Love that you mention connecting with your inner child thru style. I made a little collage recently for my home Reno and decor it's called "where my inner child can finally come home" 🖤
Wilingness to do upkeep is such an element! I could never be bothered to blow out my hair or do my bangs everyday, but doing a full vintage wet set once a week and styling every day os fun for me and brings me joy!
Had to laugh when you brought up inner child and movie/ book/ TV characters. My inner child has been sitting on my lap all my life! 😆 I grew up in the 90s watching 1930s/40s films never realizing how those eras influenced my style until someone else brought it to my attention. Somehow I am simultaneously young at heart and an old soul. ... if Chris Cornell and Linda Darnell had a baby girl, she'd be me 😁
My dominant sign is Scorpio (Moon, mercury and venus) but I'm not a big fan of the dark aesthetic because my personal style is more of a soft girl look. One day I decided to experiment a bit and bought a black lacey bodycon dress and it was the best thing I've ever worn. It still maintained a romantic flair due to lace but it was also typically sexy and bolder, just gorgeous. I am a winter color wise too so black is very flattering.
I love this journey! Especially as a winter, black wont necessarily automatically look "dark" on you but very natural so since you're going for a soft girl aesthetic you wont have a problem 🖤 and the beauty of Scorpio energy, its not necessarily dark all the time & there are a variety of ways to dress for it!
@@silkymochi I'd like to see some examples (I don't remember if you have a Scorpio rising/scoprio video) because most tiktok videos make it about Gothic fashion and I don't know how to accommodate my personal style 🥲
@@peggysyri3193I feel like the example of Grace Kelly or even Elsa from Frozen is a good example of non dark Scorpio energy. I like to think of it as Ice Queen energy. The icy blues, brilliant whites would work wonders, especially as Scorpio is a sign of extremes. Blonde hair would further accentuate the icy look but for more contrast black hair would also look stunning. There are so many ways to play with this style and still channel that Scorpio energy.
I've started to buy new clothes after years of not thinking much about it and gainning some weight. And I realized that most of them look like my favorite clothes from childhood, with some different details or colors, because I am an adult + my taste has changed/evolved, but I can see the similarities.
I would really love if you could do a video on channeling the dark aesthetic, without the conventional dark goth makeup. For example using even shimmer and pastels to have that undercurrent. I think you touched upon it in one of your other videos on dark essences with Kitchener essences. But would be great to see your take on it.
Melyssa, you're becoming one of my style inspirations! I recently discovered your channel, I was so intrigued by your thoughts on fashion because you have a similar vibe and aesthetic that I am creating for myself. This video officially confirmed that you are my style soulmate because literally everything you said word from word resonated with me. It's kind of freaky how much it resonated with me. Your channel is truly a godsend!! I am also a dark winter and I also dyed my hair black and I have baby bangs now. I had short hair in the past that would flip out and drove me insane and I had curtain bangs a few months ago which did nothing for me and then my confidence skyrocketed the moment I cut my baby bangs and realized that this is the low-maintenance hair style that I always dreamed of. I could not agree more about how important it is to have a hairstyle you can actually manage and it only took until my mid-twenties to discover what works for me. Although I am still determined to master Dita's vintage pincurls eventually! You're also always wearing black in all of your videos and my entire wardrobe is black as well. I''m not goth but I guess my final form is giving off witchy vampire femme fatale vibes with a more subtle, office appropriate, classy, modern and relaxed twist. I'm heavily influenced by Dita Von Teese and her color palette. So I love that you referenced her as well as Morticia Addams, 90s Angelina Jolie and Winona Ryder in this video. Finally someone gets me! OMG when you were talking about your inner child. Yes, that makes so much sense! I think we know our truest selves when we are children before life happens and then we lose our sense of self the more we conform to the latest trends and attempt fitting in rather than standing out. I think anyone starting their style journey should start with Kibbe then Color Season then Kitchener Essence and then the final touch is reconnecting with their inner child and remembering what they were drawn to when they were children when they did not fear judgement or impressing anyone else. So you are definitely on to something about inner child playing a role in one's signature look. I wear outfits now that I know my 8 year old self or teenage self would absolutely love and that makes me feel even more confident knowing that I'm making my inner child/younger self proud. That's the only person anyone should want to impress, no one else. I completely understand what you mean by thinking of yourself as a character with a signature look. I did not feel as though I had main character energy in my own life until I carefully crafted my look. Obviously working on your inner self is more important than working on your outer self because that