My Mother-In-Law Kicked Me Out So That My Husband Could Get A New Wife Because I Am Disabled
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I am a 28-year-old woman who is currently disabled. I wasn't always like this, but an unfortunate event led to my current situation. Nevertheless, I choose to live my life to the fullest, and I have a great support system in my husband, James. We met two years ago when he was a physiotherapist at the hospital I was admitted to after a car accident. We quickly hit it off and started dating, and after three months he proposed. We've now been married for a year and we couldn't be happier. However, James's mother was not thrilled about our relationship at first, but eventually she came around and attended our wedding.
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So, this story REALLY hit home for me! See, I am "disabled." I have a genetic disorder called Spondyloepiphyseal dysplasia, and I met a boy in high school that I fell in love with! And he liked me too!!! Some boys were too afraid of what others would think if they dated me. But not this one! His grandmother and one aunt just didn't like us being together. They didn't show any disapproval until we started getting serious, thats when it all hit the fan! They tried to bribe him, and when that didn't work, his grandmother kicked him out of her house, so he came to live with my mom and I. He chose ME over his family! I couldn't believe that! He will always be my hero! That was 33 or so years ago, and we've been married for 32 years! I love him so much for showing me true unconditional love! My oldest daughter also has this bone disorder and she has a husband that loves her the same way, but his family has always loved and accepted her!!! God made us like this for a purpose, and I am proud of who me and my daughter and I are and the amazing men God has put in our lives! 😀
Did he ever get revenge on her for disowning him for marrying you? Maybe you 2 had children and refused to let her see her great grand children or maybe she needed help herself and you both refused? I love a good revenge and the evil mother in law in this story was not shown suffering enough.
@Zurround! 1000 lol, he just didn't really ever have anything else to do with her, but I killed her with kindness. My revenge was him choosing me even though she was begging him to break up with me! His one aunt that tried to bribe him, told me one day that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her nephew...🤔🤨. I couldn't even respond because I was afraid of what would come out of my mouth lol
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I would have been rendered speechless, too.
Any chance CRIMINAL charges can be pressed with HATE CRIME ENHANCEMENTS?
She's a doormat. She won't unfortunately.
If one of my kids married a disabled person it wouldn’t bother me..as long as my kids are happy in their relationship and being treated well! Then I’m fine with it! This MIL is in the way!
Mil "she's not a really women"
Me "miss if that's what you call someone with a disability then you aren't human"
Couldn't agree more 💯💯
She ranks right up there with the worst MILs.
I agree that this story was very toxic. OP should have filed charges against her mother in law. She is so evil.
They’d probably upgrade the charges to ‘aggravated’ for doing to a disabled person. OP was literally helpless. Power to her chair could have died! OP could have died! This woman’s behaviour is simple disgusting! What a vile woman! I hope her son has washed his hands of her.
OP should have filed assault charges against MIL for locking her out without phone or sufficient clothing
This mother in law is completely evil and if I was OP I would definitely keep her away from me and I would tell her If you can’t accept my wife you can’t accept me so until you can accept her and conduct yourself in a loving way towards her you can stay in your home and don’t come near me and mine
OP's MIL was beyond vile but my former MIL was worse..My MIL pushed me down the stairs when I was 5 months pregnant. KARMA caught up to her several years after incident..My MIL fell down the neighbor's stairs & died!
I can't understand why or how people can be such monsters like that.
@@onepieceisking5493 when someone is used to having a certain control over someone son/daughter/in-laws they throw a tantrum that they can’t exert that control on someone else. They’re used to being the center of their own universe
@@kaykay8855 and it's a wake up call that the world doesn't revolve around them.
@@onepieceisking5493 you would think if they didn’t have a gaggle enablers flocking to their rescue.
@@kaykay8855 exactly, I don't take kindly to enablers specially to someone so vile. Because of enabling they created a psychopath that's actually willing to kill to get their way
Husband was an idiot to not kick her out long before then. Seriously, what??? Why would you let someone who speaks to your spouse that way stay in your home, mother or not?!?
