In the end she has the cheater as a boyfriend and the poster got that video to show the whole world of her true personality. Karma was hitting her before she ever even knew it.
With the fact that there's no follow up I wonder if it's just in the girls head because she wanted a relationship with her "friends" boyfriend and is trying to convince her friend that the guy likes her better so she can freely go after the guy. If I were him I'd call the boyfriend right away and ask WTF
The 80’s brought in the advent of using “like” as a verbal pause and Clueless just made it worse. 😂 I remember in high school one of my friends pointed out to me that I was saying it like a thousand times in a sentence and I had to make the effort to stop.
I went camping once, and these people came in at 4:00 a.m. put up the tent, music blasting etc. well, we woke up at 7:00 a.m. put on Metallica good & loud, started banging pots & pans( making breakfast)we were having so much fun making noise😂 One guy came out so hungover, almost in tears🤣 He apologized and said "I get it, we suck" Why yes, yes you do. We finished up and went on our planned hike. They were quiet the rest of the weekend! 🤣 Paybacks a Bitch!
It's the "oh you wouldn't mind" that pissed me off the most. I would've been like "yea you go ahead & keep him but also do me a favor, delete my number, you backstabbing two-timing bitch."
Honestly, I don’t even think they’ve had any discussions of being exclusive. She is trying to get her friend out of the way so she can have hope to be exclusive eventually. She is a true pick me🙄
@@dcarter455 I was kinda wondering if up till now they've been just doing a few, two of the friend group just having coffee or hey fancy seeing you here, kinda thing of Her volition. But Now she wants to speed it up to "we're mutual" & he doesn't have a clue! Maybe that's why she's the one who called! He might be sitting home waiting for dude to come over or call😮! She's gonna go tell him that dude doesn't want to see him anymore, but she has a shoulder to cry on😢! IDK why, but that was the vibe I got from her talk, a stone cold lier, entitled B, eff everybody else as long as I get what I want, kinda girl👧!!! Mommy & daddy gave her everything she wanted & now the world must too😤!!!
Like, if she like thinks that he will like, literally stay faithful she's got like , another think coming . Literally ! Sheesh who does she thinks she is? Certainly not a friend !
As a women's self defense coach I ALWAYS tell them you DO NOT owe ANYONE an explanation nor should you EVER feel the need to justify or explain yourself to ANYONE (other than authorities and even then LAWYER up immediately) This woman in the video has ALL of my respect. She handled that PERFECTLY. Kudos to her for protecting herself and her friends. The way she carried herself really made an impact and I AM HERE FOR IT. I absolutely LOVE seeing this!
Exactly. Just listening to the way she is communicating this info tells me she KNOWS she's an AH, but is trying to justify it by putting down OP and his last relationship. This is one helluva disgusting "friend"
She broke the #1 friendship rule. You don’t date your best friends boyfriend or ex’s. She couldn’t get out one declarative sentence without the word “like”
I don't mind with (some) exes but they were dating when she started with him and she only said something when it got serious. That's not a friend in my opinion.
@@MissAyame89 they were dating. 1:13 she says "you've only been seeing him for four months". What's that if not dating? It doesn't have to be an exclusive relationship for you to respect your friend enough to AT LEAST be honest with them from the beginning
It actually worked better for my best friend and my ex. They were together for 35 years until his death last October. I was glad they had such a good life together. They were the ones that should have dated in the first place and I’m happy to have been able to clear the path for them. Granted, my situation is probably an exception and not the rule, but that is a rule that should sometimes be broken.
About the vaping thing. I am an airline pilot. I’ve had 2 occasions where a passenger has been caught vaping mid flight. Not by other passengers or the flight attendants. By the fire alarms going off in the cockpit. Yes, their incessant need to vape makes us believe for a minute that the plane might be on fire. HUGE safety issue, potentially causing a diversion and majorly disrupting everyone’s travel plans. As Charlotte would say “How are you not EMBARRASSED?!?”
@hunterdavis2833 - Was flying from the UK to America once, think it was on Virgin and someone lit up (vapes weren't really around then) in one of the toilets and as it turns out, the furthest point from an emergency landing as the plane could have been, think cabin crew went running down the plane. The pilot came over the tannoy and was so angry, he went bat poo crazy about where we were, fires on airplane, endangering plane passengers & crew and "when we identify who it was, the authorities will be waiting for you when we land", don't recall what happened though I suspect quietly when we disembarked. If they were that desperate, could have just covered themselves in patches, ate a couple of packs of nicotine gum, and sucked air thru a straw. He was one very angry pilot but not surprising considering where we were over the Atlantic.
@@ancipital agreed! Our flights weren’t nearly that long and we were over the US the entire time, so fortunately we had options. But the first time it happened, the captain I was with was a former police officer. So you can imagine how that went!
Charlotte, as a bank employee.... Call your CC company before traveling and ask to put in a travel notice. They are way less likely to turn off ur card when traveling!
In the first story, she doesn't think that them seeing each other for 3 or 4 months is long enough for it to be serious but she is telling him about it because after a month she wants to be serious with the guy.
I'm so sad for him!! I'm mad he didn't say anything, but not at him- just the fcking situation he was put in I guess. He needs an extrovert to adopt him so they could take the phone and let them know what a cheap, two bit, hussy of an awful friend they are!! Just a shell of whatever trend happens to float in, uses friends dating lives as a pool of choice, and is going to end up alone by her attitude. No fcking ma'am!! Let's ask your momma what she thinks of the situation!?
I just went on the guy’s TikTok: this was filmed 4/26 and his ex-bf Caleb called him from a different number asking for him back on 5/6! She didn’t even have him for ten days! 😂😂😂😂 Bagging a cheater is never a prize.
People are now believing that this was staged between him and his best friend. She does kind of sound similar, but the only clip I've heard of her speaking she didn't say "like" every other word so idk 😂 He says it's not her, but I'm just sharing the rumors going around. I'm surprised the "friend" on the call would be nonchalant and silent about being put out there like that, audacity or not lol
This poor dude in the first clip. He deserves way better he seems so sweet. Better lover and better friend. But hey get that coffee and all the tea while you’re at…You know what they say keep your friends close and your enemies closer.. also block that toxic mess and protect yo self from those demons at all costs.
In college the girl next door fought endlessly with her boyfriend. She was Cajun, he was from New Jersey, the volume was amazing. We finally got so sick of it that we turned the stereo speakers to the wall and next time the got into it we blasted The 1812 Overture at full volume. We heard them start laughing, then they came over and apologized and it got a lot better after that..
Many years ago I lived in a rather new military dorm (similar to college dorm rooms). A youngster moved into the room directly below mine. He blasts his music where I could here every lyric clearly in my room; loudly. Twice I asked nicely to turn it down. He would, and after 5-10 min blast again. The 3rd time I went down (he was laughing because I was there yet again) I politely, but pointedly told him that my next complaint would be to the office. The base policy was that the SPs (security police) would come, confiscate his stereo system, and he would also have an appointment to "explain" to his 1st shirt his failure to follow the rules. Trust me, that's NOT a pleasant experience. He turned it down and it stayed down. FYI, in those days that system was valued at $2-3k.
I know we all smile in weird moments. But you could hear the smile in between voice too. I don’t think that one was real. I don’t mind the fake ones. I typically like them. But that one felt really staged to me.
@Sarabella68 they weren't dating. They were hooking up. He admitted it and said "yea". It was all in secret and she had just found out the guy she had been hooking up with and liked had also been bi and hooking up with her friend. It wasn't a hard storyline to follow so watch it again. She said I know you've been seeing him in secret. At the point of the phone call the f-boy in the middle wasn't dating anyone, he was just fooling around with everyone. He's the d-bag here. The friends didn't even know each other was banging this guy until she found out right before she called.
@@sarahgump8225 she actually knew the guy was seeing her friend before she started seeing him. She says she ran into the guy at a party and they talked about him seeing her friend and he mentioned they weren't exclusive before he told her he was bi. And then she started hooking up with him. So she started seeing the guy knowing he was also seeing her friend and she didn't tell the friend anything until now, now that they've decided they're "starting to get serious". Both the guy and the girl suck here because she knew and they both kept it from the friend while the guy was still seeing both of them.
@@ellesbelles64but dating and hooking up are different. If the two guys were dating, I would say, ew that’s messed up, but if everyone’s just sleeping together, it seems like fair game to me. I dunno, I’m married so I see all the single stuff a little differently. I could be wrong.