is the bulk of who you are. But it was not until I felt confident about my own appearance and I had my own style that I transitioned from secondary character mentality to main character mentality. You also hit the nail on the head about finding your scent/perfume. I literally just stumbled across mine. Obviously everyone wants to smell good and there are more than plenty of options. You can wear a different scent for every occasion. But when you're wearing the right scent that encapsulates what you imagine your aesthetic/vibe/essence/color season smelling like (if that makes sense) it's quite literally the cherry on top of your signature look. I recently found the perfect perfume that does this for me and I kid you not, it enhances the look I'm going for. You would't think it would have such a powerful effect but it does. I am also an amateur astrologer but the funny thing is I don't feel as though my Gemini sun and venus, Aquarius moon and rising or Taurus mars or mercury are where my fashion is influenced by. Or maybe it's there but I'm just not seeing it yet. So I'm kind of at a complete loss as to where in may birth chart and my fashion sense correlate. I was wondering if you could please do a video on each one of the zodiac signs and the aesthetics and signature looks you associate with that sign and why. I understand that it would be entirely your opinion and not based on an actual system but I'd love to hear your thoughts. Anyway, I wasn't planning on writing you a novel but I had so much to comment on. This video was not only helpful but it's comforting to relate to someone with pretty much the same style inspirations as myself while navigating the intimidating and overwhelming world of Kibbe, Kitchener, Color Season and Fashion and creating my own place in that world. I love what you're doing, please keep up the good work! ❤
I am absolutely honored by your entire analysis and speechless by how kind you are 🖤 I also love that you resonate with so much! So thank you (to literally everything) As for the astrology & resonating with it, definitely a very subjective thing but can be fun when delving into it and I do plan on doing individual astrology videos like "Aries energy" and include muses, themes & aesthetics that remind me of that energy. And I absolutely appreciate you understanding all my astrology style analysis is just my opinion but still wanting to hear it and that means so much 🖤 I have a lot planned content wise so I hope you enjoy the journey, thank you for your beautiful message!
Just recently I finally discovered (after decades) that my actual color season is a light spring. I always loved these colors in early childhood. They're so innocent and youthful and despite being in my mid-late 40s I still get guessed 10 years younger. And I realized the kibbe type that fits the most is theatrical romantic. Always delicate, small hourglass and just 154cm. Despite having aries as my sun and venus, my rising sign is taurus and it's also present in my mercury and lilith. Maybe this is why I'm drawn towards soft, feminine styles and some boldness and edge added here and there as an accent. Plus after many years I now went back to my old beloved fragrance I wore in late 90s/early 2000. It's sweet, it's vanilla and fruity and I finally feel home again in my skin. It's called Lolita Lempicka and I'm glad they still produce the original version from 1997! 💖 At the same time after finding back to myself and what I love the most I am afraid I might appear as too childish or girl like or not "mature" enough and not taken seriously. Already being petite and being light spring that's a bit of a challenge. But I also don't want to deny myself anymore to any social standards. Just 2 days ago I was told I'm "too old" for a short floral skirt I wore that day. That comment hurt me more than I was expecting as it hit me on a deeper level. It hit me at my core, what I actually am and this is what was getting harshly rejected and forbidden. Is society so harsh and unforgiving if you don't fit in the usual categories?
Getting baby bangs was the best thing I did for my style and my hair maintenance. I actually find that having these bangs has helped me be able to wear my hair down and the bangs like you said as long as they dry in place are good to go. I don't even blow dry mine just comb them down.
Yes you get it!!! Some people assume its high maintenance but its not bad at all, & I do that too when Im feeling sleepy I just brush it forward and my bangs are still good in the morning 🙌🏼
I'm still between Soft Classic and Soft Natural, I was disheartened thinking that micro bangs could never look good on me, I'm glad to know I can still try, you look amazing.
I understand! I recommend trying them & knowing theres a PLETHORA of microbangs styles that you can choose from! I started out with clip on bangs & eventually just got them done for real lol I landed on a up curved (mountain shape) microbang to balance my dramatic essence face but theres also U Shaped like Bettie Page, a straight shape, super super short like baby bangs etc to choose from
I’m so happy I found your videos! I am an astrologer who has been studying Kibbe for years. Now learning Kitchener. I have a pisces stellium and I loooove dark asthetics 😍💫✨🖤
I feel like you are the dark version of me. Lol. I'm blonde/grey and light summer. Gemini, inspired by very airy but elemental style. Loved this vid! I'm also a designer and have a very long Canva document about style. I've considered making workbooks/worksheets. I bet you would be great at that!
