It's not just you, hun- Opening up about our Insecurities | The Unpopular Opinion UG
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Hi guys, I’m actually blown away by the love on here. For my own sanity, I rarely read comments on here, especially when the episode is heavy but I’m so glad I read them today.
Thank you to everyone that has taken time to reassure me in the comments. You have no idea how much you have breathed life back into me and made me want to do even better in this space that I thought I brought absolutely nothing to.
I’m typing this with tears in my eyes. Thank you so so so much ladies. You have reminded me of how important it is to be myself always.
If you are reading this and like me, you fear being disliked, please don’t let that fear control you. I’m glad I didn’t quit TUO when my fear was at it’s peak. Don’t let your insecurities control you. You need to learn to control them…
I love you all and I am committed to serving by being my most authentic self. ❤️
You are loved and keep going
I love you so much
Dear Claire you are so good trust me, and to speak for myself you really inspire me
Love u darling
Hi Claire am here to let you know that I love you and I love ur bold submissions… I always pay attention to every details here because I have learnt a lot about women and with you, u submit things I av always gone through in my past relationships…… away from that tubagala nyo ba dear…. Much love to Fiona n prim
Ladies, you compliment each other.Claire, those of us who like you just don't comment but we like you. We see you and we like you.
Clare doesn't know how much I love her. Like today as I watched this I wished I could atleast see u at a distance and scream " my Clare" & request for a hug. I love u😘 ❤️. I've always wished I could be like you.
This is actually very true.
I have always admired how beautiful Claire is, and her flawless fluency
Am a single person and one of my worst insecurities is the thought of picking a wrong partner and later regretting it especially in a marriage ( i realize it's because i come from a broken home and constantly seeing and hearing people in such situations)
Same😢
Oooh girl😔
Me too
Glad to know am not the only one😅
Claire I was in high school with you and I always admired your unique personality. You are unique and amazing.
Fiona speaks just like my sister, even the way she carries her self. For me looking from the outside. When I see Prim I see more of her personality and that covers a multitude of everything. Fiona, has a quiet and unique personality which reminds me of French classy ladies, Clare is like that girl who is all about let's keep it 💯 which is a wonderful thing and rare in this fake social media world. I mean your all keeping it 💯. You all are doing things for us here. The most important is what you bring to this unpopular opinion table and how you have influenced us and changed lives.
Your worst fears will happen and you will survive ❤
You are all loved, accepted, unique. It wouldn’t have been better without any of you. Your combination is a boom and keep going gals
Claire, we love you. Sorry we've not done a good job of letting you know. All of you are equally relevant here on this show.
Me as me when Claire talks l take all her convoz Seriously with No Joke okey she is a manager on this Channel ..but but and l say but when Prim comes out am like lemme cheer up after Claire's and kemiz words ...but these ladies are all
Keyword "equally relevant"
When Claire was describing her body, Prim and I had the same reactions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 eeehhh maaamaaa Claireeeee😌
Claire you are so bold and confident you have boss lady energy and we love it , Prim your energy is everything ,Fiona has a very calming aura you complement each other very well . You can't be in a group of people with just similar qualities it would not be as engaging and entertaining.
In life , you can never be too good to everyone . Claire if can know how many people admire you. You can never count such people who are mean in their hearts . Go girl we love and you are our secret admirer , role model and we look up to you 😍😍
100% I would say the same thing. I was so surprised that people ever said something negative about Claire.. I’m also just so moved by the ladies’ authenticity- I really feel their honesty and rawness and it’s so beautiful and refreshing ❤️ Ladies thank you and you are amazing .
Prim was preaching there 🙌🏾 God raises our children… goosebumps.
Also that one about being too Christian and also not Christian enough- it’s a thing 🤦🏾♀️
Thank you Claire, Fiona and Prim. I am in tears hearing Prim say God takes care of children. I am that child that God has been taking care of. 😭😭
Me too😭
Same WhatsApp group 🤗We bless The Lord 🙏🏼
Claire your laughter 😂, the way Prim says funny stuff and maintains a serious face then Claire bursts into laughter 😂
The only problem I have with this show is that it comes to an end😢….
