It’s a beautiful thing when you see someone finally learn who they are and understand their nature. Nobody ever works on themselves in the dating game but when you do and it all works out, you realize how ignorant and selfish you were. I’m Happy for Whitney. She put the work in so she deserves it. If women(and men) did this more the game wouldn’t be so backwards
I know this comment is like 2 months old, but I just wanted to chime in. I think part of the problems is that people have different goals. Some people are looking for life partners, some people are experimenting, some people are figuring themselves out, so there's a whole different set of objectives and everybody is different. Personally, I have found that most of my progress has been internal, and I don't like the idea of treating people like avatars or NPCs to practice on. Life is real-life, this IS the big game, and I guess I don't understand what the goal is for people who just run the dating game. I mean, as someone who comes from a toxic, unstable family, I want a family because I don't have that support system innately. I really do feel for Whitney, because I really do think she is looking for a person that is her weight class, I mean she punches above the belt but she's an amazing human being, but she herself talks about how she goes for guys that reflect her neglectful father. I honestly don't know if "different but equal" means that women are willing to be the primary providers. I know that human beings have and can go beyond fundamental natures, but I think it takes a village and people don't like to let go of their preconceptions, but if people want to be treated better they have to consciously open up, look inside themselves, resist things that attract them BECAUSE of their past, and like somebody said here, "do the work"
@@thinkingagain5966 What a stunning moron you are. To you 2 short paragraphs is an essay. And to top it off, you, the simp who thinks 2 short paragraphs equal an essay, called him a simp! Know thyself, clueless loser.
I think it's so sad people are waisting their lives, and put so much money and time to so call work on themselves, just to hope they will be closer to get a person who is just a fulfilment of their esthetic and sexual desires... it's all but pride and prejudice, they are so far from their selves and their inner emotions they probably never had a real fulfilling sexual and intimate experience..and amazing and fullish how millions of people are following them and looking to them as idols...
"No one wants to be their girlfriend's intern." Yeah, and I think that applies the other way in the 21st century. People don't want to be their boyfriend's charity case or whatever. A real relationship requires balanced commitment.
@@sevothtartesama18 Men have to do everything and their jobs as well. That's called being an adult. Anyone who puts housework onto their wife is nothing but a man-child. An infant.
All comedians have mental problems.. not even in a rude way but the funniest people always go thru the most shit in their heads and compensate for it with comedy
@Anal Sex Stinks what so wrong with a man in late 40's dating a woman in her 30"s" ! Sounds like having a crush on an older man got old even though older men reign in the bedroom!
@@rdhfgfhghj I know, its ridiculous when men complain about that sort of thing. At the end of the day, everyone swipes right on the hottest people. Women are definitely not the only ones to do it
The "Getting Love You Want" section was really good. A lot of people unconsciously choose partners who harbour the negative qualities of their primary caregivers. This some good psychology shit.
Nah, get these comedians a throne each. What's with the girl on the left? Did she think her friend was taking her to see a sad movie? Those comedians CAN see you! : (
it is kind of telling. talking about your dating problems while a row of people stands beside you uncomfortably sends a message of a nurturing, warm woman every guy would want... right?
This current Whitney Cummings is a great example of a woman with healthy mental state and balanced self-reflection of what kind of impact she has on herself and others with her behavior and approach to people and life. So refreshing to see a person like this, who also happens to be a woman!
I was feeling bad for her but then I thought would she pay attention to a guy that she thought was less than. After taking that into consideration you dont feel that bad anymore.
Many men that aren't on their financial or fame level must seem like children to them.. End up being just a hookup. The men on their level mostly go for the younger ones that can be controlled or they bail.
Wow, these are some ladies who have really gone deep inside themselves and have looked at issues with an open mind. Frankly I am impressed, but I don't think a lot of men or women are ready to hear their message yet.
Going through it myself (still learning) I have come to the realization that our subconscious conceals the truth to protect ourselves from hurt. Half the battle is finally becoming self-aware.
Lol you really think so ? I feel bad for you , I wouldn't want my daughter acting like they do . I believe they bitch about men yet used their bodies like most women to get what they wanted at the time both have said so many times in the past ... I guess people aren't really listening ...
