Women With No Aspirations
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This video is a commentary on the UK version of Wife Swap season 11 episode 2. It was filmed in 2009 and features Kelly Moyston and Kerry Murphy.
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SHE'S 22?????
In what, dog years?
Early gang, 22 what?
I’m gonna have a blast listening to this
And her fiance is 39???
what being fat and staying inside all the time does to you.
Obesity and smoking ages you like crazy
When you let your body go to shit. Never made muscle your life. Never had excessive work in life you look like hell. I'll give ya an example for you my ex fiancée
Kelly is not a stay at home mum. She is someone who sits in a room with a child she happens to have birthed whilst doing the bare minimum so as it doesn't die.
And she probably only does the bare minimum because it’s illegal to let it die
@@GhostalkingExactly
Perfect description
At least the kid can walk and get away if the house were on fire
A freeloader
Once you’re neglectful to kids or animals you’re done in my books. It made me so mad seeing how she was such a bad mother and how the animals and her daughter live in filth.
Couldn’t agree more with you on that
ikr idc about how much depressive u are if you can’t take care of yourself don’t have another human being or a living being
Yeah, smoking in front of her kids smh.
YES! I feel so bad about the cats 😔
@@coyote_0056that’s her Jamaican side lmfao
The sugar part is insanely true. I remember quitting sugar for about 6 months to get in shape to enlist. About a week away from leaving for boot camp, I got myself a slurpee from 7-eleven. A small one but just 4 sips in and it made my heart race. I was dumbfounded because before getting in shape, I could chug a large without issue. Sugar is dangerous and it’s overshadowed by the fat conversation.
Since I gave up soft drink, I literally can't drink soft drink. I take a sip and it's so sweet it makes me feel ill. Why we give this stuff to children is astounding to me. And I didn't even give up sugar - I'm sure if I can work up the willpower to stop sugar, I won't be able to go back.
Yep very true, I gave up soft drinks and caffeine back in 2020, best thing I ever did. I had more energy, better sleep and felt better overall, I have gone back to doing caffeine in the last 6 months but limit it to 1-2 caffeinated drinks every 2 weeks and the only time I do any soft drink is when I'm mixing it with alcohol, soft drinks give me a horrible headache just not with alcohol
Sugar is the cause of fat, not fat itself
There are some doctors who claimed that sugar feeds cancer cells. It certainly can lead to Diabetes and that can be another killer.
Not disagreeing with your statement and how sugar affected you. Sugar is not bad in small quantities, it’s the overconsumption of sugar and the high amounts of it that are added in processed foods that are dangerous for health. A 7-eleven slurpee has so much sugar in it, of course your heart will race after a few sips of you didn’t consume sugar 6 months prior. Drink a very watered down apple juice instead and your heart will not be on a race track. It’s about balancing the amount of sugar you consume
"Why you look 50 when you're 24?"
This woman is the embodiment of that statement.
😂 I have seen that video
My 49 year old mother literally looks better than her.
*womanatee
😂😂😂😂😂
That was such a funny video 🤣
That woman had literally zero redeeming qualities. Keeping a child in that home that way should be illegal.
I’m pretty sure that it is illegal! And that is why they were investigated by the government for child neglect.
She's honest? not quite redeeming... But it's something, I guess.
@@ronrorwell she lied on a welfare document, so she clearly isn’t that honest. She’s just also too stupid to know what to tactically keep hidden.
Hey that's not fair....she has a va..... a crease,
ovaries and a struggling pulse
Hey that's not fair....she has a va..... a crease,
ovaries and a struggling pulse
I gasped when you said she’s 22. I’m 22 in 3 months and she looks like she could be my mother
I’m 50 & she looks like she could be my mother too. 😂
I’m 79 and she look like she could be my great grandfather
Happy birthday you're 22
Happy delayed birthday
I’m 60 and I look better than her , plus I work 50 hours a week
As someone who is childless, and always wanted to have a couple of kids. It makes me sick to my stomach seeing a lazy as mother like this 22 year old. It's not fair. 😢💔 Poor child.
"With the most charming voice"
Hey
I'm sorry, i just wanted to be funny
Sad is, that there are so many people who should not have kids. And so many people who can't but would be the most amazing parents
@@lordfriedrick7911 bro's out here shooting his shots and i still can't even look a girl in the face smh
@@Johngamepleissame
I don't want children myself, but I instantly felt the urge to take that baby and give her some love, attention and HEALTHY foods. I hope she grew up ok, she'll be 16-17 now.
She isn’t a mother, she is an actual “birthing person “
Shes like a vending machine
Breeder
I see what you did there.
@@TheSaintBigFoot Yes, in reverse by the look of it.
Birthing tool
Smoking inside has been considered child abuse in the UK since the 90s, what a lovely woman
In Australia it’s completely illegal to smoke in a motor vehicle with kids in it.
This vile, fire breathing cow should be brought up on charges of child abuse, endangerment, etc.
@@TheWombat2012in the US as well.
it's uk , so don't be surprised.
I see a lot of mothers like Kelly.
fat, with kids who's doing f all.
@@TheWombat2012same in the uk
WHY have a child if you don't want to be a parent? I grew up with this type. Smoker, drinker would literally stomp her feet if I asked for food and order my (younger) sister to make a sandwhich for me' she never showed me how to do anything. Again: if you do not want to parent, WHY have kids?
She was probably too lazy to use birth control.
she was arrested for welfare fraud shortly after this aired in the UK
And I guess you’re also against abortion, am I right?
And I guess you’re also against abortion, am I right?
It's so heartbreaking watching Georgina play with Kerry and how excited she is for the first time.
So sad why do people have kids and then not bother with them? I would love to be able to play with my kids more if I didn't work full time. These precious moments go by so quick. You'll blink and suddenly they'll be grown and you'll have missed everything. Georgina probably won't have a close relationship with her mum, considering how much she meglects her, hopefully she gets out and takes the cat with her and makes a better life for herself
She looked so happy.
