8:43 by this logic, she should actually be aromantic, not asexual. She could be both tho. But her aversion to romantic affection is an aro thing. I definitely headcanon my ice queen as aro ace.
When you always thought you were just, straight then you dipped your toe into the "+" part of lgbtq+, got rly overwhelmed with all the different s3xualitys you might be so took a year long break then came back after hearing about aces to learn more about it because you thought that you were ace and then thought different due to false info so you decided to stay straight and then you said that you were hetro-romantic as3xual and then you thought you were bi-romantic as3xual and now you're not sure if bi-curious is just s3xual attraction so you're just stuck on a questioning ace. because same.
I fElT this bro. I'm a whole 19 and I'm still trying to figure this out. I'm leaning towards demi-sexual/panromantic but tbh I still don't really know.
Damn, this is accurate to me, accept I did all that in like three months. Literally jus told my friend that I am a questioning ace person, still shaking a little, she's the only person I've told!
Ahahaha I feel this. I didn't know anything about lgbt stuff until I was 13 and after I did it was a rapid spiral from "I'm probably bi" to "no maybe I'm just a lesbian" to "?????" to "wait those involve THAT? EW NO." to "Oh! *That's* what asexual means! Hang on, that's me!" And now there's the constant struggle of "romantic attraction or no romantic attraction? That is the question." : )
As a parent of a Non-Binary Ace middle school child, thank you for these compilations. It helps me know that our kid is not alone in this and gives us hope that someday we can find community in their age group. Also, the cake, collection of stuffed animals, obsessed super plush blanket and cookies obsession makes sense. But if they try to steal my fur blanket one more time, then we will have a serious altercation. Don't. Touch. My. Blanket!!!LOL
okay but thank YOU for being such a supportive parent!! wish my mom was as cool as you lol (shes accepting, just.. v confused and wont really bother learning unless i tell her smth lol) your kid is gonna grow up with a LOT more strength n confidence thanks to you
Holy shit, thank you so much for being there for your child! This brings me hope for my parents, I'm in high school but my parents treat me like I'm in middle school still (basically zero privilege's for no reason). They still have a lot to learn about me and my identity, I'm trans but they don't really seem to understand what that means. Anyways thank you so much, they will grow up to be such an amazing person.
Since you all are so supportive I want to share my strange story. I now identify as asexual because I'm 16, and anything about giving your body to someone else groses me out. That doesn't seem like love to me. My whole life loving someone meant treating them well and hanging out around someone because you love their soul. About 5 years ago I realized people were serious about sex and I was so surprised and uncomfortable. In a way, my story is having the world come out as sexual and me learning to accept it. I don't mind sexual people, I just hate it when people think everyone wants sex, and there's a context with females that that is shameful. I still have PTSD from middle school when I had a crush and people interpreted it as sexual. I've never felt so silenced in my life. Sex is getting safer these days, psychologically, not physically I mean. And I'm proud of the LGBT community for making it all more even. There's a huge disbalance in our society, in need of more diverse genders and ways to love so everyone can feel a little less weird. I live in fear everyday that people won't accept my sexuality, I even did when I didn't even know what my sexuality was. I long for a day I won't have to worry and just be happy. Thanks for listening and listening to one more person. :)
I've gotten really good at just pretending to hate everyone but my three best friends who are also ace, so I understand this problem but don't have it anymore. I hope you feel more validated in the future. :)
I was at Disneyland with my mom, and we saw goofy’s son max up on a balcony, and I said “oh look it’s goofy’s son, max!” And she says “goofy has a son? I always sorta thought he was asexual.” I didnt even know my mom knew what asexual is.
The colour one about Elsa annoyed me because they literally miss defined asexuality since you can still feel romantic attraction if you are asexual. They gave all the reasons for Elsa being asexual but gave her the wrong label. Elsa could also be asexual but there is no evidence to prove that especially the evidence they used
yh I was like.. you said she had no ROMANTIC attraction (tho she doesnt seem to experience any sexual attraction either) so she'd be aro. but still I love our aroace (literal) queen. just wish people wouldnt lump asexuality and aromantic together bc theyre really v different
To be fair, asexuality without the aromantic angle is kinda hard to do in a family/kids film as most family/kids films won’t touch sex at all unless it’s a hidden joke (like the Frozen Shoe size joke to keep it relevant). So even though as a hetroromantic ace I’d love to have more of the ace spectrum shown it probably won’t happen with a family/kids movie.
@@SonicTimewarp i’m confused what you’re getting at here. if Elsa hasn’t romantic attraction then she is aromantic, asexual is a completely different thing.
@@SonicTimewarp i’m confused what you’re getting at here. if Elsa hasn’t romantic attraction then she is aromantic, asexual is a completely different thing.
Was feeling anxious and invalid because my parents were talking to me about sex as if I was going to have it in the future but I watched this and I’m feeling much better now. Fellow aspecs, you are loved and valid!
