I would tell my younger self that not making it to Makerere is not the end of the world. I failed s6 many years ago and my self esteem went from 10-0. I was so ashamed to be around people who went to university because of the fear of being asked where I went to school. I thought no one would ever want to marry me because in my head, who marries an S6 failure. I'm telling you I struggled with myself. However, God came through for me when I moved to Canada where I met so many people who had gone to college and some only high school and were doing well. Nevertheless I took some uni prerequisites and ended up going to one of the best universities in Ontario. So young self, just because you did not make it in UG does not mean you cannot make it else where.
I can really relate to this i actually lost friends many friends i must say because I wasn't talking about muk, kyu,ucu,usually, and I was just there all alone
I would tell my younger self that it's okay to not know how your life will unfold as long today in this moment you are actively working to be better than yesterday. You will land in the right places
Iam a silent follower and had never subscribed. But today, listening to you Prim, I've cried my eyes out.....it's been so touching. The way we talk to ourselves and our bodies....which have never failed us......wow. wow. Wow. Prim, at this moment and time in my life, God knew I needed to hear this. For that matter I've immediately subscribed and commented too. Thank you Prim
I learnt from Prim that if I love my ‘flaws’ no one will use them against me. I must say it’s a work in progress but let me tell you something, my confidence levels are off the charts. You can’t tell me nothing coz the vibe I give myself is enough.
19:41 The day I spoke to an almost sixty year old woman is when I realised we have to make a conscious decision to love our bodies. At her age, she told me she has never loved her body. And yet when she looks back at her old pictures, that's when she realises, it's all in her mind. Every one needs that liberation. Forget the standards of beauty. Become your own standard of beauty even as you work towards the body and healthy goals.
Min 17:10 Thank you beautiful Lady in the white t-shirt for calling out the people who think that if you tell of your experience and it has no suffering in it - you are showing off. Sometimes one is just having a beautiful season and we must be big enough to handle the happiness of others. Hugs from Accra♡
I would tell my younger self,life will shock you and surprise you but doesn't mean love it any lesser.I know that fully well now!Thank you so much for the honesty ladies and for being as real as you can be.Prim,THANK YOU. God bless you all.
Hey its a soon to be 25 yrs old, very confused, unaware of how to go about life, failed my form6 couldn't have finances to acquire even a diploma, decided to work as a house maid and that's wea the low self esteem has kicked to the limits 💔
One thing i wish i told my younger self is, Its never too late to start over, some things aint worth the pressure that we exert on ourselves, im 22 and ive been meeting people successful at my age and yes at somepoint i felt like i have failed but ive learnt to take things slow, we all have different paths in life and we can not be on the same pace.
21K💃🏾🎉👏🏾 What a joy to witness this growth! Love the location and thank you for talking candidly about this, as with everything else. When Prim touched on how we speak to ourselves😭 * Hugs * Many young people are struggling now more than ever because of all the unrealistic beauty standards and 'life standards' really...(which change every minute😏 as if that's not enough) plus pressure in general from social media and its relatives. I really hope the episode reassures many in their 20's (and beyond) who feel lost, inadequate or overwhelmed. *** You started with the template we are supposed to go through and I just remembered how we are warned to keep off boys only to suddenly have a husband in waiting. Like, where did he fall from dear folks?🤔 *** I wish that when we were younger, we knew that we could leave, at any time. If you feel like you are losing yourself, that is reason enough. It doesn't have to make sense to 'everyone.' A course that isn't working out like Kemi mentioned, a bad relationship, a toxic friendship, an unhealthy work environment.. For different reasons, whether it is to fit in, make our parents happy, people pleasing, etc. We stay longer than we should in spaces which drain us when we could spend that time on people/things we actually like and grow from there *** Travel in your 20's if you get the opportunity. It teaches us a lot, even about ourselves. It could be a job upcountry, holiday with friends, a Master's degree or fellowship abroad, a volunteer experience in a neighboring country, whether it is 3 months or two years, it will not leave you the same. *** Finally, listen to your gut. This is for every age, really, but I feel like it is something we don't pay close attention to when we are young(er). If someone's presence makes you uncomfortable and you have no other evidence other than a gut feeling - that is enough. If your gut tells you to miss that party, Sis, stay in watch a movie or even catch up on your sleep. Keep it up team TUO!👏🏾
I can’t tell you how much I have missed you. I love the little nuggets you leave on our page. I love the kindness you come with. Thank you. Your absence is one I always feel. It’s such a joy to have you here. Thank you kalenzi
Coming from a gent. TBH! PRIM there is nothing wrong with your body. You’re very beautiful & have a bubbly personality. The only problem is we live in a very harsh & judgmental country that often makes us question a lot about ourselves. One needs to be pretty thick-skinned to survive here.
