Tom Cruise Tirade Analysis
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“The United States has become a place where entertainers and professional athletes are mistaken for people of importance.” Robert A. Heinlein
professional athletes are entertainers. nothing more
It's definitely not just the United States. Maybe in Heinlein's time there was more of a correlation, but now it's the entire world.
I mean, they literally voted in a bankrupt reality tv star as their president. It doesn't get more cheap and tacky than that.
@@TheFireproofWitch Hopefully, that will be the first and LAST time a "celebrity" becomes President. However, there are rumors that the Duckess of Clueless, Meghan Markle, wants to run for President.
Exactly...and he said that in the 50s...
A Scientologist calling something "PseudoScience"....No irony there at all.
Thinking the same thing.
HA HA
LMAO!
How About Church Of Psychotictology Celebrities Welcome Just Have Money
projecting their own pseudo-science onto others.
“Actor are elevated above their true value to society” Thank you Dr Grande, you have coined a phrase that perfectly describes something many of us have thought but couldn’t described. For those of us who value art, the great majority of them are not artist and the project they are involved in, are mostly trash.
I totally agree that actors, Hollywood, and professional athletes, all of whom I categorize as pure entertainers, are unfortunately elevated in our society to much more value that the more important members of society like teachers, first responders, public electricians, trash collectors, and everyone else we really need as a society to function. I equate actors and similar as the equivalent of the court jesters from the middle ages who were only there to entertain rich people and royalty, but totally unnecessary to society otherwise.
My ex was in the film industry and sadly it seems that abuse of crew members by directors and actors is widespread, and perhaps worst of all largely accepted by crew. Getting a nice director who treats his crew respectfully and keeps any abusive actors in check is considered to be extremely lucky.
That is so sad to heat.
Behind the fancy curtains of Hollywood lays the repulsive shadow of power-hungry monsters who are idealized by the many who can only see the glorified the portraits of such scumbags.
No one should have to put up with such nonsense for money but most all people do.
This is a tragic testament of human intelligence.
I have a family member attracted to work in Hollywood at one time. After about a year of working became totally repulsed by the system and quit.
Every job has the same type of boss, no different. This is not unique Hollywood or even a job at McDonalds, bosses all around the world behave this way, if you are very lucky you get a "good" boss, but I rarely have had a rational decent boss, most are egotistical and feel it essential to yell and humiliate their employees. So I cannot stand for anyone in Hollywood believing they are unique, you just get more attention because your bosses are rich and famous.
When someone says “it’s about Tom Cruise’s outburst” and the whole world goes “which one?”
lollll
Lol ... Good one
I remembered the Oprah couch one
Literally!
When I read the title I automatically assumed it was the couch-jumping escapade on Oprah lol I was floored when it turned out to be a _brand new tirade_ from like a week ago 😂😂🤣
Sure doesn’t seem like Scientology is bringing him a heck of a lot of peace, does it?
I think he is a crackpot and Scientology is a sick cult, but anyone in his position would be stressed out. You too I am sure.
@@whynottalklikeapirat Stressed out is one thing...abusive is another.
@@jessdully3348 Certainly. One does not rule out the other ...
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The only people depending on Scientology are the brain washers that want money.
As a former scientologist who also roomed with other scientologists, for a short period of time, I can let you know that being able to throw a good tirade is a sign of success, for a scientologist.
I'm curious. What caused you to leave Scientology?
@@MeganVictoriaKearns It was the money they demanded for their services.. Auditing, specifically.. It was something like $2500 for 3 hrs.
And all the Scientologists claimed it was just great and totally worth it.
Then when I wanted to leave and they started hounding me , that just made it worse.
The intro courses were pretty affordable though, so I just did them for a while.
And they had this claim that their goal was to *Clear The Planet* But I never saw that there was a sliding scale for the 99.5% who earn less than $50 /week.
now I'm curious. what do you mean specifically about a good tirade. what do they think that means about you, if you can throw a good tirade?
Weird.
@@bertkilborne6464 i admire you for leaving a cult.
It's a great accomplishment.
It tells about your character growth, i hope you get the support you deserves.
Years ago I took a psychology class and the instructor used characters in different movies to give examples of different personality disorders. For the narcissistic personality disorder he said, “Just look at Tom Cruise in any of his movies.” 😂.
ROFLMAO LOL LOL LOL 😆 😂 🤣
@@Watchdevil01 me too 😜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMAO what a cool professor)))
Oddly well played, and instinctful.
Gold
I love how Dr. Grande is low key exasperated by everyone's bullshit.
Dr. Grande is F@$king BRILLIANT! Lol I mean THAT!!! Could he be more sublimely droll?!? Lol
Yeah he is good but I don't think Id want him as my personal therapist 😊 it took me ages to figure out he was joking on occasion
ikr, it's a polite detest.
Lolz “Low key exasperated” . Classic .
So true
Is Tom Cruise really an actor? He always seems to be playing himself in movies.
Shade!!!🤣
Omg. I never thought of that. You are absolutely right!
The best actors aren't acting
underrated comment - he has one gear
Just because he gets cast in similar roles doesn't mean he can't act. If you had seen him in Magnolia, you would be impressed. I thought the same thing about Meg Ryan, until I saw her in an untypical role in Courage Under Fire (1996).
Thank you for coming out and saying what we’re all thinking, I have no respect for anyone who abuses those who work for/with them...although not anywhere near the power of TC, I am the boss where I work, I have found that approaching employees with empathy and compassion nets greater rewards than anger.
I commend you for treating your employees kindly. Although some will take advantage, there is deeper resentment / pushback to a supervisor who comes on heavy
Just think of how much better this situation could have been handled in a diplomatic and non-self-serving way. A calm lesson in interpersonal health protection might have gone far further in its impact than a tirade.
@@jenh6247 Kindness and effective strength go hand in hand. The best leaders have compassion and amplify the strengths of others.
It does! Although I understand being a boss means a lot of pressure, it really helps to be a good person. Thank you!
You are totally correct and should be commended.
Many years ago while working in Los Angeles I noticed many groups of apparently very happy people visiting my store.
Turned out they were all Scientology people. They invited me to visit one of their meetings and so I did. They were very nice it seemed to me however when the showed me their E meter and explained it’s use I thought it was strange and not something I wanted to be involved in. So I passed on getting involved. It seemed like a cult to me. Thank you Dr. Grande for your analysis of this unfortunate incident.
Scientology IS a cult. You were right to stay out of it.
