I remember seeing this one podcast where this girl wanted to date a man without a job because she’s spontaneous and wants to go on trips and dates. Here’s the catch, she wasn’t going to fund these trips but wanted the man to pay for them. Problem is how can he do that if he’s unemployed.
Sounds like all the girls on the 9-5 man topic on podcasts. Funny how they never get attacked by women on this subject. Just shows you the hive mind they have. They don't want a 9-5 man, but expect an entrepreneur to be more free than a 9-5. The notion of being free not working a 9-5 is just you not having a boss or someone tell you what to do. It doesn't mean you work less hours lol They are so dumb.
The fact that there's women with crazy standards doesn't mean all women are like this, they are just the loudest ones. There are still a lot of great women, don't lose hope people!
@@universalsubliminals1174 Sometimes it’s very hard to distinguish between the good women and the crazy ones because the good ones are standing too close to the ones with crazy standards. I’m talking about girls having a friend group filled with women with unrealistic standards but they’re the only ones with reasonable standards. A person looking in from the outside won’t be able to tell the difference. Your friend group shows the type of person you are. I think part of the solution is for good women to call out problematic women and keep them in check. Call out your friend’s bad behavior otherwise it will continue. I know this goes against the sisterhood code, but instilling integrity and values into your friends is noble.
Love strawberry park but I could never agree with you guys on the last point. No matter what a man decides to do for me on the first date, we are not having sex regardless of how much I am into him. I make it clear I am not looking for sex, but something long term. If he decides he wants to continue to try and impress me to pursue sex (and I don’t know until he asks) then that’s on him, not me. And if he’s upset that he’s spent his money and time, that’s also on him. I’ve had this happen many times before and I can tell when guys get bummed when I say no to sex when I have clearly told them that’s not what I’m looking for. Bad take on your alls part imo.
So you want people to give you everything for nothing? I agree with not on the first date (that seems obvious) “if wants to continue to impress me to pursue s-x then maybe” I don’t agree with
@@Nikstar112 I’m looking for a relationship, not sex. Obviously, at some point in the relationship sex will come but I want to know a man is devoted to my mind and who I am as a person before I give him my body. There’s a lot more a woman can bring to a relationship just besides sex you know..
You can give a lot of things in return other than sex. You can still be a good partner regardless if you give them sex. So don’t say nothing in return. So yes she’s right, she lets them know that’s not what she’s looking for in the moment and that she’s look for something long term. It’s their fault if they have a problem with it and continue to keep spending their money and taking someone on dates if you clearly know they don’t have the same motive as them.
Had to pause because the first two videos were making sense but I don't agree with the guys on the last one. She has a right not to give her body in exchange for "activities" that were made to impress her. Not all women feel like a date is a trade off for sex. And I stand with her on that. Dates are a 50/50 chance that you will get what you bargained for and unless she implied or formally stated that if the guy takes her out on an exciting date that she would sleep with him he got exactly what he bargained for. smh this generation is down the toilet. However I do agree that its not necessary to post details about your date online in efforts to blast someone else.
Guys take girls out for sex. Is there anymore to be said? Should i say it again? Dating = subtle prostitution. Dating is also not actually courtship its modern bullshit look up the history. It used to be illegal to “date” because it was seen as prostitution to woo a woman out her pants.
Here’s what id say to balance it, don’t expect a man to pay. Pay for your half instead of having a stranger pay for you. especially if you arent trying to smash.
and men have the right to not stay with her even if she does not do that anymore. you are not entitled to men time and attention specially if "you don't do that anymore"
I agree with a lot of points but I don't with the last one. Anyone is allowed to change their mind about things that they have done in the past, especially if it has resulted in consequences. She most likely doesn't sleep with men on the first date anymore because she either regrets it or realizes that it wasn't the best idea. If you give it up on the first date, you're regarded as easy/ran- through so I don't blame her for changing her mind. This is also applicable to men and what these guys have said in their video regarding not going above and beyond for women on the first date. It is learning from your mistakes by not exhausting a lot of resources into someone who just may be using you as a meal ticket... ANYMORE. It is best to keep things simple at the start. The notion that you should keep performing the same actions for someone moving forward just to spare their feelings, even though you know it is not the best idea based on your experience, is idiotic. Everyone is allowed to feel whatever they feel tho. But, her posting it on social media was corny and I hate the fact that nothing can be private anymore. The way in which she told the story is what was off-putting.
@@EnricoIII In that case then, any mistake that anyone has made in their life is subjected to scrutiny forever, no matter how hard anyone has worked to turn it around. So fuck learning from mistakes right? As a matter of fact, let's keep everything unfair and hopeless. It will exist even if you don't like it.