Her being 22 is absolutely tragic. She's got a face that makes people feel confident in themselves,
22 going on 48
@@MotheurFacteurGod 💀
Damn 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah man, comment section for this channel should be mainly for roast.
@@jankowalski6691 You bet! Because we got content to make fun of the people who're in the vids 😂
She is the oldest 22-year-old I've ever seen. I'm pretty confident I could be mistaken for being the same age or younger than her, and I'm 46.
I'm not going to deny that the first thing I thought about her was that she was 45 years old.
Morbid obesity makes everyone look a lot older. But yeah, I would have put her at the same age as her 36-year-old fiancé at least, if I wasn't told.
It’s amazing difference between healthy and unhealthy lifestyle can make
She is not aging gracefully. I legit thought she would have been his cougar.
Right even the bbw look like their age 😂and I'm 22😂
Appetite: 99%
Parenting: 1%
Self Discipline: 0%
Self Awareness: 0%
How does she even have custody of this poor child..
"atleast she's honest" is sadly a standard we have in this world
Yep. Atleast peices of shit calls them ownself out. It's hard to find women that give a damn that don't think they're to good for anyone. When they all end up alone they'll know what happened
What’s worse is her child is going to look up to her as an example and fall under the same road.
Fr
@@kritizismmusics9737 no, it makes it worse that she knows what she's doing is wrong and doesn't stop doing it. it would be better if she was delusional or stupid and had no idea what she was doing is wrong. then you could teach her and hopefully she'll change. what expectation is there that the person who always knew what they were doing is wrong to change that behavior? none-they feel like acknowledging it was enough.
When I told my dietician that I got too fat because I am lazy she was genuinely taken aback as if nobody ever says that... I lost 5 kg since last month though.
She leaves her husband at home 4 nights a week to go to a bar. He should get a paternity test
You’re overestimating her, you think she won’t be lazy for that too 😭
@@sonjakovacevic1535hahah
You really think she’d get many takers?!
@@katej910 at closing time in the bathroom of the bar, for 5 minutes with a drunk criminal. Then it's back to her low self-esteem husband.
@@katej910In todays world.Yes
No Kelly does want more kids, BUT only so she can get MORE benefits…
The kid being in the same room with her while she yells and smokes while giving her absolutely no love, affection, or any interaction for that matter, makes my skin crawl just as much as the half smoked cigarettes 🚬 just put out and tucked away on the freaking sink! How disgusting! 🤮 those people are awful and nasty. I felt so bad for the other wife having to sleep in her disgusting bed, and just being in that house at all! Sheesh! 🙄
That child will have ear problems & Kelly will wonder why! Selfish cow.
Suddenly I don’t feel lazy anymore. I also have the urge to clean my room.
"I wear the trousers in the house"
No argument there. She has at least 100-200% more trousers than him. Her trousers dwarf his trousers.
Lmao
I was going to say... are those made by a "tent and awning company?
There is almost no bounds a desperate man wont leap to have kids, he will find a 20 year old who is obese, lazy, stupid, looks like she is 50, just to have kids with her because his options are so low on the totem pole. Feel bad for the kids but this is nature in action.
Lol but let's be honest. She probably doesn't actually wear them most days.
@1three7 lol yeah I'm sure she only put them on for the camera
this is child abuse, she does not deserve a child, and that child deserves a real mom
I feel bad for the cats 😢
My heart aches for that child.
I agree and she shouldn’t be allowed to keep pets either
Damn. I suddenly feel SO much better about my life. I sometimes feel so exhausted with being a stay at home mom. I at least get up at 5 every morning, have clean sheets on the beds, I cook, and have a clean cat box. I used to be a workaholic when I was unmarried, but now I love not having to slave away for a man that doesn't give a crap about me. I get to care for my daughter and have time with my husband.
I had a pile of washed cloths that I have not sorted for a week in my room. This video inspired me to fold and sort them. Thanks 😂
I audibly gasped when it was revealed Kelly and Steve had a 2nd child. Super irresponsible.
Idiocracy.
I audibly gasped when I came inside your mom.
but... how?
Too lazy to put on a condom.
@@TheWatchernatorSteve just moves her legs open and Kelly just sits there motionless.
22?
She looks like shes mid 50s.
My mother is in her 60s and after 2 knee replacements, she's still living better than kelly.
Holy shit.
both my grandmothers are living way better, healthily and responsibly than kelly. She's a trainwreck of a human being.
My mother is 97 and is magnitudes more active than that creature.
@@TheWombat2012 really strong woman 💪
I'm literally twice her age. I'm blown away.
@@TheWombat2012I’m glad your mother has lived such a long life.Imagine all the great experiences she had.
Why is it always a mattress with no fitted sheet? Someone help me understand why, anytime I see something like this, it's always a naked mattress? I am a mediocre homemaker at best, and beds are rarely made, but our mattresses always have some kind of cover or padding and then a fitted sheet.
I am also very concerned about her child's development. A healthy toddler is exploring their environment and getting into trouble. They climb, get into things, put things in their mouths, etc. If her toddler is just sitting there on the floor all day, something is definitely wrong.
The most shocking thing about this is that Steve could keep it up long enough to pregnant Kelly without throwing up
😂😂😂😂
For everyone who feels ashamed or humiliated by their laziness or lack of motivation to do things, remember this. At least you feel shame and humiliation because of it, meaning that you'll make an effort to improve your situation to NOT feel that shame again. That's what puts everyone here leagues ahead of people like her.
Dont COMPARE YOURSELF TO THIS
IF YOU ARE LAZY YOU ARE LAZY
Become better be better stay better
@@kehbabyou good?
I at least don't have a kid...and I work.
@@mehi460 isnt it true?