I love that! Youre the brighter / Gem version of me 🖤 and I absolutely love that, I'm personally not familiar with Canva, Im pretty obsessed with Illustrator lol but I do have a worksheet on my website! Definitely more to come since I've only done one 🥲
Okay well, you’re my new favorite channel. I’m really drawn to this type of content and you seem really knowledgeable and you’re very chill, which I appreciate. I really love the vibe and aesthetic 🖤
Melyssa you’re really soft spoken and create a beautiful aura towards this theme. I appreciate the work you do, it’s helping me find my very own style which has been difficult even after studying fashion and styling for nearly 10 years due to poor self esteem and struggling with my own self worth. I’m happy to learn with you and apply this knowledge alongside your videos.
I feel very safe to explore these topics with someone so empathetic. I’ve always been conscious buying my clothing and have tried to align and explore my own style. But i haven’t really managed to make it look appropriate for my body, until today I learned about body my actual body proportions and how I can use my essence to give it a special turn to my wardrobe. It can be tricky when you’re a designer and can adapt easily into different styles and I have lost my essence this way. I’m looking forward to figure all the fun clothing I can find after watching your videos. Thanks again!
I find your approach to fashion and the way you articulate your ideas to be very intriguing. I don't know if you're trying for an Ingenue-Goth vibe, but that is my impression. It's a fresh take on a dark aesthetic, to me. Interestingly, my style aesthetic is nothing like yours, even though I'm a Soft Natural and a fellow creative too. Sporty Boho? (I'm a Sagittarius with Libra rising, like Brittney Spears, but way older.) Not even sure how to describe it and maybe that's part of the problem of nailing down my aesthetic. Much food for thought....
The moment you said sporty soft natural I immediately thought of Britney! A more relaxed athletic look sounds super flattering on a SN so keep experimenting with that, I think that already speaks to your Libra but Sag reminds me of edgier details Also thank you! I always loved a dark aesthetic but never knew what to call it but I love that you get an ingenue goth vibe 🖤 I really you appreciate you watching my content despite our different aesthetics, hoping I offer some fun tid bits ✨
@@silkymochi Thanks for your prompt response to my comment! I also watched your TH-cam video about astrological styles and am considering that. Cool stuff!
I have a Cancer rising, and a Sagittarius sun. I do tend to gravitate towards more pastel and girly feminine floral styles. However, my Venus in Scorpio and other Scorpio placements help me also oscillate towards more dark or goth, even vampiric styles. My Cancer rising is ruled by the Moon, so it's just natural that it would oscillate between the dark and light sides of the Moon. Plus, I'm both Neptunian and Plutonian, so I do like to morph lol. I like digging into those archetypes for inspiration. I do feel it in my fashion sense. Great video!
I'm honored! Put your socials in the comments so people can find you 🖤 but I'm glad you're making videos, sometimes the hardest part is starting lol but hope you keep going!
Only issue is my hair is really thin and i dont have a lot of it for hair updoes... Especially these braids i really like on people that are super thick. I like many updoes. But i hate using heating irons and chemicals in my hair. So its hard for me.
Such a great and helpful video!! I really appreciated you sharing your story about the baby cologne from Philippines and I resonate strongly with the idea of tapping into the younger version of yourself and doing things she would be proud of 🥰 thank you for your content!
I have so many double signs and one triple and I honestly relate to them all . Sun pisces, mercury pisces , Lilith pisces , moon Aries , Venus Aries , Mars cancer , Midheaven cancer , Jupiter libra , Rising sign Libra , Uranus capricorn, Neptune Capricorn. I'm literally all the elements 😂 🌊 💨🔥🌎 and I think I can see all in the way I dress , although some more than others which is very interesting
I'm a soft dramatic ingenue with true winter color palette. How do I find my style dressing for summer, especially tropical weather. I hate wearing super tight fitting dresses or short short, especially the jean shorts. Should I just settle for linen pant and silk top? That's just seem too boring to me. 😢😢🙏🙏🙏
I’m still working on the other things, but signature scent is one thing I think I have down. My friend has never smelled Glossier You on me, but she smelled the bottle in store the other day and immediately said how much it felt like me 🤔 I actually don’t wear it very often (I mainly only use Native deodorant on the daily), only really for formal settings/when I get dressed up, so I thought that was an interesting take. I’m wondering if it’s bc it’s a unisex scent and I tend to have an dash of masculine energy in the way I carry myself/dress
Glossier's You has a lovely Peppery scent! I recommend getting a sample esp since it reminded your friend of you which is super sweet! I'm with you though, some days my Blackberry Green Tea Native deodorant is good enough for me, I'm obsessed with that scent
@@silkymochi I really like the Cucumber Mint(?) scent from Native, it smells so fresh! I have the full bottle of Glossier You (I really want the rollerball, but I’ve barely made a dent in the bottle so why get it 😂). I’ve had the bottle for two years and I can seeing it lasting me many more before I buy a new one
Oh I misunderstood 😂 sorry I missed that you have it! Yeah only get what you need and it lasts forever! Idk what it is about native but they got good scents
Hi! I absolutely LOVE your content and am really looking forward to buying one of your body style guides. Do you think you could do a video on style types with some plus size/fat women as examples? I love dark essence looks but oftentimes many mainstream venues only feature straight sized models so it’s hard to imagine what type I would be. No pressure if this isn’t something you’d want to do, but thought I’d ask cause I love your TikTok’s and TH-cam videos :) corp goth is my fav look and I get so much inspo from you!
