Heroin Addicted Transgender Woman-Bethany
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of bethany, a homeless, heroin addicted transgender woman living in New York City.
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Most of us learn at a young age "don't judge a book by its cover" but videos like yours mark help remind us as adults how important that is
Exactly I've been through so much and have been told by many people I don't look sick or hurt if only they knew but I really don't care if they don't know I know
Well said
@@janicetillman6044 I understand. I have a sister and daughter who live with illnesses of chronic pain. They repeatedly get told they don't look sick. Heartbreaking because it makes them feel hopeless.💔
@@marylougeorge9890 PEOPLE CAN BE SO IGNORANT SOME TIMES ! THEY WILL NEVER TRULY KNOW UNTIL THEY THEMSELVES EXPERIENCE CHRONIC PAIN. TRUST ME JUST BECAUSE MY SYMPTOMS MAY BE INVISIBLE To THE EYE MY PAIN I ASSURE YOU ISN'T. IT KILLS ME WHEN MY BROTHERS SAY I'm FAKING IT, BLESS YOUR SISTER AND DAUGHTER FOR WHAT THEY HAVE TO GO THROUGH! AND BLESSING'S TO YOU FOR BEING SUCH A COMPASSIONATE AND AWESOME SISTER AND MOTHER TO YOUR DAUGHTER. TAKE CARE AND BEST WISHES....
@@janicetillman6044 EXACTLY JANICE, TAKE CARE MY FRIEND! AND ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL WELL BLESSINGS...
“I want to change people’s perception of what a homeless person is.”
You have definitely done that with this interview, Bethany. Thank you!
The example of the little girl showing Bethany compassion and kindness is the most important lesson here. A smile can brighten anyone’s day. Your work here is so very important, Mark, thank you.
Glad someone showed this MAN compassion!
Bethany is such an amazing person. She is lovely.
He
The mother put the girl at risk.
He’s a man.
Remember anyone of us can have our life changed permanently in an instant. Whether it be a car accident, stroke, heart attack anyone of us can end up like Bethany. It makes me appreciate what I have and realize how fragile life truly is.
I was just thinking the exact same thing!
Amen!! I honestly could NOT have said it ANY better!!
~GOD BLESS YOU ALL & I hope everyone reading this TRULY DOES HAVE ABSOLUTELY THE MOST AMAZING & VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎅🏼🤶🏼☃️🦌🎄⛄🎁 AS WELL AS AN INCREDIBLY BLESSED NEW YEAR!!!
Factzzz
But for the grace of God go I.
Yip, You’re so right , Treat each day like it’s your last - Cos one day ur be right……..🫶🏻fifi
It’s crazy how wound the body seems compared to how calm the voice is.
Yeah thats the "kicks" from heroin withdrawal. It sucks. Its miserable. And as can be seen, it isn't always just the legs that kick..the whole body kicks. Im thankful everyday for my sobriety, and not having to go thru that shit anymore. Hopefully this person can get some help and clean up, and start actually LIVING LIFE instead of just surviving it.
They are probably speed balling, doing speed to wake up from heroin and doing heroin to calm down from the speed, your body doesn’t know whether it wants to sleep or build a stereo
@@amber_Forever16 Where I come from, that’s a goofball, and a speedball is coke & H. Slang charges wherever you go!
@@mattjack3983 congratulations on being sober!! Especially from herion that shits no freaking joke so u should be extremely proud of yourself!!! If nobody's told you today you matter you're worthy of all the good things life can offer thank you for choosing life!!!
@@mattjack3983 that’s not kicking’ he’s to calm no sweating, none of the gagging coughs plus way too articulate.
Can honestly say I'm blown away. Was expecting an incoherent mess of an interview, kinda like the spice addicts. Bethany, despite all of her trauma and battle with addiction, is more articulate than some of the smartest, soberest, squarest MFs I know. Maybe I shouldn't judge a book by its cover...
Same thing here. This interview with Bethany (watch many on S.W.U.), really broke me. I'm originally from Manhattan. Grew up there. Know her neighborhood. When I go back (live far away now), I know I'll be looking for Bethany everywhere. She is such a beautiful soul. This is the "only" interview that I've saved from this channel. Prayers that someone out there helps her.
This 👆🏼
Well said. Completely agree
My thoughts exactly 👌🏻
You never should ever
Bethany, we see you, and we love hearing you speak about your thoughts and feeling, I hope we see you again...I am sorry this world has been so unkind to you, but your wisdom and kindness has already been a lesson to many people here already, keep spreading the word with love in your heart. You are beautiful 💗
@DinkyPixie AGREED 1000% Be safe Bethany. I hope you find peace and love. Good luck 🍀
This is so beautiful as Bethany is.
