Thank you, Mark. I hurt him so much and can totally connect with the self punishment aspect. I did that in my last relationship, too, and I want to break the pattern to show my current partner my commitment to a future with him. This is just a bump in the road and I pray Jesus and the Holy Spirit will help me follow your wonderful advice. God bless!
Very interesting video. There are so many examples that can be used. Obviously the level of maturity of a person helps regardless of what they have been through in their lives. Plus if you have a strong foundation with God that will allow you to react differently. Like I said there are so many examples. Great video.
i just made a misteake with my boyfriend and i really really hurt him n i love him so much we are both strong christians i needed to hear this this might be the reason i still have him! Thank you so much
I assumed my boyfriend was seeing someone else because I thought I had proof, without even talking to him about it first, so I called him a player. I apologised to him the other day, but I didn't explain my thought process, so things ended pretty quickly and now he probably thinks I'm that type of person.
Thank you so much for helping. I struggle with letting go of the past. - causing problems in my relationship a year after. I feel I need a whole new mindset.
I was looking for a way to fix sibling relationships. I have my personal problems I don't want to share to the internet per se...but I think you're right about apologizing especially owning up to it, I've recently not admitting fully or still felt bitter after it. Ditto for plans of change, when I think about it i do make a big show of I'm sorry. Though I read scripture, I was being depressed and beating myself up, even thinking of leaving to fix the problem. If I was more honest, and really told what I thought without fear (I tend to be fearful about things...) its hard but I can't live my life with the guilt being unsatisfied with the BIG MISTAKES I have done. I can be stubborn and bitter in my heart but its pride and not owning up to my mistakes I try to shy away or forget them. I'm not strong in arguing and I need to practice that plus understand not everyone will want to listen to the truth (if I am telling the truth and shouldn't beat myself if I make a mistake...I have or was revealed to be a perfectionist...) I'm scared but you are saying makes sense. Its like the gospel nothing we can do will ever get us to heaven UNLESS we believe Yahshua died on the cross for our sins. Same towards when we try to patch things up with others, we must commit to what we say and do them with a full heart and understanding.PERIOD. Thanks for sharing and please keep up the good work sir, very helpful indeed.
Grace and glory of God prevents us from making the same mistake after we realize that we were wrong.B, I’m sorry! I apologize! Thank you for forgiving me!
Hi Mark, I just watched the video, How to Get over Someone 4 Christian Tips. Thank you sooooooo much, and I'm going to watch it again, again, and again until I am ready to move on as well as let go, Let God have His way with me!!!! 😇
Hello, my Brother in Christ, Yes, we met here, and yes you did offered me words of encouragement. Nothing much I thank God blessing me for being here. I'm okay thank you for asking. How are you doing?
Hi L. Patrick, my Brother in Christ, Thank you for replying back. Yes, we met here, and you did offered me some words of encouragement. I'm doing okay thank you for asking. How about yourself?
Thanks, tris os really helpful, I has an explosion of anger. I’m going to therapy. My boyfriend bows perfectly I am hard to hadle. I always apologize, Probably he would have a better chance to succeed without me. Anyway, I can’t change the past, I’ll say sorry, go to my therapy, will take my pills, and work on how other ways my image an self control could improve. Just for me. Because if could control how much anger people make feel all through the day I would let things go and totally enjoy every moment.