Seemed like a cult to me too. Big building in Toronto in the late 70's handing out flyers on the street, reeling people in. Think they got run out of town
@@janebond8342 Thank you Jane. I was there in LA during the late 60’s and 70’s. About ‘72 i went to film a bunch of hippies in Hollywood. That was also very strange. It was a commune that had taken over a motel on Highland Avenue. I was amazed that after the Manson crimes people were still doing that. The leader wanted to borrow my 16mm film camera. I said sorry I can’t loan it to anyone. I think i shot one roll and left. I didn’t really want to get any more involved.
Ok I’ll bite. What’s an E meter. Better yet I’ll try to Google it.
@@walshy2116 good idea to google it. It was over fifty years ago so my explanation would be lousy!
"Actors get elevated above their true value..." Too bad society at large doesn't get it.
Tom Cruise is justifiably elevated. All his movies are successes
@@susanarsoniadou3588 McDonald's has sold billions more hamburgers 🍔 than anyone else.
Does that mean their hamburgers are the best?
I guess with your logic.
@@susanarsoniadou3588 but he is just an actor. He is wealthy but so what?
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@@susanarsoniadou3588 , perhaps in the industry, but he doesnt have the right to wave his self Righteous sanctimonious finger at the rest of us.
Tom cruise is just an actor. He's not a doctor who saves lives every day. He's not a teacher who makes a difference in young peoples lives. He's not a scientist trying to find a vaccine against covid. He's just an actor, who plays a hero, instead of being one.
Well put!!!! 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
But the movie industry has earned WAY more $$$ than any of the professions listed above. That's why Stars (of Tom Cruises caliber) are given so much power.
BOOM! You said it.
@Full Nejwa oooh tough guy.
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“Alec Baldwin supporting Tom Cruise on an issue of morality, is like the Joker describing Michael Myers as demonstrating pro-social knife handling behavior.” WOW!!! How apt was this quote almost an entire year before the Rust incident took place.
A little over analyzing it there aren't you
@@timothysmith8667 he was quoting Dr Grande- did you not watch the video?
@@benjigirl1971 yes... if Dr Grande says a quote it must be deeply serious analitycal ?
Alec Baldwin is a strawman. I don't see him as Tom Cruise who is a completely empty headed s*** bag.
@@benjigirl1971 I think Timothy only wanted to say that we don't need to make a connection between Dr Grande's quote about Baldwin and the incident on the Rust set.
Some years ago, during a TV live interview, Tom Cruise started jumping on the coach and telling the audience how much he loved his (now divorced) wife. It was like watching a manic phase, just waiting for the men in white to take care of him; it was extremely awkward to say the least. While many of his films are good, I prefer to avoid them as I really don't like him.
Many of his films are good? Name a few? I'd call the original Top Gun "good". Very solid film. I can't think of another movie he was in that was more than mediocre.
Mission Impossible is one of the worst movies I've ever seen, for example.
@@majorpwner241 what you on about magnolia excellent film rain man etc he is a weirdo but he has done some good movies and he is a good actor
That's what I thought, manic !
I think I’ve seen one or two of his films and that is enough. He had films that have good reviews but the mere fact that he’s in it is enough to prevent me from seeing it. I just couldn’t stand the guy.
@@loypineda5331 you very close minded than
Nobody throws shade like Dr. Grande. 😅 But it's not uncomfortable... it's a dry shade.
@@themurrrr come on down to Florida, we have plenty so you can experience it first hand 😅
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Yay! Got a heart from the Doctor! Can you perhaps analyze Nina Simone, Billie Holiday and or Miles Davis? Jazz fan over here! 😄
PhD grade shade. Love it.
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Tom Cruise is living proof that chemical imbalances *ABSOLUTELY* exist...
Haha 😄 great point
Ego imbalances much be true too.
Entitled rage IS his chemical of choice.
You deserve wayyy more likes 👍
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Thank you Dr. Grande. You’re absolutely right, what he did does not require any courage, he’s just a bully. He is an embarrassment, and has been for a long time
So true! I live with many bully’s in my apt. Bldg. 🐒
He is an exact replica of what he said his father was to him.....The apple doesnt fall far from the tree.....
He sure is a bully. An arrogant, pompous bully.
LOVED the remark about Alec Baldwin coming to Cruise's rescue!!! LOL! Two spoiled peas in a pod
Alac Baldwin's got his own problems to deal with now, of course. I wonder if Cruise will come to HIS rescue.
Americans need to get over their celebrity addiction.
video idea
The American's that have that addiction, yes.
Americans are an easy target these days - Cruise is a global mega-star
As a majority, we really don't have one; it's the media that creates it for the American people. There's $$$ in it.
exactly the thoughts i was having during this video
"The problem is that Cruise's tirade undermines his legitimate concerns. It shifts the focus to him. *He* is now the center of attention, not the issue of covid safety." You nailed it!!!
"Covid safety" lol 99.98 survival rate. You have been scammed. The whole world has. This os about a world communist government.
Tom Cruise became the story only because someone recorded his rant and leaked it to the press. We would have never heard of this hadn't it been for that person!
I wont be going to stupid movie.. never saw the other 6
@@promnightdumpsterbaby9553
Covid is real & it is deadly.
I WISH there was a global Communist takeover. Our lives would be so much better than it is right now.
Stop fear mongering against freedom. KEEP social distancing, wearing masks, and washing your hands!!!
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There used to be an unwritten rule. "Whatever happens on the set, stays on the set." I don't know what happened to that rule.
It's ironic that you hear the words, "brilliant" and "genius" more times at the Academy Awards, Tonys and Cleos than you ever possibly witness at the Nobel Prize ceremonies.
The whole thing was basically a spectacle to elevate himself.
He could have made those points much more effectively without making it all about him.
Did you know that Tom Cruise hasn’t seen his daughter in 5 years? This is because Xenu, the dictator of the Galactic Confederacy, told him not to. Happy Scientology everybody.
Yeah, the rumore that he hasn't seen his daughter is bizarre. I hope it's not true.
That is truly sad if it is true. I find it hard to believe but I’ve heard it before I feel for Siri. A divorce is hard for children then for one parent to just drop out of their life is unforgivable in his situation. It’s not financial like it is to many oar that divorce. There’s no excuse for his behavior. I think he has a very hot temper and I’ll bet Katie Holmes knows about it.
@@twincherry4958 Why? You think he should be allowed to influence children in any way?
@@twincherry4958 That is exactly what it is, a rumor. No one knows the truth...
I've been wondering about when he last saw Suri. I haven't seen pics of them together for many years.
Is it any wonder Katie Holmes wants nothing to do with him and keeps their daughter away from him too?
