Problems With High Value Men? What The

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  • Who are these men?
    What are they?
    Where are they?
    How much do they make?
    What do they want?
    Can I get one?

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  • @byKevinSamuels
    @byKevinSamuels  4 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    *What is your biggest takeaway from the broadcast?*

    • @Deshawn1
      @Deshawn1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      If you're a guy, just keep improving and life will become better for you the older you get. If you're a woman ,get married when you're younger and don't wait till later because if you do, it will be too late.

    • @endthefed1448
      @endthefed1448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Deshawn1 haha, men age like wine if they take care of themselves. Women age like bread. Even if they take good care of themselves, their "scent" vanishes after about 30-32 years of age

    • @NapahShadah
      @NapahShadah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mr. Samuels, did you get my email?

    • @TotiaunahRanzy
      @TotiaunahRanzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      So basically women have til 30 to get married and have kids to prove that they have some kind of value??? And if they do get a divorce in their 30s and they have children, they don't have a chance getting back into the dating scene cause they have a kid(s) and they're too old?? It seems as if you feel women are jus throw aways and don't stand a chance unless they're a young Halle Barry or Dorothy Dandridge Dandridge... tragic 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @alexanderruffin3363
      @alexanderruffin3363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@TotiaunahRanzy its not that they are throw away women, they just cant expect to get High Value Men when they have kids and they dont have the sexual market value that they use to have. The problem is women are still searching for High Value Men at that stage of their life when they have zero chances of getting him.

  • @impec
    @impec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +674

    This live hit different now that Kevin is gone... He was right to stress the fact that life is so short. Rest easy big brother ! You helped me in so many ways without knowing me. God Bless Your Soul !

    • @erikmcentyre7636
      @erikmcentyre7636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I feel you. It took me this long just to resume watching his content. feels weird 😕 and sad.

    • @skylevel01
      @skylevel01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Rest In Power The Godfather 🖤🕊

    • @impec
      @impec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@erikmcentyre7636 Fr Fr !

    • @kgwine9146
      @kgwine9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He helped me become a better wife and mother. I appreciate and value my husband so much more now.

    • @jamaicanB1
      @jamaicanB1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@erikmcentyre7636 I thought I was the only one mate

  • @OmegaRonY
    @OmegaRonY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Even after he has passed, I'm still learning from him this. Great stuff missing this guy a lot.

    • @Specialkxxx
      @Specialkxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah so sorry for your loss

    • @KookinHaole
      @KookinHaole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @Specialkxxx
      @Specialkxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The angry women weren't actually fkn listening

    • @gregf8701
      @gregf8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      His legacy will never die, just take what you can and pass it on to future generations.

    • @djcryox3687
      @djcryox3687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Specialkxxx No thy weren't and I find that is the biggest issue. The women dont listen

  • @johnglover299
    @johnglover299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    Nothing in the world compares to having peace when you come home.

    • @darylrichardson8567
      @darylrichardson8567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I’ve moved 3 times this year, chasing PEACE of MIND. I’m going to FLA. to work & I’ll finally get REST

    • @jermaineblalock5553
      @jermaineblalock5553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen

    • @klevdavful
      @klevdavful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This is what I have been telling people for years no matter if you are married or single a lot of people think having it all is having a hundred million dollars in the bank 2 million dollar house 8 cars in a bunch of bling bling but people that have those things a lot of them or miserable so what else could it be for peace of mind.

    • @jeffreyhuggins4786
      @jeffreyhuggins4786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely!!

    • @peaceispriceless6051
      @peaceispriceless6051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      BIGG Factz💯

  • @ziontheelder1697
    @ziontheelder1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    An ex once said to me, "you can't handle me."
    My response: I don't want a woman I have to handle. Lions, Tigers, and Bears, have handlers.

    • @johnstamos4325
      @johnstamos4325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @eclipse2fly4
      @eclipse2fly4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I have heard this as well in my journey. Never understood it until I was older of course.

    • @MsLisalisa24
      @MsLisalisa24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That was a great come back ahaha

    • @sonof9ja848
      @sonof9ja848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Best answer

    • @RaffineDebauche
      @RaffineDebauche 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I tell them the only things I should have to handle are children and pets. So, if I have to handle you, understand that you’re beneath me.

  • @shaunahill322
    @shaunahill322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    My mom used to tell me that you can have it all, but not all at the same time. I got an advanced degree but chose building a family as a priority. I figured I had time to make money but there was a timer on procreation. It worked out well.

    • @Towoawawabo8
      @Towoawawabo8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll be the best teacher to his children, High value Woman.

  • @charlzincharge2281
    @charlzincharge2281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    These episodes and Kevin message will last forever. The work he put in will resonate forever. Men we can always come back rewatch the opening monologues. Rip KS

  • @kia4020
    @kia4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    Have to be honest, this channel is my guilty pleasure! I’m relieved I got married @ 22yo 😳 pickings are getting slimmer out there!!

    • @mackwilliams7081
      @mackwilliams7081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I concur.

    • @rebekahkirkendoll669
      @rebekahkirkendoll669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr!

