Nicole Murphy Caught Cheeting With Antoine Fuqua, Lela Rochon's HUSBAND
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2019
- Model Nicole Murphy is in the hot seat after photos have leaked of her kissing a very married Antoine Fuqua. Fuqua, a Hollywood director is married to actress Lela Rochon. Since the news broke, the internet has been set ablaze with opinions and shocking allegations. According to Actress, Lisa Raye, this isn't the first time that Nicole Murphy has been caught messing with someone else's husband
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He cheated on her when she was slim and fine! Had 2 whole babies right? Ok so now what?
I dont understand why her weight is thrown in it. He cheated on her from the jump
Beauty Education thank u
Exactly!
Wait a minute! Wait a damn minute! Girl he had two kids on her? I'm I hearing this correctly?
#THATPART
He was cheating because he wanted to🤷🏽♀️. Her size probably has VERY little to do with it. All of the posts I’ve seen suggesting it’s her fault because of her body are juvenile and ignorant af to me.
PJ jones I agree! Men cheat on the what we call some of the prettiest and finest women! I believe that he is just a cheater
Exactly dum ass women sound crazy bitch Halle berry been her period
Mind you Beyonce Halle Berry was cheated on n they look good so weight has nothing to do with it.
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Agreed💯 Real sad to even bring this lady weight up🤷
Cheaters don’t care about looks. It’s opportunity
👏👏 Thank you
Hey Kbee! I'm Kee Bee as well! What you just said was absolutely true!
Queen Kee B hey I love Queen Kee B. Queen is my heavenly mommy’s birth name 😘😘
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Explain Lisa Ray, she looks beautiful. Men cheat!!! It does not matter how you look.
Exactly
Exactly . Looks nor status matter
Exactly, so many beautiful women with bangin bodies that cook , clean, work, take care of the kids, suck they husband’s d*ck on the regular be out here, AND STILL GET CHEATED ON!! Don’t matter, a cheater gon be a cheater perioodddttt. I just love to see when they leave that loser and level up like Ciara ❤️ So let’s hope Lela does the same 🙏🏽
Queen Sheena nice body and bad attitude don’t mix. Just like an obese woman and attractive don’t mix
@@mssheena24 same I love when they boss up. I was so happy karruche left c.brown for good
Lela Rochon’s weight is a non factor when Jay Z stay cheating on Beyoncé and she supposed to be the “baddest girl in the game, wearing my chain” according to him.
Halle Berry couldn't keep a man either
Diddy cheated on JLo, Kim, Cassie. In the words of Chris Rock, "a man is only as faithful as his options." Not all but most...
Beyonce ain't goin anywhere either sad tho SMH
Facts
mary janes baby yessssss
In the words of Judge Lynn Toler " Never have a man tell you he don't love you more than once".
Judge Toler speaks truth.
Thank you cause if he tell you that and your ass ain't gone he go treat you even worse
Let the church say amen!
Egypt Frazier they don’t even have to say it. Actions speak louder than words.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but, that cheating ain’t about you.
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Facts. Love your comment!
Yes, exactly. 💯
Marcus Darling thank you! People don’t get it
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She probably gained weight BECAUSE of the stress and depression from dealing with this unhealthy, emotionally abusive relationship.
MsFears plus she has lupus and the medication made her gain weight
I've been saying this . Stress manifests disease she probably developed Lupus from all this stress ......then the steroids and meds made her gain weight...smh I hope she leaves this marriage once and for all. It could literally kill her.
MsFears. yes looking at these pictures of Lela I see a woman that is very unhappy...in all probability caused by a toxic relationship
EbonyEverything Hines Firstof all, this post has NOTHING to do with Nicole. You’re the only person that mentioned her.
@EbonyEverything Hines WHAT ABOUT LISA RAYE'S HUSBAND...
Why is it that women have to keep themselves up but men don’t have too?
tlovespeaksss 🗣 ONE MORE TIME
And we all are aging. So your just going to keep getting a younger woman? because eventually your spouses looks will change.
Let the church say amen!
tlovespeaksss that’s a very good question I’ve been wondering that same thing myself!!
Always goes that way
Lala got her whole body done and Carmelo still stepped out on her more than once. I don't think looks really matter too much.
Her eye too... Nicca still cheated
@@anitablake3852 Those are her eyes tho. Her eyes are genetics.
