Disruptive Behaviors in Children with Conduct Disorder

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  • @Pandagurl218
    @Pandagurl218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The vindictive predatory and deception is the absolute most horrendous thing to deal with. It is incredibly difficult when the child targets adults while charismatic to a certain audience and vindictive to another. Elaborate stories of lies, lies made to accuse and target individuals.. I’m losing my mind feeling that I seem crazy. There is no medical treatment and therapy is not proven efficient, my child just hit pre pubescent tears and the wheels have started churning. Ideation about school skipping, stealing while harming others.

    • @breannagarcia3476
      @breannagarcia3476 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am empathizing with you Jody, No matter how unbearable it gets just try to always remember there will be a change for the better and that the horrendous behavior is a disorder its NOT a reflection of your parenting. From one parent to another, may peace be with you.

    • @zeddeka
      @zeddeka 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly the same with my sister when she was young, sadly. It's a terrible thing to have to deal with.

  • @Lesah_
    @Lesah_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you guys . I NEEDED THIS. I felt like I was a bad parent I felt confused frustrated my body is in so much physical pain of stress dealing with this child but I get it now.

  • @maryellenthompson8261
    @maryellenthompson8261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a ten year old who has just been diagnosed with ODD. When he was six he was also diagnosed with conduct disorder. He has a short fuse and a bad temper. We are just now getting him mental health care. This is no walk in the park. Especially for older people.

    • @BandlerChing
      @BandlerChing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a 9 year old with ADHD, and what appears to be CD. It isn’t an anger issue with him, rather he irritates and picks on people. He has no concept of personal space, and it seems pretty intense lack of understanding/empathy. When I ask him why he did something he knows he’s not supposed to, it’s always “I wanted to…”
      I’m 31, and it’s no walk in the park for us either. I have been coming down on myself that this is our fault for having him so young. There is some comfort in knowing that we’re not alone in dealing with this.

    • @dr32803
      @dr32803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My girlfriend has a 12yr old that’s been diagnosed with adhd and odd. He is angry all the time, fights about everything. Gets in trouble at school and home all the time. He definitely has conduct disorder. He’s never truly sorry. It’s constant. She told me that he’s been this way since birth. These “kids” with no emotions are scary! He is in seventh grade now and it’s getting worse. Even in a special class for behavior issue kids. It’s insane. I’m starting to think he is evil. Sneaky, thieving, manipulative, instigating. All intentionally and without remorse. Always it’s “what did I do?”

    • @maryellenthompson8261
      @maryellenthompson8261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dr32803 Wow! You have just described my eleven year old grandson. It’s tough raising a child like this in your fifties and sixties. He keeps us moving.

    • @dr32803
      @dr32803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maryellenthompson8261 yes it is. I’m 50 yrs old. My gf is 43.

    • @dr32803
      @dr32803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maryellenthompson8261 is he a red head?

  • @boojieboo7510
    @boojieboo7510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could show these to one of my student’s parents.

  • @LittleRedRideMeGood69
    @LittleRedRideMeGood69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have 10/10 ACE score. I have a narcissist with a victim complex mother. I'm blessed intellectually. It's a perfect storm of
    "Holy Hell, however this ends... It won't be good."
    As a kid with ODD/Anti-authoritian attitude, I was *_ALWAYS_* looking to be told "Why?" I had to do something. I was told to go fold the dishes/water the roof tiles. No rule ever made sense, no adult loved me or respected me but I had to be a lapdog... So it became "I notice what you're doing (Always.) so I'm going to figure out YOUR buttons and not just press them, but smash them as often as possible." My 16 year old sister waited*an hour* for me to eat cereal I didn't want. I was 6. It definitely got worse, because the abuse escalated exponentially. So, it's like Viet Cong training. You learn to survive or you die in the jungle.
    _*Welcome to the jungle, we've got fun and games
    We got everything you want honey, we know the names
    We are the people that can find whatever you may need
    If you got the money, honey, we got your disease
    In the jungle, welcome to the jungle
    Watch it bring you to your sha-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n knees, knees
    Mwah, I, I wanna watch you bleed*_

  • @beta447
    @beta447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    these guys are so cute together

  • @muhamedfaour3710
    @muhamedfaour3710 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanx for the video , very informative In differentiating ODD from CD .