    • @lioness8456
      @lioness8456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Right there with you sis! Got married at 26, we been through hell and back but we ride TOGETHER! almost 10 years of marriage, 4 babies later, and God as the sole foundation we keeping on! We clearly ain't missing nothing in these streets. Lol 😂 blessings to all my sistas on the journey. 🙏💯❤️

    • @kia4020
      @kia4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@lioness8456 yes! I’ve learned, a husband after Gods own heart is a husband worth following!! Honestly all husbands need to lead but I’ll follow a God fearing man effortlessly 🥰

    • @faves2012
      @faves2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations!

  • @northernnativesdesz
    @northernnativesdesz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    They for the streets ...til the streets dont want them😳 then they for a husband n the church 🤦🏾‍♂️...

    • @moneymitchamp
      @moneymitchamp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I see Em all the time in church.

    • @benjones621
      @benjones621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      In the Church saying men should look at their heart and not their appearance or past. I"m a rare single man in a large church and wouldn't touch 95% of the single women.

    • @benjones621
      @benjones621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@thatlovegirl12 Income can always be improved if the man is driven to succeed. You just have to make sure his actions reflect what he tells you. Kids can definitely be an issue, although I have a son and have no problems getting dates with young women that have no children.

    • @northernnativesdesz
      @northernnativesdesz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thatlovegirl12 its way more of you then us going...demand for good men good black men especially is high .....its like fishing in a bucket of fish tht look all the same jus different sizes

    • @benjones621
      @benjones621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @FormerDry Jacker MGTOWs have entered the chat I see. Take that toxicity somewhere else. Nobody feels bad for you. Have a real conversation instead of hating on people.

  • @morg8735
    @morg8735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Been binge watching this channel. Gotta say as a white guy everything applies just the same. I know you have a target audience, but at this point we can drop the color distinctions. You're like a refined Tom Leykis, and your message appeals to ALL men. Thank you and keep up the great work 👍

    • @letmelickbud
      @letmelickbud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a 62 year old from aust …Kevin is the shit ….this content applies to men and women everywhere ,
      The feminists have damaged our culture , K S is at the beginning of repair
      Tom is great too

    • @irocwellOO3
      @irocwellOO3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This issue transcends race.

    • @ave383
      @ave383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I remember he mentioned Tom Leykis and Patrice O'Neal as being pioneers and legends in this field.

    • @BernieSanders-bn5dk
      @BernieSanders-bn5dk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m Hispanic and can relate to what he says, I didn’t have a father either and was an outcast for having nappy hair and dark skin too 🤯

    • @dg6845
      @dg6845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree (latino/american). KS mentioned that latina women are more submissive etc...unfortunately not in 2022...with social media platforms etc this disease is spreading to all.

  • @CloutMoney
    @CloutMoney 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    It's hard to take these kind of conversations mainstream and captivate people but this genius cracked the code 💪💯

  • @tp84816
    @tp84816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    I hope the callers don't think Kevin is trying to be mean. I can see that all he really is trying to do is help you let go of the things that do not serve you. Approaching dating as an 8 when you are a 6 does not serve you. Telling yourself you look young for your age when you an older woman does not serve you. Winning requires you to be realistic. It also requires making changes when needed.

    • @limitlessinfinite2284
      @limitlessinfinite2284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      💯💯💯✊🏿

    • @vdubmansmith86
      @vdubmansmith86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Facts

    • @AL-Boogie.
      @AL-Boogie. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well spoken

    • @njgiant1
      @njgiant1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾✌🏾💯💯

    • @thebluejay3145
      @thebluejay3145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @xan fran if you're not on that level..then that may be true.

  • @bryana297
    @bryana297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    5 months of listening and he has to tell every woman who calls to turn off youtube when they call. They just don't listen.

    • @nickc3250
      @nickc3250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good point.

    • @entertainmentvidz
      @entertainmentvidz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And those same women argue with him about them surviving without men using and building the same tech men built to survive. Mean while simple instruction on computers they can't even operate

    • @candiceknowlesRN
      @candiceknowlesRN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 smhhhhh

    • @DanielMartinez-nb2qx
      @DanielMartinez-nb2qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep......its crazyhe has to repeat himself every show. They seem to have a need to be told what ti do by thr men they hate

    • @rafewheadon1963
      @rafewheadon1963 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats cos women call in here to try hit up high value men.

  • @nikolaivista920
    @nikolaivista920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    R.I.P. Mr. Samuels. You will be missed! Thank you for the wonderful work you did. And thank you for caring!

  • @jahsunhovah5978
    @jahsunhovah5978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The fact that the good brother has passed on doesn't change the fact that what he said about most women is fact and truth may he rest in glory. 🙏🏿

  • @kennethhopkinsjr.821
    @kennethhopkinsjr.821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    That slap sound bite be killin me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @moneymitch5839
    @moneymitch5839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This is why Vivica is salty. 😂😂😂

    • @NICKEYBLACK35
      @NICKEYBLACK35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's what I came here to hear....lol

    • @JayloveTheFoodguy
      @JayloveTheFoodguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She wanted that get back...