Since I don't hang out much with other guys, I get so shocked when I listen women telling stories about their dates and how much jerks there's out there. I mean, they are smart and strong women and these situations undermine their confidence and self appreciation so much :( Anyway, I love that you are sharing the stories with us
It’s easy. Grab a friend with an iPhone, put on a white shirt, walk down the street until you find a school, and make sure there are no cops around. Find 2 kids talking, ideally an Asian and an African American, give them a 50 to have your friend take a picture with them, photoshop a Red Cross in the background and pretend you’re casually working for Doctors Without Borders during summer time. Done.
I came her because I'm a Whitney fan, I've only watched Nikki on talk shows & thought she would be too much to handle on a one & one, but watching her here with no make-up, bags under her eyes, & being hilarious made me a fan BIG time...
No question the podcast is much stronger with Whitney Cummings and Anya Marina bouncing things off of Nikki. It's just what brings out the best comedy for the show. No disrespect for the dudes on the show but they are supporting cast and the more interesting dialogue is with the women speaking freely. Sort of a humorous and less restrained and edited "View." Congrats! Great Show!
This is a great one. Love WC! I relate to her, esp her co-dependency issues, so much! (And I definitely do the "too much, too soon" thing with dudes.) I'm gonna check out the books she's recommending. Thanx, Whit! 🙏🏼❤️💃🏼
I relate with this as a man. I try to show the woman by doing all the work and all the housework and she just has to be loving and caring and give me attention when I come home. I do everything for her and she leaves me. I get totally blindsided by this and often wonder what happened and why she left. I show my love like this and I am still single.
18:48. No one is comparing each other. Thoughts like that obviously lead to overwhelming anxiety. Thankfully that pressure was invented. It’s where comedy comes from.
Please stop thinking celebrity net worth is in any way accurate. It takes into account what they know about that person’s salary and any public records. No way to know about a person’s spending habits. They said R. Kelly was worth 150 million but he couldn’t afford bail. It’s NEVER accurate.
The more I watch Nikki, the more I fall in love with the woman she clearly is behind publice image. I sincerely don't think I've seen a more down to earth person than her. I hope that I can get to that point in my life where I can just make fun of myself and have that 'fuck it', carefree attitude. And I hope she takes her tour to Sweden soon, preferably Gothenburg. You've got one sold ticket right here, Nikki! Lots of love.
"You can either love a woman or understand a woman, but you can't do both." It took me years to understand this aphorism, but once I did and realized is so true, I couldn't go back! Long live the cat ladies and may God save the queen!
@@erikkillmonger5624 Yes, but at some point, you're going to have to engage the person in conversation. Your position isn't really a sustainable one. Short-term relationships? Sure. Long-term? Dubious. At best.
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Or there's the great Al Bundy quote: "Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they all hate each other".
@@Bamboo4U2 that's the whole point. so many people are realizing that they don't have to follow the script. that doesn't mean you have to be vapid or arrogant or shallow, but that if you have LTR's if that's your thing, that's cool, but if not, that's cool too. just looking at divorce rates, looking at what divorce did to my father and brothers-in-law, no thank you, sir! also, I always felt that I was a different person just to keep the relationship going, and when I did my own thing they weren't happy about that, so I either had to give up my happiness, or they had to. I guess I was just made to be a bachelor. still can get sex, want to have kids, but I don't want to raise them, as harsh as that sounds, but I wouldn't to that to a kid. so, not everybody makes it. not everyone is built the same way.
A client once told me a story of her experience at a MLB-ball game, a couple having an argument and the guy said to the woman; “It’s my life and I’m just letting you live it with me.” That line made me take a better look at the type of man I do and don’t want. As well, the type of woman I won’t become.
Why do so many outspoken women think they speak on behalf of all women when it comes to their personal preferences yet turn around and complain when men assume women share similar preferences?
This was outstanding. Nikki you are phenomenal, Whitney lead me here, lots of 12-step love and respect around. Phenomenal topics of discussion, the honestly is so phenomenally refreshing to hear amongst people outside the rooms. Super hot!
