✨let's chat✨ advice to single moms, influencing has changed, breakups, out growing old habits + more

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  • Hey friends, Had to make some time to sit down, do my makeup and chat with y'all about life lately! Just checking in to see how y'all are doing 💕
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ความคิดเห็น • 179

  • @reginalewis1150
    @reginalewis1150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    The single mom convo hit differently. I've been one my son's almost 15 years of life and he is kind, well adjusted, and got more passport stamps than most adults. I wish men would hold each other accountable like they try to hold us accountable. They love hollering about women being accountable, like we ain't holding it down SOLO.

  • @Esthee_and_arts
    @Esthee_and_arts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

    Girl, I was just catching up on Arnell’s videos and thought about how y’all would make 💣 podcast hosts and have so many good, real, helpful, and inspiring girl chats, q&a’s, and even business/event gatherings/meet & greets. Literally could picture the whole thing out mentally- I pray that’s something that will come down the pipeline ☺️ anyway, i love to see & listen to you- now ima finish the video!

    • @loneebazemore1137
      @loneebazemore1137 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You know what they really would and give some boom content

    • @Shaiversal
      @Shaiversal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      THIS

    • @dominique5562
      @dominique5562 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’d definitely tune in!

    • @Esthee_and_arts
      @Esthee_and_arts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@loneebazemore1137 Right!

    • @Esthee_and_arts
      @Esthee_and_arts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dominique5562 🥹 I really hope it happens 🤞🏾

  • @veliciawilliams3776
    @veliciawilliams3776 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Such a profound statement Jaelah. Having a supportive community. That is where TH-cam started. It wasn’t selling and influencing. It was a group that related to your content. ❤. Continue to do what fills your cup Jaelah.🎉🎉🎉

  • @CourtinSessions
    @CourtinSessions 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    👏🏾👏🏾
    I had to change my perspective on being a single mom. It’s what you make of it and best point was you don’t want to remain in a relationship that you are not happy in!!! Love you tribe ✨🌺

  • @MikalaLeinani
    @MikalaLeinani 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Say that single mom stuff again!!! Yess girl! Single moms chose peace over everything! We need to be in our best state of mind and in our peacefulness for our babies! Being raised by a single mother I find that we are the strongest out here! 💪🏽

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    JAELAHHHH , every time I watch you , I realize why I’ve been here so long . You speak to where I’m at from mindsets on motherhood, seeking God over humanity and truly just wanting to be and connect . Never change ! You’re not strict , you’re intentional!

  • @melodya4833
    @melodya4833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m picky too in fact someone mentioned to me how selective I am in friendships. It was said as if it was a character flaw or off putting however I think it’s the perfect way to be. No drama! Completely focused. Not everyone should experience your energy but when you find your people that embrace you organically they become your tribe forever

  • @d.houston5278
    @d.houston5278 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I JUST became a single mom and I really needed to hear this. I think because of how society looks at single moms, when it don’t work even we believe the lies. I’m out here scared, but seeing women like you and Arnell make me feel like it can be lit.

  • @jasminewilliams2494
    @jasminewilliams2494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There are people who appreciate you for being just who you are. You continuing to be AUTHENTIC in the midst of all this fake stuff will pay off in the end. The fact that you see and realize this separates you.

  • @A_afropuff_
    @A_afropuff_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m so glad you touched on the single mom thing. People be talking so much shii about us. When actually I be happy having a ball with my son.

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You touched on sooooooooooo many elephants. Thank you for being real and relatable . Appreciate you , keep being great🫶🏾

  • @beuncamalone196
    @beuncamalone196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    love these chit chats 🤍 definitely my go to community for sure , as a “single parent “ . . i don’t even blame folks anymore 🤷🏽‍♀️ because if you’re not a parent you really don’t get it .
    I don’t be having nobody to talk to either , so i get it girlie

  • @AuthenticallyJess
    @AuthenticallyJess 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's so crazy hearing you talk about things I've been talking to God about just in that last few weeks! Being a single parent with a military spouse, staying grounded, choosing yourself, sexuality and how being with women brings out my traumatic masculinity?!! Girl you don't know how refreshing it is hearing from another woman dealing with the same sh!t

  • @JayWilli8888
    @JayWilli8888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As someone who isn't a mom, the single mom discussions anger me so much. You are such an inspiration for all women and always speak the truth!

  • @_Tiffany_Michelle
    @_Tiffany_Michelle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Jaelah talkin' her shit again and I'm always here for it! 👏🏾

  • @ItzKarmanii
    @ItzKarmanii หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m going thru a horrible breakup currently and when you popped up I had to watch this I’ve been watching you from the VERY BEGINNING. I just want to say thank you!💯 after watching this among other videos you remind me I’m going to be fine me and my baby will be ok now I just have to figure everything out. A place to live, how to support myself etc.

