Hi Linda, I just love how professional you are in the videos including your the make up and clothe. I'm 25 and I love fashion. Could you please tell me where can I get clothe like yours, I just love it!
Excellent video! What most resonated with me is setting boundaries. Lately at work, there’s someone who is dedicated to making others feel humiliated when they disagree with her. I am currently researching how to educate said person in a professional manner about good teamwork etiquette. To set boundaries between criticizing to get to a demoralizing a person on personal level to respecting other’s opinions and consider that constructive criticism is key to a good workplace environment that fosters collaboration towards a set goal.
01:43 - Tell yourself, “I have preferences and I’m not afraid to embrace them,” 02:44 - Tell yourself, “Just listen to your gut” 04:00 - Tell yourself, “I set boundaries” 05:10 - Tell yourself, “I know what I want” 07:08 - Tell yourself, “I have fears and I express them” 08:09 - I am willing to discover and let go of useless thoughts/beliefs and embrace ones that serve me and lift me up.
Wowowow - I just stumbled across your channel because I have an interview this week and I was doing some research and holy shit I'm so glad I did! This wholeee video resonated with me so much, but the "I know what I want" resonated with me on a deep level. When someone asks me what I want to do, I immediately say "I don't know" out of habit and feeling uncomfortable etc. But now I'll be proud to say that I'm in the process of figuring it out and I'm loving the journey. The little tip of knowing 'at least one thing' you want from your ideal life (eg. working from home etc.) then building on that day by day - love it, I can totally do that! Thank you SO much Linda xx
What a great video. Reminder #6: I am willing to discover and let go of useless thoughts/beliefs and embrace ones that serve me and lift me up. I'm looking for my next job for my career. I know what I want to do and the type of team I want to work with - now I have to find it. Letting go of useless thoughts / beliefs is really important.
Hey Linda, I am grateful that you touched on confidence, self-belief and being authentic. That really helps me to put new perspective and clarity in my heart and mind. Thanks so much for instilling these positivities that resonate with everyone! Keep up the great work.
Why I only discover your YT channel now? I just started listening to it today but I think I want to watch all your videos in 1 day 'cause they are all helpful and very relevant. Thank you so much Linda.
I am so fortunate to have came across your videos and now I am headed into being offer positions vs we will make a decision next week so #6 along has been truly helpful for me in this video 😁 Thank You Linda!
#6 resonates with me most. I’m really hard on myself, I’m working on getting rid of useless thoughts( overthinking) and only embraces I thoughts that lift me up and emailed me
OMG I love the last one, it's so uplifting and spiritually nurturing. I found it really relevant to my situation where I kept falling into the trap of negativity. It really has helped me a lot. Thank you
Hi, Linda. My name is Flavia and I´m Brazilian. I’ve been following your channel since March and loved it. I liked all your reminders and the most significant for me was the one about fears. I wrote them down and saw that they are just scary thoughts, as you said. I really don´t believe they are going to happen. I felt better after this video. Thank you so much, Linda!
I sometimes run into grown folks who are so depressed at the fact that they never gave their dreams a chance. They lived a life of fitting in. Its hard to say which tips reaonates most as there is a part of me in all (past life). I am thankful to be living my dreams and fully flourishing. Reminders are always helpful throughout the journey, thats where you come in:)
During my commute to work, i picked this episode and also chose the boat that I’m gonna figure out what i really want in my life. Thank you so much Linda for sharing your advice.
Wow Linda. I came across your channel because I’ve been really struggling with working with people at the office with my lack of emotional intelligence and caring what people think. I went from thriving to really hurting my own career which I had used to be really passionate about. Your advice is extremely helpful and is already planting some ideas on how I can thrive. Thank you!
so many good points. I think the one that resonated most with me was "I have fears, and I confess them." I think once we write down our fears they don't seem as fearful and lose their power over us, and we can begin to face them with courage. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos and share them with us!
Hey Linda, this is all I needed, been giving out more than I have all in the name of protecting Friendship only to fall victim to situations , I now will set Boundaries to protect my energy . Good stuff, I share with my pals and networks as well
Linda Raynier has alot of great input and insight that is very usable. Essential reminders and dos and dont's that can help not only in job interviews but in everyday of ones life.
I am glad that I came across your channel. I am spellbound. You are so good. I liked your "I want to be on I will figure out boat". Also #6 is what resonates with me the most. Thanks for this video.
It is a great advice for life, not just for career. reminder #4 "I don't know what I want" and figure out just one thing that you like. That will serve my start point! great help tip. I will follow your youtube series.
I like your overall 6 suggestions but find that no.6 - letting go of useless thoughts and beliefs serves me best - and upon exploring what to let go - trust my gut (no.2).