My ex gf had that problem of doing all the things (gifts, doing big events etc..) she had vp goals and very successful career wise. I think I through her for a loop when I didn't need or want her to do any of those things for me because I'm secure in myself for the most part. We eventually broke up, but I did notice those patterns later on as she hasn't taken the time to come face to face with those insecurities while plowing forward into relationships making the same mistakes.
There are so many singles that pass up people based on a pic and think that taking the time to know someone is a 'waste of time' You have to have faith in your journey and not be afraid to experience different things. If you are petrified of failure and loss it will TRAP you.
I really like Nikki and Whitney as comedians but I'd be scared AF to date either one of them...WAY too complicated. Also, I don't think either of them have the courage to be vulnerable...there would always be this shield up. I mean you aren't vulnerable right off the bat but I don't know that either of them could ever get there. Too bad, I think they are both really funny and both are hot but I just have this feeling that they would always be the center of a relationship.
They admitted it for a second somewhere at the beginning. They said if it wasn't for their pride. Moment of realization when you've emptied the bottle of vodka I guess.
"You are programmed to stay for 9 months and move on after the pregnancy." That is complete nonsense. Think about it. It takes a year until a baby can even stand. It has to be taken care of for at least 15 years after pregnancy. If it was a boy, he had to be taught things a woman couldn't teach. That is clearly a job for two and without the support of the father, a woman became a burden for the rest of her tribe. That puts them immediately at the bottom of the social structure. Every man would make sure that his wife and his children have everything they need, before even looking for a single mom who "moved on".
@Truth If we look at examples of hunter and gatherer societies we find that men leave for several days to hunt. It is also true that women remain at the shelter and take care of the children. But how is any of that supposed to refute my point? Those women and children are still depending on the men to protect and provide for them, are they not? Isn't it a simple fact that men will always take care of their children and their women first? Pair bonding between men and women has always existed. This is why we find some form of a marriage ritual, universally in even the most primitive tribes.
I'm terrified - I have dozens of photos of myself not staged- with a Starbucks coffee in my hand, I would totally match with Nikki... but then she would never call...😭
Suffering is relative and people tend to experience their "set point" most often, regardless of external circumstamce. Exception being if unmet physical needs exist (hunger, cold, sleep, etc).
The end was great, lol It’s so funny looking at people in those sites. What’s worst now are all the Snapchat filters Then u meet them and don’t even look the same
Whitney really has grown a lot in the past few years as a person. That is pretty remarkable for living in LA. This end bit with you being extremely shallow certainly helped make Whitney shine Nikki.
It's funny hearing them talk about being used for their powerful position in comedy or using their power in sexual or relationship encounters and then thinking about Louie CK. Feels like they're awfully close to the line, not doing anything wrong, and men mostly want sex more than women. But I dunno, I just found this interesting to think about.
You can see Nikki's wheel's spinning in this clip lol. I give her props for gauging the conversation and not being a shitty host and interupting! She's a really good host
So casually observed: "He looks just like Malcolm Gladwell, but without the success!" haha great to see a lot of insightful reflections beyond the comedy about personal development and celebrating each others' careers and sense of self worth. Really interesting to see that effort for self-work unfolding among people who spend a lot of time in the spotlight.
She lost me at there is no such thing as masculine and feminine anymore. This thought is part of the reason she has struggled. It has been proven time and again. Feminine women are more successful at getting the men women highly desire.
@@chuckryan6065 Let me ►explain◄ that word .... www.google.com/search?q=enplane+definition&oq=enplane&aqs=chrome.5.69i57j0l7.3921j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
The 3 books mentioned: Getting to I Do, Getting the Love You Want, Cupid’s Poison Arrow
Thank you!!
God bless you for listening close enough and posting these lol. Definitely did not want to go back! 👏👏
Hero we don't deserve lol
I was just about to post, asking for the titles. Thanks
You’re the real MVP
Thank you ma'am
So great to see these two women are genuine friends.
This conversation is surprisingly enjoyable, honest, and fun. Thanks!
It’s a beautiful thing when you see someone finally learn who they are and understand their nature. Nobody ever works on themselves in the dating game but when you do and it all works out, you realize how ignorant and selfish you were. I’m Happy for Whitney. She put the work in so she deserves it. If women(and men) did this more the game wouldn’t be so backwards
So true. If you are in many relationships and they never work... Did you look into the mirror?