  • @tam06111
    @tam06111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so happy you are back!!!

  • @Ceceliiaatf
    @Ceceliiaatf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m literally frying my eyes with the brightness all the way up curled up in the bed 😭🥰 loveeee you girl.
    I felt you on the not having someone to talk to 🥴!

  • @daarmonet
    @daarmonet 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hey jae i love your catch up/advice type videos they are so helpful and keep me so engaged ❤

  • @DanielleShantal
    @DanielleShantal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LOVED this video. I have always adored you and still do to this day. Thank you for being you and never changing for no one. ❤

  • @amandaparfait9468
    @amandaparfait9468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn this whole video really spoke to me. Thank you sis for being so transparent. I pray for nothing but happiness, peace, & blessings for you & your son

  • @nobodybutchass
    @nobodybutchass 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve missed you!! I’ve been in and out of watching my fav TH-camrs, but your makeup came out chefs kiss😍 you’ve grown so much & ILYSM when I watch your videos it literally feels like I’m chit chatting with my online bestie! I suck at making friends especially now as a young adult but I consider a few content creators as besties and I’ve never met anyone in person! But I agree with every point made in this video!

  • @msashleynicole222
    @msashleynicole222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video reminded me why I love your channel. I have been watching you for years and learned so many little gems. Your appreciated ❤️

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for standing up for single moms! I was raised by one and we were never down bad! My momma is a boss! My dad was an anchor so I appreciate mom for taking care of business. Thanks for sharing your life with us, Jae 💕

  • @brandis.5867
    @brandis.5867 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also. You look BEAUTIFUL 😍. You already flawless but this beat is… chefs kiss!

  • @goddess10468
    @goddess10468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The level of excitement I just felt🎉Friennnnn I was wondering about you this morning after watching Arnell❤ I love Y'all I swear I feel like the aunty watching my favorite nieces❤❤❤❤

  • @CreTaylor
    @CreTaylor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girll this!!! Thank you! ❤ we needed this.

  • @shamerafye5035
    @shamerafye5035 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was so bored at work ! So happy that you posted a video ! ❤

    • @miraclecooke9728
      @miraclecooke9728 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      rigggghhhtt...gone get me right on through my shift

  • @1999savanna
    @1999savanna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    YOU ARE ALWAYS ON TIME 😅🫶🏾…. I was a wife and now I’m a baby mom, single mom, milf and you couldn’t have said it any better 😂. My daughter is TRULY A BLESSING. And because of her I’m 15x better 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @iammarlishia5233
    @iammarlishia5233 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hair looks so good Jaelah 😍

  • @uniqueajana
    @uniqueajana 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I swear you ALWAYS ON TIME 🩵😭

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your skin is glowing! ✨

  • @desandriapatton4070
    @desandriapatton4070 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    JM you said a mouth full home girl.. our baby boys are a blessing.. but it’s person you had the baby with.. we do what we have to do.. & pray daily... but “it won’t always be like this”. Love you chick… have an awesome day..

  • @reality1012009
    @reality1012009 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this and i love you for your authenticity! i been here since the losing virginity story time & i love your growth and im really glad you’re a spiritual baddie now cause it’s not a lot of us ❤❤

  • @Iambuthayna
    @Iambuthayna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been rocking with you since 2017 and you’re always authentic and genuine and I agree with you 💯 on everything 🫶🏾

  • @clairissaimani
    @clairissaimani 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I never clicked a YT notification soo fast 🤸🏾‍♀️🤍

  • @hiccup363
    @hiccup363 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    firstly , I wanna thank you for putting me on to a bunch of new makeup products you love/ are really good bc i’m literally going to sephora tomorrow haha. And 2nd i’m from chesapeake so please let me know if you do another subscriber meet up🥰 I saw you once in person at Busch Gardens but didn’t get to speak ,would love the opportunity to give you a hug ❤ thanks for being authentic. you definitely inspire me to analyze my life & set intentions

  • @NikwaXO
    @NikwaXO 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yasss I can't wait for next gathering it's been to love 😩😩

  • @MikalaLeinani
    @MikalaLeinani 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Make up ATE! Conversation ON POINT! Everything resonates! 🤍🤍 sending you love and peace of mind goddess.

  • @rauellelovee4402
    @rauellelovee4402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Babyyyyy I NEEDED this video

  • @shiannrucker5255
    @shiannrucker5255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate whenever you post🩷 be needing your vibes

  • @georshelemiata3910
    @georshelemiata3910 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m here for the more community feel!