2:27 A Karen who deserves love and respect 💙 Also, I had a face mask made with the asexual flag colors. I love it so much. It makes me very happy when I were it 😊
I just recently (with the help of my amazing boyfriend) realized I’ve been Ace all my life, and even though I don’t want that to be the main thing that defines my identity, (I would rather identify myself by the things I love, rather than my distaste for s3xual stuff) it really helps to have a word for how I feel, and to know I’m not broken or “incapable of love” as my childhood friend group assumed I was.
Watching the first one with Tay, I'm so lucky to have found out about asexuality in the start of high school. Now I can be confident knowing it's totally valid to not have that desire!
ok i'm gonna get really personal because you're the only people i think i can tell. i'm fairly young (old enough to be on youtube) and identify as ace and i'm so repulsed by the thought of doing it i can't say the word without being uncomfortable or thoroughly grossed out. sometimes i think i'll figure out i'm allosexual and that thought makes me panic because i hate the do so much i don't want to do it even if i felt like i wanted to. the thought of doing anything like that makes me want to vomit and i haven't puked since i was 8. if someone could give me some advice that'd be cool. thanks
it's ok darling. take your time. you don't necessarily need a label yet. just take a breath and be kind to yourself. you will figure it out eventually, but until then, just be you, have fun. stay safe! 🖤💜🖤💜
I totally relate to how you feel. I’ve struggled figuring out who I am, and I’m still not completely settled. It’s perfectly fine to be unsure of how you feel, and just remember that there are people out there who care about you and will care about you, no matter who you grow into. You are completely valid, regardless of your uncertainty. I’m in your corner with these confusing times!
give yourself time. i'm constantly confused because i'm "in a relationship????" and i don't know where i'm standing on being ace because i've been using the label for like 2 years but it could change with him. the same could happen with you or you could stay repulsed by it, it's totally normal. if you decide you don't have a label then that's totally cool, just give yourself time if you're sure you want a label. people will give you some hate for being the way you are, and that is terrible of them but just remember that they purely do not understand and you know yourself better than they do. make sure to stay safe if you figure out a label and come out, and if you bounce from label to label over the next few years then that's cool too. good luck youngling
thanks to all of you guys who replied. i feel like if i do feel like i'm not ace i won't want to do it still but it's great having support from other people
Firstly, I didn’t figure out I was ace until I was 20 so mad props to you. Secondly, I agree with others: give it time. I first thought I was ace and then I found out about aegosexuality and more closely identified with that. Sexuality is fluid and the fact that you’ve even realized you were ace is great. And if you ever think that you’re not ace, that’s valid too. It’s all about your experience and what your feelings are. Don’t let anyone else tell you differently.
Last night I had the strangest dream I sailed away to China In a little row boat to find ya And you said you had to get your laundry cleaned Didn't want no one to hold you What does that mean? And you said Ain't nothin' gonna to break my stride Nobody gonna slow me down, oh no I got to keep on movin' Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride I'm running and I won't touch ground Oh no, I got to keep on movin' You're on the road and now you pray it lasts The road behind was rocky But now you're feeling cocky You look at me and you see your past Is that the reason why you're runnin' so fast? And she said Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride Nobody gonna slow me down, oh no I got to keep on moving Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride I'm running and I won't touch ground Oh no, I got to keep on moving Work me over (Never let another girl like you) Drag me under (If I meet another girl like you) I will tell her (Never want another girl like you) Have to say, oh Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride Nobody gonna slow me down Oh no, oh no, I got to keep on moving Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride I'm running and I won't touch ground Oh no, I got to keep on movin'
Kinda seems like a song about two aro or aroace people who tried a relationship and when they broke up, they decided never to date again because it's a waste of time. Just going by the lyrics.
1:39 I’m straight, but, I can relate. I always said: “Why lose time with superficial ‘romances’ (that, casually, don't have anything more that sex), when we can cook and eat something like chicken pie?” Here in my country, sex is so overrated that if I don't date anyone for years, even though I'm not asexual, I wouldn't be surprised. Turn out, I'm actually asexual and aromantic-
To my fellow aces, you are valid as fuck! you are beautiful the way you are, no matter what! If someone tries to say otherwise, you have the right to bash in their knees!
i love your vids it makes me calm down for a while cuz today my parents said that we have a family meeting and im scared that they are talking about my sexuality and I'm not ready to tell them I'm aro ace
Same here girl/dude , i want to tell my parents that i'm aro/ace when i'll have my own job and own house , THEN the storm will start in parents house 😂
I mean, when I was little, everyone said that kissing was gross, no matter what, so I'm not sure about Elsa. EDIT: And I feel he was talking about around, instead of ace.
i love explaining being ace to mildly homophobic straight/cis guys if they’re like “how do you know if you’ve never tried it?” and asking them if they’ve ever been railed in the a** by another guy, and then watching them freak out
Myself, who happens to be an Ace person: *Ace flag background on my school laptop* My friend who knows basically nothing about LGBTQ+ Things: hey is that the anti pride flag Me: *weird threatening laughter* Ahahahaha! Time to explain some things to you! And thats how my friend learned that im ace
Have you ever been stabbed? No? Then how do you know you don't like it? Oh, because you know someone who HAS and it never appealed to you to experience the same?.....EXACTLY....You're finally beginning to understand.
