@blankspace2521 I don't know, but a guy will make time for the one he wants to make time for and communicate unless he's having a problem and too ashamed to admit it.
I needed to hear this. He's been using silence to get to me and as much as im not letting that get me to react its been so hard to keep quiet. But I'm learning to not respond to the silence and just keep my distance.
I agree! There are often reasons why people become silent, and it’s not okay because it can hurt others. Communication is extremely important! While online dating can be frustrating, I learn a lot about myself and others through the experience. It’s interesting to start identifying patterns in behavior. 👀 💜
I feel like he is looking for a reaction because he will go ghost, but watch all of my stories. And when I do get on the phone he ask « why you sound happy » like huh??? Was i supposed to be upset 😂
Silence is 100% a manipulation technique! I’ve experienced it first hand and lemme tell you all something. Being strong and not falling victim to that level of manipulation will not only be your best form of revenge but will also protect you from narcissists and abusive people
So , I dealt with a narcissist, i followed father Alex and ignored the narc, and he called and tried to reach out but I ignored it , then he started lovebombing me with gifts (which I accepted) and he went back to be silent and I still kept my distance
i go silent cuz she has a bf so any attention now would not be appropriate. i think i will apply no contact forever. as alex said - we need to let people choose us
Where did that ponytail come from Alex? 😂😂😂😂 Coming to America. I appreciate all your help and advice. I would be messed up w/o you. I always wanted a big sister, but I got a big brother.
Yes I was wondering this too. A guy just ghosted me and blocked me out of nowhere. I know he is a control freak. I think he wants to hurt me. He has alot of avoidant tendencies.
@ I dealt with similar. I think he was a dismissive avoidant with covert narc tendencies. He had more avoidant tendencies. Either way not a healthy person to deal with. How can you feel safe with a man who ghosts you? I can’t.
Theres no sucu thing as a dismissive avoidant. Attachment styles are childrens psychology and its how the child reacts to the 'abandonment' of the primary care giver. So a man who is 'aloof' is not avoidant. That would be the reaction to someone who feels abandoned.
DO NOT ENTERTAIN SILENCE… COPY THAT🗣️… love it
I turned being left alone a lot as a child/ teenager into a strength. If you throw silence at me, I’ll not be affected.
or they just don’t care
Because they have another female they are interested in. 🤷♀️
@@terraerickson everyone stop the vid and read this because this is why pretty much 95% of the time lol let’s not get the girls delulu now
@@terraericksonRight! It’s really not that complicated.
Which is mostly the case 💁🏾♀️💁🏾♀️
@blankspace2521 I don't know, but a guy will make time for the one he wants to make time for and communicate unless he's having a problem and too ashamed to admit it.
"his silence is to control you" 🤯
I needed to hear this. He's been using silence to get to me and as much as im not letting that get me to react its been so hard to keep quiet. But I'm learning to not respond to the silence and just keep my distance.
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These narc loves to breadcrumb and wanna be in control so bad , just learn to love the game and have self worth sis❤
OMG the hand sock 😂😂😂
Yeah I could not even concentrate on the discussion because of it 🐸😂🐸😂🐸😂
I thought it was cooking gloves 😂
😂
Where I come from, we say "Volume please". This deserves a part 2 and possible 3, Keep going, Sir Father Alex! I need to hear this. ❤❤❤
Alex is keeping me grounded every time I'm shocked
I agree! There are often reasons why people become silent, and it’s not okay because it can hurt others. Communication is extremely important! While online dating can be frustrating, I learn a lot about myself and others through the experience. It’s interesting to start identifying patterns in behavior. 👀 💜
I feel like he is looking for a reaction because he will go ghost, but watch all of my stories. And when I do get on the phone he ask « why you sound happy » like huh??? Was i supposed to be upset 😂
No reaction is the best 😂
You’re serving us Gems 💎 lately man 🔥👌🏻 thank you!
Silence is 100% a manipulation technique! I’ve experienced it first hand and lemme tell you all something. Being strong and not falling victim to that level of manipulation will not only be your best form of revenge but will also protect you from narcissists and abusive people
All I have to say is I LOVE YOUR FU*** videos. I promise all this advice works. Clear, honest, straight to the point.
So , I dealt with a narcissist, i followed father Alex and ignored the narc, and he called and tried to reach out but I ignored it , then he started lovebombing me with gifts (which I accepted) and he went back to be silent and I still kept my distance
sis what happened next im curious
You are on point as usual!