Reminder #1 for me. This sometimes creates conflict, and sometimes you win and sometimes you lose in decision making. Either way, you can move forward feeling positive that you expressed your preferences.
I liked going forward, thinking we will figure out what we like, along the way. Hence, moving in any direction is the key, instead of staying in a stagnated situation.
Great Content Thank You Linda Do what meaningful for u U hv preferances Set bounds Exp urself Hones I kn what I want Purp let go of neg Just do inspire of Heart
I think it so helpful to frame what I want to get it. Thank you for that reminder. I am an art educator and have an interview Tuesday for a human resources/ recruiter within our school district. I love education, teaching and mentoring young people. Thanks for all the helpful tips!!!
thank you so much for your videos, i watched your interview videos and I used your tips and totally nailed my interview, i got the job wuhuu. thank you so much
Linda, how were you able to have made this video 4 years ago?! The quality of your content is comparable to the content style nowadays. Thank you for so many things your video is able to bring to your community. I’m working to become an IT Professional where Im not afraid to express openly my ideas, opinion, and preferences. I find that I struggle with this. Your videos provides the tools to help me build my confidence and professionalism where I started to notice I’m expression myself with diplomacy, and not being afraid by this act.
Hi Linda! Just stumbled upon your channel. You have been very helpful. I hope you can make more videos about personal growth/improvement like this one. Keep doing what you do!
if you have a reasonable boundary, you don't take on additional stress. you become a better friend and partner and yo're more self-aware. you're less angry. you take better care of yourself . thank you . i like your tips . i feel if we have a lot of knowledge and reading too much . it will give us the power
This is great content. As if right now, most of us need to stop taking in opinions from other people because they are forming the ultimate message that we deliver to ourselves, that message is directly connected to our feelings and our behavior. Let's push ourselves away from this social pressure and make our own opinions about ourselves. Ones that make us feel our best.
Hello Legendary Linda!! I don't comment much on here, but while watching I decided that I wanted to let you know which tip was most impactful for me....and then you issued the call to action at the end of your video to share THAT exact thing....so off I go! While I loved this entire video, the tip that resonated with me most profoundly was tip #3, tell yourself: I Set Boundaries. I (absolutely) am the person you spoke of, who is incessantly depleted due to saying Yes to Everyone and Everything! I realize I am not alone in this, and I recognize that personally, this behavior is due to trying to gain approval and prove worthiness, however, your unique insight on the topic really helped me see it in a new light!! I especially loved how you defined the act of setting boundaries. 'Having boundaries means you are aware of your own energy and energetic space, and it also means that you Value Your Energy and You're Not Willing to Drain Yourself by Constantly (Over-Extending in your) Giving to Others.' and I loved your next sentence, it's a perfect synopsis statement 'Be Aware of Your Energy and How You're Using It' !! Perfectly Said!! My biggest take-away from this tip is that if you're constantly offering your energy to others, and subsequently draining yourself, you'll end up with nothing left to offer to Your True, Authentic Vision for Your Life....and to tie it all back to the beginning of the video..... This unnecessary depletion of our vital energy, over the course of a lifetime, is a sure recipe for Regret at the end of our Life. So......Starting immediately, I am going to be more transparent, honest, genuine, and true to myself ((essentially, Authentic)), so I can move confidently in the direction of My Dreams and Make them Happen!! Thank you so much for the Immeasurably Valuable Insight!! #NotAMomentToWaste !! In Reverence, Linzi Stimpfle
P.S. I'm hoping to find other content that you've posted related to the topic of setting boundaries!! I would love to hear your thoughts on the practical and tactical steps of setting boundaries, both socially/generally and in our intimate/familial relationships! Please let me know of any additional work that you've posted or published on the topic! And Thank You, Again, for your Brilliance! xoxo - Linzi
I have my boundaries. I don't have clear boundaries, and sometimes when I try to defend mys , I will overact. Hold in your own inner power, not in an aggressive way.
PRIYANKA SINGH thank you, I will keep that in my list. But here's a tip. To make anyone believe in us we have to start with believing in ourselves first. Take action from that mindset and you'll see results.
I really like your videos and advice, they're very helpful. Can I ask where you bought your clothes, they're absolutely gorgeous. Obviously you have great taste and know how to dress yourself. Can you please tell me the brands? Would it be possible to get online? Thanks.
How to be Authentic - Let me know what reminder resonated most with you and how?
Hi Linda, I just love how professional you are in the videos including your the make up and clothe. I'm 25 and I love fashion. Could you please tell me where can I get clothe like yours, I just love it!