  • @itsmookiemook
    @itsmookiemook 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved this video !!! thank u Jay

  • @marissamills7538
    @marissamills7538 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to rewatch this again & idk why I wanna hug you & dap you up at the same time 🤗. You speaking to my soul!!! Chillllllllleeee!!!

  • @drisworld
    @drisworld 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I felt the building community part HEAVY! 😭 my whole channel/brand is based on being your true authentic self. Liikkeee, I’m not trying to sell anything, I just want to vibe w/ people and help people grow Fr 😭😭😭.
    Also, I loovveee this makeup look. Definitely inspired me to practice more! ☺️💞

  • @Ana_theeofficial
    @Ana_theeofficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so good 🥰💕

  • @TameriahReed
    @TameriahReed 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jae baby you did it again! 💜I craveee this type of content! U literally ate with every topic! Specifically the bm/single mother take! 🍽️🍽️🥹 like when i say i feel so seen! As another pisces u literally took the words out my mouth!! 😩💗 just wanted to give you your flowers ! I love you hun! 🥰

    • @TameriahReed
      @TameriahReed 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A little transparency… ive been having a hard time trying to balance motherhood and life, and specifically stepping into my perspective on content creation!! Speaking on this topic helped open my eyes to why i felt that way, social makes it hard for us to express ourselves! Rather it be good or bad! Definitely just helped me sets some new perspectives for myself… moving forward 🥹💜💜

  • @Jasmine.Deny1
    @Jasmine.Deny1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ommmggg I needed this😭😭😭

  • @CieLocd
    @CieLocd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everything you said HAD TO BE SAID ! You spoke nothing but real

  • @daishakeirre
    @daishakeirre 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed this video so much! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on single moms. Society def makes you feel like the bottom of the totem pole when you are one. This helped me change my perspective so much 🙌🙌🙌😩😩😩

  • @PlanetButta
    @PlanetButta 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl I missed you so bad! Needed to comment before even watching. I hope all is well with you and Jax 🤍🤍🤍

  • @dmcd0nald
    @dmcd0nald 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    just in time! my son just went down for a nap & my doordasher around the corner lol

  • @thecurebykalisa
    @thecurebykalisa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Tajette Tuesday!!! ❤

  • @mellymel008
    @mellymel008 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OG Follower herree! Your hair has always been goals ❤

  • @SwtnSourEzell
    @SwtnSourEzell 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this chit chat!! N ima have to copy the way u do ya liner😜 I totally agree bout the single mom topic. FACTS

  • @Amber.Jackson91
    @Amber.Jackson91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can you just give us another hair tutorial?! Thanks😂🤭🥰🥰 this style and your curls are so freaking pretty Jae!!!

  • @VibrantPeace
    @VibrantPeace 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    44:04 this !!! You’re not status driven you are purpose driving ❤ and this why I rocks with you !!!!!!!!

  • @Mellioniare17
    @Mellioniare17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's the authenticity for me >>>>>

  • @Barb801
    @Barb801 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I genuinely enjoy this talks. And you’re so relatable it’s crazy.

  • @giovannanicolas8299
    @giovannanicolas8299 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with everything you said. ❤️❤️. You are the best. Keep doing what you are doing. Support from NYC.

  • @taeboogie7304
    @taeboogie7304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FIRSTTTT❤❤❤❤ girl where you been! let me get my popcorn and chocolate 🍫 I missed these girly talks

  • @SHEaintPlayn
    @SHEaintPlayn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl I resonate with your eyebrow story!! I had mine waxed and burned so thin in 9th grade as well!! Got a bang cut too just to cover them shits up omg 😆

  • @dionnafarriel7296
    @dionnafarriel7296 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG LOVE THE VIDEO

  • @jakharimalik
    @jakharimalik 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💗 U ! So many GEMS and Authenticity

  • @Some1sAuntie
    @Some1sAuntie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love these nuggets of wisdom you drop in your videos. It’s refreshing and I learn a thing or two in the process. #Some1sAuntie ❤️

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats wild...i am not active on social media (except youtube subscriptions)....but i am not shocked folks are increasingly crazy. This world is wild asf...protect yourselves mentally, physically and emotionally. We are in a spiritual war and the battle isnt for the flesh but the spirit. Love you Jaelah boo, been fw you since you were in the Airforce❤

  • @katrinasmith-jones2213
    @katrinasmith-jones2213 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We love you babe ❤

  • @itsmookiemook
    @itsmookiemook 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    RIGHT ! "CUZZZ ima get the last drop" w my country a**** too! lol as you should!

  • @smithsmith107
    @smithsmith107 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your hair so pretty

  • @NiyImani
    @NiyImani 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh how I’ve missed you! ✨

  • @t.d.8829
    @t.d.8829 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ElLF eyelid primer works really well. I apply it all over my lid, wait a few seconds to let it dry down a bit, tap it in, and repeat at least once. Then I apply setting powder and pressed powder. You can leave it like that or apply eyeshadow.

