My husband соmmіttеd suісіdе the night I refuse to go back home | Tuko TV
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- Ruth missed the chance to go to school and has been working since she was a child to survive. She was married with two children but left the marriage because of being mistreated. When they worked things out, she was to go back to their home but told her husband she needed some time. On the night she told him that, he went home and told his mother that if they don’t bring Ruth back to him, he would end his own life and on that might, he did. Ruth then lost her daughter to pneumonia in 2021. She had left her daughter under the care of her parents who she says had problems with alcohol. She says people blame her for the dеаth of her husband and she regrets not being there for her daughter when she started falling ill.
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I want to do that too tired of been sick
Incorporate English please would love to understand what Ruth says x.
May God heal her. I can't even imagine the pain she has had to endure all her life. No parent should ever bury their children
She needs counseling and her parents together with the remaining should have complete medical checkup.
When it comes to kids i cannot take it;so painful indeed..take heart..time will help u heal;Cry unto God for strength.
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The trauma. The way she broke down describing her daughters death and didn’t do the same for her husband let’s me know a mother’s pain is real. Hugs mummy, you’ll be alright ❤
Oh Lord May you comfort this hurting mother and give her peace that no man can give her, that surpasses all understanding and heal her aching heart
You could have stopped the interview for her to calm down her cry is heartbreaking
My dear take your son to the true man of God to be prayed.aki.mpereke church aombewe woiye.tafuta rev cephas wa CCI CHURCH DANDORA.utasaidika woiye🙏
Pole sana dadangu Mwenyezi Mungu akuvute machozi na akuinue kutoka maisha magumu akupe tabasamu la milele ❤ Rember this... what God cannot do does not exist
She went thru hell, but God can restore all that she lost.
You are indeed a strong woman👍👍 ..may God see you through in everything you do ...Always remember Abraham's God is always in control 🙏 have faith
Amen. May God visit her.
Woiyeee poleee dear this is so painful 🥺💔 aki people are suffering Sana, yaani it touched my heart like it's my mom or one of my family members, please 🙏 God see her through and give her strength 💪.
Yeah, very sad indeed.
I had seen this lady on another channel today she looks beautiful.
Me too ni vile nimesahau
What channel, please?
Me too... I wonder why people are channel trotting..
@@Violet3734 where is the problem?
Hugs mama .
Mungu akufungulie milango ya baraka na ukuondolee uchungu wa roho .
Very sad indeed. May God comfort her.
This is so painful 😔... I can imagine your pain dear ...Be strong
Pole sana. Imeniuma. Mungu ni mfariji mwema dadangu. Jipe moyo. Maombi yangu yako pamoja nawe. pole sana
I heard the Kikuyu version of this sometimes back....I think this girl needs a lot of counselling coz it's like she's becoming worse. She really needs to heal a little bit
Take heart mum
My deepest sympathies and healing. Maasais , Samburus, are so so beautiful , her skin n dimples…nice teeth n gap. Be well mama❤
It's a high time Kenyan hospitals start calling loved ones to let them know when their loved ones have died or area near death because we have cell phones instead of just letting someone come and find an empty bed.This hurts even more
I agree with you. Sometimes you go there and you are told pole sana😭
Palliative care should be taught a lot to people in kenya . Doctors take advantage. Of vulnerable sick people when they know the person is coming to their End of life (eol)life , they don’t care at all . Palliative care should be explained what palliative care is in details and how to handle it in all ways .
True
But even when they know like a child is dying why not leave the mum to stay with her child aki wafrika tuko na uyama ingine.
Take heart sister, there's no mountain that is big in God's eyes, All this pain will end soon, God will not forsake you🙏
Amen
Amen
Oh so it's true so sad
Nipe like Niko first 🥇🏆 pole sana so sad 😭
Is there a way unaeza kaa na mtoto wako dear maybe u rent kanyumba uanze kabiz hata ya kuzungusha uji,chai mandazi ama kibanda
Good idea. People have made it thru small hustles.
The way she describes her daughter's death makes me remember my own daughter..her death came so quick sometimes I I feel like a dream. It's too painful but the Lord's grace helps me to get through
Sorry dea, hugs mom
Pole…. Mungu akupe wepesi.
This story is very traumatizing.. too much pain
This is soo sad. The death of the little gal really pains my heart. I hope God can come in for them and heal this lady. May she find a job to help her take her son to hospital. God please hear my prayers.
Waa pole sana dear, hiyo ni zilemidomo evil ya wazazi
Seek prayers, dear God is our protector
So heartbreaking
Has anyone seen the popping melanin, the gap between her teeth and the dimples? Woman, you are so gorgeous. May God comfort you.
Sheso beautiful and speaks nicely ❤❤❤❤❤
My dear if a partner commits suicide just know God saved you from him / her ,he would have killed you....such pple who think of suicide in most cases be sick or going through something terrible
But you have to be there for him if you realise there is something he is going through
Really.its called mental illness. ..shame on an ignorant world.