@@joshuamcdowell5782 i get that. I was addressing the lazy eye she had and got corrected because the original statement said lala got her wntire body done for Melo and she did, including her womdering eye..
Wait. Lala got her body done? I thought that was a revenge body.
tangie47 no she got her ass done even touched her nose lala wasn’t looking like that in her mtv days 😂
"Show me the most beautiful woman in the world and I will show you the man that is tired of sleeping with her."
felecia ward thank you these men don’t cheat for that ppl need to grow up fat small big y’all they cheat because their mindsets period
"Perfect Stranger" lol
@@ladyroyalsupremest true. but this is a sex obsessed society of people who arent having any sex. if people here relaxed a little like Europeans there would be no need to tip toe
I feel like he would've cheated regardless of how she looked. He been cheating
havana right, he cheated on her when she was thin.
But when that "thing" dont work the same they expect the wives not to cheat when she can get her a 27 year old that can hang
@@tonglag2089 I heard that!!!!!!
Nicole Murphy is damn near 60. He did not cheat with a 27 year old woman so your point is moot.
Julia Lyons she looks like one... and it’s moot
@@funkydineva 😂😂😂💀
*moot
@Bigggest A sshole Ever FTS what stomach are you looking at because her stomacg is NICE
EXACTLY!
At the age of 55 I don’t want to be trying to keep up aesthetically with a 27 year old anyway.
You're absolutely Right! Every man doesn't want a skinny woman nor do they want to be with a 20 something Woman when they're in thier 40's and 50's! Antoine Fugua, cheats because he doesn't respect his Wife not because she doesn't look like she did 25 yrs ago!
At 51, Nicole needs to sit her old species looking ass down and be a grandma to her first grandchild. She is not attractive and her body...I have seen better. Jada Pinkett Smith's mama has her beat and she's 64.
Agreed. People expect her to be immortal. She can’t look the same as she did 30 years ago.
Jessica Mason Lol I do. I’m going be over 50 and fine with a banging body.
Julie Vibes well may the peace of the lord be with you.
How about we leave Lela out of this and discuss the person that cheated. She was his wife. If he no longer wants her then he should move on.
Why Is It Always On The Man To Move On And Not The Woman (Not Looking For An Argument Just Young And Curious) It’s Just As Simple For Her To Leave Just As It Is For Him Q Might’ve Missed The Marked A Teensy Bit But I See Where He’s Coming From
Exactly, you can only be responsible for ur self. Saying she has responsibility for her husband making the choice to cheat on her is crazy. It also continues the already proven flawed reasoning that weight, looks, how much sex etc. "make" a man cheat. This whole video is just not it. Stop making women the butt of all the ills of moral bankrupt, insecure men who cheat.
Boom!
He won't leave coz she made it comfortable for him to cheat. I was about to say Q is dead wrong, then I heard he has 2 kids on her while married 😱 No baby, she should have walked when baby one was made. We women have to understand that if we allow the behavior, it will continue.
If I cheated on my husband and he continues to take me back, guess what, I'm gonna still do it. Simple
I agree
My thoughts: whose to say Nicole Murphy isn't a high-paid prostitute?
She is.
I'm so glad Michael Strahan ran away from her
@@chelleyflowers4245 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
@@chelleyflowers4245 yep he got rid of her ass.
Someone doesn't understand what a prostitute is. Money needs to be exchanged.
I get what you're saying about woman gaining weight, or letting themselves go but then wonder why their men cheat but.....there woman who are bad af and still get cheated on. So to me that is not a good enough reason, nor is it justifiable. Some men just ain't shit.
Tash Velez true
Agree
Beyonce got cheated on and she was tight and right.....so cheating on somebody because of looks is not a good excuse. Men cheat because they want to cheat.
Tash Velez Exactly! jay Z cheated on fine ass Beyoncé.
Exactly! Kevin Hart cheated on Eniko and they be doin fitness videos together.
Ya'll stop - Antoine needs to be checked. Stop blaming the woman all the time.
Agreed!!!
True
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Thank you! People can only be a homewrecker if you let them in your home.
Blame BOTH
Eddie Murphy cheated on Nicole, and had a side baby, Antoine will cheat on her too.
Have you seen Hugh Jackman and Pierce Brosnan's wives? Have you seen the way their men worship them? Also, are you aware that Nicole was cheated on multiple times by Eddie, despite 'looking right'? I rest my case
koriri sawar I’m not disagreeing with you. But if the reason your man fell for you was your looks when you lose the look you’re gonna lose his love. Hugh jackman has always loved his old ugly wife despite the naysayers oprah even asked him why he was so hot and married someone that was older he said he loved her soul.
koriri sawar perfectly stated.