  • @amberskye290
    @amberskye290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This really resonated. Choosing yourself is hard as hell. I’ve grown to be accustomed to unhealthy break ups where it was so catastrophic that there is no coming back, but one that you have to choose urself is soooo much harder. Forcing yourself to stand on business be having me sliding down the wall crying

  • @Aliaaa
    @Aliaaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why am I still cackling at the fork in the road part 😭 I need help. Okay. *continues video*

  • @its.ige_9009
    @its.ige_9009 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jae I missed you so much 🥹

  • @neeeshii
    @neeeshii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I purchased the Ami Cole mascara & Estée Lauder foundation.. Now I need that contour stick. 😍

  • @haveboldfaith
    @haveboldfaith 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are simply gorgeous! The eyeliner accentuated your eyes beautifully. Really well done! Also, regarding the “cookie-cutter”, inauthentic sales-pitchy videos, I couldn’t agree more. I’m finding myself watching fewer & fewer because so many are just sounding like commercials anymore. 😔

  • @camillelauren2485
    @camillelauren2485 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oooooou lord knows when I need you.

  • @remifnky
    @remifnky 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i loooved this whole video. also j please give me the secret ingredients to this wash n go 🤧💓

  • @Angelaj.allday
    @Angelaj.allday 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Jae!!!!❤❤❤❤ so happy to see you! Been sayin I need a Jaelah video like neeeooww!!❤

  • @mialinguia
    @mialinguia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This hairstyle is so cute.. can we get more hair videos?

  • @kevneelomax143
    @kevneelomax143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think the single mom debate comes from ppl cant fathom that 2 things can be true. Yes im single and yes im a mom but my life didn’t stop just because the relationship didn’t work after having our son

  • @ghazlyntarae
    @ghazlyntarae 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    19:02 oooouuu talk about it!

  • @sunnydaynocloudz
    @sunnydaynocloudz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    DEAD WEIGHT WAS IT FOR ME....NEEDED THAT MY GIRL.

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey boo i just saw your Savage Fenty bra ad. ❤❤❤

  • @niahnicole
    @niahnicole 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baby, I've been here since we been using Vaseline in our hair, okay?!😂😂
    A major key that helped me with oil/shine is "priming" with powder after the primer. I got that hack from Jackie Aina yrs back and it's been HELLA effective!!

  • @miraclecooke9728
    @miraclecooke9728 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    not me already here in 3 minutes....girl lemme find out im addicted to you lol

  • @LadyLynn2123
    @LadyLynn2123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yessssssss girl cause if they wanted to the would period…….!!!!

  • @ayannafreeman6312
    @ayannafreeman6312 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pleaseee start a podcast! I love hearing you talk

  • @mamas906
    @mamas906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Missed you 🫶🏾

  • @user-gs7yr9mb3p
    @user-gs7yr9mb3p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Us single moms are dope AF… we look good AF we smell good AF, we got our own business we get to the bag, and quite honestly I think everybody hattin on us, cause they could never do what we do on they best day. And another thing we not gone put up with our moms put up with, we not gone sit up and cry over no man we not gone put up with him not being loyal and we not gone put our kids through no BS, we are so at peace and that’s priceless.

  • @Enhancedbybritt
    @Enhancedbybritt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Duo lash glue it’s good on the brows too

  • @kymlyte
    @kymlyte 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤎 Alwayz!!!

  • @JovieHill
    @JovieHill 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love you 4L Jae Bae

  • @jmacessentials
    @jmacessentials 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whew..this. was. right. on. time 😮‍💨

  • @Quill1127
    @Quill1127 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    PREACH💆🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️

  • @LovingMelanin
    @LovingMelanin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Madeline spray got dented like that too 😂😂 one drop and it’s all over

  • @collegecurlee
    @collegecurlee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bingooo. This has probably been the best retrograde I’ve had lol but seeing all the drama seems to have filled me with gratitude that things aren’t as bad as it may seem. Regarding the single mom discussion, I stopped engaging because people are so unwillingly to see your perspective and I refuse giving it energy. Us moms know the real deal and our kids do too!

  • @jadasierra
    @jadasierra 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video 🤍🤍🤍🥹

  • @Allofalexis_
    @Allofalexis_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey!!!🥰 As a mua who's new to creating content it was so refreshing to hear you talk about the content creator role vs the influencer role! I am more so about creating the community like you said. I want to get a bag🤑 but only of its authentic. I just cant get on God's internet playing with ppl money 😂

  • @quantia9213
    @quantia9213 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heavy on the “they might be slow” 😩