Great video. This is a helpful distinction for me. It makes me think that men who are hyper aggressive may have learned to create and move toward tension and appear confident, but aren't as good at grounding it with the masculine. It explains to me why they are emotionally volatile like women.
Hello, Very good content, as usual. I would like to suggest to you an interview with the canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson. I think he has a lot to contribute with the themes treated on the channel. (Maybe avoiding the more polemics and political issues and focuse on the psichologycal ones.) Hope you consider this. Congrats for the work!
I thought about this too. Jordan always speaks about “Sleighing your dragons” because they hoard gold. Tension is the fear the dragon causes you and the improvements is the gold you claim, in my point of view.
"Confidence is what equals your ability to take action in the face of fear" "True Courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to proceed inspite of it". So confidence is the same as being brave or courageous?
Technically true courage would be doubting you can do something but trying anyway. Acting in the face of all doubts and fears. Confidence is knowing you can do it and doing it even if it’s uncomfortable.
I have followed your channel and a few others for a year or so now and I personally have come to understand that a man can be masculine and have the ideal attitude and physique and the right charm and mental acuity. But the issue I see now is that women are inherently and instinctively hypergamy. So if at the end of the day you are in an average joe, everyday job and the woman is a few pay grades higher than you. She wont bother with you and you wont get a look in. However if you get some serious cash behind you. Then she will be truly attentive to you.
I have clients who are physically disabled, short and chubby, bald, old, and on who have all learned to be good or great with women. I have clients who have been great with women even in the midst of financial struggles. When I was younger and totally hopeless with women, I had a roommate who was fresh out of jail, no job, no money...and he brought women home night after night. Another man I know lived in a van for a while and had a blast bringing girls back to his van. Because he owned it. He wasn't ashamed of it, and his confidence, charisma, and authenticity shone through. All the examples above did the same thing. I also have a client who models - looks like a GQ cover - and is shredded, but he came to me because in spite of that, he was still struggling with women because he didn't know how to connect with them and he still felt insecure deep down in spite of his looks and muscles. It's not your looks or money - it's who you're being and your personality as a man. Looks can help a little, sure, but they're far from the determining factor.
I haven't even watched yet, but I am assuming, let me guess, the word "tension" will be used.
Do you step into it?
and relax in your masculinity so she can be in her fe???
Feel your legs!
Brian we love you and your work :)
haha bring em on
Possibly
Great video. This is a helpful distinction for me. It makes me think that men who are hyper aggressive may have learned to create and move toward tension and appear confident, but aren't as good at grounding it with the masculine. It explains to me why they are emotionally volatile like women.
Gad it connected!
Sensational !
So illuminating. Thank you inordinately, Brian !!
Hello,
Very good content, as usual. I would like to suggest to you an interview with the canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson. I think he has a lot to contribute with the themes treated on the channel. (Maybe avoiding the more polemics and political issues and focuse on the psichologycal ones.)
Hope you consider this.
Congrats for the work!
I thought about this too. Jordan always speaks about “Sleighing your dragons” because they hoard gold. Tension is the fear the dragon causes you and the improvements is the gold you claim, in my point of view.
Great video. What attitudes support the mentality of grounding, confidence, and expressing your masculinity?
I very much appreciate your work. Keep em coming... any reading recommendations?
Important distinctions made in this one. Thanks.
Glad they helped!
"Confidence is what equals your ability to take action in the face of fear"
"True Courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to proceed inspite of it".
So confidence is the same as being brave or courageous?
True confidence certainly has courageousness in it, yes
What if you are a confident guy who wants a woman that has confidence equal to yours or close to it?
The Fearless Man Ok, so confidence does not = courage.
Technically true courage would be doubting you can do something but trying anyway. Acting in the face of all doubts and fears.
Confidence is knowing you can do it and doing it even if it’s uncomfortable.
I have followed your channel and a few others for a year or so now and I personally have come to understand that a man can be masculine and have the ideal attitude and physique and the right charm and mental acuity. But the issue I see now is that women are inherently and instinctively hypergamy. So if at the end of the day you are in an average joe, everyday job and the woman is a few pay grades higher than you. She wont bother with you and you wont get a look in.
However if you get some serious cash behind you. Then she will be truly attentive to you.
I have clients who are physically disabled, short and chubby, bald, old, and on who have all learned to be good or great with women. I have clients who have been great with women even in the midst of financial struggles. When I was younger and totally hopeless with women, I had a roommate who was fresh out of jail, no job, no money...and he brought women home night after night. Another man I know lived in a van for a while and had a blast bringing girls back to his van. Because he owned it. He wasn't ashamed of it, and his confidence, charisma, and authenticity shone through. All the examples above did the same thing. I also have a client who models - looks like a GQ cover - and is shredded, but he came to me because in spite of that, he was still struggling with women because he didn't know how to connect with them and he still felt insecure deep down in spite of his looks and muscles. It's not your looks or money - it's who you're being and your personality as a man. Looks can help a little, sure, but they're far from the determining factor.
Even as a guy that refuses to date, this is really interesting stuff.
And how come you refuse to if you don’t mind me asking? Have you dated yet ?
Have you ever considered doing events in Germany?
Some day maybe, but for now Bucharest is our spot in the UK
The Fearless Man Germany would be awesome! I'm from Germany, too. Greetings!
The Fearless Bucharest is not in UK Brian : ))
So what does it feel like to have a woman who is not feminine enough in your large container?
I would say boring?
What about having fun?
What's your question about having fun?
Curious what you think about it, all your videos are on tension which is great but I don't see you as the kind of dude out dancing