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- Dr. Phil drills down to determine why a teen acts out and threatens violence. And, why does he call her “unsocialized” and “immature”?
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The face she made when doctor Phil said she was unsocialized 😂😂
lolo
just saw that and read this comment.
👁👄👁 Loooool 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
She probably mistook the word for uncivilized, which...based on her behavior could be debatable lol
She proved him right
i love when she said she doesnt know what hierarchy means, and i know dr phil knew she felt less than because of that, so he so sincerely said that its okay and went on explaining what it meant
melloyehet i am 34 most teenager girls do know
@@timothywait9457 but some don’t
The way she moves her head and speaks along with how she doesn't care is annoying so she'd just destroy my life if I had a child like her or was even stuck with her in the same class-
@@Jazzyb44455 bruh u annoying af
@@Jazzyb44455 makes sense. just a scared teenager. I had my moments as a teen and im glad they werent filmed
@@Jazzyb44455 stfu
@@edgy8806 STOP BULLYING JESSICA IF U DONT LIKE THE GIRL THEN MAKE A COMMENT BUT DONT HATE ON PPL JUST BC THEY CARE ABOUT HER
@@InsecurArties SHUT UP
This girl is the definition of a 'No Brainer'
LMAOO
@@Jazzyb44455 stfu
@@edgy8806 no u
Yeah
she prob think she quirky cus she wont say the word "family".
3:48
“you chose not to”
“yêauhhh”
"is that so?"
"YEP"
HER ATTITUDE IS SO ANNOYING
If that was my daughter, she would have a mattress on the floor and that’s it.
Her name and the spelling of says more than enough.
haha “would you like a cookie?” 😂
Her mom should have given two slaps when she was a child. Then she wouldnt have been in this show
Is the other lady Destoni's aunt?
The end here was funny. 🤣😂🤣😂
If I spoke to my mother that way and behaved this way, I wouldve gotten a one way ticket to meet jesus.
Ikr id get a v.i.p pass to meet him
Lmfaoooo 😂😂😂 same.
And that attitude is just as bad.
@@Jazzyb44455 dong be rude plz
@@Jazzyb44455 did we asked ?
She gives me a "I'm not like other girls," type of vibe
Fr fr
@@Jazzyb44455 If someone wanna be loved and supported then that person needs to be open and not attack everyone who approach cause feel good playing the victim
like a kinda pick me,pick me vibes
@@nolimits300 I think they were being sarcastic lmao
Nvm they’re being serious I saw her other comments
@@Jazzyb44455 See many people feel that way, I think I’ve had a lot of things happen to me, including having my father and the following father figures leaving my life from young and as I grew. However, this does NOT give us the right to act out and give other people trouble because we feel troubled. Handle your issues maturely, figure the world out because understanding is key and all of us must be held to that truth.
The second hand embarrassment I cant 😐✋🏼
@@Jazzyb44455 omg shut up
U forgot the second hand 😔 u only put one
@@praiseakinyele3823 how about you shut up 😁
@@praiseakinyele3823 omg shut up
@@nevaeh8419 no lol
Her facial expressions 😂
BRUH I KNOW
I can’t help but laugh 😂
*she has me deaddddd*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
BRUH SHE WAS LIKE 😐😥😲🤕🤧🥴🤤🤨😕🥺😒
Dr. Phill is right on this one. She has a really thick layer of emotional armor on.
Sure💯
She needs a Robbin Williams to cut through that armour.