    • @DarylLII
      @DarylLII 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      To This Day!!

  • @communitysolutionspro1520
    @communitysolutionspro1520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    You told the older woman right. I’m 47 and get mistaken for my 30s but I feel my age and I understand the point is the endgame and your legacy.

    • @MsTPick
      @MsTPick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yassssss!!!!!! Girl, we are on the same cruise 😂

    • @stallionshark1726
      @stallionshark1726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If that is you in the pic, you look 47.

    • @lisae3357
      @lisae3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️

    • @frankwhite9170
      @frankwhite9170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stallionshark1726 exactly. The delusion is real. Why do they always have to exaggerate so much?😂

    • @communitysolutionspro1520
      @communitysolutionspro1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@frankwhite9170 funny how people who want to insult dont have their picture up. Thanks for the attention. I dont need to make anything up thats what people say to me.

  • @termitez97
    @termitez97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    A 55 year old woman that is dellusional, is sad. God doesn't send you a husband, you must prepare for one. God also said submit to your husband. I see to many of our Black women in this state of delusion.

  • @A.Brooks23
    @A.Brooks23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love Kevin. I’m glad I have been tuning in. I watch his videos now like I watch Bobby Hemmit. I am a 39 year old black woman, been married going on 11 years in October. I’m am so glad to have married at 27 because it is rough out here. I would like to apologize to the black men because I did not know it was this bad for y’all. I am deeply embarrassed at my fellow women and also at my self for not treating a man I dealt with at one time very badly. Now I know the error of my ways and I understand now thanks to Kevin. I never knew my dad and now listening to these videos I am receiving the guidance that I needed as a young woman from a real man. Even as a married woman, I can take things from what Kevin is saying and apply them to help become a better woman moving forward in life. Kevin has helped me to understand things that I had no idea about as far as being a woman. Thank you Mr. Samuels. To all the men out there looking for love, keep your heads up, we wouldn’t want that crown to fall King. Be well. 💋 Ase

  • @KeneishaFreckleton
    @KeneishaFreckleton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This right here is why Vivica Fox is mad. Rest up KS.

  • @flutebabyg
    @flutebabyg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Ironically, being natural is “exotic” in the black community nowadays

    • @fboyd109
      @fboyd109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But it's not shunned upon, that's the part that yall keep misinterpreting with bm

  • @destin1989
    @destin1989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Ah I see why Vivica mad AF.... saying a man's death is Karma for his opinions and speech ..sad world we live especially as Black people 😞

    • @rolandbaron5813
      @rolandbaron5813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts!

    • @Harold10ful
      @Harold10ful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But he told no lies Vivica has had the same gear being rude and nasty to all those who come across her using false bravado and has wasted her youth essentially doing nothing and not settling down now she a even more angry auntie sitting there hating like the rest on her show. Kevin was right in his activism trying to warn others not to take the same path.

    • @bennystewart1859
      @bennystewart1859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vivica Foxx's Karma is on the way, as a results of her own masculent toxicity.

  • @ken-wonmiller9570
    @ken-wonmiller9570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I'm 36 and my mother is 58. This lady is my mother's age and I'm pretty much middle aged. She is a grandmother but is sounding like a college girl. That is what happens when you hear black don't crack your whole life. She supposed to be traveling and chilling with the grands and going to high school graduations.

    • @mr.culturefreedom2073
      @mr.culturefreedom2073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm 50 with 2 kids in college. One will be a senior next year. I've accepted I'm the old guy.

    • @flashsanders1331
      @flashsanders1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You might meet a grandpa at the ceremony 😘

  • @akultisgod5538
    @akultisgod5538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    "youre old like me and you talking like a silly girl" 😂😂😂

  • @Havoc62
    @Havoc62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I view women asking men what they want as a rhetorical question. They don't really care about what he wants, what they are really asking is "Who do I need to pretend to be long enough to get what I want from you." It's one thing to hear what's being said, but something totally different when you learn to listen.

    • @TheWholeWorld1
      @TheWholeWorld1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      “Who do I need to pretend to be long enough to get what I want from you.” Bruh! You just cracked the matrix with that one!

    • @Jay-yy7uk
      @Jay-yy7uk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Great point. 100% true.

    • @jazzonation7987
      @jazzonation7987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And no joke, even trying to break it down like this, they'll respond to it all the same like they do ks. Lmao despite them telling you "I know what you mean"

    • @walkthedon
      @walkthedon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OG statement

    • @ManoftheMostHigh
      @ManoftheMostHigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Listening is a skill...everybody hears , many Prerend to listen while they think of quick ways to slither out of truth and facts...

  • @poloparachutes9983
    @poloparachutes9983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    1:55:29 I’ve met women who preached they are “disgusted by men” and “men are trash”, but yet she wants to be spoiled? lmaoo what HVM will want to deal with a mindset like that

    • @nicklausb
      @nicklausb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ......what MAN (of decent value) will?