@@unicornstable667 but you're in it "ignorant world and u inclusive
@@vincentomondi5612 true, you have to support and help him/her where you can...your words and prayers might be a very big help to him....hawa watu wanahitajingi tu someone they can trust and listen to them without judging them harshly🙏
Ofcourse
Very painful😢
Good hostess but silence is golden sometimes. Telling someone you will get another man and bear more children at such a time is......... Some things are best handled by people who've been there.
May God give you strength my sister 🙏🙏🙏
May God give u strength
Lily try to be speaking with sauti. You can be a very good interviewer/presenter/host but you almost whisper when interviewing your guests. Talk with sauti and be lively. Viewers like a host who speaks from heart, is audible & lively.
Sorry 🙏 mum
May God heal you, forgive yourself, don't blame yourself for any reason, come unto Jesus she will heal your wounded heart, is well with u in Jesus name 🙏
Iyo part ya mtoto imefanya nilie
Too much suffering in this world.
Pple r passing thru alot in silence...if all can tell their stories u cant bear it at all.
So painful 💔💔💔😭😭
Pole sana dada
Pole sana God restore you
Wenye uliwashiya watoto ndie hakukwambia mapema mtoto angetimbiwa
Pole sana mum
اتمنى أصحاب الخير ي يساعدوها باقي ايام قليله عن رمضان كلنا نتمنى نساعدها لو كل واحد منا بقليل وليقدر يتكفل بدارسه بناتها زين أجر عظيم
Pole sana mama. May Hod give you strength
😭😭😭
let the lord almighty cover her with her entire family with the blood of jesus
This is more than pain
Very sad indeed. May God wipe away her tears .
Serena
This story is toooo loooong i get lost on the way
Me too
If this was a Kikuyu lady no one would be sympathetic, why do Kenyans hate us? Pole mami
Ondoa ukabila hapa Nani, nikiumaga🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Why u lete ukabila surely
😁😁😁😁
@@middymishofficial6244 it you guys who have ukabila
Weèuh hii comment though iko misplaced kabisaa ningekupea jibu bt this is not tight time
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She cried so hard when she was recalling how her daughter died but i didn't see her emotional when she was talking about the death of someone's kid who accepted her with two kids. Karma
Her child is her child. You also cannot dictate someone's emotions and way of mourning surely! I hope you also noted the emotion was different for the still born
Exactly @Noble Exactly!
really is it comparable husband wa aina gani
She should have no regrets for not going back to her late husband. He would have taken her life too. That was his plan.
As a human nature it pains because she was married to him and they shared a lot. May God give her comfort
How do you know he would have killed her yet you don't live in his mind ? Maybe he just wanted her company.
True
LADIES!!!!!!!!!! UNAPOONA MOTO WAWAKA JUA TUUUU SIKU ITAFIKAAAAA!!!! POTEAAAAAAAAA
I also think so. The moment he started declaring someone's death my heart skipped. The spirit of death was in his heart
So painful 😢😢
So sad 😢😢 kindly let them heal first before interviewing them , hata Sina nguvu ya kuwatch the whole thing juu ya pain and cries😥😭😭,adi mtu akue ready to share their story
Sure I totally agree 💯
So sad indeed 😭😭😭😭
Telling their stories is part of healing
Telling the story is healing ,there is no single day they will heal completely
Kuna uchungu mtu haezi heal, and healing huanza na kuongea, na hakuna mtu hulazimishwa kushare story so let her be, let her cry it out
Kila laana ilotamkwa kwako haitafaulu
Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Let her cry it out,, its not easy loosing a child, very painful.
She passed through a lot.
Please take the boy for TB test aswell,sorry for your loss Ruth.
Kenyan hospitals management all over the country need to rethink about not allowing close family members at least 1 or 2 people to spend nights and be there for critical patients especially those that they(doctors and nurses) know very well they are nearing death (end of life) and worst of all pediatric patients!! Both patients and family need your care- patients whose family members are available focus on getting better and not worry about being keft alone wuth strangers! Take care of the whole patient, not only the physical but also the mental health.The whole patient =the patient and the family members.Subjecting a kid that age to unnecessary separation anxiety from the mother is uncalled for. Hospital leaders please emphasize or think about it like this, what if it was your little daughter? These cases are so many in Kenya. Please please hospital management and leadership help families get closure. Pole sana Ruth. 😢 🙏🏾i pray for God's comfort and Divine Protection over you and little Vickie and your parents also.
You are right
Mimi ningembeba niede na yy sababu sinidawa alikuwa tu anapewa ,ningembeba nililie Mungu amponye ,Mungu ndie anafufua wafu God is the last card when everything jams!