I guess I'm lazy
Lazy AND dumb? She actually went on TV and revealed her real life and got charged for wellfare fraud lmao
It's almost like the state shouldn't be paying for single mothers.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420Careful about that. I know mostly couples but also a handful of single moms all of which are diligent homemakers who take care of everything. One got split from her husband over outside interference during the time they had a baby, another's husband reverted into a caveman all of a sudden and trampled all over her until it became unbearable and the next one had his wife help with building a house only to later drop her like a hot potato for a younger woman.
And yes, all of those ladies are pleasant and make reasonable demands who have no trouble letting their man be a man or leader. Sometimes men just are assholes.
And yes, they tried to work but Kindergarten/School is a mess these days and family is far away oftentimes so they would either be barred entry into both learned and unlearned professions (because they have children) OR they would be kicked out fast because they had to take care of their sick children.
And yes, all of them have very well developed, healthy and well behaved children.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420technically she wasn’t a single mother
@@Jaco059 Jesus. You're so low IQ.
She told the state she lived on her own to GET MORE MONEY FROM THE STATE.
That's why she committed benefit fraud BECAUSE SINGLE MOTHERS GET MORE MONEY FROM THE STATE
@@Mupyeong I don't care.
It's not my job to pay for your child just because you picked a terrible partner.
Would you expect a stranger to come up to you in the street and demand you buy their child a McDonald's?
Exactly.
She’s 22 all right. 22 stone.
You mean tons
Kelly is the type of person to demand universal basic income, universal healthcare, welfare and any other handouts that she believes she’s entitled to.
Dear Lord, I feel really sorry for the little girl.
Yes, she seemed so sweet and good-natured. Neither of those useless parents deserve her. It was interesting and actually a little disturbing that she seemed to show no signs of "making strange" with Kerry, or of missing her mother. They have no bond, which is actually a worrisome thing. It could affect her ability to bond with anyone throughout her life, and later on lead to anti-social behaviour. Toddlers and small children never crying or even fussing when separated from a parent, and being equally friendly with every adult, even total strangers, is actually a red flag for attachment disorder, which can be a precursor to serious conduct disorders in children. It may seem cute and loveable when a child to whom you're a stranger runs up and hugs you, but it's not normal. It's sign of emotional disturbance.
@@KathyPrendergast-cu5ciword. You're exactly right. Your child should miss you when you're gone, should cry or at least be apprehensive of strangers if you're around, look to you to make sure be new people and situations are ok/safe, and constantly go to you when learning a new environment. If they are eager or happy or even just regular with strangers, it could mean they have no attachment and seek that attention and a affection from literally anyone or are apprehensive of literally everyone.
Same, I can't stop feeling sorry for her
SAME
I am shocked they would not take her child away from her, that is child abuse
"being a mother is the hardest job" Your husband wakes up for work at 6am, you sleep until 12. Assuming he works 10hrs and you cut out eating time, there's basically 3hrs of "parenting", which is you, sitting on the computer telling your kid to leave you alone
He’s a bus driver, chances are he works over 10 hours a day and potentially gets one day off a fortnight depending on which company he works for and how much he lets the traffic office get away away with scheduling his duties
whilst smoking fags inside too
"Being a mother is the hardest job", yeah, a job YOU'RE NOT DOING.
Goodness gracious, this woman is so entitled that she thinks that simply having given birth to her daughter is credit enough, and that she's already done "the hardest job in the world", so she's good, which, NO, there's still more to do!
Honestly, she and others like her make me _sick._
While it usually is, it's not in her case. It's sweet he said that though. I really wonder given what she said and he said if he's aware she's not caring for the child when he's not there.
Being a mother IS hard. She is just not doing it.
I’ve got a toddler about the same age as this baby and this makes me so sad. I cannot imagine ignoring my baby and yelling at her for crying, or sleeping in past 7. I get up when she gets up.
The first one is infuriating to me
I feel bad for the baby, the husband and the cat.
We have to shame people who are like this.
What's crazy is the older wife DOESN'T EVEN HAVE CHILDREN yet she's taking more initiative than the young mother
Wasn't there a 16 year old ?
The mans child from a previous relationship @bmc9504
@@shahee6579even if it is I assume she still helps her step daughter with things (yes I'm aware it's likely she was in the picture when the daughter was older); but it still didn't surprise me when she did a better job
I actually dated a woman very similar to this. It's basically a combination of narcissim and depression, though it's possible all the depression was actually for manipulation purposes.
Thank you for saying it. My mother is a grade A narc. I got a little better care than this toddler....but she preferred to feed me top ramen than to get a fuckin job. Everything was practically the same , aside from the admission of laziness!
I have severe depression. I got myself a Husky, a very demanding dog breed, and he forced me to crawl out of my depression to care and train him. There are times I can’t clean his area and his tray, but when there’s poo involved I clean it right away, and it snowballs into me cleaning everything up.
Sometimes, SOMETIMES, depression is an excuse to be lazy, and even when you’re depressed you should learn how to overcome it or else you’ll just be stuck in a hole. Getting told “move on even when you’re depressed” is not an “ableist” advice, it’s for their own good.
I think depression can encourage unintentionally narcissistic behavior. You feel so broken and down that you give up on your responsibilities which can make you act in selfish ways. You're irritable which makes you meaner, and you get stop caring about your looks. You need medication and someone to give you a kick in the pants to get your brain and body back working. I've had this experience and things have gotten better. She needs to snap out of it or she'll never improve. She'll end up becoming a female Boogie.