    • @giggiesurge
      @giggiesurge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Serious daddy issues and self hatred. I'm assuming penis envy as well, I know a lot of bitter women secretly wish they were men because they think it would solve their problems like it's men's fault they are unhappy.

    • @winwinwin481
      @winwinwin481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A broke man wouldn't even want to deal with that 🤣

  • @terrencetolbert5051
    @terrencetolbert5051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Man...I was actually watching his last broadcast not knowing he had died that morning. I still can't believe he's gone. It took me awhile to start watching again. It's sad knowing that he was on to something but we'll never hear anything else. Man...I miss this dude. RIP Kevin

  • @SummerJ200
    @SummerJ200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    ‘ Non traditional women want traditional men and traditional outcomes’ facts upon facts

  • @primolivingbc5138
    @primolivingbc5138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    The 55 year old has that party voice......... I know alot of older females who have been "single" their entire lives and have that party voice..... they all have horrible attitudes also.

    • @hendrixjoe555
      @hendrixjoe555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @Trav yep it's a "bar voice"

    • @AL-Boogie.
      @AL-Boogie. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You said it right. Bar chick voice or the older woman who looks and acts younger at the gym voice!

    • @kilduce4423
      @kilduce4423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I agree. She’s definitely blacked out drunk plenty of nights out in her 20s

    • @ericg4568
      @ericg4568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      3 - I have no clue, because neither one of them occupy my attentions.

    • @ericg4568
      @ericg4568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why Ms. Fox do that to her face?

  • @beauty4u132
    @beauty4u132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    As a 42 yr old Woman, I completely agree with his Spanking of the 55 yr old. Wow! very insightful! I really appreciated that example.

  • @damiancallender6621
    @damiancallender6621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ooooooh. This is why Vivica is big mad and celebrating the passing of the God father 🙄Thx TH-cam algorithm.

  • @kingzr-oxxx9149
    @kingzr-oxxx9149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I'm a black man and I love exotic women. Always have. Hell I got one right now. She's beautiful as hell. And I'm 43. Never been so happy in my life.

    • @yolandawarren71
      @yolandawarren71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Date, love, and marry who you want. I don't have a problem with it all. Love is love in my opinion.
      What I will say is that looking exotic doesn't equate to being beautiful. A person is either attractive or not regardless of race or skin tone. Let's face it, looking exotic just means that a person doesn't look black. As black people we've been program to believe that anybody that doesn't look like the typical black person is attractive. If you possess certain features you can look mediocre and still get called beautiful!

    • @uncclelocc
      @uncclelocc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yolandawarren71 if any one who disagree with his statement called to listen. He only talking about a different caliber of Females. Mostly the kind of Females who don't need to leech off of him.

    • @ShadowbannedbyYoutube
      @ShadowbannedbyYoutube 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You sound moist though.....

  • @guysofly4315
    @guysofly4315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    Theres a video of Vivica admiting she was wrong for how things ended between her and 50, saying he was oldskool and wanted to lead but she wouldnt let him. Now this??? 😂😂

    • @mr.tonywilliams1236
      @mr.tonywilliams1236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Not surprise she needs to go get her a cat and chill she's done

    • @blackymo5430
      @blackymo5430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well thats for the cameras , honestly he might be a down low

    • @guysofly4315
      @guysofly4315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@blackymo5430 well she clearly aint over him 15 years later

    • @blackymo5430
      @blackymo5430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GuySoFly 52 he gayish she learned 🤷

    • @MsDragonbal776
      @MsDragonbal776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@blackymo5430 stop with the silly highschool shit

  • @jimdino77
    @jimdino77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It all makes sense…… rip bruh

  • @rafeeqwarfield9690
    @rafeeqwarfield9690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    all the shows are good, but this one was off the chain 😂😂😂

  • @SimplyDarlene09
    @SimplyDarlene09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Oh so this why Vivica responded to his passing the way she did… he didn’t miss though! RIP Kevin 🙏🏾

    • @milehighgambler
      @milehighgambler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup. She hated that he called her out. Rest In Power Mr. Samuels

  • @SAK85
    @SAK85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Listening to this show, three things struck at me;
    1. Kevin really does have the patience of a saint in terms of how he handles female callers who come at him from a combative standpoint.
    2. I believe there's a double standard regarding 50 cent. He stated his preference in a woman. People don't have to agree with it but it's HIS preference and he shouldn't be shamed for it. Black women have their preferences in men (6ft plus anyone?), and feel entitled to those preferences - which is their perogative.
    3. If black women want to be married and/or have a serious/fufilling relationships they have to be willing to take on [and listen] to the constructive criticisms high value black men have about them i.e. the attitude/weight issue/non-feminity/combative nature. Notice I said "constructive" criticisms NOT bashing.

    • @charlesficheriii1478
      @charlesficheriii1478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your observational analysis on the show, I must ask, how can myself as a black man be expected to work with a woman of low interest when I don't learn at the same rate that she wants me to? I have had a similar issue in school when my lady teacher wanted the classroom to close our textbook to start another subject, the classroom proceeded to do as told while I was upset due to having more questions on the current textbook.