I agree! I would love an update video on her!! I loved listening to her speak about her life.
Yes absolutely right 👌🏻
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Say what you want but the statement (paraphrase) "I headed for the weeds because I had visions of killing a family coming home from soccer" "I'm so grateful I was by myself" and "it was my fault" in regards to the car accident - speaks volume about this person's character.
I was in New York at the beginning of September, in Washington Park, I saw and met Bethany. She was getting a cigarette under the bench that me and my fiancé were sitting on. She was so kind and respectful as she went to grab it. I could tell by that small interaction we had with her that she was a sweet soul. She has a dog with her and that made me happy knowing she had someone to care for 💗. I couldn’t believe it when I saw this video this morning. She left an impression on me even though I only met her for a few seconds. She left a mark on how I saw people.
I'm so glad she has a dog after her mother took her service dog. I will sleep just a little better tonight knowing that. Thank you for your comment. It's clear that Bethany's got a conscience. She's a beautiful soul.
I love this sweetheart of a woman. She has so much to live for. She's cute. She's intelligent as hell. She's so loaded with common sense. Bethany will always be in my prayers.
Thank you for this
That's so lovely to say!!I
I'm right off Madison Ave by Washington park
When you first see the dazed wandering eyes, the sores, the tortured physical discomfort manifesting itself in the awkward body movements, you think "omg, how is this person going to even get part way through this interview...". But then hearing how functional Bethany's cognitive abilities still are, and how observant and reasonably eloquent she still is (given the abuse, drugs, hard life etc), that was a real eye opener to see those contrasts, and how the rough exterior camouflages a kind and sentient interior.
Alejandro,
I was thinking the same. But you said it better than I could have.
Man, she would have been the best, most loving and caring Vet.
He.
@@naelyneurkopfen9741 I stand corrected. He.
@@SunShine-sv8vx so do we use her former pronouns because this was before she transitioned?? I think it’s she/her because that’s what she uses.
He, he is a man
I think it's pretty obvious that Britney goes by she / her pronoun. Why do people make it such a big deal of course she was born in a male's body but she prefers to be viewed as a female
Bethany is by far one of my favorite interviews you've done Mark. Bethany has a very keen intelligence about humanity. She was memorizing to listen to. I hope that one day she may heal from the traumas she has endured.
I want to see her get sober and start a new life. She’s so intelligent and articulate. She has principles. Please salvage your life, you’re such a good person and deserve so much more and you have so much potential!
Yes, my first thought was how articulate she is. I can only hope that life will be more kind to her. It could be anyone of us sitting there in front of the camera.
That’s a man. Why u calling him a she?
@@wid5625 the people in these videos sometimes watch their videos and read the comments. They don’t need to see such ignorant comments as the ones you leave on this channel. If you’re going to be a troll and comment for the sake of being hateful why don’t you go to another channel. You clearly don’t understand what mark and swu are trying to do.
@@wid5625 Because we can. Just as you can pick and choose your words, so can everybody else you're not better than🤷🏿♂️
@@mamacitaslove Just stating facts. And the fact is, that is a man. No matter what he does or says, He will always be a man. 🤷🏻♂️
This interview touched me to my core. I feel so ashamed of how as a collective we don’t recognize the humanity in people who suffer. We decide that they must have chosen this life or that they don’t want to be seen. When in reality someone like Bethany sees us for what we are. Cruel and indifferent 🥺
Very well executed comment. I am watching this and have also been touched to the core as you were.
This is one of the most beautiful interviews I've watched.
And I've basically watched them all.
Bethany.... I want to hug you. I am so sorry this has happened.
I wish I could come scoop you up and bring you home and nurture you.
You're truly an insightful and beautiful person.
Yes!
I was thinking literally the exact same thing throughout this entire interview. 🙌🏽🧡💕
Such a shame
I feel the same too everyone has feelings
Same. Love Bethany 🥰
One of the most genuine people that Mark has interviewed in my opinion. I wish people were not so cruel, she does not deserve it. I hope to see updates on her in the future. Keep being positive Bethany!
I hope you do a follow up on Bethany, she's such a sweet soul 🥰
HE IS?!? Will you now go help him? Or just VIRTUE signal?
@@beautruex7012 *she
@@monikac1657 *He
@@clvrswine *she
I agree. I really like her. It’s amazing how real she is after being on the street a long time. A lot of people put on more of a facade to avoid being vulnerable. I know I did, for awhile, until I realized it doesn’t work. Everybody has vulnerability.