@@sarahhunter1114 Still, it's messed up and sensless, it's rude. If YOUR FRIEND...FRIEND, is hooking up with someone, you simply DON'T get there and know who the boy is, know that he and your FRIEND are hooking up, and start hooking up with him too. What the fuck? Clearly, it's not the same thing as dating, but it's RUDE, low character, FUCKED up! Hooking up with someone, whether you want to or not, means sharing moments and experiences, because your liking it or not, hooking up its not only about sex, it's the same thing as dating, but the difference is that they don't really date and that's why they hang out with more people, its a excuse to be able to hook up with other people. The girl knew who the boy her friend hooked up with was, the girl knew that her friend had feelings for him, and STILL had sex and everything else with him, that his friend HAD TOO. She's shameless, she haves a bad character, she's an idiot, she's clueless, she's rude and senseless
0:04 seriously needs to be on the next merch line. “How are you not embarrassed!?!” With like a comic book style charlotte popping out of the comic panel. Food for thought ❤️❤️
I had a downstairs neighbor who was a musician and would play instruments alllllll day long until 3-4am. So I took my Bose speaker and placed it face down on my hardwood floor and played bad bagpipes on max volume. When he would stop, I would stop. When he started again, I’d start again. Eventually I heard him laughing and he stopped 😂
Response to the "friend" stealing the boyfriend: "no, like, obviously it's fine, i mean I'm going to have like, SO much more time now since I won't be wasting any more of it with either of you!"
The full quote is "The customer is always right in matters of taste." It means let people buy the ugly stuff they like, not that they can treat employees like crap!
Thank you!!!!!!! So many of the sayings have been cut short! Pull yourself up by your bootstraps is in a paragraph making fun of thinking that would work! We're talking about farmers stuck in 9-10" of muck, you don't pull yourself up and out by your damn bootstraps; you'd literally fall on your face 😆
I did not know that, thank you! I've had about 6 years of customer service and I have never been a "customer is always right" kind of guy, you get the energy you give. I would bend over backwards for polite customers, but the rude ones had a very different shopping experience.
I kept waiting for him to be like. " so no we cant be friends and have the day you deserve" Im so sorry to the guy who was done so wrong! Ill be your friend! The guy you were seeing said you were too much so he went and found less...dont ever change for someone who cant see you for you ♥
The noise thing happens in reverse too. I and my little son (age 5) lived in an apartment bldg over a guy who was ill and on lots of meds. One night, I had a date and another couple over for dinner. We were a pretty quiet group, esp after 7:30 P.M. when my little one was in bed. Cop comes and we're sitting on the steps chatting over a glass of wine. He asks to see "the party scene" and I showed him around, incl opening the door slightly so he could see my boy fast asleep. Cop goes downstairs, raps on Mr Complaint's door and says, "what the hell is going on with you?!" He was NOT happy!!! He said that if we had been any more quiet it would've been a graveyard, and suggested that Mr Complaint go adjust whatever the hell he was taking and stop making crank calls to the police.
When I lived in an apt, I had someone complain about me when I had some friends over. Said we were yelling off the balcony. I did yell off the balcony ONCE, but that was like at 7:30pm, so not late at all, and all we did was drink and play some games. Didn’t even have any loud music or anything. But overnight management came to threaten to call the police if we didn’t keep it down, as someone had called “multiple times” to complain. So at 11pm my friends left so I wouldn’t get in trouble. 🙄🙄🙄 I was so thrilled to finally have a party, too. After that I made sure to always rent homes and not apartments.
So funny so many of us picked up the amount of the word "like" on the first story it was hilarious but at the same time I really felt for the man omg the disrepect ! Anyone else thinking Charlotte and Mike would be awesome parents if they of course want a child one day 😄?
Best way I (and my ex) ever let the neighbors know they were being to loud giggity-ing was waiting for The Moment and applauding as loud as we could. Never heard them again.
I'm with the hairdresser. Don't vape in people's homes without permission. I had a woman do that once and she excused herself with: "It's okay. It's not a cigarette." No, it's not f*cking okay. And she had one of those cheap ones where the smoke really stinks.
A work colleague cannot get through a minute without vaping. My office is really tiny and I was wondering why I was getting light-headed - turns out secondhand vape effects are a thing
Yes. It's astonishing how free some people are with doing whatever they want in someone else's home. Even if you're a friend, you don't act like trash. I once had a "friend" drop by unannounced and proceed to make a mess of my bathroom, including using my face towel to wipe off the back of her pants and drop it wet on the floor. Another time she wanted to come over and use MY bed to screw around with one of her boyfriends. Gross.
I literally refuse to get one of the buses I can get home from work after one time I was stuck in between 6 or so college students who all were holding vapes the entire hour I was on this bus with them and all puffed at least once every 30 seconds. I genuinely was so ready so scream at them by the time I got off (and I'm a pushover) and as soon as I got home I had a shower as I stunk of vape!
I work in a restaurant and the ppl work I with wouldn’t stop vaping inside and making me sick. I had to go to management to get them to stop and they made my asthma worse than what it was. Selfish people 😡
Paper thin walls? What you do is wait til the next day for a time you know the loud neighbor will be awake, bring a friend over, and start loudly telling your friend about how ridiculously loud your neighbor is and how you can hear EVERYTHING, and especially at night. 😂
What do you do when it’s your sister? Because mine does it twice a week knowing we don’t have a wall between our rooms and that I can hear everything, she does not care 🥲
@Arkyn.h start giving her partner a score based on her moans. In the morning, just let "hmmmm, I'd give that a 5. You didn't last as long as Wednesday night. I'd be disappointed"
A friend of mine and her husband dealt with their overly noisy, obnoxious, upstairs neighbors by making VERY loud "happy bedroom noises." When the neighbor complained, my friend looked at her and said, "Dont be jealous that MY husband finds me attractive and wants to jump on me at every opportunity. Maybe if you weren't yelling at yours all the time, he might want 'happy time' with you. Or better yet, if you're quieter from now on, we will be too."
18:40 I vape all the time but I've never vaped in someone's car or home without permission and I never smoke when I'm near children like it's just common sense
As for girl/guy code, the best characterization I've ever heard on the topic is from the pilot for Designing Women, when Suzanne started dating Mary Jo's ex-husband, trying to justify it as "the marriage is in the past, these things are over" -- to which Charlene claps back, "these things are never over; I'm sure Mary Jo has some old underwear she doesn't want either -- that doesn't mean she wants to see you in 'em".
She will lose him the same way she got him! It’s a big fat red flag. Dude is obviously a coward and his future girlfriend he starts a relationship with while with her will be calling her to tell her too 😂
Yeah that poor guy! He looks rly hurt but he's staying calm & polite, he's not giving her the satisfaction of getting upset in front of her. Good for him!! I wish all the best for him, and I hope he finds a better relationship & a better friend too 🥺
"If you can tell the bruddah to like go soft" 😂😂 imagine being the guy who has to tell the couple to quieten down when they're in bed and maybe bite down on the pillow so she's making less noise 😂
My chemo put me into early menopause at 45. Had one period since then and none since. I’m not mad about it. I used to have terrible cramps. I did find another use for my tampons tho. When I first started chemo, I used to get terrible nosebleeds. I found that sticking tampons in my nose was the best way to plug them. 😂😂 They were so bad, I once needed to change out the tampon on one side (completely bled thru it) and put in a super to get it to finally stop. Thankfully they stopped after a few months. Will donate the rest of my supply to a women’s shelter.
18:00 it DOES stink. All of those products stink. Cigarettes, cigars, vape - you name it. They all freaking STINK. And that stink clings to you, btw. I know smokers think they smell fine if they just air out, but they don't. That stuff lingers and gets stale which smells even worse
Not all vapes stink. 😂 my husband has vaped for over 10 years and never smells. His vape doesn't even smell. He smokes a cigar every few months and THAT smells AWFUL.
NO WAY!!! 19:54 is my friends and i at my best friends bachelorette party this june!!! It was absolutely insane! Krista is the girl that knocks. He was there for 2 days. He received the text two days prior. He was supposed to be in Michigan sick. We saw his night vision binoculars at around 1:30am the night prior watching us all in our bikinis in the hot tub that. The patio was 15 feet away from the garage that you had to cross a bridge to get to. If yall have any questions, id be happy to answer!
Wow, how scary and creepy for all of you! And how brave to go knock on the door, I’d be too chicken to do so, altho if my friends came with, maybe I could find some courage. Glad it ended ok.
Oh my god! Creep! He planed this. If he’s a worker I hope he was fired. I hope you didn’t have to pay that air b and b! You had every right to call the police too
When it comes to vaping, I switched from cigarettes to vape. I still vape. I treat it like my old cancer sticks. No smoking anywhere I wouldn't smoke before. As a smoker I will not tolerate my perfumed cloud to be invading other peoples clean air. Courtesy and respect. PERIOD.
It’s very much appreciated by non-smokers. Unfortunately not all people who vape were once cigarette smokers. Where I live there were very few places to smoke as the dangers of 2nd hand smoking became more evident. Mostly the bans were around schools and restaurants especially those without spaces. Which means there is no real way for people to learn the proper etiquette around it. People seem to think they puff out is okay but it’s essentially a hand held Shisha.