    • @vernonpaigejr.1517
      @vernonpaigejr.1517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hell even the average guy want's something that's simple.

    • @lingram001
      @lingram001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@charlesficheriii1478 Your the leader and she's your helpmate. She's supposed to help and encourage you to push further. If she can't understand that, how are you supposed to bring your family thru? Sounds like she's tripping you up with words of shame instead of words of encouragement.

    • @lingram001
      @lingram001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @RonYo I hear what you're saying. But all joking aside, too bad they don't understand what men want.

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      His patience ,poise and ability to articulate his point so eloquently is what made him so dynamic...Mann we really lost one fellas..R.I.P Godfather Samuels

  • @dylanjames1523
    @dylanjames1523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    The sad thing about the 55 y/o caller is she's the type of mama that I'd have to deal with when dealing with her daughter. That's why I check the mothers too before I date them seriously.

    • @dylanjames1523
      @dylanjames1523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Sofia X I meant check like inspect. To make sure she is even sane enough to deal with on a regular basis. I learned my lesson cuz now my daughter has a crazy ass grandma that don't nobody like or takes serious.

    • @christianpaul-cp6746
      @christianpaul-cp6746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dylanjames1523 speaking true facts. Her mother is a preview of what's to come.

    • @Joseph-yk2zy
      @Joseph-yk2zy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My brother you are so right ,your smart to see and deal with that red flags immediately. I’ll be honest I messed up years ago not running immediately when I saw red flags with the mother of of ex. A family member of my ex at that time came to me and said don’t stress keep doing what I was doing. I should have run immediately. I promise I been through hell I’m blessed to even be alive now. Now I see red flags with some brothers and I’m like bro bounce get the hell away from her while you can.

    • @ameado2010
      @ameado2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I did that before I got married.

    • @Rory-ct1zu
      @Rory-ct1zu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just from her conversation reveals she is a problem from the start. No one wants to deal with that

  • @windellclark5157
    @windellclark5157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He was never afraid to speak on his own mortality "We don't have too many sunsets left.." while speaking to women and time when trying to express you don't have the time to be waiting for the perfect man..

  • @izdirty9117
    @izdirty9117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This man Going on Vivica in the grave 🤣🤣✊🏾🖤💯

  • @donovanjackson7999
    @donovanjackson7999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    At minute 44 i said the exact same thing on oshays video on this. Whats exotic to the average black man is normal to other men. Femininity, being in shape, having home skills, being submissive. Just those behaviors make the average white woman exotic to black men

    • @blackcurls1415
      @blackcurls1415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      If certain bw have to be taught those basic things, they’re already behind since other women know that’s the bare minimum

    • @bobrew461
      @bobrew461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      6? More like 4! :-0

    • @nammyhorengekomrlotussutra6497
      @nammyhorengekomrlotussutra6497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@lifesgood1936
      Wtf is u talking about???
      Shaka Zulu..
      This is the so called civilized world !
      And it doesn't matter if you or we were the best leaders ....
      You ultimately choose who u follow and we have always had great leaders but do women listen to them??
      If it's Selectively = selective progress !!

    • @nnena3631
      @nnena3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Have you ever wondered why?

    • @GemNini
      @GemNini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Amelia MacCarthy yeah we called them Karens

  • @daniescott3000
    @daniescott3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Vivica has been a joke for years, I remember when she first got with 50(2003-2004) I knew then she was gonna blow it. She got too comfortable and thought she was irreplaceable,and she clearly hasn't gotten over it.

  • @halfdorkhalfcoolmedia7223
    @halfdorkhalfcoolmedia7223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m done, he said that she was half of a hundred!!😂😂😂 Stop man I’m dying over here!!! I love this guy!!

  • @mac7114
    @mac7114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Kevin you have the best set up ever! Just overall how you run your platform resembles boss life. Salute

  • @brianmoru1123
    @brianmoru1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Keep doing what you do bro, you are helping us men alot , this femine movement is killing us . Men

  • @NightRidah777
    @NightRidah777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "55, there ain't much left to use" .... Savage 🤣🤣😂

  • @adayah6772
    @adayah6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    We black women need to take responsibility of all our actions in everything... Including failed relationships... The work is big but totally achievable. We must stop the blaming game... Blaming parents, blaming teachers, blaming exes, and stop blaming ourselves too. I believe that there is self hate inside our temples. It's costly but when we hire a personal life coach and do the work... Life shifts. It take deep work through digging to the roots... But then we start learning about self love and acceptance and all the good things in life. When we change... The world surrounding us changes. It hurts but this man is right, we had our chances and blew it because our knowledge was limited. I told my 14 years son that he can have any woman that he wants as long as he is happy! The funny thing is if we make us a priority in our lives, actively investing in ourselves, yes put us first even before kids and cats and mamma, we attract higher quality men, effortlessly. Much ❤️ to humankind

    • @chrisb1906
      @chrisb1906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A black woman admitting they need to take responsibility,lemme check the weather....
      I think hell done froze over

    • @RLO26
      @RLO26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love this accountability! Wise women beyond her years!