Mark, this has been the best interview so far. Bethany is beautiful inside and out. No one should have to deal with violence and it saddens me to hear her daily struggle with what society calls human beings. She deserves so much more. Addiction is not easy and everyone deals with something. Her spirit lifted me and I thank her for that.
He is a man
Yes, she is beautiful
Your fullllll of shi+ seriously
I agree with you Andrea
@@yesterdayseyes such a dumb azz statement!
would love a future update on bethany. . something about her had me drawn to this interview and that's very far and few between with some of these!hoping for better days bethany🙏🏻
Same here! A good heart is very easy to recognize.
Yes, anyone who loves animals and wants to care for them can’t be all bad. She’s caring and compassionate even after all she’s been through.😢
You can just sense the good in Bethany. Yes, she’s a drug addict and homeless but as a society we forgot the human side to that. She is so well spoken and thoughtful and just had a bad run in life. I hope for the best and please do an update on her when you can.
Yes!
Nah. He’s a perverted male pretending to be a woman. Nothing good about that.
@@dewilew2137
What’s perverted about wanting to live in a way & dressing in a way that makes you happy?
Yes, please do an update 🙏 for us all, stay safe, I wish I could help you some 🤔 how.
@@melodymiller3282 I wish I could do something to help her too. It’s weird how some of these stories just hit me right in the feels and I want to find the person and save them. Not all but some. Bethany falls into that category.
Bethany looks like she's in a daze but everything she's saying is coherent and hits like bullseyes on a dart board. I'm so glad this interview was done and that we could hear just a part of her life. I hope soon one day she can get cleaned up and live a happy life.
EDIT: To the people leaving nasty comments and replies, did you learn nothing from watching the video? does it please you to punish someone who's already at their lowest for reasons they don't deserve? I don't pity Bethany, she's seen more of what life has to offer than most of you ever will sitting on your make-shift thrones passing judgment on those who are different. I do however pity you all who learned nothing from her words, a kind word or a smile is all she ever asked for, not your poison. Shame on you all.
Love your thoughtful and intelligent metaphor and writing style. Much love and respect!
I think that daze like expression is from her head injury from her MVA. Same goes for some of her posturing, but that could be from the fentanyl and Xylazine she’s uses
That's a dude.
@@wizardofahhhs759 no one asked your opinion.
@@foamia Yet you responded. And it's not an opinion it's FACT that's a man.
I need an update on Bethany. She’s so kind and intelligent. She made a mistake and is still paying for that mistake 20 years later because of pills prescribed to her by a doctor. She is an example of the plight of the people of the opioid epidemic. Please find her again.
He’s a dude
@@jackhoff7712 nope, try again
@@dustylikewtf okay, it’s a guy
@@jackhoff7712 be transphobic somewhere else, loser
@@jackhoff7712 look man you might not agree with it, but she’s not shoving shit down your throat forcing you to live her way of life, just let them be happy. If you can’t have that decency towards a human being that shows a lot about how you feel towards yourself on the inside.
Bethany the story you told about Ella giving you the book is so sweet! How wonderful that you can still see the beauty of humanity even if it isn't often. You deserve to be healthy and happy Bethany, you are so much more than your past, your trauma or your mistakes. You deserve to fight for yourself. Sending you my love and encouragement 💞
Beautifully said Joanne ❤️
I hope Ellerby's Mother is watching this to know what a beautiful, kind , caring daughter she is raising. We need more Ellerby's in this world. Bethany is a wonderful soul and I wish her nothing but the best in her life.
❤❤❤
An articulate voice - a flower growing from concrete 🙏🏾🙌🏿❤🌻
Beautiful choice of words
This poor thing! Even after the car accident she was so relieved she didn’t hurt anyone else!😢 Just a life that took a wrong turn due to unfortunate circumstances.
Drunk driving not a wrong turn... But I agree she did not want to hurt anyone
Its amazing to me to see the intelligence coming from from her. My own bias leads to me not expecting much, but she has completely proved me wrong. Addiction is a terrible thing, I'm sorry you are a victim of this epidemic.