Aegon Targaryen 😂👌🏾
Exactly!!!
koriri sawar Pierce’s wife was model when she met him and was drop dead gorgeous! Even when she gained weight, he still stayed faithful along with the criticism.
Why is the wife always to blame for a trifling man cheating??? It’s just ridiculous. He’s trifling and doesn’t respect his wife. It has nothing to do with her weight.
Since we're talking"biology and science" ...then aren't women biologically wired to not associate with poor men...but let us cheat citing "he's broke" and see who agrees?
Period!!! No Respect!!
Lisa Raye's husband cheated on her with Nicole Murphy, and she has a beautiful, shapely, body. And. JayZ cheated several times on the BEAUTIFUL Beyonce....So, Dineva your point is??? You're dead WRONG for blaming Lela's weight for the reason her husband cheated.
Tracee Thompson wait but Fuqua has said that publicly about his wife.
@@EvilQween3488 and the physical changes goes BOTH ways cuz homeboy AIN'T no physique model at ALL!
Angelique Fisher Can you give me the link for when he publicly said that about his wife?
Sharon Powell Girllllll. I have to disagree. Lol. I think his body was on point. ☺️
@@redrobin3578 yea his body looks great.
Ehhh I believe you missed the mark here. Fat shaming, male centered and the list goes on.
This, this, THIS!!! 😤💯
Completely missed the mark!
I’m a male and agree. I have plenty of friends who find skinny and young women very unattractive 🤷🏽♂️
So missed the mark. If the roles were reversed, they would want Lela to honor her vows.
If Lela don’t leave and take this man for EVERY RED CENT HE HAS, she’s a damn fool. Make him pay you for your pain, Sis.
Also Lela Rochon has Lupus. I’m tired of the body shaming. My mom has Lupus, the medication has steroids. And even if that weren’t the case marriage is supposed to mean more.
I've found no proof she has Lupus??? Prove it put up a link and not to Mediatakeout.
Right there!
Well said
Based off your implied logic, everyone with lupus is obese/overweight & that’s not true. Toni Braxton has lupus & she’s not. That lady is stressed from all that bs she chooses to deal with...that that cortisol in her blood got her blowing up like that. Not to mention food for therapy.
@@trackgrad08 It's sad that people start sick rumors on people. Do they not know they can be sued for that? It"s called, "Slander". Not one legitimate news source has EVER said Lela has Lupus.
I agree with most of your other opinions, but this was trash
Your theory is flawed. Aesthetic has nothing to do with the kind of biology that you’re referring to.
blackrraine especially for no old shone.
yes it does. nicole still looks youthful and strong. that will trigger our bone instinct.
Yes it does
He still has money. He has directed the Equalizer franchise with Denzel. They were a hit. Lela needs to get her money and go. Stress kills.
Lela self esteem will never allow her to start fresh
you sound crazy blaming her for him being a cheater!
nelsonr1984 What did u expect coming from Dineva.. he doesn’t care for Black Women. PERIODT.
No dineva doesnt blame lela for her husband actions... He just said girl wake up because she's been sleep for too long ! 2 Kids outside of the marriage and she's not leaving ??
Very crazy and dumb as hell. He know what he know but what he doesn't he shouldn't make proclamations.
Exactly...CRAZY 4 REAL!!
@@elladelbello4175 💯
Body shaming Lena ain’t the move Q
Is it shaming or hard truth? Men like what they like. She doesn’t look the same as when he married. A lot of men aren’t attracted to heavy, plus size, thick what ever we calling it this week.
@@jenf836 It's shaming.
So now we can’t call an ace of spades an ace of spade. She’s fat now that’s a fact he didn’t say she was sloppy and ugly he called her fat and she is. All y’all fat women mad but Q didn’t tell one lie, stop being in denial.