I know this comment is like 2 months old, but I just wanted to chime in. I think part of the problems is that people have different goals. Some people are looking for life partners, some people are experimenting, some people are figuring themselves out, so there's a whole different set of objectives and everybody is different. Personally, I have found that most of my progress has been internal, and I don't like the idea of treating people like avatars or NPCs to practice on. Life is real-life, this IS the big game, and I guess I don't understand what the goal is for people who just run the dating game. I mean, as someone who comes from a toxic, unstable family, I want a family because I don't have that support system innately.
I really do feel for Whitney, because I really do think she is looking for a person that is her weight class, I mean she punches above the belt but she's an amazing human being, but she herself talks about how she goes for guys that reflect her neglectful father. I honestly don't know if "different but equal" means that women are willing to be the primary providers. I know that human beings have and can go beyond fundamental natures, but I think it takes a village and people don't like to let go of their preconceptions, but if people want to be treated better they have to consciously open up, look inside themselves, resist things that attract them BECAUSE of their past, and like somebody said here, "do the work"
@@nathanielhernandez8843nice essay. While you typed ur long winded overcomplicated simp rant ur gf was cheating on u
Thinking Again wow, so edgy 🙄
@@thinkingagain5966 What a stunning moron you are. To you 2 short paragraphs is an essay. And to top it off, you, the simp who thinks 2 short paragraphs equal an essay, called him a simp! Know thyself, clueless loser.
A surprisingly good conversation. The level of Self-awareness is appreaciated!
Why the fuck are all the interns & assistants standing behind the speakers like mindless drones lol
Damn glad to see shes branching out and talking about sex
Old but gold
@not hen looks younger
lmfao
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Glaser/Cummings, What a great comedy team name!
I think it's so sad people are waisting their lives, and put so much money and time to so call work on themselves, just to hope they will be closer to get a person who is just a fulfilment of their esthetic and sexual desires... it's all but pride and prejudice, they are so far from their selves and their inner emotions they probably never had a real fulfilling sexual and intimate experience..and amazing and fullish how millions of people are following them and looking to them as idols...
@@Thevoiceoftruth1234 WOW! I just like comedy. GLASER/CUMMINGS was funny. You had to watch it and read comments and then type 10 lines. LIGHTEN UP!
I see what you did there.
Glasser, Cummings, Me. What a great three-way.
Yeah they both have jizzy last names
Nikki and Whitney you do great comedy. My two favorite female comics at the time.
"No one wants to be their girlfriend's intern." Yeah, and I think that applies the other way in the 21st century. People don't want to be their boyfriend's charity case or whatever. A real relationship requires balanced commitment.
Hey boyfriend... It's me, your charity case 😘😍😍
THANK YOU. Someone who understands equality!! Relationships are 50/50. Not one person doing everything and the other person doing nothing
You can't tell douchenozzles like this great advice like that.
This is so hilarious to me cause women have always done everything 🤣 And now that women work they have to everything AND their job. Douche.
@@sevothtartesama18 Men have to do everything and their jobs as well. That's called being an adult. Anyone who puts housework onto their wife is nothing but a man-child. An infant.
This is a psychologists paradise!
These two don't have baggage, they have shipping containers.
All comedians have mental problems.. not even in a rude way but the funniest people always go thru the most shit in their heads and compensate for it with comedy
I know I have enjoyed watching this more then anything today
"post wall" women - lol.
@Anal Sex Stinks what so wrong with a man in late 40's dating a woman in her 30"s" !
Sounds like having a crush on an older man got old even though older men reign in the bedroom!
Nice to know dating and social apps are a nightmare everywhere lmao.
Because male female ratios are terrible. Active users ratio is like 1 female vs 50 male.
Serhan Ozulup there are plenty of women on the apps. They’re just aiming for the top 20% of men there.
