Why A Marriage Fails Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'Why A Marriage Fails Before Marriage'
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  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    ....the wedding is not the marriage....the wedding is for people, the marriage is for you...the wedding is a ceremony, the marriage is a covenant..." Some of the most powerful words I have ever heard about marriage.
    Thank you Pastor K. 🙏✝️🕊

    • @nightstella6292
      @nightstella6292 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pastor Kingsley is the most organic marriage counselors I have ever listened too. His biblical principles of marriage counseling are of high bar. God bless you and your beautiful wife Pastor Milly K. O

  • @kwobsiemarius9613
    @kwobsiemarius9613 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I watched this man's video every day at work while working. Can never have wished for something else

    • @TheFinanciallyWoman
      @TheFinanciallyWoman ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No lie! Not just whole working, during my drive to work, at home… literally every time I get!!!! He’s indeed a blessing… him and his wife 😊😊😊

  • @DebbCrystal
    @DebbCrystal ปีที่แล้ว +90

    PK you have a way of making us stay glued to our screen when you teach. Your sense of humor makes the teaching more interesting. God bless you sir

    • @winiowiny7258
      @winiowiny7258 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      10001%

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True. I can give him my full attention1

    • @ngeeegirl
      @ngeeegirl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A very intelligent legend, infuses humour, and deep seated knowledge! Thank God for you sir❤

    • @kellyo4932
      @kellyo4932 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pastor K has an amazing way of always adding stories and life events into the Word - makes it so relatable! God bless Him!

  • @emiridbest
    @emiridbest ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I've never heard emotional intelligence being explained meaningfully like this before... You're a blessing to me everyday.

  • @okonkwotina2172
    @okonkwotina2172 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Pst K.O makes teaching so easy with his good sense of humor. Even though our woke generation and social media has made marriage and relationship seem unreal, i am so glad that people like you are still here fixing all that has been broken and preparing us, the yet to be married towards the journey of marriage. I pray for a good marriage and the zeal to practice all the good teachings of marriage. You are such a blessing to our generation sir.

  • @kingsman8209
    @kingsman8209 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank God for social media, if not where will I listen to this type of massage in my life

  • @tuwirejimusole1673
    @tuwirejimusole1673 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We need a whole year conference in Malawi our men need these messages

  • @anetorsharon7356
    @anetorsharon7356 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Everyone has a spirit that influences them. 👌God changes your nature once you are born again.

  • @esenamawudey1619
    @esenamawudey1619 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Is your normal normal? God bless you Pastor. Greetings from Ghana.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hahahahaha pk, you nailed it again. You can't successfully fail without useless friends.

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Chai Pastor K is something else. His teachings are always so light and fun but very serious and factual.
    It's the dance everything for me 😅😅😅😅

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Ah! 44mins just blew past like 4mins; I want the continuation - this is sweet!

  • @amarachianyanwu929
    @amarachianyanwu929 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God bless you greatly Sir 🙌🙏 you're indeed a blessing to our generation..
    LORD help to marry right and be the right person take away every spirit of confusion in me and make me focus in fulfilling your purpose in life...

  • @gistwithmotayo9109
    @gistwithmotayo9109 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Pastor Kingsley,you are such a blessing to this generation 🔥🔥

  • @ngoziejedimu1791
    @ngoziejedimu1791 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I watch some of your videos and almost feel like crying out of regrets.
    I should have gotten proper help along the way. May I stop beating myself up. 23 years 😔 😔

    • @David_na95
      @David_na95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is well as all hope is not lost,videos and resource materials by Pk and PM can provide some help,believing and trusting God who is able to make all things new too.

    • @abikayministries8043
      @abikayministries8043 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's well dear
      All is not lost
      Forgive yourself

    • @blessed_one_
      @blessed_one_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When you know better, you do better. Stop beating yourself up please. God gives beauty for ashes. Hugs.

  • @mbankwenesheronhalle8370
    @mbankwenesheronhalle8370 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is sooooo true
    Being on the same path and being aligned

  • @TariaDogood
    @TariaDogood ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pk is killing me here o. Interesting to know and learn from your ministry

  • @margaretkamara415
    @margaretkamara415 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg Pastor K 🤣🤣, may God continue to bless and use you mighty. You and your beautiful wife are a blessing to me

  • @blessedlilyhumble7287
    @blessedlilyhumble7287 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More grace to you Pastor K. You are really a blessing. Remain blessed.