I am not convinced that Katie is the precursor to his lack of involvement with his daughter. She has often stated that she wished he would show more interest in Suri. I genuinely believe he has no interest in his daughter Suri unless it suits his purposes. He is infamous for grandiose and over the top speeches and displays of purported love and adoration (on screen - display on Oprah of how much he was in love with Katie Holmes) followed by vilification and accusations years later against said person. Black and white thinking. Common in Narcissistic Personality Disorder. He alienated adopted children against Australian actress Nicole Kidman. I am happy to say that both ex-wives have moved on and escaped this toxic man.
F Tom and his stupid “religion”.
..and Nicole Kidman..
If Tom’s father was a bully, well then it looks like little Tom followed in daddy’s footsteps.
This nonsense is why people despise celebrities like movie stars and don’t watch their endless awards shows.
Keanu Reeves seems to be the big exception-and he’s achieved lots of the same success.
It's absolutely no wonder she keeps Suri away from her father... He's a psychopathic narcissist why would you want your kid around someone like that cuz he's not going to think his child is as important as he is and I wonder how his first wife does it I never can think of her name but she's married to Keith Urban of course her kids are older I guess when they divorce but and Tom does see one of them I'm not sure how many there are but I know he sees a daughter but maybe if I was an adult daughter I would get to know my dad since he's worth billions hundreds of millions if not billions I mean come on he'll give it all to the Scientology Church anyway so get some of it while you can I just despise people like Tom Cruise he's handsome he's got everything he could possibly want he is in the career that he loves I guess he's in a church quote unquote that he loves and really believes in not many people are that confident or adamant about their belief system... And maybe I'll bet you he didn't start out that way narcissistic in and out a****** and jerk and could say a lot of things about him and I don't normally call people names unless they are extremely evil or ugly as in Tom's behavior and you know I can't even watch any of Hollywood anymore but just to think that we really loved his movies I personally was never a Tom Cruise fan a huge fan anyway but I did like the movie A FEW GOOD MEN with Demi Moore and Jack Nicholson; I also like the movie with Cuba Gooding Jr, I l preferred Val Kilmer over Tom Cruz in in the famous movie about the jet fighters I can't think of the title anyway...(Nicole Kidman that was the other wife) just giving my humble opinion on things LOL
Dr.Todd! “That is it.” For those who aren’t familiar with contractions. You just made me snicker. Dry humor is appreciated.
I saw Tom Cruise on Graham Norton’s talk show recently and was totally bemused and taken aback by his ability to make every conversation somehow going back to himself even when the host was asking the other guests about themselves. He came across as totally self absorbed, almost to a point where he couldn’t listen to anyone else and wouldn’t let anyone get a word in edgewise as it was all “I’ve done that, I do this, me, me, me!” He seemed very irritating but I almost found it comical that he clearly lacks any self awareness! I hope he gets help as he seemed very unhealthy but I doubt he ever will!
He will never get help. His church worship him as a God!! Yes, he makes money and is powerful in Hollywood but being decent human being is more admirable.
Scientologists see themselves as above normal people. He will never get help. Ever.
@@justdesi86 I was glad to see that Katie Holmes took their daughter away from him to protect her from the daft “religion”
@@HeroicMermaids98 yup. You should always stay far away from the cult. Glad she made it, for her and her daughter.
What the hell were you watching
Ironic that it seems like a lot of scientologists are the ones who need psychiatric help the most.
If you ever read 'Going Clear', it's clear (pardon the pun) why the hatred of psychiatric help runs so deep in Scientology... Hubbard himself could be an hour long Dr. Grande special alone.
Totally agree 👍
It's not ironic, it makes perfect sense. Ron Hubbard himself founded his "Dianetics" as a pseudo-scientific theory, was debunked by psychiatry right from the start and only then started a cult to make his quackery immune to criticism and not to pay any taxes. Scientology and psychiatry have been in a war eversince, so to speak.
@@alexanderfo3886 Yeah that makes sense. Also makes sense that a lot of people who may feel like psychiatry didn't help them enough would maybe turn to scientology. Like those "it didn't work for me, so it's obviously not legit" type of people.
Especially when trying to get out of Scientology.
I died when you said "For people that don't understand contractions."🤣
HA HA..GOOD ONE.. as usual Dr Grande
Cruise: “That’s it. That IS IT!”
Dr. Grande: Are you sure “That’s it???”🤔
Lmbo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right? It's as if Tom had to say it as a contraction AND "properly" just in case there are people there who don't understand. 🙄
This is basically an 11 minute, spot on, in depth definition of a bully.
Dustin Hoffman far exceeded Tom as an actor. Neumann too. His elders and betters.
Dr. Grande, you are SO funny! I watch your videos as much for the humor, as for the incisive analyses. Thanks very much.
Cruise, has a full on messiah complex. He's off his rocker and clearly out of touch with reality.
He has too much moolah He has a Napoleon complex. Needs to be banished to VAN Diemens land. He’s a pain in the ass.
I don’t really see the problem in his rant tbh
@@mckernan603 tbh.. you are the rational one here..
@@TheJeremyseattle , probably! We also see with many celebrities who have a great deal of money that they seem to be able to more or less buy their own reality, living out their fantasies in the real world.
@@mckernan603 Truly? The point of his rant may have been legitimate, but there was no need to completely go apeshit on those crew members. Tom was grandstanding and behaving in a way bosses never should.
“Actors are elevated beyond their actual value”..! Word.
Hello
Overvalued, because so many people who idolize them undervalue themselves.
True.
Not true at all!
I'm an artist. I'm from a family of artists. We don't get any respect until we make REALLY big money or until you see our faces everywhere.
I dislike the way Tom Cruise behaved, but in our industry, that's called Tuesday! Mind you we have a multitude of talented & kind professionals who would never behave as Cruise did. There are still some who act out and most of us have either been dressed down like that or seen it happen.
@@cinemathequerouge317 The entertainment industry can be tough for artists. You can be a great actor/singer/dancer/musician and perhaps you never get the respect you deserve or crave (depending on how you measure it). Most people however recognize artistic talent, whether displayed innately and/or through hard work.
The problem is, as Grande alluded to, people like Cruise are in a position of power and authority and can pretty much say what they want, when they want, and how they want ("another Tuesday" as you suggested). They're entertainers, not diplomats, negotiators, corporate leaders, or academics, and likely lack the appropriate skillset to resolve complex issues in an appropriate fashion (i.e. not a tirade).
