and already see the difference. I have a lot things lined up on my porch and i am amazed how much stuff i have 😲😬 and now I feel less stress and more time with my kids and hopefully once my husband is home with the kids I can tackle more toys. thank you for all your videos I am watching as I clean and declutter my house
"Get tough, on your stuff!"
Love it!
Borrowing items has helped me save so much time and clutter! My first thought whenever I want to purchase something is asking "Can I borrow it from someone I know?" Great guide! xx
Decluttering instead going to bed when i should because of work tomorrow ^-^ its just addicting.
The “what’s changing next year” actually helped me keep something! I was thinking of getting rid of snow pants but then I remembered that I’m going to be living up north next winter. I would have been kicking myself wo the reminder
Thank you dawn! You’re right, all the STUFF around us is nothing compared to our families and our experiences
The question that has been a new concept for me is "What is going to change in the next year that is going to cause me to use it?" That has helped me donate lots of things.
Ugh...inventory! That puts it in a new light, so wise, thanks Dawn!
Have been decluttering my kitchen for the past three days (taking a lot of breaks). No sentimental items so the questions were fairly ‘easy’.
Got rid of 2,5 moving boxes of unused stuff!!! 2,5! And I managed to create a command station.
Been watching your channel while decluttering. Helped me a lot!
Next up: bathroom & playroom.
OMG - Gage is the most adorable. What a sweety-face. He looks super content, happy, comfortable - your little “why”. Thank you for the unexpected way your message came through - creating more time for the important things. Loved seeing his little sock feet on the periphery. I also love your point that someone else may find joy from YOUR donated items. It is a pleasure to watch your videos. Many thanks.
Wanting a peaceful place is the statement that seals the deal for me! 🎆
I am currently working on cleaning out our "spare" bedroom aka the junk room/holiday decoration storing room. I have been able to collect a lot of stuff that I am giving to my sister who just got out of an abusive relationship. So amazing to be able to help her out! Thank you for helping me train my brain to think what we really need.
Everything you say is just common sense and so true. Thank you for this and ALL your videos. Oh...you little boy is adorable! Sweetest most precious possessions we have...our loved ones! 👍🏻
You are so uplifting. Never stop
I love the incorporation of brain science into the message! I also appreciate that you always offer a good reality check and remind me of what's really important.
I needed this kick in my backside to finally finish dejunking my garage. I’ve been working on it little by little for 5 years😮 !
But more aggressively this past year. I’m tired of trying to enjoy some time outside with my kids and having my messing garage stealing my joy in the moment. Or trying to find something we need for a family outing. Well no more this video has given me that push I needed. Thank You👍😊
Jennifer H atta girl!!
I hear you on this! My garage is a major pain point for me because it is more my husband's area and he is not if a minimalist mind at all. I have went though the things I can. Kids items, car items, home decor etc. But, it is still filled with his hobby items and alot of stuff we don't need. I have had to accept it will never look like I want it to but, for now I have to focus on the areas that I can change. I pray everyday he will come around start tossing things. That will be a great day!
I have the same issue with my husband. He is just so busy, so I try to be understanding. Hugs to you!
Earlier today I had a burst of decluttering energy and went from room to room, closet to bathroom, etc. I pulled out tons of random things. Then I got to the top dresser drawer in our sons room. It was filled with random things that had been stashed there when we first listed our house for sale and needed it clean for staging. There was a bag of fancy drawer pulls from a business I used to have (refinishing furniture, etc.). I had sold tons when I first made the decision to close my business. But, these were the ones that didn't sell. For 3 1/2 years they have been kicking around the house. Moved from one area to the next. Filling me with guilt that my business was no longer, that I had wasted money buying too many knobs, etc. I finally packed them up and then with the entire collection of items I purged today I took them straight to the local thrift store. Yes I will likely see them on display at this thrift store as it's my favourite one to shop, but I'm so happy that they are out of my house. The guilt has been released.
I love that phrase, "the guilt has been released." I need to remember that!
Greetings from Czech Republic! You have the best minimal life style videos!!
I loved Gage sneaking into the video, he is adorable.
Thanks for decluttering with me. Great video. I am working in my office/homeschooling/craft room, trying to make it functional again...instead of a room to throw everything in.
Your guest host is adorable!!! 💕
The list of whys at 9:45 is awesome. I played it back multiple times.
The questions that worked best for me right now is “Do I want to have to handle this item again?” Followed by “Could someone else use or love it more? And Is it living out the purpose it was created for? I really enjoyed listening to this video while I emptied out a box that has been sitting here for days wanting to be done with!!! I did the 30 day Minimalist Challenge in April 2021 minimizing random things; and 4 other members of my family joined in this month. So this month I chose to do my clothing. Wow by about the middle of the month I honestly embarrassed myself, and really felt bad when I pulled out 2 more totes from the garage! When I opened them I almost wanted to cry because there was just so much more stuff. And it is all clothes that were the next size down and all my favourite brands, and almost new. Some items are new... I kinda broke down by the 21st, and rested until today the 28th of May 2021. I so enjoy your videos. And I did day 22, and 23 while listening to you being my buddy and helping me do 15 minutes together. Thank you... sorry for rambling. Thank you so much, you are helping so much.