I agree, she's very articulate ❤️
Man.. I'm an ex heroin addict myself. Started with roxacets. I'm not speaking for/about Bethany, but I dont feel like a victim🙏 I made a choice to try that first roxacet. Didn't know where, or what it would lead me to, but I can't sit here and say or feel like a victim. I think that mentality in regards to addiction is counterproductive. It places blame on the substance, on this society, and not on the person. I buried 9 close friends, 25+ acquaintances. They're the reason I'm not a victim. I'm one of the blessed few to make it out🙏 Theyre the victims IMO. So do you need to die to be a victim to this? No, but I think it can be a problem to just treat this like each addict had no part in their own downfall. It's a disease, but its a disease you have to make some type of choice to sign up for. You dont just wake up a heroin addict like people do with most other diseases🙏
Just my two cent. I dont mean to offend anybody. If you wanna feel like a victim to this, by all means, but I dont think there's anything positive in that, other than placing blame onto something other than yourself. It's the same type of thing where addicts do xyz and then blame xyz solely on the drugs. Like no.. The drugs are the motivation, the encouragement, they're not the culprit. You are🙏 There's too much deflection in this. YOU wanna get clean and stay clean it takes taking responsibility for YOUR actions. 6 years clean and I'm never going back. I owe it to everybody I lost🙏 R.I.P Hailey, Matt,Joe,Eddie,Karen, Amanda, Steve, Tom, Alberto, and the many others ravaged by this🙏 all those broken families🙏 I have some type of survivors guilt for even making it out. Truly wish it was Hailey instead. She was Fucking 18.
@@troyrussell177 If you're addicted to opiates these days they can get on methadone and get shitfaced every day. I dont understand why they continue to chase crappy street drugs when you can get a legal option. Theres really no excuse to live like this these days.
Fight , you are worth it. Please.
@@tubester4567 idk about all that, but methadone is kinda fucked. When suboxone, and subutex became a thing, methadone should have be thrown to the curb. Too much $ in it though
Mark, this beautiful interview with Bethany, is the ONLY one that I will save and share. The love is amazing. Bethany is so kind and so full of love.
This interview really touched my heart. I had a work accident back in 2001 and needed 2 back surgeries and my drs prescribed opiates like tic tacs as well and I loved them. A few years later I too was told “this was my last prescription “ and I was in shock! The one difference is I got pregnant and wasn’t about to start looking for heroin. I wish I could give you a big hug Bethany. You’re in my thoughts!
Yeah i know all about that as well. In 1998 I was shot 4 times. Underwent a couple surgeries, and spent about 6 weeks in the hospital. And for YEARS after that I was prescribed literally as much of whatever I wanted as I wanted. I, too, loved my opiates. And when the doctor told me one day that he was filling out my last script, I was literally DEVASTATED. And unfortunately, I became a heroin addict not long after that script was gone. Ive been clean now for almost 7 years. But it always amazes me how many people I meet whose stories seem to be exactly like mine. Just regular people who had some kind of accident or injury or something in the late 90s/early 2000s, back when doctors would prescribe u 30 percoset for a skinned knee. Its absolutely unreal how many "addicts" were made during that time. And alot of us didn't even realize how addicted we truly were until the scripts were stopped!
Also just barely escaped serious addiction but mine was Percocet prescribed after my c-section... Didn't realize it but I was given a huge bottle and later started to get one here and there, for a headache, for cramps etc. One day I caught myself getting home after an annoying day and as soon as I got in the door went for the medicine cabinet. I stopped myself in shock, like WTF GIRL YOU NOT EVEN IN PAIN! I honestly dont know how often I did that, it was on auto pilot and I realized I liked how they felt. I got scared and flushed the rest (ik) don't remember if I had any withdrawal stuff but I had almost finished the bottle by then, with a baby girl💔
@@mamat1213 bless your heart!!!!
She is INTELLIGENT & so well spoken.
She expresses the human condition perfectly honest, & perfectly broken.
She is an addict but she is an ancient soul.
This was one of my favorite's by far. An honest, kind, sweet, beautiful woman. I wish you continued kindness and love, Bethany
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve heard in a while. Thank you for your bravery and heart, Bethany
Bethany, I’m so sorry I judged before hearing you. You are beautiful and brave. You do not deserve to be treated as if you’re not important. That story you told of the little girl and the book makes me want to be a better person and mother. Thank you and I’m sending you healing energy. I speak into existence: you will be healthy and off the streets.
I love your comment. I feel the same.
@@amrita4468 💜 💜 💜
U were correct 1st time...this person is high asf talkin out his ass
😭😭💞💞💞
Would you put your daughter at risk by letting her be around this person?