Hello good morning! Thanks a lot, I learn so much. Please do you have any video on relationship or intending marriage to an 'unbeliever'? I'm currently trying to study the word of God for divine wisdom; I went into that so lemme know if there's any helpful resource
my gf and i have been dating since mid december 2019. she's amazing, I met her at church, and we've had great times together. but since the quarentine started, the relationship began to turn "boring" and "sour". we started fighting, arguing, and our communication is no longer there as it used to be. yesterday i made the mistake to send her 6 messages: I cant take it anymore, things are way different and i cant find a way to repair this, you seem uninterested, we're distant, i give up, and such. i know she read those messages, although i deleted them, but i know she read them, she doesnt talk to me anymore. I really wanted things to work out, but maybe it wasnt the will of God, and I tried to end the relationship after thinking long enough in the worst way possible. I know God didnt want me to end it THAT way, i just lost it and wrote those hurting words, I wish i would have obeyed God in the moment, and ended the relationship in a proper way, not like this. Ive waited too long, and ended it terrible. I know she might be angry at me. that's how i messed up, she's a good girl, she deserves better I think, may the Lord bless her life and always guard her from evil. She is very special and i feel sorry to hurt someone like her, she deserves better
Hey, thanks for sharing your experiences. Interested to know how you’re doing now? Quarantine can have a profound effect on people’s mental health and can drastically affect relationships. You’re definitely not alone in some aspects of your relationship struggles. I think it’s not necessarily a bad thing that you expressed yourself to your girlfriend in that way, and in fact, it may have been the best thing to do in that scenario. I think it’s important to remember that God has a plan and that everything falls in to place the way it is destined. Take care, and stay positive
Bruce Wayne hey man, how are you? Thanks brother. I miss her bro, I’ve never met someone like her tbh though we don’t talk to each other. Wish I could have handled it better but I still felt it was the right thing to do, I mean, breaking up with her in order to spend more time with God and growing closer to Him. I still need to let Jesus work on many things in my life. I trust in the Lord, even if I’m feeling sad sometimes man, things have changed a lot. I know the Lord is working on both of us. I pray for her everyday. May the Lord allow us to get back together someday if it’s His will. God’s timing, not ours. He is always faithful and He knows best. Thank you mr. Batman, May the Lord bless your life, may He allow you to glorify Him in everything you do and give you the desires of your heart.
Guillermo I think you should realize that the mindset you have is truly a blessing and a gift. Perhaps this is the lesson which was meant for you from your painful experiences. Remind yourself that often the beautiful moments you shared with your girlfriend were also beautiful because you have learned to love yourself. Don’t give up. Like you said, if it is the Lord’s will, it will happen. God never fails you, and never will. Perhaps consider reaching out to her if you feel the time is right and you’ve healed. It’s okay to miss her. It’s okay to be sad sometimes. Reach out to friends or family for Support when you need it most. Take care of yourself.
Guillermo thank you! Your kind words are comforting and I feel grateful for them. Don’t hesitate to contact me on here or we can get in contact elsewhere too. Stay strong and stay positive. At the end of the day God looks after us in a way in which we can not even fathom; it is miraculous and planned down to the atomic level. One perspective to consider is that God determines our actions, and He is the doer. We are instruments of God and we are at his mercy. Thus, everything happens for a reason and don’t be too hard on yourself for handling your situation the way that you did. To anyone reading is who doesn’t believe in God or a higher power, that is alright too. A time may come where you are shown that such a entity or energy exists which connects us all and which takes care of things at such an astounding level.
After a breakup with my best friend it didn't end well. She hates me and won't speak to me/hasn't for months. I don't think there's anything I can do honestly... I truly don't think I'll ever see or get to speak with her again. I don't know what God wants me to do...
I think I messed up... I grabbed a man's hand to thank him for his help and we confirmed that we'd see each other in a few months. But then he said maybe we could meet socially and Winked At me. But all I could do is stare at him as I didn't know what to say. And, when I grabbed his hand, I felt "euphoria" and my brain took a vacation... So, of course I'd be interested but wanted him to actually ask me out, not just hint it. Any advice on what say the next time I see him? 😂 Thanks for the video
Hi Mark, Thank you for replying back. Remember, I mentioned to you about my ex fiance' and I had broke up because he was unhappy and miserable with me? Now, remind you were together almost 4 years, and engaaged for 1. I was, and still am really hurt when he said that among other harsh things. I was wondering do you have a video on what I am going through? If not, I understand, and keep up the good work, Mark as well as God bless you and your family. Take care!
