Why ENFPs and ENTPs Don't Know If They Are Extroverts

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  • @TrustbutVerify35
    @TrustbutVerify35 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This makes a lot of sense. I've always felt like an extraverted introvert.

    • @dariakraljik7072
      @dariakraljik7072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with me.

    • @jtwright4095
      @jtwright4095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'VE always felt like an introverted extravert.

    • @chrishendricks1736
      @chrishendricks1736 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jtwright4095 same

    • @jasoncg2956
      @jasoncg2956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Impossibly accurate.

    • @chazzi795
      @chazzi795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that makes so much sense to us

  • @dustyytsud7758
    @dustyytsud7758 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I've always considered myself an introvert , yet I am an ENTP as it turns out . I don't really need people and enjoy my own company, however I don't avoid parties etc and don't stand in the corner so to speak and like to connect with people and have a good conversation , as long as they're smart haha . So , for me whatever happens - alone time or company time - I'm content and make the most out of both .
    Great video by the way , I really enjoy your content , thank you !

    • @CDOro
      @CDOro 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dusty ytsud “as long as they’re smart”- so relatable

  • @caramelunicorn8023
    @caramelunicorn8023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I like parties as long as Im with the right people doing something worthwhile and deeply satisfying

  • @dante4d
    @dante4d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Interesting. I have maybe even overdeveloped Ti, I spend a lot of time thinking. I can't really do that among other people, they seem to jam my Ti. I always start to come up with most ideas when I leave social situations and have the time to listen to my inner voice. But I also like to just hang out and chill and talk with people, because it makes me more energized and moving, like you said. When I'm alone for too long, I start to get really sluggish...

    • @aquarius1986
      @aquarius1986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same for me as an ENFP, with my Fi. I have a really strong Fi and also a weirdly strong Ni. I don't particularly like being around most people because I'd rather be researching my own interests, feelings and ideas, and experiencing life in my own way. I'm an empath and I get really tired and overwhelmed by too much sensory stimulation or too many people. I don't have great social skills, not terrible but not great, particularly if my Fi is out of balance at all. I prefer being around like-minded people I can talk to about our shared interests or emotional experiences (Fi). I do much better in situations that involve an organized group activity like a workshop, class or retreat. However, I'm so sensitive and have strongly felt intuitive sense of the people around me...if I really don't like someone it can really throw me off and I'll likely not want to be in that environment anymore. -_- I thought I was an INFJ for a long time because of how open I am to feeling everything. I also get my inspiration more in solitude, but I get a lot of energy and motivation from satisfying social interactions. If I'm alone too long I just stop caring (like, most of my recent life...amazing to find out I'm an ENFP and actually an extrovert, now I know what was wrong). I also have always interacted with people a lot through the internet, probably more than in real life a lot of the time. I like having youtube videos playing all the time even if I'm doing something around the house, to sort of feel like someone is there, but not have to deal with anyone actually. lol
      It's hard for me to find people I can truly connect with. I don't know if it's the same for ENTPs, but my dad is one, and I think he likes being around people who are mentally stimulating. I can imagine him getting bored or annoyed with a lot of people if they can't keep up with him. Fortunately for him he had a long career where he met many interesting friends. I'm more of a loner and I never fit into any group, I don't really feel part of society at all, which is hard as an extrovert.

  • @riiruto
    @riiruto 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As an ENTP, this is spot on!

  • @m_js5709
    @m_js5709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My experience as an ENFP has been that I'm extremely extroverted when in the presence of others but I don't crave being around others unless there's a reason for it in my mind. I enjoy spending time alone as long as I have something fulfilling to do & could easily spend an entire weekend in my home w 0 outside interaction. But when I'm out with people I can't sit quietly & do nothing and must be engaged. I was much more extraverted in my teens to early 20s but now at 28 I'm matured to being more comfortable alone. As long as I have something fulfilling to do I'm happy either way. It's the enfp style lol

  • @jasoncg2956
    @jasoncg2956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So we're basically just 3/4 introverts.

