life lately | i'm done dating, bring back mom shaming, what happened with my sister???
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
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Hey yalllllll welcome to jaelah in 4K!! I'm literally so excited about the quality of this content, I low-key dont even care what im talking about lmao. here's a lil life update on everything thats been going on while I try out some new products and do my makeup!
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My thing is it should be "parent" shaming not just moms alone cuz the absent dads should be called out too but I agree 100%
you right!!!
Glad to hear Jaxson loves school 😊. I know that you will be out of the crazy situation sooner than later. Jaelah you have developed into a Beautiful butterfly 🦋🦋 because you are more aware of self. That is powerful! Enjoyed this, Love the makeup. Have a blessed Holiday 😊
I totally agree!!!
this whole chat was everything. im so worried about other kids ruining my daughter. You gotta preserve that innocence with your lifeeee these days.
As a educator in public school I agree we need to bring back shame. The way some of these kids act at school these parents need to be EMBARRASSED.
Exactly!!
Period!!!!
Educator as well for 16 years...I am tired. I have 3 kids and they are in virtual school (with my education retired mom). Best decision ever!
These are the children of the no spanking generation. Parents aren’t parenting today and our society reflects it.
This educator stands with you. I believe in social emotional learning but geez!
Its very difficult to cope with the fact that men can detatch from their child(ren) if the relationship with mom is no longer. I had to cope with that as well.
I feel you on the done being afraid. I’m in the era of standing on business even when I’m nervous or scared about the other side.
There is so much you can accomplish when you put the fear aside. Saying that to say, fear is something that does exist but most times your FAITH will prevail. Whenever you feel weary and afraid, say a PRAYER TO GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS and your fears and worries SUBSIDE. I did so much praying and faith healing in the last year and a half while purchasing a new home, having most of it renovated and am now very blessed with living comfortably within my financial means and enjoying the fruits of my labor. HAVE FAITH!
Jaelah your chit chats are literally the best ! I normally don’t watch ppl chit chats but something about yours eats just like your vlogs !!! I love you girl !😂❤
💯 Jaelah brings substance! She doesn’t talk to talk. She stands on being authentic and isn’t with the fake ish. It’s Definitely refreshing.
Totally Understand the money energy thing, like idk how to describe it but I just put in work and things just happen. I walk through the world just knowing things are going to be okay and shit just start lining up.
I never comment, but I just want to say Jaelah you are low key my therapist (as one way communication) because you hit so many points and I feel like my "shambles" (thanks Raven Elyse) aren't just happening to me. Your truth lets me know that I'm not the only one going thru the madness of ADHD, absent father issues and just so many life similarities. Keep being who you are and keeping it 100!!
Wow you wouldn't believe how many men get jealous of their sons or how many women get jealous of their daughters is the same. Jaxson took you away from him. You became a mother the day you realized life was forming. He was happy st the idea of being a father until he realized the limitations he had to endure.
It's says that in the bible
I’m just gonna say it, you are such a light- it has been a pleasure to see you grow and come into enlightenment and self awareness. Keep going and raising that beautiful boy(and thank you for that word on money girl ) ❤
People really out here just getting pregnant on accident and being like “guess I gotta keep it” and out no thought into being a parent. They treat the child like an obligation and quite literally provide them with the bare minimum: food clothes shelter but no life lessons, like self respect or consent.
Yep
You spoke the truth! I just quit my teaching position about two weeks ago because I was tired of being underpaid and dealing with HORRIBLE/ BAD students
Was very much outside as kid/teen, hated being in the house lol and it makes me so sad my kids (if I have any) won’t necessarily have the same childhood. I truly believe 90’s kids had the best childhood. And mom shaming def needs to come back!
I just love you Jaelah, I’ve been following since the first big chop and I swear we have had parallel growth and I just love to see sistahs constantly healing, and putting self worth as a top priority 🫶🏽 internet bestie lol 😅
The chit-chat OG. I love it here! Definitely felt when you said God ends up working things out every time you worry about money, and you end up asking yourself, what were you worried about! ❤ always happens to me! Much love hun.
I’ve been watching you grow so much and even hearing how anointing your house felt so natural to you really opened my eyes on how much Christ wants you. I’m so proud of you mama
Always love and appreciate the fraction of your openness, honesty and vulnerability of your journey. Yes currently standing on business as well and it’s always worth it in the end. I think we as people often forget how our life and evolution is a journey. And our journeys are our own! They aren’t gonna look linear or similar to others let alone our own original expectations and that’s okay.
