Dermatologist Kills Wife After Her Concerns About Cross-Dressing | Dr. Richard Sharpe Case Analysis

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  • @rumchata6569
    @rumchata6569 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    The fact that he was prom king has to be the most surprising and impressive accomplishment he had

    • @mario-qi3yw
      @mario-qi3yw ปีที่แล้ว +24

      He was successful in college. That’s also shocking.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Honestly could see him putting thousands of votes in the ballot box for himself lol

    • @larsfinlay7325
      @larsfinlay7325 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      bro imagine being one of the people that voted for him. that surreal moment when one of the cool smart kids from school shows up in the newspaper is one heck of a surprise.

    • @angelinparadise7282
      @angelinparadise7282 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr?? I was surprised too! Maybe it was a school prank...?

    • @jaex9617
      @jaex9617 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Pretty much every prom king turns out just like this. Those deals with Satan come at a cost, you know.

  • @olson.pamela
    @olson.pamela ปีที่แล้ว +400

    “People would let him treat their skin but he made their skin crawl” Dr. Grande you are so funny!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He’s Ed Gein reborn.

    • @IARRCSim
      @IARRCSim ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah. Sometimes his jokes don't work but usually they do and sometimes they're downright hilarious. That one was hilarious.

    • @EvadoCouto
      @EvadoCouto ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That made me laugh so hard. My father is a derm and a jerk. I’m going to use that next time I’m gossiping with my brother

    • @birdn4t0r7
      @birdn4t0r7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail that's an insult to ed gein

    • @user-mv4mc5xm6h
      @user-mv4mc5xm6h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cactusitude
    @cactusitude 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    If your husband starts wearing your underwear or talking about his gender confusion, run away

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      That is just shaming and conservative values pushing. Saying to abandon a loved one over that is narcissistic.

    • @suppy4254
      @suppy4254 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SporadicUploads1you should look into spousal betrayal ptsd and its connection with this exact subject. You might learn something interesting

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I'm not going to run away from a confused person. They aren't dangerous and I'd hope I loved them since I would be married to them.
      Maybe go to therapy rather than abandon a loved one in their most vulnerable time?

    • @Jebe_Noyon
      @Jebe_Noyon 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      @@SporadicUploads1shut up, you know it’s logical 🤣

    • @Jebe_Noyon
      @Jebe_Noyon 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@ImNotaRussianBot“they aren’t dangerous“…while hearing about one murdering 🤷🏼‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤣

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    More than one woman has put a guy thru school and gotten the raw end of the deal.

    • @TheSouthIsHot
      @TheSouthIsHot ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Yep. To all the ladies listening: NEVER support your husband through his education. He will dump you on the sidewalk like garbage when he's done with you. Don't marry a man (or date one for that matter) who isn't done with his education and/or settled into his career

    • @figplucker3052
      @figplucker3052 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@TheSouthIsHot Yes, they will only get forked in the end

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us ปีที่แล้ว

      Autogynephiles enjoy living off of people. It's part of their "being treated like a stupid spoiled slut/bimbo/woman" fantasy. They love to go into prostitution, live off parents, the state, take take take. I think they like to become doctors not just for the power and status but because the education process is long and if someone else is paying then they're happy to stay in school forever. I'm surprised this guy became successful. Back in the day "trans women" tended to be trustfund babies or transition once they were in power or retired, now the government provides and people are losing their kids. "girls just wanna have fun" 🙄😂 SICK SAD WORLD 🤡

    • @origamiandcats6873
      @origamiandcats6873 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Fig Plucker noted

    • @Badcompany6969...
      @Badcompany6969... ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Betty Broderick

  • @donnajanecastle4807
    @donnajanecastle4807 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    My dad went to him to check a mole and came home exclaiming what a looney tune the guy was. He was playing video games while my dad sat and waited for him to check his mole, right in the same room. It was shortly after that we heard about the murder. She should have gotten out after the first baby and stayed out!

    • @dareU2
      @dareU2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      What seriously.....🤪😁😵

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He sounds like Sam Bankman Fried

    • @theworldrealm72
      @theworldrealm72 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Wow! That shows just how small the world can seem at times. Say hi to your dad from me/us, he just became known worldwide for having visited a crazy murderous trans dermatologist and lived to tell the story. That's one amazing story and a great comment. Take care and tell your dad to stay away from mad dermatologists in the future, after all, he has a family to worry over:)

    • @thebeatnumber
      @thebeatnumber ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes, isn't it weird that she waited until he had transferred 2.9 million dollars to her, before she started having an affair and decided to leave him?

