This was not a marriage from the beginning. Two, Damaris accept that you made some mistakes, i clinged at the thought of sharing a needle, going forth use your head not your heart. We error as humans,i wish you well in your marriage.
Pole mamaa. But this guy was open and told you hataki mtoto and also he didn't marry you in whatever way. Ni wewe tu ulijisingiIa ati umeolewa and even started calling him my husband. All these came up because he never wanted you to have his baby nor get married to him. Haya yote ulijiletea yote mamaa cz you wanted marriage
Using the same needle for both of you, even after pastor has told you that this guy has HIV, were you not scared? Haki Yvonne ask this kind of follow-up questions.
This weakness in the name of love... I used to love foolishly until one person told me, always think with your head and not with your heart.. I see why. Think with your head and after make decisions from your heart coz you will have thought it through without any emotional attachments and dealt with it sensitively because of the heart as the head can be insensitive.. Nimeongea mingi hopefully mtanishika hapo.. 😁😇
Congratulations for her new marriage. But two months old in a marriage isn't enough to start saying marriage is sweet, have never seen a man like this....bla bla.
How do people move on so quickly..niko 9th year since our separation,n still counting..my daughters are my first priority, marriage sioni nilijaribu tena
Oh my God! Just when I think I've seen it all I hear Damaris's story. Damaris God used you to find your purpose that is to serve him whole heartedily. Much love from Uganda.
@@dorothynduku9825 I was already pregnant...you might see me as a crazy one until it happens to you. Never abuse a woman who has gone through marital issues
I don't know where most ladies get the courage of moving in with boyfriend and claiming they are their *husbands* I know the ring means nothing in this century but at least respecting yourself as a lady is important....if he wants to be boyfriend just stop giving him wife benefits .....keep that space let him live his life and enjoy your life because the moment you move in with him and start calling him husband 😂😂😂wacha tu heartbreaks wengine ujiletea yaani you put boyfriend in husband level and as if it's not enough unaamua kaende kaendee unazaa 1kid,2kids .....by the time you wake up you all have 4kids or more.......ladies invite problems for themselves and keep blaming men
I was just in marriage for 1 yr and the man became violent, that is how I left and never came back.... 20 yrz down the line the man died 3 yrs ago hiv positive..
@@favourd.blessings5903 it's true my sister but don't worry just take care of your son coz he is the only hope you have right now, just be there for him and God will see you through.
The fear of taking drugs daily weee, then also some of these drugs react to some people, for example the septrin contain sulphur, there are people who react to this, so tell me why will it not be the end of life for them. HIV isn't as easy as they say. If you are negative try as much as possible to stay negative . The slogan that it's not the end of life is used to encourage those positive, but not those negative
Wait, you were told by his girlfriend that he was HIV positive, then pastor told you , and you still slept with him? I am not sure what was going on here.
Ladies and gentlemen protect yourselves, men always wrap that sausage Ladies don't trust too trust too fast although HIV mtu anaeza pata na njia zingine but let's people know HIV is real
As much as I feel pity for the lady. Hii ni mashida ya kujitakia. From the beginning you knew the guy did not love you and you saw a lot of red flags which you ignored.All these because of desparation of getting married .ladies ladies
I'm feeling the same too. Too any mashida za kujitakia. Anaambiwa ni positive n they still have unprotected sex and still use same needle. Seriously. Mayb they are a discordant couple
Part 2 i was waiting to hear how they got married coz the last time she was introduced as a best friend, how did she even start living with the guy as a husband and wife? I think she didn't understand what is marriage, i can say that they were dating or she married herself coz the man was not mentally married
Your Swahili is excellent, pole sana Mama," your health is your wealth", so true, I was crossing my fingures each time you tested that you would be negative. Congratulations on the wedding of your dreams 👏 👏 🌹🥂🎉🎊🥳to a good man. 🎶🎶You looked so beautiful.