Your completely correct, I used to smoke cigs too and now Vape, there are specific smoking areas for a reason and I hate when ppl try and say otherwise like oh it’s literally just water vapor and blah blah blah, yes along with chemicals and if someone is bothered by that or it just isn’t apart of their lifestyle does not mean they should accommodate us, we should accommodate the non smokers who choose to keep that out of their life. The only time I feel like anyone is at fault for being apart of smoking/vaping when they choose not to do so is when a non smoker wants to stand in a smoking section and then complain that everyone is smoking 😂
12:55 after a long night of enduring my neighbor’s karaoke party (I desperately needed sleep because I was training for a marathon), I decided that 6am the following morning was THE PERFECT TIME to give a tuba recital (why yes, I am a tuba player). Got a mic set up and everything. The petty is STRONG.
A budget of $30k for a wedding just boggles my mind. Our wedding was about $3k, and it was beautiful. I cannot *fathom* spending that much on 1 day and being able to live with that. 😅
I was at this hotel once and it was like 130 in the morning and i could hear this couple going at it for awhile. I yelled out" hurry up and get her off and go to sleep already!."
I'd have called the front desk and asked them to call the other room. Nothing says stfu like a call from the front desk, b/c that tea is going to EVERYONE who works there!
21:00 she handled that like a champ!!! Seriously, there's nothing she needed to do differently! Her tone, the approach, having the host do all the talking , was polite, but assertive and shut his shit down with that last part " I don't have to justify this so I'm walking away" omg that was so satisfying to watch!! You're my hero!💪💪
I always think of the classic and confirmed, hella cliche " the way you get them is how you'll lose them!" Let's not forget " If they can do it with you, they'll do it to you!" The simplest things that seem so obvious are sadly often overlooked and forgotten. I love him!!!! he deserves better people altogether. Clean house!!!❤
How kind is the first guy, seriously, I would have gone nuts. The betrayal! Imagine getting a call from your friend telling you that she has been with your boyfriend for a month without mentioning anything, he likes her more because she is better than you, and she still wants to be friends because you won't mind. On what planet are we??? She has zero considerations for his feelings.
The first one is how I realized I had a toxic best friend. She stole 2 guys from me. Neither were serious, but still. I had horrible self esteem back then and let it go. Then I wised up eventually, and haven’t seen her in like 20 years or something.
Dodged a bullet. Guy who would cheat on him with his friend then be so cowardly that he sends her to break up with him. No one needs someone like that in their lives. Sure it hurts, but this is the kind of relationships you laugh over when recounting your narrow escapes.
Fun story. I stayed at a hotel and the walls were way too thin. It wasn't just the bed but i could hear their 'voices' very clearly. After about an hourI got sick of it so said as if I was talking to someone across the room "can you guys give it rest? Its been over an hour." They immediately stopped.
The first girl is a true friend. He is not wasting his life with a bad partner. I think she did him a favour. He has 2 toxic less in his life. Hope he is going to be ok❤
Charlotte, as someone who used to work in a bank's Card Loss Prevention department, let me give you some advice. If you're traveling, call your credit card company BEFORE hand and put a travel notice on your card for the different places you'll be traveling to. This will make it much less likely for your card to get declined due to suspected fraud. Bank's have an algorithm that keeps track of your card spending habits. If all of a sudden you're in a different country, and there's no notice placed on the card, the algorithm will do its thing and block the card.
@@Mama_Bear524, if you didn't place a travel notice on your card before you went, more than likely. Most cards have an international number you can use on the back in such cases. You call, get your card unlocked, than have them place the travel notice for the remainder of your trip. Keep in mind, though, that just because you place a travel notice doesn't necessarily mean your card won't be blocked. If you use it in an area that is currently trending in high fraud activity, it could still get locked. And yes, banks pay attention to that sort of thing.
This happened to me and when I called bank to find out the problem, a kind person carefully explained. They track your usual spending locations & amounts and block clear deviations. So I simply told bank my travel plans for next couple of weeks and then next month and where & how much I anticipated spending. Problem solved.
THIS! I learned this the hard way halfway across the country on a road trip. Fillin gas at 2 am and the card goes "Nah bich." Let the bank know. It'll also help if your card gets stolen while on the trip
Regarding the volume of activity. I was once told that a relative of mine and their significant other had gotten so fed up with the family above them (newcomers to the country, lots of them, with children) for making so much noise they put the speakers (80s version) facing the ceiling and blasted AC/DC. The bar down below called my relative wondering WTF they were doing. 🤣🤣🤣
@WournosFromTwitch 😂😂 I'm very familiar with those 80's sound systems. We had one for YEARS. We never put it above a '3' (out of '10') or else it would shake the walls of our house. As a teenager my son finally asked why never above 3. I told him to turn it up and then just watched him. He turned it back down quickly & then asked if he could turn it up full volume to see how loud it could be. After I covered my ears said to go for it. To say he was shocked is to put it mildly.
The first guy, him trying to not laugh at her is cracking me tf up 🤣🤣 “that’s a vibe”. I feel like he kept up appearances to move in the shadows. Also can we get a “like” counter for her? My guess is over 100 😂
I lived in an apartment where the neighbor's dining room window was diagonal to my bedroom. One day me and my husband at the time were getting buck wild and all of a sudden I heard people mimicking our sounds so loudly outside of our window. All we could do was laugh. We could never make friends with those neighbor's, but we remained cordial till we moved. 😅
When I was in my first year of Uni, I shared a wall with this guy who would sing into the early hours of the morning, and my way of letting him know it was by pulling out my keyboard turning the volume on max and playing the phantom of the opera over and over again.
With the vape situation, I cannot tell you how annoying I find it that people who vape say it doesn’t smell or it doesn’t affect people and just do it in the car with me or at any and every social gathering inside. I literally get an allergic reaction every time and I can smell it from a mile away. I always end up having to take allergy meds when I get home. My eyes burn and water, my nose starts running, I get a headache, and my throat ends up being scratchy afterwards.
I literally cant breathe because of my idiot workmate insisting that vaping is fine indoors because it smells better than cigarettes. The stupidest thing is that it already makes them cough and wheeze, but it's ok because it is not cigarettes. I swear some people.
As someone who vapes it’s entirely disrespectful to do it around people who are uncomfortable about it or it makes them sick!! sorry you had to deal with this!
It’s not even the smell for me, it’s the tackiness of thinking they can use it anywhere instead of going outside like smokers. I’ve seen people doing hits in Broadway shows, at indoor weddings, etc.
for that first one I'd be contacting the guy SO fast to see if he really feels like this. Sending OPs friend AND the girl youve apparently been seeing to break up with a guy is SO sus to me. I got alarm bells of her making it up to try and chase OP away so she can have the guy for herself.
Same here! Weird seeing this because my birthday is actually tomorrow😅 God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
About that last part.. my sister was staying with us for about a week and she got her period. For more context, I'm pregnant. The night before she went back home, she told me I'm lucky to be pregnant because I don't have to get my period for a while. I told her thats true about the bleeding, but I still get cramps every few days(which is normal for me), I'm sick and tired all the time, and I eat constantly. Plus, the "period" after giving birth makes up for a minimum of ⅔ of the missed periods. 6-8(10 when I had my daughter) weeks straight of nonstop bleeding. Periods are awful but pregnancy is complete hell for most of us. Dont get me me wrong, its a beautiful experience... but its miserable
@ladymissgd she'll probably never have kids because she doesnt want them and probably isnt meant to be a mother. However, she loves my kid who is 2 and sees how much of a struggle parenting is, especially with a neurodivergent kid. In other words, that'll never happen so she'll never fully get it
Omg YES! Both of my pregnancies had about 2 months of being comfortable. The rest was HELL. Everything hurt! I was so nauseous. My daughter played soccer with my bladder on the regular and my back felt like it would never recover. It didn’t.
Perimenopause is the worst though. Can’t get pregnant but still have to deal with the periods. The depression is already setting in. I’m not looking forward to 12 month period free milestone because that’s final nail in the coffin, and that’s going to break me.
I used to have friends like this, for a few months I was noticing patterns and finally said nope not for me. These are frenemies or even people who really just don't like or respect you and it'll keep happening if you allow it! Learning healthy boundaries was the best lesson for me!
charlotte, you seem to be my tribe. i genuinely and wholesomely enjoy your videos. my wife showed me a video of yours a while a go, she watches too. I get vibes, you have amazing vibes, thank you for sharing your positivity and genuine nature.
The way the air bnb girl said i dont need to justify myself and walked away 😍 i always feel the need to justify myself and explain my actions and shes right she doesn’t need to and neither do i
The way I would have hung up and blocked that first girl the minute she revealed she was seeing my boyfriend. She's delulu to think she's still friends with this guy. Run bestie! Run!!
Hello my fellow Petty Family, our beloved family pet of 16 years had a large mass cell cancer tumor removed on Friday and she’s been having a hard time, especially after recovering from stroke in March. If you could all keep Gracie in your thoughts, love, prayers, and send imaginary pets we would be tearfully grateful. 💕💗💕
I'm so sorry about Gracie. I know how hard it is when your fur baby isn't well. I'll definitely keep her in my thoughts, and I'll say a prayer. Giving her long-distance head pats and good girls ❤
@@abigailsaraThank you sincerely, Abigail!🥺🙏 It really means the world. It’s not fair for such innocent pure beings to have to experience pain, I just wish I could take it from her.