@@black90210s so men have to pay for women's bad choices and bad decisions made in the past with other men? hell no, actions have consequences. you can lie and say that you are not like that or that don't do that anymore but if men find out bout what you did, specially when it comes to promiscuity, one night stands, having sex on the first date; men are gonna judge you. some will keep fvcking you and not take you serious, some will make you waste you time as vengeance, other will stop talking to you but men judge women silently
I feel like it is so normalised to just have sex after the first date but what if that person is waiting until marriage or just prefers to have sex when they are comfortable and sure that they are in a healthy strong relationship not just givung it up on dates
If you were a girl and you find out that the guy who you are smashing used to take girls on vacations before but now only buys you McDonald's, how would you feel?? You aren't entitled to his money but you are allowed to feel some type of way
What?? She learnt from her mistakes not to give men sex on the first date because of the exact situation that happened to her. And the date she went on does not know about her past relationships
I agree up to a point. I think it's okay to change your ideas about dating, especially because I know I have a lot of regrets about giving it up too easily and guys just don't respect you after that. If I could go back and change my actions in those situations I would, but because I can't I have to change my actions going forward
My dad worked a 8-4 and 4:30-11 so my mom didn’t have to work and she stayed home looking after my brother and I, she cooked him food, did all the housework and she never complained
NEVER spend big on the first date. Take her somewhere nice, but affordable. If she has a problem with that then cut her off. She wasn’t interested in you, she was interested in your pockets. But if she’s down to get a cheap meal, that means she’s actually interested in spending time with you and not just trying to get a free meal. Then on the second date you can treat her to something more classy because now you know she would keep the same energy no matter where you take her.
Honestly I don't care if he isn't paying expensive on the first date. All I gotta know is that he got money as in he's within my category of stage in life. If I'm low class I'ma be looking for someone who makes bank in low class. if I'm rich class I'ma be looking for someone who makes bank in upper class or rich class. The point isn't how much he spending on me but rather what his ambitions are with his money and his class.
I think for the last tiktok they watched the reason the guy was kinda upset was cause he put so much effort into the date and she thought he did all that for short term pleasure and was annoyed she saw him like that and he was definitely long term thinking of doing it but he probably just wanted to show her a genuine good time.
I think societies expectations of what "role" guys are "supposed" to "play" is really f**ked up, and it leads to ALOT of mental issues. Great Video guys. Love ya (Happy Holidays!!!)❤❤❤❤Rob looks like he needs a hug.
No thats not true! If one of my homies banged a cougar he would be applauded, but if a older man asked out a younger girl on a date the she would tase him.
We are also trusting that she ain't BSing about him being "uninterested because he wasn't getting laid", after she blasted him saying she wasn't going to have s*x. We don't even know if that was his intentions, he coulda just been tryna chill and talk with her more. I can imagine for the guy things would get pretty awkward after that.
No one ever second guesses if a man is telling his story truthfully, so that's a double standard women constantly have to live it. Men lie all the time, yet society has given them this unearned status as truth tellers over women. Frankly, both sexes deal with unfair double standards, and the black guy in the second video did a 'double standards for women' tiktok as well and hit the nail on the head on those too. It's not easy out here for anyone, regardless of gender. It's just that some are worse than others
Hey guys I don’t know if I’m tripping but rob looks sad! I hope your ok bruh? And if you are down or going through something I hope u get better soon! ❤️
I've been saying it that...I'll never hit a women first. Ever!!!! But the moment she hit me first, she gives me all the right to hit her back because the same way i am not supposed to hit her she is not supposed to hit me. If she punch me i will punch her back, If she slap me i will slap her back. That's equality and fairness...I'd do it even though it means risking going to jail for self defence!
The sad part is, this is the reality of relationships between men and women. The women can do whatever while the men need to be mean and nice at the same time. What do they expect from us. I can't take you on trips and bring you to a luxurious restaurants while also being unemployed. They expect a man making 7 figures a year without going to work, but instead, taking you on luxurious vacations.
i definitely agree that there are double standards as a man and this is no way justifying it, i’m just stating that i contribute it to the way women were treated in the past and not given equality as men were considered “superior” before. now that we have an advanced society where women are allowed to be their own persons without the approval of a man, it has come to the point where men in todays society are paying for the actions of the men in the past. as a woman myself i find myself thinking with these double standard thoughts but watching videos like this to get another perspective on men’s point of view has really helped me to realize that not all men are out to get u and to look at things from different perspectives
The thing we have to understand is that we all fight the same problems in some way or another. Society as a whole has conditioned men and women to be this way, to have these unrealistic standards and call it ideal. We've all just accepted this as how it is for decades. It is up to our generation to raise kids who don't adhere to the male/female stereotype that promotes this.
It's quite sad that men get hate for everything they do. I understand there were issues like this back in the past but men were forceful and hateful towards women. This is too extreme. Men can say what they want as long as it's respectful, and women shouldn't think of it as he's a misogynistic or something like that. Women just extra at this point.
5:04 see I’m going through this now except he do me like this. I won’t bother him if ik he’s out drinking/chillin with his friends but the minute i do it i get asked so much… make it make sense fr!