Well talk we need more help from government talking about the hospital problems 👏🏽🙏🏽🇰🇪
Llll
Ll lol
This is so sad and painful may God give Ruth strength
I can't stop crying haki madaktari tafadhali ukiona kua mgonjwa wa mtu ako very sick plz let the care takers take care of their sick.. sasa ata huyu mtoto aliomba sana abaki na mamake but akakatazwa why!!!!!!!unapata ata security wanakufukuza na kuambiwa ngojea masaa za visiting.kueni na utu. Tafadhali
They are trying to reduce nosocomial infections. By limiting the time spent with patients.
Our Messiah please come through for her. Give her a new beginning, a time of rest and joy.
Pole sister but please take your child with you,unaeza rentisha kanyumba ukue unafanya job ukieda kwa nyumba yako jioni
Ruth is so so pretty
May God in heaven dry her tears..
God bless you Ruth
Lord may you comfort her soul, give her strength to continue with this life and take care of her family...may you favour her according to your words in Leviticus 26:9-12
I am glad she has released her pain...road to her healing.... may God heal you in Jesus name 🙏
TB inakuwaga very tricky 🤨kabla ujulikane uko na TB unakuaga umetibiwa pneumonia sana na ma private hospital that's why I choose government hospital coz magonjwa hupatikana haraka kabla hajaenea sana
😭😭😭😭😭 pole mummy. You've been thru alot.May God's healing be upon you na your family
This is too sad! The death of the little girl breaks my heart. 😰
She has been through alot. It's such a pity.
God give her strength. This is sooo painful to watch. Hugs mum
May God almighty protect and heal your son; And may your soul heal and find peace
Ruth please take your son and stay with him he needs your company without the sister.. it's good to suffer with your kids than leave them behind and regret later..,.chukua mtoto wako afadhali you suffer together in Nairobi.. please
I hope she does this
English please
Pole sana Ruth may u find peace through Christ so sorry for everything ur truely strong person
That man who rejected her with the pregnancy from the genesis is the course of all her misery, hugs mum all shall be well it really hurts expecially that time Michelle was telling you "mum usiniache" mum "unakam kaa nakufa" they really hurt I wish we could meet one day I give you a warm hug😌, God is in control
Very hurting indeed.
Sad indeed
this is so sad, lm a nurse in US the care for dying patients is very different. the whole family is always allowed to be with the patient even after hrs. l have seen patients take their last breath with their loved ones there, we hold their hands, give them hugs, coffee just to comfort them. kenyan hospitals need to do better, so disappointed.
Her mother inlaw speak and said that she will die while giving birth.... could it that those words are following her... instead of her dieing,her kids are dieing
N why on earth did she told her that.that atakufa akimzaa huyo mtoi.woi God always protect us.anafaa pia kujidisconnect with those utterances.abreak them off na aende Kwa pastor wazibreak na yeye
Her mother-in-law has no power over her life, but God does. Sometimes things fall apart in life and there is nothing we can do other than depending on God.
As parents we Must b very kin on what we yap.. si kuongea tu. Words have😢 power..😢
Pole sanaa mungu akupee nguvu
Some doctors though, private mostly,why keep a patient you can't manage?
May God intervine in Ruths Life… Very Sad indeed..❤❤❤❤❤
Very sad indeed
all she said is true. i have known her since she was a young kid. her nickname was Titai..
Pole sana, I've cried with you.
May God comfort you
A sad story indeed. May God wipe away her tears.
Soo sad mungu aliiyekumba wewe na watoi wako akupe nguvu na amani dada ngu
May God give you strength Ruth
Pole sana Ruth. It is so painful
I did not understand or speak the language. However, This must be a sad and painful experience. May Jah comfort you and be with you each day!
Jah bless!
She losted first born a girl baby
Pole sana! It's not easy but may God strengthen you!
😭😭so sad..may she heal
Sorry for that may God heal your heart.and please may you make arrangements to stay with your son .
The enemy caused this in an attempt to destroy Ruth's life but God will turn this around for His glory! God bless you dear sister Ruth! It was not your fault!
Amen. May God remember her.
It is such a sorrowful encounter,no parent is supposed to bury her child,I just pray that God may give her peace that surpasses human understanding,I will also advice her to make a plan and live with her remaining kid,cheers mum
Am so sorry 😭😭 aki pole
Wish I can understand what’s she’s saying in English
Turn on cc
It's better you don't hear it,it's so sad😭😭😭
That's sad. My wife translates to me most of these stories. Very painful and touching.
I don't understand kiswahili but I turn on cc
Tap CC on top of that video, English subtitles will came automatic
WOOOW 😪😥POLE SANA.SHE S BRAVE TO TELL THIS STORY.VERY SAD INDEED..MAY GOD STRENGTH HER ALWAYS
Haki shida ni mbaya mungu akutunze na akupee mume mzuri
Amen
Do not regret sister. Who knows, since he was abusive he could have killed you too seing that you seemed doing well without him.
Thank u.
Pole sana my dear encourage yourself in the LORD like David when their families were taken captives
What a sad story. May God comfort her
God will give the strength to overcome the loss take heart.pole sana
So heartbreaking. Am feeling the pain😢