Keep it up ladies.
Prim i felt you at over sharing,,,, I used to be an open book but people judge and use it against me so i don’t share my staff a lot anymore with freinds
the worst thing for me is that I still do that then criticize myself so much at the end of the day
Love this show, I look forward to it every Saturday. Thanks ladies!
Love you ladies..you're changing lives! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your hearts out! Love youuuuu❤️❤️
You guys went in DEEP with this one. I feel like in one way or another I related with each one of you. I wish we could have a group hug! I am here for all this vulnerability. But Prim why, we were here getting emotional and you then you went there, BWAHAHAHA I can't.
Thank you ladies for having this topic and being honest and vulnerable with us. It's not easy to put yourself out there like that with these ......
You gorgeous ladies, thank you for sharing. It can't have been easy but you're awesome. And may all our insecurities never define us.
If any of you think we don't love you, just miss the show for one day and see questions, I think the reason why Prims name is so vibrant is becoz we are many plus size pipo with insecurities ,so Prim is our cheerleader, otherwise you are all fabulous,❤️
Absolutely loved this episode.
We appreciate you ladies 🤍
This is so beautiful, I like the vulnerability and the bond you guys have is synergistic.
You ladies are so awesome,how many people come out this true for the sake of helping one another! Thank you for loving us! Claire I love you,why wouldn't anyone love such a blend! It gives us a chance to learn!❤️
This was heavy, really heavy. Thank you for this. This was really good. Thank you ladies.
Claire, that's so true...me who likes you is quiet. When it's your turn to talk. always excited. Btw that's my insecurity too but I didn't know how to express it as excellently as you have.
Claire I love the way you're so honest 🥰. I always learn something from you.
This was one whole therapy session. Thank you ladies for being transparent with your journies and being vulnerable in this space. It gives us the ability to aspire for better for ourselves
Ladies! I see you and I love your candor. This is much needed in this present world where everything is inauthentic. I love how you affirm each other and offer advice. Bravo! keep doing it ladies!
I started watching your channel yesterday but just want to let you know I love you all. I like your content and I like how authentic your opinions are.
I could relate with every single one 😅 bruh! Thank you for the episodeeeeeeeeee ❤ much love! Plus that family relationship episode would be great!
A deep conversation this was❣️ thank you ladies for sharing this bare part of yourselves with us, sending you so many hugs💕💕💕
Thank you for putting yourselves out there ladies, this was amazing. You are such a perfect blend. What you are doing is amazing and we resonate with your perspectives differently, which is what makes this beautiful.
Together, you are a wealth of wisdom and have personally allowed me to deal with things and have comfort in knowing I'm not alone. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to see this side of you. Love you all and God bless. ❤
This is 💯💯💯💯💯 all I needed to start my birth month and year ahead. Thank you 😭
This is the greatest conversation you’ve ever beought on the table ladies. I can reasonate so much on each of your points
Oh my, oh my Claire! You are everything! You are a whole vibe, very inspirational, such a vibrant soul! You are so likable I love your character it's very different, very fresh, very unapologetic, an embodiment of what bright, beautiful, blossoming flower in spring looks like in human flesh!
Bambi you are liked and admired, ehhhhh I follow you everywhere and truly inspired! My namesake go girl you rock!
I don’t usually comment on TH-cam but today I have to comment!
First of all I love you girls, you always speak my mind all the timeee❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🥂
Who doesn’t like Claire and why? It’s very hard to dislike any of these amazing ladies!
You inspire us ladies so no matter what, keep doing what you are doing and being you!
Loooooved this episode. Totally resonate with everything that you mentioned.