New fear unlocked. Just stayed at an air B&B in the country and the only part of the property we were told we had no access to was a locked shed on the property. My innocent self just assumed there were personal items/tools the property owner didn't want people touching/using. The house was well equipped with everything anyone could possibly need and then some. Now I'm spooked!
Whew! Could that girl say “like” anymore?!? I couldn’t talk to her for more than 30 seconds! 13:45 The song Cotton Eyed Joe is supposed to be about STDs! 🤣 That’s too funny!!
It may be now, but the original version, as written, was about him stealing someone's SO, and a threat towards him, if he didn't stop trying to break them up he'd feel the consequences..
"Honestly, I choose the bear" 😂😂😂 And yes....We've all had period trauma. I was in 4th grade (8 yrs old), in math class. The whole class saw my premiere 🙌 adding to my humiliation, I was the first to have it and the teacher got bombarded with questions from 8-yr olds 😂
That last clip though loooool I remember being on a trampoline and being quietly asked down by my friend's mum. She pointed out that I was bleeding through my jeans. I was moooooortified.
Wow!! That woman was talking out the side of her mouth! How in the world is he supposed to be okay and want to hang out with THEM!! I so wanted him to be over the top about this betrayal. ☹️
“YOU are not gonna let this break our friendship right?”
That preloaded gaslight 😂😂😂😂
"why are you always so dramatic? this is why he left, it's always so much with you!"
She’s a classic narcissist
Preloaded gaslighting.....great term
In the end she has the cheater as a boyfriend and the poster got that video to show the whole world of her true personality. Karma was hitting her before she ever even knew it.
Does anyone know if they are still friends or not? Did the person confront her or that other guy once they had sorted their thoughts out?
for that first girl, better answer would be " Yeah I am not mad but let's not be friends anymore and don't call me either" MY GOD. THE AUDACITY
Was it his boyfriend, and she stole him?
With the fact that there's no follow up I wonder if it's just in the girls head because she wanted a relationship with her "friends" boyfriend and is trying to convince her friend that the guy likes her better so she can freely go after the guy. If I were him I'd call the boyfriend right away and ask WTF
Well, they are a better fit because they are both like cheaters🤨
THIS!
@@lotstodoYes! The guys were dating for 4-5 months! And she is friends with the guy on the phone. So she stole his man.
If you took the word “like” out of the first girl’s vocabulary, she’d be mute 🤣
That would be a good thing.
Good to know I wasn't the only one who picked up on that. If it's not "like" it's "you know"
I had to skip the first story because of the likes
Omg yes!!! How many times did she say that word! I lost count! 🤦🏼♀️
The 80’s brought in the advent of using “like” as a verbal pause and Clueless just made it worse. 😂 I remember in high school one of my friends pointed out to me that I was saying it like a thousand times in a sentence and I had to make the effort to stop.
I went camping once, and these people came in at 4:00 a.m. put up the tent, music blasting etc. well, we woke up at 7:00 a.m. put on Metallica good & loud, started banging pots & pans( making breakfast)we were having so much fun making noise😂 One guy came out so hungover, almost in tears🤣 He apologized and said "I get it, we suck" Why yes, yes you do. We finished up and went on our planned hike. They were quiet the rest of the weekend! 🤣 Paybacks a Bitch!
The “pick me girl “ in the first. I would have called it out, “Well, glad I know he’s into Pick me girls before I gotten more serious.”
It's the "oh you wouldn't mind" that pissed me off the most.
I would've been like "yea you go ahead & keep him but also do me a favor, delete my number, you backstabbing two-timing bitch."
Honestly, I don’t even think they’ve had any discussions of being exclusive. She is trying to get her friend out of the way so she can have hope to be exclusive eventually. She is a true pick me🙄
@@dcarter455 I was kinda wondering if up till now they've been just doing a few, two of the friend group just having coffee or hey fancy seeing you here, kinda thing of Her volition. But Now she wants to speed it up to "we're mutual" & he doesn't have a clue! Maybe that's why she's the one who called! He might be sitting home waiting for dude to come over or call😮! She's gonna go tell him that dude doesn't want to see him anymore, but she has a shoulder to cry on😢! IDK why, but that was the vibe I got from her talk, a stone cold lier, entitled B, eff everybody else as long as I get what I want, kinda girl👧!!! Mommy & daddy gave her everything she wanted & now the world must too😤!!!
😂😂😂 BOOM
She kept subtly using the fact she thinks she's better than him as an excuse wtf🤣how hilarious will it be when the guy gets bored of her too
"Because we're friends" ABSOLUTELY NOT!
We're, like, friends.
Right?....HOW IS SHE NOT EMBARRASSED??!!
Like, if she like thinks that he will like, literally stay faithful she's got like , another think coming . Literally !
Sheesh who does she thinks she is? Certainly not a friend !
Absolutely disgusting behavior… girly ewwwwwww!!!
I said this in charlotte’s voices
The "Like" girl is over-clocking my anxiety!!! OMG!! Can someone count how many times she says "like"?
It sounds so ignorant and is beyond annoying.
I am glad I am not the only who go annoyed by the likes
@@LauraSchendel-ko1qk I know it's something they do in high school, but MY GOD!!
I could only suffer a few minutes if it and had to retreat! LOL!
I was thinking the same thing too hahahahaha
As a women's self defense coach I ALWAYS tell them you DO NOT owe ANYONE an explanation nor should you EVER feel the need to justify or explain yourself to ANYONE (other than authorities and even then LAWYER up immediately) This woman in the video has ALL of my respect. She handled that PERFECTLY. Kudos to her for protecting herself and her friends. The way she carried herself really made an impact and I AM HERE FOR IT. I absolutely LOVE seeing this!
TRUTH!
The first story that's not what friends do to each other because friends wouldn't do what she did. She would've stayed away from her "friend's" man
lol exactly! You don’t sleep with your friends partner, regardless of how serious it is or not
Omgosh I was screaming at my cellular telephone lk THATS NOT UR FRIEND😂 and super foolish if they cheat with u they will cheat in u😅😂
Mpox is a thing now. Good luck.
Exactly. Just listening to the way she is communicating this info tells me she KNOWS she's an AH, but is trying to justify it by putting down OP and his last relationship. This is one helluva disgusting "friend"
That wasn't a friend. They're about themselves and using others when it suits them.
She broke the #1 friendship rule. You don’t date your best friends boyfriend or ex’s. She couldn’t get out one declarative sentence without the word “like”
They where not exs because they where not dating
I don't mind with (some) exes but they were dating when she started with him and she only said something when it got serious. That's not a friend in my opinion.
@@MissAyame89 they were dating. 1:13 she says "you've only been seeing him for four months". What's that if not dating? It doesn't have to be an exclusive relationship for you to respect your friend enough to AT LEAST be honest with them from the beginning
Truly! I cannot even get myself to find the man, whom my friend somehow has a crush on, remotely handsome. That's completely a no no territory.
It actually worked better for my best friend and my ex.
They were together for 35 years until his death last October.
I was glad they had such a good life together. They were the ones that should have dated in the first place and I’m happy to have been able to clear the path for them.
Granted, my situation is probably an exception and not the rule, but that is a rule that should sometimes be broken.
About the vaping thing. I am an airline pilot. I’ve had 2 occasions where a passenger has been caught vaping mid flight. Not by other passengers or the flight attendants. By the fire alarms going off in the cockpit. Yes, their incessant need to vape makes us believe for a minute that the plane might be on fire. HUGE safety issue, potentially causing a diversion and majorly disrupting everyone’s travel plans. As Charlotte would say “How are you not EMBARRASSED?!?”
The punishment for getting caught vaping mid-flight should be removal from the plane. Mid-flight.
Talk about getting separated from your luggage!
@@sharim what? You going to open the doors and throw them out??? 😂😂😂😂
@hunterdavis2833 - Was flying from the UK to America once, think it was on Virgin and someone lit up (vapes weren't really around then) in one of the toilets and as it turns out, the furthest point from an emergency landing as the plane could have been, think cabin crew went running down the plane. The pilot came over the tannoy and was so angry, he went bat poo crazy about where we were, fires on airplane, endangering plane passengers & crew and "when we identify who it was, the authorities will be waiting for you when we land", don't recall what happened though I suspect quietly when we disembarked.
If they were that desperate, could have just covered themselves in patches, ate a couple of packs of nicotine gum, and sucked air thru a straw.
He was one very angry pilot but not surprising considering where we were over the Atlantic.
@@sharim not saying I would enjoy seeing that happen. But I am saying I wouldn’t not enjoy it 😅
@@ancipital agreed! Our flights weren’t nearly that long and we were over the US the entire time, so fortunately we had options. But the first time it happened, the captain I was with was a former police officer. So you can imagine how that went!