I think husband was kept out of the loop about how his mother was behaving. OP was trying to get along.
Husband endured gaslighting and all other forms of manipulation from his mother for his entire life. He couldn’t see her behaviour for what it was until she crossed a severe line.
Hello. This MIL needs some kind of charges filed against her
James should have put his mother in check as soon as she starting with her crap
I've made mention on the comments before in yor channel that my grandfather was disabled. Same thing happened to him! He hadd a leg amputation just below his knee, This didn't change his personality. He was a hard working man that put food on the table for his children and his grandchildren. He worked everyday till he retired in his 70s. This doesn't change people. This mother in law is a horrible human being....
Good story, awesome grandad!
My grandpa lost his leg too, as young adult farm accident. Worked his butt off. So proud of him.
Sounds like an amazing man!
Most people actually get stronger, better as a person not less than..
@@gloriavaldez1560 My grandfather told me he was 13 years old when he lost his leg. They tried to save it by taking 2 ribs out and placing it surgically and his need to support the bone. Weird but it was like 1930's. Gangarine set in, So they had to remove his leg.
He lived all the way up to being 92! He passed away in 2012. He wasn't remarkable man just like yours
This story made me think of my wonderful late husband who was a lot like James. I have mobility problems and he did so many things to make my life easier. I lost him to Covid over a year ago and I miss him terribly. I’m glad that OP has such a loving husband who chose her over his evil mother.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I hate that for you, I can't imagine how hard that must have been for you.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your heartache. May your waters be calm and your sailing be smooth.
Dang, OP and husband are such doormats.
Exactly. "Get out. F**k off. Don't ever come back". "James has 2 personalities" - pity both personalities are spineless wimps. OP makes so many excuses for this pathetic creature who allowed his mother to abuse his wife for so long. Despite the end result, he'd still have an awful lot of grovelling to do before he got anywhere near me to produce children.
Never apologize to that woman she owes you apologies and a lot of them
She definitely at the top of the list would tell her tke her Sato court with the meanest lawyer to sue her for the abuse she was doing and causing you
Ugh, they should report her for abusing the disabled, and never allow her to come there again.
It’s always husbands , mothers that think they r entitled to b a bully, & saying things like don’t talk back to be like the daughter n law is a child r making them do their housework. I’ve never been that way nor has my mother. Everyone that has come across my mom , fell n love with her crazy little self. Miss her soooo much
So happy OP has a positive attitude about her disability. I can only imagine it can be difficult. You are brave, strong and amazing. Keep strong.
Yes she is! What a wonderful thing to say!
Once I found my spouse and I made sure they were safe my mother would have been gone.
OP should have recorded mother-in-laws tirades and played them for her husband long before this incident occurred. Don't suffer in silence!!! Communicate with your spouse's people!
She should've just told. I bet he would've believed her without a recording. It's her own fault she suffered.
This very much this. This MIL could have committed murder. She was fully capable of this.
Nah, the true toxicity here is OP's apathetic, enabling momma's boy DH. His kindness and empathy to OP is admirable, but totally negated by standing by passively while his mother ran ramshod over his wife. Yes, he didn't know the true extent of her calumny, but just from OP's reportage, a better husband would have kicked that dumpster-fire mother to the curb long before she attempted murder. BTW, in real life (versus these posts) that would be a realistic charge for kicking a paraplegic out into the cold without outerwear or a phone.
Agreed I think op is the only way too kind to her husband who has being a passive little bitch His mom kept being totally rude and all he did was tell her to stop instead of kicking her out like He should have
Why did op try to have a relationship with her mother-in-law and op needs to stop letting people like her mother-in-law abuse her story1
James, younger sister sounds wonderful coming down to see if you’re OK when you’re sick that’s a person you on your life
I’m calling BS who is going to put up with this. Seriously!
Listen to some Just No MIL stories. It's surprising what a Mommy's Boy will ignore. They are so numb to such behavior it no longer connects with them.
With the wheelchair OP, depending on how cold it was outside, I would consider charging MIL with attempted murder
I hope there will be an update to this story, hopefully it's that they are expecting a baby, or the MIL learn d what NC means and that she will regret her choices.
