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  • @neemamuganga701
    @neemamuganga701 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hearing Phiona's story of how this guy showed the whole world how amazing of a boyfriend he yet a narcissist when its just the two of you, is so relatable. I'm still healing.

  • @pinkie_x_bryne
    @pinkie_x_bryne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The power of abstain + forgive one self + Building that confidence back ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you ladies

  • @jackydreamer2180
    @jackydreamer2180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I am kenyan. This is my first episode...i love it!!!. I love how deep , mature and raw your content is. Keep up! Thanks for sharing your stories.

    • @studiofix1
      @studiofix1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tuko wengi

    • @wairimu625
      @wairimu625 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      From Kenya too

    • @wairimu625
      @wairimu625 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      From Kenya too

    • @TheDufteLady
      @TheDufteLady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not from Kenya, but it is also my first episode and i am loving it

    • @Lucy-ck9mn
      @Lucy-ck9mn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@studiofix1 hehehe kabisaa

  • @sunflowergems2352
    @sunflowergems2352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Forgiving oneself is usually the hardest thing after breakup, once it comes it's a completely new chapter

  • @ayebaresarah6315
    @ayebaresarah6315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Listening to this makes me know that im not the only one that has made mistakes, its human to error, i decide to forgive myself and go to the throne of grace to attain mercy

  • @millylagat
    @millylagat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Prim's story is so relatable. Currently healing from the same experience

    • @Pro-misiee
      @Pro-misiee ปีที่แล้ว

      Just watched this episode
      Oh God, I thought I was the only one, I am lately going through the same situation trying to process things out, how to go about that buh I believe regardless damn it's over and never to happen again.

    • @millylagat
      @millylagat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Pro-misiee send you love and hugs. You will be fine

    • @Pro-misiee
      @Pro-misiee ปีที่แล้ว

      @@millylagat🙏🙏 thanks darling 🥰🫂🥰

  • @patriciakigula7402
    @patriciakigula7402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Fiona’s ex really confirms my belief (and experience) about men who love you publicly… grand gestures and all. Most times the relationship isn’t healthy…. Most times it’s emotionally abusive. Glad to know you dodged that bazooka sis.

    • @jimmyntegeka9089
      @jimmyntegeka9089 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly its what yall have decided to associate with real affection. If someone doesn't like PDA yall think its not affection.

    • @Passiemclove
      @Passiemclove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ENOCK NALUMOSO let her be the one to tell

    • @kobugabeelizabeth3657
      @kobugabeelizabeth3657 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmmmmm emotional abuse

  • @agathamartha3032
    @agathamartha3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is my second video and I really find you ladies gorgeous, amazing,inspiring and very educative.I feel so addicted to your videos and I want to watch the whole season. You grant me talks that I have always wanted to listen to.

  • @audrey_b8082
    @audrey_b8082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    my days....this episode.... resonated with it a lot... thank you for putting a face on our demons and making it easier to fight them

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for affirming us like this, sis. It's part of our vision to speak up and let other know they aren't alone 💖

  • @mariefrancerw
    @mariefrancerw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This episode reminded me of my past , the men i used to date, how i sometimes accepted to be treated because i thought i wasn't worthy and also it reminded me that now i know better and m going to do better now. Thank you Ladies

  • @mutemigrace
    @mutemigrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This conversation did not at all go where I expected it to go. So much deeper and empowering

  • @racheln7239
    @racheln7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "2 raccoons eating trash" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I cannot!
    I must say this is probably my fav episode so far. There's a way the stories poured forth with such authenticity. I real felt those feelings y'all are describing. Thank you for sharing.
    I have seen people in such situations and usually wonder why they don't just leave. This has given me a perspective that I didn't have before.

  • @kandiekampororo2881
    @kandiekampororo2881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    OMG I relate to Prim,dating a serial cheat really makes you feel unclean! Such an ugly feeling.

  • @spaceousnthambi6342
    @spaceousnthambi6342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fiona!!! you were dealing with a narcissist lol..so many out here. Just discovered your channel, Im loving it!!

  • @EYVAH_INNIT
    @EYVAH_INNIT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great conversation girls. Murugi Munyi recommended you guys. Totally worth it!!!!!