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thebeatnumber haha yeah. Quite weird

  • @coolwater55
    @coolwater55 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    She had a restraining order. The guy had beat her in the past, and was stalking her. Prime scenario for future attacks or killing.
    What the hell is wrong with our system.

  • @SaturnSenshi3105
    @SaturnSenshi3105 ปีที่แล้ว +711

    Lots of famous serial killers were cross dressers (not accusing anyone just a really weird pattern)

    • @infinitejest441
      @infinitejest441 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      John Gacy. 🤡

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s a mental disorder in and of itself only probably taken off DSM in the 70s along with other disorders so prevalent (and encouraged) these days.

    • @tylere.8436
      @tylere.8436 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because crossdressing is an abomination to God.

    • @jareya
      @jareya ปีที่แล้ว +37

      True

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade ปีที่แล้ว +225

      It's a perversion. Evil

  • @merry8545
    @merry8545 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    In loving memory of Karen Hatfield 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    “Richard’s felonious fatuous forehead fork folly forwarded him to a mental hospital…” and “Karen forged a fable to the medical staff, she told them not to focus on the forehead fork fiction because it was fictitious and fabricated.” 😂😅
    These phrases were formed in a fine and fantastic fashion. What a funny and fabulous way to describe this unforeseen fact.
    Thank you for the fun and fanciful analysis, Dr. Grande.❤

    • @jmfs3497
      @jmfs3497 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      LOL. My head began to explode under the alliteration.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😊💙Agreed

    • @Gagalover1569
      @Gagalover1569 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bam! So true. Love Dr. G’s dry, quick wit! LOL.

    • @melissavolcy317
      @melissavolcy317 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I found myself laughing a little too hard when he said that. I love Dr. Grande.

    • @Neilsowards
      @Neilsowards ปีที่แล้ว +5

      baddddd!

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom ปีที่แล้ว +621

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when a cross-dressing dermatologist murders his wife like this.

    • @curtisjeffries9640
      @curtisjeffries9640 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      🤣

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@curtisjeffries9640 :)

    • @taracat7723
      @taracat7723 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good one.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us ปีที่แล้ว

      There should be PSA "AUTOGYNEPHILES ARE POWER SEEKING NARCISSISTS DON'T ALLOW THEM TO MANIPULATE YOU". I dated one that left to blow his married boyfriend that wanted to get rid of me then he punched HIMSELF in the face so he could claim he was defending my honor and could garner sympathy. His other friend told me he faked the fight and bloody nose, I told him he was sick for saying that and never to speak to me again. Turned out to be true. Dude is a fuckin doctor. Fuckin cray cray, thought I was gonna be his beard, incubator, house slave, arm candy. Maybe get him dressed up and pegged between boyfriend visits. What's worse is I didn't avoid trans people after that, I was too kind "not all of them are narcissistic misogynists". Yeah right 😂

    • @catblack4091
      @catblack4091 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A situation LIKE that one

  • @phdtobe
    @phdtobe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    There’s no way to dress up this murderer’s criminal action here to morally justify them.

    • @corbonthec0b
      @corbonthec0b 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I see what you did there

  • @alisharocklin2741
    @alisharocklin2741 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Who needs court tv when we have Dr. Grande!

    • @terran236
      @terran236 ปีที่แล้ว

      @R Voit trutv lol garbage

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @R Voit lol what makes y’all say that?

  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    "then they finally decided to go to the correct location...they should have taken the advice of her brother and sent the best officers" 🤣🤣😂 completely straight face. Love it!

    • @cathryncampbell8555
      @cathryncampbell8555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What a superb burn, Dr. Grande!

    • @joeyoung4121
      @joeyoung4121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dr grande did a vice pres. review at the end there's the outtakes when he's can't keep a straight face. priceless Recommend Dr grande therapy

  • @lastplayer7048
    @lastplayer7048 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I hope the children in this situation are safe and have found some semblance of peace. My heart goes out to them.

    • @Paparoxx
      @Paparoxx 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ...and got the money and property. I'll bet lawyers made out on this one. The kids got an undisclosed "trust"...

  • @jennifers3828
    @jennifers3828 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “It’s as if the grinch was a dermatologist.” 🤣 I love your videos. Your voice is so calming.

  • @labotraduc8448
    @labotraduc8448 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I can't believe he was only 54 years old. He looked so much older in some of the pictures.

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The effects of testosterone are basically a one-way street. So a 54yo male, to pull off a 54yo female, generally requires a 'million billion' in surgeries.