Love you all ❣️
To more episodes with the unpopular opinion 🥂🥂
Claire we loveeeeee you
Your opinion are breaking down mindset of young woman and woman in general 💯
Knowing ur weaknesses and insecurities makes u stand stronger before people who may use them against you thus normalizing them in ur life...much love Claire🤗
This show makes sense with ALL THREE of you ❤. Your diverse characters bring so much richness.
You ladies are all amazing...I relate to everything you discuss and looking forward to your new episodes...lots of love
Love,love you ladies,you are all unique in your different ways,that's the truth. Learning alot from both of you, go gals.
Ladies, i always watch the episodes a day or 2 after, but you all compliment each other. You all have something to bring to the table.. you have no clue how many people you are helping out there. Keep going. i thank you very much for giving us your time almost every week. You are fixing the nation 🥳🤗 May God continue to bless and provide for you to keep this going.
Thank ue darlings for sharing
But who ever is behind the camera is a gen its so damn clear and your MUA did well too❤️🎀
Hmmmmm this is my most emotional episode out of the the ones released so far…everything you have spoken is hitting right through my HEART,BODY and SOUL…..but thank you for sharing on some of our behalves….May God always give you the wisdom to Speak about the unspoken ❤
We love you ladies of Unpopular opinion keep up the great work. Claire we see you, appreciate, like and value what you bring to the show. Individually and together ya'll rock!
Claire, i really love how you speak to me...i understand coz i work work best as an individual so in a group setting i keep on feeling i am not at my best. I feel each of you bring a different perspective to each topic you tackle thus it makes it feel so real...there are times i have learned from Prim and times i identified with Fiona especially on changing career paths...
continue soaring, love you guys and enjoying the content
You guys are all amazing, different people with different opinions, it helps us a lot by sharing your story, I just found your channel but when u share ur stories I can relate in soany ways and it's so helpful. Keep being you we love you all
this was a tough one to unpack. super emotional. God bless you ladies
Wow ladies. Wow 👌
Lesson learned: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear & insecurty in the face. You take away its power. Trust me on this, unpopular opinion wouldn't be as amazing without any of you! You 3, are the perfect fit. & you're loved🖤
You guys have great content. I have always watched. You bring your unique traits to this and the gel is just perfect. The most ideal shows / podcasts are natural, authentic and human.
Why do I love these ladies so much?! Claire we see you. Honestly you each have your own special traits. I agree with a different one of you on each episode. Keep it up lovelies. Love from Kenya!!
Honestly, you guys are all unique. You all bring a different conversation and perspective to things and i have developed a love for how you bring those differences and exwperiences.
Just keep it up.
I love you guys more for talking about this. It is so hard and uncomfortable but you talked about it anyway. Kudos for this. Clare, you are loved, and you are great, and I love your character. Don't let anyone tell you anything less. I love you all, you are perfect together.
Thank you 3 beautiful gals,for loving and fighting for each other as a team!
This is real, Bravo ladies👏
Comparison is the greatest enemy for prosperity. We are all special in different ways
Okay guys just know you are doing great, your content is super good, well planned, the dress code and the coordination is all good. Trust me you are impact great. Just keep going.
Claire you are amazing, don't ever doubt that and your laugh is contagious. Prim you make us laugh so hard. Fiona your calming aura is everything. You guys compliment eachother perfectly. This is the best show for me on TH-cam and I have never missed an episode on God.
I love you guys so much.
My goodness I relate with everything you've touched on. Gosh it's not just me. Thank you all for sharing. Great show
This is like "the Real"( American tv show) u guys really hit deep..Claire we have the same insecurity but ur loved..Prim z speech abt when smone dies " if the dead would come back to life..they would be disappointed" it totally resonates & what u said is really tear inducing but true
Thank you guys for your vulnerability! I appreciate it so much and could relate to what each one of you said. Much love guys❤️❤️😘
A big hug Claire. One of my biggest fears too is rejection and not being liked. I don’t like being compared. Usually I am the one that is liked or praised and it brings some feelings and coldness among the group which has broken many of my group friendships. Also, I usually don’t sugarcoat things and I’m usually called out for showing off or being insensitive. So I really feel you. Ps: You matter and even though I may not agree with some of your opinions here you are still a great addition to this trio. Big hug❤️
Every episode that you ladies put up always hits straight to the soul and this one did the same thing. Prim really spoke to me on the body insecurities damn.. I do love where I am with my body and I hope I continue to extend myself grace.