The husband enables her behavior.. it gives me chills to think what could have happened to wife riding along in her chair in the middle of the night!
This MIL would have eventually killed OP. I'm certain of it.
She was definitely planning on giving him an earful and try to talk him out marrying op. She probably thought that by refusing her son would do what she wanted only for it to backfire. Yeah, she was insulting op and expected a reaction when she didn't get one she was even more upset. Update 1, I could tell Op that she was putting on a facade and was planning on making op's a living hell. Op, you were in the wrong on not telling your husband on how you feel. You always NEED to communicate with him. Of course she's going to lie to him and act nice. Of course she didn't think that by STILL trying to make her own food when op cooked for everyone was going to upset her son. I can only imagine how upset she was that actually had to eat the food op made. Update 2, she actually thought that she could get rid of op and replace her with a woman she "approved" of. Yeah, she didn't expect op to actually talk back to her like that. She definitely expected him to sell the wheelchair and is mad that her "plan" didn't work. Update 4, she actually thought locking op out was going to help get what she wanted, people like her aren't smart. Of course he's immediately going to know something happened to op that's why she's dumb to think that now she "won". She was even more dumb to straight out admit that she tried to kick op out herself like she had the authority to do so. By refusing to accept op she nuked her relationship with her son.
True. Bullies NEVER like it when you stand up to them and tell them to Fxxk off.
@@bustyrandit they NEVER do.
Mil is a Karen that typically refused to stop til she got her way. So it's no surprise that she thought by kicking op out like she had the authority to do so and expect her son just be okay with it and marry who she chooses shows that stupidity and insane logic Karens are known for. And given that she was shown the door and he brought op back plus not come back to their house says that she's ignoring her son because he loves op and won't do as she demands.
She is not a Golddigger mother-in-law. He gets her things because he cares about her and loves her. Let them be
That MIL is so cruel and cold.
MIL is lucky that son didn't call the police and charge her with the abuse of a disabled person. That is serious.
Oh hell nah if that was my sister who showed up at 3am in a wheel chair after being pushed out I would have called the cops IMMEDIATELY 🤬🤬
Omg.....just omg!!!
I cant even wrap my head around this...james is a good man.
Im so glad my family is so good to me and loves me and my choices.
Love this channel! !!
Why did OP tolerate this? Once someone calls you trash in your own home, they're no longer welcome and shouldn't be contacted until they give a formation apology.
“I think she doesn’t like that I stood up for myself…well, not literally because, we’ll…”
OP has got a wicked sense of humour. A friend of mine who is wheelchair-bound refers to her chair as her ‘chariot.’ Yass! You go, Queen!
You should definitely start recording when you are near MiL. Video or audio or both.
Why did he not go Ballistic at shutting his wife at 3 AM winter locking her out has me bewildered. He should have called the police
Wow! That MiL is a real monster. How horrible.
OP’s husband was at fault for a lot of this because he refused to stand up to his mother and throw her out when she was being so abusive to OP. OP should have also stood up for herself and told her husband what was going on.
Exactly
Ya but, she said she didn't tell him because she didn't want to burden him. So, he only saw a couple things and thought his talking to his mom was enough. I blame OP, she should've told him EVERY time something happened. It's ridiculous.
Why didnt op call the police when she was locked out and at her brothers? That was abuse and mil should have been thrown in jail. Ywbta if you don't file a police report over what happened.
My goodness, that should have been over faster then that.