Anybody remember when the man and woman both said what kind of guy/girl they wanted but the moment the guy said what he wanted the girl said that's body shaming? Double standards at their finest
I would only respect a mother/woman who is doing/done her job correctly in life, but if I see some random girl who is worth nothing, just chatting about what she wants or what she wants you to be for her needs not caring about your life as to be as "Equal" then I'll not consider them human, just simply ignore them, you'll notice how greedy their reaction would be, being with them or even just talking to them would make me weak of a person
Rhino I rate you guys just don't become a Sneako, it's easy to become just as radical as you think extreme feminists have become without keeping an open mind and criticising ourselves and others. Keep up the good work
I mean is he wrong most of the time, people nowadays know more about the Kardashians than simple basic knowledge questions, even hook up culture is a thing now too and everything they say on girls podcasts is talking about how they want men making 200k a year but not working a 9-5
I have been watching you guys for years now but as a woman your viewpoints on the last video doesnt sit right with me. First ryan saying all men are dogs and only want sex & guys only want “the box”, that statement itself is what causes us women to have high standards and refrain from having sex with the wrong guys. Rhino unintentionally just made it 10x harder for us women to trust guys to date by saying that to his audience AND believing it. No one forcing guys to act like that, you can break those stereotypes if you wish.Secondly, a DATE is suppose to be when you get to know each other’s personalities & feelings which you guys even said in a previous reaction video. Wanting to smash first Thats a HOOKUP. So therefore how would that girl known that he wants to just smash? He should have made it clear form the beginning “hey lets hook up”. The girl also never blasted his personal info so i dont see how this is wrong for her to share her story. You guys especially rhino might want to make some more female friends that arent just onlyfans girls to gain a better perspective on women just saying
Even if she didn't put up his personal info for everyone to see its still wrong to just talk about his experience with her In which he didn't even really do anything wrong. He just got disappointed he didn't get his goal and said he was leaving(In a polite manner). That doesn't give you the right to talk about him on the Internet. And you can talk about the dating scene all you want but we both know majority of men (if not all cause there are always exceptions) inevitable want to have sex. Its literally in out nature, sure we can control it through discipline but it should be something you should expect at some point and be ready for it if not just stay at home and watch "Wednesday" or something.
I agree with your statement but no one made it harder for you to trust guys 10x more because of what he said to his audience and viewers. YOU are the only person that can allow your mind to be fed this information or not it's all up to you rather you are obsessed with this content or not to the point where you believe anything one says.
@@sanban6766 and men don't? We do a lot of the same things and can be crappy to each other but we never take accountability for those actions or try to fix them.
Like She learnt from her past and is changing the way she is approaching going out with guys. As surprising as it may be there are women that are on dating sites to FIND SOMEONE TO DATE and be in a serious relationship with just like there are women that just want hookups.
i know this is off topic but i finally watched social dilemma, nothing i didn’t know, very eye opening. made me think of y’all because i remember watching the vid y’all made on social dilemma. good stuff keep up the good works my brothers.
i think a big issue in relationships is the boundaries are extremely one sided i feel like it should be okay that a man could set some of his own, i wish woman would understand this it would save so many relationships
I feel like social media has parted us Reason being i think theres always been women like this but social media gives them a bigger stage to spread there influence and corrupt other females
When it comes to girls with really high standards, even if I met their requirements I'd say no, those standards are only gonna get raised and those women need to be humbled
I read mostly the comments on this video and realized how hypocrite women are , they say you are allowed to change whenever you want but when a guy tries to erase his false past you pick on him and mock about it . This lady wasn't about that lifesyle anymore as she mentioned it but she has no right dating a dude knowing the fact that a reasionship is a two deal .
So pretty much: if you’re a man you must be rich, good looking, masculine, also sensitive, spend all your time working for your family while also spending all your time with your family, and don’t be to abusive towards the kids but also discipline and I can abuse u but you can’t hit me
Rhino, I'm sorry bro but that's controlling. Not wanting your gf or bf to go out to the club with their friends because you're worried other people are going to be talking to them is not only controlling, but also insecure. You don't trust your significant other to be loyal enough to you to hang out with their friends and talk to the opposite gender because you're too worried that they'll cheat.
@@Nikstar112 that's clearly not what's happening. Did you read what I said and understood it?? If you aren't able to trust your gf saying no to other guys in the club you are one of three things: insecure, don't trust your girl, or dating the wrong person
Yea I don’t deal with these things, waste of my time. If you have any problems just dump them, show them that you don’t care and that they’re replaceable. Because they are if you are the only one putting effort and money into the relationship
I think if you complain about these you aren't smart enough to know how to walk the fine line in between. there's a legitimate way to be confident and not cocky, how is this even an issue. plenty of people look at older women in their 40's dating guys in their 20's as weird. a lot of these are generalizations about how "people feel about" something that isn't always true
5:10 he's speaking facts bro fr my friends and i do a guys night in the weekend's and my girl would get so fucking mad because i didnt respond to her msg's instantly while am with the boys, long story short we haven't done a guys night for months and she still feels a bit off when i talk about guys night bruh😔
Literally with the last video ppl just need to communicate and let him know that’s what you’re going to do on your first date instead of blasting him on tiktok
I remember when I was with my ex, it would be this big deal if I didn’t spend enough time with her. Like I would be with my family that I barely ever saw due to work and school but if I hung out with MY family too long she would blow up at me. Dodged a bullet with that one.
At the end of the day, men and women need to actually get something additional when it comes to dates. Men have to spend their hard earned money on women, because that’s just what a man should do, but to have a stable relationship where everyones happy he needs to get something in return. And giving it up on the first date shouldn’t even be something so wrong, because as a humble woman you should be you should want to or at least feel that it’s fair to give it up on the first night after the guy put in so much extra effort to make you feel special. But most importantly giving it up on the first date isn’t wrong at all, and if your not gonna give it up on the first date, best thing to do is let that be known firsthand, because it’s gonna save you and the guy the trouble and wasted time.