    • @chrisb1906
      @chrisb1906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As black men we have alot to do as well as far as taking responsibility for our behavior

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chrisb1906 stfu

  • @johnpotter7018
    @johnpotter7018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m really going to miss this brother, he was the truth.

  • @IAMblackman1st
    @IAMblackman1st 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Ole girl was so worried about getting used up she died on the vine lmao....
    It's obvious black men are supposed to suffer in silence but in reality we've just silently been making moves but no longer will that be the case.

  • @clmk28
    @clmk28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That is so true about a man turning around his life for the better in 3 years especially if he has a mentor. I have seen this happen with my own eyes

  • @morelove.5048
    @morelove.5048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    R. I .P Godfather your work will lives on! You were an inspiration.

  • @JulianJ58
    @JulianJ58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "You can just sit right there and watch me make money." 🤣 Priceless

    • @Towoawawabo8
      @Towoawawabo8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True that, I missed him

  • @winnifredmiller7759
    @winnifredmiller7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey gentleman…why did you leave so early
    We were just getting to understand our place here as black families
    I’m still in shocked
    I am thankful for your time sir
    I am glad you left this legacy
    We heard you & im clearly getting better
    Rest well …..

  • @RealLifeRodger
    @RealLifeRodger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Facts this is why trying to have it figured out by 25 is so silly. You're going to get fired or downsized at least once before you're 35. Then you're going to have to pull yourself up off the mat and get back at it. Finally, around 38 you realize if I just do the work, the right way, for the right reason, the outcome will come out in your favor more times than not. When you realize that you can't control the outcomes, you take a lot of stress off yourself. Just do the work brothers. That's what Kevin has done.

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like a plan. This is where I am!!!

    • @benh2156
      @benh2156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This comment is gold! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    • @shanemurphy7277
      @shanemurphy7277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is very true, articulated perfectly!

  • @timothybright7064
    @timothybright7064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A week ago Kelvin Samuels has Passed On. Kelvin spoke Truth about Vivica & the group of Women associated with Her. Vivica Mocks Kelvin's Death, but Still Kelvin is Right about Her!

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's dead and she's living so who cares what a dead man thinks

  • @KenHSr
    @KenHSr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    They want God to fix it. In the form of a Beta Provider Simp. With no backbone. And, who is going to give her all his resources and the control. With no credit for his efforts. Just disrespect.

  • @nursedavis5653
    @nursedavis5653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    KS was correct no one especially black women dont like an outspoken black man.

  • @juliusmoore2176
    @juliusmoore2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I’m glad I married my wife when I did. Sounds like the dating scene is so brutal nowadays.

  • @dwadeisajerk
    @dwadeisajerk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Sad thing is I damn near teared up when he said that after everything and all the negativity that black men still STILL want black women and what hurts is it seems like black women don’t want us. From being told straight lies that we don’t like black women to the horror stories spread about us, it doesn’t seem like black women want or care about black men.

  • @BLUEGUTTA
    @BLUEGUTTA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “You’re half a hundred” yoooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀🤯

    • @-quarlaCarla
      @-quarlaCarla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who Kevin hes 51 and yet wanys to call people over 30 old and middle aged😂😂😂

    • @gabrielisrael4063
      @gabrielisrael4063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just learn man you are not on his level 100% guaranteed if you are talking trash

    • @TheresaTrychanel5
      @TheresaTrychanel5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m not too familiar with this guy..but why does he talk down on women that are over 29yrs?!

    • @gabrielisrael4063
      @gabrielisrael4063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheresaTrychanel5 wow that is a really hard question to explain without texting a whole essay. I think it will benefit from studying a different perspective so you can improve your game. Watch about ten videos and understand if not watch alpha male strategies both black men.

    • @BLUEGUTTA
      @BLUEGUTTA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TheresaTrychanel5 because that’s around the age women become less desirable and their competition w younger more desirable women come into play in the dating arena it’s the “ danger zone” because women over thirty find it hard to get involved with the top 20 percent of men. And getting married at thirty plus is not common.

  • @tanyabeale4232
    @tanyabeale4232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wanna thank u Mr Samuels for bringing awareness to the black woman community about what is really going on. I heard about u from my cousin and she wasn't impressed with the way u express ur opinion. I understand u because I've been married to the same man for 20 yrs and he is definitely very honest and expressive in what he believes in. But I can say that at times the way u talk to certain woman comes across a bit disrespectful but at the same time u give us woman the harsh truth. Thank u and I'm so glad that I'm amongst the group of black woman that is married. No I didn't marry a high value man in the beginning but currently my husband is a man that over the course of time he now makes 6 figures. He has always been a man that would work 2 or 3 jobs to provide for our family and he married me and I already had another man kid then I gave him 3 kids throughout our marriage. I have much respect for strong black men all over the world and in my opinion there's nothing better then a black man. I'm very happy married too my husband after 20 yrs. I feel very sorry for all the single black woman who has to date during these trying times but love is out here. Plus I have to admit that I do keep up with myself meaning I make sure I look good even after having 4 children my body is still looking good, I don't wear lots of makeup and I'm definitely a woman that understand my place in this world. I'm a very feminine woman at all times. I've dated other men with money but what I truly prayed and ask for is just simply a man that will love, respect and cherish me as a woman and no I was never looking for a rich man because I definitely don't make lots of money but I was blessed to have a man that loves me and yes he now makes 6 figures. Not because I wanted him too but because that was his goal and all I did was support and stand behind him. I'm a woman that is 41 yrs of age and I've been wit my husband since I was 21 yrs of age. My out spoken husband help keeps me looking as good as I look because he tells me the truth and yes I definitely listen and trust my husband word.