Clare yo the most genuine person I have seen. like wooooow you make me remember myself and it's my biggest insecurity.
I try to run away from a space I start to feel that way but today I feel much better today and knowing I should be myself and accept it
Claire we are here!!!!Keep going mama!! All three of you are gems!!!!
Awww Claire you are lovely. You always bring a unique perspective to each topic. Do not allow those negative comments bring you down. The three of you are amazing. Keep doing what you do. Much love.
This is a deep convo! @Claire, I totally get you on the comparisons 😄😄 we love you, and admire your openness and hope you see just how much
Claire and I resonate on the same frequency. I fear people might not like me.
I love you ladies Prim(❤),Fiona(❤), and Claire (❤). You guys what no idea how much impact y’all are making in society.
I pray for more growth in our communities.
Ps: I’m from South Sudan 🇸🇸
Thank u ladies for sharing. Claire u are loved for who u are. Each one of u is different and therefore loved differently but we love u all and u are all amazing in your own personality.
For public/civil service, am in there and I have always told colleagues that there is no growth in this space. I have been contemplating quitting but the fear of to where sets in. At one time I know I will quit because am not comfortable.
I feel you claire.. on matter of not necessarily being liked because of being authentically straight forward..learning to harness it but not get rid of it. It’s a gift and it’s rare
Love the new set up ladies! and love this topic… I wish we could all just embrace this level of transparency. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for being a good example of what female friendships should look like. ❤️ You ladies are going places, us the fans we shall keep fanning, the rest will catch up mpoola mpoola. ❤️❤️❤️
This show is my therapy sometimes ...I relate with u guys ...thank you so much
Waited for today's upload since morning🥰 Lots of love
Love you guys keep the authenticity ❤❤❤❤and everything else!!!Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪.
Sadly the world doesn't owe you understanding. The world expects to see the best you every time you show up.
Shine ladies, shine.
Much love 💕
You’re so right
Claire I love brutal honesty and u guys like all of u get me up in the morning 🌅 u r my therapy seriously
Claire I think you're liked by introverts like me who rarely comment. But personally, I love you with no strings attached ❤️😍💋
My God! For each insecurity I could relate. This episode made me feel so much better especially the body insecurities and friendship.
Bambi sweethearts ❤, it’s been like a few months now when I started following you guys ,but am honestly very proud and inspired by you!!
That's the beauty
of this podcast, you can't all have the same opinion, we love and appreciate you Claire
"I shame myself to a point where you can not shame me more than i shame myself" Prim😘
This should also be called it’s related I promise😂😂 because the way Prim is talking my life 😅 Prim few weeks a go, I mean when I realized that I’ve put on weight, it was in a shopping centre, you know how there a lot of mirrors in shops on every wall💁🏽♀️ so I was walking and came across my really self🤓 I removed shoes and ran away from me😒 people I ran🏃🏾♀️ as if I was being followed. Since that day, never took pictures, wore tight clothes and literally never liked myself. So joined the jym, lost few pounds and got so active and gained confidence.
You 3 ladies are awesome with different strength and compliment each other so well.
You are all amazing and no one should even bring you guys down.
Keeping doing what u do.
I love watching you guys and I have learnt a lot from the bunch of wisdom you share with us.
In fact we should start paying you guys cuz you kinda offer us free therapy.
Greetings 🖖 from Denmark 🇩🇰
You’re amazing peace!! Sending you so much love
Claire is so amazing. She brings a unique feel, she is loud and I love how she says 'do you get it?'.
People might not like how blunt she is, but what she says is true most of the time, people don't like the truth!