Some of the kindest people I’ve met are homeless. They look forward to a kind word & a smile. I’ve given to the homeless & I’ve fed the homeless. I looked forward to seeing them every Sunday, as much they did, seeing those of us that help feed them. Bethany has a beautiful heart, I have compassion for the homeless, you can never convince me that they deliberately chose this lifestyle. I don’t believe they set out to become an addict or homeless, sadly we live in a world where no one cares about the homeless or the situations they’re in. What’s really sad is, yes, people can walk pass a homeless person, totally ignore them as if they’re not even human, not knowing their stories, but are always so quick to judge. Thank You Mark for the compassion you show each person that gives you an interview, I’ve learned a lot watching & listening to their stories.
Damn Bethany. Prayers up for a better tomorrow
She’s so smart . You can tell by the way she intellectually speaks ! NEEDING AN UPDATE ON HER, most definitely, Mark ! 👌🏾👌🏾💚
Another victim of big pharma. Dopesick, years later.
Perfect timing, Mark. Heartfelt thanks from Croatia.
You take care of yourself, Bethany. God bless.
Literally just thinking the exact same thing. I normally find a comment not too far down that saves me having to word it. You did it spot on 👌
So many victims with the same story of getting by with that little "help" from their "trusted" Doctor.🙄
I believe the production of OxyContin was intentionally designed to ruin lives. Another nefarious plan to thin the herd.
@Karen Cahill YES!!!!!!
So sad
"i started systematically destroying my life." I felt that.
You’re a genuinely good person, Bethany. I wish life dealt you differently.... I will keep you in my thoughts and please try to always keep hope.
I have watched a lot of these interviews and it was this one that made me cry. Bethany is a kind, beautiful soul who deserves so much more.
When she said she wished she had died in the accident hurt my soul. All my love and prayers go to you. You are precious and valuable. Your life is so very important and I pray that angels protect you and guide you. You are so much more than your Addiction. I finally got sober after 20 plus years of addiction. And I feel your pain so deep. Bless you dear Bethany! 💜😌😌😪💜
She sounds like she got a frontal lobe head injury bc those are the symptoms 😭 🙄
When HE said! SMFH
Her, she! Bethany nouns are she and her! Get it straight or shut up!
@@samienos1891 who are you talking to?🤔
@@beautruex7012 *she
This person is so incredibly amazing. I wish she could get off drugs because the world needs her perspective, intelligence, sensitivity.
The most articulate statement I've heard on this world in a long time.
I am a student at NYU and have not seen Bethany. I will now make it a goal to seek her out. So wise, so genuine, so caring. She is truly amazing and I hope to find her.
Have been watching your videos for almost two years now. Thank you for making me a better person.
She is very articulate and smart,..if you turn the sound off you wouldn’t believe it.
You mean HE is!!!
@@beautruex7012 - Who are you to to tell them who they can be?
@@beautruex7012 just like you i am kinda iffy on the pronoun thing but is it too much to ask To give her that respect?
@@ATF_CA trust me. You can’t be a turtle no matter what you do 🤷🏾♂️
@@beautruex7012 are you threatened by her? You must be otherwise you wouldn’t care.
Amazing to hear Bethany speak about being spiritually recharged (31:20) by people who take the time to recognize a shared humanity. Also saying the money is necessary but just as necessary is the mutuality of being expressed by some of the passersby that makes life worthwhile. ...Wow. How generous is that!?
OMG this was tough to watch 😩 Bethany seems like she's in so much pain, both physically and emotionally. Wish I could give her a big hug 💖🤗💖
It's a he not a she
@@BiggestDookie ugh, please don't start with that crap. Fair enough, that's your opinion, but why not respect her? It doesn't hurt you. Do you not think she has suffered enough?!
@@BiggestDookie while i am not one who agrees with this fad of "you are what you identify as" bullshit, I will say I do agree with a man being a woman and vice versa. She looks as if she had gone through some stuff to transform but that isn't for us to say or judge. Now the whole "I'm a they" thing, no that's is fucking stupid and needs to stop now.
@@omaha1361 👍👍👍
I think she’d really like that. 💐
Shes an incredible storytelling, her flow is very captivating
I was thinking the same thing! Her pace and wording is so clear
@@Pink_celeb420 that's a man not woman
@@irishscience580 pathetic how people like you continuously go out your way to disrespect someone
@@irishscience580 WHY IN THE HOLY MOTHER OF FUCK ARE YOU HERE?
*He
Originally clicked on this video Bc how she looked but once I listened to her it showed me how beautiful she is as a human. I hope one day things get better for her.
I’ve watched all your interviews and this by far is one of my favorites. What a genuine sweet beautiful person you are Bethany. I see you.
Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation.
~ Augustus
What you do for these human beings that is so humanizing and beautiful. What you do most of us wouldn't do. What you do is so brave. What you do is so important on so many levels...
