Why Your Teen Blames You & How to Fix It
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- ð‘«ð’ ð’šð’ð’– ð’‰ð’†ð’‚ð’“ ð’šð’ð’–ð’“ ð’•ð’†ð’†ð’ ð’ƒð’ð’‚ð’Žð’Šð’ð’ˆ ð’šð’ð’– ð’‡ð’ð’“ ð’•ð’‰ð’Šð’ð’ˆð’” ð’˜ð’‰ð’†ð’ ð’šð’ð’– ð’‚ð’”𒌠ð’•ð’‰ð’†ð’Ž ð’‚ð’ƒð’ð’–ð’• ð’‚ ð’„ð’‰ð’ð’“ð’†, ð’ð’“ ð’•ð’‰ð’†ð’š ð’˜ð’‚ð’𒌠ð’‚ð’˜ð’‚ð’š ð’Šð’ ð’‚ð’ ð’†ð’™ð’‘ð’ð’ð’”ð’Šð’—ð’† ð’”ð’•ð’ð’Žð’‘, ð’ð’“ ð’•ð’‰ð’†ð’š ð’‘ð’–ð’ð’ ð’ð’–ð’• ð’”ð’ð’Žð’†ð’•ð’‰ð’Šð’ð’ˆ ð’‡ð’“ð’ð’Ž ð’•ð’‰ð’† ð’‘ð’‚ð’”ð’• ð’ð’‡ ð’˜ð’‰ð’‚ð’• ð’šð’ð’– ð’…ð’Šð’… ð’•ð’ ð’‰ð’–ð’“ð’• ð’•ð’‰ð’†ð’Ž?
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ð’€ð’ð’– ð’‚ð’“ð’† ð’ð’ð’• ð’‚ð’ð’ð’ð’†.
If your teen is feeling defensive about a comment you make, that is a sign that they felt some sort of ping as a criticism, a dig, or an insult to their character.
Time to up the deposits to the emotional bank account.
The empathy and listening will give them some cushion to hear a question or receive an ask from you and not think they are under attack.
ð‘¾ð’‰ð’‚ð’•'ð’” ð’šð’ð’–ð’“ ð’‡ð’‚ð’—ð’ð’“ð’Šð’•ð’† ð’…ð’†ð’‘ð’ð’”ð’Šð’• ð’ð’†ð’•ð’•ð’†ð’“?💌
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