How to Make a House Feel Like a Home (Safety, Beauty, Evoking Feelings, and More) | Tim Ferriss

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  • @tylertachiki5186
    @tylertachiki5186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    1. Safety
    - 2 weeks of water
    - 2 power generators
    - 10-15 min away from downtown in the case of attacks, etc.
    - Have an office downtown as a backup place
    2. Aesthetics
    - Have different types of floors and windows.
    - Have lots of open areas in your house
    - Try to raise the floor in some parts of the house to make it seem bigger and create different areas
    - Every piece of furniture, artwork, etc. should be chosen to give you a certain emotional state. Tim likes to have a lot of easy to take care of plants, pictures of nature, or something that reminds you of your past

  • @DigitalNomadOnFIRE
    @DigitalNomadOnFIRE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    With each day Tim Ferriss becomes even more Tim Ferriss than the wildest caricature one could possibly imagine.

  • @Kiwiwanderer
    @Kiwiwanderer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are brother from another mother😊 I am a New Zealander and also spent 12 months in Japan on a 12 month youth exchange. Love plants, art , books , good food, non drinker and have often suffered with depression but always worked and functioned. I’ve enjoyed all your books and they inspired me over the years to make changes. Have not suffered with depression for over 20years.

  • @CamdenLong
    @CamdenLong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank you Tim. My parents gave me The Four Hour Work Week for Christmas in 2010. Transformed my life forever. So much gratitude.

    • @wilmercuevas6491
      @wilmercuevas6491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really? What did you change in your life after reading the book?

    • @CamdenLong
      @CamdenLong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wilmercuevas6491 It opened up a window of insights, possibilities, and practical steps that I never had thought about before. A great teacher has the ability to show something new or simply point something out. That’s the seed :)

  • @ShawnFin
    @ShawnFin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    First things first, create safety inside yourself, and relation to others. Then, the laundry...

  • @NaturesEmotions
    @NaturesEmotions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is exactly why I create the art that I do of nature and horses. Horses are the ideal form of energetic biofeedback for humans and there are so many details in nature that serve us to inspire awe and solace. Thank you, Tim!

  • @schoolofholisticdesign
    @schoolofholisticdesign 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Tim! I’m so thrilled you’re addressing home! Our home is a Petri dish for our life & holds an untapped potential for shifting our life on fundamental levels-think Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Home is a vital ingredient to our overall well-being-physical, mental, emotional. Why our home has been neglected by most wellness practitioners is beyond me. Our home communicates a hidden language with our subconscious mind, so what our home speaks influences the internal dialogue within our mind...our living environment triggers the thought-feeling feedback loops, which impact our mood, behavior, routines, habits, choices...ultimately impacting the experience of our life. This is a fascinating (& life changing) rabbit hole of exploration I’ve spent the last 10+ years studying & practicing. It’s a results oriented approach to home...I call it Holistic Interior Design because it takes YOU & what you WANT for your life, as central to the process. This method & philosophical approach is based in epigenetics neuroplasticity, design & the Self/soul (& the work of Aristotle, Maslow, Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell, Bruce Lipton & Joe Dispenza). Our home not only contributes to our overall well-being, home offer an incredible opportunity for encouraging & accelerating the life we WANT to experience.

  • @MattLoberstein
    @MattLoberstein 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Powerful video. Alan Watts has some great lectures on how absurd it is that we live in sterile boxes on grid roads. Many people don’t sense how a space affects them.

  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Safety is so overlooked, I'm so glad Tim mentioned this portion.👌

  • @krizo3
    @krizo3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Location advice is so true.
    I live in a houseshare, but being 10 mins from the centre is so convenient, yet easy to get out to the airport and motorway when needed.
    More space for exercise etc.
    My quality of life improved so much when I could choose where I lived.
    Still working on the rest 😅

  • @SkipKelly
    @SkipKelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ‘’Without safety the home means nothing.’’

  • @jelizabethpetrie6656
    @jelizabethpetrie6656 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some very sensible tips. Thanks! @timferris
    Totally agree with the different leveled room is also my indoor/outdoor sunroom with a fireplace. My favorite room aside from my bedroom n recent redone kitchen 🙏🌅

  • @joas162
    @joas162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved the concept of emotional cues you talked about in a previous video, didn't think furniture played a part in it :D I do like wood, it makes a room feel warm

  • @aldorodriguez7310
    @aldorodriguez7310 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A home is an instrument for making art, a gym, a library, a chef's blank slate.
    I'm sure he can go even more in depth into it and make it into a book (that I would undoubtedly buy).
    The concept of home from a digital nomad perspective.
    A fresh look into covering one of the most important blocks of the Maslow's hierarchy of needs. The need for security.
    Shelter or as some call it real estate, or even home office design, is a basic need. This type of education is so practical.
    It opens up a new way of thinking about our homes and the way they influence our behavior.