  • @gouthambolt
    @gouthambolt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ENTP here. Loves to party with few close friends in my house the way I want. Mostly gets drunk and talk about bikes, art, women and all while appreciating metal music.

    • @tahsina.c
      @tahsina.c 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here man

  • @TODOMATIO
    @TODOMATIO 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very True!!! We seek for meaningful stuff!!! Not boring small talks. We want to dig deeper and find out the real stuff.

  • @zoestephenson8757
    @zoestephenson8757 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am an ENFP.. This has been very very insightful. Thank you Eric :)

    • @epicdman8139
      @epicdman8139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zoe Stephenson Something about that comment would have had me guess you were an ENFP if you didn't say it

    • @stevechristie2569
      @stevechristie2569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zoe Stephenson Zoe I'd like to get to know someone with your Myers Brigg type. Can you email me Pilot@stevespiderweb.co.uk

  • @chrishendricks1736
    @chrishendricks1736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ENTP: *extraverted introvert*

  • @commitmentphobe3045
    @commitmentphobe3045 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hey, ENTP here. I enjoyed your video and could relate in a lot of ways. The stress coping mechanism of shutting off your mind when it becomes overwhelmed is spot on. I wanted to ask you what you think is the best way to keep moving forward, when you don't know what it is you want to move towards? I'm facing a period in my life of uncertainty as far as my life's direction is concerned and it is causing me to become very stressed out.

    • @attack193
      @attack193 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CommitmENTPhobe
      Definitely can relate to not knowing

    • @taniuta8562
      @taniuta8562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope things are working out for you right now... I've been in the same boat for several times, to the point that I wouldn't mind not waking up just to not have to decide anything anymore. I feel exhausted by my train of thought during those times. Now, I can assure I would never take steps in such drastic direction, it's just the intense feeling that keeps coming back.

  • @mycolouralchemy1259
    @mycolouralchemy1259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you...today I finally typed myself correctly after mistyping as an INFP for years and never really bothering to look into it further. I am absolutely an ENFP and am so thankful for more knowledge!

  • @ItsSota
    @ItsSota 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Entp here. I do not agree with partying.... I love partying.

  • @brokenheartstrings4160
    @brokenheartstrings4160 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    which is why we identify as ambiverts.
    something i read once was helpful to me when i was questioning my own z-troversion (well, i can't call it x-troversion, that's too easily misunderstood, lol) : an enfp often questions whether or not she might be an introvert. an infp KNOWS she is an introvert. (or he.)

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahaha i hear that quite often, I think it works 75% of the time.

    • @mycolouralchemy1259
      @mycolouralchemy1259 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tributary K yes totally this

  • @barbarajloriordan2697
    @barbarajloriordan2697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This describes a lot of my life and confirms my understanding of myself as ENTP.

  • @seventhsheaven
    @seventhsheaven 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! I’m an ENTP 7w6. NeTi is the only function order that makes sense for me, but I definitely feel more like an introvert.

  • @sheledon3272
    @sheledon3272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know I am ENTP because of how much new new new I need in my life. I always need to keep learning.

  • @MrLuigiFercotti
    @MrLuigiFercotti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A problem is that extroversion is always thought of in social terms. But being receptive to the outside world is not limited to just social situations. IMO social extroversion scale most to least Fe Te Se Ne, with a big gulf between Te and Se. In other words, judging extroversion is much more "extroverted" than perceiving.

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am ENFP, and for the longest time i thought that i was both extroverted and introverted, the mythical "ambivert". I was always an independent person, who did his own thing

  • @meganm4877
    @meganm4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is helping me come to terms with being ENFP when I was so sure I was an INFJ (yeah yeah I know, like the rest of the world). I feel VERY introverted but do feel energized AFTER a good conversation with someone.
    Edit: thought I was ENTP when I posted this; turns out I'm ENFP

  • @francoisnoir10x
    @francoisnoir10x 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is correct! Flow, go, no patience

  • @infinitysconcinnity2418
    @infinitysconcinnity2418 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Erik, such a winner of a video! Confirming inner suspicions!