  • @denome3725
    @denome3725 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My mother and father divorced when i was three years old and my mother often used to beat us with whatever she was finding at her disposal after drinking so much many times letting us to sleep outside even though our grandmother bought her a house especially so that all of us could live a better life. My childhood was a living hell until i was able to grow up and leave the house eventually working hard and being able to live a decent and normal life so whoever uses this as an excuse to harm another is just being extremely selfish.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @mleecthulhu
    @mleecthulhu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    The fact that Dr. Grande can pull out JOKES FOR DAYS W A STRAIGHT FACE, AND VERY PROFESSIONAL BEDSIDE MANNER! 💯😂

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What's professional about it? A flat affect is not the same as professional.

    • @Arukan
      @Arukan 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is also a feature of sociopathy

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I actually can't believe he found the success he did, given that they were both unestablished and was raising a child while both attending college. That's EXTREMELY hard to do and usually the men will just work to provide. Not try for Bachelor's degree, masters , and medical school. She had to support HIM and get abused all the while through /feel TRAPPED! I can't believe she even finished nursing school!

    • @gibememoni
      @gibememoni ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's called power

  • @bjewel3751
    @bjewel3751 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    A true narcissistic sociopath.He lacked so much self awareness that he didn’t realise he was making Karen and their home like how his dad did. You’d think him being that smart, he would recognise and try and break the chain

    • @basskitten808.
      @basskitten808. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agreed. Narcissists don't have the ability to do this though. They're essentially weak overgrown children who refuse to accept responsibility for their wrongs (even the fairly self aware ones.)

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I've learned so much about psychology from you, Dr. Grande. Thank you.

    • @carolnahigian9518
      @carolnahigian9518 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      my ex Husband R J cancelled myheat; turned off HEAT IN OUR HOME WHERE WE HAD minor children,...... pure anger& Hatred of WOMEN (ug)!

    • @NotChefCook
      @NotChefCook ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolnahigian9518 - I hope he was punished as he deserved dear .

    • @justincraig398
      @justincraig398 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tell us what your learned Jen. In a 10 page paper, 1/2 spaced , size 07 font. Due tomorrow morning 6am.

    • @jenanne31
      @jenanne31 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@justincraig398 Such a comedian! 🤣

    • @daviep520
      @daviep520 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've learned so much about myself 🤦‍♂️😩

  • @prod.arcsyne2990
    @prod.arcsyne2990 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Its so sad that a child got abused then learned violence was the only correct answer, repeating the cycle

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He made those choices. Many people who come from abusive households don't go on to abuse others because they have their brains to recognize it was wrong. Please stop making excuses for murderers.

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@farmerchick3040 its not an excuse its an understanding. Trauma and mental health is important, because sometimes that stuff can turn u into a monster without mindfulness

    • @pitbull6527
      @pitbull6527 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He had a choice to not do these things...and a choice to seek therapy. My father was APD. I won't go into the things he did to the three of us kids, but I did intensive therapy over many years to deal with the PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I did not want to be my father. Even my father being APD...he had a choice too.

    • @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352
      @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@farmerchick3040 Peoples brains rewire according to the abuse. They dont always know right from wrong, or that they need therapy. Everyone experiences and responds differently, and in their own timeframe

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pitbull6527 he had a choice, but he also had experience that helped shaped them into a monster. at some point during the abuse he lost his empathy for others.

  • @subaru7233
    @subaru7233 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I lived in Gloucester and was a patient of Dr. Sharpe. He was deeply weird even to look at and one of the most arrogant people I've ever met. This event was a huge shock to our community . Karen was a beloved friend to many. It was incredibly sad.

  • @missyskye_sea_land9424
    @missyskye_sea_land9424 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    “Richard was…, creepy looking,…made their skin crawl…”😂 I shouldn’t be laughing but couldn’t help it.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The descriptors were hilarious. I watched the trial on court tv back in the day and all of those seem fitting. He acted like that during his trial.

    • @SuperCrazyPsycho731
      @SuperCrazyPsycho731 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Always trust your gut. If you are repulsed by someone It's just your instincts telling you that they aren't a good or suitable mate of any kind. Listen to your gut not people crying over hurt feelings and reality.

  • @brigittebeltran6701
    @brigittebeltran6701 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Another excellent analysis by Dr. Grande. Such a tragedy for all...His insecure wife put up with so much abuse...and the poor children. No winners here. 😪

  • @tessjones5987
    @tessjones5987 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Dr. Sharpe was my doctor. I saw some compassion in him. I found him to be intense
    yet professional. He had a lot of his young childrens art work in his office. He was a
    very intense super-critical person with some sincere compassion. Really unique guy.
    I feel so sorry for his family. I remember he would call his wife to schedule his calendar.
    So I think they were both co-dependent on eachother for security. I saw her once in his
    office she was very kind and pretty.