@@hope-cat4894 People need to sgtop enabling the negative behavior that is caused by depression by using depression as an excuse. "Oh I can't shower because of depression so stop forcing me to take a shower" no, that's enabling and their guardians SHOULD force them to take a shower or stop neglecting themselves, their children, or their responsibilities. People definitely need to stop coddling mentally ill people and start treatment
@immunityvi6968 I totally agree with you. I suffered from chronical depression when I was in my 20s and it f*cked up my life until I was well in my 30s. But I had a dog, (she died unfortunately because of the illness propagated by ticks) but I adopted another dog 1 year after her death, then another few years after. I always made a point of being the best for my dogs, and yes they forced me to crawl out of my symptoms. But careful, because depression can be so severe that you could potentially neglect your dog (I'm not talking about you or me but some people won't be able to take care of the dog properly) Having a dog is a great solution to fight depression and loneliness, but it's not easy. I wish you the best.
"Being a mom is the hardest job in the world. All that smoking and ignoring my child really takes its toll."
Yeah poor woman must be exhausted!
3:30 they don’t live like millionaires, they literally just keep their stuff nice
Um, yeah. That's straight up child abuse. I'll just say, don't take on responsibilities you cannot take care of especially children. Children are a serious responsibility. If you have pets, learn how to train them (ex. dogs) and what that breed's needs are. Don't be foolish and neglectful
I agree with you 100%. Unfortunately I know many 18-22 year olds that have kids simply to claim the inability to work. They all live on benefits. They cant take the kids away, cant punish the parents or stop them having more kids, so the crisis continues.
It's child neglect, not child abuse. Despite the best efforts of postmodernists, words still have meanings.
Child abuse, child neglect, and child endangerment all mean different things.
They're aren't _good_
But they're also not all the same. Similiar to how seeing a charred corpse, a gunshot victim, and a hanging, and saying "they've been stabbed" is wrong lol.
@@alexanderrahl7034child neglect is a form of child abuse though, there’s a bunch of things that fall under the category of child abuse.
@@nuggynugs that's the core of my issue. "Child abuse" has been expanded beyond what it ought to be, largely on emotional grounds. In a fashion similiar to the use of bombastic words like "fascist" or "racist".
Abuse is an action, it's something you do or commit.
While neglect is the absence of action.
Truthfully. My previous comment should have been "they're dead" rather than "they've been stabbed".
Because by expanding a word bell beyond its original definition, you just make it a nebulous and general term. Which will eventually necessitate to invention of a new word, to define specific action in the future.
For example, when someone says "Josh is racist" do they mean Josh hates people of other races and thinks they're lesser than him? Or do they mean Josh said the N word once? Or do they mean Josh opposed Black Lives Matter's actions in 2020?
Or do they mean Josh walked in to an indoor trampoline park and said "wow there's a lot of black people here today."?
Likewise, when someone says "Linda is a child abuser" do they mean Linda molested her child? Another person's child? Did she put her cigarettes out on a child? Did she hit her child? Did she lock her child in a closet for several hours in the dark? Did she scream at the child constantly? Did she verbally berate the child and psychologically abuse it? Or did she feed it McDonald's? Have her son wear a dress a couple times when he was a baby? Give her daughter boy and girls toys? Feed her child sugary foods? Didn't feed her child _any_ food that _could_ be considered unhealthy? Sat her child in front of a TV all day while she played world of warcraft? Wouldn't buy her child anything she wanted, ever? Forgot her child's birthday 4 years in a row? Gave her child an IPad to play with at 5 with a youtube app? Gave her child a cell phone at 8?
What did Linda do? Can you tell by just the phrase "Linda is a child abuser"? Because you used to. Once upon a time, it was a lot easier to get an accurate idea of what Josh and Linda were with such labels
@@alexanderrahl7034thanks for going into depth with what you mean, yeah I get what you mean now. Yeah I agree with you, terminology is always changing and now you can’t say certain things and get a whole picture, there’s a whole array of meanings connected with certain terms.
It's worse that she's honest. It's another sign of how little she cares or respects others that she knows what she's doing is wrong and does it anyway. It's easier to forgive someone too stupid or deluded to understand what they're doing than someone like her who is fully aware and does it anyway. You wouldn't excuse a serial killer for being honest about it after the fact, so why give credit to anyone else doing horrible stuff?
Respects herself*
True
@@loru90ate?? There is nothing wrong with the comment.
There are people that live life to the fullest, then there are people who lay in bed all day, smoke cigs and remain terminally online or looking at screens, what a life!
Also, lying would imply that she feels at least some shame.
This is crazy I’m 22 . I don’t have kids but I’m already practicing how to master styling 👗 💄 and make up in the morning for under 10 mins . For when I have kids I can still look put together but quickly and efficient . I’m also already cleaning 🧹 a lot. and eating healthy 🥕 for energy to breastfeed and be their for my future kids . Motherhood is truly such a Gift and I won’t get like this woman I refuse !
So proud of you young lady! The best thing you can do for your future children is investing in preparing yourself. You are going to a great mother!
You gonna be a great mother fr good luck 👍
This woman is smoking inside the house with her infant daughter. Like, I smoked for 23 years & I would never dream of doing that around a toddler. This woman needs a wake up call.
To all the overweight smokers who ignore their children all day to sit on Facebook: HOW?! What keeps you on Facebook for more than 20min? I literally quit using the platform. Almost the decade ago because it was just people complaining all the time or referencing how lonely they are. That and all the political arguing. Unless you like spending your time being angry and arguing it's a pretty useless platform
That's the thing. They love social interaction but are too toxic to get any in real life so online is the only place they can turn too.
I’m sure she is seeking the attention of men online.
I don't use Facebook, but I would assume it suffers from the same things that twitter does. I use Twitter a lot because trolling is fun and also the memes are fire. I've found a niche that fills the void in my soul caused by my zoomer attention span. I guess the boomer void is filled by petty soccer mom drama on Facebook 😂
The show was recorded in 2009 so Facebook at the time was basically what Twitter or TikTok is today for context
I'm a debater. Planned to be a lawyer. So arguing is kinda my jam. That said, I don't and have never done that. I prefer playing video games to take out my frustrations.
I see a common deniminator when it comes to these train wreck families: weak husbands.
Weak husbands and welfare systems that allow this kind of shit.