Shes still a little rude
Wdym emotional armor
She's putting on such a front. She needs a therapist to chip away at there barriers
I don't know nothin about this besides this video but when I watch stuff like this I hope that the kid starts to learn something about why they even do the things they do, that can be difficult to grasp at times, stuff like abuse or neglect or social awkwardness or an undiagnosed case of autism can become so internalized that your own mind doesn't even make sense anymore
Basically I sympathize with her, I see a damaged person who needs help, not an evil brat
Good luck to that therapist he or she gonna need it if the person dont want to open up to the therapist he or she not gonna make that person to talk so good luck
@@Jazzyb44455 how old are you you sound like a teenager yourself i am 34 it seems it seems its mostly teens in comments
She's beyond help at this point. She chooses to be this way towards everyone else. Does she need help? Absolutely! But she is beyond it at this point. Lock her up straight away
A therapist would probably make it worse she’s behaving this way because she has no father and her mother had driven her crazy
That girl looks like those 3 group of girls in school Brittany, Jennifer ,and Ashley and she’s the head of the squad. She’s the brittany
What Brittany hurt you?! 😂
At my school it started out as three girls. But as more and more and more and more and more people like them came. Now there are like 20 of them
I come up with names in some situations and they don’t relate to anyone i knew.
@Ashley Kuhl Same with Karen's lol. We don't make the stereotypes, we just accept them.
@Ashley Kuhl Its a big stereotype and funnily enough I’ve met this group in MULTIPLE schools. Not even kidding one of them always had one of these names
when she said "would you like a cookie?" died of second hand embarassment
She sounded dum that’s all :/
i am not embarrassed when she said that, but i feel sad for her because her behaving like that won't help herself at all.
she ate that
She’s clearly not very smart, but pretends like she knows everything.
this
True💯
Part of me is wondering if she's suffering some other issues... People said the same stuff about me that you said, but they didn't see that my mother was horribly abusive and I was a child unable to express the problem 🤔
@@PPikes her possibly going through abuse or a deeper issue doesnt take away from the fact that she appears to he unintelligent
THIS
Prayer is the easiest way to meet God. Talking to your mother like this is faster.
PLEASE
@@Andy_1777 Problem?
@@meagankestle412 get with the program sis, there’s no problem
Lmaooo
They're white it's not surprising to me
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 Your parents failed you if you think racism is okay.
She's afraid of authority and she's afraid of being controlled. I wonder if someone who had power over her abused her in some way when she was younger.
No one over looks this
She’s not afraid of authority, she has trust issues with those who are closest to her. She clearly has respect for Dr Phil
She probably just a spoiled brat.
@@realretrorelapse That's the quick, cheap answer. Twenty percent of American kids are raped or sodomized by age 15, and she could be one. America is not Beaver Cleaver's world any more.
i dont think she get abused when she was a child.
poor personality or lack of respect will makes you like her.
or just a child she has their dark inner motives.
she is a child and her brain doesnt function like a adult.
She acts like a 7 year old trying to be tough.
Nah like a 1 or 2 year old
"No OnEs ThE hEaD oF wHaT yOu JuSt SaId"
..."Family"
"YeAh No"
Lol she's just so confused and full of herself.
Hierarchy 😅
😂😂😂
My mom would slapped me so hard for even thinking making face like that 😂😂😂
Same😂
Dr. Phil won't let you do that. Cuts into his revenue if the kids don't act like dumb, spoiled brats.
Same 🤣🤣
Time to get new parents
My 10 year old sister has a higher vocab
My name is Maya too!
@@polsenggg7034 there was literally nobody named maya in this interaction
@@isaac.2031 because maya
@@isaac.2031 my name is Maya too!
:^ ok
Hahah would you like a cookie?!
YO I DIED WHEN SHE SAID THAT- 💀
"Do you want a cookie? 🙄"
"No, but do you? I made it with cyanide."
My mom would have slapped me right out of that chair.
0:15 *WOULD YOU LIKE A COOKIE?!*
I would love a cookie
I don't think she's dumb, I feel like its rlly just a front, ik alot of bullied and depressed kids like this, she puts up a front to hide her insecurities by only thinking of herself causing her to just uninentionaly disconnect from reality of things, tho of course that doesn't exsuse what she has said and done
No, she is one of the most dumb people I have ever seen. Her reaction and inability to process things proves it.