  • @ccpperrett7522
    @ccpperrett7522 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    My grandchildren's father, his girlfriend and her mother are all narcissists. Ugly, awful, hateful people. My 14 year old granddaughter is counting the minutes, hours and days until she no longer must live in her father's home. I pray to God it will be soon. 🙏

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God doesn’t exist so that’s a silly thing to do.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@icturner23 That tired old comment is becoming passe'. Prove your assertion.

    • @SuperCrazyPsycho731
      @SuperCrazyPsycho731 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugly people are always bad people. Personally, I think it's their true self being reflected and exposed by their outward appearance. 🤮

    • @Linda72.
      @Linda72. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate. Best wishes x

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Prayers to you and your family. ♥️

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Poor Karen. She was so young when the relationship started.
    I hope their kids are doing ok.

    • @panushjo
      @panushjo ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She was selfish. Had kids with a bad character, tried to break up a marriage, etc.

    • @duilawyr
      @duilawyr ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m impressed you spelled “their” correctly.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us ปีที่แล้ว +47

      What a life, she never had one! I'm glad I don't put out. I dated an Autogynephile accidently. No kids then ESCAPED. He's a doctor. Horrifying narcissists.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@panushjo Good luck with your gender transition! Just stay out of women’s washrooms!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@terrorists-are-among-us I am so sorry about your situation. Take care, these men are pure evil.

  • @tiffanyeyoung1800
    @tiffanyeyoung1800 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    This is so sad and typical of abusive relationships. This is typical of the cycle of violence repeating itself.
    I'm even more upset about Karen's parents not protecting her or their grandchildren.
    I can't imagine how traumatic it was for the babysitter and the children to see her murdered like this

    • @dila4834
      @dila4834 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I blame her. Not the parents. She knew he was an abuser within the first year of marriage. She was afraid of proving her parents right. They have nothing to do with it.

    • @robburrows2737
      @robburrows2737 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not all abused kids become abusive. There has to be personal responsibility.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@dila4834 I suggest reading about the "battered woman syndrome" and then seeing how much to blame Karen was for what had happened to her. Because I think it's very telling that he killed her AFTER he lost control over her.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@robburrows2737 That's true. I grew up in a violent home and I am not abusive. Unfortunately, other problems do come up. Like the codependency between these two

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-account-not-found You stand up for others and yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Keep up the great work

  • @Summer-en9hs
    @Summer-en9hs ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You are very great at showing respect for this woman and mother, describing how she wanted to stand on her own and be free but why she couldn’t. Sadly. 💜

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    He looks so upset in his pics. What a terrible guy and disgusting what he did. Great analysis, giving us info & smiles. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

    • @barbaraspector6689
      @barbaraspector6689 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Blame the Dr.’s parents.

    • @CesarClouds
      @CesarClouds ปีที่แล้ว

      Unhappy Jagger.

    • @jbirish2144
      @jbirish2144 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I watched the trial where he pretended to be crazy. It was almost unbearable watching his contorted facial expressions and listening to his malingering.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jbirish2144 I can't even imagine how unbearable that could be🙄😐🤪

  • @duromusabc
    @duromusabc ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Narcissists can commit suicide when they experience a devastating narcissistic collapse- like this dermatologist who lost his medical license and medical career stuck in jail and his main narcissistic supply dead and narcissistic supply from within himself during the narcissistic collapse phase wasn’t enough to keep him regulated and live anymore

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo. And prison probably gave him few opportunities to steal women’s panties.

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll ปีที่แล้ว +31

      yeah anyone can commit suicide when they lose everything in their life.

    • @RipsGirl
      @RipsGirl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello Duane, If you don't mind me asking, do you have a degree in psychology?

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I always figured that narcissists got their attention from everyone, everywhere. Doesn't seem like any narcissist would limit their supply of attention to just one person, lest they be a lazy narcissist.

    • @elizabethcarder5247
      @elizabethcarder5247 ปีที่แล้ว

      @R Voit it increases female hormones.

  • @nightwood4379
    @nightwood4379 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Good Evening Dr. G., Ironic that Sharpe could treat skin, yet be so uncomfortable in his own. The alliteration of the letter “f” was fabulous…a welcome interval from the unfolding tragedy . Your smooth, keen and thoughtful analysis was calming. Thank you! Also, kudos on the redo of your studio. New cactus?

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's like Bob NEWHART. Lol.

