Psychiatrist Tells Parents With Daughter In Abusive Relationship: 'In Her Mind, He Has Rescued He…
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ย. 2018
- A board-certified psychiatrist weighs in on why a young woman always runs back to the arms of her boyfriend who admits to abusing her. Hear his message for her parents.
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This doctor is right on. Autumn eyes lit up when she was talking to him and she listened to him intently when he was speaking. I think he could help her. Best wishes.
@mandi coppedge What is she really???
This psychiatrist is just another abuser. I wonder how many children he has drugged.
She doesn't want help. You can't help people who don't want assistance.
The fact she’s now pregnant & in a healthy relationship. Good for you Autumn.
Is she still dating a “N”? Or a nice white guy.
What a “N”
How do you know?
Congrats to her
wait how did u find out
It cracks me up that the parents don't think they are part of the problem. They are confused about what they have created. Fools.
Abusive relationships are not always about your parents or how you were raised. I personally know how easy it is to get sucked into a toxic relationship. I was young only 18 and he was 10 years older than me. He was sweet, charming, attractive and I thought I was in love. He asked me to merry him but the honeymoon was over as soon as it started. He separated me from everyone and It took me three years to get away from him and his abuse safely. That was 40 years ago and now I am blessed to be with a man who is my best friend for 38 years now. Their are truly evil people out there and they prey on the young and inexperienced. I pray for this young lady that she see’s him for who he really is and is able to start a happy and healthy new life.
That’s yo daddy’s fault for not teaching you how a woman is supposed to be treated 🤷🏻♂️
@@thanglong5230 ….My father was very sweet man and I don’t blame him for my relationship issues. That was on me for not knowing who my ex-husband really was. He separated me from my family threatened to kill me and my parents…I was totally cut off and alone. When the opportunity to escape came up….I ran and didn’t look back.
@@meghnakanwat3251 …I pray you find the strength and find the opportunity to get away. No one deserves to be in a toxic relationship….you deserve to have true love and peace in your life. And don’t get sucked in to stay with them because they say they will change….that never happens…..it will keep getting worse.
@@mfgutierrezatcharter you didn’t pick him like you think…. He picked you! That’s how psychopaths operate!
@@meghnakanwat3251 you will end up in a box ⚰️ please read up on Psychopathy, Sociopathy and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It will give you the lightbulb moment and you will get a better understanding of what’s going on!
alternative title: dr. phil gassing up dr. charles sophy for 5 minutes
She cant find a real man so she has to settle for one of them. Theres always something defective with these girls who date them. Always.
@@VirantRoss what do you mean by them?
@@frankzimmer1428 racist ofc🙄
My, oh, my! That father sure looks scary. His "love" for his daughter is just overflowing...
Low-key he's a nars to
@@OneDoseExtraa Exactly. He scares me more than the bf. At least the bf has been honest about his abuse and is saying he wants help. Mom barely spoke, I wouldn’t be shocked at all if he is very controlling and abusive to both.
Some parents being abusive not knowing they are because of the overprotective overlove they has to their children i know that in fact cz i have been there
@@ornellatannous4738 "Overprotective overlove they HAS"... Friendly advice #1: You ought to write a new English language textbook
Advice #2: . Next, you should tackle the theme of parental "overlove".
@@NYCBG love english isn't my first language sorry for making you uncomfortable about that. I'm not referring that overlove is ok but some parents just don't know how to act with their children and result would be this
“You look very perplexed”
That was his face the whole time
They're all crazy to me
Kind of same
@@carterwatson1949 How?
yep all lost it
She cant find a real man. She has to settle for one of them. She will wisen up in 10years but no real man will want her after she used by that nasty dirty boy. Her breath probably stinks anyways.
The Dad's a freaking badass
This is exactly how I ended up getting into an abusive relationship because my mom was abusive and cruel. I had to weigh which abuse was more tolerable. I thankfully got out of the relationship to be constantly humiliated by both my parents for the rest of my life in a literal sense. I'm 40 years old and this happened when I was 18 years old. I still get negative comments from my parents about how it was my fault that I let that happen.