Reminder that asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, not the sexually activity. Many asexuals actually participate in sex for whatever reason, be it the desire to conceive, the desire to please, or simply because they enjoy the sensation, and they are all valid asexuals.
My coworker, who is in his seventies, asked today if I had a significant other. I said no, I'm asexual, so I'm not interested in that. I'm also aromantic. He basically told me that was valid. How can this man in his seventies understand it but not people in their twenties?
Because he knows how fucked up (pun not intended) this world is because of sex and romance and drama and stuff and he's secretly jealous for you not having to do that shit and still be happy. 😂
So I’m asexual grey-romantic so I never feel sexually attracted to anyone and I rarely feel romantic attraction and when I do I can usually easily ignore it So I don’t spend my time obsessing over people right? Wrong! When I do get a crush I can’t get them off my mind and when I don’t I’m obsessing over my sexuality and if maybe I never actually had a crush on them and just felt pressured by society to have a crush even though it was so clearly romantic attraction...😓
I love this tiktok 8:19 tysm i am Mexican and i have been trying to come out with that song but i couldn't find a Spanish subtitles version thanks tysm
Okay, so funny thing! I was thinking of all of the TikTok compilations I've seen and remembered 2 clips: 1) girl by a brick wall going "wait...people actually get a physical reaction and heat up when somebody walks past? THAT'S A THING?!?" (or similar) 2) Girl in bathroom "Why do people think asexuals are innocent? I'm not innocent, I'm dumb!" Me, literally HOURS LATER in the middle of eating supper: IS THAT WHY PEOPLE ARE CALLED *HOT* ?!?!?
I’m 13 and found out what being a top and bottom means 3 months ago… just figured out what “does the carpet match the drapes” means… and what the hell NeTFlix and CHilL
The girl doing the supposed asexual thirst trap, I was actually caught off guard seeing the baking foods ngl. I was just being mesmerized by the awesome bounce and color of her hair
Someone: Oh you're asexual? That means you're a plant, right? Me: No, it means I'm a dragon you uncultured swine. Them: What? Me: [flies off into the sunset]
People: dating an ace must be so boring... what do you do at their house? At ace’s house: *so, if your fighting and not winning you want to punch them in the gut, the knee them in the head when they double over.*
I know this has nothing to do with the video but I thought maybe someone could answer my question Is the non-binary people, the pansexual people or some other sexuality/ gender identity that make a pidgin noise as their sound? Because I remember someone saying something about it somewhere but I forgot what they said and I do a good pidgin sound
BNHA FANS *_HEAR ME OUT_* Bakugou might be asexual Whenever Midnight was being awfully showy Bakugou was like the one who wasn't blushing. I don't think Bakugou is sexually attracted to girls because Midnight, and he's also never blushed at any girls in his class. I also don't think he's sexually attracted to men. If he was sexually attracted to men he probably would've blushed during the pool episode, blushed during literally any other time. I'm not sure about Aromantic, as Uraraka is the only one in BNHA who have a canon crush on someone.
I’m really happy and starting to feel not so bad about being Ace. I even told my mom finally and she accepted still. My friends are also very supportive too😊
As an ace, specifically a demiace I want to have friends like the aces in this compilation. Due to feeling low energy more than half of the time from what's probably a combo of depression, anxiety and feeling overwhelmed from not being able to get myself to do much from adhd.... I need to get a better paying/or a 2nd parttime job to get insurance and get myself checked out for those 3... just acknowledging that seems exhausting 😫. From what I've learned of all 3 of those .... I have too many of each to ignore the possibilities that I have them. Ah yes the main point due to low energy from those things + my introvert leaning personality I actually don't have many friends that I hang out with on a regular basis and would love to have some ace friends to hang out with. Heck having a sleepover where we fill a room with a TV with a ton of blankets and pillows and spend hours talking and watching movies sound great.
@4:30 why would anyone try to bend someone else's finger to try and get them to cry out, then say "that's what sex sounds like"? That would drive me away from sex even more >_
yo that ace thirst trap actually kinda.. i just want a hug and movies and will happily sew while she crochets (then again i may just want a friend i can sew with...)
lol "things that turn asexuals on... to the max" first time i thought it meant the video maker was the "things" and that was the joke then i realized duhhh it means nothing lmao... i should of realized that oooof
hey just wanted to say thanks for makeing this video ive been going through alot latley and my friends have not been very helpful and it makes me so happy to see that people like me are valid now just gotta tell that to evrey other person on this earth
Oh the ace card one reminded me of something. So for an assignment in class, we received a random card. I found it funny when I got an ace card because, well as of now I identify as ace.
* opens door to Ace community * Um... Hi. Uh. I'm Rey and... Uh... I wanted to know if I could chill with you guys? I might be a little too young to know for sure but it kind of feels right to me. So... Can we chill..?
Yes! Welcome, children! Come enjoy yourselves! I kind of broke in cause I didn't get an invitation technically speaking, but no one can kick me out cause I feel like I belong here- If you guys think you belong here, come on in! There's tons of cake and garlic bread and over there is the hall of Ace memes! Have fun!