Av just landed on this channel.i luv you women of substance. I feel you Claire.
Hello am new here and I absolutely love you all, it was so weird hearing Claire speak about your insecurity because honestly you exude so much confidence as a plussize woman I really look up to you , I love myself and the skin I'm in partly because of watching and following you guys. And not just that my biggest fear is failing so sometimes I just don't try at all, I'd stay in my comfort zone but after following this channel and you all on your personal channels I just want to venture out and do more and I'm really excited about that. So thank you all, you do not know what you all do for us sometimes and we can't give you much but trust me we really love and appreciate you. Claire we love you, your bubbly and Funny, prim I absolutely love your confidence and Fiona I love your subtle realness. Your all a breath of fresh air. Great Job❤
It’s not that we don’t like you, Clair. it’s just that we find ourselves being familiar with the other two ladies perspectives. And one thing you should know we all have our fears like being rejected or being undesirable. but remember your show is called unpopular opinion, it will always garner criticism or opinions, and such criticism is not limited to topics but also individuals on the program too. Just remember there people who resonate with you, they could be a minority, often minorities don’t want express themselves for fear of criticisms, therefore kudos to yourself that you can express yourself, your the true meaning of unpopular opinion. I admire that you’re yourself, you express how you feel and that you don’t try adopting stances for the sake of being a people pleaser.
Hmmmmmmm
This honesty is thrilling 😊
Honestly amazing Job you guys
You all bring so much to the table
againnnnn ...dancing to the tune💃💃💃..abt Clare's insecurities...am so shocked, coz in the entire videos, I am always glued to her so much maybe coz I am frank too, just as she is😅 buh I love u all equally coz u are just all amazing, the way Prim talks abt her *bubunya*🥰🥰 ...n the Fiona is all classy n just carries herself exactly like my supervisor 🦋
I love you guys, n u are supporting me see my sweet life n I so much love t💯💯💯
your all amazing in your own way and clair your loved, personally i respect your views and your awesome!
Your worst fears will happen but you will survive. Whew! Prim, God raises children 🙌
Claire, you are loved, just as you are. You nailed it on the need for people to be their authentic selves.
Kemi, you are so poised, and you are just Christian enough for God, and that’s the only one who matters.
Thank you for being vulnerable ladies, this is a great discussion
Oh Clare bambi, your truth (about the comments) is so deep. So sorry to hear this naye one thing is for sure, you have always shown up and delivered n’ none of us knew this until today that you have shared. I just love all of you ladies. your energy, love n support for each other 🫂 ❤️
Clare you are a darling in my opinion. I am in shock that there are people who talk negatively about you. You go girl. You are doing so well and are on a journey to greatness. We love you.
I've been struggling with body insecurities my entire life but on the skinny side wheew waking up everyday with a choice to love me for who I am has been my longest journey !! Thank you for all you do girls , I love the 3 of you😍😍❤️
Makes the two of us
@@janetkan3242 issa struggle sis, buh I've found solace in finding cloths that look good on my body and I've been loving it 😍
I can so relate with you Fiona on Daughter-Parent relationship.... Iam shook wen pipo have such amazing and liberal relationships with their moms. Keep hoping it will happen one day
But Claire babe,I like you. I like how aware you are of yourself and how you show up everyday. That itself to me is more than enough! Sending you love and light your way❤
Kale its this year have got to know about this beautiful trio, and at first it was Clair i got to know ofcourse on Instagram but her confidence blown me a way I fell in love with it, i remember I was commenting so much on her posts more so her stories,.... Clair i never knew me and you have the same insecurities but please don't stop what ever you are doing, because you have really uplifted my spirits, I even have some caption screenshots of your Instagram posts lol, I love them,... love you guys to the extent i feel i should be part of you because of your open minds because that is what i am hahaha.....
Therapy taking Claire’s money because people are mean
All I can say is that we should learn to extend grace to one another
🙏🏻
So true
Claire, you are loved and you bring a lot to the table. I love the unpopular opinion.