True love isn't someone who abuses u
girl, you ain't gotta make up some BS for smoking weed, just say you love it.
Haha, yes! Dr Phil and Dr Sophi acting like weed is the Devil's lettuce. Here in Canada it's been legalized!, while the States acts like it's comparable to meth! 🤔🤔😂😂
@@missmew3499 It is legal in my state. I got some cream for my mom's leg and she loves it. She is always going on about how she needs her marijuana, her leg is acting up.
Thats 100% right there. I talk to an addict every day on social media trying to push the legalization of Marijuana through some excuse of an illness. They can't even be honest with themselves.
@@missmew3499 because you like it it doesn't mean it is not harmful
@@kalkidanhailu8563 just because you don't like it, doesn't mean it's always bad.
So crazy how people will be so quick to jump on an abusive boyfriend but will not carry over that energy to an abusive, manipulative and controlling father. I experienced the same my entire life and if something wasn’t in his control then it was a personal attack.
i hate the father, tries to act like such a good man
Yassssss
Because the father has an explanation (mind you its not an excuse) but he has an explanation, dude been in the military complex for years. Alot of people cant properly manage the things you see.
Therefore we see two sides of the fathers issues, the boyfriend we just see his worst behaviour. For all we know the boyfriend was ruthlessly abused by his parents, but we dont see that. (Again not an excuse but an explanation)
Mmm. The other Dr is right. Where there's smoke, there's fire. The parents did something to their daughter. They need to own up and then maybe their daughter will accept help.
@ she's not spoiled she's abused
You don't know that at all. Teens say alot of stuff that just isn't true. You have No idea who the family is. STFU with the arm chair social worker talk
@@khawajarashid9531 and you know this how exactly?
Yeah she probably couldn't get her way she probably Flys off the handle when she can't have her way
where there's smoke... 😅🤣
Bruh😭😭 I can’t imagine “let’s go on the dr.Phil show he can fix us” love to watch it tho it’s too funny
That father is going to go I N on his daughter when they get home. Someone needs to check on her, no doubt that man is abusive.
right?? he clearly did something that traumatized her
If you're talking about the father, he was my 6th grade principal and I got in trouble with him many times even when I did nothing. He honestly was kinda scary
She deserves it. Nothing more disappointing to a father than what she's doing.
Let me just say being a strict parent and being an abusive parent is two different things
What people who smoke pot don’t realize that the drug itself isn’t addictive. The feeling you get from it however is. If you’ve ever taken a placebo without knowing it and think it’s working you can’t live without it. It’s also like video games you feel the need to constantly play them and it’s all you think about the joy you get when you play. I’ve dealt with that myself.
Dr.Sophy is a gem. I love him 🥰
This father is scary and controlling.
Finally some sense in this case lol
It takes all those brilliant minds to figure out that this is a jacked up young woman, barely out of her teens, is hung up on a “bad boy” plus throw in some drug addiction and voila….. toxic, abusive relationship.
Me in 1971.
"what is it you did that made her run to him?"
Annnnnd this is another reason why I'm happy being single (:
🤭😂 Agreed
Just don’t date a”N” and you’ll be fine.
ALWAYS be single! That is the wise choice
In my opinion I feel... the way she was brought up... she might have adupted a different definition of love.. by the fact that her father did hit her.. and she had to love him either way.. so she doesn't see physical assault as a bad thing in a relationship. because nomatter how her father hit her, she was still dependent on him and felt secure with him even though fear was in there.
She should just try to outsource where her sense of security comes from. And avoid both the ex boyfriend and father. Maybe an empowerment program with similar women would help
This is real dr Phil, the kind of Phil I wish they had more often but sometimes they just push for views
Lol I have sleep paralysis too! It sucks when you feel like your brains awake, but you can’t move anything. So in your mind you’re thrashing trying so hard to move. You know you are laying in bed, but you’re caught between two worlds.
Its demons.
My sleep paralysis demon likes to lick my toes when my feet poke out of the covers. I kick back muttering, “not now satin.”
