i love this era of women raising their voice and helping other women grow their potential, i now that everyone who is seing this WILL become the best version of themselves.
I missed you!! You have changed my life recently, I am not kidding. I found you a few weeks ago (shortly after i turned 25). I was suffering from people pleasing, being too nice and shy, no trust in myself, had no boundaries, social anxiety etc. I started therapy also around that time, and I learned about how I grew up in a narcissistic household and like my therapist said "I was made to be a tiny mouse" by the people around me. I started to work with healing internally and so much has turned around for me every day, and your videos help reaffirm I'm on the right path during this process & teach me more. So thank you!
9:18 the answer is to have hobbies and passions for your own life. Focus on yourself. Everyone wants to sit next to the cool kid.. if they don’t think you’re cool, I promise you that you will be attracting better anyway.
I will not let it get to me I have nothing to lose It is going to happen Work towards your vision Faith gives you power to work I will be the first one I will teach myself
1:55 "Don’t allow anyone to control me (ex: if I’m trying to make him regret me, I’m controlled by his perception. Power comes from love : instead of letting someone trigger me, have compassion. Instead of allowing myself to complain about something, be grateful of what I have When you have a strong connection with God, you’re in a very powerful place Have a vision and have faith my vision will become reality. Let my own movie speak loud. Think « I will be the first one to achieve this. Failing is part of the process, I will try and try again."
You are on point! I’m 54 and only started learning this way of living at around 48. I cannot believe how good that has come to me. It is so refreshing to see someone at a young age adopted this way of living. I love it you’re sharing it with others, because like minded people like us know that that is a must! if we all learn to be this way, this world will be a completely different planet. Keep up the work💜🧘🏼♀️
I keep seeing videos like "make them obsessed with you" and such and you saying "I cannot answer that because it isn't even a thought in my head" was almost like a revelation. Also I actually watched this video while procrastinating -- I want to get some studying done for uni but can't really focus -- despite wanting to attend my dream university abroad in the future and being the first in my family and town to do that. But then your "I have nothing to lose" and "I will be the first one" mindset shifts have inspired me so much and I'm going back to my books now. Thank you.
My aunty said in my family no one has the same brain level as one of my aunty's children. Well, I was silent and nodded. But in my mind, I know that even if I was born with that brain level I can still improve. The brain is like a muscle we can train them. And I believe I have so much potential to develop.
No joke. All the habits you listed is EXACTLY my husband. And I find him SO attractive and I know many others do too. I’m so blessed to even have him in my life, let alone my husband. And being with him, I’ve upgraded my whole lifestyle and mindset that my own family and past friends feel so far behind. Not that I’m above them. But like, they are in another lifetime. And his attitude and discipline that align with these habits, keep creating endless opportunities in our life. What you are saying is 100% true. But I do believe in God! So I give all my thanks to him ❤️🙌🏻
Thank God for your message! I am in my fifties, and I finally found the job of my dreams, but my co-teacher is playing games to the point of calling out sick for days. She doesn't like that I do my job. She even talks about me to her group of friends at work and they all look at me. I am now finally realizing that I can only control what I think. They can talk all they want, because I know that God knows who I am and I am not going to play her game. Agree! Detachment is the key.
"I will be the first one" this is a powerful mindset. 🧠 I don't know why but i have always waited for someone to do somethings that I wanted to do then I would follow. I have never wanted to be the first one unless it was for presentation in my class.
I love the fact that you have a very similar mindset as me bcs it’s so rare to see ppl like you. I’m also trusting in myself for being “the first person” that will make the amount of money for example I’m going for.
Watched a lot of videos like this one, but this one is not like the others. So direct, going to the point. She’s not downgrading other people while trying to elevate us ! Love this video! Wish I knew about your channel sooner 😊
I am ultimately thankful for having access to helpful resources and beneficial information from amazing people like you!! I am glad that I'm alive in this timeline where everything is almost possible for me to access. Thank you for this new video, i badly needed this call out and reminder right now (the algorithm is crazy). I hope this beautiful channel and community reaches more people and teenagers like me! For girls who are also 15 years old and are having a hard time rn, i just want to let you know that everything will be fine and don't forget that you are not alone in this journey ♡!