Excellent video! What most resonated with me is setting boundaries. Lately at work, there’s someone who is dedicated to making others feel humiliated when they disagree with her. I am currently researching how to educate said person in a professional manner about good teamwork etiquette. To set boundaries between criticizing to get to a demoralizing a person on personal level to respecting other’s opinions and consider that constructive criticism is key to a good workplace environment that fosters collaboration towards a set goal.
"I have preferences and I am not afraid to embrace them."
The reminder about setting boundaries impressed me most. It's extremely important Linda.
Tip number 4 which in my opinion is simple yet comples: i know what i want.
"I have fears and I express them." - I think this is very powerful....
01:43 - Tell yourself, “I have preferences and I’m not afraid to embrace them,”
02:44 - Tell yourself, “Just listen to your gut”
04:00 - Tell yourself, “I set boundaries”
05:10 - Tell yourself, “I know what I want”
07:08 - Tell yourself, “I have fears and I express them”
08:09 - I am willing to discover and let go of useless thoughts/beliefs and embrace ones that serve me and lift me up.
Thank you!
I like your advice of not suppressing your feelings and have the courage to express them to show who you are. Fear tends to quiets my inner voice!
I love the idea of trusting yourself! sometimes my fear quiets my inner voice
Wowowow - I just stumbled across your channel because I have an interview this week and I was doing some research and holy shit I'm so glad I did! This wholeee video resonated with me so much, but the "I know what I want" resonated with me on a deep level. When someone asks me what I want to do, I immediately say "I don't know" out of habit and feeling uncomfortable etc. But now I'll be proud to say that I'm in the process of figuring it out and I'm loving the journey. The little tip of knowing 'at least one thing' you want from your ideal life (eg. working from home etc.) then building on that day by day - love it, I can totally do that! Thank you SO much Linda xx
How did the interview go? Did you get the job?
"I am willing to discover and let go of useless thoughts/beliefs and embrace ones that serve me and life me up"
Thanks Linda!
Nailed this Linda! Tip #6 resonated with me the most, I always need to remind myself that I'm on a process of evolution!
I like your idea of writing down your ideas, fears and thoughts to get clarification
That's tough one! Not caring about others think.... Love what you explain. Yes, I should listen more to my guts!
Another tremendously accurate video. This is how I approach life and live it. Thank you so much.
What a great video. Reminder #6: I am willing to discover and let go of useless thoughts/beliefs and embrace ones that serve me and lift me up. I'm looking for my next job for my career. I know what I want to do and the type of team I want to work with - now I have to find it. Letting go of useless thoughts / beliefs is really important.
Hey Linda, I am grateful that you touched on confidence, self-belief and being authentic. That really helps me to put new perspective and clarity in my heart and mind. Thanks so much for instilling these positivities that resonate with everyone! Keep up the great work.
Why I only discover your YT channel now? I just started listening to it today but I think I want to watch all your videos in 1 day 'cause they are all helpful and very relevant. Thank you so much Linda.
Authenticity hit home for me. I suppress feelings too much of the time. It's a great reminder to not worry about what others think of me.
Tip #6 resonated with me the most & I enjoyed this video!!!! Thank you so much Linda....
I am so fortunate to have came across your videos and now I am headed into being offer positions vs we will make a decision next week so #6 along has been truly helpful for me in this video 😁 Thank You Linda!
the boat story made aworld of sense. thanks
#6 resonates with me most. I’m really hard on myself, I’m working on getting rid of useless thoughts( overthinking) and only embraces I thoughts that lift me up and emailed me
Thank you so much! This was helpful. Boundaries is the key.
OMG I love the last one, it's so uplifting and spiritually nurturing. I found it really relevant to my situation where I kept falling into the trap of negativity. It really has helped me a lot. Thank you
Hi, Linda. My name is Flavia and I´m Brazilian. I’ve been following your channel since March and loved it. I liked all your reminders and the most significant for me was the one about fears. I wrote them down and saw that they are just scary thoughts, as you said. I really don´t believe they are going to happen. I felt better after this video. Thank you so much, Linda!
I sometimes run into grown folks who are so depressed at the fact that they never gave their dreams a chance. They lived a life of fitting in. Its hard to say which tips reaonates most as there is a part of me in all (past life). I am thankful to be living my dreams and fully flourishing. Reminders are always helpful throughout the journey, thats where you come in:)
Linda, you are so helpful, thank you. And boundaries are so important - thank you for reinforcing this in the career section.
During my commute to work, i picked this episode and also chose the boat that I’m gonna figure out what i really want in my life. Thank you so much Linda for sharing your advice.