  • @amarachichiedozie1115
    @amarachichiedozie1115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I look forward to watching your videos…, so blessed. Thank you sir

  • @izyomijeh1805
    @izyomijeh1805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you PK. Your messages are always timely.

  • @nwobiarita5375
    @nwobiarita5375 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm blessed to be a partaker of your teachings

  • @shekwoloisrael3400
    @shekwoloisrael3400 ปีที่แล้ว

    A much needed msg for this generation! More grace sir!

  • @relaxationsounds7654
    @relaxationsounds7654 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really like your teaching, may God bless you and your family

  • @edikanudom692
    @edikanudom692 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pk does it effortlessly
    You’re a blessing to our generation.

  • @ahimbisibwebonita7598
    @ahimbisibwebonita7598 ปีที่แล้ว

    Clear standard, vision. Thank you sir

  • @abigailvictor-akaeke3184
    @abigailvictor-akaeke3184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More grace to you sir.

  • @faywhitemann6829
    @faywhitemann6829 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for this wonderful teaching, i really needed this..

  • @Rainloveers
    @Rainloveers ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Standard and communication 💯

  • @womanonguard
    @womanonguard ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful teaching Sir. It's not about how many supporters(useless supporters) one has it's about being surrounded by expertise

  • @queenprettyjay2215
    @queenprettyjay2215 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you sir... What a great message

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for always pointing us in the right way for our relationships 😊

  • @besongefrankowasu185
    @besongefrankowasu185 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much sir for inspiring us in our relationships. May God continue to enrich you in every domain. May humility never depart from you. Amen

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir am so blessed today watching this great message

  • @miriananiwoko1620
    @miriananiwoko1620 ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting addicted to your relationship talk shows learning and seeing if I'm ready for marriage ☺️

  • @davidpaul9076
    @davidpaul9076 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much God bless you.

  • @kelechiuwakonye5683
    @kelechiuwakonye5683 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I laughed at this your story, no be small race o 🤣🤣🤣you are just amazing with your knowledge about marriage, May the oil on your head never run dry.

  • @atangalarisatv4350
    @atangalarisatv4350 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 💕 Daddy K

  • @edimepeace5583
    @edimepeace5583 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was helpful and funny 😎
    Thank you pastor k 👏🏼

  • @elormadih9138
    @elormadih9138 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you pastor

  • @alimiatinuke6125
    @alimiatinuke6125 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Kingsley Thank you papa

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare ปีที่แล้ว

    Well explained Sir. Thanks for sharing

  • @evelynlove1033
    @evelynlove1033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir

  • @muftaumotunrayo7963
    @muftaumotunrayo7963 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir.

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi2341 ปีที่แล้ว

    “ is ur normal, normal? “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting thank you sir...

  • @blessingmemesarinze6923
    @blessingmemesarinze6923 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir 😊

  • @annejokisakye3508
    @annejokisakye3508 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am blessed so much sir may God continue to anoint you more and may His mighty merciful hand be upon you and mom Mildred your children and children 's children in Jesus's name.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 ปีที่แล้ว

    On point P k.

  • @michaelnnaji158
    @michaelnnaji158 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Precise and full of wisdom

  • @vindyprecious1531
    @vindyprecious1531 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fact 👌
    Thank you sir

  • @madupraise
    @madupraise ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise the Lord I am blessed with this words

  • @chidimma180
    @chidimma180 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time seeing a newly released video

  • @adeolusunday
    @adeolusunday ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you sir ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pastor Kingsley, you won't kill me oo. I love listening to you Jare.

  • @Amarachukwu_Aforka
    @Amarachukwu_Aforka ปีที่แล้ว

    I will continue to watch your messages sir, till I get it right

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesomeness

  • @maryotitolaye4772
    @maryotitolaye4772 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a powerful message. Thank you for always pastor K

  • @lenogmovieworld2490
    @lenogmovieworld2490 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspired

  • @called2worship740
    @called2worship740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your sense of humor "going to hell"😂🤣🤣😂😂😂
    Thank you Sir 🙏for the wisdom.