So i learnt today that i don't need to affect myself with anybody ideas and thoughts. I won't affect my life because of someone else and i don't need to reavt everything. I won't complain to anything and won't make excuses, o will always choose myself no matter whatt i don't care about people opinions about me i know who i am and ill het it what i want because obv i don't have anything to loose. Im so connected to myself and first i have abundance I'll gwt everything i want and i need, then i have a vision that i going to be true. I will become my best version infect i am myself my best version right now. I don't scared to be forst winner tahts why ill be successful.
I felt the no more complaining I’m doing this more and staying away from negative people and situations and dependent on my higher powers and myself and working on myself for myself. I’m am attractive and people hate it. Today my grandma got upset at me cause I asked my step dad for money for makeup organization items and I told myself I’m not gone react. It felt good. Told myself she can leave or stop being jealous and stop being upset at me knowing my worth and how people should support me and be there for me especially my step dad cause i deserve princess treatment from my father figure and any man in my life. It’s good feeling. ❤
Girl… I just wake up in this morning feeling everything but not attractive or deserving all I really want for my incredible life. And this video comes up to me, now i’m so excited and expected from MYSELF that i deserved this life and all the good things that will been in my journey, thank you! God blessing’s
The art of detachment: Right on, girl! Knowing that I'm OK with just God and the Holy Spirit within me is divine. Then, when another lovely person comes along, added bonus, I welcome them in!
I feel ur words....I just can't express how thankful I'm to have found u ...u r truly one among the most genuine person on media out there...loads of love and positivity ❤
1:49 "tienes que pensar para ti mismo no dejare que me afecte esta mentalidad dice, no dejare que ninguna persona, ninguna circunstancia llegue a mis emociones,todo lo que tiene el poder de llegar a tus emociones te esta controlando y no puedes convertirte en quien quieres ser o ir a donde quieres ir si estas controlado por algo externo.
First 15 seconds apply to men too. My looks have always gotten me in the door. I learned that what I choose to say either makes or breaks the spell. Good luck :)
The way to make someone back obssessed with you, is to put yourself back onto the pedestal. You then get your power back. It makes you claim your power back instead of putting some power into their hands by putting importance onto them instead of onto you. It's exactly when you put importance onto someone else that you make them think that they are more importante than you. So the person will be chasing another person, but when you put importance on you, by transmission of thoughts they will be chasing, for the exact reason that you start to sée them as less important than you in YOUR reality.
Speak with enthusiasm. It mimics confidence, confuses nervousness with excitement, makes you appear energetic and outwardly focused and helps improve the mood of those around you.
_i will not let any circumstances control me,be grounded by who u are!in order to be detached u need to practice detachment,understand failing like shit doesn't exist for uh try again abd again there is nothing in this world u can't do.
Wow! You are so beautiful inside and out. Everyone should have your mentality. You seem like such an uplifting person to be around. Thank you for your wise words. My new goal, I am going to train my mind to be like yours. Thank you! Just thank you.
Hello Eleonora, Thank you for all of the inner work you have done and for sharing it with all of us.Yesterday I took a leap of faith and courage. I uploaded a TH-cam video for the first time in a while. I have tried in the past but I was always in my ego and trying to people please. Your videos have given me so much knowledge and have inspired me to create in a way that serves me and others from the inside and out. Your videos are so genuine and I and so many other can tell how much energy you put into them. Thank you so much for creating and sharing your healing journey and inspiring me to do the same.
Next on procrastination vs mentally tiredness(want to relax and need Me time only just) how to differentiate ? Btw thank u so much For this video. Try to upload frequently dear❤️❤️
Eleonora thank you so much!! I always know I was different when everyone around me said that their life is fate (for whatever happened to them) but I just felt like it's not like you can't change it. And they really don't want to change it. They keep following their old ways. And keep working like a slave. My mom especially keep telling me too that this is my fate.. that I can't go to school, etc. (6th grade is the last time I was ever go to school) But God give me a brain to think. And the brain is to get out of this situation or whatever situation that got us. That's one if the biggest mercy and blessings from Him. Again, Eleanora thank you for reminding me. I almost thought I was crazy for not being like them. They could never understand my level of thinking and ways. God bless you Eleonora. (I'm planning to take GED, the high school diploma and TOEFL to change my life around. Wish me luck❤️☺️)
Thank you, you are godsent ❤ in the future I will look back and I will mention your videos which helped my path 🌌 I LITERALLY WATCH your videos like 3 times or more to get your words stuck in my 🧠 😂
Absolutely amazing vlog Eleonora 😁 Your small small tips to our life makes a huge difference.your vlogs are always motivating and has a good subject and content to talk on. I look forward to watching your next vlog soon Thank you Eleonora for your guidance See you soon ❤️
Thank you for making this video. I don't know how, but it came at the right time in my life. I needed to hear all this, because in this new phase of my life I'm trying to develop more as a person, to be more selective with my friendships. Thank you, you've helped me a lot!