Thank you so much 🖤 and I will try to include more plus size & curvy muses in my videos for dark aesthetics! I do apologize, I feel like Hollywood/Model industry lacks so much diversity and even more so for dark/alt looks but I do try to show more representation in the stores I recommend like how Micheline Pitt or Foxblood & how they showcase more plus size models as well as a dark aesthetic ✨
Great vid as usual! I am curious now, I know you speak often on some of your irl style muses, but now I'm curious who your fictional, animated, and video game character muses are?🥰
Such a good question! And definitely potential to make a video on this But at the top of my head I draw a lot of inspiration from Nana Osaki from Nana & Yukari from Paradise Kiss, I also have been told my harness outfits remind them of Tifa Lockheart which makes sense since she's my favorite Final Fantasy Character! But my all time favorite videogame muse is Yennefer from the Witcher 🖤
Thank you so much. Love this ❤ My Sun is in Scorpio, my Moon in Gemini and Cancer rising and Venus in Sagittarius. I was told I have Cancerian body but a very playful and romantic personality. My dominant sign would be Sagittarius.
Im so glad you loved this 🖤 Sagittarius tends to have a very powerful essence but that Cancer rising will always be there & as an Ascending it may even be more prevalent as you get older since they say you Ascend into it lol
I believe it was KVD lip gloss in Dahlia which is discontinued unfortunately :( I'm going through what I have left but About Face in Wicked Apple looks similar but havent had a chance to try it yet
I think Sagittarius really lends itself to grunge fashion where it's very carefree, DIY, adorned with elements that have sentimental meaning from places they've been to or fandoms they're a part of. Capricorn stereotypically is associated with business looks but I think a more broad way of looking at it is different aesthetics that have structure and tailoring whether its suits or corsets. Pisces is very dreamy and ethereal, pieces that have sheerness, texture interest and unexpected design details. You can also go literal: Sagittarius can have archer/arrow motifs, centaur symbolism, and Fire inspired pieces. Capricorn calls for more earthy tones but I personally see them as greyish neutrals, a literal way of accessorizing is wearing a goat metal head necklace or the full seagoat which you can find beautiful jewelry with these motifs. For Pisces, a nod to the two fish symbol, yin + yang, or dark oceanic and mermaid esque motifs Hopefully I gave enough insight to help! Im hoping to do individualized videos focusing on each sign!
There's a lot to cover but I include time stamps; all of my tiktoks are shorter formed though if long videos aren't for you. I use my channel for longer discussion topics 🤷🏻♀️
Love that you mention connecting with your inner child thru style. I made a little collage recently for my home Reno and decor it's called "where my inner child can finally come home" 🖤
I absolutely love that! And I'm from Nevada too, but from Vegas 🖤
Wilingness to do upkeep is such an element! I could never be bothered to blow out my hair or do my bangs everyday, but doing a full vintage wet set once a week and styling every day os fun for me and brings me joy!
Exactly! You gotta follow your joy and it further indicates whats meant to be your signature look!
Had to laugh when you brought up inner child and movie/ book/ TV characters. My inner child has been sitting on my lap all my life! 😆 I grew up in the 90s watching 1930s/40s films never realizing how those eras influenced my style until someone else brought it to my attention. Somehow I am simultaneously young at heart and an old soul. ... if Chris Cornell and Linda Darnell had a baby girl, she'd be me 😁
I love that so much 🖤 makes sense to me, young at heart + old soul lol also I love Audioslave!
My dominant sign is Scorpio (Moon, mercury and venus) but I'm not a big fan of the dark aesthetic because my personal style is more of a soft girl look. One day I decided to experiment a bit and bought a black lacey bodycon dress and it was the best thing I've ever worn. It still maintained a romantic flair due to lace but it was also typically sexy and bolder, just gorgeous. I am a winter color wise too so black is very flattering.
I love this journey! Especially as a winter, black wont necessarily automatically look "dark" on you but very natural so since you're going for a soft girl aesthetic you wont have a problem 🖤 and the beauty of Scorpio energy, its not necessarily dark all the time & there are a variety of ways to dress for it!