Wow so blame the man even though it's the woman who's a lazy waste of space. Wow
who would have thought weakening the strength of what used to be the biggest provider and support for nuclear families would degrade family structure and standards /s
not to sound like a conspiracy theorist but honestly its like neo liberals want society to collaspe. the best saying i've heard was 'progressives take off the chains of the devil and call it liberation'
The cucks need someone too lol
Yes! They won't stand up to her
Sometimes I get that feeling that I'm missing out on having a family, despite me only being 21, but seeing these people around my age raising children in deplorable conditions reassures me that sometimes patience and growth in maturity and ambition is better and can be worth it in the long run.
Yeah, you're still young. To me, the best time to have children is between +/- 25yo and 39yo, as a child requires maturity and an ordered life (work, good home, establish the lige style you want). I'm 33yo and childfree. The (readonably) older I get, the more I realize how I'd have given a very different education to a child, if I had had one at 20, 25 or now...
There is a big difference between being 21 and 25-27 even tho it doesn’t seem much of big difference. Don’t lose sight pic your aspiration just continue to grow and mature as person and get your house in order and it’ll come. Childbirth itself and motherhood is a big task mentally. Get any diagnoses and therapy out the way. Best thing you can do for your future children is invest in yourself.
I didn't have my first child until 31. Although I wouldn't advise waiting that long, definitely wait until your later 20s. You mature a lot.
@@Youareheretoo that's so true!
My first reaction when following Kerry's tour of the slob house was: holding back vomit, while yelling at the screen, "There's a KID in the house!!" If I were Kerry, I wouldn't be jumping to clean the house. I'd be jumping to call child protective services.
She doesn't deserve any praise for being 'honest'
In my opinion, recognising your flaws, doing absolutely nothing to try and fix and even being proud of it is WAY worse than not recognising them at all.
You can at least give people the benefit of ignorance but, as you said, to know and STILL do nothing, that makes you worse than trash. ESPECIALLY when there's a child involved.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420we've set the bar very low due to these epitomes of disappointment
I agree, the person that lies about it at least feels some shame from living like that. Her "honesty" comes from indifference, which is also why she does not change. Someone that lies about it, is probably still capable of changing since that person still "cares" enough to lie about it. People need emotion to take action or change, but indifference just leads to stagnation.
Exactly.
This is degeneracy.
How is this not child abuse? How can they film this awful person and not step in. Shame on her and double shame on the man for letting that happen every single day. That kid doesn't stand a chance. How can you as a grown man allow this to happen? Someone please slap some sense into that man
Remember what he said. He wanted a quiet life with zero conflict. He allows this to happen so he doesn't get into any conflict whatsoever.
It was revealed most of these shows make it look worse than it is and make up conflict.
Like there was one father who was addicted to video games and made him look like he ignored his kid when he was actually dedicated to his kid. He just video games too much.
@@almalone3282he is a coward and will die one unless he does something to protect that child
@@kpoppy9635dude
There is this literal shot of the woman ignoring her child,while smoking and doing nothing on her PC
@@LaloSalamancaGaming69 it can still be clever editing. Notice the cigarette was used but not lit? Like the other guy said it could've been filmed separately.
I built as many good habits as I could before having kids and after they came, I feel like I had a magnifying glass on myself seeing behaviors/habits I didn’t want my kids to mirror. So I’m constantly pushing myself to be better so that my kids will be better than me
She says she's lazy like she's proud of it. 12 hours a day is MUMMY's time . Your kid is asleep the rest of the time ...duhhh ?
She’s too lazy to cook for HER 18 MONTH OLD BABY and she stays home all day and I thought I was lazy
She reminds me of my buddy's ex-fiance
@@TaddiestMasonI secretly hope your not talking about my ex😂
Deadass. They literally don't eat all that much. They don't even have teeth to chew most food lol
she’s too lazy to take care of HERSELF, let alone a baby.
It's not like she has to cook it a gourmet steak or anything! And the internet exists n since she's on it all day a quick "healthy baby meals" search could gp a long way. She's disgusting
This was an eye opener for me. I've been struggling with depression on top of ADHD which makes cleaning up difficult and my house is a complete pig pen. Now that I see the direction I'm going I think I'll start getting my shit together
Try to do a little bit at a time. Throw some music on and focus on one area or task and set reminders every 10 or so minutes in order to keep you on task, and really bask in how good it feels to have finished that bit and commit that feeling to memory. Good luck ❤
I believe in you👍
I love an interval timer. I do 7 min on 3 min off. You can get plenty of work done in 7 minutes then have 3 minutes to go full adhd, them dong ding ding back to work. Even 3 cycles and I'm surprised at how much work I got done
Please do. My wife is similar, has turned my formerly clean house into a junkyard, and it's destroying an otherwise good marriage.
I put on Hoarders to clean! Good motivation and it satisfies the ADHD need for background noise.
19:00 “Condoms cannot be this expensive.” So fun fact in Britain or Scotland at least the NHS will provide condoms for free in pharmacies.
Yes they’re free . So is the contraceptive pill . No excuse to accidentally get pregnant. I’m just surprised someone could want to have sex with her !
She should not be allowed to have children. That is negligent
To be fairly critical , addicts shouldn't be allowed to have a child .