@@SatinN54 okkkk but do u know if she’s had trauma ?
@@redblues8821 having trauma doesn’t correlate with low intellect. Trauma is irrelevant here
@@SatinN54 so true, she unable to understand what dr phill told her. she need education, dicipline and asian mom.
@@asyeela8518 🤣🤣 asian mom
i feel like putting her in front of a crowd and a camera while asking her about these things isnt a rlly good way to go, if i was up there and he asks me what im afraid of i wouldnt tell him tbh but if we were alone id feel safer and tell him
It was more rhetoric than anything. He was trying to get her to see her behavior is a reflection of fear... In other words its to say you're not fooling anyone pretending to be tough
id tell him the truth. saves her acting that way in front of the entire country
@@hannahp.fletcher9969 as much as i hate this girl, it's difficult to tell the truth when you're in front of an entire crowd like that to something that you feel is personal
@@Robloxchat123
And that's one of the main problems with Dr. Phil ...
I see a therapist on a weekly basis, and I have built up enough confidence in her, that I've been able to tell her things perhaps only one other person knows ...
But to have my sessions, with her, in front of not only a television audience, and broadcast across the nation ...?
For one, she wouldn't dream of such a stupid idea, primarily because of my safety, but she would lose her licence, and possibly face criminal charges.
There are times when Dr. Phil is right. But he also needs to know his limitations, such as this case, which can only really be handled with her, in a room, with a therapist she can trusts, because they've been able to get past her defenses, without demeaning her. Then, and only then, will she actually admit to what she is afraid of ...
Unfortunately, though, since he has been doing this for more than 3,000 episodes, he has gone way past that point where he understands somethings are just too damn sensitive to handle in the way he does ...
See Dr. Todd Grande's videos --- whom is himself a Licensed and Registered Clinical Psychologist --- on his views on Dr. Phil, one practitioner to another ...
Welll it isn't dr Phil's fault people chose to go on dr Phil
The way she sort of shuts down when he asks about her fears, and what she says about people telling her to just "take a deep breath"---she so obviously needs real therapeutic help and her mother didn't provide it before her problems snowballed.
There's more to this kid than a bad attitude
It’s fascinating watching her emotions change and as her safe guards come down
Dr. Phil does have an amazing way of getting people who've gone through so much pain and suffering to start to open up more and feel comfortable with him, especially when he can prove that he's providing them a safe space to gain more insight on their issues and ask for help once they realize how much they need it.
Everyone with scary parents knows this attitude is a free ticket to Jesus 😌
*her facial expressions are killing me*
When she gets older this will be so embarrassing for her to watch all over again
Probably not!! She’s craving attention. Plus some mental and anger problems there.
If only she changed when older
i’m 18 and still see a hurt little girl begging for help from some who doesn’t care. so idk what ur talking about
thats her fault for the way she was acting
her face when he said she’s unsocialized😂
😂😂🤣
Why she glitching?
She's of course scared.
i identify as michael jackson and my pronouns are hee/hee
Yo- Im hee/hee now
😂
Roflmao This comment is gold
😭
transphobia, hilarious 😐
Here is an example of a kid that never got disciplined.
It can be more than that
how is he so patient, I would have lost it with her
If I acted like that in front of my parents i would be in a body cast.
“Congratulations, would you like a cookie?” :| 🍪 😂
This girl is out of control, but I do agree with her about the “take a deep breath” thing.
If i acted remotely like this i would probably be dead
Also what teenager doesn't know what hierarchy means
There's probably a lot of them that don't know what it means.
@@theshadowmanshow2995 yeah a lot of other stupid People
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 or some people that have never come across that word before?