  • @ladyak6279
    @ladyak6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ahhh so now we see why Ms Fox had so much animosity. Vivica you could have confronted this man when he was living. Now that he can't challenge you, you have much to say. We see you "Queen".

  • @chinito1724
    @chinito1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Crazy how when he was here I would cut and skip to the good parts. Now he's gone I'm making time to soak in the entire show. KS was the TRUTH

  • @Tazmanian_mma
    @Tazmanian_mma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Every time he starts playin that “Money World”song i start dying 😂😂 that song low key hard though even though I don’t understand em lol🔥

  • @taqeeyazeed9064
    @taqeeyazeed9064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks brother for your inspiration and the courage to take a stand. By the way, I bought my first pair of JMM frames.

  • @RahsaanKnight
    @RahsaanKnight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    " I don't give a dam about how you feel. You were born in 196- f%$#^- 5". Quote of the year. I don't understand how this young man hasn't been on GQ Magazine cover yet.

    • @carboy101
      @carboy101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh... That made my start laughing in the middle of the office.

    • @brixtonmystery
      @brixtonmystery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      “Young man” is a stretch lol

  • @timothybarr8241
    @timothybarr8241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    no wonder vivica was so hateful when he passed. he was trying to help her lonely ass.

  • @JohnTube2K
    @JohnTube2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Man too bad this guy passed away… i was so late to the party with his videos. I’m a high value man and earn $250k/yr and a lot of what he says rings true.

    • @carl5438
      @carl5438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MTR, Crimson Cure, and Mr. Dennis Spurling TH-cam channels will care on the message. Check them out.

    • @JohnTube2K
      @JohnTube2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carl5438 Thanks bro

  • @daniescott3000
    @daniescott3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Too many Black women want high value Black men to settle and it'll never happen.

  • @jamesrichmond7568
    @jamesrichmond7568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Crazy that he said Thursday is his favorite day and he ends up passing on a Thursday.. RIP

  • @elplatanogoya21
    @elplatanogoya21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man, watching all of your older videos is haunting knowing you're not longer with us. This year is mine, and it is thanks to you. Say hi to my family with The Most High for me Godfather. Rest In Power.

  • @lindathompson9357
    @lindathompson9357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kevin you will surely be missed.

  • @FlurryJoe
    @FlurryJoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Older well paid men end up with younger females because females don't age well. When you're 30+, youth goes. Being active=sexy. This is why females need to understand the value of cooking and cleaning. They're subconscious involuntary physical activities that maintain a woman's femininity and physical fitness. Think about it. God bless.

  • @kam.kam.
    @kam.kam. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “Behind that preposition.” 🤦🏿‍♀️😩😂😂😂😂💜

  • @dmack1988
    @dmack1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Reason why I’m very attracted to a short hair black woman, I accept the sew-ins but short hair Nia long I’m crazy about. The weaves cool but I love a natural Afro Angela Davis... where those women at, and I know it’s not the 70s but I’ve seen a lot natural hairstyles BGM wear that kills it.... but don’t get it twisted black women, black ppl in general are trendsetters period.

    • @madeinresitasometimeago3970
      @madeinresitasometimeago3970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro. I'm white (from Europe). Would you be so kind to tell me why black women wear wigs? I really don't get it. I could never date a woman who wears wigs or hair extensions (they use those here too). With respect, Flo !

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kevin is truly multifaceted. He is so deep and serious but definitely can be hilarious.

  • @theman2017inc
    @theman2017inc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bitter cold truth and thought provoking, excellent show!!!

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Honestly, young men and women should heed his advice. You don't have to agree with EVERYTHING He says, but being marriage minded and preparing for said marriage should be a serious focus.

  • @PASSDA
    @PASSDA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Considering our women suffer with the bare minimum; Ive walked away and work on my value mentally, spiritually, and financially.

    • @ameado2010
      @ameado2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro you are correct. Most women want to just ride your wave. Then when things does not go they way they wanna leave and cheat. Self care goes along way.

    • @etherbeing
      @etherbeing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You speaking that true light!

  • @localone1597
    @localone1597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Black men don't want Loni Love. That's why she's bitter. She acts like she wants that White boy. She had no choices.

    • @renatafnedab3003
      @renatafnedab3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loni love already said that she was married and divorced. It scared her and she decided to never put herself in the predicament again. Idk what and why James is in her life but she definitely is scared of marrying again.