@@Ferien7 you sound bitter,i mean if thier aimingb for the top guys ,you aim for the top girls
I've never used a dating app. I'm single. For now
@@rdhfgfhghj I know, its ridiculous when men complain about that sort of thing. At the end of the day, everyone swipes right on the hottest people. Women are definitely not the only ones to do it
Niki Glaser and Whitney Cummings are easily my 2 favorite stand ups right now..both very smart and funny women. I love them, they are the best.
you need go see more standup then
Throw Natasha Leggero in there and they could tour the usa!
You gals make me so thankful for my wife of 20 years. Great video.
The "Getting Love You Want" section was really good. A lot of people unconsciously choose partners who harbour the negative qualities of their primary caregivers. This some good psychology shit.
At 00:56 “Oh that’s fun!”
Bwahahaha 😂
Every man ever
Only guy in the room says what we are all thinking! hahaha
There’s a lot of comedy out there, BUT YOU TWO ARE WORTH WATCHING! 👏🏼♥️👏🏼♥️👏🏼♥️👏🏼
I feel bad for these random women just chillin in the background... at least give them a chair.
Nah, get these comedians a throne each. What's with the girl on the left? Did she think her friend was taking her to see a sad movie? Those comedians CAN see you! : (
@Temujin Khan 14:43
it is kind of telling. talking about your dating problems while a row of people stands beside you uncomfortably sends a message of a nurturing, warm woman every guy would want... right?
@@GZas Haha, so true.
Wow two wonderful comedians together at the same time awesome
There is NO ONE better than Nikki and Whitney! You ladies ROCK!
So I just discovered this and now I am going to binge all of them
This current Whitney Cummings is a great example of a woman with healthy mental state and balanced self-reflection of what kind of impact she has on herself and others with her behavior and approach to people and life. So refreshing to see a person like this, who also happens to be a woman!
"he cares about how he looks way too much for me"...isn't all you guys talk about how you look?😂😂
Wow, it's like almost everyone cares about what they look like
I mean, she's looking for love on a dating app for actors and models. And she's confused and frustrated about not finding love?
I was feeling bad for her but then I thought would she pay attention to a guy that she thought was less than. After taking that into consideration you dont feel that bad anymore.
@@eobardthawne324 Being a hot millionaire chick makes it very difficult in the dating scene.
@@mendistudio lmfao
some people don’t get it. kinda tragic.
Many men that aren't on their financial or fame level must seem like children to them.. End up being just a hookup. The men on their level mostly go for the younger ones that can be controlled or they bail.
Who's saving the gum on the water bottle
How TF??😂😂😂
God damnit! Now I can’t unsee it!!!!
😅😅😅😅
Good idea
Wow, these are some ladies who have really gone deep inside themselves and have looked at issues with an open mind. Frankly I am impressed, but I don't think a lot of men or women are ready to hear their message yet.
What is their message?
Well said!💭😊
I dunno about women but I'm pretty sure a lot of men have already been deep inside both of them.
Going through it myself (still learning) I have come to the realization that our subconscious conceals the truth to protect ourselves from hurt. Half the battle is finally becoming self-aware.
Lol you really think so ? I feel bad for you , I wouldn't want my daughter acting like they do . I believe they bitch about men yet used their bodies like most women to get what they wanted at the time both have said so many times in the past ...
I guess people aren't really listening ...
Since I don't hang out much with other guys, I get so shocked when I listen women telling stories about their dates and how much jerks there's out there. I mean, they are smart and strong women and these situations undermine their confidence and self appreciation so much :( Anyway, I love that you are sharing the stories with us
There's plenty of jerks of both genders in the dating world.
So for dating apps, what kind of pictures would you recommend!? Pics of me napping? Washing dishes? Filling out a costco application?
Dude, u can never go wrong with a d*ck pic...
No selfies.
Assembling IKEA furniture, cooking something, or a happy picture with children. You got this...
Costco membership is a flex !!!
It’s easy. Grab a friend with an iPhone, put on a white shirt, walk down the street until you find a school, and make sure there are no cops around. Find 2 kids talking, ideally an Asian and an African American, give them a 50 to have your friend take a picture with them, photoshop a Red Cross in the background and pretend you’re casually working for Doctors Without Borders during summer time. Done.
I came her because I'm a Whitney fan, I've only watched Nikki on talk shows & thought she would be too much to handle on a one & one, but watching her here with no make-up, bags under her eyes, & being hilarious made me a fan BIG time...