Uhhhhh I wish to share a strange story- so embarrassingly enough I never knew lgbtq even existed til like 7th grade, even then I didn’t bother looking into it at least not until 8th grade. I went through all the labels; gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, Omnisexual, all of em- dont get me started on gender, that was a mess, I don’t really care for my gender right now(Identifying as unlabeled for gender but I enjoy masculine and nonbinary terms). But anyways, I didn’t realized asexuality was thing til maybe the beginning of my sophomore year, it was honestly a mess. I went through so many relationships because I’m a yes-man and could never say no(I’m better at it now lol) and it was always way too sexual for me, it made me so uncomfortable. After I started identifying as asexual, I still felt like I HAD to be in a relationship, so I just- kept either going back to exes or going out with friends. Obviously they all ended cause I never liked ‘em romantically and the relationships made me very uncomfortable n stuff. I already know I’m not aromantic but I am on the spectrum(lithromantic ere) So y e a, One of my closest friends(Not friends anymore) knew very well I was asexual and wasn’t really capable of telling people what I was comfortable with(I didn’t know) and they uhhhh lets just say, skin was exposed and ever since then, I’ve been extremely repulsed to human bodies and sex in general- Like I’ll joke around about wantin to adult Funtime my friends but as soon as its reciprocated, I’m like “no no get away from me-“ Uhhh I ran out of stuff to say lol, thanks for listening to this weird comment
Person: You’re asexual... like a plant!
Me: No. I’m a goddess. Or a cactus, you pick.
i hate this
i love this
They're the same thing
@@Ash-os1mh and I hate you!
We are cactus goddesses :)
So glad the flag was painted on an ace of spades card! Makes me so happy.
200th like!
What about ace of hearts to show love
@@tarang1136 that works. I just know that it's most common that it's the ace of spades that is used. I don't know why, so very good point.
8:43 by this logic, she should actually be aromantic, not asexual. She could be both tho. But her aversion to romantic affection is an aro thing. I definitely headcanon my ice queen as aro ace.
I was thinking the same thing. I'm not aro, but damn they don't deserve to be done dirty like that.
@Isobella Wisniewski ...not arguing with that one, that's very cool
I think Elsa would be AroAce
Yeah I was thinking so too. She might be aro lesbian? Idk though
Yes finally someone said it
When you always thought you were just, straight then you dipped your toe into the "+" part of lgbtq+, got rly overwhelmed with all the different s3xualitys you might be so took a year long break then came back after hearing about aces to learn more about it because you thought that you were ace and then thought different due to false info so you decided to stay straight and then you said that you were hetro-romantic as3xual and then you thought you were bi-romantic as3xual and now you're not sure if bi-curious is just s3xual attraction so you're just stuck on a questioning ace.
because same.
I fElT this bro. I'm a whole 19 and I'm still trying to figure this out. I'm leaning towards demi-sexual/panromantic but tbh I still don't really know.
@@SC-sh5jw us *undefinded* are just vibin'
Damn, this is accurate to me, accept I did all that in like three months. Literally jus told my friend that I am a questioning ace person, still shaking a little, she's the only person I've told!
Ahahaha I feel this.
I didn't know anything about lgbt stuff until I was 13 and after I did it was a rapid spiral from "I'm probably bi" to "no maybe I'm just a lesbian" to "?????" to "wait those involve THAT? EW NO." to "Oh! *That's* what asexual means! Hang on, that's me!"
And now there's the constant struggle of "romantic attraction or no romantic attraction? That is the question."
: )
hehe. my sapphic, trans, gender fluid, gray-ace self relates SO MUCH
As a parent of a Non-Binary Ace middle school child, thank you for these compilations.
It helps me know that our kid is not alone in this and gives us hope that someday we can find community in their age group.
Also, the cake, collection of stuffed animals, obsessed super plush blanket and cookies obsession makes sense.
But if they try to steal my fur blanket one more time, then we will have a serious altercation. Don't. Touch. My. Blanket!!!LOL
That's the way to parent! You're doing it right!! Thank you for supporting your child! :D
okay but thank YOU for being such a supportive parent!! wish my mom was as cool as you lol (shes accepting, just.. v confused and wont really bother learning unless i tell her smth lol) your kid is gonna grow up with a LOT more strength n confidence thanks to you
Holy shit, thank you so much for being there for your child! This brings me hope for my parents, I'm in high school but my parents treat me like I'm in middle school still (basically zero privilege's for no reason). They still have a lot to learn about me and my identity, I'm trans but they don't really seem to understand what that means. Anyways thank you so much, they will grow up to be such an amazing person.
But the blanket is f l u f f y /j
help-
im ace and non binary-
how do i come out to my parents-
Since you all are so supportive I want to share my strange story. I now identify as asexual because I'm 16, and anything about giving your body to someone else groses me out. That doesn't seem like love to me. My whole life loving someone meant treating them well and hanging out around someone because you love their soul. About 5 years ago I realized people were serious about sex and I was so surprised and uncomfortable. In a way, my story is having the world come out as sexual and me learning to accept it. I don't mind sexual people, I just hate it when people think everyone wants sex, and there's a context with females that that is shameful. I still have PTSD from middle school when I had a crush and people interpreted it as sexual. I've never felt so silenced in my life. Sex is getting safer these days, psychologically, not physically I mean. And I'm proud of the LGBT community for making it all more even. There's a huge disbalance in our society, in need of more diverse genders and ways to love so everyone can feel a little less weird. I live in fear everyday that people won't accept my sexuality, I even did when I didn't even know what my sexuality was. I long for a day I won't have to worry and just be happy. Thanks for listening and listening to one more person. :)
Same haha
You are definitely valid and no one should make you feel otherwise!