  • @jemimahusoroh5892
    @jemimahusoroh5892 ปีที่แล้ว

    PK 👏👏👏👏.

  • @sundaynyerhovwo9505
    @sundaynyerhovwo9505 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much PK😍
    Please, sir, is there a message on christians and crushing? Is it wrong to have a crush and how can one handle it?
    Thanking you sir!🙌

  • @lavviescents460
    @lavviescents460 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I must marry right.

  • @synthiandlovu3674
    @synthiandlovu3674 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂😂 , I laughed my lungs out, about the tik tok dancers

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 ปีที่แล้ว

    Once I climb this holy altar 🤣🤣🤣

  • @belindahmuripu7565
    @belindahmuripu7565 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you man of God,your messages blesses me each time,I am confident that I can never make a mistake after hearing such wise words 👏
    Greetings from Zimbabwe.

  • @ezembachinazor1771
    @ezembachinazor1771 ปีที่แล้ว

    The dance aspect ehhh😂😂😂

  • @adebayoadenike2321
    @adebayoadenike2321 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pastor K and pastor are my mentors, i want to know how to download and buy your books for singles online

  • @sarahalom4255
    @sarahalom4255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor K please how can I get your books even if I don't attend the sessions physically.

  • @annesharon2754
    @annesharon2754 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @loveth8656
    @loveth8656 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are some of the questions to ask a guy who asks for ur hand in marriage.

  • @callmezolo
    @callmezolo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THE CEREMONY AND ALL THE SEREEREE is not the marriage... Do small wedding party and discharge the people, then go home and face the real isssues of marriage

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @callmezolo, some folks have small weddings and end up getting divorced and I know this because I m a lawyer.
      The success of the marriage is not known by whether one has big or small wedding.
      The question is thus," How prepared are the parties involved?

    • @callmezolo
      @callmezolo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nnenniaifepe5073 true too.! .. i just feel anniversary should be celebrated bigger than the one-time wedding.. infact, weddings should never be LOUD 📢

  • @olowokereflorence755
    @olowokereflorence755 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕💕

  • @imonideprecious
    @imonideprecious ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First comment 🕺🕺🕺

  • @davidisaac6521
    @davidisaac6521 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is true sir the wedding is not the marriage

  • @oyinbokurekomeh9804
    @oyinbokurekomeh9804 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤😍🥰🔥

  • @nyokabikidjo
    @nyokabikidjo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is good content but too many ads. just too many

  • @evelyniziegbe8951
    @evelyniziegbe8951 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cheating would stop because you say I do!

    • @evaprince5651
      @evaprince5651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If u don’t give him want he want, ma’am he will still cheat and get it outside…

  • @MaryIke
    @MaryIke ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here i am thinking I was the first person notified 🤣🤣🤣

  • @faith_starry
    @faith_starry ปีที่แล้ว

    Please how do you savage a marriage where the husband doesn't make the right financial decision and he keeps failing in providing for the family? To worsen it, he asks his wife to provide for the house and take care of bills for him.

  • @veronicaijeoma3591
    @veronicaijeoma3591 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there any room to make amends? I caught my fiance in bed with another lady, he didn't beat me but he chased me out of his house. We are married now and he still sleeps around. He said he isn't cheating on me...that he is entitled to having more than one wife. I know that I am supposed to leave but then I don't even know where to start from.

    • @chichikekeocha5264
      @chichikekeocha5264 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is he willing to attend counselling with you? Pastor Kingsley and his wife offer counselling.

    • @veronicaijeoma3591
      @veronicaijeoma3591 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chichikekeocha5264 I might be able to convince him....can I afford the fee for the counselling?

    • @kinginspirationchannel7539
      @kinginspirationchannel7539 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You should have ended the relationship when you were still dating when he cheated on you. That was the red flag but you didn't see it....... Just continue to pray for him and get him to meet a real man of God to counsel and pray for him

    • @joyerumonah7832
      @joyerumonah7832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You heard what pK said use your head not your heart if he cheated on you now in a relationship, he will still cheat on you in marriage Alright

    • @Joydan6666
      @Joydan6666 ปีที่แล้ว

      The mistake has been made just continue praying till he changes

  • @salvationbookstores4381
    @salvationbookstores4381 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