When Nikki makes that high pitched scream, it's Jack Whitehall.
Is he really that hot?
@@nardinit I'm a straight dude, and I get it.
@@chorky888 So am I, I'm surprised. I thought he was a bit weird looking, but then again I'm a straight male so I wouldn't know best
I googled 'Jack 31 comedian actor' and came up with the same result, lol
It sounded like a dental drill lol
No question the podcast is much stronger with Whitney Cummings and Anya Marina bouncing things off of Nikki. It's just what brings out the best comedy for the show. No disrespect for the dudes on the show but they are supporting cast and the more interesting dialogue is with the women speaking freely. Sort of a humorous and less restrained and edited "View." Congrats! Great Show!
If you’re not truly happy with yourself, you can’t truly be happy with another person…
This is a great one. Love WC! I relate to her, esp her co-dependency issues, so much! (And I definitely do the "too much, too soon" thing with dudes.) I'm gonna check out the books she's recommending. Thanx, Whit! 🙏🏼❤️💃🏼
I relate with this as a man.
I try to show the woman by doing all the work and all the housework and she just has to be loving and caring and give me attention when I come home.
I do everything for her and she leaves me.
I get totally blindsided by this and often wonder what happened and why she left.
I show my love like this and I am still single.
Honesty is refreshing
18:48. No one is comparing each other. Thoughts like that obviously lead to overwhelming anxiety. Thankfully that pressure was invented. It’s where comedy comes from.
Wow! Nikki and Whitney in the same room! Oh my!
I really enjoyed their conversation about real stuff, they were sincere, straightforward and mature about issues we all have!
Go search for Whitney Cummings talking to Ashley Graham, the best convo ive listen to in years
Patricia Evans thanks a lot! I will check it now! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
"i don't have that much money" she's worth $30m
She's actually worth 15 million. But that's still a shitload of money...
Google is not her accountant.
@@redrocker1055 stfu
@@carrd3971 Someones a tad bit sensitive.
Please stop thinking celebrity net worth is in any way accurate. It takes into account what they know about that person’s salary and any public records. No way to know about a person’s spending habits. They said R. Kelly was worth 150 million but he couldn’t afford bail. It’s NEVER accurate.
who knew Elizabeth Holmes got a name change and went on to stand up
I think Andrew was right about the "lick/suck" theory!
I thought the lady said "LIFT" not lick. As in, the man wants the woman to do all the work.
Nikki, I love your authenticity.
I wish Nikki would have an hr long podcast
Yes ! some podcasts are either 2 or 3 hours long..
Seriously!!!! 2 min in and im already dying!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Love Whitney. She makes everything brighter🌟🌟🌟
I enjoyed this conversation.
The more I watch Nikki, the more I fall in love with the woman she clearly is behind publice image. I sincerely don't think I've seen a more down to earth person than her. I hope that I can get to that point in my life where I can just make fun of myself and have that 'fuck it', carefree attitude. And I hope she takes her tour to Sweden soon, preferably Gothenburg. You've got one sold ticket right here, Nikki!
Lots of love.
Look up where she has her parents on her show and she has a lie detector guy validating their answers
Great shit ! Good talk start to finish !
I agree. Financial anxiety is the worst. 99% of my stress is survival based.
"You can either love a woman or understand a woman, but you can't do both." It took me years to understand this aphorism, but once I did and realized is so true, I couldn't go back!
Long live the cat ladies and may God save the queen!
"or you can do neither and the sex is still just as good." My addition to it.
@@erikkillmonger5624 Yes, but at some point, you're going to have to engage the person in conversation. Your position isn't really a sustainable one. Short-term relationships? Sure. Long-term? Dubious. At best.
Or there's the great Al Bundy quote: "Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they all hate each other".
@ Great. Go make me a "sammich."