  • @allisoncurtis4260
    @allisoncurtis4260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Could there possibly be an evolutionary pressure that selects for these behaviors? Aggressive children with less empathy could of made better hunters and fighters. Making them more likely to survive their harsh environment.
    Humanity all throughout history needed warriors for protection and hunters for food, without them we could of possibly ended up extinct just like ALL the other other MANY species of hominids that came before us.
    But what of today?
    Where is the place for these warrior boys and men?

    • @ariannaturner8154
      @ariannaturner8154 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯 I admire the way you think 🖤

    • @carriecorbin9872
      @carriecorbin9872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Interesting point. At the same time, hunters and gatherers still had to share, consider others, and follow social rules. they had to be obedient to leaders.

    • @tsamneely
      @tsamneely 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Usually this stuff is triggered by trauma or other brain injuries

    • @BandlerChing
      @BandlerChing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@carriecorbin9872 They also had to know when it was appropriate to be tough and fierce, and when to be gentle and empathetic. From what we’re dealing with in our home, the complete lack of knowing what’s appropriate where is the biggest hurdle.
      That said, there are plenty of places where a tempered warrior mindset is ideal. Working in a kitchen in a high-pressure environment, it’s a good trait to have thick skin and determination. Even surgeons to a certain extent have to be able to put human empathy aside to do what must be done when cutting into people. Where it becomes concerning is when you can’t “turn it off”.

    • @WDBsirLocksight
      @WDBsirLocksight ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like good reasoning if evolution existed.

  • @boojieboo7510
    @boojieboo7510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good info.

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 ปีที่แล้ว

    This comes from deep anger in the child resulting from abuse, parents divorce, witnessing domestic violence, or one or both parents having poor boundaries
    The child needs to have a healthy fear of their parents and not think they can disrespect them
    Training for this starts as an infant
    Once they are 3,4 it’s possible but late

    • @leahcompton2522
      @leahcompton2522 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah...that's not how this thing works.
      You need to get informed about child mental health.
      This is not cause by being a permissive parent. Or lack of boundaries or lack of spanking or lack of timeout or a lack of hugs or a lack of reading to your child.
      This is caused by severe parental neglect, early trauma, or a brain or DNA malfunction.

    • @stellablue7435
      @stellablue7435 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      COCD can express as early as 8mnths old. My kid was caught eating a pet gerbil alive at age 2, because they were getting back at a sibling, It is predominantly genetic. Bless your heart if you believe you can guilt parents who raised these kids.

    • @marquitapetty9685
      @marquitapetty9685 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does not work that way especially when every child is different you can raise two different kids the same way and still turn out completely different

  • @tsamneely
    @tsamneely 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It sounds nearly like psychopathy to me

    • @maryellenthompson8261
      @maryellenthompson8261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re too young for such a diagnosis by his doctors. The people who tested and diagnosed him, found that my grandson had conduct disorder, which is a precursor to ODD. He was tested for for the first time at age six. He’ll have to be much older before he can be tested and/or diagnosed with psychopathy.

    • @hedy_7084
      @hedy_7084 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s not uncommon for them to be diagnosed with psychopathy once they’re adults(18+)

    • @breannagarcia3476
      @breannagarcia3476 ปีที่แล้ว

      It begins here

    • @zeddeka
      @zeddeka 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's very often the precursor to psychopathy. Certainly, antisocial personality disorder (which includes a number of the traits of psychopathy) is essentially the adult version of conduct disorder.

  • @worthlessmutts9598
    @worthlessmutts9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    everyone in 2021 has conduct disorder