    • @sevenwilliams3485
      @sevenwilliams3485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL YOU ARE SO RIGHT, I KNOW WHEN HE LAYS NEXT TO HER AT NIGHT SHE CRIES INWARDLY.

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's tell th TRUTH

    • @altinawashington-key5675
      @altinawashington-key5675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Church!

  • @thedarkknight7924
    @thedarkknight7924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Since Vivica Fox is in this blog and we are talking about getting high value men, Independence Day had a man that was a Captain in the Marine Corps (Will Smith) failing for a stripper (VAF). This type of media BS is why low value tries for high value.

    • @altinawashington-key5675
      @altinawashington-key5675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow facts 👏🏽

    • @craigtrusty3496
      @craigtrusty3496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she was a single mom

    • @stella9624
      @stella9624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Victor Johnson rank absolutely changes value. What is the point of ranking otherwise. You only need one captain to 100 soldiers (or whatever measure you want to apply). There's a reason for that.

  • @DanielSquires
    @DanielSquires 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Men can always make more money, but women can;t make more time.
    Either way, man or woman, get real with where you are and start making progress immediately doing the best with what you can control.

  • @thaxtonwaters8561
    @thaxtonwaters8561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flawless Godfather, You'll be soooooo missed.🙏🏾

  • @justinmarch5095
    @justinmarch5095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Congratulations on 64K🎉🎈🎊🍾

  • @daddyeyez740
    @daddyeyez740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I hadn't seen this video from The Godfather. Now I see why Vivica and Claudia was so pissed! 😂😂😂😂 We'll bury the man and continue the plan! Bitter ass broads!

  • @carpetcleaningtrainingwith9394
    @carpetcleaningtrainingwith9394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Big king we love you thanks for exposing these wicked jezebels .
    Your a Very Wise man, a true
    Unicorn 🦄

  • @flashsanders1331
    @flashsanders1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mature seasoned Black Ladies , 👂🏾 listening, it's what an art.
    Both are winning on some levels but not on others.

  • @ansarali4053
    @ansarali4053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hey Kevin, I think Tomika was missing the point that dying alone in this context of data means, 3/4 black women never gain a committed relationship, marriage and the chance to live a life with a loving man. Her view of the data is the soul leaving the body death part without realising many people die in loneliness and misery even before the soul leaves.
    Maybe if you explained it that way, she would have understood the point you're trying to make. When she hears 3/4 will die alone, she's focused on the dying (end point) as opposed to living alone. Hope that helps :)

    • @sillyme1642
      @sillyme1642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You don't think he knows that.. she was so intent on making a point it went over her head she wasn't trying to understand him. If you understood what he meant so did she and this is coming from a BW

  • @iwantparts
    @iwantparts ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Intro music on this one was wicked 🔥🔥🔥

  • @seanaluke
    @seanaluke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Lol career Yoga instructor/hairstylist you can't make this stuff up.

  • @saiyansnake
    @saiyansnake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gone but will never be forgotten

  • @millennialsleadtheway5453
    @millennialsleadtheway5453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Another good show Kevin. A lot of things to think about 🤔

  • @oralseabrook4195
    @oralseabrook4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never realized the pervasiveness of this in our women until I began to explore dating sites for seniors. I am 66yrs old and you see women in their 70's still looking for Mr. Right. The Truth is Mr. Right came along 50 yrs ago and you thought something was wrong with him.
    There laughter has turned to tears. Sad.

  • @MichaelBrown-zg9wc
    @MichaelBrown-zg9wc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Vivica fox and fox soul crew are bitter because they made bad choices S M F H

    • @jamarrallen2181
      @jamarrallen2181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The “Old Lady Gang” 😂😂😂

    • @georgeblair3894
      @georgeblair3894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not wanting to be held accountable for bad decisions.

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes as a black woman or should i say woman in general those ladies are embarrassing

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Allll of them...

  • @paulg.2103
    @paulg.2103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I want this man's playlist.... I'm digging the intro

    • @laraoneal7284
      @laraoneal7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Paul G. I’ve said the exact same thing. His taste in music is flawless. 👍🎶🎵

  • @damecommander868
    @damecommander868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We miss you Godfather! Congrats on the BET award! Even in your absence you’re still winning and applying pressure! 👑

  • @Chynadoll1976
    @Chynadoll1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this man! He will get a job well done! 👏🏾 May he rest in eternal peace! 🙏🏾💜🕊

  • @marriagecapital101
    @marriagecapital101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Kevin they want your help but u gotta do it their way...

    • @asantesaddler8604
      @asantesaddler8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 that’s exactly what it is...

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their way doesn't even work, so back to the top of the circle....

  • @atonydubbw2645
    @atonydubbw2645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's up Godfather? Another great topic! After surviving the struggles that my generation endured through the 70's , 80's and 90's including my own personal triumphs involving life threatening illnesses and the like? As an average man with a high value man mindset who maintains a comfortable middle-classed lifestyle? Surviving the general disdain/disrespect that the average black man gets from the segment of black women who don't value us is nothing more than a minor speed bump on the road for those of us that are moving forward on that nonsense! Keep on speaking it like I think it! The men are listening! Peace...