Who gonna police that though
Idk sometimes a child is what saves an addict. A child and a good, strict, nonenabling man can do wonders for an addict. I was an addict. I was doing my best to change cuz I wanted to feel like I deserved my bf. Then I found out I was pregnant and decided I would not give an innocent child an addict for a mother. I am the child of an addicted single mother. So I've cleaned up my act... but I never would've found the strength to do that if not for the fact that I believe (know) my kids deserve the best mother possible and that my bf deserves a woman that will raise his children well and keep things clean and running smoothly while he's working to support us. I would never tell my children they are what saved me, since that's an unfair burden to place on them, but they absolutely did and along with their father they save me every day of my life from my weaknesses because my love for them (for my family unit as a while, honestly, there's no way I'd be a good mother without their father beside me, being strong and reliable and supporting us, so that my only 'stressors" are housewife and mother duties) is 1000% stronger than my biggest weaknesses. My first baby even had autism and I've had 3 baby boys, about to be 4, since Feb 2020. 4th due in Feb 2024. They keep my mind occupied and give me purpose and pulled me out of a pit I was unable to get myself out of. I know what it's like to be the neglected child of an addicted mother and I'll never ever put my children through the life I went through. I will never let them feel like I don't love them enough to stay home and stay sober and play/interact with them. I'll put everything I've got into making my relationship with their father work despite there being many many things to work through with him, and I'll stay sober because that's what they need from me, it's the least I could do for them, and I'm going to give them everything I possibly can cuz that's what they all deserve.
I'm sure I'm a rare case, but I hate to think how my life would've ended up if I hadn't been able to start a family, it gave me direction and purpose and keeps my mind too be occupied to even consider drügs. Ive with a ring I bought from the hospital where I gave birth to my first son, every single day, as a reminder of the promise to him and my other children to never touch hard drugs again.
I am an addict.
I have been completely clean for almost four years…. After how much times goes by should I be allowed to have a child?
What people who have never been through this don’t know, is that an addict who is in solid recovery is way better of a bet than a person who never had this problem to begin with
@@micenabled9418they can police our social media posts, and they can easily police that.
@@IronPsydeexcuse me, 4 years and you still call yourself an addict?
"Being a mum is the hardest job in the world"
That crap annoys the crap out of me whenever I hear it as some sort of flex from terrible moms. _Being a mom is as hard as you make it_ . Most moms work hard, but this lady is not working at all, so how exactly is it hard? You know the old saying, "if you're good at something, you don't have to tell people you're good at it"? I propose that if you work hard at something, you don't have to tell people you work hard
I was just about the write a similar comment. This shit infuriates me as well. There are so many deadbeat moms out there and you can often tell by just looking at how their kids turn out. And they know they can get away with this shit. We need an asteroid..........I'm not even joking at this stage anymore.
Yeah I am a mostly stay at home mom who works just 6-8 hours a week as a nurse. Nursing is harder! Hands down. I can see how if you had a child with significant special needs being the mom would be harder for sure. But for just regular old kiddos? Working is way worse. Yesterday I was home and I walked the older one to school, went to the gym, then the little one and I went to the nature center and then took a walk in the snowy woods. Then we came home and had hot chocolate and played legos. Lastly I made homemade pizza while the two kids played together. It was freaking delightful. Working is SO much more stressful. The two aren’t even comparable.
Being a parent is the hardest job in the world only if you love your kids.
I can’t tell you how many times I have had someone think they are a victim of sorts and tell me they want what I have but when I say, “well, I didn’t get what I have by doing what you are doing”, refuse to believe their behaviors/actions have anything to do w it 🤦🏼♀️
@16:05 There is a passage in that text that states"Jones was widely condemned following the programme after admitting she fed her THEN DAUGHTER. . . " JUSTICE for Georgina. She was removed from this nasty disgrace of a mother for somewhere that would actually take care of her.
Ok, I´m 1 minute in and... She´s 22 and he´s 39? He looks wayyy younger than her. Idleness really is the mother of all vice.
That poor little child.
That's how Kelly could afford to go out 4 nights per week, british taxpayers were footing the bill.
I know its a few years ago but even if it's 10 years ago i was wondering how she could afford that as a single wage earning household
13:25, "Carrie cleans Kelly's disgusting home. Here are some screenshots of that...".
Ah, I like it. It's something I can actually bear to look at. By the way, I absolutely love the ancient Roman colosseum you've installed in the backyard, nice touch.
Honestly, I have to thank you so much, not just for this video but in general, for how straightforward and honest you are in the way you talk about things. It's made it much easier for me to break down aspects of my life and understand why I'm not getting the things I want in life. Keep up the great work!
"A welfare flunky who babysitters her kid when it's convenient" Shockingly describes most mothers i've seen. I don't understand people who have a kid and then ignore them most of the time. Shoving an ipad into a child's face and feeding them chicken nuggets is not parenting
Maybe you should rethink your social circle cause I don't know any moms like this, working or at home
you just described my sister to a T
@@radhiadeedou8286 It's what the overwhelming majority of mothers in the UK are like. As far as I've seen, and I've lived in and traveled around the UK a fair bit.
@@FreePigeonIn most cases it’s usually the dad who is the bum and that’s why it surprises me when I see moms who behave like bums.
Most? So, 51% of men? Orginal comment says "most mothers I've seen".
@@2UDesiree
Child abuse is one of the things that boils my blood. That cow of a woman doesn't deserve children, her husband is no better because of allowing his daughter to live that life.
I’m more I’m more ashamed of the fact there were men out there who think “this is the best I can do”
Trifling & LAZY Parent, Trifling & LAZY Housekeeper, Trifling Husband for allowing and accepting her Trifling and Lazy! Where's CPS when they're needed😢
This was one of the hardest videos I have had to watch. How could someone be so neglectful of a child. Its so mind blowing
I felt the exact same way.
True. What would someone do in that situation though? I think whatever Kelly's husband does, he’ll be the bad guy. He allows her to be that way, which makes him a simp, and if he says anything, he's a control freak.
@@MiltonWatson tbh, being called a control freak by a mentally ill, obese woman who has no self- control would be better for me than dooming a child to a life of neglect and pain. Just saying.
Honestly I find 50-60% of the single moms I have dated are like that....
I think she is mentally ill
I have three kids three years and under and I was feeling so exhausted after working my job and cleaning and caring for them but knew I had to muster the energy to make a healthy meal for them for dinner, and figured I would put on some youtube in the background at least... and this video popped up on my feed. I'm nothing special but I am definitely feeling like a mom-of-the-year rockstar right now just for dragging myself to the kitchen to make my kids food after watching this 😂 So thanks for that!