Honestly this is exactly how I feel!
I've gotten really good at just pretending to hate everyone but my three best friends who are also ace, so I understand this problem but don't have it anymore. I hope you feel more validated in the future. :)
I was at Disneyland with my mom, and we saw goofy’s son max up on a balcony, and I said “oh look it’s goofy’s son, max!”
And she says “goofy has a son? I always sorta thought he was asexual.”
I didnt even know my mom knew what asexual is.
That's so cool! And I do agree with her
The colour one about Elsa annoyed me because they literally miss defined asexuality since you can still feel romantic attraction if you are asexual. They gave all the reasons for Elsa being asexual but gave her the wrong label. Elsa could also be asexual but there is no evidence to prove that especially the evidence they used
When he said the romantic attraction thing I thought he was gonna say aro or ace and aro.
soon as his video was over I was like it’s aro but go off
yh I was like.. you said she had no ROMANTIC attraction (tho she doesnt seem to experience any sexual attraction either) so she'd be aro.
but still I love our aroace (literal) queen. just wish people wouldnt lump asexuality and aromantic together bc theyre really v different
if Elsa hasn't had any romantic attraction then that means she is aromantic and not asexual, those are 2 completely different things
Someone finally said it ty
They were so close too...
To be fair, asexuality without the aromantic angle is kinda hard to do in a family/kids film as most family/kids films won’t touch sex at all unless it’s a hidden joke (like the Frozen Shoe size joke to keep it relevant). So even though as a hetroromantic ace I’d love to have more of the ace spectrum shown it probably won’t happen with a family/kids movie.
@@SonicTimewarp i’m confused what you’re getting at here. if Elsa hasn’t romantic attraction then she is aromantic, asexual is a completely different thing.
@@SonicTimewarp i’m confused what you’re getting at here. if Elsa hasn’t romantic attraction then she is aromantic, asexual is a completely different thing.
Was feeling anxious and invalid because my parents were talking to me about sex as if I was going to have it in the future but I watched this and I’m feeling much better now. Fellow aspecs, you are loved and valid!
my parents didn't accept me when i came out :( but i will never stop being who i am...A PANROMANTIC ASEXUAL!!!!!
2:27 A Karen who deserves love and respect 💙
Also, I had a face mask made with the asexual flag colors. I love it so much. It makes me very happy when I were it 😊
I just recently (with the help of my amazing boyfriend) realized I’ve been Ace all my life, and even though I don’t want that to be the main thing that defines my identity, (I would rather identify myself by the things I love, rather than my distaste for s3xual stuff) it really helps to have a word for how I feel, and to know I’m not broken or “incapable of love” as my childhood friend group assumed I was.
YES THE ASEXUAL PTERODACTYL SCREECH!!!!!
💜 SCREEEEEEEEEEEE 👌
I would actually hiss lol
Watching the first one with Tay, I'm so lucky to have found out about asexuality in the start of high school. Now I can be confident knowing it's totally valid to not have that desire!
ok i'm gonna get really personal because you're the only people i think i can tell. i'm fairly young (old enough to be on youtube) and identify as ace and i'm so repulsed by the thought of doing it i can't say the word without being uncomfortable or thoroughly grossed out. sometimes i think i'll figure out i'm allosexual and that thought makes me panic because i hate the do so much i don't want to do it even if i felt like i wanted to. the thought of doing anything like that makes me want to vomit and i haven't puked since i was 8. if someone could give me some advice that'd be cool. thanks
it's ok darling. take your time. you don't necessarily need a label yet. just take a breath and be kind to yourself. you will figure it out eventually, but until then, just be you, have fun. stay safe! 🖤💜🖤💜
I totally relate to how you feel. I’ve struggled figuring out who I am, and I’m still not completely settled. It’s perfectly fine to be unsure of how you feel, and just remember that there are people out there who care about you and will care about you, no matter who you grow into. You are completely valid, regardless of your uncertainty. I’m in your corner with these confusing times!
give yourself time. i'm constantly confused because i'm "in a relationship????" and i don't know where i'm standing on being ace because i've been using the label for like 2 years but it could change with him. the same could happen with you or you could stay repulsed by it, it's totally normal. if you decide you don't have a label then that's totally cool, just give yourself time if you're sure you want a label. people will give you some hate for being the way you are, and that is terrible of them but just remember that they purely do not understand and you know yourself better than they do. make sure to stay safe if you figure out a label and come out, and if you bounce from label to label over the next few years then that's cool too. good luck youngling
thanks to all of you guys who replied. i feel like if i do feel like i'm not ace i won't want to do it still but it's great having support from other people
Firstly, I didn’t figure out I was ace until I was 20 so mad props to you. Secondly, I agree with others: give it time. I first thought I was ace and then I found out about aegosexuality and more closely identified with that. Sexuality is fluid and the fact that you’ve even realized you were ace is great. And if you ever think that you’re not ace, that’s valid too. It’s all about your experience and what your feelings are. Don’t let anyone else tell you differently.