😂 I can always count on you to make my day, Doc ! I read an article once about ol' Tommy boy that said he was a "Preen Queen" . His roommate said he would stand in front of mirrors and admire himself. Doesn't surprise me, though. Lol
"So just to be clear- is that it?" Had me creasing 😂 If a crew member had said that it would have been legendary.
Yet another so-called "celebrity" who gets a thousand times more attention than he deserves. His enthusiasm for Scientology is all anyone needs to know about his intelligence.
@@jamescarter3196 How unfortunate that you seem to not understand TH-cam comments. I am obviously paying attention to DR GRANDE, not Tom Cruise.
@@jamescarter3196 pinecone here doesn't get the internet.
Ain't that the truth!
Intelligence makes it more likely for you to find a reasonable way to defend something, but it's not conductive to that something being the right thing. That's why there are successful criminals.
He apears ideologically possessed, but I don't think he is ill-intended or "a deficient human" otherwise. Perhaps we can judge the issues he has, faces and enacts, with more love towards our fellow imperfect human.
@jjdomino99,
‘runt’ but yes.
"If you want to be rich, start a religion."
L Ron Hubbard
I've always said that, you want to get rich? America is the place to go, invent a new religion, people are so stupid they will follow you and feed them anything dumb impossible thing you can come up with. they will believe it. Cruise is a narcissist, abusive, selfish, arrogant piece of shit. No wonder all his wives and girlfriends dumped him. If he really was concerned about covid he should of stayed home like everyone else. This is not the time to make another movie.
@@arrivagabry People that get hooked in a cult are not nessessarily stupid. there is a trick put on them called mind control. and its very effective at times. Hey so how many times have we bought something we dont need that we saw an ad for Or gone along with a narrative that makes little sense because everyone else is. or worn clothes that are not really our personal style because its in. or had peer prseeure to.experiment with things that we normally would not have. The list goes on. ..
@@shaharazon2449 Thats fine for children. Adults who fall for that shit are indeed stupid. There are a lot more stupid people in the world than you want to realize, and a lot more bandits too.
ROFLMAO LOL 😆 😂 🤣
Ron Hubbard started as a science fiction writer‼️
Dr. grande you are So underrated for being funny… Your little quips are delivered with such a straight face, I love it
cruise is one of those public figures that I've always wondered "whats really behind those soulless eyes?"
like he reveals so little of his true self publicly, it's just really disconcerting.
The good thing about tirades like this can actually people for who they really are
It’s refreshing to hear Dr. Grande logically and methodically break down Cruise’s entitled behavior and hold him completely accountable.
He is the “accountable” person on this film. What he is accountable for is feeding families - thousands of them.
@@ChrisHodges87 Exactly
Absolutely," The Doc,Nailed it !
Tom Cruise Not Only is a Sociopathic Narcissist, But Me thinks" He Suffers from a Classic Case of Little Ppl Syndrome," Better known as the Napolean Complex !
Tom Cruise: "Scientology brings peace."
PROCEEDS TO YELL IN ANGER AT FILM CREW
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as a scientologist he seems to be in need of auditing, not being able to get your point across without rage does not fit imo with being a "clear"
Everybody wants to be the religion of peace but who wants to earn it?
You guys are jerk, peace doesn't equal standing still
For good reason... people are getting very sick.
Tom Cruise's magical mysticism allows him to do his own stunts without fear. I love that.
When Cruise filmed here in Norway. He was a polite easy going fellow. Shopped at the local small store, and took time to talk with the locals. He was totally different than all that rumors circulating.
@arnehusby1420 He's an actor. He wants to appear pleasant to the public, but his scientology and his egotistical behaviour speaks for itself. He makes Billions on
his films, he ought to treat the crew with respect and decency. I don't see how the
Hollywood industry's losing yet another "Mission Impossible" movie would make a
difference in putting food on the publics' tables. He could do good things with his money,
instead, he was Scientology to rule. A frightening prospect.
I LIVE for the thumbnail photos of Dr. Grande, the flat facial expression says- I’m so tired of everyone’s crap. Go to therapy and get your shit together. 😂
Hahaha !!
Seems like he might be suffering from one of those non-existing chemical imbalances.
He seriously seems to be bipolar. Far as I've seen, a lot of Scientologists do.0
@@GuyNamedSean The Scientologists seem to have taken on the personality of their founder, L Ron Hubbard. Religion may be a way for an alpha male to propagate their neurosis.
@@GuyNamedSean - Yeah, I remember some years ago he went on Alex Jones and was acting so crazy that even AJ thought it was a bit much :D
....Or was that Charlie Sheen?....Hard to keep track of all the different crazy Hollywood types!
Nailed it 🤣
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This video is brilliant!! Thank you. You did not disappoint. Your imagined responses by the crew made me laugh. I bet Tom is fun to be married to. I believe he is single now, isn’t he? (Rhetorical question) 😂👍🏻
Your description of the way actors are put on a pedestal is well said. In my opinion the inherent problem with this is they have few 'equals' with no checks and balances that the rest of us have to realise the world does not revolve around us and it will continue if and when we aren't here.
Sounds like he takes after his cowardly bully of a father. What a small man.
Angry little man.
Dunno he seems to be concerned about the whole industry
That was my exact thoughts also. Like father like son. I've always thought him a nasty little man. But then with the latest on Manson and the rumblings about Tom hanks being dodgy, maybe he's an absolute saint?!
And he gravitated toward David Miscavige. Another angry little man. *Sigh* 😔 🤷
@@caroldonaldson5936 it's a strange way to impress a girl friend. I'm just used of people yelling I suppose
"Mr Cruise, if we do this again what will happen? I wasn't paying attention to the first little thing there" 🤣🤣 Blank hilarious 😆👍
That was awesome 😂😂
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my favorite part of the whole video! hilarious 🤣
@@jonilandolt596 It would be worth getting fired just to say it then watch Tom explode🤣
Dr Grande, I LOVE 😍 your dry sense of humor, your awesome throwing of shade, and your subtle smart assery, it’s right up my alley!
The more I learn about him outside of celebrity land, the more I pity/empathize with him.
Small kid bullied at school looking for acceptance, insecure about his looks, shamed b/c of severe dislexic, couldn't read, few friends. Bullied/abused at home, family $$ struggles after father left. Took lots of odd jobs to help support his family. A RECIPE for a damaged person. First wife introduced him to Scientology (only 24 or 25 ys old). Scientology gave him tools manage his dislexia, learn to read & foster his sense of self. He really needed help; so perfect "candidate" to be sucked in by Scientoloy. Little lost boy functionally illiterate, desparate for belongng & lack of self-esteem.