@@jenf836Your absolutely right. I feel bad that she has Lupus because people brought up her weight but shes on meds. And on top of that her husband is a very rich man. The richer the man the more options he will have.But a regular man down the street who is not a millionaire might stay with an overweight woman but Fuqua is in Hollywood who is worth millions. And again this is somebody who cheated on Lela years ago so what makes u think he sympathizes with her having Lupus when he never respected her to begin with. It's cold yes but it's the truth. Side note when a woman gets sick a man is most likely to leave than a woman when a man gets sick. Not all men but most. I follow Sheraseven1 on youtube and she says this all the time. The best thing Lela can do is divorce him, put her trust in God maybe try working out take her meds and find her a richer man. Maybe a man from another country or outside of Hollywood and entertainment. And before other people at me saying I have no compassion I do but it doesnt change the facts.
Jamiea Ealey a cheater is a cheater you’re correct. Im fat so im not shaming but a lot of men aren’t attracted to fat. You said big as in thick size 14,16. Not 26,28. And that ok.
But when did he say he wasn’t attracted to her? This should be about him not her weight!
But you are blaming her for him cheating! Wow!
When you allow it... you are the blame. Why did she stay?
Two outside babies and she ain't left?!
Shaunte Singleton She knew about?
@@LilithTheAquarian369 2 different outside children and she still chose to say. So she knew he was a cheater.
Her gaining weight has nothing to do with him cheating on her he cheated because that's what he wanted to do
She been.playing.mama too so waiting on him
Leticia Smith and her weight gain could be from depression.
The solution to weight gain and lack of sex: Turn Off The Lights, ~Teddy P.
Ikr! Even Beyonce got cheated on. I gotta disagree with him on this one, especially when he said that's the way men are wired. NOT TRUE AT ALL!!
@@ashleywoodford3857 Even though he's gay he is still a man. I think he would have first hand account of how they think. It's the same in the gay community young and in shape wins out. Even if your not young if you keep yourself up you still have options example JLo.
Unpopular opinion: some side women and men get off on forbidden fruit and it has nothing to do with self worth or esteem and that’s just my thoughts
Tasha Monique agreed sometimes people just do what they want to do
That’s very true
Tasha Monique great point
Torpedo Of Truth Gurrrrrrrl!!!!! Say it louder for the ppl in the back hunty
Agreed!💯
Lol y'all taking relationship advice from a man that don't even like women😂😂😂😂🙆
Oooo shyt 😂😂😂😂
toy toy right he talkn about men are bio wired to fuck 22 year olds lmao he don't even apply to that dumb ass statement
lmaoooo ain’t nobody listening to his ass.. most of these comments are disagreeing 😂
EXACTLY!!!!
toy toy naw we just listening to the bs hoping the old Funky Dineva returns one day.
Slimy, trimy Nicole got cheated on. People who cheat have character & integrity issues. Period.
What about the women who constantly take men back after cheating? What issue do they have
Antoine Fuqua is a big time director. He just doesn't get the same praise as white directors. He just did The Equalizer 2. So if Lela got a divorce she would get some huge coins
Tamaiya Chapman they are in CA... she’ll get half at least.
Yeah Dineva need to start googling folk before doing videos. He's worth 25 million and Lela worth 10. Nicole was swindled out of most of her divorce settlement by a childhood friend who is now doing 22 years of federal time. Nicole is older & desperately looking for another Eddie.
@@SomerKnight Thank you!! LisaRaye told TMZ that Nicole is trying to get back in the same position she was in. She needs 💰 to keep up with her lifestyle. Child support only last til the age of 18 and all five of her kids with Eddie are grown. She is a whole grandma now.
She had Michael Strahan, she should have done right with that one.
Well with those to outside babies your not sure what she'll get child support will trump her alimony. She'll have to hope and pray he'll Direct any new movies lol!
🤔 He would cheat on Nicole too. Facts. Fine chicks get cheated on too. 🤦♀️
Saved by the Belle I don’t think Nicole cares hun she not tryna marry that man and if she is it’s only for money 🤷🏽♀️
Hello, look at LaLa Anthony
Eddie cheated on Nicole
Nicole doesn’t have any money after her friend swindled 10 million from her. She was behind 5 million on her mortgage. Nicole is looking for a sponsor. Period.
Lala, Halle, Beyonce, Khloe, Mary J, all the Basketball wives and millions of other beautiful women who keep their bodies tight get cheated on.
So you clearly didn’t do any research on this story before recording this video...😒
patasucia Obviously
patasucia what makes you think that?
Right! she has lupus and anyone who knows anything about lupus knows the medication makes you gain weight
Sorry Dineva, but this was OFF. The science is very murky when it comes to these evolutionary theories. I took a gender class and alot of this stuff was debunked by hard, or at the very least, conflicting scholarly studies. Remember, that we still living in patriarchy which wants us to hate ourselves (that's how cosmetic industry makes $$). Dineva is smart, but she don't know everything. Ladies, don't get caught up in this. Expect better from yourself and the men in your lives.