Damaris, your intentions were right.. Wanted marriage and like most of us made wrong decisions to do this with the wrong person. So glad you came out whole and healthy and those who succumbed to such health issues, jipeeni moyo as its not the end. God has a purpose for your lives. God always weaves a beautiful tapestry for us all but when we take over and tear it, He still repairs it with grace if You allow Him to take over your life issues. Think with your head and make decisions with your heart... First your head then you can trust the heart to follow. Never think with your heart. A person once told me this and I reflected on this long enough to understand it. As Damaris said... Stay or abstain from extra marital sex... Its sinning against your own body and this will cost you dearly. I wish you all a long time health coupled with wise choices. Shalom.
Hata sioni shida yenye huyu madam alipitia, watu huku nje wako na very serious problems, hawana food, hawana parents, hawajasoma,hawana job,yet they havelike 5 childrento to raise. But huyu na mtoto mmoja, ako Nairobi university, ako na family and parents yet she is here crying loud as though she is hiv +ve
If some of us shares our life history she will forever count herself one of the luckiest girls women....wish i cud get a chance to share my own one day
@Queen TC i think i shud start viewing things like this🤔🤔🤔coz piaa mm sioni shida kubwa haapo but the fact is kwake izo ni enough kumsumbua...indeed we all differ
Even after Pastor alishamwambia all what Holy Spirit showed him nope. What a loyal woman oh she won't leave this man alitaka Mungu ashuke mbingu mwenyewe amwambie toka kwa hiyo marriage. Something don't make sense
Okay kuna kitu sielewi you were warned by the lady that your husband is +ve and again the pastor and you went ahead to sleep with him without protection and then you go ahead to use the same needle to test yourselves???? Aiiih 😳😳😳
A true Definition of a Beauty without brain A lesson here akili ya kuzaliwa nicht muhimu kuliko elimu ya shule but simaanishi watu wasisome jijazie This lady eeeish SMH 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
Stop crying 😭 dear thank God he had saved you from the den of death 💀 ....thank God so much you are alive and am promising you will live your life fully and accomplish your purpose on Earth
He is God of good time and bad times, He never change ,even those who are sick on their sick bed God will visit them,in this earth 🌎 there will be tribulation take heart,pray more, read Bible more Jesus Christ has overcome,..may God strengthen you ,...
I thank God you made it out clean . The bible is clear on marriage and remarrying.... ...answer that question yourself. I love you with the love of God.
As a Christian she shouldn't be advising people to be "using protection" before marriage. God hates sex before marriage and couples should be encouraged to court according to Gos's standard not carnal standards.
Pole Sana.....for what you have been through.....I can't judge......but marriage is not the ultimate goal in life......you don't have to be called Mrs so and so..........love starts with loving yourself......there more to life than being with a man .......get a hobby my friend......
Wish you could have Listened to your Mum n know why She was not Comfortable with the guy from the word go. Sometimes when you are in love you fail to see the Red flags
STOP CROCODILE TEARS.WHY DO U USE A SAME NEEDLE WITH UR POSITIVE HUSBAND KNOWING THEN RUN FROM VCT TO VCT AND ASKING GOD TO MAKE YOU NEGATIVE?????????????????.
This is an 👁 opener, it is only the weak who refuse to partake and listen to testimonies like this, stay blessed
I totally agree. Once a man is violent, run for your life. They never change.
This was not a marriage from the beginning. Two, Damaris accept that you made some mistakes, i clinged at the thought of sharing a needle, going forth use your head not your heart. We error as humans,i wish you well in your marriage.
The mistress contracted HIV but she didn't!
Yoote ulipitia ni ya kujitakia.alianza uongo frm the word go.tym alikushow amejenga ukapata ni uongo..the guy was not genuine.frm the beginning.