Charlotte, as a bank employee.... Call your CC company before traveling and ask to put in a travel notice. They are way less likely to turn off ur card when traveling!
Yep, my bank lets me do that online or by phone.
I was going to comment the same thing haha
In the first story, she doesn't think that them seeing each other for 3 or 4 months is long enough for it to be serious but she is telling him about it because after a month she wants to be serious with the guy.
If she's being honest about it. It's possible she is just trying to break them up to take her shot.
Da delulu is strong😂
Yeah, I get the feeling he and the guy been talking about her
She's going to lose him how she got him. Give time to time!
@@Mewse1203 : I seriously doubt she's being honest about it.
"can I tell him we're all good?"
I low-key don't think they are, in fact, 'all good'.
Yeah he’s deffff mad
@@Nothanku_You can see his skin turn shades of red. I can almost feel the heat off his face.
I'm so sad for him!! I'm mad he didn't say anything, but not at him- just the fcking situation he was put in I guess.
He needs an extrovert to adopt him so they could take the phone and let them know what a cheap, two bit, hussy of an awful friend they are!!
Just a shell of whatever trend happens to float in, uses friends dating lives as a pool of choice, and is going to end up alone by her attitude.
No fcking ma'am!! Let's ask your momma what she thinks of the situation!?
Yeah, they're not all good. I'm autistic yet even I can tell they're not all good. Maybe cuz I'm not a spring chicken anymore but still
I just went on the guy’s TikTok: this was filmed 4/26 and his ex-bf Caleb called him from a different number asking for him back on 5/6!
She didn’t even have him for ten days! 😂😂😂😂 Bagging a cheater is never a prize.
wheezing
I was waiting to see Caleb turn up in the background laughing!
Haaahaaa oh hell 10000%
People are now believing that this was staged between him and his best friend. She does kind of sound similar, but the only clip I've heard of her speaking she didn't say "like" every other word so idk 😂 He says it's not her, but I'm just sharing the rumors going around. I'm surprised the "friend" on the call would be nonchalant and silent about being put out there like that, audacity or not lol
This! If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
This poor dude in the first clip. He deserves way better he seems so sweet. Better lover and better friend. But hey get that coffee and all the tea while you’re at…You know what they say keep your friends close and your enemies closer.. also block that toxic mess and protect yo self from those demons at all costs.
In college the girl next door fought endlessly with her boyfriend. She was Cajun, he was from New Jersey, the volume was amazing. We finally got so sick of it that we turned the stereo speakers to the wall and next time the got into it we blasted The 1812 Overture at full volume. We heard them start laughing, then they came over and apologized and it got a lot better after that..
HAHAHAHA please tell me it was the version with cannons 😂
That is a first class retaliation. I love it.
Many years ago I lived in a rather new military dorm (similar to college dorm rooms). A youngster moved into the room directly below mine. He blasts his music where I could here every lyric clearly in my room; loudly. Twice I asked nicely to turn it down. He would, and after 5-10 min blast again. The 3rd time I went down (he was laughing because I was there yet again) I politely, but pointedly told him that my next complaint would be to the office. The base policy was that the SPs (security police) would come, confiscate his stereo system, and he would also have an appointment to "explain" to his 1st shirt his failure to follow the rules. Trust me, that's NOT a pleasant experience. He turned it down and it stayed down. FYI, in those days that system was valued at $2-3k.
The first one being Australians but Charlotte breaking out the English accent killed me 😂
Came here to say this 😂
Samesies 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 she tried
I think that happens every time she tries to do an Australian accent
Haha was looking for someone commenting on this 😂
I literally gaslit myself into thinking maybe they were British and I misheard them...😂😂 thanks for having my back besties
The first guy needs to confirm her story. Not saying she wasn't seeing him, she could just be trying to break them up so she can fully have him.
I know we all smile in weird moments. But you could hear the smile in between voice too. I don’t think that one was real. I don’t mind the fake ones. I typically like them. But that one felt really staged to me.
@Sarabella68 they weren't dating. They were hooking up. He admitted it and said "yea". It was all in secret and she had just found out the guy she had been hooking up with and liked had also been bi and hooking up with her friend. It wasn't a hard storyline to follow so watch it again. She said I know you've been seeing him in secret. At the point of the phone call the f-boy in the middle wasn't dating anyone, he was just fooling around with everyone. He's the d-bag here. The friends didn't even know each other was banging this guy until she found out right before she called.
@@sarahgump8225 she actually knew the guy was seeing her friend before she started seeing him. She says she ran into the guy at a party and they talked about him seeing her friend and he mentioned they weren't exclusive before he told her he was bi. And then she started hooking up with him. So she started seeing the guy knowing he was also seeing her friend and she didn't tell the friend anything until now, now that they've decided they're "starting to get serious". Both the guy and the girl suck here because she knew and they both kept it from the friend while the guy was still seeing both of them.
@@ellesbelles64but dating and hooking up are different. If the two guys were dating, I would say, ew that’s messed up, but if everyone’s just sleeping together, it seems like fair game to me. I dunno, I’m married so I see all the single stuff a little differently. I could be wrong.
@@sarahhunter1114 Still, it's messed up and sensless, it's rude. If YOUR FRIEND...FRIEND, is hooking up with someone, you simply DON'T get there and know who the boy is, know that he and your FRIEND are hooking up, and start hooking up with him too. What the fuck?
Clearly, it's not the same thing as dating, but it's RUDE, low character, FUCKED up! Hooking up with someone, whether you want to or not, means sharing moments and experiences, because your liking it or not, hooking up its not only about sex, it's the same thing as dating, but the difference is that they don't really date and that's why they hang out with more people, its a excuse to be able to hook up with other people.
The girl knew who the boy her friend hooked up with was, the girl knew that her friend had feelings for him, and STILL had sex and everything else with him, that his friend HAD TOO. She's shameless, she haves a bad character, she's an idiot, she's clueless, she's rude and senseless
"How are you not embarrassed?!" is a phrase uttered often in my house these days. We just love how you say it. It's iconic.
Not her basically saying "Thanks for being a pal and letting me stab you in the back"
With friends like her, who needs enemies?!! JEEZ...
B-But it's not her fault, she's just so much more chill than her friend...She's so chill that she's cool with being a homewrecker-
Who needs aneminoes with friends like her
0:04 seriously needs to be on the next merch line. “How are you not embarrassed!?!” With like a comic book style charlotte popping out of the comic panel. Food for thought ❤️❤️
Yes!!! I love this idea!!!!
I second this!!!
❤❤❤
I would buy it!!
I love this.
I had a downstairs neighbor who was a musician and would play instruments alllllll day long until 3-4am. So I took my Bose speaker and placed it face down on my hardwood floor and played bad bagpipes on max volume. When he would stop, I would stop. When he started again, I’d start again. Eventually I heard him laughing and he stopped 😂
And then you fell in love.. lol jk
Poor guy probably thought he had pissed off some angry Scottish spirits
That’s hilarious , clever way to do it 😂😂😂😂
At least he was a good sport about it
@@AmethystEyes LOLOL I wish!! i love an enemies to lovers arc! sadly he was just obnoxious
I can see the first guys heart breaking during this convo not only his man but his best friend… the audacity of her!!!!! Omg
Response to the "friend" stealing the boyfriend: "no, like, obviously it's fine, i mean I'm going to have like, SO much more time now since I won't be wasting any more of it with either of you!"
You need at least seven more "likes" in that sentence to fully mock her 😂
The full quote is "The customer is always right in matters of taste." It means let people buy the ugly stuff they like, not that they can treat employees like crap!
Thank you!!!!!!! So many of the sayings have been cut short!
Pull yourself up by your bootstraps is in a paragraph making fun of thinking that would work!
We're talking about farmers stuck in 9-10" of muck, you don't pull yourself up and out by your damn bootstraps; you'd literally fall on your face 😆
@@B.Harper7 my favorite is "curiosity killed the cat, satisfaction brought him back".
“Blood is thicker made in the covenant than the water of the womb” or whateva
@@astro_funky13the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
I did not know that, thank you! I've had about 6 years of customer service and I have never been a "customer is always right" kind of guy, you get the energy you give. I would bend over backwards for polite customers, but the rude ones had a very different shopping experience.
I kept waiting for him to be like. " so no we cant be friends and have the day you deserve" Im so sorry to the guy who was done so wrong! Ill be your friend! The guy you were seeing said you were too much so he went and found less...dont ever change for someone who cant see you for you ♥
The noise thing happens in reverse too. I and my little son (age 5) lived in an apartment bldg over a guy who was ill and on lots of meds. One night, I had a date and another couple over for dinner. We were a pretty quiet group, esp after 7:30 P.M. when my little one was in bed. Cop comes and we're sitting on the steps chatting over a glass of wine. He asks to see "the party scene" and I showed him around, incl opening the door slightly so he could see my boy fast asleep. Cop goes downstairs, raps on Mr Complaint's door and says, "what the hell is going on with you?!" He was NOT happy!!! He said that if we had been any more quiet it would've been a graveyard, and suggested that Mr Complaint go adjust whatever the hell he was taking and stop making crank calls to the police.