    • @sherylhorlbeck3760
      @sherylhorlbeck3760 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re right! He kind of is! 😃

  • @taracat7723
    @taracat7723 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    After Dr G said he started taking her birth control pills..I went right to the comments

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Autogynephilia. He probably thought it was akin to HRT.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Dude no kidding! I was across the room from my phone and said “oh what the f?!” And immediately ran over to rewind and I’ve been in the comments ever since 😂

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wormwoodcocktail it’s unproven

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@normanorman I’m sure you watched a ContraPoints video that says that. Too bad he’s an autogynephile.

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wormwoodcocktail every mental illness is autogynephilia to u people. whatever ur smoking must be the same shit dr. sharpe was on to make him lose his mind

  • @susanmann5286
    @susanmann5286 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stating this for a friend. Obtaining higher education is not a substitute for needed clinical treatment of one's self.

  • @Mrs.Silversmith
    @Mrs.Silversmith ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Clearly a smart guy, but a miserable human being. I wonder how his life would have turned out if he had been raised in a loving, supportive environment.

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wonder how his siblings are doing?

    • @nancyk7954
      @nancyk7954 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He would have had a much better chance of not being what he turned out to be. Becoming a narc is a choice they make. It's nut curable and they will likely never be anyone different that how they are. They are very sick and dangerous people. I pity anyone who ends up with one.

    • @pwallace5359
      @pwallace5359 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was a muring , abusive POS. Just because he was a cross dresser doesn’t mean he deserves pity. His poor wife is the one that deserves pity not that self scented psychopath.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wonder how his (and other people's) lives would have been immeasurably better and happier if not for the Cult of Intelligence/ Cult of Death (CIA, DoD and pals)?

  • @crazyfangirl12
    @crazyfangirl12 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    From dad jokes to inordinate alliteration: Dr. Grande, you are a joy 🥰

  • @TheAllianceEnt
    @TheAllianceEnt ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "There's only room for ONE dress in this closet!"

  • @pageribe2399
    @pageribe2399 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The four plastic surgeries didn't help him much.

    • @GheyR
      @GheyR 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @gregofthedump
    @gregofthedump ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Amusing alliteration added to amazing analysis.

  • @mcc1483
    @mcc1483 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I watched this case many years ago on Court TV. Even after all this time, I still remember how strange Sharp was and how on the stand at trial how he kept his eyes closed the entire time when being questioned. His wife appeared to be such a nice and good person, who got messed up w the wrong guy. Her life must have been sheer hell.

    • @heidistabbert3062
      @heidistabbert3062 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same! His testimony was creepy as hell. I'll never forget it.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Sharpe

    • @catalinaortoljo2821
      @catalinaortoljo2821 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ditto! Absolutely one of the strangest defendants of all the trials I've followed on Court TV. If creepy was a person.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He probably kept his eyes shut because he thought if he couldn’t see you then you couldn’t see him. Classic baby man narcissist.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very good explanation. Esp about why Karen stayed with the rancid creep.
      Here in the UK, police can refuse to drop violence charges esp if they believe the victim has been coerced or manipulated into withdrawing the complaint. I wish the cops had charged him at the outset anyway.
      I hope their children have since thrived.

  • @tinabenson1492
    @tinabenson1492 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Possibly, he was an AGP.

  • @kim_yong_un
    @kim_yong_un ปีที่แล้ว +29

    That’s strange, i have a friend who crossdresses.. Also has a jealousy for his sister. I heard crossdressing is always related to jealousy of women, rather than adoration.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Seems so 😬

    • @renny6151
      @renny6151 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Probably was abused and saw that his sister never faced such abuse. The mistreatment of boys in society is making boys and men want to be women and girls, because they see how society cares about them more, sadly.

    • @suppy4254
      @suppy4254 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Usually yes! Either this or the hobby is a result of chronic 🌽 addiction

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yep

    • @alouettedemer5366
      @alouettedemer5366 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You heard wrongly.

  • @theSemiChrist
    @theSemiChrist ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Ah, plastic surgery. I was wondering how he looked more like Cher than a cross dresser does when they're actually trying to look like Cher.

  • @samzach2057
    @samzach2057 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This guy was just ahead of his time. He would be a hero in 2023!!!

  • @cuppycakey5013
    @cuppycakey5013 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Just as he was rejected by his wife, he would later be rejected by a jury.” I don’t know why, but that made me laugh, and so did the skin puns. 😅

  • @kimberlysmith7311
    @kimberlysmith7311 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    💖 your analysis Dr. Grande. So very sad for his wife and children. 😥

  • @nomorelies1867
    @nomorelies1867 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hmmm. It’s as if the paraphilia known as cross-dressing and gender confusion in general is highly correlated with extremes in behavior and a higher prevalence of personality disorders 🤔 ….But what do I know? I’m no licensed psychologist.