If she's a close family friend she know he's married
Exactly I was thinking the same thing SMH
Yes Lisa Raye said nicole was a close friend
That was my first thought when she said that dumb shit
She admitted she lied 🤥
Exactly! She is just as responsible as he is. She knew better and according to her had been cheated on while married to Eddie Murphy. Just being she is a single woman doesn’t mean she don’t have a moral responsibility to do what’s right.
Why is the assumption that he cheated because of her weight? I think that says more about the people that think that way 🤷🏽♀️
He could’ve been cheating on her the whole time
Lela may be staying for money. She hasn't done a movie in awhile. Nicole looking for a sugar daddy.
Girl I know
Exactly! And the jokes are tasteless!
Because he said it.
He doesn't need to have the conversation with her about moving on....he did that when he made them 2 kids outside the marriage.
Quentinnnnnnnnn, this video is all over the place baby. I ain’t feeling it. But I love you honey, we just gotta correct some of these mindsets you have.
A Man's mindset... At the end of the day he is a " Man"... telling us what is going on in his head... Is it right NO ...but that's life!!... When someone SHOWS you who they are believe it !!!
@@trudy-annterrelonge8858 ... 💯...
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Eema Butterfly he needs to leave straight men straight women relationships alone especially long term ones. He’s out of his depth.
@@trudy-annterrelonge8858 true
Yes. I was very disappointed.
Through sickness and health...if you’re not gonna follow that then don’t get married.
welcome1971 THANK YOU. It really is that simple. All of these other explanations and theories are moot.
Amen..
More like through THICKNESS and health....
Facts
Say it Dineva girl.
You can be as beautiful as Beyonce & if a man is going to cheat he's going to cheat.
Yes! 💯 that’s why it matters the quality of the man. I’m not getting in a marriage with a man that uses “biology” as an excuse to cheat
Ericka Hurtado Jay cheated! And that’s bcuz he had issues within himself. Cheating comes from the lack of self respect and dismissal of morals
Say, it Sis🙌🏾
Ericka Hurtado thank you! Beyonce was young and fertile when Jay-Z did his thing. This could happen to anyone unfortunately
It happened to Hallie Berry
I agree with all except the fat shaming! Lisa Raye is fit and Gorgeous and was cheated on.
Speak!!!!
This was a pretty far reach. You’re assuming that the reason that he cheated on Lela is because she’s heavier, yet the reason is most likely that HE’S A HEAUX. This is a very male-centered view of the situation and I disagree with about 85% of what you said. It’s ridiculous to bring up levels of attractiveness and not talk about how Fuqua is barely that.
This is another reason I’m loving my single life. This is dumb as hell.
As
HELL
Me too
Yes, single as well 💯😉
Life_as_I_know_it
RIGHT ON✊🏾
Listen, you said it 😂🤣😂🤣😂I’m like no thanks
Explain why Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce?
😂 Blame it on science
Girl, mic drop!! Beyoncé is one of the most beautiful women in the entertainment industry and her camel gave someone else a ride.
@@cheapskatesnob 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😭😭😂🤣💀💀 not her "🐪". His ole Curious George looking azz 😒.
@@cheapskatesnob - 🤪🐪🤭😭💀💯 lmaooo
@@cheapskatesnobu got me like😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏
Real love don’t have a damn thing to do with how a person looks
Speak on it sis exactly!
hmmmmmmm no this was gross and inexcusable and the whole apologizing to Lela was tacky...
It’s so many things wrong with this video smh, I’m disappointed how you blamed Lela for staying but found empathy with Nicole for being with a married man.
I agree
Faxxxxx
Funky dinvea has several issues digusting
You know Q can be fat phobic !!
Jay Williams yeah this commentary was way off.
Que, it's not just hetero Black men who are married and have side-chicks or run around with other women. There are plenty of *GAY* Black men who are unfaithful, promiscuous and sleep with any damn man that they can find on an app. It doesn't matter the sexuality because both gay and straight Black men grew up in the *same* households.