My dad is telling me that I'm not gonna achieve or do anything to make myself better and become who i want to be and telling me that I'm too lazy to do it and always seeing me like im idiot and stupid,.. So i wanted to share it with you guys cuz it makes me feel bad
Hi ! How are you now? I hope you feel better sorry for my bad english but I just wanted to tell you that you can do it it may sound cliché but if you put your mind into it then you can do it ! Not everything that people say it's true a lot of the time it's just the reflection of themselves that they put on other people
Thank you thank you thank you thank you so much 🙏🏼Seriously you made my day brighter The knowledge you shared will stick with me forever Good karma for you girl ♥️♥️
Wow! This was amazing. I thought you were going to rant on about your looks, you're very pretty nevertheless. Here am I almost sobbing at your sound advice. Keep prospering.
i love this era of women raising their voice and helping other women grow their potential, i now that everyone who is seing this WILL become the best version of themselves.
🤍🤍🤍
@@oxaleonora i love u queen💗💗💗
me too! i love all of us as collective are supporting each other to become the best version of ourselves
✨♥️
I missed you!! You have changed my life recently, I am not kidding. I found you a few weeks ago (shortly after i turned 25). I was suffering from people pleasing, being too nice and shy, no trust in myself, had no boundaries, social anxiety etc. I started therapy also around that time, and I learned about how I grew up in a narcissistic household and like my therapist said "I was made to be a tiny mouse" by the people around me. I started to work with healing internally and so much has turned around for me every day, and your videos help reaffirm I'm on the right path during this process & teach me more. So thank you!
Bless you on your journey! You can do it!
Yes!!! I love her so much her videos save me!!
Proud of you
😊😊p
You are right! ❤️💋
9:18 the answer is to have hobbies and passions for your own life. Focus on yourself. Everyone wants to sit next to the cool kid.. if they don’t think you’re cool, I promise you that you will be attracting better anyway.
I will not let it get to me
I have nothing to lose
It is going to happen
Work towards your vision
Faith gives you power to work
I will be the first one
I will teach myself
1:55 "Don’t allow anyone to control me (ex: if I’m trying to make him regret me, I’m controlled by his perception.
Power comes from love : instead of letting someone trigger me, have compassion. Instead of allowing myself to complain about something, be grateful of what I have
When you have a strong connection with God, you’re in a very powerful place
Have a vision and have faith my vision will become reality. Let my own movie speak loud. Think « I will be the first one to achieve this. Failing is part of the process, I will try and try again."
You are on point! I’m 54 and only started learning this way of living at around 48. I cannot believe how good that has come to me. It is so refreshing to see someone at a young age adopted this way of living. I love it you’re sharing it with others, because like minded people like us know that that is a must! if we all learn to be this way, this world will be a completely different planet. Keep up the work💜🧘🏼♀️
I keep seeing videos like "make them obsessed with you" and such and you saying "I cannot answer that because it isn't even a thought in my head" was almost like a revelation. Also I actually watched this video while procrastinating -- I want to get some studying done for uni but can't really focus -- despite wanting to attend my dream university abroad in the future and being the first in my family and town to do that. But then your "I have nothing to lose" and "I will be the first one" mindset shifts have inspired me so much and I'm going back to my books now. Thank you.
My aunty said in my family no one has the same brain level as one of my aunty's children. Well, I was silent and nodded. But in my mind, I know that even if I was born with that brain level I can still improve. The brain is like a muscle we can train them. And I believe I have so much potential to develop.