Why is dad not helping?
@@TomNook. dad was still at work and pitched in when he got home.
Nah, you are definitely also a rockstar mom of the year! Have a nice one!
youre doing an amazing job!! Thank you for being so responsible
Good for you. You're awesome 👍
19:15 idiocracy is a great movie, just recently watched it, shocking how relevant it is.
Smoking in a room with a child in it is absurd
The husband would be better off being a single dad and ditching the wife. He already does it all himself.
He also destroying her she will probably get larger and larger and get sick from all the junk she is eating while their daughter is also being fed dangerous food! Weak men and toxic women destroy everything
it doesn't work that way.
she would get the kid and be with her 24h a day while she live the same life without father but with Cs payments for more smoke and karaoke parties.
@fireinthenight9028 not true in this day in age with video evidence of her neglect. Fathers are starting to get custody more & more these days
No seeing the kid + having to pay a lot for someone who just birthed a kid into the world but don't care a little about the child?
He probably knows their children will die if he isn't near
Yeah, but this is what he gets for getting with her when she was 19. They're both screwed up.
Someone call boogie, we found his long lost sister.
I think we did!
I have depression and I can’t even imagine ignoring and neglecting my son the whole day, let alone making him live in filth. CPS needs to be involved and the father should be given custody. He’s not the best either but at least he works and TRIES to clean somewhat.
That's what happens when men prioritize "young" over anything else in a woman. He's a full grown man who got with a teenager. She didn't get a chance to grow up before he made her a mother and wife . Which is why he's stuck taking care of a 2 kids
I used to drink coca cola and Pepsi every single day..I stopped one day as an experiment and then 1 month went by and I tried a sip and I almost vomited. It really tastes so disgusting once you train your body and mind off those addictive chemicals. It tastes like water with caramel. Now it has been 12 years without any soda. It made me go down pounds too!
i could NEVER be with a soda drinker. literally the most sickening habit i can think of
@@bazhumke4040lol worse than smoking? Doubtful.
Isn't it painful to drink fizzy drinks?
Damn, I have almost the same experience. As a teen, I used to drink a bunch of sodas. One day, my brother tokd me: "I'm sure you can't stop drinking soda for a fill month". I proved him wrong and, then, I went to celebrate my victory by drinking a soda. The bubbles hurt my mouth and my throat, and I didn't like the taste AT ALL. It's been almost 20 years ago, and, since then, I almost never drank soda again.
Drinking soda is the only reason I’m losing weight tbh diet soda totally kills my appetite
I feel sorry for you TBYS. Watching the rubble of British society trying to cope with doing everything they were warned not to do must be disturbing but captivating.
That child is doomed with a mum like that.
I hope people called CPS to get that child to a better home. This material seriously concerned me.
He always sees North Americans do this daily. I think he'll be alright 😂
@eternalflame8104 I am Kerry from.that episode. Georgina is now a thriving 16 year old. Doing well this was filmed in 2007.
@@kerrymurphysinger2560 I am very happy to hear that both of you are on the right track. I hope that everything from this video is just a long forgotten past memory.
This Kelly reminds me of a couple I rented a room from years ago. Neither of them worked they smoked weed all day while I worked full time, came home, tried to relax and chill alone in my room (essentially my house, as in I’m renting a ROOM in their apartment, so that room is like my HOUSE, and they are my neighbours essentially) but they always said ‘don’t be anti social etc’ lol always expected me to hang out in the living room with them. Well I prefer to relax alone after working around people all day, lol anyways, one day I came home and they asked if I could wash the dishes. So being polite, I said sure. There was not a lot, maybe a sink full, so whatever. One night I came home from work, they asked if I could wash the dishes after she made supper. I agreed, and after supper went into the kitchen and…..my god…..the apartment counter, both sides- FULLY COVERED in dishes- the kitchen table COVERED in dishes. I don’t mean one layer, I mean STACKS AND PILED- Well, I already gave my word that I would do them after supper. So I did. Took me four hours to clean that kitchen up. I said to the girl ‘why can’t you guys do these you’re home all day.’ ‘’Well I look after the baby all day’’ ‘well put her in the high chair then!’ ‘’I can’t don’t that(or something to that effect)’’ 🙄 anyways moved in with my gf shortly after. That. Lol
I have chosen to exclude individuals, especially women, who lack aspirations as I perceive them to have a detrimental impact. I firmly believe that these individuals can be harmful.
I wouldn't call that honesty, but self-awareness. And even if she was self-aware, she still refused to change.
Also, I can't believe they made a whole show out of this situation instead of immediately calling child protective services and take away that kid from those people. It's disgusting.
Sigma Mom 🗿
At this point she is just bragging.
literally what the hell leaving that child there and filming it.. shocking
The reason she has children is likely welfare, that’s why she had another one.
She wanted a bigger house
How much money do you think you get for a child?
A $3000 tax rebate is hardly the incentive people present it as.
@@ChristinaFromTH-cam It is a good incentive if you completely neglect your children and barely care for them. She also did commit welfare fraud by saying she didn't live with Steve and was convicted for it.
How the heck do I not have a husband or children at 25 I cook clean I’m fit an healthy that 22 year old has someone like what!!!
wassup cuh, lemme holla atcha.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 lol didn’t even see this til now
Thank you for the pictures you show during your comment, they help me calm down from the frustration about these people!
I’m from the UK. The welfare system is broken is very broken, people like Kelly are rewarded for doing nothing. Yes some people get caught for fraud but it’s very rare. She would have likely kept the house or had been sized down because she has children. Growing up in a council estate I know people who get paid out £1500 a month from the government claiming they’re badly disabled when there’s nothing wrong with them at all.