@@jayy17783 well
Maybe people that didn't go to school? Yh them
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 not everyone learns about that word at school. I learnt that word outside of school, and have yet to see any teacher teach the word
If i talked to my mom like that i will get thrown across the room no joke 😂
Same :)
3:52 legit that's the face my 5 year old sister makes at me when she's mad at me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Destoni is definitely a 5 year old trapped in a 14 years old body here. She is not thee only person who lived in a tough house hold. Hope things scare Destoni straight these days😂
The mother called the kid 'Destoni', she was doomed from the start
Well, her “destiny” could have been a positive one, it doesn’t have to have negative connotations. She seems to be choosing to have a negative destiny
I generally thought of Anna when she was like WHAT ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF
and then Elsa rages
🤣🤣🤣
"I SAID ENOUGH!" *ice powers*
@Julia Summer 💀
does anyone know where this girl is now? or at least her name?
That's confidential mah dude
Her name is destoni
@@OfficalMaryScott ur a madlad
She’s back at home now, she has an Instagram where she mentioned it
Pupper I mean they mention her name on the show and what treatment program or facility, etc she went to, I don’t remember exactly what it was though.
I feel sorry for this girl and for all she’s been through, and her father is a piece of hateful garbage, but that doesn’t mean that I condone her behavior. I hope she’s doing a lot better, and did pray for her as well.
Let the comments begin
This girl is hurting really bad. This is just an exterior she's putting up to prevent herself from breaking down. Hope she heals
This is such a sad comment section
Oddly enough I was thinking the same thing
If she was my daughter, I would take away everything: her cellphone, internet access, and all of her technology devices. She seriously needs to get off her high horse and get a serious reality check.
Agreed. Her attitude makes me think how my mother would react and it’ll be a one way express ticket to see Jesus LOL! these kids need a old school discipline type of thing they’re so spoiled now a days they don’t know the work/reward system. I didn’t get my first game system until I got good grades! but that makes me more appreciative of everything my mother gives!
Why weren't you this child mother?
Been there and done that 😂 .. my daughter is 24 now and she laughs now and is grateful for me taking away her phone and laptop .. looking at this child now I’m thinking gosh my daughter was an angel and I took away her things only because she didn’t clean her room up and was alittle bit cheeky .. by stomping up the stairs in a huff lol
DR PHIL TURNED THE COMMENTS ON????
WOOO
Obviously if you can comment
Covid ....we are his live audience now 🤣
@juan mendez I knew I was tripping- goddamn acid
Last year
If I ever spoke to my parents like that I'd be hospitalized. These kids have no respect my daughter would never disrespect parents because she is being raised right
Dr phil: What are you afraid of?
Me: Im scared of you roasting me
If she is unsocialized that is on her parents
Dr Phil: That tells me that you're unsocialized
Teen: 😠
Me: 😂😂😂😂
2:52
That face she made 🥴🥴🥴
Want a cookie? 0:15
The question shouldn't be "what is wrong with you let's figure out the problem" it should be "what went wrong parenting-wise that made you so rebellious to authority, let's figure out the problem"
I thought people like these only existed in the movies
0:15 “would you like a cookie?” 😂😂😂😂
Ok, what does that even suppose to mean, Why does everyone ask that?, I'm confused
When I was a kid, this sarcasm and screaming would have gotten me 5 swats with the belt. Not out of my parents anger either. I was put on restriction, and the "belt appointment" came the next day, after we were all calm. We would talk about the attitudes, discuss further punishment, (yard duty. Gardening, cleaning up clippings, mowing lawns) after the belt appointment. This discipline was usually followed by "lost allowance" for a week or more. I only went thru this ONE TIME. It HUMBLED my attempt to control my parents and do as I pleased.
Dr Phil: is your mom the head of the family?
Her: No
Dr Phil: are you the head of the family?
Her: No
I thought she would’ve said yes lol 😂
Me too
That girl reminds me of myself when i was 4 (except I never threatened to bring a weapon to my school) then I actually matured and I’m *still* younger then her!
3:45 to 3:55 is the BEST wakeup call on Dr Phil ever.