I think u being silent and nodding was the best response
No joke. All the habits you listed is EXACTLY my husband. And I find him SO attractive and I know many others do too. I’m so blessed to even have him in my life, let alone my husband. And being with him, I’ve upgraded my whole lifestyle and mindset that my own family and past friends feel so far behind. Not that I’m above them. But like, they are in another lifetime. And his attitude and discipline that align with these habits, keep creating endless opportunities in our life. What you are saying is 100% true. But I do believe in God! So I give all my thanks to him ❤️🙌🏻
Thank God for your message! I am in my fifties, and I finally found the job of my dreams, but my co-teacher is playing games to the point of calling out sick for days. She doesn't like that I do my job. She even talks about me to her group of friends at work and they all look at me. I am now finally realizing that I can only control what I think. They can talk all they want, because I know that God knows who I am and I am not going to play her game. Agree! Detachment is the key.
"I will be the first one" this is a powerful mindset. 🧠 I don't know why but i have always waited for someone to do somethings that I wanted to do then I would follow. I have never wanted to be the first one unless it was for presentation in my class.
You’re onto something Eleanora, keep going. Very deep, very powerful messages.
I love the fact that you have a very similar mindset as me bcs it’s so rare to see ppl like you. I’m also trusting in myself for being “the first person” that will make the amount of money for example I’m going for.
Watched a lot of videos like this one, but this one is not like the others. So direct, going to the point. She’s not downgrading other people while trying to elevate us ! Love this video! Wish I knew about your channel sooner 😊
I am ultimately thankful for having access to helpful resources and beneficial information from amazing people like you!! I am glad that I'm alive in this timeline where everything is almost possible for me to access. Thank you for this new video, i badly needed this call out and reminder right now (the algorithm is crazy).
I hope this beautiful channel and community reaches more people and teenagers like me! For girls who are also 15 years old and are having a hard time rn, i just want to let you know that everything will be fine and don't forget that you are not alone in this journey ♡!
Wow! I can't say how happy and impressed I am to have run into you. Someone who's so young and so wise, I'm in awe!
So i learnt today that i don't need to affect myself with anybody ideas and thoughts. I won't affect my life because of someone else and i don't need to reavt everything. I won't complain to anything and won't make excuses, o will always choose myself no matter whatt i don't care about people opinions about me i know who i am and ill het it what i want because obv i don't have anything to loose. Im so connected to myself and first i have abundance I'll gwt everything i want and i need, then i have a vision that i going to be true. I will become my best version infect i am myself my best version right now. I don't scared to be forst winner tahts why ill be successful.
the mechanism of thinking of a reason why you cannot complain is something I do a lot too and I recently learned it's a core tenet of CBT!
I felt the no more complaining I’m doing this more and staying away from negative people and situations and dependent on my higher powers and myself and working on myself for myself. I’m am attractive and people hate it. Today my grandma got upset at me cause I asked my step dad for money for makeup organization items and I told myself I’m not gone react. It felt good. Told myself she can leave or stop being jealous and stop being upset at me knowing my worth and how people should support me and be there for me especially my step dad cause i deserve princess treatment from my father figure and any man in my life. It’s good feeling. ❤
I agree inner and outer beauty is great I personally learned looks isn't everything all the time
Girl… I just wake up in this morning feeling everything but not attractive or deserving all I really want for my incredible life. And this video comes up to me, now i’m so excited and expected from MYSELF that i deserved this life and all the good things that will been in my journey, thank you! God blessing’s
thank you for this♥♥
The art of detachment: Right on, girl! Knowing that I'm OK with just God and the Holy Spirit within me is divine. Then, when another lovely person comes along, added bonus, I welcome them in!
You are basically a super model and also an intelligent and inspiring woman
I feel ur words....I just can't express how thankful I'm to have found u ...u r truly one among the most genuine person on media out there...loads of love and positivity ❤
I dont get where she starts to talk about moths can you explain it?
Thank you 🤍🤍🤍
1:49 "tienes que pensar para ti mismo no dejare que me afecte esta mentalidad dice, no dejare que ninguna persona, ninguna circunstancia llegue a mis emociones,todo lo que tiene el poder de llegar a tus emociones te esta controlando y no puedes convertirte en quien quieres ser o ir a donde quieres ir si estas controlado por algo externo.