She loved him manze
Sijsema mtu but many women out here think that marriage is everything. Yaani Mungu anakupenda unaponea kirusi but still unslilia marriage😂😂😂
I remember Damaris back in high school,she was so dedicated to serve God.Damaris take heart u are a strong woman you will overcome,hugs dear
Amen Josephine
She used to be my neighbor akiwa college coast,Dem roho safi Sana
@@mosesobonyo2370 Sasa Moses
She is a strong wonderful woman
@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 thanks mum . It's by the grace of God
Once you find courage to walk away from a narcissist,,,please do so ,,God has more blessings,,future is always bright,,,
Amen
True.they can watch you cry for the thing they have done to u. They are devils
@@janetkaveke7270 but they are suffering more
Pole mamaa. But this guy was open and told you hataki mtoto and also he didn't marry you in whatever way. Ni wewe tu ulijisingiIa ati umeolewa and even started calling him my husband. All these came up because he never wanted you to have his baby nor get married to him. Haya yote ulijiletea yote mamaa cz you wanted marriage
Using the same needle for both of you, even after pastor has told you that this guy has HIV, were you not scared? Haki Yvonne ask this kind of follow-up questions.
Thought the same thing.... 🤦🏽♀️
This weakness in the name of love... I used to love foolishly until one person told me, always think with your head and not with your heart.. I see why. Think with your head and after make decisions from your heart coz you will have thought it through without any emotional attachments and dealt with it sensitively because of the heart as the head can be insensitive.. Nimeongea mingi hopefully mtanishika hapo.. 😁😇
Surely
@@Ukversuskenya nimeshika kabisa.
Ata nimeshangaa😂
We thank God for family and friends who have been their for us during her dark moment.
My family is the best
@@favourd.blessings5903 you are so beautiful Dama,inside out..God be with you
@@Grace_Wamui thanks mum
Congratulations for her new marriage. But two months old in a marriage isn't enough to start saying marriage is sweet, have never seen a man like this....bla bla.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh my 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂 I know her husband,Mimi Wacha watu waolewe tu
There is power in the tongue, and she is speaking positively, God will honor her Words
She is optimistic and atleast its different. No one is perfect but marriage works
She's so beautiful 🥰
But as a Preacher of the Word, should be telling young people by abstain instead of encouraging them to use protection
Until they get married
My thoughts too
So true
Even if u tell young people to abstain they will still do it without protection
Hahaha
How do people move on so quickly..niko 9th year since our separation,n still counting..my daughters are my first priority, marriage sioni nilijaribu tena
10 year trusting nobody
@@nyororano2563 Aki it's not easy
😂😂😂get married mama
Eighth year.i don't trust any man, My children are the best friends and I thank God for giving me the best gift.
What if you get a good man . Will you still wait ?
This lady is beautiful inside out,may God continue increasing you Damaris
May be I didn't understand
Were you really married?
I think people don't understand what marriage mean.
That was not a marriage
That was not married
Exactly akupeleka Mali it wasn't official
You're astrong woman Damaris. Whatever you went through it was a stepping stone to a better life.
Amen
Also men get abused. I just came from one bad relationship. As a man, I walked away with boldness and courage.
Congrats peace of mind is the best
The numbers are not even close
Oh my God! Just when I think I've seen it all I hear Damaris's story.
Damaris God used you to find your purpose that is to serve him whole heartedily.
Much love from Uganda.
Thanks mummy
This lady really wanted marriage and family..the Stigma is real...
I did
You are crazy woman
Your mother told not to marry but you refused its your choice
@@dorothynduku9825 I was already pregnant...you might see me as a crazy one until it happens to you. Never abuse a woman who has gone through marital issues
@@favourd.blessings5903 So sorry, don't let them "victim shame" you. God is making something beautiful out of your life.
May God bless Irene, the police officer who came to her rescue. Good people really do exist.
She is God sent
That officer is my village mate I know her she is soo kind
And how do call someone you are never married to a hubby??haki ladies
😂😂😂🥴
Wengine wanaaibisha wanawake aki
Heri kukaa single if the man can't officially marry you
Anatuangusha 😂😂😂😂
I don't know where most ladies get the courage of moving in with boyfriend and claiming they are their *husbands* I know the ring means nothing in this century but at least respecting yourself as a lady is important....if he wants to be boyfriend just stop giving him wife benefits .....keep that space let him live his life and enjoy your life because the moment you move in with him and start calling him husband 😂😂😂wacha tu heartbreaks wengine ujiletea yaani you put boyfriend in husband level and as if it's not enough unaamua kaende kaendee unazaa 1kid,2kids .....by the time you wake up you all have 4kids or more.......ladies invite problems for themselves and keep blaming men
I was just in marriage for 1 yr and the man became violent, that is how I left and never came back.... 20 yrz down the line the man died 3 yrs ago hiv positive..