@@silkymochi I'd like to see some examples (I don't remember if you have a Scorpio rising/scoprio video) because most tiktok videos make it about Gothic fashion and I don't know how to accommodate my personal style 🥲
Grace Kelly is a Scorpio Rising and a Classic. normally I think of classic as very formal or dramatic just like Scorpio. But Grace looks very sweet.
@@peggysyri3193I feel like the example of Grace Kelly or even Elsa from Frozen is a good example of non dark Scorpio energy. I like to think of it as Ice Queen energy. The icy blues, brilliant whites would work wonders, especially as Scorpio is a sign of extremes. Blonde hair would further accentuate the icy look but for more contrast black hair would also look stunning. There are so many ways to play with this style and still channel that Scorpio energy.
I've started to buy new clothes after years of not thinking much about it and gainning some weight. And I realized that most of them look like my favorite clothes from childhood, with some different details or colors, because I am an adult + my taste has changed/evolved, but I can see the similarities.
We always go back to our roots even if its evolved, its like healing our inner child 🖤
I would really love if you could do a video on channeling the dark aesthetic, without the conventional dark goth makeup. For example using even shimmer and pastels to have that undercurrent. I think you touched upon it in one of your other videos on dark essences with Kitchener essences. But would be great to see your take on it.
So actually I cover a bit of that this week! I'm still editing the video but you'll see that in my Dark Ethereal essence video!
Melyssa, you're becoming one of my style inspirations! I recently discovered your channel, I was so intrigued by your thoughts on fashion because you have a similar vibe and aesthetic that I am creating for myself. This video officially confirmed that you are my style soulmate because literally everything you said word from word resonated with me. It's kind of freaky how much it resonated with me. Your channel is truly a godsend!!
I am also a dark winter and I also dyed my hair black and I have baby bangs now. I had short hair in the past that would flip out and drove me insane and I had curtain bangs a few months ago which did nothing for me and then my confidence skyrocketed the moment I cut my baby bangs and realized that this is the low-maintenance hair style that I always dreamed of. I could not agree more about how important it is to have a hairstyle you can actually manage and it only took until my mid-twenties to discover what works for me. Although I am still determined to master Dita's vintage pincurls eventually!
You're also always wearing black in all of your videos and my entire wardrobe is black as well. I''m not goth but I guess my final form is giving off witchy vampire femme fatale vibes with a more subtle, office appropriate, classy, modern and relaxed twist. I'm heavily influenced by Dita Von Teese and her color palette. So I love that you referenced her as well as Morticia Addams, 90s Angelina Jolie and Winona Ryder in this video. Finally someone gets me!
OMG when you were talking about your inner child. Yes, that makes so much sense! I think we know our truest selves when we are children before life happens and then we lose our sense of self the more we conform to the latest trends and attempt fitting in rather than standing out. I think anyone starting their style journey should start with Kibbe then Color Season then Kitchener Essence and then the final touch is reconnecting with their inner child and remembering what they were drawn to when they were children when they did not fear judgement or impressing anyone else. So you are definitely on to something about inner child playing a role in one's signature look. I wear outfits now that I know my 8 year old self or teenage self would absolutely love and that makes me feel even more confident knowing that I'm making my inner child/younger self proud. That's the only person anyone should want to impress, no one else.
I completely understand what you mean by thinking of yourself as a character with a signature look. I did not feel as though I had main character energy in my own life until I carefully crafted my look. Obviously working on your inner self is more important than working on your outer self because that is the bulk of who you are. But it was not until I felt confident about my own appearance and I had my own style that I transitioned from secondary character mentality to main character mentality.
You also hit the nail on the head about finding your scent/perfume. I literally just stumbled across mine. Obviously everyone wants to smell good and there are more than plenty of options. You can wear a different scent for every occasion. But when you're wearing the right scent that encapsulates what you imagine your aesthetic/vibe/essence/color season smelling like (if that makes sense) it's quite literally the cherry on top of your signature look. I recently found the perfect perfume that does this for me and I kid you not, it enhances the look I'm going for. You would't think it would have such a powerful effect but it does.