    • @Anon_E_Muss
      @Anon_E_Muss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Seems like you're noticing patters here

  • @brittanywilcox7377
    @brittanywilcox7377 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Dissociation is normal for everybody to experience in small amounts. I've never heard of anyone who believes it doesn't exist. That being said, it's a stupid defense for murder. Most people dissociate at the movies, for example, because you can feel like that two hour movie "flew by" (if it was good lol). You don't lose your sense of right and wrong in that moment. How absurd.

    • @takemyjobpleeez
      @takemyjobpleeez ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth! It's a weird feeling when it happens. Sometimes, putting myself into loud, bustling, crowded, situations can do it for me. It doesn't happen often, but it's a strange experience when it does.

    • @jakethedude100
      @jakethedude100 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have it after being sexually abused as a child. It’s a horrible condition..

    • @brittanywilcox7377
      @brittanywilcox7377 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jakethedude100 have what?

  • @jackiegrice714
    @jackiegrice714 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This case had a lot of interesting angles. It’s sad how Richard perpetrated the violent 9behavior he learned at the hands of his father on Karen. It’s also sad that Karen couldn’t seem to get away from the relationship, even though she knew almost from the beginning that marrying Richard was a bad idea. Thanks for analyzing this one Dr. Grande-and thank you for lightening the subject up with your trademark humor.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Three words "battered woman syndrome". Yes, it's actually a thing. And yes, it's explains a lot about Karen's behavior through out her relationship with her husband. Including the fact that she unfortunately lost her life after he lost his control over her. Control he thought of as absolute. Meaning that she wouldn't use the fact that he'd most of his wealth over to her (as a measure for to fight being sued for malpractice) to finally get away from him.

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The important angle not mentioned is SIN.

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't understand how people are so willing to blame violence on their past....you are not your past. He made these choices.

    • @jbrown8601
      @jbrown8601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@farmerchick3040 his past made him a wacko but he chose to pull the trigger.

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    His corporate interests certainly go along with wanting to transition to female. Hair removal. Skin moisturizer etc.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally creepy. Autogynephilia. Ed Gein Buffalo Bill stuff.

    • @anyways661
      @anyways661 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It puts the lotion on its skin.

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@anyways661..... or it gets the hose again.

  • @viviansytsui
    @viviansytsui ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "But he made their skin crawl" Oh how ironic! He failed as a Dermatologist, then. :P

  • @bricksloth6920
    @bricksloth6920 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hello Grande cacti, I hope you're all enjoying the festive season and getting enough sun.

  • @NenaM
    @NenaM ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Autogynephilia strikes again.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not disputing that could be the case (as is often the case), but I did not pick up any clues to that one. This one is probably more complex that simple autogynephilia, he appeared to have a deep-rooted misogyny (as many of them do), plus add into the mix an extreme narcissist (probably NPD) and domestic abuser. Seemed like a volatile cocktail going on.
      Deep-rooted misogyny can also be 'failed masculinity' as well, the so-called beta male trying to make alpha. More layers to this one than an onion tbh. But misogyny is definitely in the mix.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp วันที่ผ่านมา

      Had to look that up, autogynephilia.

    • @freyjathorsdottir5126
      @freyjathorsdottir5126 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@EvelynTokamp
      There’s a lot of that going around.

  • @kweefypete
    @kweefypete ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Your content has exceeded expectations as always, Dr.Grande 💜

  • @Automedon2
    @Automedon2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Amazing that someone could have so many personal things going on in his life including addiction and at the same time be so successful in business.

  • @gailbrevittlenton6667
    @gailbrevittlenton6667 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A surprising case, always interesting to learn from Dr. Grande, and this time with poetic tongue twisters thrown in! Thanks Dr.

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Having a low self esteem attracts bad partner choices!

  • @nanaman
    @nanaman ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The cyclical trend of high functioning abusers has been driven by generations of entitlement. The lack of empathy and awareness about the damage done to the lives of the people who are victims is so tragic, as is obvious from this person who had to grow up with it.
    It is sad that people who have money don’t use it to get help for themselves and their families.

    • @judithhofweber4858
      @judithhofweber4858 ปีที่แล้ว

      In many ways these situations are replay of the slave culture that is part of American history.
      Someone feeling that they're the master and that they, through Terror can enslave those less powerful. The damage is lifelong.
      Often collusion protects the perpetrators, perfectly.

  • @twinstarr2013
    @twinstarr2013 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sad that peoples minds can become so warped that it leads them to commit evil

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Or to cross-dress.