Oh my
This Irene officer is my village mate I know her she is a kind hearted girl, from gitwe kipipiri
People need to know that testing positive is not the end of life and People live a full life!
Tell her, being positive is not the end of life.
Ofcoz it isn't but some of us have fear of the same.
@@favourd.blessings5903 it's true my sister but don't worry just take care of your son coz he is the only hope you have right now, just be there for him and God will see you through.
@@vincentomondi5612 Amen
The fear of taking drugs daily weee, then also some of these drugs react to some people, for example the septrin contain sulphur, there are people who react to this, so tell me why will it not be the end of life for them. HIV isn't as easy as they say. If you are negative try as much as possible to stay negative . The slogan that it's not the end of life is used to encourage those positive, but not those negative
Wait, you were told by his girlfriend that he was HIV positive, then pastor told you , and you still slept with him? I am not sure what was going on here.
Wacha hiyo, she even used the same needle to prick herself after pricking him
God was speaking
Had the same question
@@favourd.blessings5903 the whole time He was speaking. But humans tend to ignore such warnings. It happened to me too
@@godsown4683 I am a testimony today. God allowed it happen for his own glory. God bless u
Za zingine tunapea God kazi mingi na ashatupea akili.
Pewa soda kwa bill yangu, umeongea point 👏👏👏
😂😂😂😂😂😂 right red flags
Imagine
Ladies and gentlemen protect yourselves, men always wrap that sausage Ladies don't trust too trust too fast although HIV mtu anaeza pata na njia zingine but let's people know HIV is real
Tell them
Damaris, when you said you continued with life nguvu zimeisha 🙆
meaning
@@virginiaharun9900 Watch the video
😂😂😂I also got shocked..... how? After being told all that unangoja kifo
@@Millie-rm2wj love is stupid 😂
Ata mimi
I worked with your sister Christine and she is a lovely lady. As for you God bless you
Damaris really through a lot sorry girl may God open new days for you, hugs dear
Amen
Mimi Niko na mashida mingi Sana & huyo pastor wako ndio ningetaka tu his contacts,Ive passed worse than you & am still going thru it.
May God be ur best consellor Dear,hugs
Wanawake tusilazimishe ndoa,maisha yako ni bora kuliko Marriage.
Mmm in this case, are you insinuating that she was forcing herself to stay in that marriage? 😭😭
Such a beautiful soul,may God protect you always and give you the happiness that you deserve all days of your life.
Amen
Amen
As much as I feel pity for the lady. Hii ni mashida ya kujitakia. From the beginning you knew the guy did not love you and you saw a lot of red flags which you ignored.All these because of desparation of getting married .ladies ladies
True. He tested + and she still carried on living with him.
I'm feeling the same too. Too any mashida za kujitakia. Anaambiwa ni positive n they still have unprotected sex and still use same needle. Seriously. Mayb they are a discordant couple
True.she was forcing that marriage.let her face the music
i thought of the same,she pushed the guy to marrry her when he clearly was not willing.Problems she would have avoided.
SOME LADIES MUST BE TO MARRIED. THEY FORCE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!! STUPIDITY!!!!!
That's the God I know... He is so so faithful.
He is able
Part 2 i was waiting to hear how they got married coz the last time she was introduced as a best friend, how did she even start living with the guy as a husband and wife? I think she didn't understand what is marriage, i can say that they were dating or she married herself coz the man was not mentally married
She clung on this man like Big G!
Marriage is not easy, I thank God for this far, marriage is understanding each other,.
Amen
Damaris u were never married this is ur first marriage dont ever refer ur ex as husband alikuwa boyfie
True
My dear alikua ahapeana part of dowry ..we couldn't capture everything here.
@@favourd.blessings5903 That part was so important l wonder why Yvonne chose to ommit.