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are SCREAMING. She is fantastic and we are so humbled she recommended us . Thanks for coming over ❤️

    • @wanji5851
      @wanji5851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree...from Kenya to Uganda...murugi munyi and Lydia km 💕

  • @malkiawaalego2552
    @malkiawaalego2552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Claire your candor and maturity in discussing your divorce is so refreshing because it removes this aura of secrecy and taboo, and shows those who might be trapped in bad marriages that there is life after divorce. Also, you are gorgeous and that hair, outfit, earrings are 🔥

  • @giannim9214
    @giannim9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The "Soulja boy - tell em" part. Straight faced and all 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad someone noticed that. Prim banange 😎

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Beezybody 😅

  • @lennahakinyi451
    @lennahakinyi451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mine was a friendship break up with a friend that almost ruined me. Hee ! as they say in Nairobi you are taught character development. I took accountability for my part in the situation, worked on myself and moved on swiftly.

  • @Berna_Aine
    @Berna_Aine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the video y’all!!! You all spoke to my soul on so many levels eh!!! I appreciate you ladies! 😫❤️

  • @asiofiona8899
    @asiofiona8899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The power of knowing you and having the courage to embrace you all the way. Fiona yo story always strikes me a certain way 🤗. Am loving these episodes and the reality you guys bring out in them. Thank you.

  • @jaeldairies
    @jaeldairies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Murugi for plugging me with this channel. Lovely ladies.

  • @dorahbaguma3843
    @dorahbaguma3843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This by far is the dopest episode. Thank you ladies for being candid

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank you for watching

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for supporting ♥️

  • @namibiapoliticsthepeople9927
    @namibiapoliticsthepeople9927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love these women. Your stories touches my soul.

  • @krobz2334
    @krobz2334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Girlllllll Fiona !! Thank you for reminding me that I'm not the only one abstaining
    I have had a very hard time with my friends making fun of me coz of my opening up about how I'm abstaining but man!!!
    They call me names manya you're acting holy , ngu I'm trying to secure ministers son ( this makes me laugh sometimes)
    But I deep down know what I'm doing and the reason so I'm extremely happy that I'm not the only one in this and I shouldn't be ashamed
    You 3 girls you're saving lives out here 💕💕💕

    • @Fablyflane
      @Fablyflane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      you are not alone - celibacy is a personal decision & no one should be ashamed of it

    • @rhena4249
      @rhena4249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We should just make a support group for all of us banange
      . that way we stop doubting ourselves.

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh hun, I'm sorry about the jabs. Can't tell you they'll stop. They likely won't. I hope you surround yourself with people who show you support and help you stay accountable too. It's your body and your choice. Periodt.

    • @krobz2334
      @krobz2334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fionakemi that's for sure 🤞

    • @kentwinnie2150
      @kentwinnie2150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bby girl on the journey but the pressure from bfs and frds be alot, but you know what? Still on your decision

  • @tishkats3549
    @tishkats3549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If you're scared, do something that scares you everyday and be intentional about it.
    I struggle with decision making but you know what! I'm gonna take a conscious decision every day. Make a decision everyday!

  • @Life-crafte
    @Life-crafte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is so naked thank you for sharing light and love

  • @maryadhiambo5441
    @maryadhiambo5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kenyan here, your content is raw and authentic. Love it!

  • @trrahr5496
    @trrahr5496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ❤❤❤! lady in blue just beautiful and your story. so helpful i I understand that loss of confidence following divorce. thanks for sharing your story.

  • @iamfaiizah9370
    @iamfaiizah9370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is very authentic and I love how everyone’s experience is different and the ways they dealt with the issues. Thank you very much for sharing 🌺

  • @kiryowairene5895
    @kiryowairene5895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My worst wasn't like i really loved the person!! its because i Had to stoop low from my high-horse! Like i had to pretend not to have what i had to make the person feel like we were almost on the same lane, i had to pretend that my business was my mothers' I had to hide the fact that i was renting my crib...and i had to pretend to be younger! Cause he was 1 year younger than me!... All in all i wanted to make it work, all because i wanted to get married and all he ever talked about was marriage and i ignored all the red flags!!. I lived a lie for a while, Only to find out that it wasnt all worth it!...It left me mentally drained! Financially incapacitated! And in shock!.... This is the first time in 5 years am able to pen it down without fear!!!.... He was a cheat, Broke as a church mouse and so upside down!...i was mentally drained the whole time, manupulated and left Financially unstable!...I felt bitter for years , blaming myself... i felt so stupid! How would i get into this obvious trap!...i cried because of all the time wasted and the 10 year business crambling!...Cant believe am writing about this!!! i felt ashamed for years!!...