What you do Mark, is listen.
That is just so simple, yet humanity doesn't or won't take the time, energy, effort or grace to show any dignity for these people. Since the beginning of time, outcasts should have been helped.
I humbly thank you and I hope and pray, that someday I can be of help to someone, as much as you.
Thanks Mark, you're remarkable.
He is the American Mother Theresa, with some Dorothea Lang, Carl Mydans, Jacob Riis, and others who did what they could to shine light on the darkness humans avoid or refuse to look at if possible. He is an Angel with endless curiosity, forgiveness and eternal hope. Like all similar Souls, he is thought crazy by people who do not hear and see what he does. He does not share any vices, but his focus is nearly an addiction. He was born for this.
He and his camera have made the world a better place, person by person, issue by issue, day by day, for years. It is incomprehensible that he has not burned out. He clearly has inner wells of strength few can comprehend. The ripples of his choices go far and wide helping.
No problem gets solved without an
OODA loop. Orient, Observe, Decide, Act. You see a thing. You try to assess it or identify it. You then decide if you can take action and if so what. Then you act.
No problem on earth has ever, or will ever gets solved until it is acknowledged to be a problem. Mark shows us the problem. The rest is on us.
I don't want to hear that but I'm in no position to argue with Imperator.
@@annieseaside Wow! You have quite the mind and ability to communicate your thoughts beautifully!
Annie, do you write professionally? If not, may I inquire what industry you're in?
I've never read anything close to what you've written... you need to re-comment, so Mark can feel what you've written dear Annie!
May God bless and watch over your lovliness! 🙏🤍
Totally agree
Bethany seems so genuine and down to earth. She's articulate and self-aware. Her story is a great reminder that bad things happen to good people and your entire life trajectory can be changed. I love what she said about the family she has now verses the family she grew up. These people "choose to love me", what a beautiful sentiment.
What a sweet intelligent soul Bethany.. something about her draws me in.. she’s been through so much yet she’s still so strong. Would love an update on her one day!
I’m completely shocked with how coherent Bethany is despite the condition of her body. I was expecting her to be completely out of it but she she seems very intelligent. It’s still very sad to watch.
Bethany seems to be just a very kind person.
it honestly breaks my heart seeing the state her body is in and the place where she's at in her life. she seems lik the most genuine person ever. she is beyond beautiful and i would love to be her friend.
The drug companies should be so ashamed about the what they’ve done to so many people. She is a really beautiful person and I hope and pray she can find her way back from it. Thank you for sharing her stories. Send it to the drug companies!
Blame the addict , addiction is a choice .
Love this comment! Thank you.
@@mikeheaton8424 I use to think that and that’s what the drug companies would Iike you to think too. If you any research at all you will find the drug companies are just like the big tobacco companies. They knew giving just a certain amount of these drugs could easily create an addiction in most people. She was in a car accident and was giving pain medication to heal and unfortunately she became addicted. This happen to a person I know who got gout in their big toe. Suddenly they need it all the time. Addiction is not a choice.
@@mikeheaton8424 judgmental ignorance is a choice. Opioid addiction / dependence is a very complex situation and it is easy to throw blank statements blindly without understanding…. People like you are the problem and create a bigger divide between the have & have nots. Educate yourself on the topic before commenting.
Bethany is a truly beautiful soul ❤️ I wish her the best and hope she can get off the streets. I think she would be amazing at working with addicts as a counselor!
Thought what she said about time being a human concept and human kindness was spot on.
Agree
Most Definetly Leah, it is true- time is only perception gauged by passing rocks in the sky....... counting down are deaths from the second it's noticed we e been concerned.
People get older the longer they're here. What causes that? I guess not time since that's just a concept
@@prayunceasingly2029 The break down of the telemeres on our DNA cause the aging process to take place.
@@DetroitFettyghost
It takes time for that to occur though.
I wish a GoFundMe was setup for her. It’s about to get really cold in NY, I would love to donate or help her in some way. Can’t imagine anyone living on the streets during those brutal winters :(
Wow Bethany you really are a kind soul. I'm still crying from watching this interview. I wish you get all the help you need.
We need more of Bethany!! She’s so well spoken with such a soothing voice, i’d love to hear from her again.🤎
Bethany has a beautiful mind! I wish you the absolute best and may you be blessed in your endeavours
I’m a psychology student and I feel like I gained so much insight and perspective from hearing your words of wisdom Bethany. I feel so lucky to have come across this video! Your humanity and intellect radiate from you. Thank you lovely Bethany!