Why I should be worrying about to be attractive to others if I don't care what others think about me. I love myself and it's enough
Omg girl u radiate such badass bestie vibes !!! I could listen to your rants for hours ❤
This was so inspiring! Especially the part about being "the first one". Thank you for this video 💕 it truly made my day
I'm so happy to read it made your day. Thank you my dear🤍
I just found your channel today and I immediately subscribed! Thank you for adding value and sharing your light with the world! 🙏🏽😊
Sis is SPEAKING 👑
You're a gem and i can tell your words comes from ur heart❤Thank you for sharing such sincere advice to the world
Thank you for your kind words🤍
never be controlled by the fear of losing skill
First 15 seconds apply to men too. My looks have always gotten me in the door. I learned that what I choose to say either makes or breaks the spell. Good luck :)
I need a person like you in my life! I also feel alone in all my goals and dreams. Amazing video as always, thank you! ❤
Thank you 🤍
The way to make someone back obssessed with you, is to put yourself back onto the pedestal. You then get your power back. It makes you claim your power back instead of putting some power into their hands by putting importance onto them instead of onto you. It's exactly when you put importance onto someone else that you make them think that they are more importante than you. So the person will be chasing another person, but when you put importance on you, by transmission of thoughts they will be chasing, for the exact reason that you start to sée them as less important than you in YOUR reality.
Speak with enthusiasm. It mimics confidence, confuses nervousness with excitement, makes you appear energetic and outwardly focused and helps improve the mood of those around you.
I always get so excited when you post ! Thank you 🙏🏹🤍
Thank YOU🤍
_i will not let any circumstances control me,be grounded by who u are!in order to be detached u need to practice detachment,understand failing like shit doesn't exist for uh try again abd again there is nothing in this world u can't do.
Wow! You are so beautiful inside and out. Everyone should have your mentality. You seem like such an uplifting person to be around. Thank you for your wise words. My new goal, I am going to train my mind to be like yours. Thank you! Just thank you.
Hello Eleonora,
Thank you for all of the inner work you have done and for sharing it with all of us.Yesterday I took a leap of faith and courage. I uploaded a TH-cam video for the first time in a while. I have tried in the past but I was always in my ego and trying to people please. Your videos have given me so much knowledge and have inspired me to create in a way that serves me and others from the inside and out. Your videos are so genuine and I and so many other can tell how much energy you put into them. Thank you so much for creating and sharing your healing journey and inspiring me to do the same.
Next on procrastination vs mentally tiredness(want to relax and need Me time only just) how to differentiate ? Btw thank u so much For this video. Try to upload frequently dear❤️❤️
This channel is pure gold! I am so happy and grateful to be a subscriber of this channel. Much Love and abundance Eléonora 😊
Eleonora thank you so much!! I always know I was different when everyone around me said that their life is fate (for whatever happened to them) but I just felt like it's not like you can't change it. And they really don't want to change it. They keep following their old ways. And keep working like a slave. My mom especially keep telling me too that this is my fate.. that I can't go to school, etc. (6th grade is the last time I was ever go to school) But God give me a brain to think. And the brain is to get out of this situation or whatever situation that got us. That's one if the biggest mercy and blessings from Him. Again, Eleanora thank you for reminding me. I almost thought I was crazy for not being like them. They could never understand my level of thinking and ways. God bless you Eleonora. (I'm planning to take GED, the high school diploma and TOEFL to change my life around. Wish me luck❤️☺️)
I want a girl who thinks and carries herself exactly like this. Just brilliant.
lot of wisdom in this video, thank you for being the first one.
Thank you Noelle 🤍
Damn, this hits very deep. Because I’m one of those who’s afraid to be the “first”. … my husband is very much this mentality.
i pray this goes viral , literally what i live by
Your words are so powerful and you are beyond wise
the more they laughed at you, the more energy you've received. way to goo girl!
I really love confident women and I love being a woman!!!
Thank you, you are godsent ❤ in the future I will look back and I will mention your videos which helped my path 🌌
I LITERALLY WATCH your videos like 3 times or more to get your words stuck in my 🧠 😂
haha thank you dear. I'm so happy its helping🤍
I really became fluent when I am watching your nice youtube channel so keep it up .
Thank you, i am so grateful for watch this video today, you are a amazing woman who give me the strengh and the inspiration i need.