I am also an amateur astrologer but the funny thing is I don't feel as though my Gemini sun and venus, Aquarius moon and rising or Taurus mars or mercury are where my fashion is influenced by. Or maybe it's there but I'm just not seeing it yet. So I'm kind of at a complete loss as to where in may birth chart and my fashion sense correlate. I was wondering if you could please do a video on each one of the zodiac signs and the aesthetics and signature looks you associate with that sign and why. I understand that it would be entirely your opinion and not based on an actual system but I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Anyway, I wasn't planning on writing you a novel but I had so much to comment on. This video was not only helpful but it's comforting to relate to someone with pretty much the same style inspirations as myself while navigating the intimidating and overwhelming world of Kibbe, Kitchener, Color Season and Fashion and creating my own place in that world. I love what you're doing, please keep up the good work! ❤
I am absolutely honored by your entire analysis and speechless by how kind you are 🖤 I also love that you resonate with so much! So thank you (to literally everything)
As for the astrology & resonating with it, definitely a very subjective thing but can be fun when delving into it and I do plan on doing individual astrology videos like "Aries energy" and include muses, themes & aesthetics that remind me of that energy. And I absolutely appreciate you understanding all my astrology style analysis is just my opinion but still wanting to hear it and that means so much 🖤
I have a lot planned content wise so I hope you enjoy the journey, thank you for your beautiful message!
Just recently I finally discovered (after decades) that my actual color season is a light spring. I always loved these colors in early childhood. They're so innocent and youthful and despite being in my mid-late 40s I still get guessed 10 years younger. And I realized the kibbe type that fits the most is theatrical romantic. Always delicate, small hourglass and just 154cm. Despite having aries as my sun and venus, my rising sign is taurus and it's also present in my mercury and lilith. Maybe this is why I'm drawn towards soft, feminine styles and some boldness and edge added here and there as an accent.
Plus after many years I now went back to my old beloved fragrance I wore in late 90s/early 2000. It's sweet, it's vanilla and fruity and I finally feel home again in my skin. It's called Lolita Lempicka and I'm glad they still produce the original version from 1997! 💖
At the same time after finding back to myself and what I love the most I am afraid I might appear as too childish or girl like or not "mature" enough and not taken seriously. Already being petite and being light spring that's a bit of a challenge. But I also don't want to deny myself anymore to any social standards. Just 2 days ago I was told I'm "too old" for a short floral skirt I wore that day. That comment hurt me more than I was expecting as it hit me on a deeper level. It hit me at my core, what I actually am and this is what was getting harshly rejected and forbidden. Is society so harsh and unforgiving if you don't fit in the usual categories?
Omg this seems like my new favorite fashion TH-cam channel ❤🎉
Getting baby bangs was the best thing I did for my style and my hair maintenance. I actually find that having these bangs has helped me be able to wear my hair down and the bangs like you said as long as they dry in place are good to go. I don't even blow dry mine just comb them down.
Yes you get it!!! Some people assume its high maintenance but its not bad at all, & I do that too when Im feeling sleepy I just brush it forward and my bangs are still good in the morning 🙌🏼
I'm still between Soft Classic and Soft Natural, I was disheartened thinking that micro bangs could never look good on me, I'm glad to know I can still try, you look amazing.
I understand! I recommend trying them & knowing theres a PLETHORA of microbangs styles that you can choose from! I started out with clip on bangs & eventually just got them done for real lol
I landed on a up curved (mountain shape) microbang to balance my dramatic essence face but theres also U Shaped like Bettie Page, a straight shape, super super short like baby bangs etc to choose from
I’m so happy I found your videos! I am an astrologer who has been studying Kibbe for years. Now learning Kitchener. I have a pisces stellium and I loooove dark asthetics 😍💫✨🖤
Im so honored when Astrologers follow me 🥹🖤 & I love that we share a strong Pisces energy, it fits into most dark aesthetics PERFECTLY
I feel like you are the dark version of me. Lol. I'm blonde/grey and light summer. Gemini, inspired by very airy but elemental style. Loved this vid! I'm also a designer and have a very long Canva document about style. I've considered making workbooks/worksheets. I bet you would be great at that!
I love that! Youre the brighter / Gem version of me 🖤 and I absolutely love that, I'm personally not familiar with Canva, Im pretty obsessed with Illustrator lol but I do have a worksheet on my website! Definitely more to come since I've only done one 🥲
Okay well, you’re my new favorite channel. I’m really drawn to this type of content and you seem really knowledgeable and you’re very chill, which I appreciate. I really love the vibe and aesthetic 🖤
Awww thank you 🥹🖤 lets tell my dad my fashion degree is coming in handy lol but seriously I appreciate you being here 🖤
I'm also a pisces rising, soft natural and dark winter < 33 I'm so glad I found your channel
Thank you for being here 🖤 hoping my content resonates!
Melyssa you’re really soft spoken and create a beautiful aura towards this theme. I appreciate the work you do, it’s helping me find my very own style which has been difficult even after studying fashion and styling for nearly 10 years due to poor self esteem and struggling with my own self worth. I’m happy to learn with you and apply this knowledge alongside your videos.