Good for Op, for kicking his mother to the curb
I'm not going to lie I understand the mother-in-law is the True Villain of the story and she is the most vile person in this whole entire story too but I'm a little mad at the husband and I feel like he kind of plays a role in this situation on how it went so far the way it did because I'm sorry to say if this was my mother doing this to my wife she would have been sent back home a long time ago and I would have Cut Her Off blocked her and went no contact and I hate to say it like the husband should have protected the original poster way more better than just constantly telling his mother off or telling her all you got to accept that this is our marriage and this is the way things work of you like it or not but instead this dude let it get out of control to the point where this woman almost took over this man's home like I'm sorry to say it like I can barely stand having a certain amount of people in my house let alone my mother and like I said she was disrespecting my wife in my home like this yeah she would be out a long time ago
This story pisses me off. Why didn't she just talk to her husband? I mean, I get it at the very very beginning, but why suffer in silence? Her husband wouldn't want her to suffer. I had bad in-laws, and I couldn't hold it back from my husband, I actually started crying the second we got in the car after leaving the restaurant where i met them for the 2nd time. He cut them off. I urged him to make up with them, he eventually did, then they did similar stuff, he cut them off again, and the cycle continued. But at least I kept urging him to make up with them, because his mother died. Now, his dad, all of a sudden, is tolerating me. He isn't nice, but he doesn't say anything rude and sometimes I even get an Xmas gift. But the point is, I told my husband, for god's sake, you're married, talk to your husband, do NOT hide it from them.
Getting married after only 3 months is crazy- you gotta live together first! You gotta eeeeease the parents into it...this story though, lol what a freaking nightmare MIL, everyone else is her life seems lovely- there's always one bad apple....and ANYONE can become disabled, ANYONE
Lord! My Sister!!
I would have gone to jail that night!
That MIL 😱😱😱😱😱😱😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
Wow, this reminds me of my third ex wife. Her mother was/is very controlling and was never fond of me. The first time I met her, she looked me dead in the eye and said "I don't want my daughter and grandson to go to hell because of you." She judged me because if my faith as it is not Christian [I am Norse Pagan]. For 3 years I dealt with things from being ostracized by my MIL and was treated horribly by my wife (ignoring my pleas to go to counseling with me to make our relationship better.) The whole situation ended with me being evicted by my MIL and forcing a separation between myself and my young daughter.
EXCELLENT!!!
Call the cops!
There is no way she would have been aloud to be part of her sisters case
I can't, I just can't, imagine a woman doing what she did. Pushing her DIL out into the night and expecting that was what it takes to get her son to divorce her. How stupid is that?
Hi everyone 😁😁
I wanted to read that the drunk driver went to jail. I remember going to the trial of a drunk driver back in the 1980s or 1990s. His wife was saying her husband is a good man. I wished that the wife had been at the funeral of my co-worker's only daughter and the other teen girl her drunken husband had killed. I still remember the other woman screaming "My baby! My baby!" and clinging to her daughter's coffin at the funeral.
So no charges? he still let her get away with it? he sounds dreamy
My god, did the mother really think she could just be like "I broke up with your wife for you so now you can go find a wife that I approve of" and the son would just be like "ok mommy, guess I have no choice" LOL, it's crazy how many self important narcissists are out there, especially boomers
No way🤯 op was such a doormat. Boggles my mind why spouses don't speak up about abuse 💯 husband allowed the abuse especially with her cooking meals for only them two😡
Why the hell wasn't the police called by OP's brother as what MIL did could be considered attempted murder. The cops should have been called right then and there.
If my mother talk to me like that, trying to get me separated from the person I love I would tell her get out of my house. You are no longer my mother. You have to quit being rude to my spouse, the person I chose to spend my life with, and he chose to spend it with me, her son needs to see she is treating his wife like crap. It’s his mother who needs to give his wife a chance not the other way around OP has given her plenty of chances. Don’t give her any more. Don’t give her any more satisfaction, and she’s already had.
If I had been op I would have put my phone on record and then played back to husband so he could hear what his mother was saying to me.
Something to consider is that doing that may be illegal where they live. Some areas require the consent of all parties being recorded for it to be legal.
What a rude mother-in-law there’s already food at the table just because you didn’t like the person who made it doesn’t mean it gives you the right to be rude. If your son goes no contact with you it’s your fault.
At 9:50, that's where I say, 'We don't have the resources for you to make your own breakfast today, please eat what's been prepared, or go without!'. At 11:15, tell her, 'OK, that's the last straw, I've had enough of your disrespectful attitude towards me, now pack your shit and get out of my house before I call the cops and have you removed forcefully!'. At 14:35, op's husband is such an idiot for not noticing how his mum treats her, at this point I'd have her removed and argue to get her out quickly.