As always your advice has been extremely helpful, thank you!
Wow Linda. I came across your channel because I’ve been really struggling with working with people at the office with my lack of emotional intelligence and caring what people think. I went from thriving to really hurting my own career which I had used to be really passionate about. Your advice is extremely helpful and is already planting some ideas on how I can thrive. Thank you!
so many good points. I think the one that resonated most with me was "I have fears, and I confess them." I think once we write down our fears they don't seem as fearful and lose their power over us, and we can begin to face them with courage. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos and share them with us!
Hey Linda, this is all I needed, been giving out more than I have all in the name of protecting Friendship only to fall victim to situations , I now will set Boundaries to protect my energy . Good stuff, I share with my pals and networks as well
*Being completely present at the moment*
Linda Raynier has alot of great input and insight that is very usable. Essential reminders and dos and dont's that can help not only in job interviews but in everyday of ones life.
I am glad that I came across your channel. I am spellbound. You are so good. I liked your "I want to be on I will figure out boat". Also #6 is what resonates with me the most. Thanks for this video.
#6! I am willing to let go of useless thoughts and beliefs and embrace the ones that lift me up!!
wow! #1-6 really helps me ..... I figured it out what I want. And I will live like we're dying. thank u Linda
It is a great advice for life, not just for career. reminder #4 "I don't know what I want" and figure out just one thing that you like. That will serve my start point! great help tip. I will follow your youtube series.
Thank you so much Linda ! You need to be authentic in life so that you can find your real career .
the one that resonated with me is one with listening to gut feeling. it saved me from people bad intention
I like your overall 6 suggestions but find that no.6 - letting go of useless thoughts and beliefs serves me best - and upon exploring what to let go - trust my gut (no.2).
Reminder #1 for me. This sometimes creates conflict, and sometimes you win and sometimes you lose in decision making. Either way, you can move forward feeling positive that you expressed your preferences.
Thank you, I'm working in a Yes, Man culture company. This video encourages me to reassess my needs and my job and see what it really is.
I liked going forward, thinking we will figure out what we like, along the way. Hence, moving in any direction is the key, instead of staying in a stagnated situation.
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Thank
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Do what meaningful for u
U hv preferances
Set bounds
Exp urself
Hones
I kn what I want
Purp
let go of neg
Just do inspire of
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I really like the whole which boat to get on concept. It really makes you think about your choice. Thank you for that concept Linda.
I think it so helpful to frame what I want to get it. Thank you for that reminder. I am an art educator and have an interview Tuesday for a human resources/ recruiter within our school district. I love education, teaching and mentoring young people. Thanks for all the helpful tips!!!
thank you so much for your videos, i watched your interview videos and I used your tips and totally nailed my interview, i got the job wuhuu. thank you so much
That is fantastic Iris! Congratulations! woohooo!
Congratulations!
This is what I want , to be authentic in your life !
Linda, how were you able to have made this video 4 years ago?! The quality of your content is comparable to the content style nowadays. Thank you for so many things your video is able to bring to your community. I’m working to become an IT Professional where Im not afraid to express openly my ideas, opinion, and preferences. I find that I struggle with this. Your videos provides the tools to help me build my confidence and professionalism where I started to notice I’m expression myself with diplomacy, and not being afraid by this act.
Thanks for your help, Linda
Loved this video!!! Reminder# 6 resonated with me the most!!! All great info...🙌🏾🙌🏾
Hi Linda! Just stumbled upon your channel. You have been very helpful. I hope you can make more videos about personal growth/improvement like this one. Keep doing what you do!
Im taking notes..
Thank you so much for all your videos, I’ve learned a lot and now “I know what I want” !
This video is so wonderful, thank you!
Reminder number 3 set up boundaries🖒🖒🖒🖒
if you have a reasonable boundary, you don't take on additional stress. you become a better friend and partner and yo're more self-aware. you're less angry. you take better care of yourself . thank you . i like your tips . i feel if we have a lot of knowledge and reading too much . it will give us the power
I listen to my Gut!!!! I'm learning to trust my Intuition more and more everyday!
You are so amazing and inspiring..thank you
this should be on Ted Talk! Reminder #4 resonates with me the most, I always feel that I'm indecisive because I don't know what I want.
This is great content.
As if right now, most of us need to stop taking in opinions from other people because they are forming the ultimate message that we deliver to ourselves, that message is directly connected to our feelings and our behavior. Let's push ourselves away from this social pressure and make our own opinions about ourselves. Ones that make us feel our best.
Thank you. Your video is very helpful.I like 4 and 5 .
Some of my colleagues have crab mentality that pulls me down. That is one of my challenges of being Authentic in myself.
