This is HOW to become your best self

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  • @chiaralinnea4335
    @chiaralinnea4335 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Yes, I also had to learn the hard way that to always be smiling can attract the wrong people towards you. If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, be it you being approached in public by someone, or even customers at your retail job, it's best to listen to your gut and be unfriendly (or just politely stern with your descision to not engage in conversation). Women are not taught that at all unfortunately but it is extemely important. Thank you, Elle xx

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Facts!! Thank you for the support Chiara 🥰

    • @РадоцветаМиткова
      @РадоцветаМиткова ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You have to smile from your heart. Learned this from a person, who came into my life clearly to learn me this.

  • @viktoriapetrovici42
    @viktoriapetrovici42 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    you are inpsiring. i'm a 17 year old girl from canada and i'm in love with everything you say. its been hard accepting some things about myself, and i now realize that if i don't i wont become the empowered person i want to be. Also your accent, c'est beau

  • @laetitias.3276
    @laetitias.3276 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg the « who does she thinks she is? » part really hit home my « friends » around me these days kept giving me this energy talking about how hard what I am trying to do is and stuff like that and I really couldn’t understand why until yesterday…

  • @SewarHindi
    @SewarHindi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes! Ugh, I absolutely love this channel it's so good. Knowing your worth & not being accessible to everyone is SO important. Thank you for sharing and taking the time to give such awesome insights! Keep shining bright, girl!

  • @breciasettle2494
    @breciasettle2494 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! I am liking at a reflection of myself through you El!!! This is me right here right now! Hearing this talk just proves to me that it’s all true and that I AM attracting people and things in my life that reflect my thoughts feelings and actions! Love it and ready to live it now!!! 💜

  • @Leila-ot2ij
    @Leila-ot2ij ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg, this video exactly what I needed. For long time I had to fade my nature, because of fear that people reject or like me. But now I am embody all of emotions, and completely OK if people don’t like me💅✌🏼

  • @jns6547
    @jns6547 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear Eléonora,
    I found your channel a few days ago and I just wanted to thank you for the great content your uploading. I really enjoy watching your videos, they are helping me to elevate and get nearer to the highest version of myself 🎉 Don’t stop doing that sort of content, I also like the information about spiritual souls etc., maybe you could publish some more of that🙏 I wish you a wonderful day!

  • @sarad9556
    @sarad9556 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This video is amazing !!! I completely can relate to the part in the video where Eleonora is explaining being accessible to everyone . I was being too nice to people who wouldn’t even work on them selves and were just using me as their cheerleader everytime they were down and doubtful . It got to the point were the roles switched and when I was down and doubtful they were not there for me . As soon as I changed and told them I was not happy at all hanging out with them , they looked at me different . It was so energy draining where I chose to be by myself and not have any friends . You cannot be there for everyone always because some take advantage of you and you most importantly need to be there for yourself first. Walking away was the best thing ever and helped me stabilize my life and find more self worth in myself . ❤️🙏🏻✨

  • @nhy6ck
    @nhy6ck ปีที่แล้ว +3

    8:38 I love this part

  • @siddiqui_hira
    @siddiqui_hira หลายเดือนก่อน

    eleonora, you're making great contributions in one's life,lots of prayers for you❤

  • @NalumansiZaharah
    @NalumansiZaharah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listening to you this night has changed something about me lots of love ,thanx for your time and effort

  • @firesign3966
    @firesign3966 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey I loved the video! I've been working on myself for sometime now and in the process I think I'm losing alot of people whom I love/d. I had to cut off a few of them as it didn't feel as if my energy was aligning with theirs. Thank you for explaining it soo beautifully that walking out is an act of love and kindness towards them and towards myself

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and sharing!! I'm so glad it helped🤍

  • @Sebsisme
    @Sebsisme ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so glad I came across your channel🥹 your advice is honest, real and not generic. Thank you!!❤️❤️

  • @neartothewildheart
    @neartothewildheart ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos resonate so much with me, it is so nice to see people with the same mindset as you

  • @heartshapedglasses1340
    @heartshapedglasses1340 ปีที่แล้ว

    you’re so underrated i swear ur videos changed my life ilysm

  • @kayanadacruz777
    @kayanadacruz777 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To stay confident I first of all make sure I leave my house looking as presentable as possible, according to the place I am going. And then I stand up straight, stay calm and think about good things and things that empower me and I also stay present. It helps me a lot ☺

  • @salonibhagwani5976
    @salonibhagwani5976 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much, you've no idea how many lives you've touched through this video!! Keep making such videos, it's extremely helpful, first time viewer and you've earned a sub 💕

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Saloni, so happy it helped ❤❤

  • @blondiewendy
    @blondiewendy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your channel and discussions. Pure truth.

  • @bianbde1683
    @bianbde1683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sister! I love you! ❤️ just watching your videos since last night! Already started working on myself!!! So many important things you have mentioned! God /Allah bless you!