@@hanifamulwa3963 we shall revisit God willing
Alipeana dowry ya 20k he he he 😃😃😃
She's so beautiful,,,God loves this woman
Am so greatful to God
*TRUE PARTNER COMES FROM GOD*
Sure
But also love yourself before anybody else......
Well done Damaris, may God continue to lift you up and bless you in abundance!
Amen
@@favourd.blessings5903 u have a golden ❤️ Damaris. Plz can u help me with the pastors number?
How many people have to tell you to leave before you actually leave, I’m shocked.
Me too.
Mimi niambiwe mtu ako positive na watu wawili first time ni vct na kuachana,ulipata wapi nguvu za kuendelea kuishi naye
All my prayers to you and your son..Gold has to pass through fire.sasa wipe tears oga rudi soko my dear.
Amen
Soko imejaa magonjwa soko gani??? If u know how many youths are sick mama pple are surviving on ARVs
@@zaiokari1698 yeah ugonjwa imezidi. Youths hawaogopi. It's terrible here in kenya
She has a kind heart..she didn't deserve all that
Have shed tears ...I wish I can give her a big hug
Your Swahili is excellent, pole sana Mama," your health is your wealth", so true, I was crossing my fingures each time you tested that you would be negative. Congratulations on the wedding of your dreams 👏 👏 🌹🥂🎉🎊🥳to a good man. 🎶🎶You looked so beautiful.
Thanks dear
Glory back to God I was you all the best it's not the end of your life be blessed 🙏🙏
Damaris, your intentions were right.. Wanted marriage and like most of us made wrong decisions to do this with the wrong person. So glad you came out whole and healthy and those who succumbed to such health issues, jipeeni moyo as its not the end. God has a purpose for your lives. God always weaves a beautiful tapestry for us all but when we take over and tear it, He still repairs it with grace if You allow Him to take over your life issues. Think with your head and make decisions with your heart... First your head then you can trust the heart to follow. Never think with your heart. A person once told me this and I reflected on this long enough to understand it. As Damaris said... Stay or abstain from extra marital sex... Its sinning against your own body and this will cost you dearly. I wish you all a long time health coupled with wise choices. Shalom.
Wise counsel
@@carolinechepkorir6235 thank you
Amen
This girl is so damn. It's like she never had wisedom
She is not clever at all.
People do the most silly things when they are in love
Violent is something else.....swezi Kaa mahali am beaten love your story you're amazing
I was really waiting for part 2
Sorry Dama for what you went through.. it wasn't easy but God saved you
Pastor niwakora they'll do research about you then tell you that it's holly spirit
Very true
Very true a victim of pastors words😢😢😢
Painful
Ndio maana unajiita pharaoh
@@ruthbrianna7779 😂
Pole sana my sister this is very touching and God is Great
Your story is such a support group 👏👏👏👏👏 God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hata sioni shida yenye huyu madam alipitia, watu huku nje wako na very serious problems, hawana food, hawana parents, hawajasoma,hawana job,yet they havelike 5 childrento to raise. But huyu na mtoto mmoja, ako Nairobi university, ako na family and parents yet she is here crying loud as though she is hiv +ve
If some of us shares our life history she will forever count herself one of the luckiest girls women....wish i cud get a chance to share my own one day
@Queen TC i think i shud start viewing things like this🤔🤔🤔coz piaa mm sioni shida kubwa haapo but the fact is kwake izo ni enough kumsumbua...indeed we all differ
Thank you for part 2..... Sorry for what you have gone through
Some comments pthooo😢😢😢. Discordant couples exist
Even after Pastor alishamwambia all what Holy Spirit showed him nope. What a loyal woman oh she won't leave this man alitaka Mungu ashuke mbingu mwenyewe amwambie toka kwa hiyo marriage. Something don't make sense
Haki naskia hasira watching her damn
You have inspired me my sister,may God bless your marriage and your son🙏
Amen
I love the eloquence for this lady
It's true,, she is so eloquent, I really like her English.
Okay kuna kitu sielewi you were warned by the lady that your husband is +ve and again the pastor and you went ahead to sleep with him without protection and then you go ahead to use the same needle to test yourselves???? Aiiih 😳😳😳
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
That's the God I serve ,full or grace and visiting His people .