Enjoy his films for the escapism - the "good guy wins placing himself at risk for death to save mankind." But I think his death defying stunts are a continuing effort to prove something to himself. Still needs to feel good about himself & powerful. Stunts feed it & gotta be more & more extreme to feed his ego/phyc issues. Will get worse as he ages. I wonder if he wants the stunts to kill him? To "go out in a blaze of glory" to be "remembered forever?"
Witness to this kind of trauma & acting out in teenage boys as a HS teacher. 😔
Tom Cruise tosses a fit, and makes big money...I throw a fit, I get sent to my room for time out....unfair! great videos, Dr. Grande, I always enjoy them.
Correction: Tom Cruise tosses a fit, and gets roasted by TH-cam counselors with deadpan senses of humor.
If I threw a fit on my workplace, I'd be fired.
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@IamMe StillMe So that's why every time I sign something nobody gives me even one cent? 🤔🤣
If I was working for Tom Cruise and he spoke to me like that or spoke to a room that I was in like that, I'd happily quit. No amount of money is worth verbal abuse and disrespect. I don't believe it was real though, but still.
"I guess he added that last part for those not familiar with contractions."-- I rewound three times to hear that deadpan delivery.
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I love this analysis and I laughed so hard 😂 It's spot on! TC thinks he is so superior and that's sad. He's lost so many admirers and fans because he relates to no one!
That is truly sad for him.
I wonder how he really feels when he is alone?
Your analysis is right on--should be required viewing by every celebrity-- though I disagree Tom C. is a "great" actor. He is mediocre. His movies are big on special effects and he's lauded for performing his own stunts, which is really about athleticism and ego (another overrated "profession") not acting ability. Of the few movies of his I've sat all the way through, he's always the same character--intense and overly cool. Just comes off corny and flat.
When I first heard about this, it was no surprise to me. This is exactly the Scientology style of management, to cuss out and humiliate
Yup. I've also seen this "style" applied vigorously in the service industry. And they don't seem to think, even for a second, they're doing something wrong.
It works. You can’t be soft when it comes to high stakes like this. Everything Tom said was right. The mission impossible franchise is financing other films
When i heard about this i never thought that. I think you are right. Good observation
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He's been spending to much time with david miscavige 😂
In interviews, Tom Cruise has said that he suffered bc his father was a bully. What a deep irony that he is now the one whose behaviour seems bullying. A potently transformational counselling skill is a tool called “developing discrepancy”. It’s essentially noticing that people are not living lives with alignment. The thoughts and emotions and behaviours do not align (‘line up’). I feel particular empathy for his young daughter. It’s tragic when a child is rejected by their parent. And through no fault of her own.
"The apple does not fall far from the tree." People born into toxicity have to struggle to separate themselves from it. I believe Cruz's toxicity was exacerbated by his career and lifestyle.
The way that I see it, many wealthy people are not sound of mind. Many of them, are very ugly inside.
It happens so much with people like Tom, especially people who don't want help. My sister is like that. She resents my mom for a lot of childhood stuff, but is repeating the same things and not even letting us tell her she's going off the track.
He went to the dark side as a result of the trauma of having a bully Father. He could have gone the opposite way. Deep Irony, indeed, Emma. Barking his egotist speeches as if he is God like.
@@robbobbrah8953 everyone has hiccups no matter how much self work they do.
Maybe it’s best that his daughter isn’t around for this. I kinda think his ex wife is the one with common sense.
Given the high responsibility Cruise is talking about and the fact that the costs of making this movie easily can "explode" if you have to pause because of covid I somehow understand Tom Cruise. That does not mean that I am promoting Scientology or bad behavior.
" ... I wasn't paying attention during your first little thing there." LOL!
"...So just to be clear Mr. Cruise...is that it? If we do this again, what will happen? I wasn't paying attention during your first little thing there."
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Dr. Grande, could you analyze people who have a need to write, "First" under TH-cam videos? 😜 There are 2 under this video so far! 🤣🤣🤣
I second that. Pun intended.
Word!! Everytime I see someone comment "first" on a whole lot of videos I usually ask them,. Ok ,so your """"FIRST""" , GREAT! now what would you like? A cookie??
@@NikkiDocherty74 😂😂
5th to reply to your comment
Oh lighten up! It’s just funny. Nothing more to it.
This was an outstanding segment! I do like Tom as an actor, but it’s plain to see he holds himself above others.
Fun fact, Cruise filmed the entire Jack Reacher movie standing on an orange crate.
"Chemical imbalances don't exist" 🤣🤣🤣 Awe poor Tom. Stick to acting!
I suppose he doesn't consider low blood sugar an imbalance that can make someone irritable and short-tempered. At least he gave himself a refund on that comment.
I liked that Dr Grande picked up on Tom Cruise's use of the wrong terminology for medication, within the interview with Matt Lauer, which means to me, that Tom did not do his research, which is ironic, due to how he was speaking in such a patronising manner to Matt Lauer, and by extension to anyone else on medication, prescribed by a professional. "Those who know a little are the most dangerous", as the saying goes.
Yup; stick to what you know.
Given Tom’ s deep dislike of psychiatry, he’d love this one lol. Listen to you all the time Dr. Great channel.
Dr grande is a psycologist isn't he ? Not a psychiatrist but it is a Scientology thing not a personal dislike
@@finallyfinally9317 it’s a personal dislike because of his belief in Scientology and whatever doctrine they preach regarding psychiatry.
@@danydazed4314 yeah doctor grande is a psycologist so in response to Jennifer I don't think he'd hate it as much as a psychiatrists opinion , I think it is the drugs that they don't like in Scientology but to be honest I don't know
My thoughts exactly!
Cruise is batsh!t crazy!
All we know is this one incident. Who knows how often Cruise and his assistants had to tell people to distance properly, wear masks, wash their hands and so on. I very much doubt that this was the only incident of its kind and Cruise's reaction bespeaks long-standing frustration with people's carelessness - and let's face it, a film set is an extremely complicated environment and definitely not conducive to observing covid guidelines, so infractions are guaranteed to occur constantly even with the best will in the world. I can easily imagine that this incident was the straw that broke the camel's back and Cruise just lost it, being under enormous pressure. I don't see anything out of order in it myself.
the problem Rob is how it was about Cruise.
@@henrimatisse7481 I don’t get your point, sorry…
Great analysis and insight as usual Dr. Grande! I find your videos informative and entertaining as well as funny. If I may, a bit of a missed opportunity to mention that his anger stems from fear. Not necessary perhaps but may be helpful to your audience. Best regards, and thank you!
