The best way to get rid of them is to ignore them, completely! We met once on the street, he saw me, came over to say hello, I turned to the other side and walked away.
If you hurt the narcissist to get rid of them, it is very likely that the narcissist will come back to hurt you. Narcissists are highly vengeful. Don't do it.
High Emotional Thinking Causes One To Believe That The Narcissist Is Wounded. 🚩 Beware Of The Hoover Trigger. 🖤 Thank You HG Tudor. 🔺 A No Contact Regime Is Best!!
'Fury' is an excellent book that taught me why the narcissist must respond to wounding in that manner. HG's use of the other professor during that challenging interview was quite entertaining to read about.
Having a very painfully thick malignant narcissist for a neighbour is not fun. Witnessing them making themselves ill due to receiving the odd response, rather than a reaction does give some consolation for the constant stalking/harrassment.
I’m glad you explained that … I did substantially wound him (if I’m understanding correctly, after he discarded me during a texting fight … I didn’t even answer him back … I went completely silent). It’s been just over a year … he’s been completely silent. I do assume he’s busy with other supplies … he seems to have a rep as a “serial dater”, lol. I thought I was probably never going to come up on the radar because I ignored him immediately. I guess I’ll have to keep “watch” 👀
I would elaborate more, but I don't think there is a need, so I'll keep it simple. Is going no contact a cause of a wound? (Yes, I know it does). My story: After years of no contact, I finally saw her last year at a public event, even though she had moved away years ago. She never spoke to me, but she kept getting closer to me, almost to the point of standing beside me. I refused to speak with her and acted like I didn't know who she was. After I kept doing this, eventually the Fury came out. For me, it had been many years, and I saw no point in speaking with her. I didn't fully understand her until this year, and I've always wondered how our interaction could have progressed. It could have been as straightforward as a simple "top off" from a long-ago victim, or it could have involved some sort of shelving. See, the reason my act was so convincing was because I wasn't entirely sure it was her; I hadn't seen her in fourteen years, and she looked different now. Therefore, the wound could have resulted from my ignoring her or from acting as if I didn't know who she was or remembered her. This was indeed an unusual situation.
Let me clarify one thing, which I did a poor job of. I recently had this idea that she didn't know I went out of contact when I didn't even know what that was. (Long story.) I just thought: What is the point of knowing this person anymore, and especially the point of speaking with her if that really was her after such a period of time? I was at 90% of ascertain. The point is this: Could the midranger finally realize I went no contact all those years ago and thus be the reason for her fury?
@@1976smbno, it’s the fact that you ignored her in person after so many years. An in person ignoring experience wounds a narcissist deeply because it means they don’t even exist to you, they are so insignificant that you have forgotten them. That is devastating for a narcissist because it threatens their control and shows them that their false self is a facade and that their true self is easily forgotten. And voila… you have ignited fury 🔥
@@kryssis69 where as an empathic person would be like, I just wanted to speak with you a few minutes. So whatever, piss off and just moved on. Kinda like what I did w/o the confusion.
@@kryssis69 I'll give you a bonus: What I seen the fury irrupt, I couldn't help but give her a look of "what is wrong with you". Yeah that probably didn't help any.
The best way to get rid of them is to ignore them, completely! We met once on the street, he saw me, came over to say hello, I turned to the other side and walked away.
No contact is best 👍👍👍
If you hurt the narcissist to get rid of them, it is very likely that the narcissist will come back to hurt you.
Narcissists are highly vengeful.
Don't do it.
Hi HG, no contact is my weapon.
If you write that... it means you didn't understand what he is presenting.
The narc will find ways
Good for you, the correct approach as long as it's a full and robust NC. The narc may try but it doesn't mean they will succeed.
High Emotional Thinking Causes One
To Believe That The Narcissist Is
Wounded. 🚩 Beware Of The Hoover
Trigger. 🖤 Thank You HG Tudor.
🔺 A No Contact Regime Is Best!!
Thank you HG❤
'Fury' is an excellent book that taught me why the narcissist must respond to wounding in that manner. HG's use of the other professor during that challenging interview was quite entertaining to read about.
A very Informative , eye opening Explanation. This is so helpful in putting all the pieces together. Thankyou for the much Appreciated Content HG.❤️🌻
Hello H.G.💫
Having a very painfully thick malignant narcissist for a neighbour is not fun. Witnessing them making themselves ill due to receiving the odd response, rather than a reaction does give some consolation for the constant stalking/harrassment.
Enjoy 😉
I’m glad you explained that … I did substantially wound him (if I’m understanding correctly, after he discarded me during a texting fight … I didn’t even answer him back … I went completely silent).
It’s been just over a year … he’s been completely silent. I do assume he’s busy with other supplies … he seems to have a rep as a “serial dater”, lol.
I thought I was probably never going to come up on the radar because I ignored him immediately.
I guess I’ll have to keep “watch” 👀
They can contact you even years later. Just keep on ignoring ❤
I would elaborate more, but I don't think there is a need, so I'll keep it simple. Is going no contact a cause of a wound? (Yes, I know it does). My story: After years of no contact, I finally saw her last year at a public event, even though she had moved away years ago. She never spoke to me, but she kept getting closer to me, almost to the point of standing beside me. I refused to speak with her and acted like I didn't know who she was. After I kept doing this, eventually the Fury came out. For me, it had been many years, and I saw no point in speaking with her. I didn't fully understand her until this year, and I've always wondered how our interaction could have progressed. It could have been as straightforward as a simple "top off" from a long-ago victim, or it could have involved some sort of shelving. See, the reason my act was so convincing was because I wasn't entirely sure it was her; I hadn't seen her in fourteen years, and she looked different now. Therefore, the wound could have resulted from my ignoring her or from acting as if I didn't know who she was or remembered her. This was indeed an unusual situation.
Let me clarify one thing, which I did a poor job of. I recently had this idea that she didn't know I went out of contact when I didn't even know what that was. (Long story.) I just thought: What is the point of knowing this person anymore, and especially the point of speaking with her if that really was her after such a period of time? I was at 90% of ascertain. The point is this: Could the midranger finally realize I went no contact all those years ago and thus be the reason for her fury?
@@1976smbno, it’s the fact that you ignored her in person after so many years. An in person ignoring experience wounds a narcissist deeply because it means they don’t even exist to you, they are so insignificant that you have forgotten them. That is devastating for a narcissist because it threatens their control and shows them that their false self is a facade and that their true self is easily forgotten. And voila… you have ignited fury 🔥
@@kryssis69 Thank you!
@@kryssis69 where as an empathic person would be like, I just wanted to speak with you a few minutes. So whatever, piss off and just moved on. Kinda like what I did w/o the confusion.
@@kryssis69 I'll give you a bonus: What I seen the fury irrupt, I couldn't help but give her a look of "what is wrong with you". Yeah that probably didn't help any.