  • @BerkeyCleanWater
    @BerkeyCleanWater 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video! You are so right. You must have at least 2-weeks storage of water. A rain catching system wouldn't be bad either. As far as living that close to a big city. We're actually trying to move further away.

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect timing as I just moved to my new apartment here in Stockholm!

  • @TheGlamFactor
    @TheGlamFactor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    interesting video, wouldn´t expect this topic from Tim Ferriss - but a very nice answer :)

  • @PonderingsofanEmpress
    @PonderingsofanEmpress 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to re-read and re-read the subject and Tim Ferris' name before clicking 😅 lol! However after watching this... still the same efficiency-addicted Tim Ferris! 👍🏻

  • @Lostintrepid
    @Lostintrepid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Levels. Wasn’t that Kramer’s idea?

  • @kathaleenparker326
    @kathaleenparker326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My fav home nest has sensual priorities - Visual (color & task lighting inside and out) Smell (I agree with comment below: homemade pot of chili, bake a pie) Audio (birds, wind rustling leaves outside, entertainment low enough for conversation) tactile Feel (wood floors, soft carpet under foot, comfy furniture) Taste (fridge for homemade food, ice and filtered water plus coffee) Neighborhood that you feel safe walking at night and yet your property has landscape that creates privacy & soundproofing.

  • @TheTricksterCoyote
    @TheTricksterCoyote 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very intersting topic! It was nice to hear your perspectives on this, though unfortunately a lot of the aesthetic unattainable for me at the moment. Love the "emotional state" and safety stuff though--all I find very important!

  • @davidgrigsby8963
    @davidgrigsby8963 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    'Yet, more reasons why I love my Brother, Tim Ferriss. 'Cant wait to hopefully meet and, man.... even, have the opportunity to interview you, Tim. For how you take in the 🌎... there are little words that'd quite do you justice! What an extraordinarily useful, generous, and empoweringly calming gift -- per usual, my dear friend (whom actually, you don't know, personally). Haha... Thank You.

  • @QuinnLeeVideo
    @QuinnLeeVideo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Tim, watching from Korea. I was totally hooked with your two books. Ive read them in like 3 days. Not only the content was superb, I really enjoyed your writing voice. And thats why Im watching this video on home which I have no interest at all. 😂 this proves that I can hear you talk about literally anything. Anyways, if you happen to read my comment, thanks fir what you’re doing!

  • @yougotkicked
    @yougotkicked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The notes on safety surprised me until I remembered tim has historically lived in hurricane and earthquake territory. Coming from the midwest, I don't generally think of natural disasters as a thing that can impact my life that much. Sure, we have tornado's and life-threatening cold, but ultimately those are small threats that our infrastructure is built to take in stride.

  • @ryanrsullivan
    @ryanrsullivan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Hey Tim can we get a house tour??

    • @vottekmaxle6196
      @vottekmaxle6196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If safety is important to you, then a house tour is not a good idea. It's like online shopping for the bad guys out there.

    • @IEVAKambarovaite
      @IEVAKambarovaite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I doubt Tim would ever do a house tour. He may be everywhere on Internet, but he seems like a very private person. Also, safety.

    • @nocando89
      @nocando89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's shown his old place when he lived in San Francisco and it's a cool look at the aesthetic he's into (or at least was then). Not a full on house tour but def certain sections. Worth a look.

    • @joseromero81
      @joseromero81 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IEVAKambarovaite he shared his living area before including in books.

    • @simini1837
      @simini1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nocando89 I remember, it looked quite cozy

  • @TheMandinotan
    @TheMandinotan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching from Singapore. Very thankful to be living here especially for safety. No natural disasters, hardly any roots or protest. We got water problems tho

  • @Goofy_Toons
    @Goofy_Toons 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    whoaaaa this is really good info thanks for sharing.

  • @killerjunior23
    @killerjunior23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Dang, that was great.

  • @MaxCJ
    @MaxCJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    An unusual topic, but just as insightful - really getting value from Tim's posts on YT

  • @jakelacour
    @jakelacour 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our environment shapes us unconsciously. Great tips! 👍

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:05 Greene and Greene = Japanese + Northern Californian blend architecture (Big Sur Esilon). “Extremely calming.”
    5:25 Most items (artwork, furniture, etc.) is selected with the intention to produce a particular *emotional state.* Be acutely award of the things that effect your mood. Lots of plants.