I just vaguely remember in Leah Remini's book (please correct me!) that Tom Cruise decided he wanted to bake cookies, messed up the recipe (?) and then screamed at his assistant for not having the right ingredients. He's a god in his own mind. Miscavige better have enough dirt on Cruise from his auditing sessions, because I wouldn't be surprised to see TC gun for the top position in Scientology in the future.
I remember reading that. What a childish "man"
Nailed it
very good insight. Very creepy! Cult!!!!
“He’s a god in his own mind”. So true.
30 years ago I was a nanny for a family and the husband was in the movie industry and he said that Tom Cruise was really short and a real jerk on set...
They get big heads and start to believe their own publicity..... Which as we all know are lies to make them look good and "relatable"!...........
The Napoleon Complex is real
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I'm far from a covid radical, and the headline accounts i had heard up until dr grande's in depth report had me thinking Mr cruise was being his nutty self. But hearing his words i understand. I was a logger and I remember when they shut down the mills during COVID it was like the world had ended and I would have done anything to make the world normal again. The man put his money where his mouth is, he took everything seriously and expected the same from his crew.Also, I love psychiatry, but everyone knows it has deeply flawed illusions of what the individuals who practice it are capable of. There have been enough scandals of fake professors and prescription shopping to show that these flaws exist and it's not insane or inaccurate to point them out.
His “being elevated beyond his true value” is a valid understatement.
I would credit the Church of Scientology for making him truly believe that he was superior to everyone around him, superior in knowledge first of all, then superior in every imaginable, measurable way after that, such as ability, intellect, the management of personal affairs, what have you…
In fact, a sort of citadel was built especially for Tom, to celebrate Tom as a Scientologist. It was called “The Celebrity Center”, but you might as have called it something like “The Tom Cruise Adoration Hall”.
All that was done to promote the church, to brag about how their successful Hollywood star was a Scientologist, (and so, “why not you? Join us and be successful, too, just like Tom.”)
Tom Cruise became the most important church member, indeed, second only to the leader himself.
(A man whose name I would rather forget.)
He was catered to in every way. They remodeled his house, for instance, for free. All that mattered to them was that Tom the star was getting in front of cameras to say all these wonderful things about their “wonderful” church…
There is not doubt that Tom believes in what he says about his religion…Thing is, he never really speaks to it directly. I believe it is a sub-conscious, knee-jerk reaction that keeps him silent, thinking to himself that he is protecting his privacy and his precious church that treats him so very well…
Naturally, the psychological result is what we see, and have seen since he got up on Oprah Winfrey’s couch, on that, earlier tirade…(do you recall?) -The result is that now we are dealing with a true narcissist, full blown, and long rewarded for his grandiose considerations of himself.
I’m not at all comfortable about referring to the organization as any sort of religious outfit, btw.
They have been revealed as being, possibly, the greatest con job ever to exist.
I would describe the organization has having three principle traits. One, they are predatory and target the vulnerable. Two, they are profit-oriented. And lastly, that they are not at all what they profess to be, which is to say that they are THE answer to everything, (mental health, criminal behavior, consciousness, the evolution of mankind, et cetera, et cetera…)
L. Ron Hubbard should go down in history as the great hypnotist; I would hold up is book, “Dianetics - The Modern Science of Mental Health” as the great hypnotic tool, possibly the greatest. You could hold it up as the most valuable handbook for cult leaders, ever written. Yes, by golly, that Hubbard was quite the genius.
Yes, I got sucked into it, as a 17-year old runaway in the year 1973, thereabouts. I escaped some two years after that, an accomplishment I do brag about to this day… My last word on this loveless, pseudo-church:
They will go down in history as having Tom Cruise as their greatest prize.
You can bet your bottom dollar, that he doesn’t want to talk about it.
Cruise described his father as a bully, a ''merchant of chaos.'' Hmm...
merchant of chaos is a scientology term...
That's what I thought. Hmm...
Just like him.
@Julie Wilson true 👏I agree.
Tom Cruise: Respect my authoritah!
😂 Sounds like Chicken pot pie...ASAP
Ahhh, South Park!😅
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From what I understand, he had already told these people several times to social distance, including it being in their contract. At the same time, there is a pandemic going on that has furloughed thousands of people, causing them severe financial hardships. Furthermore, the industry was looking at Tom Cruise's movie as how to film during a pandemic. So, many thousands of people were depending on the social distancing, masks, etc. to prevent an outbreak. I understand his frustration.
I'm with you.
I remember that and had an outburst of my own towards him on social media. He sounded like he took on the roll of the Drill Sargent unable to refrain himself from cursing. "Do what I say or suffer the consequences." The truth is we humans run and hide from the path of the wrath of nature the same as any other creature regardless of our own entitlements. How many people still hold Fauci's opinion above all others? How many people did the same of Trump? In America, we're free to remove ourselves from the presence of bad company. Life is a play, all the world is a stage, and acting is about how we choose to behave. Tom lost his temper temporary while displaying his own ignorance, but he didn't kill anybody. It doesn't mean his outburst is unforgivable. Alec is dealing with the consequences of killing somebody else himself right now whether others find him guilty or not. I say it sucks to be famous!
Leah Remini talked about Tom Cruise in her memoir and she described him as like an overgrown, spoiled child. He just expects everyone around him to do what he wants on a whim no matter what it is, even if it’s playing tag in his house
He’s an egomaniac. He’s a narcissist. He’s entitled.
@@stefannikola...Heeeeeeeee's T*O*M * C*R*U*I*S*E*!!!
Yes, I read that book too. Pathetic
@@twinkie9648 😂😂
This type of curse-filled rage is standard behavior among Scientology “executives.”
L Ron Hubbard has regular outbursts like this and it became a typical way for Scientologist to interact with each other, with people with higher status unleashing on their “inferiors.” Thus, this is learned behavior.
David Miscavige, Tom Cruise’s good friend, rages and abuses his colleagues in precisely this manner. This is average Scientology “executive” behavior. Nothing peculiar to TomCruise’s psychology. He is just acting in a way that is “normal” for senior Scientologists.
No love there.
You need a therapist, stop obsessing
Woww..you know a lot about scientology. Wondering if you ever were inside the circle before.
You need to look for work
A cult where they all believe that they are Gods.
I have a friend who's married to a famous actor...she's always telling us stories about people in Hollyweird. She's told a few bizarre ones about Tom Cruise. But she did say that he's great with children. He always took time out to greet her kids, and spend a few minutes chatting with them.