I think this video might help if you haven't watched it th-cam.com/video/B9bjFk6Qcx8/w-d-xo.html Also this article might really help, it's about forgiving and healing after someone really hurt you applygodsword.com/how-to-forgive-someone-who-has-hurt-you-deeply/ Also this one is about forgiving your attacker. applygodsword.com/how-to-forgive-your-attacker/ I hope these help answer your question. God bless!
Hey Mark this girl I hurt I want her friendship back and hope it will grow so she agreed but I had to give back item that I had of hugs and if I work my way back through some trials and tribulations she will give me the shirt back and I will become her friend again she will become my friend again I really want to get my friend back so anything you can help me with Will greatly be appreciated thank you
Hi L. Patrick, It's me, Jacqueline. How are you? I'm okay. Before I go any further, do you remember me??? Please reply back to me, and let me know. Thanks!
Jacqueline Woods Hello, my sister in the Lord! We 'met' here &, if I recall correctly, I offered some words of encouragement. I hope you're well. What's up?
Thank you, Mark. I hurt him so much and can totally connect with the self punishment aspect. I did that in my last relationship, too, and I want to break the pattern to show my current partner my commitment to a future with him. This is just a bump in the road and I pray Jesus and the Holy Spirit will help me follow your wonderful advice. God bless!
Point 3 really hits home. Thanks, Mark, for laying it all out like this. Stay blessed!
L. Patrick you are welcome, God bless you too!
Very interesting video. There are so many examples that can be used. Obviously the level of maturity of a person helps regardless of what they have been through in their lives. Plus if you have a strong foundation with God that will allow you to react differently. Like I said there are so many examples. Great video.
Chuck McGee thanks brother :)
Thank you, Mark, and if you have MORE videos, let me know as well as I'll keep watching them. God bless you as well. Keep up the good work!!! 😇😇😇
i just made a misteake with my boyfriend and i really really hurt him n i love him so much we are both strong christians i needed to hear this this might be the reason i still have him! Thank you so much
I assumed my boyfriend was seeing someone else because I thought I had proof, without even talking to him about it first, so I called him a player. I apologised to him the other day, but I didn't explain my thought process, so things ended pretty quickly and now he probably thinks I'm that type of person.
Thank you so much for helping.
I struggle with letting go of the past. - causing problems in my relationship a year after. I feel I need a whole new mindset.
1st Go to God and ask for forgiveness. Thank father god for forgiving us! Thank you amen
What about a person that rejects someone they like/love due insecurity/circumstance? So tired of people denying their true heart...
I was looking for a way to fix sibling relationships. I have my personal problems I don't want to share to the internet per se...but I think you're right about apologizing especially owning up to it, I've recently not admitting fully or still felt bitter after it.
Ditto for plans of change, when I think about it i do make a big show of I'm sorry. Though I read scripture, I was being depressed and beating myself up, even thinking of leaving to fix the problem. If I was more honest, and really told what I thought without fear (I tend to be fearful about things...) its hard but I can't live my life with the guilt being unsatisfied with the BIG MISTAKES I have done.
I can be stubborn and bitter in my heart but its pride and not owning up to my mistakes I try to shy away or forget them. I'm not strong in arguing and I need to practice that plus understand not everyone will want to listen to the truth (if I am telling the truth and shouldn't beat myself if I make a mistake...I have or was revealed to be a perfectionist...)
I'm scared but you are saying makes sense. Its like the gospel nothing we can do will ever get us to heaven UNLESS we believe Yahshua died on the cross for our sins. Same towards when we try to patch things up with others, we must commit to what we say and do them with a full heart and understanding.PERIOD.
Thanks for sharing and please keep up the good work sir, very helpful indeed.
Grace and glory of God prevents us from making the same mistake after we realize that we were wrong.B, I’m sorry! I apologize! Thank you for forgiving me!
Hi Mark, I just watched the video, How to Get over Someone 4 Christian Tips. Thank you sooooooo much, and I'm going to watch it again, again, and again until I am ready to move on as well as let go, Let God have His way with me!!!! 😇
Wow! So glad God used it to bless you Jacqueline. Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom. God bless
Thank you Mark, that really helped a lot of people, we were stuck. Thank you amen
So glad it was helpful, God bless
Hello, my Brother in Christ, Yes, we met here, and yes you did offered me words of encouragement. Nothing much I thank God blessing me for being here. I'm okay thank you for asking. How are you doing?