@@Bamboo4U2 that's the whole point. so many people are realizing that they don't have to follow the script. that doesn't mean you have to be vapid or arrogant or shallow, but that if you have LTR's if that's your thing, that's cool, but if not, that's cool too. just looking at divorce rates, looking at what divorce did to my father and brothers-in-law, no thank you, sir! also, I always felt that I was a different person just to keep the relationship going, and when I did my own thing they weren't happy about that, so I either had to give up my happiness, or they had to. I guess I was just made to be a bachelor. still can get sex, want to have kids, but I don't want to raise them, as harsh as that sounds, but I wouldn't to that to a kid. so, not everybody makes it. not everyone is built the same way.
14 minutes until she mentions dopamine. Record.
When you realise that half the nation are addicted to it - that's a sure fire red pill.
@ when you realize that she's just a female Joe Rogan
A client once told me a story of her experience at a MLB-ball game, a couple having an argument and the guy said to the woman; “It’s my life and I’m just letting you live it with me.” That line made me take a better look at the type of man I do and don’t want. As well, the type of woman I won’t become.
These are 2 of the best female comedians of all time. Genuine and naturally funny. They need to do 2 girl tour
"He looks like Malcolm Gladwell without the success" LOL
I love that Whitney referenced Getting the Love You Want! I'm finishing that book now, and it's absolutely wonderful!
Why do so many outspoken women think they speak on behalf of all women when it comes to their personal preferences yet turn around and complain when men assume women share similar preferences?
U said.....
I heard... women like to talk, b right then complain.
In that order.
“Ah yeah, that’s fun” 😂
Great timing on that one :D
“Oh that’s fun” i imagine a Ron Swanson with a bib giggling follow up 😂
Love both of them… they should do more together! They always keepin it real 👌🏻
Thoroughly have enjoyed the episodes I’ve seen so far! Thank you for doing this show! 🙏
Whitney Cummings and her fiance are now separated.
thank god
That moment when the 40 something year old comic is actually only 2 years older than you...Damn she's crushing it.
Who are you talking about?
@@Lightner445555555555 Whitney. I thought she was older, just mature really.
@@haufbraus I did too. She's the exact same age as me😯!!
"He looks like Malcom Gladwell... without the success." 😭😭😭
Comedians in general are the best case studies.
They're both so introspective I am so excited for this. ❤️
Nikki Glaser = 35
Whitney Cummings = 37
wow
Lol what's so shocking about that?
Thank you. Nikki and Whitney is my wet dream of comedy.
Nikki & Whitney together!!!! The Holy Grail of podcasts!!! Love it!!! Great NYE present!!! Thanks, Ladies!!!
Ultimately you have to love who you are first and be willing to be yourself around others before you can expect someone else to love you.
I don't need childhood recreational circumstances, I live with my mom. And my psychic schizophrenia, and sci-fi comedy.
How’s that working out for you
@@alexdalton4535 quite well, stay home knits.
"Stop listing things"....... = He resolved all relationship problems with that one statement. Lol
Jimmy Kimmel kind of let himself go a little bit.
This was outstanding. Nikki you are phenomenal, Whitney lead me here, lots of 12-step love and respect around. Phenomenal topics of discussion, the honestly is so phenomenally refreshing to hear amongst people outside the rooms. Super hot!
My ex gf had that problem of doing all the things (gifts, doing big events etc..) she had vp goals and very successful career wise. I think I through her for a loop when I didn't need or want her to do any of those things for me because I'm secure in myself for the most part.
We eventually broke up, but I did notice those patterns later on as she hasn't taken the time to come face to face with those insecurities while plowing forward into relationships making the same mistakes.
threw her for a loop
There are so many singles that pass up people based on a pic and think that taking the time to know someone is a 'waste of time' You have to have faith in your journey and not be afraid to experience different things. If you are petrified of failure and loss it will TRAP you.
I really like Nikki and Whitney as comedians but I'd be scared AF to date either one of them...WAY too complicated. Also, I don't think either of them have the courage to be vulnerable...there would always be this shield up. I mean you aren't vulnerable right off the bat but I don't know that either of them could ever get there. Too bad, I think they are both really funny and both are hot but I just have this feeling that they would always be the center of a relationship.
CDW AWALT
They admitted it for a second somewhere at the beginning. They said if it wasn't for their pride. Moment of realization when you've emptied the bottle of vodka I guess.