I feel very safe to explore these topics with someone so empathetic. I’ve always been conscious buying my clothing and have tried to align and explore my own style. But i haven’t really managed to make it look appropriate for my body, until today I learned about body my actual body proportions and how I can use my essence to give it a special turn to my wardrobe. It can be tricky when you’re a designer and can adapt easily into different styles and I have lost my essence this way. I’m looking forward to figure all the fun clothing I can find after watching your videos. Thanks again!
I checked out your pins about Aquarius energy and was AMAZED to see my signature hair and makeup there! 😳🖤
I find your approach to fashion and the way you articulate your ideas to be very intriguing. I don't know if you're trying for an Ingenue-Goth vibe, but that is my impression. It's a fresh take on a dark aesthetic, to me. Interestingly, my style aesthetic is nothing like yours, even though I'm a Soft Natural and a fellow creative too. Sporty Boho? (I'm a Sagittarius with Libra rising, like Brittney Spears, but way older.) Not even sure how to describe it and maybe that's part of the problem of nailing down my aesthetic. Much food for thought....
The moment you said sporty soft natural I immediately thought of Britney! A more relaxed athletic look sounds super flattering on a SN so keep experimenting with that, I think that already speaks to your Libra but Sag reminds me of edgier details
Also thank you! I always loved a dark aesthetic but never knew what to call it but I love that you get an ingenue goth vibe 🖤 I really you appreciate you watching my content despite our different aesthetics, hoping I offer some fun tid bits ✨
@@silkymochi Thanks for your prompt response to my comment! I also watched your TH-cam video about astrological styles and am considering that. Cool stuff!
My sun twins are Bob Dylan and Prince. And Im also from Minnesota. Im so proud of this it’s actually embarrassing 😂
I have a Cancer rising, and a Sagittarius sun. I do tend to gravitate towards more pastel and girly feminine floral styles. However, my Venus in Scorpio and other Scorpio placements help me also oscillate towards more dark or goth, even vampiric styles. My Cancer rising is ruled by the Moon, so it's just natural that it would oscillate between the dark and light sides of the Moon. Plus, I'm both Neptunian and Plutonian, so I do like to morph lol. I like digging into those archetypes for inspiration. I do feel it in my fashion sense. Great video!
i love your videos! it inspired me to make my own videos & blog posts about kibble + astrology 😊 thank you for sharing with us 💕
I'm honored! Put your socials in the comments so people can find you 🖤 but I'm glad you're making videos, sometimes the hardest part is starting lol but hope you keep going!
I love updos a lot though with hair strands at front dropping down... And i do also enjoy braids... And curled hair i just dont do it :(
Only issue is my hair is really thin and i dont have a lot of it for hair updoes... Especially these braids i really like on people that are super thick. I like many updoes. But i hate using heating irons and chemicals in my hair. So its hard for me.
Such a great and helpful video!! I really appreciated you sharing your story about the baby cologne from Philippines and I resonate strongly with the idea of tapping into the younger version of yourself and doing things she would be proud of 🥰 thank you for your content!
Yes! I feel getting in tune with you inner child is what makes your signature ensemble even more personal 🖤
I have so many double signs and one triple and I honestly relate to them all . Sun pisces, mercury pisces , Lilith pisces , moon Aries , Venus Aries , Mars cancer , Midheaven cancer , Jupiter libra , Rising sign Libra , Uranus capricorn, Neptune Capricorn. I'm literally all the elements 😂 🌊 💨🔥🌎 and I think I can see all in the way I dress , although some more than others which is very interesting
I would recommend Libra and Aries :)
Astro-seek has an option to look at dominent planets/signs
Just found you 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Hiii 🖤 hope you enjoy 🥹
I'm a soft dramatic ingenue with true winter color palette. How do I find my style dressing for summer, especially tropical weather. I hate wearing super tight fitting dresses or short short, especially the jean shorts. Should I just settle for linen pant and silk top? That's just seem too boring to me. 😢😢🙏🙏🙏
I’m still working on the other things, but signature scent is one thing I think I have down. My friend has never smelled Glossier You on me, but she smelled the bottle in store the other day and immediately said how much it felt like me 🤔 I actually don’t wear it very often (I mainly only use Native deodorant on the daily), only really for formal settings/when I get dressed up, so I thought that was an interesting take. I’m wondering if it’s bc it’s a unisex scent and I tend to have an dash of masculine energy in the way I carry myself/dress
Glossier's You has a lovely Peppery scent! I recommend getting a sample esp since it reminded your friend of you which is super sweet!