"giving it up on the first date shouldn't even be something so wrong" Bruh, fr? Women get dragged through the mud for giving it up on the first night, but the guy is deemed a baller/player/pimp for engaging in the exact same act with that same woman. Guys almost always want it on the first date, but if they get it, the girl is a hoe and "for the streets" and not "housewife material". But if she doesn't give it up, she's a "bih" or she "led him on", or she "wasted his money and time". Women are made out to be the bad guy no matter what they do, it's no wonder girls just want to be single now
2:18 Nope. If you're not confident as a man, the only thing that will make you a women repelent or not isn't even you being confident or not, but your appearence. Girls will see shy handsome dudes as cute, while ugly confident men as arrogant. At the end, even being "funny" is somewhat compensating for men. Most women are unfanny for men: their jokes or whatever, still, men love their body 😳ooops, their personality 😅
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I remember seeing this one podcast where this girl wanted to date a man without a job because she’s spontaneous and wants to go on trips and dates. Here’s the catch, she wasn’t going to fund these trips but wanted the man to pay for them. Problem is how can he do that if he’s unemployed.
they reacted to one of those videos in last couple of weeks
Sounds like all the girls on the 9-5 man topic on podcasts. Funny how they never get attacked by women on this subject. Just shows you the hive mind they have. They don't want a 9-5 man, but expect an entrepreneur to be more free than a 9-5. The notion of being free not working a 9-5 is just you not having a boss or someone tell you what to do. It doesn't mean you work less hours lol They are so dumb.
She wanted an entrepreneur. Not someone with a 9-5.
@@henryk7033 true but the type of entrepreneur she's looking for would probably be too much of a workaholic to take time for a trip
@@henryk7033 Entrepeneurs sometime have even less free time until a certain point.
The fact that there's women with crazy standards doesn't mean all women are like this, they are just the loudest ones. There are still a lot of great women, don't lose hope people!
Where are these great women?
@@garcher2 wherever the red pill men aren't because you guys subconsciously focus on and notice the worst of us.
@@universalsubliminals1174 Sometimes it’s very hard to distinguish between the good women and the crazy ones because the good ones are standing too close to the ones with crazy standards. I’m talking about girls having a friend group filled with women with unrealistic standards but they’re the only ones with reasonable standards. A person looking in from the outside won’t be able to tell the difference.
Your friend group shows the type of person you are. I think part of the solution is for good women to call out problematic women and keep them in check. Call out your friend’s bad behavior otherwise it will continue. I know this goes against the sisterhood code, but instilling integrity and values into your friends is noble.
@@garcher2at school, working, in the hospital, teaching if your older.
Fax and they only loud because all the greats ones focused or in happy relationships
Love strawberry park but I could never agree with you guys on the last point. No matter what a man decides to do for me on the first date, we are not having sex regardless of how much I am into him. I make it clear I am not looking for sex, but something long term. If he decides he wants to continue to try and impress me to pursue sex (and I don’t know until he asks) then that’s on him, not me. And if he’s upset that he’s spent his money and time, that’s also on him. I’ve had this happen many times before and I can tell when guys get bummed when I say no to sex when I have clearly told them that’s not what I’m looking for. Bad take on your alls part imo.
So you want people to give you everything for nothing? I agree with not on the first date (that seems obvious) “if wants to continue to impress me to pursue s-x then maybe” I don’t agree with
@@Nikstar112 I’m looking for a relationship, not sex. Obviously, at some point in the relationship sex will come but I want to know a man is devoted to my mind and who I am as a person before I give him my body. There’s a lot more a woman can bring to a relationship just besides sex you know..
You can give a lot of things in return other than sex. You can still be a good partner regardless if you give them sex. So don’t say nothing in return. So yes she’s right, she lets them know that’s not what she’s looking for in the moment and that she’s look for something long term. It’s their fault if they have a problem with it and continue to keep spending their money and taking someone on dates if you clearly know they don’t have the same motive as them.
Okay but what are you offering ? Are you a virgin ?
Gotta say Noah’s becoming more and more talkative, sweet to see
Fun fact: you’re less likely to have children if your biological parents didn’t have any
conusbed tt outta me
Dawg what
Well… yes
Maybe because ur not alive if they dont have kids
I see no lies here
Had to pause because the first two videos were making sense but I don't agree with the guys on the last one. She has a right not to give her body in exchange for "activities" that were made to impress her. Not all women feel like a date is a trade off for sex. And I stand with her on that. Dates are a 50/50 chance that you will get what you bargained for and unless she implied or formally stated that if the guy takes her out on an exciting date that she would sleep with him he got exactly what he bargained for. smh this generation is down the toilet. However I do agree that its not necessary to post details about your date online in efforts to blast someone else.
Guys take girls out for sex. Is there anymore to be said? Should i say it again?
Dating = subtle prostitution.
Dating is also not actually courtship its modern bullshit look up the history. It used to be illegal to “date” because it was seen as prostitution to woo a woman out her pants.