Yes, as an ace I can confirm-
A screech is our sound 👍
That and occasional hissing at people we don't like.
2:27 is so freaking relatable. The struggle of explaining to others what asexual is.
Asexuals: Are you a Cake Ace or a Dragon Ace?
Me: Yes
I'm romantic ace
Petition to make the Asexual anthem 'Break my stride' by Matthew Wilder
yaaasssss
Last night I had the strangest dream
I sailed away to China
In a little row boat to find ya
And you said you had to get your laundry cleaned
Didn't want no one to hold you
What does that mean?
And you said
Ain't nothin' gonna to break my stride
Nobody gonna slow me down, oh no
I got to keep on movin'
Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride
I'm running and I won't touch ground
Oh no, I got to keep on movin'
You're on the road and now you pray it lasts
The road behind was rocky
But now you're feeling cocky
You look at me and you see your past
Is that the reason why you're runnin' so fast?
And she said
Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride
Nobody gonna slow me down, oh no
I got to keep on moving
Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride
I'm running and I won't touch ground
Oh no, I got to keep on moving
Work me over
(Never let another girl like you) Drag me under
(If I meet another girl like you) I will tell her
(Never want another girl like you) Have to say, oh
Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride
Nobody gonna slow me down
Oh no, oh no, I got to keep on moving
Ain't nothin' gonna break my stride
I'm running and I won't touch ground
Oh no, I got to keep on movin'
Kinda seems like a song about two aro or aroace people who tried a relationship and when they broke up, they decided never to date again because it's a waste of time. Just going by the lyrics.
**Signed**
YUP
1:39
I’m straight, but, I can relate.
I always said: “Why lose time with superficial ‘romances’ (that, casually, don't have anything more that sex), when we can cook and eat something like chicken pie?”
Here in my country, sex is so overrated that if I don't date anyone for years, even though I'm not asexual, I wouldn't be surprised.
Turn out, I'm actually asexual and aromantic-
To my fellow aces, you are valid as fuck! you are beautiful the way you are, no matter what! If someone tries to say otherwise, you have the right to bash in their knees!
My favorite 2 were the "ace thirst trap" and the "I just want some energy, I'm tired" ones.
Why did the thirst trap work though
Right?? I was saying "yes please"
🏳️🌈CAKE IS V̺͆E̺͆R̺͆Y̺͆ G̺͆O̺͆O̺͆O̺͆D̺͆🏳️🌈❤️💛💙
i love your vids it makes me calm down for a while cuz today my parents said that we have a family meeting and im scared that they are talking about my sexuality and I'm not ready to tell them I'm aro ace
I feel ur pain I’m also aro ace and not out yet
Same here girl/dude , i want to tell my parents that i'm aro/ace when i'll have my own job and own house , THEN the storm will start in parents house 😂
*coughs in I searched up my sexuality*
I mean, when I was little, everyone said that kissing was gross, no matter what, so I'm not sure about Elsa.
EDIT: And I feel he was talking about around, instead of ace.
i love explaining being ace to mildly homophobic straight/cis guys if they’re like “how do you know if you’ve never tried it?” and asking them if they’ve ever been railed in the a** by another guy, and then watching them freak out
I always just thought that kids just are effectively ace ‘till after puberty. Then they’re girl-crazy or sumthin’. Turns out, no! I’m the weird one!
I thought that too 😭😭
Im so confused rn so I watch these to feel less confused with all these people who dont even know me telling me Im too young to understand anything.
I’m not ace but I vibe with them so hard.
Edit: actually probably ace idk
Aw yeah, we vibinnnn
Myself, who happens to be an Ace person: *Ace flag background on my school laptop*
My friend who knows basically nothing about LGBTQ+ Things: hey is that the anti pride flag
Me: *weird threatening laughter* Ahahahaha! Time to explain some things to you!
And thats how my friend learned that im ace
This is the best coming out story I've ever heard 😂
My favorite metaphor is
"Oh? You don't wanna screw/kiss a cactus? Maybe you just haven't found the right cactus."
Have you ever been stabbed? No? Then how do you know you don't like it?
Oh, because you know someone who HAS and it never appealed to you to experience the same?.....EXACTLY....You're finally beginning to understand.
I can confirm that me and the aces screech
Reminder that asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, not the sexually activity. Many asexuals actually participate in sex for whatever reason, be it the desire to conceive, the desire to please, or simply because they enjoy the sensation, and they are all valid asexuals.
My coworker, who is in his seventies, asked today if I had a significant other. I said no, I'm asexual, so I'm not interested in that. I'm also aromantic. He basically told me that was valid. How can this man in his seventies understand it but not people in their twenties?