    • @akiiki6051
      @akiiki6051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Time heals everything babe... one thing about us girls is we always bounce back
      Sending u love and light

    • @athyjudy5682
      @athyjudy5682 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl..it's the sacrifices we make that hurt the most, especially when you realise, you were dating down, and he still did you dirty. Hope you are now doing better young quee ❤ 🫂

  • @mirriammalalakabalo3860
    @mirriammalalakabalo3860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Shout out to you beauties from the Zambians, you ladies are the reason my nightshifts are shorter lol ever enjoying your content. Much love ❤️

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🤗 we've worked night shifts and we know the struggle. Glad we can keep you company

  • @walterkahuma
    @walterkahuma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listening to you guys be vulnerable about this topic is pure gold. Glad you all bounced back.

  • @claire6ify
    @claire6ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Fiona that was God that made you say No! He sees what we cant see, abstinence is His will, He protected you!

    • @sweetclaire5626
      @sweetclaire5626 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right gal , it was really God

  • @MargaretDear1
    @MargaretDear1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank u ladies, this is awesome! Prim, I hear u about learning to extend grace.
    Also yay to abstinence

  • @ataibeth
    @ataibeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Gosh!!! I am so so proud of you Ladies. All of you… I could hug all of you. Thank you for being vulnerable, for overcoming and raising above…

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww Lizzie 🥰 thank you girlie. I’m glad we held hands and jumped into the deep end that I’d being vulnerable 🥰🥰💃🏾

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    These are candid conversations we try to avoid but are so important. I really loved this episode so much. ♥️

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for appreciating. Yes we try to discuss things society has silenced so long in the name of ‘privacy’… it really shouldn’t be private if everyone is going through it 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @KAMARIZADoris
    @KAMARIZADoris ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys am so thankful for this coz I was going through what Phionah went through and trust me the healing process is very easy and the reason of the breakup is that I kept and stood on my boundaries and he was like "Your so selfish I can't go on with you.😀😀😀😀😀😀
    Thank you guys

  • @njokithyaka2274
    @njokithyaka2274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my... This has really been helpful,,,going through the same... But thank Fiona,Claire and Prim God bless you ladies

  • @edivicviviann647
    @edivicviviann647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Raw, unedited, unfiltered. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for engaging ♥️

  • @anyayomartha2431
    @anyayomartha2431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Listeeennn!!!! This is so good. Thank you Ladies.

  • @madrinekyomuhendo5315
    @madrinekyomuhendo5315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Claire seems to be so loving in this group of 3💕💕

    • @gabie1
      @gabie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Claire too

    • @gabie1
      @gabie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Claire too

  • @27jackiet
    @27jackiet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ladies are so real.

  • @sophiasemambo9501
    @sophiasemambo9501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way I have enjoyed this episode. Thank you ladies for taking time out of ur busy schedules and giving us meaningful topics. We appreciate.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for appreciating ♥️🙏🏾

  • @wanjah.374
    @wanjah.374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Murugi Munyi sent me here. How come I am just discovering this wholesome content just now😔. Better late than never and now I have a looooooot of content to enjoy 🥳🥳.