  • @v3sp34n9x
    @v3sp34n9x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, it was so helpful and I'm a new subscriber of yours. After watching some of your videos it felt like I've got an elder sister who'll teach me the lessons of life and it was literally true! But... I want you to request to make a video about how to cope with loneliness properly and heal from it. Thank you so much ❤

  • @elenejoxaridze-e3x
    @elenejoxaridze-e3x ปีที่แล้ว

    you are literally speaking my thoughts out my comfort person from now on🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @paraisodeluz4957
    @paraisodeluz4957 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy I came across your channel! Thank you for allowing us to see such an incredible energy you bring! I relate so much with the things you talk about!

  • @carolinechitra_888
    @carolinechitra_888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're a real queen and so wise as well!

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your energy is crazy high, i feel it through the internet lol. How do you generate this energy?

  • @AliAli-ge3hb
    @AliAli-ge3hb ปีที่แล้ว

    as i see it's a sincere advice from your heart . thanks again

  • @kameliasarafska1527
    @kameliasarafska1527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another amazing and so valuable video! Thank youuuu

  • @Allah-g1m
    @Allah-g1m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you ❤ thanks for the message

  • @jademerry5877
    @jademerry5877 ปีที่แล้ว

    I adore your videos, so incredibly helpful xx

  • @pri1200
    @pri1200 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saving this video so I can always come back to it. Thank you El for everything you do ❤

  • @TheEmpoweringUnicorn
    @TheEmpoweringUnicorn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so needed. Thank you🤍🤍🤍🩷💖

  • @Iamselinawilliams
    @Iamselinawilliams ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could like this 1000 times ❤

  • @anaroute
    @anaroute ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for starting a TH-cam channel!🎉❤

  • @dariaaa..21
    @dariaaa..21 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are so amazing, thank you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @anurimaroy9296
    @anurimaroy9296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this videoooo❤

  • @BlenBrhaneGebre
    @BlenBrhaneGebre ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so helpful thank you ❤❤❤

  • @AliAli-ge3hb
    @AliAli-ge3hb ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for your efforts 😘

  • @lifeinsweden7204
    @lifeinsweden7204 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much and i really love your video ❤

  • @louis.sela04
    @louis.sela04 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!!!

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen to Jesus

  • @biancanyakane6652
    @biancanyakane6652 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this ❤️❤️

  • @LuvOfLalaland
    @LuvOfLalaland 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love ya❤

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Love You! ❤️

  • @maipham4766
    @maipham4766 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely 💯

  • @efraranega8187
    @efraranega8187 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Advice

  • @simranpreetkaur256
    @simranpreetkaur256 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subscribing right now ❤

  • @دانيااا
    @دانيااا 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:43

  • @دانيااا
    @دانيااا 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:00 lmao

  • @ellebelle222
    @ellebelle222 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good

  • @KaotharAli
    @KaotharAli 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    كملت فيديوهات القناة ❤😅

  • @asofiaas
    @asofiaas ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Elle 💖

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank YOU Sofia ❤

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to travel the world

  • @Muninth2012
    @Muninth2012 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sat5Aug23 / 11:41

  • @TheMeghajoshi
    @TheMeghajoshi ปีที่แล้ว

    How u r so mature at young age

  • @girlygirrrlll._
    @girlygirrrlll._ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my new fab TH-cam momma🌷💌

  • @EvaAndasova
    @EvaAndasova 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    77❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊great

  • @navanitharao761
    @navanitharao761 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best ♥️🫂

  • @malwinabernad3965
    @malwinabernad3965 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love You 🥰

  • @nhy6ck
    @nhy6ck ปีที่แล้ว

    9:19

  • @atangmokgosi3170
    @atangmokgosi3170 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eleonora i feel you❤

  • @HijaDeSantaMuerte13
    @HijaDeSantaMuerte13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤌🏼😘🧿

  • @KimberlyMasangcay
    @KimberlyMasangcay ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰🥰

  • @mohammedalmatrooshi788
    @mohammedalmatrooshi788 ปีที่แล้ว

    Liz 2.0

  • @kenasssss
    @kenasssss ปีที่แล้ว

    Align your actions with your words, align your actions with what you said you wanted. James 1: 8 "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways." Align your words with your actions. It's alright to change, but being constantly inconstant only makes us be more of that. You "never" know what you want. You want this, but then you change your mind. Be steady. Remember why you said you were going to do things a certain way. If it makes sense to change and it's better, do so, but if what you said IS what you really need, be firm with it.

  • @starlord5360
    @starlord5360 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ariana grande who?

  • @me-cw8xe
    @me-cw8xe ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear this is one of the best videos i have ever seen
    Because i know very well what you are talking about
    And the changes you say I have made in my life, and how did these habits make a difference
    Well said 🫰🏻✨

  • @navanitharao761
    @navanitharao761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank god I found you🫂♥️

  • @andreaparedes6210
    @andreaparedes6210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    such a good video instant follow 🫶🏼✨