Having a scarcity mindset is something I’m trying to leave behind for good and develop an abundance mindset. Worrying about money will keep you unwell so trusting that you’re provided for helps and keep moving the money will flow in. With credit cards it’s so easy to get messed up if not done correctly. If you can’t pay the statement with the money you have don’t overspend on the credit card so the utilization rate can stay low until your limit increases. It will make you disciplined when it comes to money.
Girl my son is in a private school. He is 4 as well. I'm like dang tuition is already high and they got something going on every other week. I love the kids and teachers at his school. They keep them nice and innocent. I just love rolling up and you can tell everybody on the same page. Plus it is locked down and safe and secure. Me and my friends check each other when it comes to our children. I love that I can ask them questions, my baby is the youngest, and I know they will keep it real.
You’re talking facts about teachers having to do more work because parents won’t do work at home prior to sending them to school
It’s beautiful that you are embracing and accepting these standards. It’s the right thing. 💯 I’ll be 2 years of practicing abstinence in May, and I am so happy and my judgement of things aren’t clouded by anything unlike God. I’m proud of you.
As a teacher I couldn't agree more about you wanting to preserve Jax's innocence.
Girl I’m done dating too. This ish is trifling!
But fr I feel like I’m bound to situationships too & I really do not know why. It’s like repeated cycles. I’m TIRED
I love these vulnerable moments u may feel like it’s doing to much to let others see how u feel etc but sis deep down some of us r right there with u I definitely am frfr u r not alone believe that..Thanks for sharing & being open with us all love these type of sit downs & ur doing a damn good job being a mother trust me I’m a single mom of a soon to be 7 yr old & she has a disability some days r hard & stressful but I pray & I know GOD has us both keep pushing sis u got this GOD bless you both!!!🫶🏾🙏🏾🥰
Liked without eem watchin
YUP❤
Got to!
Always. Muted and alllllll
I had to pause this and comment.. I don’t have room to explain what this video means and did for me. I for sure feel seen!! Thanks Jae 🫶🏾
as a kid that grew up in private school, I can definitely tell you that is where I have seem and experienced some of the most brutal stuff. I was horribly bullied, and we’re not gonna talk about the other stuff 😭 but i’m sure not all private schools are the same
Love these videos for the fact that I feel like we’re sitting in your room doing our makeup together while talking 🥺
you so pretty & transparent. Please keep doing these. :)
Casual sex is a no-go for me emotionally and spiritually. Had to give that to God and I feel so much better 💕
Same
Finally! I’m not even going to say anything anymore. I’m just going to send this video to the reckless parent I know… when I say it is “ you don’t understand you don’t have kids”
I be tryna be a vanity girlie but somehow I always end up back at my bathroom sink 😂
Watching jaelah makes me a lil grounded/heard, I haven’t been watching and when I come back to binge all the videos I missed she’s just hitting every point that I’ve been reflecting on these past months of not feeling like myself. It’s something about her that makes me just wanna go and get my shit right
The chin filler did what it was supposed to do 😍 That didn’t mess up your face at all. But again, that ain’t nobody else business
She didn’t get chin lipo. She got filler lol
@@snarkyybynature lmao I fixed it. I was at work and needed to get tf off my phone 🤣
Dermaplaning by an esthetician. It’s excellent for removing the fine facial hair and then a hydro facial. My combo to beautiful skin. Every 6wks until you achieve desired results.
Private school mom that was a private school kid. It never stops lmao even in 8th grade the activities never stop 😂 But it’s honestly worth it. The type of person i am because of private school makes me grateful my parents made that choice.
checked for your new video on monday was sad to not see one 😔 but you made my night with this upload… thankful for you jaelah 🧡
I thought coming in when the street lights came on, went out after my generation. It’s refreshing to see that there were still some parents who made their kids come in when the streetlight came on during your time.
I’m 25 and that was a thing for me growing up lol
im 22 and it definitely was a thing. included the DS/gameboy. and I couldn’t even come home with a C on my report card my folks didnt play
and we wasn’t tablet kids too
If I could like this a thousand million trillion times!!!! Gurrrllll I stay talking about folks not parenting or disciplining. New parenting trends every year, nothing is ever consistent. Folks be so concerned about breaking generational curses, that they’re making new curses and unleashing them on the rest of us!!!!