Definitely. I think he doesn’t see the similarities between gay black men and straight black men because marriage is kinda different between sexualities. Straight people get married more and have children
*sips ☕️ like Kermit the Frog* 🤷🏽♀️
Nicole is not 27! Fertility, age, size, does not explain away this bad behavior! Don't get married! 😠
Certain men are attracted and sleep with 20 year olds some grown men want grown healthy women
Lela Rochon has lupus. Some men will screw a whole in the wall if they could. People treat you how you allow. I hope she gets the courage to leave and keep her dignity and self -respect.
Chanelle Walker.....Can we consider that she is heavy because she is depressed about his cheating.
Chanelle Walker A man will fuck anything with a hole
@@redrobin3578 people on lupus take steroids, that's what cause the weight gain.
Linda Fisher I understand she has lupus but that affects everyone differently. Some gain weight, some lose weight. Could be depression as well.
@@cecegiles7753 that's a fact honeychile!
When you truly love someone your weight does not matter.
Yes Ma'am!!!
She broke. She lost that money that she got in her divorce. She trying to get back on.
There are plenty of fine women with nice bodies who have boyfriends/husbands that cheat on them. We have to stop placing women's value on the sole measurement of what they posses physically. Yes, its important to keep yourself healthy, but we all should have the right to age and even gain weight without losing all desirability. We have been conditioned to make excuses for men and some how find a way to blame the woman for her spouse's actions. If your Mother, sister or daughter was in this situation, i doubt anyone would say "so what did YOU do to make him cheat?"
PREACH
Feel how y'all might, *I feel bad because this kind of stress from this PUBLIC Embarrassment flares up LUPUS (even Cancer).*
But, he claims 1 kid the 2nd kid is allegedly as it hasn't been claimed.
She needs to dovorce him for her health and sanity.
I love you but you're smarter than this. Her weight has nothing to do with him cheating. Come on Dineva!
I think he made good points just his delivery
As Dr. Laura would say " BE THE PERSON YOU WOULD WANT TO COME HOME TO"🤔🤔
Exactly🤔 He was cheating on her since day one before she gained weight. That man is just a womanizer. He’ll cheat while she’s slim, thick or fat. It doesn’t matter. He’s a serial cheater.
RSVP with Lori it probably plays a role men are visual creatures as we all know.. Maybe he isn’t attracted to her anymore 🤷🏽♀️
@@UmmYasmin91 then leave
Only Lela can say when she's had enough. I'm glad all parties involved were addressed in this video.
Her body looks better but not her face. And her body is bought. 🤷🏾♀️
He cheated before the weight within first 5 yrs if the marriage so now what?! He’s just a dog let’s call it how we see it
Exactly 😒💯 I am so disappointed in Dineva for this crazy ass viewpoint... smh
If Halle Berry & Beyonce can get cheated on.... honey, ANY of us can get it! 🤷🏻♀️🙄
I agree with most of the women that commented on here: cheating has nothing to do with Lela gaining weight. He’s always been disrespectful towards her and that narrative that cheating is somehow the wife fault is dead 💀
Charm CC Why has she allowed it though? No one can disrespect you without your consent. What you dont change, you choose. Lela chose the lifestyle over her dignity, she's to blame as well for putting up with it.
@Char Char it’s easier said than being done. I want to know what she could’ve done to stop the cheating. Some people do not want to start all over again. Change is a difficult process especially when you get older. I’m not saying it can’t be done, but once you in your comfort zone, most of us don’t want to leave.
SPOT ON
I’m tired of this talk about bigger girls and all. Being bigger doesn’t mean you’re out of shape or unhealthy
Nicole looks well preserved for her age believe. BUT NICOLE AIN'T SEEN 27 YEARS OLD SINCE SHE WAS 24 YEARS OLD.
"Rubbing on ya chin fat , holding in ya fupa .." I'd like to say I feel personally attacked just by that one sentence 😂😂😂
Right? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!
I touched my fupa as soon as I heard it
Nicole & Antonio both ain’t $h!t!!! I would be headed to the nearest law office if I were Lela. No respect for their marriage. SMH 🤦♀️ #Divorce it is
Caprena Thomas after having 2 outside babies on this lady Lela should’ve BEEN LEFT his cheating ass
"I shoulda left yo ass a thousand times" in my best Mary J voice😥
@@latoyajohnson8695 I was thinking the same thing S**T The 1st one would had me SMDH 🤦♀️ and to forgive him and that N***a have another 1. I would have been OUT! because, next time it won't be a BABY it will be a STD. NO THANKS ! I'm GOOD 😊
Me too!