I'm with you though, some days my Blackberry Green Tea Native deodorant is good enough for me, I'm obsessed with that scent
@@silkymochi I really like the Cucumber Mint(?) scent from Native, it smells so fresh! I have the full bottle of Glossier You (I really want the rollerball, but I’ve barely made a dent in the bottle so why get it 😂). I’ve had the bottle for two years and I can seeing it lasting me many more before I buy a new one
Oh I misunderstood 😂 sorry I missed that you have it! Yeah only get what you need and it lasts forever!
Idk what it is about native but they got good scents
Really enjoying your content :)
Awww thank you 🖤
Another video I enjoyed
Thank you 🖤🖤🖤
Hi! I absolutely LOVE your content and am really looking forward to buying one of your body style guides. Do you think you could do a video on style types with some plus size/fat women as examples? I love dark essence looks but oftentimes many mainstream venues only feature straight sized models so it’s hard to imagine what type I would be. No pressure if this isn’t something you’d want to do, but thought I’d ask cause I love your TikTok’s and TH-cam videos :) corp goth is my fav look and I get so much inspo from you!
Thank you so much 🖤 and I will try to include more plus size & curvy muses in my videos for dark aesthetics! I do apologize, I feel like Hollywood/Model industry lacks so much diversity and even more so for dark/alt looks but I do try to show more representation in the stores I recommend like how Micheline Pitt or Foxblood & how they showcase more plus size models as well as a dark aesthetic ✨
Great vid as usual! I am curious now, I know you speak often on some of your irl style muses, but now I'm curious who your fictional, animated, and video game character muses are?🥰
Such a good question! And definitely potential to make a video on this
But at the top of my head I draw a lot of inspiration from Nana Osaki from Nana & Yukari from Paradise Kiss, I also have been told my harness outfits remind them of Tifa Lockheart which makes sense since she's my favorite Final Fantasy Character! But my all time favorite videogame muse is Yennefer from the Witcher 🖤
I like dramatic classic.
Thank you so much. Love this ❤ My Sun is in Scorpio, my Moon in Gemini and Cancer rising and Venus in Sagittarius. I was told I have Cancerian body but a very playful and romantic personality. My dominant sign would be Sagittarius.
Im so glad you loved this 🖤 Sagittarius tends to have a very powerful essence but that Cancer rising will always be there & as an Ascending it may even be more prevalent as you get older since they say you Ascend into it lol
@@silkymochi thank you 🌸🤯 I do have a Midheaven in Aquarius too, on the cusp to Pisces. So the experimentation with different styles makes sense
Speaking of look, I love your lip combo here. What did you use if you don't mind me asking?
I believe it was KVD lip gloss in Dahlia which is discontinued unfortunately :( I'm going through what I have left but About Face in Wicked Apple looks similar but havent had a chance to try it yet
What would you recommend for Aquarius, Capricorn and Cancer?especially for Aquarius, rules most of chart too
More astrology videos coming in the future! Otherwise I do offer astrology style readings in my shop 🖤
What are some good motifs for Sagittarius, Capricorn, and Pisces (in that order)?
I think Sagittarius really lends itself to grunge fashion where it's very carefree, DIY, adorned with elements that have sentimental meaning from places they've been to or fandoms they're a part of. Capricorn stereotypically is associated with business looks but I think a more broad way of looking at it is different aesthetics that have structure and tailoring whether its suits or corsets. Pisces is very dreamy and ethereal, pieces that have sheerness, texture interest and unexpected design details.
You can also go literal: Sagittarius can have archer/arrow motifs, centaur symbolism, and Fire inspired pieces. Capricorn calls for more earthy tones but I personally see them as greyish neutrals, a literal way of accessorizing is wearing a goat metal head necklace or the full seagoat which you can find beautiful jewelry with these motifs. For Pisces, a nod to the two fish symbol, yin + yang, or dark oceanic and mermaid esque motifs
Hopefully I gave enough insight to help! Im hoping to do individualized videos focusing on each sign!
6 of the 9 planets were in Capricorn when I was born lol
Strong Capricorn energy 🖤
@@silkymochi yep I have a double stellium
My body isnt dramatic classic. I cant tell if its classic. Soft classic. Dramatic classic. But it is classic
I think my personality is dramatic. But i dont have large hips.
Remember style is trial and error and most lightly won't come out perfect on the first attempt it's a case of tweaking and adjusting
why this video isnt 10 hours long W H Y
There's a lot to cover but I include time stamps; all of my tiktoks are shorter formed though if long videos aren't for you. I use my channel for longer discussion topics 🤷🏻♀️
You are so beautiful
Aww thank you 🥹🖤