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Will Rivers No, I just get to see more crazy people than 10 or 20 years ago when out. You can't possibly argue that's a good thing.

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    What did he think taking his wife's birth control pills was going to do for him? I totally get where she was coming from in terms of not wanting to admit failure to her family. What a tragic case. I think that Richard was brilliantly insane. It sounds like he had narcissistic rage for sure amongst other psychological conditions. I feel bad for their children.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He probably had some delusions that taking female hormone treatments would make him a real woman. Typical autogynephile Ed Gein logic.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@wormwoodcocktail I think you nailed it. I don't know why I didn't think of that. lol

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dissidentfairy4264 I have a PhD in the behaviour of weird perverts. You didn’t think of it because you’re a normal person.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail I'm afraid you under estimate me. Normal is generic and boring! My mind is like a Rubik's Cube. It moves with the speed of light:-)

    • @EmmaJ_462
      @EmmaJ_462 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It's a form of estrogen, similar to feminizing hormone therapy. He was most likely trans.

  • @anitawies5732
    @anitawies5732 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think you hit this one out of the park. Loved the many puns about 'skin' being he was a dermatologist! You may not smile much but you definitely have a sense of humor. Love it.

  • @stacyyoust
    @stacyyoust ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The most dangerous time is when you are leaving 💢😡

  • @vq2vx
    @vq2vx ปีที่แล้ว +5

    your spin on the best police officers had me laugh out loud :D Thanks Dr G!

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It’s Grande time. Let’s do this. ❤ Thanks for the interesting content. I listen to your case studies each day.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She didn’t have a clue about how to protect herself. What a sad beginning, middle and end.

  • @Haffina
    @Haffina ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I loved the alliteration run, very cool. I also dislike Christmas, but I don't try to make it miserable for anyone else, mostly because the reason I dislike Christmas is because my abusive former step-father used to do that.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your step-father used to make Christmas miserable?

    • @Haffina
      @Haffina ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lindseyhendrix2405 yeah.

  • @JHjh88
    @JHjh88 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This as always was excellent Dr Grande. Your compassion shows through without compromising your professionalism. ❤️ From Oz🐨

  • @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413
    @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It was as if the Grinch was a dermatologist
    ROFL 🤣

  • @ZYX84
    @ZYX84 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good evening
    Dr.Grand🧩e.
    I so look forward to seeing you. Your analysis & evaluation of each story you bring to us is so thorough & insightful.
    I always complement you on your ability to fit so much information into such a short amount of time.
    Thank you again for being my constant!✨

  • @reavanante2160
    @reavanante2160 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can't cite a study but I have heard that there is a definite corellation between how 'nice' a person is and how it attracts violence and victimization. So, accordingly, the nicer one is the more abusers one attracts. It explains a lot of life.
    Also, there is something in the animal world called imprinting. Humans supposedly are not affected by imprinting, but I don't believe this. Like when baby condors emerge from their eggs, they have to see Condors, as their parents, it happens at this specific time and if they see humans, they will adopt the human as their parent.

    • @Mouse_Metal
      @Mouse_Metal ปีที่แล้ว

      Humans are to some extent affected by imprinting too.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 ปีที่แล้ว

      True ,serial killer try to find the nicest the more apologetic victims in public places

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    feel so bad for the children, sounds very hard to cope with

  • @debbles
    @debbles ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I remember watching his trial on Court TV year's ago. Very bizarre.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I remember too because he acted so ridiculous throughout!

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now I wanna see it

  • @sookiebyun4260
    @sookiebyun4260 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMG, your deadpan humor just kills me! 😂😂😂 No pun intended! 😂

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Excellent job on the tongue twisters Dr Grande. Your humour is much appreciated.😂

    • @andshewas296
      @andshewas296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could it get any drier? I need some water.

  • @Olive131
    @Olive131 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Dr. Grande. Much appreciation for your coverage of the story.

  • @Berendo4ever
    @Berendo4ever ปีที่แล้ว +6

    All those "F"s in an alliterative sentence, but no room for" fetish"???

    • @freyjathorsdottir5126
      @freyjathorsdottir5126 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Probably doesn’t want to offend the TH-cam powers that be.

  • @augustovans
    @augustovans ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love your new set, especially the lighting!

  • @kgfes
    @kgfes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So he was a non- serious student in elementary school but ended up in medical school. Dr. Grande missed out on telling us what caused him to take academic work more seriously

  • @tergish1
    @tergish1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So. Please take this with a grain of salt. This is my first video of yours. I love true crime. And I hate asmr. But after watching your video I get it. The way you speak is so calming and comforting. I like to listen to cases to help my insomnia. You my clinical diagnosistian friend, have a new subscriber

  • @SploinkyDH.
    @SploinkyDH. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The alliteration in this episode is fantastic.