Latoya Johnson, yes she should have been left if that’s the case but I don’t know those people personally but I do still say those two are rotten individuals.
First of all.....Who is Antonio?????? Bye Funky! Smh I ain't listening to you until you get the names right lol
😂 😂 😂 😂 Ikr
Right?? Put the man's correct name in the video title and the summary and called him the wrong name through the whole thing 😂
Right lmfao!
LELA has LUPUS.. NO CAREER she probably felt helpless.. Hopefully she will leave him and take half
She still worth 10mil
Umm... Dineva you are a video journalist. Knowing your facts will separate you from being a MediaTakeOut type of vlogger. You took the cheap route by body shaming her.
Lol. Damn
Right!
I agree 100%
Her Story The Blog I just couldn’t believe it 😡 Like, Wait a minute Quinton🤨
Agreed
The minute he felt like he wasn't attracted to his wife and he wanted another woman, he had two options
1: Work with her to get healthier as a couple while remaining faithful
2: Get a divorce and go about his merry way with the women he was attracted to.
He chose neither, and is trash.
Chanell Botshekan Heyyyy twin we have the same name and spelled almost identical. Mine is Channell! 😊❤️
@@melanin_monroe1897 Hey twin!!!! I never meet Chanells with two L's! Wow
Chanell Botshekan 😁❤️
Chanell Botshekan this
Chanell Botshekan right he is straight trash 🗑
"Carnal" .. . is the key word, a carnal man's way of thinking..
You don't know this woman or her situation or their marriage to even have an opinion on what she should have shouldn't have done. Why not speak on the CHEATER instead of mainly blaming the victim.
Crystal Child she is not the victim. She allowed him to have 2 children while they were married. She was innocent maybe the first 2 times. But the third time? Nah sis she is not a victim.
If a man wants to cheat he will. It boils down to whether or not a man respects his marriage and the vows he took with that woman.
You should’ve held Antonie Fuqua a lil bit more accountable. Most of your comments were about the women involved. This often times happens with women. The burden of fault is placed on them when they’re being cheated on as well as when they do the cheating. Society has become so accustomed to men cheating that it’s almost normalized and when they get cheated on they’re the victims.
mydreamz8809 I think he touched on in the beginning. He has been cheating on her. He isn’t surprised because lela has allowed him to cheat on her.
“Don’t attack me. Attack the science” 😂
Q... I completely agree lela and fuqua should have dissolved this a while ago... and some of us as women want to know the answer to that question... why get married when you really just wanna be single??
Weight don't have shitttttt tttt to do with a cheating man
Anna Cruze yes it does 🤦🏽♀️ I’m not attractive to fat men so I didn’t marry one. If my husband gains weight I’ll cook healthier meals and encourage him to loose weight.
Msbutter love that’s you lol. There are a lot of chubby chasers out there.
@@msbutterlove4619 well I hope he does just to see how you react... nobody knows the future and what your body will do.. marriage is for better or worse
Msbutter love but she is saying that you can be attractive and still get cheated
When he said Nicole looked like a Pose actress 💀☠️💀🤣😂🤣
That was my favorite line during this whole video🤣🤣
😲😲😲 LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Keemy Lashay I died 😂😂😂😂
Teresa Smith me to. I rewind it so many times 😂🤣😂
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She's actually been in movies after waiting to exhale ... why do fools fall in love is one of them and more so dont try to play her resume bruh do some research first
Just a side note: She's battling lupus, has an autoimmune disease after 2 complicated pregnancies which resulted in her weight gain. I thought marriage was for better or worse, in sickness and in health.
Just when I thought I was going to sleep. Here you go. Thank you!!!
Me 3😂😂😂 It is midnight and I needs to be sleep! Have a great night ladies 🖤
annika Clarke girl me too. I’m so damn sleepy 😴 watching this post😂
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annika Clarke, welp...it's 1am in the DMV, I just got up to pee, now I'm stuck on Funky😂😂😂😂
That's her Husband!!! Not her Boyfriend!! Weight rich poor sick whatever. If you love someone, those criteria's shouldn't matter!! You love someone through it ALL!!! This is BS!!!!!
"Fat girls catching the jitney to work" 😂😂😂 I almost fell out my chair
Cheating is a reflection of the person who cheated, and NOT the person being cheated on.... you can jump through hoops and someone will still cheat on you, because it's in their character to cheat....Point, Blank, Period!!!! A small waistline, pretty face, and whatever other physical attribute won't keep a person who doesn't have a mind to respect you and not cause you pain.