A true Definition of a Beauty without brain
A lesson here akili ya kuzaliwa nicht muhimu kuliko elimu ya shule but simaanishi watu wasisome jijazie
This lady eeeish SMH 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
The pastor,,and the Mistress told you..lady..
Why are you choked..!!
Denial!!
If you are Negative ungekuja hapa..kutoa that fake HIV story.
Stop crying 😭 dear thank God he had saved you from the den of death 💀 ....thank God so much you are alive and am promising you will live your life fully and accomplish your purpose on Earth
Amen
He is God of good time and bad times, He never change ,even those who are sick on their sick bed God will visit them,in this earth 🌎 there will be tribulation take heart,pray more, read Bible more Jesus Christ has overcome,..may God strengthen you ,...
May GOD bless you Damaris for sharing your story
Amen
Gods loves you so much, the grace of God was apon you, their is a God in heaven for sure,God protected you all that while
I thank God you made it out clean . The bible is clear on marriage and remarrying.... ...answer that question yourself. I love you with the love of God.
Kindly tell her to connect me with the pastor please 🙏 please 🙏🙏
Atupee number ya pastor 😂
As a Christian she shouldn't be advising people to be "using protection" before marriage.
God hates sex before marriage and couples should be encouraged to court according to Gos's standard not carnal standards.
Okay she is being real this are things happening in our society let's be real and not too judgemental
E
thank you for sharing such an eye opener story
it is
Pole Sana.....for what you have been through.....I can't judge......but marriage is not the ultimate goal in life......you don't have to be called Mrs so and so..........love starts with loving yourself......there more to life than being with a man .......get a hobby my friend......
If you're Faithful in your Marriage,,even God protects you..despite sharing a needle ,u didn't get infected..you serve a living God🙏🙏🙏
Surely God’s love 💕 you mama
Amen
This was not marriage.
Once a man points at u , slaps u run for your life......
Yvonne you have been interrupting her with qns that affects the flow. Let the client talk her story freely
Block that stupid man's phone Damaris.
I think I love me way too much coz he ain't beating for a second time.. won't let him get the chance
Women in this situation please Block evil mens number.
Wish you could have Listened to your Mum n know why She was not Comfortable with the guy from the word go. Sometimes when you are in love you fail to see the Red flags
,is it possible 6 years with a positive partner na uwe negative?? Further more umezaa nae?? I doubt.u might be positive also.i don't think is possible
If the guy was properly following his medication, can't infect the partner
@@gayzienkatha22 mungu abariki uyo mtu ata kama basi ju alifuata maagizo akameza dawa,huyu angekua na ukimwi sahii
Positive just kubali
Impossible haiwezi lazima akue positive
@@sandrapaul2804 ata mm naona ivyo.
There are good men of God out there.
Kabisa
We have missed the part of the muganga eeeeeeeh please don't rush the interview this is the second 'rushing interview' I'm watching but well tried.
Í was to say it
Sorry to say,you ignored so many red flags
Great inspiration, God bless
Husband is HIV positive but wife and child negative. Wonders. Anyway such couples exist.
Usipendee Sanaa na usichukie sanaa kuwa lukewarm
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ukweli
True no one needs to be in a violent relationship
Never test yourself in the house always go to the professional
You had hiv phobia,,en that one is worse than hiv itself,,but thank God you are okay mama🙏🙏🙏
STOP CROCODILE TEARS.WHY DO U USE A SAME NEEDLE WITH UR POSITIVE HUSBAND KNOWING THEN RUN FROM VCT TO VCT AND ASKING GOD TO MAKE YOU NEGATIVE?????????????????.
😂😂😂😂😂
kamba ladies their are beautiful but no brain ata wateswe they will never get out of that marriage sory damaris for what you past through
There is God of another chances,,, He is so faithful🙏,, Damaris God rescued you and He truly loves you🙏
Amen
Hug's dia...... You're such a strong woman.
Thanks dr
Pastor aliambiwa na holy spirit
All those Tests?....what for,two were enough