As I’m continuing to go through this process, I rewatch your videos. You’re so encouraging and your message makes so much sense! Thanks ❤️
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So glad to hear!! Thank you!!! ♥️😊
Your content is consistently enlightening and easy to implement. Thank you
This is amazing! Your videos have helped me a lot! Now I can vacuum my floors each morning without spending a lot of time moving my mess first ❤️ with a baby and four elder kids, that is a lifesaver ❤️ thank you so much for your inspiration.
Thankyou Dawn, I’ve just found your videos a few weeks ago and I’ve really implemented everything u say, I have been doing massive declutters and I’m feeling amazing, it probably helps that I’m 12 days away from having my 2nd child so I’m nesting too lol but I really want to Thankyou for making my life more peaceful
Thank u for all u do to help everyone in the family get rid of things we don't need or want anymore and by the way your hair looks great 😎
Thanks for the motivation to declutter.
I definitely want to hear about how you tackle sentimental items! Thank you! Your videos are so helpful.
Ah, the sentimental stuff.
I did this with my clothes in my closet. I took about 1/3 at a time, hung them on a clothing rack, covered all with a sheet and a week later uncovered and asked myself, if I saw this in a store, would I buy it. If the answer was no, out it went to my charity box. I donated more than 1/3 of the clothes in my closet that way!
So you mentioned asking about the year past... Have I used this in past year? In another video you talk about looking at where you are HEADED - so FUTURE year. I think this is SO CRITICAL for dealing with especially "sentimental" items. Yes this belonged to someone I love, and YES it has memories, but if I think about where I want to be in one year, will this be necessary? The memories will still be there - the stuff doesn't really affect that. This also helps you see how the ACCUMULATION happens! I am dealing with THREE HOUSEHOLDS of "STUFF" right now, after the death of both my mom and her sister. Your videos have TRULY SAVED ME. Thank you for what you do. The fact that these are faith based SPEAKS VOLUMES. Again, Thank You.
This is SO helpful. Soooo glad TH-cam suggested your channel. I've watched a bunch of your videos. Very motivating! Now that my older one is back in school I'm going to get very serious!!
Loving these tips! I have been purging my home all year due to an upcoming move & I knew I wasn't done and I'm rethinking a lot of the things I chose to keep! Bye stuff!
I'm now obsessed with this! If TH-cam had only been available 20 years ago this would have made my life so much easier. As my husband and I are looking to downside this method is making it so much easier. I have multiple areas to work on but have made amazing progress in such a short amount of time. You've given me permission to LET IT GO!
Your videos are so impactful and have really helped me transform my living and work spaces into something more relaxing and efficient. Thank you!!!
I've lived in my current home for about 4 years and it is in great need of major decluttering, but whenever I try and start, I end up completely overwhelmed and give up. I've been watching your videos for a while, and I just wanted to come on and say thank you as yesterday i spent 4hours decluttering our lounge, still a bit to go, but wow, what a difference its made to my mind, and I can't wait to get going on the rest of the house and turn this place into a proper home space! Thank you for your inspiration ❤ xx
Thank you so much!! You are such an encouragement to me. I’m cleaning out, have taken a couple of trips to the goodwill drop off, and I have another pile in the making. I hope you have a terrific day. Cindy 🌻💗
As I scroll my phone for all the hot deal and special sales going on out there....I keep your minimalist videos on down in the corner of my phone and it has been working. I haven't bought anything in 4 weeks lol 🥰
Thank you, that’s good advice to make quick decisions if not you just start lagging and trying to hang on to stuff you don’t need😊.
All great questions! My favorite is “What is going to change in the next year...” Thank you!
I love your videos. Thank you for your help cleaning my life. 😘🤗
These things are easy to replace but the people in relationships aren’t. And is it living out its purpose. You’re so smart thank you
Favorite question: is it living out it’s purpose. Could someone be using it.
I second that!
Wow! I should get rid of those too small purses. Someone much younger would love them
Third! Yes!!! 13:01
Love watching your videos. You're helping to keep me motivated to get through the stuff. It was nice seeing Gage pop in.
Hey Dawn ! I am 12 years old .. and I would call myself a minimalist... my mom thinks she is a minimalist.... but i dont think so . lol! What can i say to her to help her declutter more? Can you make a video for what to do with people who think they are minimalists ? P.S. She gave me permission to write this comment ! I love this video ! :)
Wow! So proud of you sweetie!