  • @Pete_YT
    @Pete_YT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Tim. What model generators did you go with? I’m currently prepping a house in the mountains and gas generators sound like a good idea.

  • @adtsal942
    @adtsal942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Overall good suggestions, especially about safety. But I was drawn to the video because I had considered the exact topic when buying a new home. My previous home had a two level open family room. Initially, it looks grand and impressive but after 6 years of living with it, I got more disillusioned. It lacked a cozy feeling to sit with my family. Sounds reverberated. It just didn’t feel homely but more like a foyer of a hotel. I was looking for such recommendations in the video.

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:10 Open floor plan with multiple levels (kitchen in particular). Makes the space feel 2x the size.

  • @eddieyutub
    @eddieyutub 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Japan is really freezed Tang Dynasty. Love it

  • @francescakray233
    @francescakray233 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Mr Ferriss. How are you? I hope that you are well. 🙂
    What, an interesting and amazing short video. 10/10.

  • @thomcarr7021
    @thomcarr7021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Change any environment into a warm home in 12 minutes. Make a kettle of chili.

  • @jvdc849
    @jvdc849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nice of you to assume that I have a pool.

  • @nikosgatos7365
    @nikosgatos7365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice job!

  • @deskjobweightloss9493
    @deskjobweightloss9493 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was unexpected. Very cool. @tim Ferriss

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips, thanks Tim! Curious if your “rainforest kitchen” home that you shot promo parts of the 4 Hour Chef in, was in San Francisco?

  • @lanosrep7999
    @lanosrep7999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! Timbo! Also, i think we are both wearing Vuori clothing at the same time haha

  • @bjkearns2
    @bjkearns2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tim Ferris is a prepper. Nice

  • @garrettk7166
    @garrettk7166 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video! A+++

  • @SkipKelly
    @SkipKelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Indoor / outdoor spaces are gold!

  • @kylethompson6611
    @kylethompson6611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Tim

  • @WilliamJonesChess
    @WilliamJonesChess 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful forest image at 06:40

  • @alabamahouseflippers4480
    @alabamahouseflippers4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12 gauge and a big dog covers safety . Not hording.is a great way to keep the house open and nice.

  • @hollismallory2757
    @hollismallory2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tim Ferris’s brain is huge 🧠

  • @Crazyguru1996
    @Crazyguru1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video
    Would love a tour if that's not too personal lol

  • @MrNickBreen
    @MrNickBreen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the driving distance parameters to airport and downtown paired with a downtown office. Strong video here Tim. Seems like an upgrade from lugging up that generator during the bay area power outages you described in one of your books.

  • @user-mm9yx9zy9d
    @user-mm9yx9zy9d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'd love to see your house in one of your videos, to observe how your safety and coziness look like

    • @beckwilde
      @beckwilde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea. wish AD and Tim could do a home tour!

    • @vimalcurio
      @vimalcurio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then what's the point of privacy and safety!?

    • @mmmWolf
      @mmmWolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally, it seems ridiculous to me to answer this question without any visuals of what this looks like in practice. For me just talking about his answer to the question was very obnoxious, and narcissistic. Why make a video of this at all? Just answer on your podcast. Or better yet, just summarize in 11 lines of text like the other commenter. Why waste 8 minutes and 26 seconds of all the viewers time in what could be accomplished in 11 lines of text

  • @vimalcurio
    @vimalcurio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's living my dream life lol

  • @MB-pi3ep
    @MB-pi3ep 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great! But you haven't said anything about feng-shui, the importance of it. Feng shui is crucial in a house, I recommend finding a master. It changed my life! (in a good way)

  • @nelevancampfort4667
    @nelevancampfort4667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would you have power generators if you can have renewable energy and home storage batteries?

  • @TmurphyIT
    @TmurphyIT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is this shirt from?

  • @TinyDancer250
    @TinyDancer250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's not the house that feels like home; it's the relationships in it it that make it, or don't, feel that way.

  • @Swizzle0011
    @Swizzle0011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    How To Make A Home Feel Like A Home: Move Next To Tim.

  • @arthurfonzarelli9828
    @arthurfonzarelli9828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You want a country setting neighborhood in an average sized city. Best of both worlds

    • @BarbVice13
      @BarbVice13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. That’s what we have. I love it!