  • @ninsiimaedinah6128
    @ninsiimaedinah6128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Goodness like wea have I been all dz long without seeing dz amazing ladies on TH-cam 🤔 thy are very organized ,thy listen to each other while speaking , wawu i have loved everything here ,I love the topic so much it has made me stronger in dz hard situation I am in right now ,thank you ladies ♥️

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww I’m sorry that you are going through a hard time… I’m glad this episode helped. You will come out stronger 💪🏾

    • @ninsiimaedinah6128
      @ninsiimaedinah6128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Knowledge2cash just know it really helped me Alot like Alot can't stop thanking you

  • @ConceptaPrimahMukite
    @ConceptaPrimahMukite 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video❤
    Thank u ladies

  • @SO-xi6vm
    @SO-xi6vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Forgiving yourself is the hardest part of it....😭😭....first time here ...I love you guys

  • @vinceatieno9766
    @vinceatieno9766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a new, loving member and never subscribing follower, I love you ladies so in love with your accountability and relatability.

  • @ninsiimamartinah6771
    @ninsiimamartinah6771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I can relate to Prim’s story,infact lemme even go and scrub myself again.

  • @ruthrnk3826
    @ruthrnk3826 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just subscribed to this channel. Thanks, ladies, for discussing topics that most women dare to talk about in public.

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Kale I was hooked onto the Kenyan side of TH-cam and wished Ug had creators that are as dope and I landed here!
    So grateful for having stumbled onto your channel ladies.
    Kati I'm buying my mat, tent and camping here 😊

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mat, tent 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome. Thank you for being here

    • @Bakedmugi
      @Bakedmugi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You literally spoke my soul😅 Clare even knows Murugi

    • @jdm3762
      @jdm3762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bakedmugi So cool! I really enjoy Murugi Munyi's content.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love to the 246 🥰🥰🥰 I will definitely be Kenyan in my next life 🤣❤️

  • @hpal
    @hpal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Men! Vulnerability is indeed the pathway to intimacy. I initially was cold towards you guys despite watching a few episodes but this right here is the episode where I warmed up to you because I can now see how you are coming from a place of understanding with truth and grace. And I have to admit the polarisation of our world today is something we all need to work on and make sure we can be kind to each other. Thanks a lot. This episode will help many (always: today and future) to get out of unacceptable relationships and set boundaries while staying kind. My respect ladies, total respect. 🙇‍♂
    I actually felt the pain as each of you retold their story which no doubt was not a happy moment. And this shines more light on the pain that a lot of people especially women, go through in relationships.

  • @Tusi.online
    @Tusi.online 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m here late but I’m in awe
    This is real
    The big dust we did no we needed
    Loads of love 🥂❤️

  • @JulzJewel
    @JulzJewel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so relate with Prim and claire as one divorced. Agree forgive yourself and take each step at a time

  • @isabellakankunda3375
    @isabellakankunda3375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eheheh and another one(DJ Khaleds voice). You guys are amazing. And oba just saying what all women been thinking and feeling for years. I am hooked....I wait for my notification more than I wait for my pay cheque

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Isabella. This means a lot. I'm so glad these are things our audience can truly resonate with.
      We shall work not to disappoint you on the notifications 😄❤

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww Isabella, thank you for interacting with our content. 🤗🤗🤗 and thank you for appreciating. You keep us creating more and more ♥️

  • @allenamusiimenta3236
    @allenamusiimenta3236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s soooo beautiful to see the awesomeness of healing. The Claire we see now totally trumps that phase you went through clearly

    • @aishananteza2826
      @aishananteza2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes fiona ❤️❤️❤️❤️u guys this was good

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Allena!!! I’m glad I got through it and came out stronger 💪🏾❤️

  • @bainganasamuel9992
    @bainganasamuel9992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think a better title for this Clip could have been "when I was played"... Break ups not only come after being played.

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y'all got in deep on this one. Thank you for being vulnerable out on these streets.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I haven’t been able to watch this episode. I don’t know if I ever will .

    • @LindaTinahTV
      @LindaTinahTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nyonyoziprim You will at some point and it will not be uncomfortable because you will be fully healed. X

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Linda. Also haven’t watched it. It’s taken me this long to even come and read the comments. 🙈

    • @LindaTinahTV
      @LindaTinahTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Knowledge2cash I hope when you do, you realise how far you have come. ❤️

    • @SundayOmonyOfficial
      @SundayOmonyOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you Linda! 💕 I miss your beautiful smile. Hugs! Love from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @omufirika2023
    @omufirika2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A very good conversation, you are not what you have gone through. Word

  • @lilliankatusiime8299
    @lilliankatusiime8299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A friend sent me a link to watch.....I can relate so much. Thank you ladies. I thank God who has done a great job in me

  • @leahatwine9513
    @leahatwine9513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fiona has spoken the truth. Abstaining saves u from so much more pain and unnecessary stress. This was my first time here and I love the honesty girls. So many lessons learned.prim love u gained back your confidence and some more! Imagine someone hating the fact that u read books 🙄🙄 he was insecure of tour intelligence. Claire, you are mature and strong and your story will give hope to many in failed marriages!!