I love your videos Mark for so many reasons. Your videos show such a entire different side of life... real life for some people. Walking past her on the street we would already have judgement of her without knowing her life story. These videos continue to teach and inspire us to be better, compassionate loving people towards one another because you never know what someone has been through or going through!
For a person who has been through so much anguish and suffered brain damage, Bethany is incredibly articulate, observant and inflective. Bethany still has a voice and a place in this world.
Good Morning Everyone! 👇🏽🌟
Very full of pain. Very full of unresolved issues. I can relate.
Beth- I am so sorry for the things you've suffered, the pains you've endured, and the confusion and alienation it's caused. It's never to late to start working on core issues, Im in counseling doing so, I don't want to carry this weight any longer. We can't do this alone, I think we both should be able to look where we're at currently and agree on that. I give you my respect and admiration- please love yourself, thank you for the difficult task of sharing your vulnerable thoughts feelings and memories. Take care!!!
Good morning to you. 🌞 And it’s good night for me🌙 Hope you have a lovely & productive day🇦🇺
Good morning dear 🥰
good morning from the D(enver). have a good one homie!
Made me cry. What a beautiful person.
Mark, I have worked in hunger relief for the last 13 years. While I always treat all of our guests with respect and dignity, your videos provide a completely different perspective for me, and show that everyone has a story. Your videos, and your guest's stories have helped make me a better person and allow me to be better at my job.
If you ever want to come to Portland (Maine) and interview here, I could certainly introduce you to some colorful characters!
Keep up the good work sir!
She really has so much to offer the world with her compassion and insight.
Bethany hit the nail on the head sadly when she said they think nobody cares about her... my son was in jail for a while and I always made sure to call up and inquire about certain things with his counselor to let them know he has supportive family out here that cares and is on top of how he's being treated, thankfully he is home and bettering his life and expecting a son in January... God bless this woman, God please watch over her 🙏 and thank u Mark for another amazing eye opening video!
What a sensitive, beautiful soul Bethany is. I wish the best for you. You deserve kindness and good things.
I've watched a lot of these interviews & I don't comment but I have to say this person has such a wonderful heart, it saddens me that people around her are missing the chance to get to know her. Really a smart & kind hearted person. I wish her all the best.
Bethany, your story of Ellaby (hopefully I spelled that right) has me absolutely in tears. This is so relatable on many levels, the human condition is so devastating at this time. People have forgotten the meaningfulness of a moment of their time, or the power of grace that just a smile holds. You conveyed this so absolutely beautifully, I’d love to be your friend.
Bless that woman with the little girl for teaching that baby how to truly love thy neighbor.
Whenever I’m having a bad time I come here and these interviews remind me that I have no business complaining.
God bless you Bethany.
Loved the story when she went off on that woman and got some cash out of it! Bethany speaks like a leader and has so much confidence despite the conditions she found herself in. So right about the game of "life" being dealt poorly to folks
15 year old afab trans person and csa “survivor??” here, I’ve watched so many of these videos and this one hits close to home in a different way then some of the rest. I can see her light and knowing that others can see it too is amazing. Please do an update video when that time comes. I wish I could financially assist her some super cool wealthy adult should do it because I can’t
What a beautiful person. To be dealt a bad hand in life and still see the beauty in it, that's something special. Was not expecting to be this engrossed into this episode. Hope you are doing well Bethany!
you can tell that she has such a beautiful soul! a beautiful heart! you can tell that she would probably be doing things completely different if given the chance! she one of those people who tries to see the good in bad situations!
Beautifully spoken, Bethany. Don’t give up- you’ll find your way again. ❤️
You have SO MUCH to offer to others! We need u to finish what u were put here on earth to do! I pray u stay healthy & safe. It was a pleasure listening & hearing ur words & getting to know u in jus a matter of 20 mins. MY LIFE going forward was just made better because of u. I hope u believe what I'm saying! Thank you 💖 Mark-THANK YOU
Feel for her, I had surgery in the early 2000’s and was NOT TAPERED. By the Grace of God I found MAT to help with that. Sending ❤ your way….
I'm blown away be her intelligence. Her body has been through the war but shes sharp as a pin! What an incredible character. I hope she finds her way.
Bethany, I see and hear you!! I wish everyone could, you are so sensitive and kind, not to mention very intelligent and articulate, more so then most people! I wish you well ,and pray that you get help for your addiction, and can get off the streets! You are a speaker, and should have a platform. You could help a lot of people. and teach tolerance of people that are different. I would rather sit and have a conversation with you, than half the people I am aquinted with! I wish you well ,you deserve it, you are a wonderful human being, sending love!