Im a Zimbabwean in the UK,discovering your channel has been a blessing to me,i can relate to most of your opinions and experiences… love you guys so much!.I would tell my younger self to value their time and guard it jealously..
Here is a 24 yr old gal,I'll be starting my year 4 in October,by the time I'll get done with law school,God knows 😂but I'm learning to live through everything,I actually didn't want to study law,but my mum,I'm sorry to say but yeah,doing the law diploma first was interested but bachelor's is hot but I'm doing this because it's what mama wanted. And here I'm now struggling financially through everything starting with tuition,mentally...and then law school pressure,but I'm trusting God,Thank you ladies for inspiring and motivating us always ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Anna. Can we kindly connect. I strongly relate to your brief here and am heading towards the mountain you are climbing. Some great advice would be highly appreciated. Thanks
Thank you Prim from a relatable one. People around can really make you feel ashamed of how you look like; yet you're more beautiful than you know. Loving yourself such that no one can get at you with any of your 'shortcomings' (they're not shortcomings per say) is such a fulfilling journey. This was a wonderful convo my darlings. Thank you ❤❤❤
Oh prim. This has changed my life forever. Like when has my body ever failed me? Never. And then I am wishing I was someone else. 💓. Dear me. Ever since I started watching The unpopular opinion, I am always waiting for prim's opinion because I relate to her. My life and hers are so close . I am 23 and I am lucky I watched this. 🧘🏿♀️
Prim’s story is one I relate to so much, I got emotional thinking about how I actually never appreciated how healthy I have been ALL THESE YEARS?! and all I always thought about my body were negatives. Wow. I can’t see myself the same again.
Prim made me so emotional. I've had so many struggles about almost the same thing. And when she said it and cried... i felt lifted up in some way. Thank you ladies.
I'm 21 and I'm always trying so hard to manage. The pressure I exert on myself sometimes gets lethal. I hope to remember all that you ladies have said and breathe easy!🏳
I wish the younger me knew that its ok to take one step at a time and be patient with what life has to offer as i work harder ofcourse because reality is far away from our fantasies
You all touched many sensitive topics. This can go even for over 20s. Mine would be, there is time honey, do not rush it: the job, the relationship etc I go with Prim though, BUY THE SHOES. It's tight up here.
Congrats on 20K ladies! Looking gorgeous as ever!!!! Prim, you had me at the price of curtains. I've literally JUST bought curtains and "wow" is all I will say. Great episode ♥
As a firstborn parents can really push you with their expectations on life. Luckily, I have trained and taught myself to be kind to myself, patient and not let anyone plan my life for me.
Thank you ladies! The pressure from outside is so heavy,I would really love myself more than others because,nobody is gonna love you more! It's never too late...I am on it!
The episode was lit 👌🏾.... I would tell my younger self that u will make mistakes n it's okay, just don't dwell on them, dust off yourself n try again. And then I would tell Myself that the only competition is with myself ( to become better) not with anyone else.