Here’s what id say to balance it, don’t expect a man to pay. Pay for your half instead of having a stranger pay for you. especially if you arent trying to smash.
and men have the right to not stay with her even if she does not do that anymore. you are not entitled to men time and attention specially if "you don't do that anymore"
@@DefenderOfTheEnd all men are trying to smash.
Okay then pay half regardless if the guy invites you out
I agree with a lot of points but I don't with the last one. Anyone is allowed to change their mind about things that they have done in the past, especially if it has resulted in consequences. She most likely doesn't sleep with men on the first date anymore because she either regrets it or realizes that it wasn't the best idea. If you give it up on the first date, you're regarded as easy/ran- through so I don't blame her for changing her mind. This is also applicable to men and what these guys have said in their video regarding not going above and beyond for women on the first date. It is learning from your mistakes by not exhausting a lot of resources into someone who just may be using you as a meal ticket... ANYMORE. It is best to keep things simple at the start. The notion that you should keep performing the same actions for someone moving forward just to spare their feelings, even though you know it is not the best idea based on your experience, is idiotic. Everyone is allowed to feel whatever they feel tho. But, her posting it on social media was corny and I hate the fact that nothing can be private anymore. The way in which she told the story is what was off-putting.
men dont care, past still past. it exist even if you don't like it
@@EnricoIII In that case then, any mistake that anyone has made in their life is subjected to scrutiny forever, no matter how hard anyone has worked to turn it around. So fuck learning from mistakes right? As a matter of fact, let's keep everything unfair and hopeless. It will exist even if you don't like it.
@@black90210s so men have to pay for women's bad choices and bad decisions made in the past with other men? hell no, actions have consequences. you can lie and say that you are not like that or that don't do that anymore but if men find out bout what you did, specially when it comes to promiscuity, one night stands, having sex on the first date; men are gonna judge you. some will keep fvcking you and not take you serious, some will make you waste you time as vengeance, other will stop talking to you but men judge women silently
I agree
I feel like it is so normalised to just have sex after the first date but what if that person is waiting until marriage or just prefers to have sex when they are comfortable and sure that they are in a healthy strong relationship not just givung it up on dates
I hate double standards
Tell ‘em Ryan tell em
I hate double dipping
Well said
straight to the point and right
It matter doesn't how you feel about them. Just gotta accept them and move foward. Thats what I try to do.
5:21 Rob “I know you’re watching this Jasmine” 🤣🤣🤣
If you were a girl and you find out that the guy who you are smashing used to take girls on vacations before but now only buys you McDonald's, how would you feel?? You aren't entitled to his money but you are allowed to feel some type of way
Bruh. How did you make the reverse situation so accurate😭😭😭
Damn you SPITTIN
Great analogy 🙌🏾💪🏾💪🏾
What?? She learnt from her mistakes not to give men sex on the first date because of the exact situation that happened to her. And the date she went on does not know about her past relationships
You can feel how u feel but if he ain’t wanna spend it it’s his money. He probably grew up and matured and isn’t doing that type of stuff anymore
yall r the most realistic people on youtube
what about TheRealestMan??
@@mistadude BRUUUUH
I agree up to a point. I think it's okay to change your ideas about dating, especially because I know I have a lot of regrets about giving it up too easily and guys just don't respect you after that. If I could go back and change my actions in those situations I would, but because I can't I have to change my actions going forward
One last time won't hurt... hmu, love
@@HowellDiesel bruh💀
@@HowellDiesel
Haha, I'm going to marry and have kids with the man I'm with now. Though I assume this is sarcasm I just want to brag
@@divyaa4459 hol up let him cook
@@HowellDiesel LMAO
Dating nowadays is either a whole clown show/circus or a job interview. I'm so glad I never dated
The time will eventually come
I dub thee sir no bitches the brave
@@Cataclysm999 the time will eventually come for what... I haven't ever dated and never will
@@iceman5436 same bruv. Dating is a waste of time and energy, especially marriage. I'm perfectly happy being by myself and doing me.
@@iceman5436 i used to say this all time but you will eventually change
Love the frequent uploads! Keep up the awesome work guys
My dad worked a 8-4 and 4:30-11 so my mom didn’t have to work and she stayed home looking after my brother and I, she cooked him food, did all the housework and she never complained
Rob the type of guy to lose something and say "Looks like we've got a mystery on our hands."
LLS always speak facts society is so skewed nowadays
Fr
Unfortunately lol I just be feeling indifferent af these days
Rhino has been giving off extremist vibes lately.. idk I just hope they don't fall down the rabbit hole of "redpill"
NEVER spend big on the first date. Take her somewhere nice, but affordable. If she has a problem with that then cut her off. She wasn’t interested in you, she was interested in your pockets. But if she’s down to get a cheap meal, that means she’s actually interested in spending time with you and not just trying to get a free meal. Then on the second date you can treat her to something more classy because now you know she would keep the same energy no matter where you take her.
Honestly I don't care if he isn't paying expensive on the first date. All I gotta know is that he got money as in he's within my category of stage in life. If I'm low class I'ma be looking for someone who makes bank in low class. if I'm rich class I'ma be looking for someone who makes bank in upper class or rich class. The point isn't how much he spending on me but rather what his ambitions are with his money and his class.