I laughed out loud as Dr Grande said "sorry Tom I wasnt paying attention..what was it you were going to do?" :D
Dr. Grande, you're - you are - blank hilarious. 'Mr Cruise, if we do this again what will happen? I wasn't - was not - paying attention during your first little thing there.'
I've been on a huge Scientology kick lately, reading and watching anything and everything I can about it, so this is perfect timing! The whole concept of Scientology and the way they work is unbelievable. Leah Remini's series is great and very eye opening.
Yes it is. I've watched it myself. Very eye opening. What Leah is doing is an act of courage. She's exposing these frauds.
Be glad you have religious/spiritual discernment. Because some people are blinded.
I want to encounter one of those sidewalk pitchmen with the "Stress Relief" BS. I want to hold the tin cans and string them along for about twenty minutes. Then I'm going to tell them I know it's Scientology and they can fuck off.
@@colt4667 wanna buy a bridge?
@@andrewk.7498 You mean the hierarchy of Scientology?
Dr Kate Allsopp, University of Liverpool, said: "Although diagnostic labels create the illusion of an explanation they are scientifically meaningless and can create stigma and prejudice. I hope these findings will encourage mental health professionals to think beyond diagnoses and consider other explanations of mental distress, such as trauma and other adverse life experiences."
A little more background on Tom Cruise is that he grew up playing hockey. Apparently he was quite the fighter, always looking to go against anyone to prove how big and strong he is. His original last name was Mappother and he had a little brother. He also had chipped teeth from playing hockey. Hockey is not an easy game to play so he must have good coordination. To fight on skates you need a reasonably good understanding how to skate. I don't think he plays anymore.
He basically reminded his employees that it's all about him.
It didn’t have much to do with being careful about Covid protocols. It was a self serving act of bullying.
No way, listen carefully, he keeps saying "us", "they are looking at us" , because of "us"... and he reminds the crew that they also should act responsibly "Do you understand your responsibility?" and at end the says "I trust you guys to be here".
He didnt outburst like that just to praise himself. On the contrary he highlights that it's a group effort and everybody is responsible and should act responsibly and it's all within the frame of a bigger picture: the jobs of thousands of people and the future of the whole industry, not just for the sake of one movie.
Sounds like chump
If objective truth exists then there can be only two options: either only one religion is true or none of them are. However, either way there are many false religions. But some are way more false than others. And Scientology is among the top percentage of 100% fake and bad for the soul.
@undeadkid101 101 I am not familiar with anyone named, No, You, or Keithy. None of those people are in my circle. But if No wishes to hear Keithy's paragraph of pain, then good for him I guess? But why tell me that? To be honest it's hard to tell if I interpreted your comment correctly. This is due to your sentence being confusing, lacking proper grammar, and not to mention the spelling mistakes. But practice makes perfect. Keep trying, and one day you might be able to form a proper sentence. Good luck.
Imagine being told how wonderful you are every 30 min. by most of the people around you. Try to imagine this over 20 + years and understand how delusional this man is.
Yeah and he's been in the industry for about 40 years..add two more decades to that statement..makes it even more crazy..
@@davidjacobs8558 - I’ve heard many more good stories about Tom Cruise from amateur actors who worked with him.
I heard actors say he would know everyone on set, respect them equally, remember their names, and their family’s name. It’s probably all BS. Just actors licking ass so that they can stay in the good books of Tom Cruise
I imagine most of Hollywood is full of egotistical, sociopaths.
Matthew McConahay seems like a good man
@@tottenhamhotspurish or he’s kissing ass in front of people who are more powerful or who he doesn’t get that close too.
How about all the actors n actresses who've been given much admiration also, but don't get egotistical and narcissistic? Even tho childhood and environment influence us, it's our choice, as adults, who we choose to be, and how we will treat others. Kindness from actors (and from any person) is what would inspire me to want to listen to them, not tirades and demeaning words.
@@tottenhamhotspurish only cuz he's from TEXAS....but he's not really a good man...
The Bible says there is none good no not one except for God himself God is good and he is good all the time
As much as I try to separate the art from the artist, there are a few instances where what I know about someone is simply too much and I can't do it. Tom Cruise is one of those. He has the most overinflated sense of self importance that I have ever seen, with the possible exception of Donald Trump. He has the self awareness if a deflated basketball. He has the insight and intelligence of used cat litter. Fortunately I don't think he is much if an actor, so I not missing much by having chosen to avoid his "work". (Anyone who would appear in a film like Cocktail should be shot on general principles!!) Now let me tell you what I really think! : )
Tom was screaming those words like a lunatic and when I heard his scary blow up, I commented in the post section “well I just list my lifelong crush” and some people came at me to say he was justified. No-screaming like a madman is someone that has just lost control-I am now afraid of him, he could have said the same words just as you have Dr. Grande. I love your honesty btw!
2 thoughts:
1) your analysis and deadpan humor are brilliantly spot-on.
2) Katie Holmes made a wise choice for herself in bolting out of that relationship with Tom.
He apparently broke up with Nicole Kidman by announcing their divorce publicly before the two had even agreed to one, or something like that. That would've been quite the red flag at the very start if I was Katie Holmes lol.
@@AJB3 I don't know I think some time passed between the divorce and next marriage... Even if it was so, Katie might have been unaware of this, she was really young back then afterall
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 There had to be no way she was unaware. Someone would've tried to warn her I'd be certain. Maybe she thought it would be good for her career or something.
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Katie was very young. She doesn't seem to have a track record of being a succubus.
I remember when I was a young girl, all my school friends raved about him. I saw Top Gun on TV and watched a while to see what the fuss was about. He gave me the creeps so much that I couldn't finish watching the film. I have always found him to have a falsely charming personality, the kind that is constructed and paraded with specific intention, but the look in his eye was always manic and dangerous. He's physically good-looking but I find his personality so abhorrent that I can't stand looking at him on screen when he appears as himself, he still makes my skin crawl.
Sounds like someone has some sexual frustration
@orchardlea , I believe that Tom Cruise is a truly evil man. I see that in his eyes as well. He’s also very narcissistic, and dangerous.
Your description nails it! You've managed to sum up exactly how I've always felt about him. He has the dubious honour of being the 'starring' actor in the only movie I've ever walked out on midway through screening.