I always love everything from you pretty girls ❤,I’m so happy to hear this on my 20s,I’m a Tanzanian but I have been to Uganda for education ,so I remember the time I was at MUBS main campus(2017-2020)there was this pressure from people like u can’t be at campus with no boyfriend😀it looked so weird but I thank God that all I was doing and still doing is for myself and goal.What I have learnt from you guys is something that live and help to any 20s yr person.I always talk to myself each and everyday that all things would work as long as I live and as long as God lives🙏🏾.Especially us big fat we look so old but young and what I have realized is to accept myself for who I am😍,as long I’m health.I thank God for you guys I know all you have said is dedicated to me🙏🏾
THIS IS MY FIRST VIDEO I HAVE WATCHED AND FINISHED , MAN!!!! AM IN MY 20 SO LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCES HAS ADDED MORE FLESH TO MY KNOWING THUS TO AVOID LIFE PITFALLS, AM TOUCHED WITH WHAT WE TALK TO OUR SELVES, YOU A BLESSINGS TO US, I LOVE YOU
Thank you ladies for this advice, its really educating , some times we have to talk to ourselves better , we cheat our selves and most times we care for others and forget our selves , thanks alot
in my 20's I decided to leave home and go abroad because I didn't like the way people at home viewed me and it was the best decision ever.. sometimes it gets hard but am glad I left home and became independent also have own freedom without judgment
I'm a new member,just subscribed and I love your content today..I'm encouraged coz I'm on my 20,s now..thank you I know it's not too late to change and grow
Thank you Fiona ….. for me I think the best decision I made was to drop my BIT govt scholarship after a year coz I was not feeling it and went for telecommunication coz it was my dream course. My dad got mad to a point of saying he won’t pay for my tuition but i politely said no I will manage….. and it was a huge fight at home but later I went and talked to my aunties and they promised to support me… in my second year my dad picked interest again and started paying for my tuition and he could ask me for whatever i wanted for school…. Today he respect me alot for the bold decision I made…..
Wow I can so much relate with you,I also did telecommunications Engineering without tuition coming from my dad,bt later he came around and am the Proud engineer now he looks UpTo......thnxs Ronnie
Not Prim warning broke people not to attack claire😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Girls u look damn beautiful. I love y’all. Prim🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹. I honestly can relate. 🥰. Anyways i loved this episode dear girlies. The video quality is lit 🔥
Prim that was so emotional darling, but it’s so true. It is something i would def tell my younger self. But now i know better, i am kinder to myself, i love myself more.
Yeah Prim is right. How you speak to yourself. When I was in high school, I hated myself because I was so small. I looked at my pictures recently and realized I was actually beautiful. I always thought I needed a big size to be respected, loved, looked at etc. But I thank God have made peace with this small size. Because it has persisted 🤣
I can relate to fiona about clothes, Gosh, I have wasted so much money buying trash instead of buying the quality and classy tops, it took so many years to realise that in my 30s.
So I have watched this episode for the second time. I'm thankful to God that I have come back to it at the end of the year and at the time when I'm planning my 2023. All your episodes are interesting but this one has extra wisdom 🥰 thanks for sharing with us ladies
Someone said "Comparison is violence against yourself". I see now how true it is. Work on being the best version of myself,not to be better than anyone but be more me.
Aww Prim, we love you! And you are amazing, I relate so much to what you said about speaking to yourself kinder because that's definitely something I've learned too, there's so much beauty that comes from being able to truly appreciate yourself.
Speaking to yo self is really extension of grace. I have been there ,there's a time I hated myself so much because am damn tiny,but now,since I started loving myself,appreciating who I am ive changed and people no longer despise me that much. And sweet prim yo very okay,a sweetest soul ,I love you. I wish I can even hug you🤗🤗
love you guys tho am a guy i enjoy the girly chats and the different perspective which is not so different from what we guys experience keep up with the videos x :)
I think every age has its pressures and as u grow make a decision that makes u happy and that ur willing to face a consequence good or bad n ur willing to own it...
My point in this is about the things we're afraid of..they came, passed and we didn't die. We're absolutely fine. So we literally go go anything we're afraid of now
Am from work and very tired actually But while i was still in transit, i could only think of; God wen i get 🏡 am gonna watch the unpopular opinion 😅 Thanks for being here with me
Of all the violence I've known in my life, I have not known violence like the way I have spoken to myself. Prim,you mirror alot of our thoughts and feelings.We see you,we love you and Thank you 😘 ❤
Big ups on the audio improovements, maybe the the video camera mixing will get there but at least audio is way better especially for us who watch on youtube TV
Wait a minute,thank you so much for speaking to a 25 year old me😊,I mean I have failed in this life and I have been feeling less of a person but today I'm learning to love my flaws so no one's gonna use them against me to bring me down...thank you so much...I just started my own self therapy and today is day 2 ...safe to say we are doing well and much better in the future days to come
a)- love the make up♥️ u ladies are looking 🔥.. and b) - thanks for the content .. ur shifting mindsets for the better, we appreciate! Younger me - don't miss ur life, time moves wayy too fast.