Because he knows how fucked up (pun not intended) this world is because of sex and romance and drama and stuff and he's secretly jealous for you not having to do that shit and still be happy. 😂
I'm asexual and this made my day
Hello! I am questioning ace, and it’s kind of ironic because of the whole cake thing because I want to be a baker when I’m older😂
So I’m asexual grey-romantic so I never feel sexually attracted to anyone and I rarely feel romantic attraction and when I do I can usually easily ignore it
So I don’t spend my time obsessing over people right? Wrong! When I do get a crush I can’t get them off my mind and when I don’t I’m obsessing over my sexuality and if maybe I never actually had a crush on them and just felt pressured by society to have a crush even though it was so clearly romantic attraction...😓
You're literally me lol
we’re the same person omg
10:41 this will not do at all. For a pillow castle, I’d say we need at LEAST 4 chairs.
10:15 i am an ace person and I make that noise all the time
I’m glad to see that people think we’re valid (for once😞)
Its so hard to find representation or people who understand so thank you
10:19-10:20 I can confirm that is what we do....keeps weird people away....
I love this tiktok 8:19 tysm i am Mexican and i have been trying to come out with that song but i couldn't find a Spanish subtitles version thanks tysm
Okay, so funny thing! I was thinking of all of the TikTok compilations I've seen and remembered 2 clips:
1) girl by a brick wall going "wait...people actually get a physical reaction and heat up when somebody walks past? THAT'S A THING?!?" (or similar)
2) Girl in bathroom "Why do people think asexuals are innocent? I'm not innocent, I'm dumb!"
Me, literally HOURS LATER in the middle of eating supper: IS THAT WHY PEOPLE ARE CALLED *HOT* ?!?!?
I’m 13 and found out what being a top and bottom means 3 months ago… just figured out what “does the carpet match the drapes” means… and what the hell NeTFlix and CHilL
Had that same experience only last year.
I'm sixteen and I only found out what Netflix and chill means a couple of months ago 😭
wait does the carpet match the drapes actually maean something 😭
I’m asexual but I still want kids and apparently everybody I talk to doesn’t know about adoption like-
0:30 i may or may not have almost cried
Im aroace and I do still get "turned on" but it's really just basic human functions doing that
The girl doing the supposed asexual thirst trap, I was actually caught off guard seeing the baking foods ngl. I was just being mesmerized by the awesome bounce and color of her hair
6:01. I’m drooling. I was thinking of garlic bread.
The 2nd one is one of my favorite tiktoks
Someone: Oh you're asexual? That means you're a plant, right?
Me: No, it means I'm a dragon you uncultured swine.
Them: What?
Me: [flies off into the sunset]
11:38 I want that Moose look at him, i want one so i can name him Mr.Horns and then we cuddle wile watching old films form Barbie
9:18 Please tell me they made the Jack of Spades Lancer Deltarune.
People: dating an ace must be so boring... what do you do at their house?
At ace’s house: *so, if your fighting and not winning you want to punch them in the gut, the knee them in the head when they double over.*
I know this has nothing to do with the video but I thought maybe someone could answer my question
Is the non-binary people, the pansexual people or some other sexuality/ gender identity that make a pidgin noise as their sound? Because I remember someone saying something about it somewhere but I forgot what they said and I do a good pidgin sound
love it~ Nice pfp btw!
BNHA FANS
*_HEAR ME OUT_*
Bakugou might be asexual
Whenever Midnight was being awfully showy Bakugou was like the one who wasn't blushing.
I don't think Bakugou is sexually attracted to girls because Midnight, and he's also never blushed at any girls in his class.
I also don't think he's sexually attracted to men.
If he was sexually attracted to men he probably would've blushed during the pool episode, blushed during literally any other time.
I'm not sure about Aromantic, as Uraraka is the only one in BNHA who have a canon crush on someone.
I actually agree with this
why'd i say 3 people? theres only uraraka who has a crush on deku and thats it
Agreed
9:00 to be fair, elsa was like six at that time, and almost everyone finds romance weird at that age.
I love ace tiktoks because I’m ace too ♠️✨
Elsa would actually be aroace if she doesn’t feel romantic attraction or just aromatic.
10:20 thats exactly it.
This is my favorite ace tiktok comp omg
Ever since I realized I was Asexual I’ve been getting these Ace tiktoks on my recommended every day (3 days isn’t that long but it’s still cool)
I’m really happy and starting to feel not so bad about being Ace. I even told my mom finally and she accepted still. My friends are also very supportive too😊
I loved this, thank you. :)
999th like
congrats to the person who got the 1000th :)
it always makes me feel special
As an ace, specifically a demiace I want to have friends like the aces in this compilation.
Due to feeling low energy more than half of the time from what's probably a combo of depression, anxiety and feeling overwhelmed from not being able to get myself to do much from adhd.... I need to get a better paying/or a 2nd parttime job to get insurance and get myself checked out for those 3... just acknowledging that seems exhausting 😫.
From what I've learned of all 3 of those .... I have too many of each to ignore the possibilities that I have them.
Ah yes the main point due to low energy from those things + my introvert leaning personality I actually don't have many friends that I hang out with on a regular basis and would love to have some ace friends to hang out with.
Heck having a sleepover where we fill a room with a TV with a ton of blankets and pillows and spend hours talking and watching movies sound great.