@@loopymomy2532 Us married when?
Cheap meal does not equate to mecdonalds
That's a red flag if you ask me
I think for the last tiktok they watched the reason the guy was kinda upset was cause he put so much effort into the date and she thought he did all that for short term pleasure and was annoyed she saw him like that and he was definitely long term thinking of doing it but he probably just wanted to show her a genuine good time.
Literally wake up every morning just to watch this good ass content
I think societies expectations of what "role" guys are "supposed" to "play" is really f**ked up, and it leads to ALOT of mental issues. Great Video guys. Love ya (Happy Holidays!!!)❤❤❤❤Rob looks like he needs a hug.
no one thinks a 40 year old women liking men in their 20s is a good thing. it is gross to everyone except other cougars
I feel like it's a lot more gross the other way around ngl
No thats not true! If one of my homies banged a cougar he would be applauded, but if a older man asked out a younger girl on a date the she would tase him.
Untrue, it's only gross to women.
They do though. Meanwhile, there’ll be people calling for the castration of a 40 year old dude who wants a 20 year old girl
Not really. A guy in his 20s will get high fives from his boys.
We are also trusting that she ain't BSing about him being "uninterested because he wasn't getting laid", after she blasted him saying she wasn't going to have s*x. We don't even know if that was his intentions, he coulda just been tryna chill and talk with her more. I can imagine for the guy things would get pretty awkward after that.
No one ever second guesses if a man is telling his story truthfully, so that's a double standard women constantly have to live it. Men lie all the time, yet society has given them this unearned status as truth tellers over women. Frankly, both sexes deal with unfair double standards, and the black guy in the second video did a 'double standards for women' tiktok as well and hit the nail on the head on those too. It's not easy out here for anyone, regardless of gender. It's just that some are worse than others
@@potatoking8644 because one gender is notorious for never taking accountability and speaking the full truth, instead of just their truth 🤷♂️
Y’all are awesome, keep making content
Rob, Noah, and Rhino, you guys are like the older brothers I never had😫!
Im convinced that Rob is constantly in his own head w the way he be looking around the room 😂
Hey guys I don’t know if I’m tripping but rob looks sad! I hope your ok bruh? And if you are down or going through something I hope u get better soon! ❤️
I've been saying it that...I'll never hit a women first. Ever!!!! But the moment she hit me first, she gives me all the right to hit her back because the same way i am not supposed to hit her she is not supposed to hit me. If she punch me i will punch her back, If she slap me i will slap her back. That's equality and fairness...I'd do it even though it means risking going to jail for self defence!
LONG LIVE STRAWBERRY PARK !!!
The sad part is, this is the reality of relationships between men and women. The women can do whatever while the men need to be mean and nice at the same time. What do they expect from us. I can't take you on trips and bring you to a luxurious restaurants while also being unemployed. They expect a man making 7 figures a year without going to work, but instead, taking you on luxurious vacations.
Ngl she had me in the first half then she said “anymore” and I was like bruh 💀
i definitely agree that there are double standards as a man and this is no way justifying it, i’m just stating that i contribute it to the way women were treated in the past and not given equality as men were considered “superior” before. now that we have an advanced society where women are allowed to be their own persons without the approval of a man, it has come to the point where men in todays society are paying for the actions of the men in the past. as a woman myself i find myself thinking with these double standard thoughts but watching videos like this to get another perspective on men’s point of view has really helped me to realize that not all men are out to get u and to look at things from different perspectives
When the girl says I don’t “ F anymore”
Just means your last, and she’s running out of options
As a women I agree!! Me & my boyfriend talk about this a lot I’m happy I have him
The thing we have to understand is that we all fight the same problems in some way or another. Society as a whole has conditioned men and women to be this way, to have these unrealistic standards and call it ideal. We've all just accepted this as how it is for decades. It is up to our generation to raise kids who don't adhere to the male/female stereotype that promotes this.
It's quite sad that men get hate for everything they do. I understand there were issues like this back in the past but men were forceful and hateful towards women. This is too extreme. Men can say what they want as long as it's respectful, and women shouldn't think of it as he's a misogynistic or something like that. Women just extra at this point.
Poor men. Lmao they're still hateful and in power.
That’s so true. I thought people today is all about equality, but it seems like they are just dragging men through the mud. It’s really sad to see.
Saying women are just extra is generalizing, they all have different beliefs and opinions
So We’re Generalizing Now?
5:04 see I’m going through this now except he do me like this. I won’t bother him if ik he’s out drinking/chillin with his friends but the minute i do it i get asked so much… make it make sense fr!
literally stalk your page everyday for a new upload 😭😭luv yall!! ❤
“So they can play boardgames” 🤣🤣🤣 omg that phrase got me🤣🤣
I liked this reaction on topics like this need more of these man
Anybody remember when the man and woman both said what kind of guy/girl they wanted but the moment the guy said what he wanted the girl said that's body shaming? Double standards at their finest
I would only respect a mother/woman who is doing/done her job correctly in life, but if I see some random girl who is worth nothing, just chatting about what she wants or what she wants you to be for her needs not caring about your life as to be as "Equal" then I'll not consider them human, just simply ignore them, you'll notice how greedy their reaction would be, being with them or even just talking to them would make me weak of a person
Rhino I rate you guys just don't become a Sneako, it's easy to become just as radical as you think extreme feminists have become without keeping an open mind and criticising ourselves and others.