I would tell my younger self that it's okay to be different... Have always looked at myself as a failure because I couldn't complete all the 4yrs of o'level in the same school... It's okay not to be liked by people because even when they like you, u dnt gain much, it's okay to let people go if they ain't treating you right even if they are family, u can still survive without them and it's still okay to study at whatever time in life as opposed to when i thought that i must study within a certain time frame. At whatever time u start, you still study n get there
Awww Prim❤️🤗. You are right the way you speak to yourself matters. At first it’s something you have to do consciously but after awhile it becomes the default and you do it unconsciously. Been there.
Thank you for sharing this Prim, most of us have gone/are going through the same, this episode has been my favorite ,it has touched me deeply. Love you ladies ❤️
The weight issues my dears. Am a cancer patient. Was diagnosed at 31and for treatment came with weigh coz of dexamethasone but now it's like it's the only thing people around me see and talk about even after losing 10kgs in 4month. Now I just let them say what they want and mind my business
Thank you ladies for this segment. It was Prim's opinion about the way we speak to ourselves. I have struggled with my body but mine is weight gain. I'll be kinder to myself from now on.
Ohh my darling Prim, Gal... i love u, with ur flaws, i love the weight everything about u is absolutely jst beautiful.. u have taught me to be kind to myself.. i really love how ur soul is beautiful
I would tell my younger self that not making it to Makerere is not the end of the world. I failed s6 many years ago and my self esteem went from 10-0. I was so ashamed to be around people who went to university because of the fear of being asked where I went to school. I thought no one would ever want to marry me because in my head, who marries an S6 failure. I'm telling you I struggled with myself. However, God came through for me when I moved to Canada where I met so many people who had gone to college and some only high school and were doing well. Nevertheless I took some uni prerequisites and ended up going to one of the best universities in Ontario. So young self, just because you did not make it in UG does not mean you cannot make it else where.
Waaawu so interesting 🥰🥰
Touching story and too motivating.
I can really relate to this i actually lost friends many friends i must say because I wasn't talking about muk, kyu,ucu,usually, and I was just there all alone
I like your story. Keep going! Lesson from your testimony is that changing the environment is good for exposure.
Sending you 🫂🫂Am happy that all that is now in the past.
Something I wish I had learned earlier in my life is not to take criticism from people I wouldn’t take advice from
Wooooooo!!! I have never heard or thought of that. That is SO powerful! Thanks Faith 😊
I need this!
Your shouting…. 👏🏼 👏🏼
Wow
I would tell my younger self that it's okay to not know how your life will unfold as long today in this moment you are actively working to be better than yesterday. You will land in the right places
This is what I need to start telling myself now😭😭I need to relax damn it😩
Wow that's awesome
@@AllenNdoli you got this!
Totally agree with you because the future can never be too clear
25 working on being better person.thank you ladies for sharing your experience with us❤❤
Iam a silent follower and had never subscribed. But today, listening to you Prim, I've cried my eyes out.....it's been so touching. The way we talk to ourselves and our bodies....which have never failed us......wow. wow. Wow. Prim, at this moment and time in my life, God knew I needed to hear this.
For that matter I've immediately subscribed and commented too.
Thank you Prim
This episode really made me emotional.Prim’s point on loving yourself was just what I needed to hear…Thank you guys 🤍🤍
I learnt from Prim that if I love my ‘flaws’ no one will use them against me. I must say it’s a work in progress but let me tell you something, my confidence levels are off the charts. You can’t tell me nothing coz the vibe I give myself is enough.
😘❤️❤️ That's beautiful
19:41 The day I spoke to an almost sixty year old woman is when I realised we have to make a conscious decision to love our bodies. At her age, she told me she has never loved her body. And yet when she looks back at her old pictures, that's when she realises, it's all in her mind. Every one needs that liberation. Forget the standards of beauty. Become your own standard of beauty even as you work towards the body and healthy goals.
Oh wow. I love this. Thanks
Min 17:10 Thank you beautiful Lady in the white t-shirt for calling out the people who think that if you tell of your experience and it has no suffering in it - you are showing off. Sometimes one is just having a beautiful season and we must be big enough to handle the happiness of others. Hugs from Accra♡
I would tell my younger self,life will shock you and surprise you but doesn't mean love it any lesser.I know that fully well now!Thank you so much for the honesty ladies and for being as real as you can be.Prim,THANK YOU.