Told my gf I loved her on the first day we began dating.. learnt my lesson but didn’t believe it meant she should break up
Hi L. Patrick, my Brother in Christ, Thank you for replying back. Yes, we met here, and you did offered me some words of encouragement. I'm doing okay thank you for asking. How about yourself?
Wow Thank You So Much. You really Just Spoke to Me 👏🏽❤️
such an excellent and helpful video.
Molly H so glad to hear this!
I’ve messed up with it’s her four times i keep messing up plans with her and she has a lot of anxiety. I’m sure what to do.
Thanks, tris os really helpful, I has an explosion of anger. I’m going to therapy. My boyfriend bows perfectly I am hard to hadle. I always apologize, Probably he would have a better chance to succeed without me. Anyway, I can’t change the past, I’ll say sorry, go to my therapy, will take my pills, and work on how other ways my image an self control could improve. Just for me. Because if could control how much anger people make feel all through the day I would let things go and totally enjoy every moment.
Amazing post
Sharon Morgan thanks for the encouragement and God bless!
Hello good morning! Thanks a lot, I learn so much. Please do you have any video on relationship or intending marriage to an 'unbeliever'? I'm currently trying to study the word of God for divine wisdom; I went into that so lemme know if there's any helpful resource
Olisebuka Obioha yes, this video may help th-cam.com/video/pRZS01pUyX0/w-d-xo.html
Thank you!
Fallon Figueira my pleasure :)
Thank you for this 🙏
my gf and i have been dating since mid december 2019. she's amazing, I met her at church, and we've had great times together. but since the quarentine started, the relationship began to turn "boring" and "sour". we started fighting, arguing, and our communication is no longer there as it used to be. yesterday i made the mistake to send her 6 messages:
I cant take it anymore, things are way different and i cant find a way to repair this, you seem uninterested, we're distant, i give up, and such.
i know she read those messages, although i deleted them, but i know she read them, she doesnt talk to me anymore. I really wanted things to work out, but maybe it wasnt the will of God, and I tried to end the relationship after thinking long enough in the worst way possible.
I know God didnt want me to end it THAT way, i just lost it and wrote those hurting words, I wish i would have obeyed God in the moment, and ended the relationship in a proper way, not like this. Ive waited too long, and ended it terrible. I know she might be angry at me. that's how i messed up, she's a good girl, she deserves better I think, may the Lord bless her life and always guard her from evil. She is very special and i feel sorry to hurt someone like her, she deserves better
Hey, thanks for sharing your experiences. Interested to know how you’re doing now? Quarantine can have a profound effect on people’s mental health and can drastically affect relationships. You’re definitely not alone in some aspects of your relationship struggles. I think it’s not necessarily a bad thing that you expressed yourself to your girlfriend in that way, and in fact, it may have been the best thing to do in that scenario. I think it’s important to remember that God has a plan and that everything falls in to place the way it is destined. Take care, and stay positive
Bruce Wayne hey man, how are you? Thanks brother. I miss her bro, I’ve never met someone like her tbh though we don’t talk to each other. Wish I could have handled it better but I still felt it was the right thing to do, I mean, breaking up with her in order to spend more time with God and growing closer to Him. I still need to let Jesus work on many things in my life. I trust in the Lord, even if I’m feeling sad sometimes man, things have changed a lot. I know the Lord is working on both of us. I pray for her everyday. May the Lord allow us to get back together someday if it’s His will. God’s timing, not ours. He is always faithful and He knows best. Thank you mr. Batman, May the Lord bless your life, may He allow you to glorify Him in everything you do and give you the desires of your heart.