Oh the schadenfreude ✨
😂😂😂😂
satisfying comment of the day!
I would have paid good money to see that exchange😂😂😂😂
When I lived in an apt, I had someone complain about me when I had some friends over. Said we were yelling off the balcony. I did yell off the balcony ONCE, but that was like at 7:30pm, so not late at all, and all we did was drink and play some games. Didn’t even have any loud music or anything. But overnight management came to threaten to call the police if we didn’t keep it down, as someone had called “multiple times” to complain. So at 11pm my friends left so I wouldn’t get in trouble. 🙄🙄🙄 I was so thrilled to finally have a party, too. After that I made sure to always rent homes and not apartments.
You gave me goosebumps Charlotte. Goosebumps!😮??? 22:30
Yeah I picked up same vibe. Something to tell us, Charlotte??
The smile at the end felt like she's keeping something from us!
The plot... or the uterus thickens?!!
Seems like there might be a tiny tater tot in the future
Is that a hint??!!??? 🤞🫶
The first one - "i just think we're a better match" , "you're a bit over the top, im more chill" 🤯🤮
So funny so many of us picked up the amount of the word "like" on the first story it was hilarious but at the same time I really felt for the man omg the disrepect ! Anyone else thinking Charlotte and Mike would be awesome parents if they of course want a child one day 😄?
Best way I (and my ex) ever let the neighbors know they were being to loud giggity-ing was waiting for The Moment and applauding as loud as we could. Never heard them again.
That’s great, if im ever in this situation, im doing this
I used to cheer on a couple of people who lived in the apartment above me. "Git it, Daddy, git it.😂😂😂
That's the best thing ever
😂😂😂😂😂
Op I just want to let you that you made my day with this comment 😂😂 I will absolutely be using this now
I'm with the hairdresser. Don't vape in people's homes without permission. I had a woman do that once and she excused herself with: "It's okay. It's not a cigarette." No, it's not f*cking okay. And she had one of those cheap ones where the smoke really stinks.
A work colleague cannot get through a minute without vaping. My office is really tiny and I was wondering why I was getting light-headed - turns out secondhand vape effects are a thing
yeah i cannot imagine vaping in someone else’s home. I mean i only vape weed but that seems even worse 😂
Yes. It's astonishing how free some people are with doing whatever they want in someone else's home. Even if you're a friend, you don't act like trash. I once had a "friend" drop by unannounced and proceed to make a mess of my bathroom, including using my face towel to wipe off the back of her pants and drop it wet on the floor. Another time she wanted to come over and use MY bed to screw around with one of her boyfriends. Gross.
I literally refuse to get one of the buses I can get home from work after one time I was stuck in between 6 or so college students who all were holding vapes the entire hour I was on this bus with them and all puffed at least once every 30 seconds. I genuinely was so ready so scream at them by the time I got off (and I'm a pushover) and as soon as I got home I had a shower as I stunk of vape!
I work in a restaurant and the ppl work I with wouldn’t stop vaping inside and making me sick. I had to go to management to get them to stop and they made my asthma worse than what it was. Selfish people 😡
Paper thin walls? What you do is wait til the next day for a time you know the loud neighbor will be awake, bring a friend over, and start loudly telling your friend about how ridiculously loud your neighbor is and how you can hear EVERYTHING, and especially at night. 😂
What do you do when it’s your sister? Because mine does it twice a week knowing we don’t have a wall between our rooms and that I can hear everything, she does not care 🥲
@@Arkyn.h this is when you do the same back to her. She'll care if YOU make noise and disturb her.
@Arkyn.h start giving her partner a score based on her moans. In the morning, just let "hmmmm, I'd give that a 5. You didn't last as long as Wednesday night. I'd be disappointed"
A friend of mine and her husband dealt with their overly noisy, obnoxious, upstairs neighbors by making VERY loud "happy bedroom noises." When the neighbor complained, my friend looked at her and said, "Dont be jealous that MY husband finds me attractive and wants to jump on me at every opportunity. Maybe if you weren't yelling at yours all the time, he might want 'happy time' with you. Or better yet, if you're quieter from now on, we will be too."
I told mine to move their bed to the opposite wall and to turn the music up louder cuz i liked their playlist
18:40 I vape all the time but I've never vaped in someone's car or home without permission and I never smoke when I'm near children like it's just common sense
As for girl/guy code, the best characterization I've ever heard on the topic is from the pilot for Designing Women, when Suzanne started dating Mary Jo's ex-husband, trying to justify it as "the marriage is in the past, these things are over" -- to which Charlene claps back, "these things are never over; I'm sure Mary Jo has some old underwear she doesn't want either -- that doesn't mean she wants to see you in 'em".
@lgblgb7489 oh that's perfect!!!! I'll be looking into that! 💖
OMG I REMEMBER THIS❤❤❤I was a teenager when I saw it and just remember thinking "OH, SNAP!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
1st girl: no you mean we WERE friends
Love the first guy.. He was like "oh sure we're good" let the internet handle this. 😂😂 And it worked perfectly 😂
"I'm a bit more chill...." there is NOTHING chill about that conversation 😂😂😂
That first guy is a total sweetheart - more of a friend to her than she is to him! Who tells a friend something like this online????
He deserves better, with friends AND partners!! Can’t believe her audacity.
She’s nothing but a homie hopper
And he sent her to break off!!!! The audacity!!!
She will lose him the same way she got him! It’s a big fat red flag. Dude is obviously a coward and his future girlfriend he starts a relationship with while with her will be calling her to tell her too 😂
Yeah, people are so mad at her, saying she stole him, but you can't "steal" a free person, Caleb is a sh!t.
I'm sure he has no idea she's doing that.
Honestly I’m wondering if she’s lying
@@NikkiV. maybe that will explain all the “like” and the pauses in the conversation.
My heart breaks for the first guy. How you can do that to someone, especially your SO?
Yeah that poor guy! He looks rly hurt but he's staying calm & polite, he's not giving her the satisfaction of getting upset in front of her. Good for him!! I wish all the best for him, and I hope he finds a better relationship & a better friend too 🥺
"If you can tell the bruddah to like go soft" 😂😂 imagine being the guy who has to tell the couple to quieten down when they're in bed and maybe bite down on the pillow so she's making less noise 😂
"We're all good" - that man is far too sweet and forgiving.
THE AMOUNT OF TIMES THAT FIRST WOMAN SAID "LIKE" WAS DRIVING ME INSANE
I had to speed up the video
Did you count it?
Someone counted 67 "likes"
@@InteriorDesignStudent holy- .....the "like" girl needs a dictionary thrown at her.
I’m 72 and one of the highlights of my life was when my painful excessive bleeding finally stopped!!! There are benefits to getting old!
I had a hysterectomy at 37 and practically celebrated, lol
I just got an IUD, found out I had endometriosis the whole time and that's why I've suffered since I was 11.
I just hit 40 and I cannot wait.
@@natashapowell9445hugs
My chemo put me into early menopause at 45. Had one period since then and none since. I’m not mad about it. I used to have terrible cramps. I did find another use for my tampons tho. When I first started chemo, I used to get terrible nosebleeds. I found that sticking tampons in my nose was the best way to plug them. 😂😂 They were so bad, I once needed to change out the tampon on one side (completely bled thru it) and put in a super to get it to finally stop. Thankfully they stopped after a few months. Will donate the rest of my supply to a women’s shelter.
18:00 it DOES stink. All of those products stink. Cigarettes, cigars, vape - you name it. They all freaking STINK. And that stink clings to you, btw. I know smokers think they smell fine if they just air out, but they don't. That stuff lingers and gets stale which smells even worse
Not all vapes stink. 😂 my husband has vaped for over 10 years and never smells. His vape doesn't even smell. He smokes a cigar every few months and THAT smells AWFUL.
NO WAY!!! 19:54 is my friends and i at my best friends bachelorette party this june!!! It was absolutely insane! Krista is the girl that knocks. He was there for 2 days. He received the text two days prior. He was supposed to be in Michigan sick. We saw his night vision binoculars at around 1:30am the night prior watching us all in our bikinis in the hot tub that. The patio was 15 feet away from the garage that you had to cross a bridge to get to. If yall have any questions, id be happy to answer!
Wow, how scary and creepy for all of you! And how brave to go knock on the door, I’d be too chicken to do so, altho if my friends came with, maybe I could find some courage. Glad it ended ok.
I'm sorry NIGHT VISION BINOCULARS!? 😳😮 I would have called the police ngl
Ok, so how did your host know this guy?? Is Levi like part of the staff or something? How did he have access to that garage?