God bless you all.
The video quality on this episode is really good.
Glad you're sharing this with a 25 year old me confused, feeling less of a person ,an underachiever all these emotions your shows are therapeutic
25 as well, I can totally relate. @Sandra Bridget
Hey its a soon to be 25 yrs old, very confused, unaware of how to go about life, failed my form6 couldn't have finances to acquire even a diploma, decided to work as a house maid and that's wea the low self esteem has kicked to the limits 💔
One thing i wish i told my younger self is, Its never too late to start over, some things aint worth the pressure that we exert on ourselves, im 22 and ive been meeting people successful at my age and yes at somepoint i felt like i have failed but ive learnt to take things slow, we all have different paths in life and we can not be on the same pace.
This is so true ❤️l can relate
21K💃🏾🎉👏🏾 What a joy to witness this growth!
Love the location and thank you for talking candidly about this, as with everything else.
When Prim touched on how we speak to ourselves😭 * Hugs *
Many young people are struggling now more than ever because of all the unrealistic beauty standards and 'life standards' really...(which change every minute😏 as if that's not enough) plus pressure in general from social media and its relatives.
I really hope the episode reassures many in their 20's (and beyond) who feel lost, inadequate or overwhelmed.
***
You started with the template we are supposed to go through and I just remembered how we are warned to keep off boys only to suddenly have a husband in waiting. Like, where did he fall from dear folks?🤔
***
I wish that when we were younger, we knew that we could leave, at any time.
If you feel like you are losing yourself, that is reason enough. It doesn't have to make sense to 'everyone.'
A course that isn't working out like Kemi mentioned, a bad relationship, a toxic friendship, an unhealthy work environment..
For different reasons, whether it is to fit in, make our parents happy, people pleasing, etc. We stay longer than we should in spaces which drain us when we could spend that time on people/things we actually like and grow from there
***
Travel in your 20's if you get the opportunity. It teaches us a lot, even about ourselves.
It could be a job upcountry, holiday with friends, a Master's degree or fellowship abroad, a volunteer experience in a neighboring country, whether it is 3 months or two years, it will not leave you the same.
***
Finally, listen to your gut. This is for every age, really, but I feel like it is something we don't pay close attention to when we are young(er). If someone's presence makes you uncomfortable and you have no other evidence other than a gut feeling - that is enough. If your gut tells you to miss that party, Sis, stay in watch a movie or even catch up on your sleep.
Keep it up team TUO!👏🏾
I can’t tell you how much I have missed you. I love the little nuggets you leave on our page. I love the kindness you come with. Thank you. Your absence is one I always feel. It’s such a joy to have you here. Thank you kalenzi
Aww@@nyonyoziprim
This is so sweet 🥺😍
Been watching 'silently' but always here. It really is my pleasure.
Thank you!
Thank you Esther. Needed this😭❤
@@Patty_k Aww, I am so glad. It's my pleasure 🤗
Love you, Esther. You're such an inspiration just like the TUO team😊❤️
I cried when I saw her talk about how you talk about yourself really matters. Thank you girl. You are gorgeous and this has impacted my life
Coming from a gent. TBH! PRIM there is nothing wrong with your body. You’re very beautiful & have a bubbly personality. The only problem is we live in a very harsh & judgmental country that often makes us question a lot about ourselves. One needs to be pretty thick-skinned to survive here.
Ikr
This is such a kind comment!👌🏼
Prim is a very charismatic, smart and confident woman. She is many things many women wish to be but can't.
Prim is mwaahh🥰 All 3 are terrific! Glad to see these issues are being brought to light🥰🥰🥰
Prim also has a high level of emotional intelligence.
Im a Zimbabwean in the UK,discovering your channel has been a blessing to me,i can relate to most of your opinions and experiences… love you guys so much!.I would tell my younger self to value their time and guard it jealously..
Am a guy but the way I keep up with this channel 😭😭😭 I rewatch old episodes too
You have really given me a space to call home
Thank you so much
If I met these ladies in a restaurant, I would actually grab a sit jst to watch them talk😇
😅
Here is a 24 yr old gal,I'll be starting my year 4 in October,by the time I'll get done with law school,God knows 😂but I'm learning to live through everything,I actually didn't want to study law,but my mum,I'm sorry to say but yeah,doing the law diploma first was interested but bachelor's is hot but I'm doing this because it's what mama wanted.