Keep up the good work
i was thinking this! i hope they never jump on the extreme redpill bandwagon and turn into a sneako
Sneako lowkey crazy and he’s spouts conspiracy theories. If he had toned things down, he wouldn’t have gotten cancelled
@@universalsubliminals1174 yea but some girls anymore are crazy with them standards
@@cartermitchell7444 ok? some guys are too
I mean is he wrong most of the time, people nowadays know more about the Kardashians than simple basic knowledge questions, even hook up culture is a thing now too and everything they say on girls podcasts is talking about how they want men making 200k a year but not working a 9-5
Nah a 40 year old woman liking guys in their 20s is equally creepy to me.
To you maybe but not to this society
I have been watching you guys for years now but as a woman your viewpoints on the last video doesnt sit right with me. First ryan saying all men are dogs and only want sex & guys only want “the box”, that statement itself is what causes us women to have high standards and refrain from having sex with the wrong guys. Rhino unintentionally just made it 10x harder for us women to trust guys to date by saying that to his audience AND believing it. No one forcing guys to act like that, you can break those stereotypes if you wish.Secondly, a DATE is suppose to be when you get to know each other’s personalities & feelings which you guys even said in a previous reaction video. Wanting to smash first Thats a HOOKUP. So therefore how would that girl known that he wants to just smash? He should have made it clear form the beginning “hey lets hook up”. The girl also never blasted his personal info so i dont see how this is wrong for her to share her story. You guys especially rhino might want to make some more female friends that arent just onlyfans girls to gain a better perspective on women just saying
Even if she didn't put up his personal info for everyone to see its still wrong to just talk about his experience with her In which he didn't even really do anything wrong. He just got disappointed he didn't get his goal and said he was leaving(In a polite manner). That doesn't give you the right to talk about him on the Internet. And you can talk about the dating scene all you want but we both know majority of men (if not all cause there are always exceptions) inevitable want to have sex. Its literally in out nature, sure we can control it through discipline but it should be something you should expect at some point and be ready for it if not just stay at home and watch "Wednesday" or something.
Because chicks play games
I agree with your statement but no one made it harder for you to trust guys 10x more because of what he said to his audience and viewers. YOU are the only person that can allow your mind to be fed this information or not it's all up to you rather you are obsessed with this content or not to the point where you believe anything one says.
@@sanban6766 and men don't? We do a lot of the same things and can be crappy to each other but we never take accountability for those actions or try to fix them.
Like She learnt from her past and is changing the way she is approaching going out with guys. As surprising as it may be there are women that are on dating sites to FIND SOMEONE TO DATE and be in a serious relationship with just like there are women that just want hookups.
i know this is off topic but i finally watched social dilemma, nothing i didn’t know, very eye opening. made me think of y’all because i remember watching the vid y’all made on social dilemma. good stuff keep up the good works my brothers.
There are good women out there, boys. Just hotta learn how to separate the wheat from the BS.
Rob the type of guy to say "whoopsies" after he drops something
Videos like this need to be more known
4:48 “I aint gon be there when you get back”
Me too wth
i think a big issue in relationships is the boundaries are extremely one sided i feel like it should be okay that a man could set some of his own, i wish woman would understand this it would save so many relationships
you guys are doing important work, it's so important to set things/women straight
since men live to double standards, and lets be real we are quite good at matching most double standars so we basically amazing
Love u guys keep it up
“Dudes are like dogs” you don’t sleep with dogs…if you want box buy it
He did, hence the date and art gallery….
"are you guys men" "yh i think so" 😂🔥
Been loving the football kits Rhino's be rocking lately
Ngl I’ve learnt a lot from watching u guys, and has def changed the way I see certain things
I feel like social media has parted us
Reason being i think theres always been women like this but social media gives them a bigger stage to spread there influence and corrupt other females
Social media is literally the issue. I heard the majority of good women live in rural areas rather than urban
Rhino's football jersey go hard especially the PSG one he has on
10:11 this facts but also sometimes you just draw a blank or don’t find something to say and gotta have some quiet every once in a while 🤷🏻♂️
Most should learn to live with and love themselves people are flawed you can’t give anyone control over emotions
Made my day💯
Another day, another Strawberry Park video to restore my faith in humanity.
HOLY SHIT SHE WAS SPOT ON!!! That is a high value woman right there. I’m sure she actually treats her man correctly knowing how rough men have it.
When it comes to girls with really high standards, even if I met their requirements I'd say no, those standards are only gonna get raised and those women need to be humbled
I read mostly the comments on this video and realized how hypocrite women are , they say you are allowed to change whenever you want but when a guy tries to erase his false past you pick on him and mock about it . This lady wasn't about that lifesyle anymore as she mentioned it but she has no right dating a dude knowing the fact that a reasionship is a two deal .