  • @dee3055
    @dee3055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you ladiess!!! Claire yaaayyyy
    Me am coming to join the panel...weh the stories are dope.

  • @Haise8
    @Haise8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how Fiona rolls her eyes

  • @seraphinecharlesyoram8943
    @seraphinecharlesyoram8943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prim I can relaaatttteeee ..the showers the tears , I couldn’t pray 🙌🏾 , the shame ( I was ashamed of myself) am grateful that today I can look back and laugh😂

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got out and like Claire said, your experiences are not who you are ❤️

    • @ritahbonjamin7999
      @ritahbonjamin7999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I pray one day I look back and laugh, feel myself again.... It's hard, I wish anyone can tell me how long it takes to heal...

  • @rungivero5037
    @rungivero5037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    But l can relate to Claire🥺 being a young divorcee needs so much Grace 😭😭

  • @fridawambua
    @fridawambua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New subbie and girlllll😍😍this has been such a profound,raw and vulnerable conversation...i'm so glad i bumped onto this channel i felt and related to every bit of it..what stood out for me is how you ladies wear your scars so gracefully love to see such spaces where so much healing can occur love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This means so much to us, Frida. Thank you. Resonance with our audience is a very important part of this work we pour our hearts in to. So thank you again. We hope you'll stay ❤️

  • @naluwagapriscilla4032
    @naluwagapriscilla4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh God,i needed this. I love you girls so much. This topic is very relatable though for my case its the work environment.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have actually given us a topic to talk about… toxic work places 👏🏾👏🏾
      I hope things got better for you at work ❤️

  • @abigailkabui7466
    @abigailkabui7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey beautiful, intelligent, go-getting ladies! I have been bingeing on your videos the whole of this month. I will definitely say, that I have been missing out. I love your content (its a whole buffet); from Kenya🙂

  • @asiofiona8899
    @asiofiona8899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Separate what you've been thru from who you are....

  • @AudeIKS
    @AudeIKS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg Kemi I can relateeeeee, a whole clown did the same thing to me. I am so glad I left , I am way way happier now

  • @puritybundi8204
    @puritybundi8204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am Kenyan..I saw this video recommended,,and clicked it because the two women look like some kenyan high profile women..Martha Karua and Waiguru! Nice content..I love the natural hair!

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for joining over here, Purity. We hope you'll stay❤️
      *runs to google Martha Karua and Waiguru!

    • @catherinewamaitha4559
      @catherinewamaitha4559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gosh yeah....😂😂I had not noted

  • @aineskitchen
    @aineskitchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good topics always. When are you talking about “money and friends”

  • @Eva-db5lw
    @Eva-db5lw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could feel that middle lady who introduced because I could relate to her so much. Mine was even worse the person started talking about me mbu mwesibako. I killed that guy in my life coz he tried calling me but could never ever even pick

  • @raychonmulungi7538
    @raychonmulungi7538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always excited to land on Ugandan content that's valuable. Good job ladies 👏 👏 👏

  • @nahabweshanitah2278
    @nahabweshanitah2278 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are Amazing Always looking forward to your next episode .Keep it up

  • @Berna_Aine
    @Berna_Aine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Every time I listen to Kemi it’s like listening to Flavia Tumusiime’s sister. The voice! The facial expressions! 😂Onsanyusa Kemi! 😌

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s so true. We keep telling her. How amazing her voice is.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a absolute natural 🥰🥰🥰

    • @nuwasasiirasylivia5037
      @nuwasasiirasylivia5037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I actually had to scroll down the comments, looking for proof whether Kemi is related to TFK. 😮