And here I'm now struggling financially through everything starting with tuition,mentally...and then law school pressure,but I'm trusting God,Thank you ladies for inspiring and motivating us always ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Anna.
Can we kindly connect.
I strongly relate to your brief here and am heading towards the mountain you are climbing.
Some great advice would be highly appreciated.
Thanks
It's the " you don't have to fit in" for me. Thanks Claire.
Thank you Prim from a relatable one. People around can really make you feel ashamed of how you look like; yet you're more beautiful than you know.
Loving yourself such that no one can get at you with any of your 'shortcomings' (they're not shortcomings per say) is such a fulfilling journey.
This was a wonderful convo my darlings. Thank you ❤❤❤
Oh prim. This has changed my life forever. Like when has my body ever failed me? Never. And then I am wishing I was someone else. 💓. Dear me. Ever since I started watching The unpopular opinion, I am always waiting for prim's opinion because I relate to her. My life and hers are so close . I am 23 and I am lucky I watched this. 🧘🏿♀️
Prim’s story is one I relate to so much, I got emotional thinking about how I actually never appreciated how healthy I have been ALL THESE YEARS?! and all I always thought about my body were negatives. Wow. I can’t see myself the same again.
Prim made me so emotional. I've had so many struggles about almost the same thing. And when she said it and cried... i felt lifted up in some way. Thank you ladies.
Yes to watching how you speak to yourself....Prim got me emotional there 😭
You all look absolutely stunning today, loves! This episode was full of gems, thank you for sharing! ❤
I'm 21 and I'm always trying so hard to manage. The pressure I exert on myself sometimes gets lethal. I hope to remember all that you ladies have said and breathe easy!🏳
I wish the younger me knew that its ok to take one step at a time and be patient with what life has to offer as i work harder ofcourse because reality is far away from our fantasies
You all touched many sensitive topics. This can go even for over 20s. Mine would be, there is time honey, do not rush it: the job, the relationship etc I go with Prim though, BUY THE SHOES. It's tight up here.
Love love love you Prim. I totally relate...we need to talk to our selves like people we love. It's crazy hard. I am on that journey too.
Congrats on 20K ladies! Looking gorgeous as ever!!!!
Prim, you had me at the price of curtains. I've literally JUST bought curtains and "wow" is all I will say.
Great episode ♥
As a firstborn parents can really push you with their expectations on life. Luckily, I have trained and taught myself to be kind to myself, patient and not let anyone plan my life for me.
I know right! The pressure of being a firstborn is something else!
Thank you ladies! The pressure from outside is so heavy,I would really love myself more than others because,nobody is gonna love you more!
It's never too late...I am on it!
The episode was lit 👌🏾....
I would tell my younger self that u will make mistakes n it's okay, just don't dwell on them, dust off yourself n try again. And then I would tell Myself that the only competition is with myself ( to become better) not with anyone else.
Lol @Prim me too didn't think curtains were costly! I even had to check different shops, make phone calls to confirm with some family members!!
I’m loving Kemi’s makeup. I would love to see a tutorial! ❤
I always love everything from you pretty girls ❤,I’m so happy to hear this on my 20s,I’m a Tanzanian but I have been to Uganda for education ,so I remember the time I was at MUBS main campus(2017-2020)there was this pressure from people like u can’t be at campus with no boyfriend😀it looked so weird but I thank God that all I was doing and still doing is for myself and goal.What I have learnt from you guys is something that live and help to any 20s yr person.I always talk to myself each and everyday that all things would work as long as I live and as long as God lives🙏🏾.Especially us big fat we look so old but young and what I have realized is to accept myself for who I am😍,as long I’m health.I thank God for you guys I know all you have said is dedicated to me🙏🏾
It feel like you're talking to me... still in my early 20's. This is my first time here and I love it here
I just thank God that I am able to watch this wen am still in my 20s. Thank you un popular opinion for this content
Not Prim making me cry too 😢
You got a purpose and are loved gal ❤️ I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.