Brilliant discussion
Excellent Analysis
One of your best videos, father Alex.
Loved it ❤
Yes, I need to read this stuff. I need to know how to master my emotions. I almost lost my job today over my emotions.
I really enjoyed this video. I can follow all of your insights very well when it’s written on the board
Thanks this makes me stronger. I do live alone so it doesnt add or take anything ❤
The editing on this is so cool 😂 it makes my brain happy 💚
Great video .. thank you !
I love that I see your videos at the perfect time, thank you Sir!
Alex. Speaking facts
It's great when you give us random nuggets about meditation. Really very helpful. 👍 I look for it in all your videos.
Loveeee U! Youve taught me soo much. Keep it going.
Thank you! Will do!
U said it for me 😂😂😂❤
That book changed my life and perception on awareness in general
What's the name of the book please, thank you.
@@Noname-oo9gn The 48 Laws of Power and the Art of War by Robert Greene. He shows it in the vid.
I needed this rn omg
Saw this video and had to subscribe 🎉
I like this format. ✨🌏🥁
Great video.i like this format
Thank you !! I lurnd soo soo mutch!! Verry interesting..grtz from belgium 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Thank you for this insight
Justo lo que necesitaba❤
i go silent cuz she has a bf so any attention now would not be appropriate.
i think i will apply no contact forever. as alex said - we need to let people choose us
Needed this video!! ❤
Great video Thankyou ❤
Where did that ponytail come from Alex? 😂😂😂😂
Coming to America.
I appreciate all your help and advice. I would be messed up w/o you. I always wanted a big sister, but I got a big brother.
Thanks Alex!
I have self worth and the guy has Net Worth.
Good info.
I love your vids
Dalexisp 💕
Alex 😂😂why u got in cooking gloves?
Thank you!
I needed to hear this ❤ ty 🙏I think he uses the bad scilence
Ey, you took us to Tomison and you came back with his ideas also.
I love you ❤❤😢, thank you for your videos
I look like a man. The boys always call me one. But dang i can handle the silence
Cus ura man❤
Just unlock your feminan side buy purchasing father alex feminan cours & try to glow up a littel as girl u got thi im proud of u girl ❤
Or just date a gay men 😉 just kidding btw
This shit is so spot on I h8 it
I love you ❤
My ex owned most of those books. Red flag, Run!
Alex but how to understand in which group he is, does he use the silence like a manipulation or not?
Could they be a dismissive avoidant? Or are they just narcissist?
Yes I was wondering this too. A guy just ghosted me and blocked me out of nowhere. I know he is a control freak. I think he wants to hurt me. He has alot of avoidant tendencies.
@ I dealt with similar. I think he was a dismissive avoidant with covert narc tendencies. He had more avoidant tendencies. Either way not a healthy person to deal with. How can you feel safe with a man who ghosts you? I can’t.
Theres no sucu thing as a dismissive avoidant.
Attachment styles are childrens psychology and its how the child reacts to the 'abandonment' of the primary care giver.
So a man who is 'aloof' is not avoidant. That would be the reaction to someone who feels abandoned.
I think this is the guy i was dealing with....aggressive behavior...and making things my fault
a guy wearing a sock on his hand, reading laws of power feeding my delulu and im letting it
He’s a gemini oooorrrr a sagitarius fo’ sure 😂
I fail everytime I hate it 😢
God bless you
Después de 1 año me estoy dando cuenta de eso 🥲
omg whats that ugly glove! hahahahah😂
Why did you stop meditation walks in Brooklyn?😢
B+ student here 😂😂
Alex, are you talking about just people who are in a relationship? Can you specify. Thanks
I’m genuinely confused.. bc, I feel like pulling away is reacting…
What is the name of the book?
Dalexis has been watching too much Tomisin lol 🤭
Professor Alex
Name of the books please
Damn you're cute.. I appreciate your message...I'm so victim to this. I feel like a tool.
Do ur dating channel affects ur dating life?
Hmm 🤔 he’s silent rn for what 😂
👀hold on nie, ik u not getting buff
❤
Or I just forget about u hahaha
You are soooo intelligent must be a sag or aqua
He's a virgo. Can u imagine that? 😅
He’s rising or moon sign is deffo a air sign
Check Mate!♟🏁🏆