  • @eliasapollo4131
    @eliasapollo4131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hm. According to my cognitive functions I'm definitely an ENTP but I always felt like an introvert. I guess that's just Ne being Ne and the fact that my Ti is very strongly developed

  • @louiseavannorden4710
    @louiseavannorden4710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m confused! I always read that ENFPs thrive on contact with people, are energized by surrounding themselves with
    people, that they can’t stand to be alone! Whereas it’s INFPs who are drained by too much contact with people. Hmm! I’m going to listen to the video again. Years ago, I took the MBTI at the suggestion of my counselor. It turned out that whether I’m an “I” or an “E” Is inconclusive. I’m on the border between the two. Very interesting video! Thank you...

  • @user-ew2uu3rl4t
    @user-ew2uu3rl4t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The first time I did the test I was intp, years later I did it again (yesterday) and turns out I am entp, but I'm not very extrovert so I was looking for a response lol

  • @caramelunicorn8023
    @caramelunicorn8023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah like im extroverted in a meaningful way. Like i get really overwhelmed by large crowds and an overwhelming amount of cheap, commercial things. I seek whats hidden and abstract

  • @farasy
    @farasy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an ENTP, this speaks volumes to me. Thanks!

  • @chandrika8919
    @chandrika8919 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ya i am a typical NE person ...entp....we are extroverts and we are freedom lovers, extremely independent, self sufficient and always trying to deny self and helping others with time, knowledge and support...and people think we are not so outdoorsy but we are super curious travelers & explorers ...except that our kind is called mental exploration. it gives us energy.

  • @persephone6896
    @persephone6896 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The « too much sensory input » as you call it is also a typical trait in people with Asperger’s. We call it « sensory overload » and we often shut down too when it gets too loud, bright or crowded. In fact I had to double-Check that I wasn’t listening to a video about Asperger’s. I’m an intuitive ENFP as well as a woman with Asperger’s and this really resonates with me! 😃 spot on.

  • @ANGEL-eh6pd
    @ANGEL-eh6pd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the advise. Right on, the truth is exposed.

  • @squidward9191
    @squidward9191 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    subbed after the first 30 seconds of ur video. you have a great way of explaining things

  • @user-ed2io6nj7q
    @user-ed2io6nj7q 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow, i needed this. i was having a problem with finding out what the fuck i really am. i'm almost sure i'm an ENTP now. thank you

  • @perjohanaxell9862
    @perjohanaxell9862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is important I think. I feel as if I'm not particularly good at being alone but allso easyl overwhelmed by to much sensory. I have a constant need to think together to get input of new ideas and feedback on my own. I want to be with a few people that ether wants to go a bit deeper in charing there storys or are happy to explore ideas together with me. In those situations I can bee very extroverted, energetic and enthusiastic. Unfortunately ther is a lot of how do you do's between those ocations.
    I find it a bit hard to need so much inspiration all the time in ordet to not get stuck in that numb zombie mod. In that way I'm actually really dependent on the extroverted world around me.

  • @JMBCLOVER
    @JMBCLOVER 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was really helpful!! thank you

  • @shelleywinters6763
    @shelleywinters6763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's what I've been trying to figure out this past couple of months. How can I be an extrovert, If I would prefer to stay home and learn stuff and try it out for myself. It's the EN contradiction. Yep, that's it!

  • @nefertariwhite
    @nefertariwhite 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as usual.. spot on! :-)

  • @chazzi795
    @chazzi795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!! I knew it. We're ambiverts

  • @amandagauthier-parker1399
    @amandagauthier-parker1399 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg, this is SOOOO true!!

  • @weavingthevaluess
    @weavingthevaluess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lmfao ily dude you speak my mind
    always identified ad an introverted extravert
    100% in the moment or 100% in my fukkn head
    oxymoron

    • @weavingthevaluess
      @weavingthevaluess 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      were pretty awesome at barfing our brains outward :)

  • @xuongluu182
    @xuongluu182 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great analyze. Accurate

  • @blueme5624
    @blueme5624 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was really helpful thx

  • @PrettyPatriciia
    @PrettyPatriciia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU!