THIS IS MY FIRST VIDEO I HAVE WATCHED AND FINISHED , MAN!!!! AM IN MY 20 SO LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCES HAS ADDED MORE FLESH TO MY KNOWING THUS TO AVOID LIFE PITFALLS, AM TOUCHED WITH WHAT WE TALK TO OUR SELVES, YOU A BLESSINGS TO US, I LOVE YOU
Fiona is so right first borns we are unable to just be spontaneous perfection is expected of us
I can relate, you have to live your life for everyone else
Siblings to worry about
Awwww primmm🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 ur so right. We need to thank our bodies despite the imperfections.
Gal.. they aint even imperfections
Awww Prim 🥺🥺🥺🥺 . I have learnt to be kind to myself and my body
Thank you ladies for this advice, its really educating , some times we have to talk to ourselves better , we cheat our selves and most times we care for others and forget our selves , thanks alot
in my 20's I decided to leave home and go abroad because I didn't like the way people at home viewed me and it was the best decision ever.. sometimes it gets hard but am glad I left home and became independent also have own freedom without judgment
Hey Ndagire. I would like to use some tips from you if you don't mind
Very innovative! Fell in love with your channel, thanks. Financial planning is something we really need! I have learnt a lot from you.
I'm a new member,just subscribed and I love your content today..I'm encouraged coz I'm on my 20,s now..thank you I know it's not too late to change and grow
Thank you Fiona ….. for me I think the best decision I made was to drop my BIT govt scholarship after a year coz I was not feeling it and went for telecommunication coz it was my dream course. My dad got mad to a point of saying he won’t pay for my tuition but i politely said no I will manage….. and it was a huge fight at home but later I went and talked to my aunties and they promised to support me… in my second year my dad picked interest again and started paying for my tuition and he could ask me for whatever i wanted for school…. Today he respect me alot for the bold decision I made…..
Wow I can so much relate with you,I also did telecommunications Engineering without tuition coming from my dad,bt later he came around and am the Proud engineer now he looks UpTo......thnxs Ronnie
@@daphineabiro4225 nice to hear from you dear ❤️❤️
Not Prim warning broke people not to attack claire😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Girls u look damn beautiful. I love y’all. Prim🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹. I honestly can relate. 🥰. Anyways i loved this episode dear girlies. The video quality is lit 🔥
As for Kemi.. honey, m glad u have taught me to accept what i want despite all the opinions from Society.. we actually needed this topic earlier
Prim that was so emotional darling, but it’s so true. It is something i would def tell my younger self. But now i know better, i am kinder to myself, i love myself more.
Yeah Prim is right. How you speak to yourself. When I was in high school, I hated myself because I was so small. I looked at my pictures recently and realized I was actually beautiful. I always thought I needed a big size to be respected, loved, looked at etc. But I thank God have made peace with this small size. Because it has persisted 🤣
@presht I relate with this
I can relate to fiona about clothes, Gosh, I have wasted so much money buying trash instead of buying the quality and classy tops, it took so many years to realise that in my 30s.
So I have watched this episode for the second time. I'm thankful to God that I have come back to it at the end of the year and at the time when I'm planning my 2023. All your episodes are interesting but this one has extra wisdom 🥰 thanks for sharing with us ladies
I Love The Inner Child In Prim.((flipping phone whilst saying her goodbyes)💛💛
Someone said "Comparison is violence against yourself". I see now how true it is. Work on being the best version of myself,not to be better than anyone but be more me.
Aww Prim, we love you! And you are amazing, I relate so much to what you said about speaking to yourself kinder because that's definitely something I've learned too, there's so much beauty that comes from being able to truly appreciate yourself.
Great episode, ladies👏🏾👏🏾
Such a beautiful episode 🥰thank you ladies
Ur one decision away from changing ur life....whewwwww🤗
Speaking to yo self is really extension of grace. I have been there ,there's a time I hated myself so much because am damn tiny,but now,since I started loving myself,appreciating who I am ive changed and people no longer despise me that much. And sweet prim yo very okay,a sweetest soul ,I love you. I wish I can even hug you🤗🤗
Pretty ladies here, you look good ladies. The light is giving, new ka background amazingggg!