  • @forallthestupidshit3550
    @forallthestupidshit3550 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Dear Dr. Grande, your voice is so soothing, I listen to your videos on repeat while working, like it's a NPR podcast. Yours is the best thing to have on to ensure my coworkers don't know I'm on YT during work hours. Your smooth, alto delivery is like a calming lullaby.
    Much love to your channel! Never quit, please : )

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @joeyoung4121
      @joeyoung4121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When Dr grande did one on the vice president at the end they do the outtakes it is hilarious I highly recommend Dr grande therapy 👍

    • @jht3fougifh393
      @jht3fougifh393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Like old-school NPR (you know, better days). It's nice.

  • @nathrogers7
    @nathrogers7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Richard managed to get a gun, no-one knows how he did this in America.

    • @andshewas296
      @andshewas296 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha!!

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's easier than a lot of people think

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak ปีที่แล้ว

      The same way people in communism were getting things they weren’t supposed to have (food, drinks, foreign currency, jeans, color TVs, detergent, rare and expensive medications for their children...): black market! It cannot be prevented by “laws”.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@megamillionfreak What are you talking about?

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiffanyeyoung1800 Can you not read/understand English?

  • @amberg1617
    @amberg1617 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nothing better than seeing an upload from Dr. Grande - let’s get to speculating!

  • @rebacrow5604
    @rebacrow5604 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Dr Grande, I watch you every time you come home. I just think you are so smart and I love your dry sense of humor. I get happy when I see you have a new vlog. Have a blessed day

  • @rumchata6569
    @rumchata6569 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My guess is he resented his sister for not getting whooped and he took it out on his wife.

  • @rxbbielee
    @rxbbielee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i can’t believe he stole those children’s mother and then stole their father by suicide. so sad

  • @goldfish7747
    @goldfish7747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am soo happy Dr Grande to listen to your next video, thank you for your amazing work!

  • @CarlStreet
    @CarlStreet ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Really enjoyed your alliterative analysis -- certainly it yielded more truth than poetry...

  • @mizsparkie5479
    @mizsparkie5479 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dr. Grande, could you address the question: have there been studies on how often those with narcissistic personality disorder commit suicide? Thanks!

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeffery Epstien?

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@stevebutler812 But did he 🤔

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sarahjaye4117 Inquiring minds want to know. He was well connected but apparently his connections left him hanging

    • @graykobain6001
      @graykobain6001 ปีที่แล้ว

      I read that the rate is a bit higher than the general population's suicide rate

    • @erfolgreich
      @erfolgreich ปีที่แล้ว

      I've read of numbers of around 15%.

  • @kathymichelle1978
    @kathymichelle1978 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How many times did you have to shoot all the words with "f"? You've done an outstanding video. I don't think I could have ever gotten through those perfect words with a straight face if I could have done it at all. I know you analyze serious situations but I appreciate your humor.

  • @RinpochesRose
    @RinpochesRose ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I guess if he was taking her birth control pills and being coercive, she may have found avoiding pregnancy challenging ☹️

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Only stands to reason 😮

    • @chilenapromedioRU
      @chilenapromedioRU ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely. That's a form of abuse.

    • @staffryte951
      @staffryte951 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      was he taking them by mouth or just taking them away?

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 ปีที่แล้ว

      He took the pills for hormones,,he might thought he was a womam
      or fetishism of woman body

  • @memyself4431
    @memyself4431 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Who needs to research for a college paper when we have dr Grande 😊

  • @PatataCagnePazzo
    @PatataCagnePazzo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The soft lights in the back are really nice!

  • @browniehendricks3726
    @browniehendricks3726 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    His behaviour and facial expressions on the stand were quite strange! Look up the case and you will not be disappointed. Thanks for your hard work. Keep up the the coverage of these unusual cases.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely going to do so after finishing this! And high five for the same last name!! 😂🙏🏽

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another excellent analysis 💎
    Thank you again Dr. Grande

  • @JustAnAverageWoman69
    @JustAnAverageWoman69 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this. Thank you.

  • @dylswife8048
    @dylswife8048 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I knew this whole family..i was just a kid...such a crazy story!

  • @pn1831
    @pn1831 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your presentation style and watching these.

  • @lizs7301
    @lizs7301 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg-the alliteration about the fork cracked me up. I had to tap back at least 3 times to hear it again!
    Again I love your delivery and story telling. Such a sad case.