Listen or play Quran in your house especially at night even if you don't understand it
@@jackalopeb9598It’s actually not like that, at all, and this is coming from someone who actually knows how to spell satan.
i love everything about dr phil show
Most women in abusive relationships were abused by one or both parents. Then stupid services tell them to tell and/or re engage with those abusive parents. Often abusive parents support THE ABUSER!
where’s your proof on this?
Thank you, doctor. Where did you get your medical degree?
Obviously that's not the case here
I like Dr.Sophie. He keeps it 💯. Somebody needs to be real with this family. What’s interesting is that it seems like she doesn’t have an independent thought. I don’t trust her. She agrees with everyone around her in the moment and plays victim.
*_Dr. Sophy always knows what’s up!! Freakin love him.._* ❤
“Everyone has a reason to smoke weed”… everyone has a reason to take meds and drink alcohol… I’ll never understand the degrading of a medicine that help a lot of people get out of deep rooted issues. Abusing it is a different matter .. but come on… 2022 and we are still dealing with that.
Girl has fault too, but the guy is something else, He needs to be taught basic manners, humanity and empathy.
Whole family needs prayer
God is in control and God will heal her and the family , seek Jesus
He loves us all 🙏🏼🔥❤️🤞🏼
Lies
@@BrownNDicker nope
Definitely agree with you!
MAAAN IM GLAD I DODGED A LONG TERM TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
Autumn AND her parents are insane!💯
This hole family is sick . The father is a control freak and he is not what you are seeing trust him no . I would bet that he has done more to her and her mother is far from what we are hearing.
dr. sophi is an icon
I'm a big fan of Dr. Sophy.😄
That little girl abuses him right back and this is a game to her
The mother almost says nothing throughout the episode. She is being abused also. Her silence is concerning.
Yeah right! Are you the boyfriend?
@@MissMarshall Don't get your knickers in a twist. I'm not disputing the boyfriend's abuse, but there are two parents in this scenario and the mother is silent. Her body language screams "helpless".
She needs to be away from her parents at least for a while.
Wish I had a guy to talk to like this. Very different in the U.K.
I’ve never hated someone’s ex-boyfriend so much he p1sses me off he looks so happy WTF this isn’t a happy situation
Dr Phil lost me on when stating all the other docs credentials when he got to him being on the board of children's services in LA county ruined it cause I was impressed at first thinking wow what a great helpful person ...to bad he really doesn't care unless he hasn't been involved with child social services long enough to know the corruption is the scariest in that organization or is actually there to start the process in correcting the problem and removing the bile that resulted from greed. NO?
Totally agree with you. This is the DCFS that allowed Gabriel Fernandez to be tortured and murdered. But sure, let's focus on how bad weed is.
This is such an ignorant comment I can''t even begin to or have the desire to explain why this is so incredibly stupid.
@@haji818721 - i couldnt believe when i read that comment either. They expect him to be personally invilvee on EVERY single case in the entire city!?🥴
2:26 that was me with the hand lmao
aye that on me, when he said👌
I have blamed myself so much for getting into an abusive relationship. Dr. Phil just described why I fell for his manipulations. He paid so much attention to me and told me everything I ever wanted to hear. He listened and pointed out that my parents didn't seem to love me because of xyz....He completely brainwashed me into feeling like he was a knight in shining armor.
The parents were too hard on her growing up for the right reasons, but overboard.
She ran to the boyfriend that was clearly not right for her, but time caught her trapped..
i wish someone said to her, "your can date a better guy who not only actually protects you and listens to you but wouldnt do nayhting to hurt you, your tryna to run away from ur parents but u should be running from de andre especially, he has u in this abusive cycle"
So D'Andre manipulated Autumn. He's cruel.
that commercial is shocking
Dr Charles Sophy was also the therapist for The spree killer “Elliot Rodger”
I said it once I'll say it again ABUSE IS NOT LOVE IT IS NOT VERBAL MENTAL EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL ABUSE and mentally she not there if she smoking up all the time she doing it so she can numb her feelings not so she can sleep
Who the heck has televised, filmed therapy??
She's not remorseful or even taking responsibility for anything 🙄 😒 like she's cool with the whole thing as f is like a game to her 😒... That's like she's not ready to be cured.. Thats madness 😠
2:12. the bigest TOOT YOUR HORN moment ive ever seen in my life.