You can lead by example. You could declutter your room and then she will hopefully see the joy it brings you and be inspired to do the same.
Excellent!! I think I'll take 15 minutes and declutter!! Your little guy is adorable 💜.
Coming late to this video, but I've been binge watching your channel and you motivate me! The biggest question that hit me is, "If I haven't used the item in the past year, what is going to change to make me use this item in the next year?" I feel like I can get rid of a lot with that ammunition!
I haven't used or admired my pile of old jeans, in my sewing room in the last year, but I used the belt loops and jeans material to mend a few pair of jeans for a client last week. So I am very happy I kept them. Sorry, I am not decluttering my sewing materials.
how lovely to see how much that little one adores you! 😀.
The question that stood out for me-Do I want to handle this again? My husband and I are both in our fifties. I want to let anything go now that is not adding value to my life. He feels that if we have room to store it then there’s no need to decide if we should keep it. But I know we will most likely have to make decisions on all our possessions at some point (ie when we move or down size). Delaying decisions that could easily be made now means we will have more to make later. It can be very frustrating. I really liked this video. Thank you.
Every single word you say makes so sense. It is really enjoyable to listen to you.
Dawn! Can you do a video on baby toys? You mentioned that when your smallest was still a little baby you got rid of all the baby toys... and how that went for you. And how you made that decision. Also did that also include "educational toys" or "developmental" toys like shape sorters, wooden puzzles, ring stacker ... would greatly appreciate it for us with littles!
I started decluttering and wasn't sure if it was working. My husband asked the kids if we were keeping this and they said "nope it's just clutter"!!! Music to my ears♥️ Thanks for the motivation!!
That's so awesome!!♥️
I totally read this wrong because I was reading quickly. I thought it said "my husband asked if we were gonna be keeping the kids. " Like, he was afraid you were going to declutter your children. Hahaha
Lol. So funny!
This is the FIRST time I've ever made progress in decluttering....love your personality and the simple approach...and love your giggles as you explain things....thank you!
Wow. Great advice. I would welcome a fridge declutter tutorial.
My dog breed coffee cup collection still makes me happy, even though I can’t drink out of them all, so I’d say they still serve their original purpose :)
I just want to get rid of it all. You inspire me. Thank you and bless you and your family
The sentiment behind a saying I used when dieting may be useful here.."Nothing tastes as good as thin feels" , how about:. All these decorations don't look as good CLEAR & CLEAN.
My mom used to say this to me 😂
I think it's backwards that way, please hear me out :
Food can taste great, and having (some) things can be great. We can eat and enjoy our food and still be thin; we can have things and still our home can be tidy and clean.
But: we can't enjoy food as much as we could if we're stuffing our faces all the time, and worse if we do it on the go, being distracted etc. Likewise, we can't enjoy any of our things and keep our house tidy and clean if everything is buried under heaps and heaps of clutter.
So like dieticians recommend: select what you want to enjoy and take time to actually enjoy it. The dose makes the poison.
I would ask myself, "Was it worth the calories?" Especially if it didn't taste all that great. It's like shopping...do I really need it? Or I just want it. No regrets. Reset. Tomorrow's another day.
Very informative. My #1 question is how to get motivated and actually start especially after parents clean out, packng my own place and moving across country twice, i had no help...so im not to motivated to do it all over again (planning on garage sale....soon!) Thank you.
Thanks for the helpful video. You do know though that Gage steals the show when he is in your videos, right? He is so cute.
This is a great video! Love your steps to figuring out whether to keep or donate/sell. I’ve been hanging on to baby clothes that I’m never going to have time to sell. I think I’ll just donate them so someone else can use them. 💗
I have moved more than 20 times in my life, and for each move I handled the same item and continued to pack it away and still never use it. I'm done with keeping things "just in case"! Thank you for this helpful video.
You go girl!!! Good luck and all the best with your journey
It's amazing the things we do "just in case"! ♥️
One of the BEST decluttering tips videos I’ve ever seen! Thank you!
Thank you for this video! I am in the process of decluttering my house...some of my friends from church came over and helped with my kitchen...it feels so much better....I am currently working on my dining room, and basement, and closet...I have about a month to declutter all of that 😬
You have helped me immensely! I have just gone through my closet, my kids closets and their toys! I feel so much better walking into those areas of my house now. Thank you so much!!
Way to go Maggie!!! ♥️👍🎉
Thank you that was awesome. Your printable is now being posted in every room of my house. As I get to each room it will bring great direction and encouragement.
Just cleaned out lots of stuff from my basement today. Feels good to purge. Wonder why I kept so many boxes....At least they ate gone now! Loved that little guy stepping into your video. 🙂
"get tough on your stuff" .... I need this on a plaque. 😆