This is CRACKING ME UP...and during this stay home pandemic...I NEEDED THIS...LMAO
this is just hard to watch after knowing that she’s not engaged anymore
Lucky escape for the guy
Nikki is still a comedian that can delighted laughs!
"You are programmed to stay for 9 months and move on after the pregnancy."
That is complete nonsense. Think about it. It takes a year until a baby can even stand. It has to be taken care of for at least 15 years after pregnancy. If it was a boy, he had to be taught things a woman couldn't teach. That is clearly a job for two and without the support of the father, a woman became a burden for the rest of her tribe. That puts them immediately at the bottom of the social structure. Every man would make sure that his wife and his children have everything they need, before even looking for a single mom who "moved on".
@Truth This may be true, but what OP was disproving is that we're not programmed to 'leave after 9 months'
@Truth If we look at examples of hunter and gatherer societies we find that men leave for several days to hunt. It is also true that women remain at the shelter and take care of the children. But how is any of that supposed to refute my point? Those women and children are still depending on the men to protect and provide for them, are they not? Isn't it a simple fact that men will always take care of their children and their women first? Pair bonding between men and women has always existed. This is why we find some form of a marriage ritual, universally in even the most primitive tribes.
@Truth It is still like that....in Islamic country
You were there? Everything is subjective.. so whoever wrote that would have their own personal bias.
Tribal societies still exist my guy and have thousands of years of oral history, much of which agrees with and aligns with that he just said.
Ali Wong: We sleep with men we don't respect.
Whitney Cummings: There are so many guys out there that we don't respect.
hmm... message received.
So it's a good thing i don't have sex?
I'm terrified - I have dozens of photos of myself not staged- with a Starbucks coffee in my hand, I would totally match with Nikki...
but then she would never call...😭
Suffering is relative and people tend to experience their "set point" most often, regardless of external circumstamce. Exception being if unmet physical needs exist (hunger, cold, sleep, etc).
"getting to i do" seems to be for women in their 30's what "the game" is for men in their 20's
No idea if you will ever see this but Niki and Whitney in one thing is my ideas of a perfect concept
The end was great, lol
It’s so funny looking at people in those sites.
What’s worst now are all the Snapchat filters
Then u meet them and don’t even look the same
Intimate relationship is a relationship with no fear of rejection.
Whitney really has grown a lot in the past few years as a person. That is pretty remarkable for living in LA. This end bit with you being extremely shallow certainly helped make Whitney shine Nikki.
"Another female comedian told me about it, she was on there" definitely was taylor Tomlinson 🤣
It's funny hearing them talk about being used for their powerful position in comedy or using their power in sexual or relationship encounters and then thinking about Louie CK. Feels like they're awfully close to the line, not doing anything wrong, and men mostly want sex more than women. But I dunno, I just found this interesting to think about.
You can see Nikki's wheel's spinning in this clip lol. I give her props for gauging the conversation and not being a shitty host and interupting! She's a really good host
So casually observed: "He looks just like Malcolm Gladwell, but without the success!" haha great to see a lot of insightful reflections beyond the comedy about personal development and celebrating each others' careers and sense of self worth. Really interesting to see that effort for self-work unfolding among people who spend a lot of time in the spotlight.
That quote does show how men get judged for their financial success more than women do.
This level of charisma should be on network TV but it might be a bit too iconoclastic for average people. Quite enjoyable.
She lost me at there is no such thing as masculine and feminine anymore. This thought is part of the reason she has struggled. It has been proven time and again. Feminine women are more successful at getting the men women highly desire.
lol okay.
Yeah so true 😂 looking for perfect man. That doesn't exist.
I can’t stop staring at the gum on the bottle cap!
Why does no one talk about "The Book" for men...She Comes First. Guys we need to help each other the way women do!
Well then You start us off. What da hell did you learn from that book anyway?
2 of my favorite comedians
I'm convinced that they are dating out of their class...That's the only thing that would explain it...☺
Did you just make up a new word?
@@chuckryan6065 Let me ►explain◄ that word ....
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Exactly
This was great! Thanks.
If your under 30 keep at it but if your over 30 it's time you start reading about how men are wrong.
It's great watching these clips showing a timeline of how people visibly age.