They probably smoke weed and listen to Snoop Dogg and Dr Dre at the same time
Leave it to dr Phil to demonize “MaRiJuAnA”😂
well, if somebody came To me and said that their parents are abusive towards them and or alcoholics you know
When I first met my good friend Joe when he introduced me to his father, I knew that something was off. I didn’t know what it was, but I knew he wasn’t very friendly because he didn’t introduce himself in a polite way.
So I knew that he wasn’t a very nice Person to begin with
Why tf is the crowd laughing when Phil says he beats her like what bro
she looks so threatened, remind me of my parents..and as well only abusive men after.
and I had many many many people when I was in Special Olympics bowling saying that when they were children, he would be really nasty to them like he would yell at them and tell them to stop hanging around his son
And years and years later, he did the same thing with me. You know he didn’t even want me and Joe to hang out for coffee just hang out in general.
So yeah, it’s just and then somebody told me that He would drink lots during the day you know and that’s why he was always miserable and unhappy all the time
I was done listening to this doctor when he said that weed is a drug, and that it’s addictive!
It can be though. It depends on the usage. If someone uses it nonstop, can smoke 5 blunts in a day or always needs it, then yes it's addictive. If you over use and are dependent on it, it is a drug. Just like overeating, over indulging in alcohol, cigarettes, etc. Anything overdone/used excessively, where someone is dependent on and uses in an unhealthy way is addiction.
If someone uses for a medical reason fine, but some people also use the medical reasons to justify excessively smoking recreationally. People know what they are doing.
But it is a drug and people can get addicted.
Just like opiods are drugs that people can get addicted too.
Just because these things can be prescribed legally, dosnt mean they are not drugs.
@@martypants4088 Only 10% of people who use weed get addicted to it. And those 10% usually are using it because they have something wrong with them like depression, PTSD, anxiety, Schizophrenia, epilepsy, chronic pain, or any number of ailments.
People who use weed purely recreationally rarely develop an addiction to it because (unlike alcohol, cigarettes, or opiods) weed isn't physically addictive. People develop mental dependency on weed, but that's true for anything else. You can have an "addiction" to gambling, television, running, lifting weights, eating, video games and pretty much anything else. When people say weed is an "addictive" drug, the connotation is that it's addictive in the same way alcohol and heroin are and the science simply does not back that up.
While it is a drug, it’s VERY difficult to get addicted and if your brain is fully developed (age 25 is when the brain is fully developed) then there is no harm. However, it is a drug. :)
Girl is manipulative, lying to her parents, and her BF. The BF is abusive. Parents are blind and may have been abusive in the past, that is unknown. She needs to stop lying, parents need to shut their mouths and start listening. Abusive BF will never change. See that all the time.
She is a broken woman. Stay away from her. Too much baggage to handle
She's so pretty..... I feel so bad
goshhh wht a beauty
He missed me with the weed addiction lol
They all toxic 🤦♂️
Dr Sofie is mhmmmmm mhmmm to me
This is crazy even you DP
Her brain is gone.
*You look very perplexed*
When you choose primite values and ideology to raise your child instead of respecting science and actual facts regarding child psychology and development, just so you can cry and point finger when your child gets older and the consequences of your action hits you in the head
You hit that nail right on the head. My only just turned 21 and has held a job since graduating high school. He owns his vehicle, has never lit the 1st cigarette nor has he ever done any kind of drug. And no, I'm not delusional, he's had to be drug tested thru school for extra-curricular activities and for his job. He is respectful and contributes to the household since he still lives at home. Most importantly, he knows his value and worth and that he is loved and secure. It doesn't take much to raise your child, just too many lazy asses out there who only have kids to tie a man down or for financial gain, but the bitches can't be bothered to raise them. They leave that to society and the prison system. Such a messed up world for alot of the kids. No chance from the get go.
@@LargeMarge8671 I don't know you and I have never seen you. But the fact that he knows his worth and has self disciplin to put goals for him self makes me love you!! Thank you ❤️❤️🙏
@@nathliemajskolv3525
Thank you, so much. And I wasn't trying to toot my own horn or anything, lol.