  • @minnemertens
    @minnemertens 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:10 whahaha this cracked me up

  • @phillipmorgan4260
    @phillipmorgan4260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow he knows green and green. The northern Oregon one is my favorite

  • @justinodo
    @justinodo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a multimillionaire, this is very helpful.

  • @anananwar
    @anananwar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was not where i thought that was going. Interesting.

  • @arthurfonzarelli9828
    @arthurfonzarelli9828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife and I w/ our two dogs have lived in Airbnb homes only for past 5 yrs staying a few months in each one so we don't technically have a home. As long as we're all there together it feels like a home

  • @wildfirekunal
    @wildfirekunal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great safety insights.

  • @zoxn9103
    @zoxn9103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Feels like a nice introduction to home tour. Can we expect some? (:

  • @EduardoBelme
    @EduardoBelme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just what a lot of people moving around the world need to hear!!

  • @RoyceDuong
    @RoyceDuong 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we get an MTV Cribs style video of your home? haha.

  • @lizcademy4809
    @lizcademy4809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tim has described my house ... almost. Our taste in art is different.
    My location is almost exactly as he describes - a long, pretty walk to my downtown office,

  • @GZas
    @GZas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How would one create that extra level on the cheap?

    • @beckwilde
      @beckwilde 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plants are a good start, and getting rid of items that won't serve your happiness.

  • @pauldupuis5724
    @pauldupuis5724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cribs tour cribs tour!

  • @intentionalliving7326
    @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Surprised by the safety details 🙂

  • @AnushaZ
    @AnushaZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same

  • @poplionandrew5803
    @poplionandrew5803 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    gratitude #stocism "Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be."

  • @itsnowjoke1381
    @itsnowjoke1381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Short cut hack on safety live in Switzerland and don’t worry about a of the prepper stuff

    • @LelandYarnell
      @LelandYarnell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No where on the planet is 100% safe

  • @tfm_patrick
    @tfm_patrick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow

  • @OMundoSegundoUmaSagitariana
    @OMundoSegundoUmaSagitariana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    security cameras, window assessment - good curtains, a film.

  • @graceg8834
    @graceg8834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌

  • @midierror
    @midierror 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What, no snooker table?!

  • @davethornley2637
    @davethornley2637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tend to live my life around the "Shaun of The Dead" outline. Cricket bat, check. Bunch of old LP's, check. Job done.

  • @djackson4605
    @djackson4605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @05:18

  • @VigilanteHD
    @VigilanteHD 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    2nd!

  • @G8rquest
    @G8rquest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cook with onions.

  • @oraclesql
    @oraclesql 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tim forgot to include Toilet paper supplies in the Safety section

  • @justadudeintheworldman.120
    @justadudeintheworldman.120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A little intense horse archery action there Tim Tam Talk Talk

  • @EdithEsquivel
    @EdithEsquivel 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    House tour!

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😎

  • @JohnWhitesheep
    @JohnWhitesheep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yeah, we won´t need the water supply in Germany xD

  • @pabloborges1709
    @pabloborges1709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    put a caption in Portuguese

  • @MITZZB
    @MITZZB 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tim how about a house tour

  • @twosidenathan
    @twosidenathan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What clothes are you wearing? How do you shop for clothes? What do you look for when buying clothes?

  • @adilbhai3512
    @adilbhai3512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You missed having a pet in home.

  • @teddyarcher3957
    @teddyarcher3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was kind of hoping for an actual tour, rather than some prepper descriptions of a potential apocalypse...

  • @adtsal942
    @adtsal942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Two levels in kitchen/dining! Trip hazard actually.

  • @LeonIneke
    @LeonIneke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 weeks of water, only needed in the US!

  • @ipekkutlu78
    @ipekkutlu78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is first looking like a robot trying to be human and I am puzzled by his suggestions🤣

  • @MikeFreesinger
    @MikeFreesinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Have lots of kids is the first part of a home 😎

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The whole safety thing, water supply, back up power etc is so foreign to me. This is not something I am worried about in the Netherlands. Sounds so prepper to me but maybe we are totally stupid over here!

    • @robotone2812
      @robotone2812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      USA. The only 1st world country with 3rd world problems.

  • @WaterproofSoap
    @WaterproofSoap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is ok.....
    .....but.....
    ....these are not financial feasible to at least 1/3 of the American public.

  • @rakelkiedingkarbelnikoff1165
    @rakelkiedingkarbelnikoff1165 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    can we see your house?