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😄 I hear this all the time. I guess we're voice twinsies.
      It's such a huge compliment because she's always been my favourite voice on radio so thank you ❤

  • @princessklv247
    @princessklv247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The grace of God is always sufficient. Love you ladies😍😍😍

  • @Tusi.online
    @Tusi.online 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The strength, love and vulnerability
    I’m the in prescence of amazing women👌🏾BEAUTIFUL

  • @mkanyikamatata7559
    @mkanyikamatata7559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please put subtitles for when you speak Luganda!🤗
    Love from Kenya 🇰🇪❤️

  • @sarahwanjiru1768
    @sarahwanjiru1768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an informative session. Thank you ❤

  • @nakabugocatherine2246
    @nakabugocatherine2246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woooow it's such a wonderful conversation thank u guys for rescuing our hearts 💕 💞 some of we regret alot though life have to move on

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Regret is a heavy load to bear. We forgive ourselves and keep it moving ❤️

  • @jennysarnie2774
    @jennysarnie2774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guyz have the most beautiful hair!!!!!!

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We all have dated that person that made us feel like we are so unworthy,thank God we always come back from that pit.
    You are worthy ,you are beautiful and your are enough.❤️☀️

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a beautiful affirmation. Enough

  • @kengie121
    @kengie121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!!! Ladies well done,relatable and interesting. Thank you.

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If this is in the present, sis, do not let this be your future

  • @kembabazichristine7027
    @kembabazichristine7027 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooh this is too deeper counselling thanks for sharing live testimonies

  • @peacerumanyika2073
    @peacerumanyika2073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love all your natural hair❤

  • @kathybitsinze4661
    @kathybitsinze4661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Take a shot every time Claire says “Do you get what I mean”🤣🤣. Thank you ladies. I really enjoyed this one 🥂

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to this content. It takes alot of personal healing to forgive you and it's a process btw.

    • @theunpopularopinionug
      @theunpopularopinionug  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We love to hear that you found a place of resonance here, sis. Connecting with our audience is so important to us ❤️

  • @doreen.rruvuza566
    @doreen.rruvuza566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! This just made me homesick 😢. This was so beautiful!! Ugandan content creators oyeee!!!

  • @michngunya7827
    @michngunya7827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love from kenya ..just bumped into you guys today

  • @epicuriousdiaries
    @epicuriousdiaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I relate to all three stories 😂😂😂 It was such a fun watch. Thank God we are not in those places anymore! 😅🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @Therealspiceolife
    @Therealspiceolife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think even when sex happens it’s still possible to walk away and not feel like you died. The real issue is when heart n soul are involved and you feel like someone you love just died when the relationship is over. I’ve learnt that sex is just a plus and even if you didn’t have it you can still break like it’s the end of the world.

    • @Knowledge2cash
      @Knowledge2cash 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you… even if you have been having sex you can still feel like the world is ending when the relationship ends. God bless women who have been through heart break. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @fionakemi
      @fionakemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nothing applies exactly the same way to everyone. While I'm the opposite of this, I respect a divergent way of being.

  • @Sharon-dc7uh
    @Sharon-dc7uh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i do relate to fioni like every single thing, this is my 2nd day after the heartbreak and its so messy

  • @lizlilly3246
    @lizlilly3246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Have you ever had a break with your bestfriend ? 😩Damn shit almost killed me!!

  • @samanthaawordocus2075
    @samanthaawordocus2075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have moved in but I can smell any form of abuse miles away

  • @sonianandagire
    @sonianandagire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow...learning to separate who you are from what you've been through. This cut deep 🤪...

  • @alfred17931
    @alfred17931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Banaye ba phiona ahhaaa

  • @bethlule9867
    @bethlule9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks this conversation was very therapeutic ....

  • @christinewangechi7675
    @christinewangechi7675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally relate with Prim on this one....
    I think I have forgiven myself but every time I have to relive that situation for whatever reason...like even watching this episode, or talking about it I kinda feel guilty
    Thank you guys

  • @aureliayuktankabebwa5066
    @aureliayuktankabebwa5066 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have never gone into this scenario,Thank to God hope all shall be well.Though u have all said I appreciate most and love you all