  • @jtwright4095
    @jtwright4095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awesome. thank u. agreed. -XNFP

  • @BethanyLowe8773
    @BethanyLowe8773 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Isn't it also a bit that if I say I'm an introvert they want to be the same, because EP socially responsive is dominant over looking inside themselves?

  • @caramelunicorn8023
    @caramelunicorn8023 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes yes yes feel like a zombie sometimes. Hate it

  • @barbararay1389
    @barbararay1389 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enfp, flava flav..😂🤣 Thanks Eric, I love to go out and have drinks at a club like twice a year. 🙃 I dance and drink all night, and it is very sensory, and that calms me. I typically search for deep thinkers, someone who can keep up with my brain!! 🤣😂 I feel so misunderstood, We do feel like aliens here. 👽 I find when I am excited, high on a bullet train of ideas, I get pushed away. I gather, but because I read others, I have to isolate and process hurts often. This is a gift, but also a burden. I see, and feel everything!!!!!!!!!! Arghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! Help!!!!! 😁 thanks Eric!! 💜

  • @thomascintron9576
    @thomascintron9576 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm an entp... What are the best jobs for entps, careers, etc

    • @ShaXCwalk
      @ShaXCwalk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thomas Cintron Something that can make use of your creativity, logical thinking and problem solving. It needs to be something that is not repetitive.
      Web development and Graphic deaign is perfect for me to get the best out of those mentioned elements. Web dev and graphic design are evolving every year and there is always something new to discover. Projects are usually refreshing and can differ much from before since clients have different needs. This career path is also usually really chill. I am personally happy so far :) I also know another ENTP who is also happy doing web dev and graphic design.

    • @epicdman8139
      @epicdman8139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thomas Cintron For ENTP's, you could be successful at any job you wanted to but ones that fit your personality would be a lawyer or an actor

    • @helloMRdj1
      @helloMRdj1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I consider myself ENTP, and I finished business college in the past, now I study in biotech. I think its good to be in a field where theres constant development and improvement. It gets you to wonder about future possibilities, and the work from day to day is pretty diverse.

    • @aquarius1986
      @aquarius1986 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ENTP father was very successful as a journalist and magazine editor. It think it's an ideal job for an ENTP.

    • @kohaku1821
      @kohaku1821 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Attorney takes a lot of discipline, you'll get bored before you get to the place you want.

  • @mahlina1220
    @mahlina1220 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spot on.

  • @dawnmariechamp4952
    @dawnmariechamp4952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you.

  • @joarimuspapim8807
    @joarimuspapim8807 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    :) how do you know that all? is it your studies or you are a ENFP ? Thanks for your energy and share !!

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's thanks to my studies and all my smart friends who share insight and information with me! :)

    • @joarimuspapim8807
      @joarimuspapim8807 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good Job ! you do it well ! I guess I'm a ENFP... you can just take a look on my room in my videos :P

  • @adamspencer3527
    @adamspencer3527 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vid. INFP typed

  • @fk9965
    @fk9965 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what is your mbti type Eric?

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      infj

    • @jtwright4095
      @jtwright4095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      (try to make that clear, if u can, like, on vid's or maybe in caption-section??? -- But also, NOT making it clear is kool, too, b/c, well u prob know)

    • @jasoncg2956
      @jasoncg2956 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jtwright4095 He's made it clear in multiple vids

  • @SirenoftheVoid
    @SirenoftheVoid 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moving forward rings true for me.But is this something you realized while theorizing or did you experience something that made you change your mind about the notion?

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I read alot of articles about introversion and extroversion and neuroscience and came to the conclusion that introversion and extroversion was influenced by dopamine d2 warning receptors and stop signals in the brain that make us either feel A) In the need to proceed or B) In the need to reflect on mistakes before we move forward.

    • @SirenoftheVoid
      @SirenoftheVoid 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very interesting,thanks for sharing.

  • @chrisd.2831
    @chrisd.2831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍

  • @jrt4jc
    @jrt4jc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️👏

  • @IdonthaveatwittersoFoff.
    @IdonthaveatwittersoFoff. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally looked this up to explain to myself why I feel this way....ENTP