If a person lives in your house, the police will do nothing. That's what happened to my friend Joseph. He allowed his step grandson move in with his wife and him. Had fights with him and police did nothing. Wife left with her grandson for 6 months. After grandson got arrested and sent to military she went back to her husband.
@@lorrainelomotan1366 but she didn't live there, she was only a temporary guest
Temporary guest, or not. Legally if you get mail delivered to house then you live there. Joseph said my 13 (at the time) year old son was ALOT more respectful to them than the 18 year old grandson. My son stayed with them for a week
I raised my son with the wording different households, different rules.
When you go to a person's home you give them RESPECT. Follow the rules for their house. My son is half Phillipino and half American. This rule has HELPED him staying with grandparents for overnight/weekends in elementary school age.
EVEN THOUGH THEY TALKED BAD ABOUT ME. Once my son came back he told me grandfather called his mother an elephant and he is the baby elephant. I told him to take it as a compliment. Elephants may be big, but they are very quiet when they move and are known as having excellent memory.
@@lorrainelomotan1366 yeah? Well I live I Australia, here we don't put up with that shit here, I did say "Temporary" didn't I? That means they DONT live there, they are JUST a guest, and can be kicked out whenever I feel like it.
@@lorrainelomotan1366 and besides, here in Australia, getting your mail 'Redirected' as they say, just means it's still temporary, as in, you live somewhere else but get it delivered to where you are. Like if I go travelling around the world I can get my mail 'Redirected' to where I'm currently staying, doesn't mean I live there as a resident or permanent room mate to someone else.
Sounds like the mother-in-law is very, very toxic, and sometimes she is so toxic that she did the impossible by kicking out OP.
She’s not as bad as Megla 😂😂
18:05, BET NOT. Bet if his new wife was NOT chosen by Mom, she would be Equally as TOXIC towards the REPLACEMENT.
Cruise controll was still the worst.
Sometimes parents need to keep their mouth shut or not say it around their fiancé it’s his life he’s in love with her just be happy for him
its called ableist, it is down there with sexist, racist and any other inhuman ist that may affect someone. my closest friend was disabled and this is a hill i would die on
That was time to go NC.
police and legal
MIL should have been reported to the police and charges filed.
OP, you brought it to yourself the situation you are in, why did you not recorded all of the abuse from your MIL for your husband to hear?
I was with an older man who was close with his Mom. I too am disabled. She controlled the family purse strings. She always told him I would be a financial burden and cost him lots of his future trust $$ medically down the road if we stayed together. Hello, I had a primary and secondary insurance and an income to pay my own bills and still do to this day. I never depended on anyone to cover my wants or needs, ever. I’m with a person because I chose too be, because I care and am in love with that person. I had to walk away. I like his Mom but the control. Nope! Karma? Let’s just say, sadly he isn’t happy, he’s still single 27 years later. Yes I’m still friends with him at a distance but very happy with my soulmate today. 😊The MIL in this event, very TOXIC. I feel the son & DIL should walk away for a serious amount of time in order for the son to make a point to his own mother. Stand their ground as a United front.
Op. Share this with the family.
Can I ask you a question? I am only listen to half of this and I am wondering why OP did not record these conversations. I thought she was smarter than that and she could protect herself that way.
Omg. Long ass bs story. This woman let this woman take over her house to long
My oldest step-daughter is bone cancer survivor. At 16 she had to have 1/2 of pelvic bone and her femur removed. The only other option was to remove her intire leg. This took place in the late 70s in New England. Shortly after my job took myself & my family to Virginia. After I moved, my older brother & his wife visited US from N.C. since my S/D was on crutches at the time my brother said She was feeling Sorry for herself, and needed a Spanking. I went off on him about it. She was and is One of the STONGEST & MOST OPTIMISTIC People I have ever met. I KICKED My Brother out of my house and went NO CONTACT For a long time.