SN: people are wild, I be so into seeing your growth . I literally forget you got a whole family😂😂😂 which is how it should be❤
I’m really feeling the bright under eye though !!!
As much as moms should be SHAMED, these dads need to be SHAAAAAAMED, too!!!
I was thinking about my generation (someone born of 2001 and see today’s generation) and it’s completely different. Back in my day, we read BOOKS, we would get hyped about the Scholastic book fair. Now, these kids don’t want to read 😭 will honestly bully someone because they want to read.
You are genius, Jaelah. Look at us all watching your video while doing our Thanksgiving makeup.
These men are indeed scary..You think you know them until you see the other side of them
THE LASHES REALLY WERE GIVING! We need the link babes
Love every time you come to us with a chit chat. The parallels be insane with what I’m going through in life.
My 757 girl always coming through 😘
What a perfect way to end my day 💕🙏🏾🫶🏾
It’s nice being heard and seen as a teacher wheeeww 😢
Right on time!! Literally just logged in For Majette Mondays"Wednesday Edition" 😅 missed you boo😘❤❤
the face ateeee and i loved the chit chat!!
been there jaelah i know exactly how you feel! get that finalized so you can spread your wings & fly babyyyy
I found a really good public school in my area for my daughter and I have a love hate relationship with it for the same reasons you do minus the money lol. But Im happy she's getting the exposure and the experience, the kids and teachers are so nice and helpful, but every week they need money lol but idc. I seen the tik tok video you're talking about and I agree. A lot moms response is "well we grew up listening to a lot worse" and I'm like yea, and you see what you were doing in early middle school and high school. People don't understand music is influential and they are conditioning their kids to be hypersexual and not even knowing it. I'm that parent that will cut my daughter friendship if I feel like my daughter or that friend is not a good influence. I'm not having that.
just subbed babe, love your channel ❤
The way we somehow seem connected. Maybe it’s a Pisces thing but ain no way, I should be missing girl talks w| you and when you post you talking about my exact life 🥺💕 #BeenHereSinceTheStart
"Peace be still". Thats what youre feeling.
"Niccas are niccas!😂😂 Happy Thanksgiving Jae!!
Even though we grew up singing things we shouldn’t have been, at least we didn’t know what it actually meant. A lot of his found out in our 20s and 30s depending on how old you were then. Baby we were outside from the time you woke up until the streetlights came on.
I thought I was the only one who called it Juvias palace😂😂 loved this whole chat I can relate. Love the makeup!
I think he loves his son, bit it's emotionally hard to around you without everything that used to come with being around you . I hope his coping time doesn't take so long ; that even Jax says fuck it .
I’m here for EVERYTHING that you’re talking about but baaaybeeee that chin is chinning 😂 so cute 🥰
Preparing for tomorrow’s Thanksgiving dinner… perfect timing ❤
Yasssssssss I keep telling people we hadddd funnnnnnnn back in the day 96 baby here 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Lmao @ “when you standing on business and the business text you and then IT FACETIME YOU” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think I have a problem with worrying to be much and things always work out anyway. It’s because I deal with anxiety but I’m trying to be in control of when that anxiety is even triggered. I just want to be ok and know that all things will work out. Because that anxiety makes me start to get irritable and it shows. And some people don’t understand that.
Guuuurrlll! I'm trying to understand where all that wisdom you project at such a young age, has come from. I will give your props mostly from how you were raised and I will definitely attest that most of the knowledge is a gift from God. You have spit so much knowledge that I CAN RELATE TO AS A WOMAN IN HER 60's, to the point where I feel like when I listen to your articulations of life's evolution and your LOGICAL perceptions as to HOW LIFE SHOULD HAVE MORE COMPASSION AND RESPECT IN IT IN REGARDS TO HOW WE NEED TO MOVE IN THIS WORLD, you make me feel like I am talking to my homegirls in my 60's age group, REAL TALK. Me and my friends that I'm COOL WITH, comment on these same subjects you have acknowledged in this vlog, and gurl let me tell you, PAT YOURSELF ON THE BACK BECAUSE THESE YOUNG WOMEN OUT HERE NEED TO TAKE A LESSON FROM THE KNOWLEDGE YOU SPIT ON THESE VLOGS. You spit to these women that our flaws and mistakes ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LEARNING LESSONS. I'll say this to say, as a women who is now in her 60's, it took me many years to eliminate negative people from my life, whether they were friends lovers or family, and now I have so much peace of mind because if a person is not going to be an UPLIFTER, I cut the cord. Keep dropping knowledge to this new generation of women who need to learn about what their worth is supposed to be in this thing called life!