Literally everything you said is a lesson i learnt through experience...i related deeply to every word ..much love to you ❤ new subscribers❤
Literally my fav youtuber, your pieces of advice are always so unique and revalating to me, and it helps me so much!! thank you a lot 🫶🏽
Your chennel is growing so fast within 1 month approximately you were at 63k & 76k now subscriber's congratulations 🎉
Such an amazing video, loved you words and mindset. I have always had this I will be the first mindset and thank you for reminding me
Absolutely amazing vlog Eleonora 😁
Your small small tips to our life makes a huge difference.your vlogs are always motivating and has a good subject and content to talk on.
I look forward to watching your next vlog soon
Thank you Eleonora for your guidance
See you soon ❤️
Thank you🤍
Great content! what lip colour do you wear?@@oxaleonora
@@oxaleonora beautiful lady beautiful face sweet lips sweet voice💋💋💋🤎
Thank you for making this video. I don't know how, but it came at the right time in my life. I needed to hear all this, because in this new phase of my life I'm trying to develop more as a person, to be more selective with my friendships. Thank you, you've helped me a lot!
you’re amazinggg 🤍🤍
Grazie, your efforts are deeply appreciated by all of us
your strength inspires me
Thank you 🤍
ur energy reminds of the wizardliz i love ur pep talks
Innerwork is the key ❤
So glad I found your channel! We are in the same wavelength girl 😊wishing you all the best and lots of success ❤
I really need to watch this every day
Watch this video really was a revealing moment, I got the best advices from here, thank you very muchhhh 💖💖💖
Omg you are really an exemple of a powerful woman , thank you for this video it’s reached me on a lot of points ! Really thank you ❤ God bless you
So inspiring 💓 for the first time I heard these things
Spirit and ancestors in you and me. Glad I watch your videos. ❤
recently discovered your channel! love ur content 💗
Your advice is straight to the point 🎉 love it sis
Great video❤ inspiring and so helpful. You are beautiful both inside and out
Thank you 🤍🤍
❤ Thank you very much, God bless you and everyone
I loved this and needed this. It felt so good to hear it. Thank you
Thank you for this video, beautiful! ❤ It really spoke to me. 💯
My dad is telling me that I'm not gonna achieve or do anything to make myself better and become who i want to be and telling me that I'm too lazy to do it and always seeing me like im idiot and stupid,.. So i wanted to share it with you guys cuz it makes me feel bad
Hi ! How are you now? I hope you feel better sorry for my bad english but I just wanted to tell you that you can do it it may sound cliché but if you put your mind into it then you can do it ! Not everything that people say it's true a lot of the time it's just the reflection of themselves that they put on other people
Amazing video. Thanks for sharing Eleonora ❤
Thank you Rose🤍
I love your encouraging energy ❤
So many key statements in this video. Just wow 🙏🏻
Thank you sharing your gifts and talents couple of videos I watch gave push I need 🇲🇦💚🇲🇦
so much thanks for giving us a intersting inf
Thank you thank you thank you thank you so much 🙏🏼Seriously you made my day brighter
The knowledge you shared will stick with me forever
Good karma for you girl ♥️♥️
Thank you so much. This is very helpful! I’ll watch this again until it stuck in my head. And by the way, you are so pretty and intelligent.
3:58 love this
stop complaining
stay self centered
winning happens within yourself when nobody is watching, it is you between you.
I too need a place where i can record peaceful 😌
I am in love with that woman! Thank you for open my mind !!!
Girllllll u are amazing ❤❤❤❤
Another video
Gaining knowledge
Thankyou El❤❤!
Hi Eleonora, you are very pretty and inspiring :) thanks for sharing your powerful and heartfelt message, cheers from sunny Singapore
The first one. Love that
WONDERFUL VIDEO ALWAYS, thank you Eleonora!! xoxoxo.
loved this video, thanks pretty girl! 🖤
Wow! This was amazing. I thought you were going to rant on about your looks, you're very pretty nevertheless. Here am I almost sobbing at your sound advice. Keep prospering.
thank you so so much for those important words
I'm Indonesian,and,it was enchanting to watch ur video. thanks a lot:)
On point as always ❤ love your videos been watching you since the very first video 💝 keep going queen 👸🌸
glad i came across this vid bc this was vv much needed
I really like learning English through your videos. Thank you very much.
i am so obssesd with your channel !! carry on pretty