Nothing is worse than a son-husband, its disturbing behavior.
CRAZY MOTHER enough said…
James should have SUT THAT SHIT DOWN at the Beginning!!!
I will NOT Tolerate Ableist Ppl!!!! Just because we’re Disabled, does NOT make us Lesser!!!
I mean what would happen if her grandchild Wasn’t “Perfect”???
Hint: she’d emotionally abuse that child!
James is not wonderful if he allows his mother to disrespect his own wife in her own home.
If I was Opie, I’d give my mother in law a mouthful, and say we are happy if you can’t be happy for us then don’t be around us. I love your son, and he loves me. I have done nothing wrong to you besides dating and marrying your son, which is not wrong you may not like me, but you don’t need to be so rude and nasty, life does not always go your way and I’m sick and tired of you treating me like garbage now get out of my house
Why is the MIL still alive? She would have had a very, very bad accident! Sleeping with the fishes 🐟.
dang Jeannie XD
I started to think James was a Mama's boy, or at least blinded by the 'reasonable' attitude some people have, that let others get away with some truly horrendous behaviour.
OP also needed to be more forthright with James and let him know how she was feeling, rather than her 'over' considering how he felt.
A balance there needs to be found and that's for every couple.
But the MIL? Evil personified...
The story showed just how prejudiced some people can be and how they can believe some of the most strange things. Did she really believe that the wife couldn't get pregnant or even care for her child. Her disability was caused by an accident not a genetic disability. Her baby can't inherit it from her.
Funny thing about me. A blind hot chick cheated on me. I was willing to be her eye's for life. Because you know she's hot. A mix between Jessica Alba and Megan Fox. She also said "you have the sent of loyalty.". But she cheated on me with another girl. I do miss her though, but she's long gone. Man, I hope she's happy. Even though it's without me.
Woooooow hope Jamesnot a mama boy.....
Why the hell did she need the WHEEL CHAIR at all, she had a prosthetic leg that she seemed to be walking on just fine AND why did the scrambled eggs she made for breakfast look like a huge Thanksgiving turkey? Maybe I am visually impaired or something because a lot of the things I see in these cartoons don't make sense to me.
Don't try to make sense of any of the animations. They're there for entertainment and fun and not even remotely informative. More than once I've rolled my eyes when the animation and story seemed disjointed. 😊
Omg this mil was crazy why would you think your son wasn't happy with this lady just because she was in a wheelchair
James should have stepped up sooner and sent his mother home.
Sorry I would of chucked her out. You are supposed to respect one & all does not matter what colour or disability they have. We are all the same brothers & sisters ,live in the same world. The mother should nit interfere in their lives it is upto them what they do when they have children ect ect.
Yup, that was one bad MIL story alright!
Why tay knowing she's not welcome. He's clearly happy with op.
I wouldn't have let the mil move in, in the first place or an extended visit. Op should have called cops at Bros place for assault. Husband was not being a good husband to op. He should have put mil in her place sooner
1) OP should have found out if there was some way to press some sort of charges against MIL. And if it were possible, she should have done it. 2) OP's husband sounds like a good man, but he needs to understand his mother won't change and she hinted that she could 'get rid' of OP if OP wouldn't give him a divorce which pretty much implies one thing, so I say get a restraining order as well as a serious security system for when OP is home alone. If possible, on the nights husband works, maybe OP's brother should stay with her. MIL is unhinged and quite likely to have someone harm OP or burn the house down with her in it. 3) The rest of the family along with OP and husband need to cut MIL out of their lives and her own husband (FIL) needs to leave her or tell her he is leaving until she gets some professional mental help. 4) Even if MIL does get help, if/when OP and husband have children, I don't think MIL should be allowed in their lives; she sounds unstable enough she might harm the child and try and frame OP for it or do it just to cause OP pain.
I still think it's kind of mild compared to somebody my mother-in-law the name can't remember the series you did three parts of Magda
It's just's amazin how people can so evil and.. how can à man not see how his mother's torturing his wife
.and how can a woman let her mil not say à word about it it would be writen on my face..