I think a lot of the problems stem from young people having No respect for themselves or anyone else.They fear Nothing…. Not their parents… grand-parents…family members .Law enforcement even Death. Drugs also play a huge part in the way they conduct themselves. It can get real scary out there.🙏🙏
When you're bare faced hair slicked back you and your babies faces are identical. 🥰
I get the same issue with the fine ingrown hairs every few months because I dermaplane. I use the dr Dennis gross peel pads (red pack) and the good molecules niacinamide serum
I lost it at we will rock you 😂😂😂 I love it❤
vid quality is most def EATING👏🏽
First of all the 4K E A T S! I almost tuned out a few times because of the quality lol.
My family were just talking about me sheltering my babies yesterday. I don't want my lil ones doing them dances and singing them songs. Like no!
School in general is way more demanding than I thought it would be. I thought I would feel relieved but the stress creeped up out of nowhere after book character day and cowboy boot day 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
😮💨😮💨😮💨 I started teaching in 2020 and left this year for the reasons you mentioned. We also gotta remember the kids lived through the pandemic and lost a year of socialization/the influence of their teachers. It’s just a bad cocktail.
Let me watch this on the Tv instead of my phone ..been watching since the lizard, Tyrone and Japan iykyk lol
I missed this Jaelah ❤. You got this boo!
When you say “you get what I’m saying” >>>>>
Thak you for your vulnerability. You are on the right road. Every single thing you desire, will be granted unto you. Be Blessed.
Not Jax lovin WE WILL WE WILL ROCK YOU!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Jaelah that's the narcissist thing though, they're very out of sight out of mind people & the consideration is non existent .. bc they lack empathy or being able to put themselves into other people shoes ..whatever relationship he has with you and if you don't want nothing to do with him that's how it'll be with the child smh it's sad but you're such a GREAT MOMMM ❤ it's so much I could say cause I can relate real bad.
Wow…. My story is the same
Thank you for your transparency
Oh my gosh, yes Jaelah. On some rs, you should get baptized. We are here to support you!
You talking about a VIDEONOW omg you unlocked a memory 😂😂😂
you talking about a videonow? it was a little tv where you put whatever mini disc to whichever show you wanted to watch in there. my mama ain’t hear shit from me in the car with that bad boy🤣
I never been to a public school but my catholic schools still had the bullshit lol
When you brought up the portable DVD player in the car girllllllll I kid you not had a blue one loved it watching all the Nickelodeon shows on there I’m with you😂😂😂
Fairly odd parents
Timmy turner
Izzy McGuire all them loved those and I think I still have it❤❤
Co Parenting with a Narcissist is the worst!!!!!! But if there is anyone who can get through it is a Pisces
woman who has done the WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Us Pisces women are built different, no shade to anyone else, just speaking for us in touch water signs is all.....
Wow!! That money topic is me all day, another Pisces trait. I’m not rich at all (yet) but I behave as if the money just replaced itself after I spend it 🥴 stressing money will make it run away from you in my mind, just like a man lol… I gotta get out of that habit of not checking my account though.
Love you Jaelah you are a real one sis 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I loved this baby. It was giving.
I agree with what you are saying, except i think it should be 'whoever is acting the fool' shaming. Lets be honest its not just mums letting the kids down. We need to bring back the village, the village teaches, nurtures and it hold folks accountable
Omg you look so goodt!!
I feel like we're living the same life in different fonts lmaoo
Ian NEVER been this early 🥹🫶🏽 Hey sisss
Whew 😅 it’s a change in the spiritual atmosphere, you sound exactly like me. But that why I love you 😘 I’ve always seen me in you. 27:50
Love this ENTIRE VIDEO👍🏿
Were you referring to a PSP when you were talking about devices we had as kids? I remember I got one for Christmas and I watched “You Got Served” on it every day for like 3 months straight lmao.
Jaela, hunni, you gone have to do a reel of the lip combo bc who was able to see those??? 😐
But she REAL cute!😍
Yesssss I needed a new video ❤ I stay on this channel 😊
Perfect timing I’m trying to do a wash and go pray for me ❤