Guillermo I think you should realize that the mindset you have is truly a blessing and a gift. Perhaps this is the lesson which was meant for you from your painful experiences. Remind yourself that often the beautiful moments you shared with your girlfriend were also beautiful because you have learned to love yourself. Don’t give up. Like you said, if it is the Lord’s will, it will happen. God never fails you, and never will. Perhaps consider reaching out to her if you feel the time is right and you’ve healed. It’s okay to miss her. It’s okay to be sad sometimes. Reach out to friends or family for Support when you need it most. Take care of yourself.
Bruce Wayne thank you brother, I appreciate every word you’ve said. May the Lord bless you greatly every day of your life. Take care brother!
Guillermo thank you! Your kind words are comforting and I feel grateful for them. Don’t hesitate to contact me on here or we can get in contact elsewhere too. Stay strong and stay positive. At the end of the day God looks after us in a way in which we can not even fathom; it is miraculous and planned down to the atomic level. One perspective to consider is that God determines our actions, and He is the doer. We are instruments of God and we are at his mercy. Thus, everything happens for a reason and don’t be too hard on yourself for handling your situation the way that you did. To anyone reading is who doesn’t believe in God or a higher power, that is alright too. A time may come where you are shown that such a entity or energy exists which connects us all and which takes care of things at such an astounding level.
After a breakup with my best friend it didn't end well. She hates me and won't speak to me/hasn't for months. I don't think there's anything I can do honestly... I truly don't think I'll ever see or get to speak with her again. I don't know what God wants me to do...
I believed lies from the enemy about my fiancé 😭 and messed up everything 😭
I think I messed up...
I grabbed a man's hand to thank him for his help and we confirmed that we'd see each other in a few months. But then he said maybe we could meet socially and Winked At me. But all I could do is stare at him as I didn't know what to say. And, when I grabbed his hand, I felt "euphoria" and my brain took a vacation... So, of course I'd be interested but wanted him to actually ask me out, not just hint it.
Any advice on what say the next time I see him? 😂
Thanks for the video
I just showed this to my wife because I normally snap and apologise after and I say I snapped at you because you did XY and Z, I'm such a idiot lol
What about forgiveness....
How if that person didnt want to forgive ..?
Hi Mark, It's me, Jacqueline. I'm still waiting for the video about I talked to you about 2 weeks I think. God bless you! 😇
Jacqueline Woods, remind me again? Been getting lots of requests, I'll do my best :)
Hi Mark, Thank you for replying back. Remember, I mentioned to you about my ex fiance' and I had broke up because he was unhappy and miserable with me? Now, remind you were together almost 4 years, and engaaged for 1. I was, and still am really hurt when he said that among other harsh things. I was wondering do you have a video on what I am going through? If not, I understand, and keep up the good work, Mark as well as God bless you and your family. Take care!
I think this video might help if you haven't watched it th-cam.com/video/B9bjFk6Qcx8/w-d-xo.html
Also this article might really help, it's about forgiving and healing after someone really hurt you applygodsword.com/how-to-forgive-someone-who-has-hurt-you-deeply/
Also this one is about forgiving your attacker. applygodsword.com/how-to-forgive-your-attacker/
I hope these help answer your question. God bless!
Thanks
Thanks bro
My pleasure!
Hey Mark this girl I hurt I want her friendship back and hope it will grow so she agreed but I had to give back item that I had of hugs and if I work my way back through some trials and tribulations she will give me the shirt back and I will become her friend again she will become my friend again I really want to get my friend back so anything you can help me with Will greatly be appreciated thank you
I was very upset and lied and told everyone my boyfriend hit me and it's all coming back and destroying my relationship idk what to do
Tell everyone the truth who you told that lie to.
Hi L. Patrick, It's me, Jacqueline. How are you? I'm okay. Before I go any further, do you remember me??? Please reply back to me, and let me know. Thanks!
Jacqueline Woods Hello, my sister in the Lord! We 'met' here &, if I recall correctly, I offered some words of encouragement. I hope you're well. What's up?
Christ
J Perkins amen
Thank you man.... great advice, thank you..
Thank you 🙏🏻