Aaa! I think I found my place! Though I’m still questioning if I’m Omisexual/pan,Biromantic, or aesexual c":
as an androgynous ace person, i finally understand the scene that yoda got so tired of answering questions he JUST DIED.
11:15 is my favorite one
i have a ace of spades on my backpack, i was planning on coloring the spades to each ace and aro flag colors, i think it'll look nice
10:50 is just gold
@4:30 why would anyone try to bend someone else's finger to try and get them to cry out, then say "that's what sex sounds like"? That would drive me away from sex even more >_
Same like what in the world-
1:40 that describes me completely 😊
I really needed this, thank you.
2:10
That’s my sexuality too! I told one of my friends and they said “What’s biromantic? I’ve never heard of BIROMANTIC, what the heck is that?” 😭
Omg I’m finding so many biromantic aces today!!!
7:45
I see that Septic Sam plushie I want it
Samee
may god bless you thank you so much for letting me know im valid
10:16
I was so focused on how they were even making those sounds that that caught me so off guard
6:27 does someone know where Tay got her asexuality shirt from?!! I would love one too
yo that ace thirst trap actually kinda..
i just want a hug and movies and will happily sew while she crochets
(then again i may just want a friend i can sew with...)
The pizza ads is a nice touch
10:15
Did not expect to be called out like that
Im 17 and think im asexual but dont know and dkh to talk to friends about it.
5:50 CAKE!!!!!!!!!!
5:19 the fact that the first thing I read was 'Skyrim', probably says a lot abt me lmao
4:52 I screeched like a dying banshee then smacked my friend when they did that to me.
Yeah I think that confirms things.
lol "things that turn asexuals on... to the max" first time i thought it meant the video maker was the "things" and that was the joke then i realized duhhh it means nothing lmao... i should of realized that oooof
I thought they were gonna say the letter A
hey just wanted to say thanks for makeing this video ive been going through alot latley and my friends have not been very helpful and it makes me so happy to see that people like me are valid now just gotta tell that to evrey other person on this earth
Oh the ace card one reminded me of something. So for an assignment in class, we received a random card. I found it funny when I got an ace card because, well as of now I identify as ace.
I used to think being asexual meant you reproduce through mitosis
I jokingly say I'm a mushroom
I get annoyed when people say aces are plants- Like, no, we're humanoids! And plants don't even reproduce asexually!
Could you do do polysexual tiktoks?
* opens door to Ace community *
Um... Hi. Uh. I'm Rey and... Uh... I wanted to know if I could chill with you guys? I might be a little too young to know for sure but it kind of feels right to me. So... Can we chill..?
*Me looking over your shoulder behind you*
"M-me too pls? I brought cake"
Yes! Welcome, children! Come enjoy yourselves! I kind of broke in cause I didn't get an invitation technically speaking, but no one can kick me out cause I feel like I belong here- If you guys think you belong here, come on in! There's tons of cake and garlic bread and over there is the hall of Ace memes! Have fun!
@@artbycallie6816 *all the aces in the room turns their heads in your direction* C A K E?
@@sylphsmovingstories3986 thank you 😭 we need more ppl like you in the world
@@5t3v3thevehicon9 yes yes! All flavors too! *rolls in cart with hundreds of cakes*
Ok but can we just talk about the fact that Tay has a JACKSEPTICEYE PILLOW? I LIKE HER SO MUCH MORE NOW.
okay but I NOTICED THAT TOO WHEN I FIRST SAW THAT TIK TOK AND GOT SO EXCITED LMOPUDICYVUODBI
SAMEEE
Uhhhhh I wish to share a strange story- so embarrassingly enough I never knew lgbtq even existed til like 7th grade, even then I didn’t bother looking into it at least not until 8th grade. I went through all the labels; gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, Omnisexual, all of em- dont get me started on gender, that was a mess, I don’t really care for my gender right now(Identifying as unlabeled for gender but I enjoy masculine and nonbinary terms). But anyways, I didn’t realized asexuality was thing til maybe the beginning of my sophomore year, it was honestly a mess. I went through so many relationships because I’m a yes-man and could never say no(I’m better at it now lol) and it was always way too sexual for me, it made me so uncomfortable. After I started identifying as asexual, I still felt like I HAD to be in a relationship, so I just- kept either going back to exes or going out with friends. Obviously they all ended cause I never liked ‘em romantically and the relationships made me very uncomfortable n stuff. I already know I’m not aromantic but I am on the spectrum(lithromantic ere)
So y e a, One of my closest friends(Not friends anymore) knew very well I was asexual and wasn’t really capable of telling people what I was comfortable with(I didn’t know) and they uhhhh lets just say, skin was exposed and ever since then, I’ve been extremely repulsed to human bodies and sex in general- Like I’ll joke around about wantin to adult Funtime my friends but as soon as its reciprocated, I’m like “no no get away from me-“
Uhhh I ran out of stuff to say lol, thanks for listening to this weird comment
This was an awesome vid!
I knew at 4 I was on someway asexual cuz I said
"I wanna be single forEvew"
9:54 WHAT THE FVCK.......