Oh goodness, I agree with you completely on this. I have always been uncomfortable with Cruise. To me there is, and always has been, something dangerously narcissistic and rageful behind that surface charm. I think he is authoritarian and rigid in personality, as all 'true believer types' are. He lacks tolerance for anyone who disagrees with him and seems as though he's teetering on the edge of a mental breakdown. Like he's just hanging on. That religious zeal he exudes makes me cringe. I also can't watch his movies anymore. He's got to be the controlling one all the time. Of course I don't know him, but I've heard all his interviews and I believe him to be a toxic individual.
I have never thought he was a good actor, so I don't understand what people see in him. I won't watch anything he is in as I don't want to put money in Scientology's pockets. There is no way he is not aware of the organization's abuse; he must be willfully ignorant.
We live in a society where the acting profession is seen as the pinnacle of success. Acting is the art of pretending to be something you are not and to be everything embodied within a script.
This society is telling us subconsciously, that to be successful, we also need to be blank automatons that gain our meaning from a script e.g. the various media, from people of "importance" and others with "authority". Normally that wouldn't be such an issue but these people aren't normally qualified to be giving orders. They act as a face to those actually in control.
On the other hand being educated in something in comparison has you placed quite a way down the social rung.
We can see Scientology takes advantage of this social norm in its own methodology.
One would think that adults have the common sense to behave with responsibility during these pandemic times!
I’m right behind Cruise! He did the right thing.
It’s infuriating when adults behave so recklessly. If it were me I would have fired a few people on the spot!!!🤬
If they are so concerned they shouldn't be working, because death and disease are so scary!
Dr. Grande’s dry, sarcastic humor allows him to effortlessly wield powerful satirical tools while educating us, and, considering that this guy was an associate professor, I’m curious to know what it was like being taught by him. I don’t agree with everything he says, but I appreciate how he manages to balance the innately harsh nature of satire with respectfulness and decency. If he wrote and narrated an audiobook, I’d definitely listen to it.
Aren't you the.... Unabomber??? Lol
@@dianag.7696 Correct, I’m definitely not someone catfishing as the Unabomber.
Well put!
@@dianag.7696 I read Kaczynski and thought, "Wait a minute..."
I admire your comment and Dr. Grande even if sometimes I find rights to the other side, on this occasion anyone on the front would loose it as I do in my job. There is too much going on with people not making it difficult.
Perfect. I'm tired of celebrities having no respect for ordinary people. We have to hear their disrespectful opinions on everything. Wish I was present when he was bullying his employees.
Ok tough guy
His FATHER was a bully. Interesting.
As a small time producer; I empathize with Tom Cruise. It is absolutely frustrating to see certain crew members ( & casts) who behave in what can be termed as "unprofessional" behaviour; when you know you bear the ultimate responsibility. There's also the production expenses and time factor.
....his words and manner were disrespectful. Its not what you say irs how you say it.
As I listened to this episode, I was fantasizing about being on the crew of that film and thanking Cruz for his demonstration of what a tiny little man he actually feels like he is inside. Then perhaps reminding him that he is ONLY an actor who occasionally "pretends to be saving the world". Those who actually are trying to save the world are largely silent. Nobody knows who they are because they're too busy being heroes to find a bullhorn to assault us with that fact. I highly recommend that Cruz join the Catholic church. He could teach them a thing or two about guilt complexes. Why does America cater to terminal a**holes? We are a country that worships narcissists and psychopaths. Thank you so much for this guilty pleasure. I needed to hear something to make me feel superior.🤣
Thanks for calling out the worship of the tilted and your last statement made me smile .Obviously you look inward even when speaking out about others. If narcissists .phychopaths and sociopaths had that component,they wouldn't be those things
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I don't like Cruise based on what I have seen about him as a human, based on this incident and many before. I do find him tolerable-to-good as an actor, but in his defense, slightly, I will point out that he does more than act in his films.
Cruise actively develops and produces his films, so he has more invested than just being an actor for hire. He has both authority and responsibility for the sets of his films, and he has made many choices of who to hire, in the first place. He should have handled this set situation much more calmly, and he totally stepped over the line into arrogant abuse, but he was mentally juggling a lot of personal, financial, and legal responsibility.
Ya know, ya just don't have context for that high and mighty tough guy routine. Did you rent a ship named after you during the pandemic so the rest of your coworkers could keep working? Do you know how many times the crew had already been reprimanded for doing this? How many times those two in particular had been told? What about how many close calls the crew had with almost being shut down? Maybe Cruise really did feel responsible for making sure everyone is still earning money instead of moving to Oakland's beautiful tent and pallet house city. Maybe the crew asked him to do this whenever they saw it because he had gravitas, and he was stressed about being substitute captain and remembering his lines.
Maybe you should sit down and identify the compulsion to fantasize about being the knight in shining armor that becomes the hero of the set because you were the only one capable of taking an icon down a notch.
Xenot.....very eloquently said
Tom Cruise yells and swears at crew members then demands they be "reasonable". Sounds like grandiose narcissistic behaviour to me but I'm just speculating. Dr. Grande, thanks for staying cool, calm and rational!
@@zaig.s5329 Since it didn't occur to you what's wrong with Tom's tirade did you not even watch this video and agree with the perfectly reasonable points and criticisms Dr. Grande made about what's wrong with this kind of behavior. No one is saying that social distancing guidelines shouldn't be followed but this kind of outburst is not acceptable. He could have accomplished the same thing in a more civil manner.
@@samchau3476 Yes, social distancing rules should be followed, but they are not. Walmart has a sign up about wearing a mask, but people don’t. Over 300,000 dead in US, but there is a neighborhood Christmas party right now. England has a new strain that has a much higher transmission rate, and they are now shutting down again.
Should he have said it nicer? Let’s ask some of the victims of this horrible pandemic.
I can’t stand Tom Cruise. There’s something extremely creepy and fake about him.
If you see old interviews with him (early 20s) he seemed like a nice guy. Now he seems like a shell.....a narcistic shell
I think his scientology backers feed his delusions
I can’t stand you. Funny you call someone else fake
It’s because his nose and front teeth are maligned..creepy!
Christian Bale based his performance of Patrick Bateman off Tom Cruise when he was filming American Psycho. He said it was Cruise's intense energy and friendliness combined with the dead look in his eyes that inspired him.
Michael Meyers and his knife weilding skills! I'm rolling over here.
Wow Dr Grande ,as somebody who's worked in the hospitality industry or as cashier, receptionist that type of low-level job for the last 40 years. You'd be surprised, that almost everybody in my level of work experiences this, maybe professionals never experience it, but this goes on daily in the real world. I was waiting for a big surprise of something else he did ,and then you just ended his conversation. Lol, while I've been through that many times even worse my whole adult life.