Keep serving looks and wisdom❣
Loved all these points!💕💕💕
love you guys tho am a guy i enjoy the girly chats and the different perspective which is not so different from what we guys experience keep up with the videos x :)
NEW SET alert👌
gundi! We are moving :)
Being authentic not changing yourself for anyone being uncomfortable to make someone comfortable
Being apologetic for who you are
I love the old set but the new one is 🔥🔥🔥.
I think every age has its pressures and as u grow make a decision that makes u happy and that ur willing to face a consequence good or bad n ur willing to own it...
My point in this is about the things we're afraid of..they came, passed and we didn't die. We're absolutely fine. So we literally go go anything we're afraid of now
So encouraging.
Thank you for the episodes. And you all look good 😙
Am from work and very tired actually But while i was still in transit, i could only think of; God wen i get 🏡 am gonna watch the unpopular opinion 😅 Thanks for being here with me
Thanks, queens, this is helpful as being on a self-love journey
wow,this is just for me,thank you beautiful ladies
Of all the violence I've known in my life, I have not known violence like the way I have spoken to myself. Prim,you mirror alot of our thoughts and feelings.We see you,we love you and Thank you 😘 ❤
Hello besties 👯♀️ another week another banger
Hey bestie 😊
Big ups on the audio improovements, maybe the the video camera mixing will get there but at least audio is way better especially for us who watch on youtube TV
Wait a minute,thank you so much for speaking to a 25 year old me😊,I mean I have failed in this life and I have been feeling less of a person but today I'm learning to love my flaws so no one's gonna use them against me to bring me down...thank you so much...I just started my own self therapy and today is day 2 ...safe to say we are doing well and much better in the future days to come
a)- love the make up♥️ u ladies are looking 🔥.. and b) - thanks for the content .. ur shifting mindsets for the better, we appreciate! Younger me - don't miss ur life, time moves wayy too fast.
This conversation just got so emotional, OMG self talk is my take away point.
I would tell my younger self that it's okay to be different... Have always looked at myself as a failure because I couldn't complete all the 4yrs of o'level in the same school... It's okay not to be liked by people because even when they like you, u dnt gain much, it's okay to let people go if they ain't treating you right even if they are family, u can still survive without them and it's still okay to study at whatever time in life as opposed to when i thought that i must study within a certain time frame. At whatever time u start, you still study n get there
Wow, so much wisdom here... thank you for Ladies ❤
Prim made me cry. But I can relate, speak kindly to yourself. It will reflect on the outside. Thank you ladies.
I love your show.Big hugs
Loved Clare's advice on the marriage part.
Thank you Prim🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻The power of decisions
I love you people 💕🥇❤️thanks for the EPISODE IT'S been All I needed to hear 😊
You people are the best. I'm 22 at university im glad I've had from you
Meanwhile ladies... get me that make up plug.. u guys look simple cute.. thnc for the topic loves
i am literally repeating prim's episode about selftalk. much love🥰
For some reasons I feel touched by Prim’s take on the entire episode.
I feel moved!
@@kabugosserwangaronald1265 same here... Literally!
Loved this episode ladies❤️❤️❤️
Awwwh Prim thnx sis u talked direct to me. I'm at a phase in life of change
Awww Prim❤️🤗. You are right the way you speak to yourself matters. At first it’s something you have to do consciously but after awhile it becomes the default and you do it unconsciously. Been there.
Thank you for sharing this Prim, most of us have gone/are going through the same, this episode has been my favorite ,it has touched me deeply. Love you ladies ❤️
The weight issues my dears. Am a cancer patient. Was diagnosed at 31and for treatment came with weigh coz of dexamethasone but now it's like it's the only thing people around me see and talk about even after losing 10kgs in 4month. Now I just let them say what they want and mind my business
Prima I love you so much🥰🥰🥰 U're brilliant, and so humorous
Kudos guys, I love your content, you are so inspiring😍
Thank you ladies for this segment.
It was Prim's opinion about the way we speak to ourselves. I have struggled with my body but mine is weight gain.
I'll be kinder to myself from now on.
I love the new set up
Notification gang coz I'm in my early twenies, Y'all look so good thou like are we yiven Ugandans like you🥹🥹🥹
Ohh my darling Prim, Gal... i love u, with ur flaws, i love the weight everything about u is absolutely jst beautiful.. u have taught me to be kind to myself.. i really love how ur soul is beautiful
Thanks ladies for working on the sound. We appreciate the adjustment.