Thank you so much💜 and #6 most definitely
thank you for your inspiring video linda i love the last tip .and it prives to me that i am willing explore myself of my carrer choosen .thank you.
I llove your advice. I think your videos hit the nail on the head
Loved tip #6, thank you for sharing ❤️
Hello Legendary Linda!! I don't comment much on here, but while watching I decided that I wanted to let you know which tip was most impactful for me....and then you issued the call to action at the end of your video to share THAT exact thing....so off I go! While I loved this entire video, the tip that resonated with me most profoundly was tip #3, tell yourself: I Set Boundaries. I (absolutely) am the person you spoke of, who is incessantly depleted due to saying Yes to Everyone and Everything! I realize I am not alone in this, and I recognize that personally, this behavior is due to trying to gain approval and prove worthiness, however, your unique insight on the topic really helped me see it in a new light!! I especially loved how you defined the act of setting boundaries. 'Having boundaries means you are aware of your own energy and energetic space, and it also means that you Value Your Energy and You're Not Willing to Drain Yourself by Constantly (Over-Extending in your) Giving to Others.' and I loved your next sentence, it's a perfect synopsis statement 'Be Aware of Your Energy and How You're Using It' !! Perfectly Said!! My biggest take-away from this tip is that if you're constantly offering your energy to others, and subsequently draining yourself, you'll end up with nothing left to offer to Your True, Authentic Vision for Your Life....and to tie it all back to the beginning of the video..... This unnecessary depletion of our vital energy, over the course of a lifetime, is a sure recipe for Regret at the end of our Life. So......Starting immediately, I am going to be more transparent, honest, genuine, and true to myself ((essentially, Authentic)), so I can move confidently in the direction of My Dreams and Make them Happen!! Thank you so much for the Immeasurably Valuable Insight!! #NotAMomentToWaste !! In Reverence, Linzi Stimpfle
P.S. I'm hoping to find other content that you've posted related to the topic of setting boundaries!! I would love to hear your thoughts on the practical and tactical steps of setting boundaries, both socially/generally and in our intimate/familial relationships! Please let me know of any additional work that you've posted or published on the topic! And Thank You, Again, for your Brilliance! xoxo - Linzi
Hii Linda, your guidance is positive and helpful, thank you :)
Hy thank you so much, i like number 6 and the figur out boat:)
Linda, Great Material ! 💖
You're amazing. Thank you for your wisdom.
Tip no. 5 "I have fears and I express them" sometimes acceptance is all it takes than being in denial!
Thank you so much for your videos! You are great! I'm learning so much here :)
I have my boundaries. I don't have clear boundaries, and sometimes when I try to defend mys , I will overact. Hold in your own inner power, not in an aggressive way.
tip no 6 - I'm letting go and learning to change the dialogue I have with myself ..thx Linda xx
Whelp. This is great! Thank you!
You are pure gold 💖💖
Love this one Linda! The ones that resonated with me are listening to your gut and embracing your fears! ps your channel is booooming!! 🙌
Thank you!! I'm going to have to check out your channel in a bit more depth, I use canva for some of my video stuff!!
i like your video presentation & your voice... Thanks a lot for the effort
Time to go to work on the next chapter of my life!
l would be glad if u share few tips on how to make someone believe on us.
PRIYANKA SINGH thank you, I will keep that in my list. But here's a tip. To make anyone believe in us we have to start with believing in ourselves first. Take action from that mindset and you'll see results.
Linda Raynier Thank you Ma'am for such a relevant suggestion.
Thank you!
# 4: I take the "figure it out" life jacket and I'll investigate to go where I want to be :-)
"....which one resonated with you most?...." = “I know what I want”
I really all of this... This really helpful
I know what i want!
tip #6 I am excited to evolve 😊
your videos are amazing. thank you for all your advice!
Thank you Christopher! You're welcome, glad you're enjoying them. :)
I really like your videos and advice, they're very helpful. Can I ask where you bought your clothes, they're absolutely gorgeous. Obviously you have great taste and know how to dress yourself. Can you please tell me the brands? Would it be possible to get online? Thanks.
Reminder #1: Tell yourself, “I have preferences and I’m not afraid to embrace them”
Resonates most
Hii. Do u have a podcast??
very good...
I'm wondering something. Where are you from L. Rayner???
I wish you had a 1 800 number ready for when we are on the edge of salary negotiations! ugh
Writing my fears!!!
reminder 6
Reminder 4-I Know what I want
#5
fears are the scary thoughts that you allow yourself to believe :)
But how do u figure out what u want to do in life 😔😫😢
I figured out I want to travel
📝📝📝✅