What episode is this
With all those certifications you think you would stop killing kids or torturing them!
The father is definitely guilty of doing something to his daughter hence why he hasn’t dealt with the boyfriend.
He is certainly strict, but I don’t think he abused her physically, verbally, yes probably he’s a tough guy, she’s spoiled, not a good mix.
Even the doctor recognizes the family abuse but everybody is puzzyfooting around it to attack the bf for the part that he plays
For me,everybody in this case are so crazy and trying to blame each other,it's nuts,it's not normal for a healthy people's to do it.everybody in this case are lying,they all need a professional help for God sake.
Bro she loves it
Weed ? Lol please you’re fired sir
People laughing in the background are so ignorant it’s not funny
Shut up Leigh
@@ryan_is_fine1153 why are you even mad?
weed ain't the problem here doc
When will Dr.Phil put his own kids on the show? Or, are they perfect? 😑 These people will do anything for money it seem....
He is a satanist , looks when he say texas
That's my vice principal
Dr Phil needs to send the boyfriend to the ranch and leave him there...
Well, she got her 15 minutes. Now what?
so yeah, there might be a time where somebody might tell me that their parents are being abusive towards them or maybe their mother or their father
And I might be a little bit quick to jump in and save them without using my better judgement you know getting to know them first to see if they are actually being abusive
because if the person was being abusive and was actually being beaten by their own parents or by either or parent, there will be some signs there would be bruises on their arms or on their legs. You know they would try to cover up, but you can always tell always see that something isn’t right with the colour of that person’s skin
So I would know right away that they have been physically beaten by somebody, but if they aren’t physically beaten, and they don’t have any bruises on them or any kind of marks on them
I know that they were lying that they were just trying to get attention and for whatever reason I will not support that type of behaviour
Lady keep your eyes close and pretend that you are sleeping it's not hard i tried it 3 times and it worked it knows that you are afraid but not that you are sleeping at all
Ahhh damn I don't it's good thing or not
Dr Phil what
His name is Dr
i wonder if they are still together
No she's happy with someone else and pregnant
Everyone who appears on this show is more crazy than the Joker.
The fact that they're are people saying no man will want her because of the emotional and psychological damage a man caused to her as if she should fix herself for men is honestly so stupid and twisted that it's laughable. Yeah she needs help, but some of you do too....
Bro this is my principal
What is his full name
I can tell he is a good father by offering the psychiatrist to shake hand first
What does that have to do with being a good father? Lmao
@@sarcasticstranger3817 im not sure if the boyfriend was telling te truth, but if even he did, to me the father regrets that and also blame himself for her daughter to ended up being in a toxic relationship.. i can be wrong though its just seems to me that he was there to fight for her daughter and her boyfriend is really disrespectful if u watch the other video where he did this annoying face when the father is talking
@@sausanrajulisman4501 This man simply has good manners, he knows how to give good impressions on television - very inteligent move to gain trust and symphaty. People can be polite outside and also cruel behind closed doors. And sadly the worst kind of abusers often are that way.
@@sausanrajulisman4501 The boyfriend on the other hand is just dumb. Simple man and a coward for hitting a woman.
Why isn’t dr.Phil focusing on the parents abusive ways towards her??
Sounds like demons are attacking her in her sleep.
They nerd to leave people alone about smoking weed like read some new studies thank you
The mastermind of this debacle is Autumn. She is sly and knows how to manipulate men like her father, boyfriend, and now Dr. Phil.
The amount of projecting or personal experiences in these comments is wild. There’s a strict military father, and an abusive boyfriend. The strict military father doesn’t have to be abusive for the girl to want to run to the guy. It’s simply the path of least resistance. It’s like when kids go to their friends house and they get to do all the things they aren’t allowed to do at home like eat tons of candy and watch tv and play video games and not do chores. A strong male figure doesn’t have to be abusive just because he has the capacity to be scary. If you want to blame the parents for how the daughter turned out, you should realize school, and friends have a major role in development as well, and very likely could have fueled the daughters idea that her home was something to be avoided.