BIOLOGICALLY speaking, the girth of a woman would mean that she is healthy and the fetus would thrive within the confines of her body. BIOLOGICALLY speaking, at the PRIMITIVE level, a man wishing to procreate would look at Nicole and question if the fetus would get enough nutrients. #BIOLOGYmajor
Brittney Sherman my point had less to do with his attraction to Nicole and more about his non attraction to his wife
@@funkydineva YES!!!! And I totally agree!! As adults, we HAVE to be willing to have these uncomfortable conversations BEFORE we commit to a person. Just be honest with me!! If I gain 30 lbs and that's a dealbreaker for you, LET ME KNOW! Hurt me with the truth so I can adjust accordingly. Love you Funky!!
@@funkydineva she wasn't out of shape when he had the kids outside the marriage though, so could we just go out on a limb here and say this is just about him and who he is.. she was still waiting to exhale when he was making babies. Let's be for real how many times has the side piece looked like just that dry ass rice sitting next to filet mignon. You are way to experienced to believe this is solely about is unattractiveness to her.
Round of applause. Told this to someone earlier. Not as eloquently.
#NotABiologyMajor😂
Come thru BioMajor!!!!!!!!!!
I’ll go to bed in 14 minutes and 40 seconds lol
Rest well Sista Jasmine
Lol right ! Then be wanting them back in the morning 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣well I'm at work so I'll will be up all nite....
jasmine ok
@@tamikamayes8071 Have a great shift!
You don't like women so what happened to you naturally? According to your theory
He may still be physically attracted to young females. Just speaking sexually. But he CHOOSES to date men. It happens..
The most upsetting thing is this, instead of conversating more about infidelity vs. faithfulness, we have completely shifted this narrative Into Thin vs non -thin
So what's the excuse when the wife is twenty seven and the girlfriend is twenty seven. Your theory has holes in it.
Yvonne Martin Yeah. All men are as loyal as their options. And they almost always have more options that the woman because of the dependency of marriage. So it is what it is. Beyoncé, Halle Berry, Pamela Anderson, Princess Diana, Marilyn Monroe, etc. etc. are all examples of women who stayed beautiful and still couldn’t keep a man faithful. Beauty is not protection. Men are men. Period.
Men are attracted to 27 year olds. Males try to get it in as often as possible with as many as possible. Look at harems and polygamists.
Morgan Carroll thank you
Well, YOUR supposition has holes in it. Or hasn't been set up thoroughly enough. Both being 27 in your hypothetical situation is irrelevant as Nicole & Lela are also in the same age bracket , so the age factor is a moot point as it's relative. The question you NEED to be asking is what if one of the 27yr olds has let herself go & the other is fit, cuz that what it comes down to. Antwon didn't go get with a 27yo & his wife is in her late 40s/early 50s --- he got with a woman who was his wife's age (or close to it) who was more physically attractive (bodywise, anyway). That being said, even if Lela was fit, this man has proven he would still cheat cuz he's greedy with no self-control
He cheated when his wife was slim now what🤷🏽♀️
He's been cheating since the BEGINNING of the marriage. Before the weight gain. So please explain that. Your resentment and condescending attitude towards black women never ceases to amaze me Quentin. Just sad
I'm a woman and I agree with EVERYTHING you said. When you break it down to simple biology men are attracted to young beautiful women who are the most fertile. It's just NATURE. It's no shock that a man will find a woman unattractive when she starts lookin round like a female Cedric the entertainer. I mean come on! But yes, he can still CHOOSE to NOT cheat. But ppl need to stop being in denial about simple biology.
But no one is talking about the married guy only the single person
Beante Hollie I’m saying! He cheated on his wife too
I’ve seen videos bashing him though
Im blaming the spouse...always!!! Idc if the spouse is sick or not- if you made the vow, and you violate those vows, the fault is on you.
@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 his wife knows he is a cheat but chose to stay with two kids with other women
Right!
Nicole is like 50 though so....? That young woman thing doesn’t fly here.
I agree. And now that I think of it, all the people I’ve seen get cheated on it was rarely with someone significantly younger.
Ok you know what, you had me rollin with the intro 🤣😂🤣
He was cheating when she was " Fine" as they say, He is a cheater 🤷🏾♀️