So pretty much: if you’re a man you must be rich, good looking, masculine, also sensitive, spend all your time working for your family while also spending all your time with your family, and don’t be to abusive towards the kids but also discipline and I can abuse u but you can’t hit me
Rhino, I'm sorry bro but that's controlling. Not wanting your gf or bf to go out to the club with their friends because you're worried other people are going to be talking to them is not only controlling, but also insecure. You don't trust your significant other to be loyal enough to you to hang out with their friends and talk to the opposite gender because you're too worried that they'll cheat.
This seems obvious but clearly not. He trusts his significant other, he doesn’t trust the other guys at the club 🤦♂️
@@Nikstar112 that's clearly not what's happening. Did you read what I said and understood it?? If you aren't able to trust your gf saying no to other guys in the club you are one of three things: insecure, don't trust your girl, or dating the wrong person
That’s not controlling 😂 what if a wife didn’t like her husband going to the club?
@@maimounakomla6584 yes it is?? Just cause you switched genders doesn't change anything. You people are weird
It’s not controlling is called boundaries
Mansplaning. A women can go on a tirade, rant , and genuinely talk about nothing. But if we get to talking and ranting we’re “mansplaning”
Rhino at @7:07 was PRICELESS.. 😆 Yo.. Image what these old dudes in their 60's-70's think about this BS!! 😂
As a girl this just pisses me of
Yea I don’t deal with these things, waste of my time. If you have any problems just dump them, show them that you don’t care and that they’re replaceable. Because they are if you are the only one putting effort and money into the relationship
I'm just glad I'm a female at this point.
The first video was just fact after fact and honestly it hit hard to see a woman really understand
I think if you complain about these you aren't smart enough to know how to walk the fine line in between. there's a legitimate way to be confident and not cocky, how is this even an issue. plenty of people look at older women in their 40's dating guys in their 20's as weird. a lot of these are generalizations about how "people feel about" something that isn't always true
5:10 he's speaking facts bro fr my friends and i do a guys night in the weekend's and my girl would get so fucking mad because i didnt respond to her msg's instantly while am with the boys, long story short we haven't done a guys night for months and she still feels a bit off when i talk about guys night bruh😔
You’re letting her run your social life lol
This man Ryan talkin bout board games😭
Rob all focused like.. damn I need this advice lol 😆
Literally with the last video ppl just need to communicate and let him know that’s what you’re going to do on your first date instead of blasting him on tiktok
“I need you to take me to nice spot for our first date.”
Me: Sorry, I don’t pay for the first dates… anymore!🤣
Rhino really has been studying up on that Fresh and Fit lol. That reference is priceless lmao. 4:45
1:17 so true 💀 i get that “arrogant” crap all the time bc I’m smart
I remember when I was with my ex, it would be this big deal if I didn’t spend enough time with her. Like I would be with my family that I barely ever saw due to work and school but if I hung out with MY family too long she would blow up at me. Dodged a bullet with that one.
Definitely dodged a bullet 😂
At the end of the day, men and women need to actually get something additional when it comes to dates. Men have to spend their hard earned money on women, because that’s just what a man should do, but to have a stable relationship where everyones happy he needs to get something in return. And giving it up on the first date shouldn’t even be something so wrong, because as a humble woman you should be you should want to or at least feel that it’s fair to give it up on the first night after the guy put in so much extra effort to make you feel special. But most importantly giving it up on the first date isn’t wrong at all, and if your not gonna give it up on the first date, best thing to do is let that be known firsthand, because it’s gonna save you and the guy the trouble and wasted time.
"giving it up on the first date shouldn't even be something so wrong" Bruh, fr? Women get dragged through the mud for giving it up on the first night, but the guy is deemed a baller/player/pimp for engaging in the exact same act with that same woman. Guys almost always want it on the first date, but if they get it, the girl is a hoe and "for the streets" and not "housewife material". But if she doesn't give it up, she's a "bih" or she "led him on", or she "wasted his money and time". Women are made out to be the bad guy no matter what they do, it's no wonder girls just want to be single now
Love to see rhino wearing that PSG shirt
oil club, no history lol
The best way to put it is that women expect a lot more from men than they actually deserve
Lmfaooo women be like “do and don’t do at the same time”
can y’all release sum basketball shorts please???
The second guy was too specific 😭
to some women, you're "mansplaining" when you have all the answers. lol
keep up the grind i enjoy the vids💯
2:18 Nope. If you're not confident as a man, the only thing that will make you a women repelent or not isn't even you being confident or not, but your appearence. Girls will see shy handsome dudes as cute, while ugly confident men as arrogant. At the end, even being "funny" is somewhat compensating for men. Most women are unfanny for men: their jokes or whatever, still, men love their body 😳ooops, their personality 😅
If a woman did everything the last guy did do you think she would be in the wrong?
ong just found this channel today and yall speakin mad fax like this shi so true
What if he actually liked her and wanted long-term, but she messed it up and changed his whole demeanor of her when she said that
Sad world we live in
That one dude was speaking from experience🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Women have the luxury of being in fantasy land way too long, but men have to leave that realm sooner and be more pragmatic
What do you mean by they have the luxury of being in Fantasyland? In what way?
3:26 they're both (man or woman) creeps, and i think most people would agree