Unsocialized, maybe she is and introvert person and maybe she don't like to be with people and likes being on her own, I don't see anything bad in this, people sometimes are not worthy of spending time with or around them, and it's only getting on the nerves, or maybe she needs time for herself to decided if she will open up to the others and be social person, she has little right with being carefull with trusting anyone or that she want to decide if or when she will be social person and that she will choose around what kind of people she want to be, cause she knows that people can be cruel, and no one will understand her, that she will be judged, now she's acting like she doesn't care but on her face is clear, question what I'm doing wrong to being treated like this? What others wants from me? Why nobody see that I'm in pain inside, why nobody wants even to try to understand me? If am I really so bad? And she is lost and starts to believe in things that people call her, and she's saying well maybe I am how you saying about me so what? She lets people see what they want and what they want to make of her, but she's hurting and wants to be alone, run, hide in dark room and cry till she will heal herself and build herself up
Televised or not, I would have been whooped if I’d spoken to either of my parents that way
That girl makes my blood boils😑😑
I don’t understand how parents allow they’re kids to act in such a way.
Alot of people are wandering if she's been abused. Sometimes people are just angry for no reason. You don't need to go through any thing to hate the world. Sometimes your are just a really angry resentful person.
like idk why parents are so surprised when their kids turn out to be like this when they give them names like "destoni" like wtaf kinda name is that
I can almost hear Gene Wilder calling her name in Young Frankenstein, "Destiny, Destiny,.,"
Im hurting for her, she is VERY damaged. Im so sorry..
These American parents are so gooooood with their children even I don't know if I've acted like what my indian parents would have done to me 🙄 i mean any kid doesn't born with insulting others it's the parents who allows it & tolerate!
I hope this girl gets some help 😬😬 cause yikes!!! She’s really putting on a front but i hope she gets it together before she runs into somebody that’s really with the shits and will knock some sense into her. 🥴
Sorry but this child was left behind😂
I don't understand why I am feeling embarrassed
I love how Dr.Phil slowly breaks down people
He literally just made her question her entire existance, outside of our reality even
she shuts down almost straight away, she’s putting up a front. she needs help and support,, but putting her on a show won’t help.. She needs help, she’s not a bad kid she’s lost and confused. bless her x
God damn just bring these kids to Ghana and they will change like in a week.its your country that sees spanking as an assault but in Ghana it is called punishment ,and they will get a very good one for having that attitude
Her worst fear is when Wendy’s runs out of fries at 2 am
This girl NEEDS help 😂😂
This but unironically
@@Jazzyb44455 stfu
okay but she’s kinda funny ngl 💀
her facial expressions tho. I feel second hand embarrassment right now
Her initial reaction to Dr. Phil's question was very interesting to me. It's almost like a part of her felt like she'd never even asked herself that question before or hasn't asked it to herself for a while. She'd probably become so accustomed to lashing out that she didn't feel like there was anything that could be done to change it. That would indicate she has very low self esteem.
If I as much rolled my eyes, my parents would of broken out the wooden paddles and beat my face in! Now my parents were very abusing but all I know is what I would do if my child acted out like this! It’s starts early!!! Wow
The law has giving them so much power and works someway in their way!! Where I come from, you dare not!!
I would be so ashamed to be her parent...I got told I was too strict with my kids, but would they dare act like this? God no
She knows what chlamydia is but doesn’t know the definition of hierarchy? Priorities.
She's a... special bundle of special. :P
I am so grateful that I have had the pleasure of having two wonderfully amazing kids.
She's afraid of losing an eye with those claws she calls nails
Yikes
@@Jazzyb44455 that’s no excuse for what she did though. It’s a explain of why but not an excuse. She should still be held accountable for her actions.
@@Jazzyb44455 stfu
She isn't exactly the sharpest tool in the shed, is she?
You can tell she's been bullied heavly when she put her head down and starting to think should she come clean or carry on being the way she is I mean I could totally wrong about her
If I were to disrespect my elders when I was young, I would be asking you all today have you seen my teeth?