I feel really sorry for genuine disabled people who often don’t get much because they don’t often get much support and they struggle to go to a benefits office and/or others don’t have a good mental capacity to fill out a letter.
The benefits system in the UK is really crap. You have thousands of immigrants welcomed in to the country, put in council housing and get more pay than some people who work. Plus the British citizens aren’t much better, a lot of them lie to get more money and checks are very few.
Welfare should come at the cost of forfeiting your reproductive rights and voting rights. That would make a big impact.
@@ANPC-pi9vu I don’t agree with that. I don’t think anyone Should be dictating whether you can have kids or not and whether you can vote. Some people are genuinely in need of the benefit/welfare system and those out of work being made redundant need it temporarily.
No attack but I think that view is an extremely authoritarian view to have
Even when someone is dobbed in, it takes 6-12 weeks for an investigation, which they announce. Meaning they can ham up whatever disability they have, or, in an instance I know, claiming child support for children they've surrendered, can have them back for the day (as they have the right), for the appointment.
Broken is an understatement.
USA has the same failed system. Most of the people rewarded the benefits are the ones that riot and loot.
Sounds like America
How is social services not involved in this case?
Because they don't care.
Because she's a woman and women are a protected species.
It's not their kid in danger....
It is a government agency, it doesn't work for us.
I love this kind of motivation. Great content
This is the first of your videos that I have watched. Great video! Perfect viewing/listening for my day off ❤
They only had a $7k fine and vommunity service for welfare fraud? In the US it would be stricter.
Nobody cares
@@HibiTeamQueso apparently you do. You won't have commented if you didn't.
@@inspectorsteve2287😂
Right I wonder what the paternity fraud😂
You forgot to add the fact that Kerry spent a month in the hospital after filming due to all the diseases in Kelly’s house 🤮
Oh fuck
What? is this true?
Commenting if further info is stated. That's fucked.
@@vesselfit2use no 🤣🤣
@@IrishBlue-24 because I looked it up and couldn't find anything.
But I thought it could be a possibility because of the cats as many people are allergic to them. And cat urine is extremely toxic.
But thanks for answering.
Dude,, the clip where they were showing her house and zoomed in on the dirty microwave made me get up IMMEDIATELY and clean my microwave 😭💀
😂😂 I went to check my microwave too! How can people live like that?
That child will not want to be close to her "mother" in any way once she's up in her teens, begins to see how normal mothers behave and realizes how neglected she's been. What a waste of air.
NO WAY SHES 22 AND SHE IS THIS BIG?
She’s dedicated alright
She was probably fat as a kid too
That's what stuffing yourself with food for a longer time does
We have an 11 month old boy and we cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for him every single day, even if we don't bother with breakfast for ourselves.
It's exhausting as we cook fresh meals and never use jars unless out of convenience like being away from home etc.
We chose to have our boy, he didn't choose to be with us so we're trying out best to make him feel like he belongs with us and that we care about him
Watching that poor girl crying and that "mother" shushing her because, how dare she interrupt her brainless FB scrolling disgusted me.
We have a 10 month old :)
I enjoy that baby boy SO much, I wouldn't do anything else but play with him and feed him good food all day everyday, if I could heh
I do my best to buy healthy food from farmers and stuff like that, although in my country the food is exceptionally good comparing to the US already. But yes, there isn't anything else I'd rather do but spend time with my boy and raise him to be healthy and happy. Other traits too, of course, but he's a baby right now (how I wish he'd stay such a good and satisfied baby for longer)
@@golden_fork2775 Yeah, it's crazy how much joy mine brings to me.
He just tried to put his dummy in my mouth while giggling. I'm blessed to work from home so I can jump out and have little moments like that with him whenever I want.
Thankfully, my wife's parents own a dairy farm and quite a lot of agricultural land so we get free fruit and vegetables whenever we want.
The wife even makes my son "baby cheese" from scratch - don't know what it is but he loves it.
Either way, seeing that little girl neglected like that really hit me hard.
My youngest HATED meat. He hated eating to be honest. So I'd chop up chicken really fine and sneak it into a bit of mashed potatoes or other smushed up veggies. Until he discovered it that is. His favorite lunch he'd take to school when he was older was a salad with croutons and a piece of bacon. He'd order salad and milk at restaurants and shock the waitress.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420 That's amazing, to have someone who owns land so close to you. We are looking to move to our property on the edge of town, so to speak, but we have some land there, not much, but it's beautiful, more peaceful and closer to nature. But yes, having fresh food for free is great for your little one, most importantly that it's nicely grown. I've read for example how much the soil itself and what it is composed of impacts how food grows and how it turns out.
I suspect the woman in the videos has an undiagnosed condition, perhaps, some depression maybe, maybe untreated pp depression, it definitely isn't normal.
Why do you have the pedophile rights flag in your pfp!! 😨😨😨😨😨
I needed to see this. Good self esteem boost. Lets me know there's still some hope for me. I may not have any aspirations right now, almost no one wants to employ me and the pay I receive sucks for the work I can do but at least I'm trying. I could be a worse person than who I am currently.
"Being a mother is the hardest job in the world" is HILARIOUS when shes not doing one bit of mothering. What an insult to real stay at home mums
My heart goes out to that sweet baby. She has 2 "parents" with all the free time in the world and they neglect her on every level. How can people do that to their kids? I can't imagine doing something as useless as scrolling Facebook and scolding my child for wanting my attention.
Her father worked 12 hour days. Her mother was a deadbeat.
@@canelareina3795 yeah, but we're working with the assumption that he is working 3 days, leaving 4 days off.
The parents don't get to be lazy when they have kids. When you have kids either raise them right or put them up for adoption because you refuse to.
here in the UK atleast we have much tighter controls on food. while yes most are still suger filled slop things like wheetabix are just well wheet pressed into a brick to be added to milk.
She's only 22 and she already looks 50. That reflects her lifestyle. No wonder.