Oh my god! Creep! He planed this. If he’s a worker I hope he was fired. I hope you didn’t have to pay that air b and b! You had every right to call the police too
If he has night vision binoculars he’s definitely done this before.
When it comes to vaping, I switched from cigarettes to vape. I still vape. I treat it like my old cancer sticks. No smoking anywhere I wouldn't smoke before. As a smoker I will not tolerate my perfumed cloud to be invading other peoples clean air. Courtesy and respect. PERIOD.
Agreed. Like wine, many flavors. Don't litter, be aware, Smokey Bear, as a guest - ask. Courtesy matters. 🚬🚭
It’s very much appreciated by non-smokers. Unfortunately not all people who vape were once cigarette smokers. Where I live there were very few places to smoke as the dangers of 2nd hand smoking became more evident. Mostly the bans were around schools and restaurants especially those without spaces. Which means there is no real way for people to learn the proper etiquette around it.
People seem to think they puff out is okay but it’s essentially a hand held Shisha.
Your completely correct, I used to smoke cigs too and now Vape, there are specific smoking areas for a reason and I hate when ppl try and say otherwise like oh it’s literally just water vapor and blah blah blah, yes along with chemicals and if someone is bothered by that or it just isn’t apart of their lifestyle does not mean they should accommodate us, we should accommodate the non smokers who choose to keep that out of their life. The only time I feel like anyone is at fault for being apart of smoking/vaping when they choose not to do so is when a non smoker wants to stand in a smoking section and then complain that everyone is smoking 😂
@@alycenowens779honey it’s water vapor…
@@alycenowens779if you get it not premade… you should know there are no chemicals in it…
12:55 after a long night of enduring my neighbor’s karaoke party (I desperately needed sleep because I was training for a marathon), I decided that 6am the following morning was THE PERFECT TIME to give a tuba recital (why yes, I am a tuba player). Got a mic set up and everything. The petty is STRONG.
You, friend, are INCREDIBLE!! Keep on tuba-ing!!
I used to sing with friends on the bus as a kid. Apparently a girl got sick of it and blew her clarinet in my ear. I don't remember this 😅
A budget of $30k for a wedding just boggles my mind. Our wedding was about $3k, and it was beautiful. I cannot *fathom* spending that much on 1 day and being able to live with that. 😅
I was at this hotel once and it was like 130 in the morning and i could hear this couple going at it for awhile. I yelled out" hurry up and get her off and go to sleep already!."
I'd have called the front desk and asked them to call the other room. Nothing says stfu like a call from the front desk, b/c that tea is going to EVERYONE who works there!
21:00 she handled that like a champ!!! Seriously, there's nothing she needed to do differently! Her tone, the approach, having the host do all the talking , was polite, but assertive and shut his shit down with that last part " I don't have to justify this so I'm walking away" omg that was so satisfying to watch!! You're my hero!💪💪
She must be the group mom. Making sure everybody is good.
The first girl should know “if he can cheat with you, he can cheat on you.”
Bagging a cheater isn’t the flex she thinks it is. Such a Pick-Me.
She’s such a dipstick 😮
I always think of the classic and confirmed, hella cliche " the way you get them is how you'll lose them!" Let's not forget " If they can do it with you, they'll do it to you!" The simplest things that seem so obvious are sadly often overlooked and forgotten. I love him!!!! he deserves better people altogether. Clean house!!!❤
How kind is the first guy, seriously, I would have gone nuts. The betrayal! Imagine getting a call from your friend telling you that she has been with your boyfriend for a month without mentioning anything, he likes her more because she is better than you, and she still wants to be friends because you won't mind. On what planet are we??? She has zero considerations for his feelings.
The first one is how I realized I had a toxic best friend. She stole 2 guys from me. Neither were serious, but still. I had horrible self esteem back then and let it go. Then I wised up eventually, and haven’t seen her in like 20 years or something.
The guy whose BF was taken by his "friend" is a class act. Wow that level of control is next level.
I think he was in total shock. I wanted him to read her for filth and then block her and the ex.
I would not have been able to post on social media what I would have said to her.
Dodged a bullet. Guy who would cheat on him with his friend then be so cowardly that he sends her to break up with him. No one needs someone like that in their lives. Sure it hurts, but this is the kind of relationships you laugh over when recounting your narrow escapes.
As soon as I saw the title of the video I could hear you yell ‘how are you not embarrassed!!’ 😂
Definitely some of my favorite 😅❤ me too on the HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED
Yessssss!!!
Literally one of my favorite sayings now..
Got a lot of ppl to use it on😁😁😁😂 ❤it!
I love when she says that 😂😂
Fun story. I stayed at a hotel and the walls were way too thin. It wasn't just the bed but i could hear their 'voices' very clearly. After about an hourI got sick of it so said as if I was talking to someone across the room "can you guys give it rest? Its been over an hour." They immediately stopped.
The first girl is a true friend. He is not wasting his life with a bad partner. I think she did him a favour. He has 2 toxic less in his life. Hope he is going to be ok❤
Very true! Found out who they both *really* were.
I dont understand how he put up with her "like like this like that " that would drive me insane
First girl's boyfriend is still bi.
And he’ll do the same thing to her too and she’s stupid
Charlotte, as someone who used to work in a bank's Card Loss Prevention department, let me give you some advice. If you're traveling, call your credit card company BEFORE hand and put a travel notice on your card for the different places you'll be traveling to. This will make it much less likely for your card to get declined due to suspected fraud. Bank's have an algorithm that keeps track of your card spending habits. If all of a sudden you're in a different country, and there's no notice placed on the card, the algorithm will do its thing and block the card.
Oh that’s why my card got blocked last Xmas in Mexico???
@@Mama_Bear524, if you didn't place a travel notice on your card before you went, more than likely.
Most cards have an international number you can use on the back in such cases. You call, get your card unlocked, than have them place the travel notice for the remainder of your trip.
Keep in mind, though, that just because you place a travel notice doesn't necessarily mean your card won't be blocked. If you use it in an area that is currently trending in high fraud activity, it could still get locked. And yes, banks pay attention to that sort of thing.
This happened to me and when I called bank to find out the problem, a kind person carefully explained. They track your usual spending locations & amounts and block clear deviations. So I simply told bank my travel plans for next couple of weeks and then next month and where & how much I anticipated spending. Problem solved.
My bank must know I'm on the move bitch, because it never declines and I tell nobody. 😂
THIS! I learned this the hard way halfway across the country on a road trip. Fillin gas at 2 am and the card goes "Nah bich."
Let the bank know. It'll also help if your card gets stolen while on the trip
3:43 My brother went through this exact same thing … it’s taken him two years and therapy to get over not feeling good enough!!
Regarding the volume of activity. I was once told that a relative of mine and their significant other had gotten so fed up with the family above them (newcomers to the country, lots of them, with children) for making so much noise they put the speakers (80s version) facing the ceiling and blasted AC/DC. The bar down below called my relative wondering WTF they were doing. 🤣🤣🤣
@WournosFromTwitch 😂😂 I'm very familiar with those 80's sound systems. We had one for YEARS. We never put it above a '3' (out of '10') or else it would shake the walls of our house. As a teenager my son finally asked why never above 3. I told him to turn it up and then just watched him. He turned it back down quickly & then asked if he could turn it up full volume to see how loud it could be. After I covered my ears said to go for it. To say he was shocked is to put it mildly.
LITERALLY CANNOT STAND when folks say LIKE after almost EVERY WORD.. my brain melts ..
Ditto, that's like sooooooooo annoying, like.😂
It kinda makes me think of Shaggy from Scooby-Doo 😅
The first guy, him trying to not laugh at her is cracking me tf up 🤣🤣 “that’s a vibe”. I feel like he kept up appearances to move in the shadows.
Also can we get a “like” counter for her? My guess is over 100 😂
I counted that she said "like" around 68 times or so
You're welcome
I'd bet money she's gonna come crying to op in a few weeks or months cuz he cheating on her
They sent the wrong girl out to the garage. Send the craziest gal in your group. Put the fear of God in that Creeper.
You tag in that one friend who lives for vengeance 😂
Good idea!
I lived in an apartment where the neighbor's dining room window was diagonal to my bedroom. One day me and my husband at the time were getting buck wild and all of a sudden I heard people mimicking our sounds so loudly outside of our window. All we could do was laugh. We could never make friends with those neighbor's, but we remained cordial till we moved. 😅
When I was in my first year of Uni, I shared a wall with this guy who would sing into the early hours of the morning, and my way of letting him know it was by pulling out my keyboard turning the volume on max and playing the phantom of the opera over and over again.
I love this!
1:10 Um THATS NOT A FRIEND !!
thank You!!!!!
Um like um idk um if like um
Ya ... 😂
@@Orangesorbae😆😅🤣😂exactly
EXACTLY
With the vape situation, I cannot tell you how annoying I find it that people who vape say it doesn’t smell or it doesn’t affect people and just do it in the car with me or at any and every social gathering inside. I literally get an allergic reaction every time and I can smell it from a mile away. I always end up having to take allergy meds when I get home. My eyes burn and water, my nose starts running, I get a headache, and my throat ends up being scratchy afterwards.