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Awe I really like Bethany, she is so wise. Definitely an old soul. She understands the world, physically and spiritually. She chose this path and is living this experience and learning. I hope part of her path includes recovery. I'd love to see her sober. She has a future is she decides to get clean.
God is in this person's heart. Beauty comes wrapped in many different ribbons.
As much as I can see the kind, sensitive spirit in her, I can understand why people might struggle to interact with her. Especially if they have kids with them ... it's very confronting and people who are clearly high can be very unpredictable. People are not necessarily discounting her, it is probably fear that prevents them from being open.
it's a unwarranted fear, the bad people usually come in sheeps clothing. I do understand what your saying, but again it seems to me that the ones we trust can be the worst among us i.e. politicions leaders people in power the rich and certain churchs. I think that's why this channel is so helpful. just my opion, have a good day. I think certain levels of intoxication are good to avoid as well, ecpecially when someone is drunk but heroin makes a person slow and weak, so not quite as dangerous.
I agree, the jarring scattered unpredictable body movements alone would keep me away, I'd never subject my child to this. Nope. I protect her at all cost. Will she eventually see other segments of society whom are less fortunate? Yes. It's called education. Education is age based, no way would bringing a child around homeless people out in the elements be appropriate. Just listen to all of his stories, "A person just runs up and busts a glass bottle over my head, out of nowhere. I can't even get cops to stop and help me."
@@CatalinaFOIA you Are absolutely correct, I have a daughter and I am super over protective with her as well. Although those things your bringing up are valid and on point, we are talking about letting a child interact with a person. It sounded like a nice morning I assume there were other out (NYC) and I'm sure the parent or parents were very close and observant of there surroundings. So I agree with both sides I guess. I was born in NY and there's many places you should never go with kids, but it's also impossible to not come across dangerous things. Idk, either way it should probably change?
Yeah, It was likely a slow and gradual change for her. Where as if she could see a side by side of 22 years ago vs today.
Your point might click for her if she could see that! She is nearly terrifying to a child or a sheltered/privileged person.
We fear what we do not understand.
I could listen to her all day. Such a warm and endearing person 💕
What a moving interview. I learn something of value from every person I meet or story I hear healthily and this channel is stunning. Kindness matters.🥰
The story about the little girl..... Bethany, YOU are such a beautiful soul just like you described here. I needed to hear this message today. Thank you
a common thread in many of these videos is a messed up and dysfunctional childhood. Parents take note: you need to be involved in your children's lives in a positive, nurturing way. Don't be a half baked parent.
honestly even half baked would be better than many of the parents we hear of in this channel
Exactly, I’m utterly shocked I didn’t end up in this situation
Don’t trust no one, but listen to your kids etc , as ppl let you dwn and they users some ppl 😞🦋🦋
Yes it sucks
I truly wish the best for you, Bethany. She seems like such a genuine woman who has been given a very unfortunate set of events In her life just like many of us yet she continues to remain optimistic when it comes to humanity. I hope she never gives up and finds a way out of this vicious cycle of drug abuse so she can make plenty more changes in this world with her pure heart. I wish I had the pleasure of personally telling her that she is seen, she is beautiful and she is loved. If people could hate without reason then we could love without reason.
I'm sorry for her situation and surprised that she seems to be so ok with it.. but my biggest takeaway is that she is an awesome Human Being.
I sent her positive energy from Australia.
bethany is smarter than half the population, strung out or not. what a beautiful soul with beautiful lessons. when she said "even just a smile is truly appreciated, god bless", i felt that. we've become so cold as a society we've almost completely given up random acts of kindness. Thank you, Bethany. I'm also from CT and I'm sending you so much love!! stay strong and never lose your spirit!
Shes so smart and kind. I didn't realized bi was about to cry hearing her story. Don't know why some people purposely hate someone without any reason at all. Love an update on her. To Bethany girl i want you to know that you are loved and god has a purpose for you to be alive after that accident. Love that closing statement from you. God bless you and hope someday we'll see you in a much better position.
No words. So heart breaking. She's so intelligent. I pray 🙏 she gets help.
Bethany you are definitely not a waste of life.💜💜
I am so grateful to have found this channel….I have a whole new understanding and compassion for these souls who have had and are having lives I can’t imagine. The trauma they have suffered and yet, they are articulate, intelligent and insightful. I’m amazed.
I'm allergic to morphine and having a severe injury I've been on every medication thankfully I have never been addicted stay strong people
She is so right that the police doesn't care until they find out that others care. Bethany is very well spoken and has a lot of insight. Praying for her right now.