And the smoke is terrible for you, especially the flavoured stuff! It causes popcorn lung.
I literally cant breathe because of my idiot workmate insisting that vaping is fine indoors because it smells better than cigarettes.
The stupidest thing is that it already makes them cough and wheeze, but it's ok because it is not cigarettes.
I swear some people.
As someone who vapes it’s entirely disrespectful to do it around people who are uncomfortable about it or it makes them sick!! sorry you had to deal with this!
It’s not even the smell for me, it’s the tackiness of thinking they can use it anywhere instead of going outside like smokers. I’ve seen people doing hits in Broadway shows, at indoor weddings, etc.
@@TheCrayonMasterit’s not SMOKE 🙄
“GIRL, I KNOW WHERE YOU BE AT!!!” I’m dead 💀💀💀 And her hair + makeup was on point.
"And OBviously we're friends, so like--" not anymore you ain't, bestie 😂💅
Yeah I would have cut her off and said that 🤣
for that first one I'd be contacting the guy SO fast to see if he really feels like this. Sending OPs friend AND the girl youve apparently been seeing to break up with a guy is SO sus to me. I got alarm bells of her making it up to try and chase OP away so she can have the guy for herself.
CHARLOTTE! That thing you said at the end made me scream lol. You sneaky little girl, moving in the shadows 🕵️♀️
Right?!?! Is she hinting she’s pregnant?!!!?!
I have been scrolling for several minutes looking for this exact comment... Was wondering if I was going to have to say it myself!
THANK YOU WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS OMG IS THERE A TINY CHARLOTTE ON THE WAY????
THANK YOU I was going crazy scrolling endlessly for this comment. Why is no one talking about that smirk???
OMG YAYYY WE’RE HERE❤ y’all last video or so she was so glowy haha. And the long pause I’m like 😏
Charlotte’s reactions to first story are pure gold. 🤣🤣🤣
She wasn't giving him a "life update" but more of a "LIKE update". 🤪🤣🤣🤣
I NEED SOME CHARLOTTE THIS MORNING. Thank you for making me giggle.
Happy birthday :)
Same here! Weird seeing this because my birthday is actually tomorrow😅 God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
That MISCHIEVOUS smirk at the end!! CHAR I swEAR if there’s little baby petty potatoes in the near future I’m gonna SCREAM
Right!? Bestie, you can't just drop a smirk like that and leave it at that! Hello??
So, I'm not the only one who caught that...
I came to the comments to see if it was just me that saw that. I was like wait a minute? Is she trying to tell us something 🥹🥹
Same! Omg! A baby potato???
Ahhh baby potato!!!! I also caught on to that! But I also have a baby so I don’t know if that’s just on my mind.
Omg I LOVEEEEE charlotte soooo much!!! ❤😂 she literally makes my day! I wished she posted more often
About that last part.. my sister was staying with us for about a week and she got her period. For more context, I'm pregnant. The night before she went back home, she told me I'm lucky to be pregnant because I don't have to get my period for a while. I told her thats true about the bleeding, but I still get cramps every few days(which is normal for me), I'm sick and tired all the time, and I eat constantly. Plus, the "period" after giving birth makes up for a minimum of ⅔ of the missed periods. 6-8(10 when I had my daughter) weeks straight of nonstop bleeding. Periods are awful but pregnancy is complete hell for most of us. Dont get me me wrong, its a beautiful experience... but its miserable
Wait till she has kids and mention how blissful it must be
@ladymissgd she'll probably never have kids because she doesnt want them and probably isnt meant to be a mother. However, she loves my kid who is 2 and sees how much of a struggle parenting is, especially with a neurodivergent kid. In other words, that'll never happen so she'll never fully get it
Omg YES! Both of my pregnancies had about 2 months of being comfortable. The rest was HELL. Everything hurt! I was so nauseous. My daughter played soccer with my bladder on the regular and my back felt like it would never recover. It didn’t.
"How are you not emBARASSSED??!" is now a common phrase within my household, hubby included 😂
Everyone complains about menopause. I’m getting old…blah blah blah. No more cramps, mood swings, accidents. I’m living La vida loca baby! 😂😂😂
Awesome!
For me once I got past the hot flashes it has been great, but those hot flashes are brutal for some of us.
I honestly can't wait ^^; I'm 44, about still a decade to go :(
Mine are horrible, I hope mine go away and the feet and leg twinges and the trouble sleeping @@bettyhuffman1731
Perimenopause is the worst though. Can’t get pregnant but still have to deal with the periods. The depression is already setting in. I’m not looking forward to 12 month period free milestone because that’s final nail in the coffin, and that’s going to break me.
I used to have friends like this, for a few months I was noticing patterns and finally said nope not for me. These are frenemies or even people who really just don't like or respect you and it'll keep happening if you allow it! Learning healthy boundaries was the best lesson for me!
That first chic is NOT his friend and he was WAY TOO NICE about it. Talking about they were trying to do right by him 🤬
That young woman who said "I like my men like I like my coffee...." It's a line from the movie Airplane and is pretty funny in context.
That first girl “like, umm, you know, like”… AHHHH learn some new vocabulary!!! 😂😂😂
mostly younger generations use like a lot and that drives me nuts 😂
You could hear the nervousness with all the filler words.
charlotte, you seem to be my tribe. i genuinely and wholesomely enjoy your videos. my wife showed me a video of yours a while a go, she watches too. I get vibes, you have amazing vibes, thank you for sharing your positivity and genuine nature.
The way the air bnb girl said i dont need to justify myself and walked away 😍 i always feel the need to justify myself and explain my actions and shes right she doesn’t need to and neither do i
The way I would have hung up and blocked that first girl the minute she revealed she was seeing my boyfriend. She's delulu to think she's still friends with this guy. Run bestie! Run!!
22:33 that look is tellin us something!!! xD
It was a knowing look.
Yea I think it was a hint lol
It did feel kind of hinty, but could just be that 'I know you've thought about It too' look
I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY THAT Oooohhhh 😏😏😏😏😏
@Sharki_V She has definitely been extra ✨️glowy✨️ lately! 🫢🥰😍
Love the guy’s self confidence. “Love this for him”!
2:04 We WERE friends! 😮
I am gutted for him!
Hello my fellow Petty Family, our beloved family pet of 16 years had a large mass cell cancer tumor removed on Friday and she’s been having a hard time, especially after recovering from stroke in March. If you could all keep Gracie in your thoughts, love, prayers, and send imaginary pets we would be tearfully grateful. 💕💗💕
I'm so sorry about Gracie. I know how hard it is when your fur baby isn't well. I'll definitely keep her in my thoughts, and I'll say a prayer. Giving her long-distance head pats and good girls ❤
All my cuddles and love for you and Gracie. ❤
@@abigailsaraThank you sincerely, Abigail!🥺🙏 It really means the world. It’s not fair for such innocent pure beings to have to experience pain, I just wish I could take it from her.
@@42boo_duhsThank you, Amanda!🥺💗
Sending alllll of the pets to Gracie and lots of love to the both of you! I hope everything works out! ❤
New fear unlocked. Just stayed at an air B&B in the country and the only part of the property we were told we had no access to was a locked shed on the property. My innocent self just assumed there were personal items/tools the property owner didn't want people touching/using. The house was well equipped with everything anyone could possibly need and then some. Now I'm spooked!
Omg that coral color looks AMAZING on Charlotte!
Whew! Could that girl say “like” anymore?!? I couldn’t talk to her for more than 30 seconds!
13:45 The song Cotton Eyed Joe is supposed to be about STDs! 🤣 That’s too funny!!
What?! I’m 38 and that was played at every event when I was middle school, like the dances, games, etcetera! I’ve literally never heard this before!
Wait.. how?
No it's not, it's about a dude who stole a man's girl because she nursed his eye
blasting cbat is best at this point, dude will have no choice but to match the tempo lmao
It may be now, but the original version, as written, was about him stealing someone's SO, and a threat towards him, if he didn't stop trying to break them up he'd feel the consequences..
"Honestly, I choose the bear" 😂😂😂 And yes....We've all had period trauma. I was in 4th grade (8 yrs old), in math class. The whole class saw my premiere 🙌 adding to my humiliation, I was the first to have it and the teacher got bombarded with questions from 8-yr olds 😂
2:17 Bestie, that’s not your friend 💀
That last clip though loooool I remember being on a trampoline and being quietly asked down by my friend's mum. She pointed out that I was bleeding through my jeans. I was moooooortified.
Wow!! That woman was talking out the side of her mouth! How in the world is he supposed to be okay and want to hang out with THEM!! I so wanted him to be over the top about this betrayal. ☹️
@@jinxypop13 well the audacity of thinking of what she was doing “is like ok…..”